"You become part of the shit she has to deal with." Real shit
@tone07577 жыл бұрын
I've learned it's never a good idea to try to solve someone else's problems. They want someone who is going to listen not someone who is going to try to solve their problems.
@colinesquire24802 жыл бұрын
True
@MrDon-jj1cn7 жыл бұрын
she still is extremely involved with her ex. Remember women will only tell you part truths. She using him to build her self esteem to shit test her main dude.
@tyrellcombs38076 жыл бұрын
Mr. Don truth
@izzoArtistry7 жыл бұрын
"She don't wanna be saved, don't save her"
@cordarryl1016 жыл бұрын
imma introduce me, Project Pat I keep it real lol
@pickedupapencil7 жыл бұрын
I think you need to speak on how we men are natural problem solvers, and how when women complain, whine, and cry, they are, whether they know it or not, appealing to that nature, and how this must be resisted.
@IllDawgable7 жыл бұрын
Please mail this question to him
@playlistiphone87435 жыл бұрын
I disagree. Your ""natural problem solving" is strictly based on an agenda. You wouldn't be trying to save a gal that you're not getting anything out of. That's not ALL men but definitely MOST
@colinesquire24802 жыл бұрын
Interesting point
@colinesquire24802 жыл бұрын
Playlist I agree with that too
@pickedupapencil2 жыл бұрын
@@playlistiphone8743 I do not agree. First of all, skip the sophistry by using the not all, but most line. We are adults, and know that we are speaking in generalities. Of course we are taking about most. Secondly, when you bring a man a problem, his instincts tell him to solve the problem no matter who it is. Man, woman, child. That's what I was asking him to speak on. Resisting that instinct.
@drewtaylor35467 жыл бұрын
There is no saving anyone, Especially a chick.
@martintheguitarist7 жыл бұрын
It's a lot easier to find a woman without issues than solving a woman's issues.
@logicreignssupreme63017 жыл бұрын
Problem is most women have issues though
@martintheguitarist7 жыл бұрын
The results you get are largely determined by your actions and your actions are largely determined by your attitude. This attitude is not going to help your cause. There are plenty of normal ones. You have to look.
7 жыл бұрын
Martin the Guitarist bullshit
@kenwooddrive31167 жыл бұрын
Where do u find a woman without issues?
@pacha7776 жыл бұрын
A woman without issues is like a cat without a tale...
@JSmithRecords7 жыл бұрын
Bro, these dudes be writing whole essays and shit.
@darkmagician17107 жыл бұрын
It sounds like her ex or another dude is in the picture
@playlistiphone87435 жыл бұрын
Dark Magician Of course, that's why she didn't want titles. So she's free to fuck other dudes
@arisn326 жыл бұрын
Fall back, relax chill out. Best advice. Much love bruh
@maxhouse24097 жыл бұрын
She has trouble scraping enough money to have her own place? Her moving in with him will cause a financial strain on him. Also, if they are in the same space more frequently, they will eventually get on each other's nerves. He says that the sex is good with the way things are so why change up? Also, as she develops confidence and self-reliance through her life experience and self-reflection, she could later regard his gestures of problem solving as a form of meddling; or worse, attempting to control her.
@georgeelder8415 Жыл бұрын
He's investing too much...
@luisemilioogando7 жыл бұрын
I made this mistake and I was paying for it, We need to give space and let this chicks solve their problems ,
@georgeelder8415 Жыл бұрын
Yes! If you try to help her, you are more invested in a possibly bad deal... As Locario stated, she will associate you as part of the problem, and when she's over it, she might very well be over you...
@luisemilioogando Жыл бұрын
@@georgeelder8415 we men are mean to solve problems. with experiences you understand this particular one, you must let it pass
@dougla967 жыл бұрын
If ur name not bruce wayne or clark kent u cant save nobody 💯
@_Iamdmoney6 жыл бұрын
lol Bruce Wayne wasn't saving bitches either. He was fighting crime.
@arisn326 жыл бұрын
Bruce let his ex die wtf you talking about. Lol
@williamhernandez32016 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I learned the hard way. Trying to "save" these chicks. Only to get kicked to the curb. Once they felt I was no use to them and to ask for $. Never again!
@kevintalley11582 жыл бұрын
Ur right Hashim I never looked at it like that the purpose of a relationship is to satisfy each other not to put problems on one another. I see why u are able to maintain such a long and strong Marriage man 👍🏾
@darrylgarvin6697 жыл бұрын
I would've just left her alone. Too much nonsense.
@LORDADEOLU6 жыл бұрын
locario: oh sorry, it's one of those things, now take your draws off🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #MVP things
@samanthony62825 жыл бұрын
If you save her , she will forget what you have done . Don’t waste your money and time females won’t remember and won’t care and will never reciprocate. All that you have done is forgotten and its in the past it’s all about what you are doing now.
@Zgrateful15 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe that 100%
@terrauncebowie67125 жыл бұрын
Esoteric 101 it is every bit of true. Speaking from experience
@hemeothunder7 жыл бұрын
man that's a long lasting story...... your patients is on point here..mr.locario.😂😂😂😂.... I slept for a while....😅
@MrSavageRain7 жыл бұрын
hemanth kumar patience
@IllDawgable7 жыл бұрын
courtney is savage
@alonzokpadeh92147 жыл бұрын
I made this mistake just recently. Never again tho. Fuck that!!!
@tylerparker18097 жыл бұрын
Church is definitely in session. Keep spending the knowledge Brother.
@thelasthourgetready7 жыл бұрын
LOL that NOOOO NOOOO made me crack up!
@logent807 жыл бұрын
Charge.her.to.the.game.!!!
@williamallen76797 жыл бұрын
This guy is like I have a tendency to be, until I came to my senses. He's on some Mighty Mouse type deal: " Here I come to save the daayyyyy!!!! "
@skj75937 жыл бұрын
Sounds like boarder line personality. Run away fast and don't turn back.
@GUITARTIME20247 жыл бұрын
Scott Jones borderline
@skj75937 жыл бұрын
That gets a COME ON MAN! I usually let people be critical if that makes them sleep better. Let me help you out now and return the favor. You can sit and sift other males post, or go and get at some females that live close?
@tone07577 жыл бұрын
Brothers need to listen to that Ty Dolla Sign song "Tryna get saved, she wanna get saved, I ain't tryna save her." Locario always bringing the facts.
@arisn326 жыл бұрын
This sounds like everyone’s ex at some point.
@playlistiphone87435 жыл бұрын
Sino I'd rather be the guy she can't get over and talk about to the new guy
@paulchege4853 Жыл бұрын
Alot of gems in this video
@ericthered11406 жыл бұрын
Classic Capn Sav a Ho issue here.....shell move on before he does...💯
@MrBEasy246 жыл бұрын
I knew a female who was like the woman that was describe in the guy's letter. She had a shit load of problems, she was always complaining about her issues. I had to dub that chick.
@blumpkinlover9077 жыл бұрын
Locario...right on my dude ..you got the 10,000 subs...100,000 coming...
@dantenewyork7380 Жыл бұрын
wish i heard this a year ago
@iuliua6 жыл бұрын
This guy's self-deceiving game is tight.
@versatileduplicity93135 жыл бұрын
I hope life gets better for you, but.. take them draws off !! 🤣
@birjo15687 жыл бұрын
thats right
@itstayaaa82807 жыл бұрын
Co dependence at it's finest .
@rollingtinfist3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic episode.
@mustafa1287 жыл бұрын
No girls like me what should I do.
@JuicyFruityify3 жыл бұрын
Damn, her baggage becomes your baggage. That's not fair at all to you. It's not your problem. Don't know about you but I got things I need to think about, my future I have to plan for. I don't want her crap, her doings to impinge on my mental real estate. I'd give her tons of space, and leave her to herself, to get her crap together. Tell her so. It's not your business. You have some issues yourself to want to delve into someone elses mess. Locario is absolutely spot on. I've seen this. It will backfire if you help too much she will see it as weakness and she will lose attraction. You need to be seen as strong.
@wokwokmokmok81724 жыл бұрын
SAVE HER ISSUE CAPTIN SAVE ALL HOEZ !🤣 AND GLINGY GLINGER !
@JaZaarMercury7 жыл бұрын
deep.
@taepung74266 жыл бұрын
yeah, it's not your problem
@VSwift-yn3lq7 жыл бұрын
This guy is as needy as needy gets
@mauribush886 жыл бұрын
Lol. This guy in love with her. He's fucked.
@playlistiphone87435 жыл бұрын
Doesn't really sound like a lot going on even though the email is long. Classic case of needy guy focused on one woman who never really looked at him as THAT DUDE. At least you got to smash. Just tell her come through when she wants you and keep it that. Anytime a chic talks at length about her ex, that's a bad sign.