Why Young Couples Find It Hard To Endure Cheating In Marriage [YourView Ladies Discuss]

Several couples had managed to stay together despite one of the partners cheating, and most seemed to be thriving. In fact, the vast majority of marriages that ended in divorce in my social circle - mine included - had nothing to do with infidelity.
A lot of married people say that cheating is a deal breaker, but many don’t follow through. Perhaps they are issuing the statement as a warning to their spouse. Or perhaps they believe it until it happens to them, and they realize that their marriage is worth saving after all.
Will a cheating partner push you to divorce?
Share your thoughts!
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#yourviewtvc || June 1st, 2023
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[@PreciousA564]

The best option is "Don't Cheat"! The stress is too much jare 😂

[@gold4joey]

Never confess to a man if you cheated on him and have repented of your sins. if you are truly repented of your sin, just bury your guilt and be a good wife. Most men never forgive cheating. If you need to confess, go and speak to your mother, or see a counselor. DOn't even tel your friend.

[@dejiolowookere7655]

So what happens if there was a case later and the man got to know. Wouldn't that be more catastrophic? Just a thought..while I understand what you said😮

[@chikeezeagu8054]

Am a man and strongly support your decision but if the woman can’t repent true then let her look for help

[@Ositaukamakaemmanuel]

Beecee is right, you can't be making a mistake for long. U are enjoying it

[@standground8284]

*I try to put myself in the shoes of a cheater and ask - why should my spouse trust me after I betrayed them. A cheater does not care about you, your thoughts, opinions, ideas or feelings regarding their conscious decisions to betray you. Cheaters already know that their decision to cheat could ruin the relationship and they concluded that it was totally worth risking losing the relationship. Cheaters are sneaking around living a lie, pretending to be someone else (regardless of gender).* *Cheaters should not seek a monogamous relationships but we all know honesty is not a cheater’s strong suit. Shouldn’t we seek to forgive them and no longer remain with them. Ultimately a cheater should be thankful that you’re simply letting the other person have them instead of being that whiny confrontational “why me?” person who is fighting with or to remain with an admitted cheater. Cheaters only thrive because the consequences of them cheating aren’t detrimental enough for people to fear being a cheater.* Why don’t people seek divorce instead of betraying their spouse? - Yes, I’m Married. We both agree that infidelity is a dealbreaker.

[@stellaebikeme345]

Beecee is on fire as usual. Collecting for a year and you suddenly have a pang of quilt. Miriam my woman of deep analysis. Mo, the devil's advocate. My women of the view, well done.

[@omotolapeter2843]

Cheating to me is not attractive. It's too stressful, hidding so that people will not get to know. For me i prefer my peace.

[@AndiObasohan]

It appears Morayo is quite agitated. I hope all is well with her, and she should be more mindful of how she is so short with her callers.

[@akinodubitan4757]

I think the word she was looking for is "restitution".

[@mz_AchisibaPharmacy-Lifestyle]

Mr Yakub is very sincere and l like that he can’t contain it and that is it period lol 😂

[@divinegrace9694]

I agree with Beecee and Mariam. God is the only one we need to confess to, He’ll understand and forgive.

[@mudashiradedeji6029]

Where is Barister Nyma, please?

[@NZB89]

Mr Yakub the Mr many wives 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nikeajayi4564]

Why is this even up for discussion? It's so simple. If you can't be faithful DO NOT get involved in a committed relationship!! Why is this so hard!!!!!

[@stellaebikeme345]

Yakubu ooooo! Madam be aware o. Do not confess.

[@mazinodiy1947]

Confess wetin? No be only👀👀👀

[@JoyBNaturals]

One angle that was overlooked in this discussion is what if someone who knows about the adultery somehow speaks to the husband or the husband found out later on, what will she do then? Let's not forget she did not commit the adultery alone, it involved two parties, I don't think she could have been so discrete that somebody somewhere did not know about it even if that were the case remember God hates adultery and anyone who engages in such will eventually be exposed. There is a saying that "the truth will always find its way" so is it not better to confess to your partner and deal with the consequence, it will hurt him more when he hears it from an outsider instead of you, you shouldn't cheat on your partner in the first place if you know you don't have the guts to confess it. Even if you confess it to God and He forgives you, God still expects you to do restitution to the one you have offended, whether he forgives you or not you have played your part. Biblically, there should be secrets between you and your spouse especially when you're already in that marriage.

[@ueyez8572]

And you think the consequences are not suicidal

[@sherwade2297]

Some issues are better taken to the grave. What is the benefit to a woman for telling her spouse that she had 'stepped out'?

[@Chukboss]

Why won't she? I thought the slogan is men are cheats. Just own up to your wrongs. It is called being accountable. It's okay if you chose a life style, just own it rather than make men look they are the worst.

[@tundeajagbe3590]

Women shouldn’t confess unless they are caught. Men can never heal from such confessions. It always comes to mind. You can never gain that trust from the man.

[@temitopegbolahan7006]

It is better to tell the truth, because the truth will always come out

[@ayoperiola693]

Haba... not true ooh...

[@ahembebenjamin8566]

Where is Barr Nyma?

[@TrendTrackInformer]

Morayo is going a wire in appearances

[@diplomatdiplomat2800]

But you can't even spell 😡

[@reggea83]

If you ain’t ready to leave, why would cheating even cross your mind? I am not gonna checkmate any woman. We are done the moment I found out she’s been doing things yasta

[@abiolaamosu1408]

I love wat the caler R Yakub said. He was factual and real. Most men if not all cannot handle whatever it is you want to confess to them and he spoke the mind of most men whether we like it or not. Confess and pack out....period!

[@sublimeswhite]

If you are a girl , don't open your past to your man. Every of your past is ugly. Unless you were legally married and it turned out not working. Otherwise don't tell your past to ur husband. And make sure you keep far and avoid like a plague anyone in ur past.

[@Kayo642]

Where’s Nyma? It’s been so long.

[@ia6145]

It is very difficult for a man to take cheating from his wife

[@amudatibrahim2596]

Good job 👍

[@johnfamous6316]

The topic sounds like a joke but it kills me from the inside. Wow and why will anyone do it when you're aware that you're married? Temptation is real and only few can stand the test of time, so please don't even try to near it or after doing it and confess. Will will a break heart go? rubbish

[@FabianNwankwo-g7w]

Please let sleeping dogs lie. If you must confess, talk to your mother or sibling you trust

[@ImtheGlobalPapa]

My wife was sleeping with my bosses son an under age for 7yrs and my boss new about it and she says she doesn't like sex meanwhile she even was sleeping with house boy.

[@thoughtsoutloud6685]

One way or the other... you have sinned against your partner also if you break your marital vows. Please Mariam and Beecee... don't teach people the wrong thing. Now if one way or the other the your partners finds out from outside... so confession is best.

[@bolatola9340]

I think it's better to know your partner well. Wisdom is profitable to direct. What the lady can overlook, a man may not.

[@abosedeodedairo1891]

DO NOT CONFESS TO ANYBODY, PLEASE!!! REPENT WITHING AND MOVE ON.

[@feemosky]

Confess your sins to one another James 5:16. You tend to support what you are guilty of.

[@henrypeterkamanda3826]

Madam host, r you trying to justify cheating. There is no point confessing.

[@obinnaonyema4736]

You have no reason to cheat

[@sublimeswhite]

My mum told me a longtime ago . That you as a woman must not let your husband perceive the scent of the native cream you wore days be4. Cos the odour is always awful