Why Younger FILIPINAS like to Date an Older Foreign MEN?

In this video i discuss the common reason why a lot of younger Filipina prefer to date an older foreign guy.
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[@kastelvetro1491]

who cares, anything over 22 is kinda a poor old child in todays world, if you expect men to be a plan as a pinay if that man is under 50 best of luck, you have no chance.

[@simongraham8055]

Experience and maturity are huge factors. My wife was born in Mindanao. Her earliest memory is being woken and taken from her bed in the middle of the night by a Philippines Army soldier. They were evacuating people ahead of the jihadists, who were seizing villages in her area one by one. She remembers seeing people being gunned down in the street. Now in her 20s, she has already been working for years to put all of her younger siblings through school and university. She has an amazing array of skills and talents. Her resourcefulness and strength of character blow my mind. I'm in my 40s. I have travelled the world and lived in different countries. However, it is very clear to me that she has had much more life experience than I have. There is simply no way she could ever be compatible with an average western guy in his mid 20s who has done nothing with his life so far, other than play video games and then party at university. They would have nothing in common.

[@domenicv7962]

And what did you bring that was different?

[@simongraham8055]

​@@domenicv7962​My point was that many Filipinas in their 20s have vast life experience because of their tough upbringings. They would be running rings around most western men of the same age. Because of this, it makes perfect logical sense that they would be attracted to someone who is older and has more life experience and can still teach them things and offer some wisdom. That's much more of a relationship between equals than they could get from a younger man who just learned how to tie his own shoe laces. I can of course offer her resources and more opportunities in my country than she would ever have in the Philippines. Let's be real. But that's just one factor in our relationship. I didn't marry her just because she has a pretty face, and she didn't marry me just because I could sponsor her a visa.

[@user-uy4no1ti1k]

Good Evening Leah from Cebu City :) I`m in an age gap relationship, we will probably get married, and everything you have said is "spot on" ! I`ve been living here for 2 years now, and have been listening to you since the beginning of your channel :) I studied the "true" beliefs of the incredible women, and culture, of this precious country long before I moved here so it didn`t take long to find the Love that was ever so missing in the west :) The people of this country are the "richest" people I have ever met...

[@alekstufa1026]

Very true.......Been there 3 times and I had a great time.........After departing from going avry year orb2 times a year sometimes in thailand....Last few years ots been philippines and I continue to dream retiring in the philippines.....The greatest place to retire....and the second is thailand........But in philippines is better for sure......There is 2 things that philippines don't have as good as thailand the transportation and the rod's and streets and my favorite second think is Food in thailand is so good and many verity all kinds of foods from all corners of the globe and seafood is so good

[@leavinforadream]

Great job Leah...! Gary and you are equally blessed..! Thank you for sharing this video.

[@tommurphy354]

Hey there Leah - I am a big fan of you and Gary and all this talk about the typical Filipina being all about the money is BS - in America that attitude is called hypergamy - in short it means women "marrying up" for money reasons, for status reasons, for social reasons - the world changes and evolves and I think that the typical Filipina has the right philosophy regarding an older more mature foreigner 🙂

[@davidjones7493]

Ha! My wife’s parents forced her to marry me. Sadly it happened to me. Married for 25 years and she’s never really loved me. I stayed for the kid

[@stevebearsley2308]

As an older foreigner in the Philippines, I can tell you with 100% certainty that older guys get a LOT of attention from young filipinas. I told a friend living here is like being a magnet in a paperclip jar. However, maturity adds a better perspective to relationships.

[@matthiasherfert1342]

Thank you

[@seans7228]

Where are you in PI?

[@user-uy4no1ti1k]

Perfectly put My Brother :) I`m in Cebu City, 2 years now, and couldn`t agree more...

[@Lalolale]

Genuine question: Would this attention stay the same if they knew you had no money?

[@user-uy4no1ti1k]

@@Lalolale I can answer this question from my experience and perspective ! The women I have associated with have never ever mentioned the subject of money at anytime, as well as I have never brought it up. My experience has been, they are just genuine people that are just happy to be alive...

[@trevcessna1723]

Hey Leah, you seem so sweet and kind not to mention how beautiful you look in that dress! Thank you. :)

[@Sahrokh]

I understand the: "It's her preference... it's her advantage... she has fear to lose a young man, she wants one with more experience". Ok, but is there any space for *LOVE* in all of this? Because all the above looks like a *VERY* transactional relationship.

[@offthecuffadventureswithjamie]

Excellent discussion on the subject Leah! 😊👍🏻 I agree. More responsible.

[@keithandes2804]

Thank you for sharing Leah!! Blessings to you Gary and the children!! 🙏

[@salvadorsepulveda6415]

You give us hope🎉 thank you 😊

[@Tony-m4h]

There are gold diggers in USA as well

[@JohnSmith-ks5xw]

Exactly. And in USA you pay way more and get way less!

[@lostboi3974]

The spoiled princess's

[@williammcaleese5551]

Thank you for enlightening me. I plan to retire in the Philippines soon but don't want to be alone. The biggest question for me is. Older or younger Filipina girl.

[@stedye]

Great points in this video Leah 👌 particularly on the importance of communication in a relationship.

[@ronprince1478]

Thanks Leah, clear and to the point as always.

[@matthiasherfert1342]

Thank you, Leah. 👍🙏 I wish I could make a Filipina happy.

[@ericfreeman5399]

It was exhilarating to hear your thoughts on this topic. Your grasp on it was spot on and comprehensive. Also your femininity was exuberant and delightful. Kudos to the man who was able to acquire such a poignant and inspiring woman to love and cherish. Much Respect to you and your family. God Bless you and your household.

[@Falk4J]

Thank you so much for this insight! That really helps to clear out some stuff. God bless you!

[@daviddarden1915]

I believe it is love ❤️ 😍 also Filipina prefer to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 ♥️. Great video, thank you 😊

[@rolandmueller7218]

I am 60 and in an LDR for 3 years with my filipina fiance who is 40. I would like to stay in the Philippines with her, but I need to keep working in the USA for another 5 years. She is planning to come to the USA. We may move to the Philippines, some day.

[@platoon1081]

Excellent video Leah, I appreciate your honest and personal viewpoints on this subject.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Glad it was helpful!

[@tonyjavoric3524]

Explained perfectly by the perfect example of a delightful feminine Filipina. Bravo!

[@George-ux6zz]

Hi! You made a lot of good points in this video. I have to agree with you. I hope you have an amazing evening and God bless you 🙏 🙂😊

[@daviddarden1915]

Being age 61 now and a widower. My children are grown now and they have children now. I am looking 👀 for to return and retire in the Philippines 🇵🇭 ♥️ 😅. I was stationed at Clark Air Base (Angeles City area) back in 1991. Great video, thank you 😊.

[@MikeWood-yc1er]

You are the cheerful one. Husband can be a little grumpy. You are the sun, he is the moon.

[@michaelhawley1677]

Nice, thought out video Leah. You have a very mature way of thinking at your age. If even 70% of Filipinas think like you, Western men are much better off in the Philippines. It is a win-win for the man and the woman. Hope you, Gary, and your family are doing well!!

[@flinx649]

Leah doesn't ever get the credit for being such a smart girl... she is very bright.

[@CHRISTOPHERSMITH-ct4ku]

Good Info for Us Guys Leah , Pretty dress , That Matches your silky black Hair.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

@@CHRISTOPHERSMITH-ct4ku Thank you!

[@TropicalLatitude]

US culture wants old people to give up and go away. In other parts of the world, an older guy is highly respected for his experience, accomplishments, and wisdom. It's not hard at all to catch the eye of a younger woman.

[@daveriley6310]

If there is a problem, a more mature man wants to solve the problem. He has seen many problems before. You knows how to get to the right answer. That's the bottom line. Not get upset about a problem. Not rail about the injustice of it all. And finally, not complaining about the way things are in the world.

[@TruckerBill0531]

We enjoy your channel but 2 questions we are an American Filipina couple but 1 why you must get approval to post videos? 2 should be a team and not have the man of the house control everything….be a team. Keep up the great work

[@ChestorHixon]

Great video Leah, I would like to tell you that you have maturity also maybe on smaller things like confrontation, but on large things like raising your children and dealing with relationship and marriage you have to have maturity, and I watch your videos all the time and I find them very insightful and mature. 💕 You and Gary. Chester hixon

[@chrisplatt3869]

Great video today true facts have a wonderful day 😊

[@travisprice1325]

Leah is absolutely beautiful

[@perrykomick9478]

Dork

[@william4202]

I just found out that Blue Cross Blue Shield has overseas coverage, at least for Federal (USA) workers.

[@themacker894]

Very good points. I laughed at the "Older men are less likely to be stolen by other filipinas."

[@vincentmcgarry3598]

Money No.1 like everywhere part of the world.

[@JohnKanuck]

Yes, all women (not just Filipinas) are going to care about the financial stability of their potential husband. For that matter, men marrying western women are usually going to care about the economic contribution their spouse will be making, even if he expects to be the dominant contributor. Managing a household is big job and everybody needs to do their part, and provide that stability.

[@nows1567]

Everything you say is basically right, that's how I see it anyway. Nothing wrong with young guys, or most anyway, regardless if they're foreigners or locals. But we older guys do have our "strong suits" too. One thing I noticed when I dated a much younger filipina was that the "age gap" kinda disappeared between us after a while. As you get to know each other, it's the personalities that count, not the age, 'n eventually you don't think about it very much. I remember in the west how young women sometimes would show an interest, for some reason though age gaps have become kinda taboo "over there", well unless you're a famous actor or very wealthy of course, then it's alright for some reason. I do carry that with me in the Ph. too, I would not feel comfortable approaching a young filipina, like in a mall or something, even though she'd be Ok with it. I'm still a bit cautious over what ppl will think. One filipina even told me that other filipinos will think she's a prostitute if she's with an older westerner in public, now that I don't think is true though, not in general anyways 😅

[@glennrk8249]

'Foreigner' is not the right term/word. Anyone outside from the Phills is a 'foreigner'. So men from Vietnam, Thailand or Indonesia are foreigners. 'White men or Western men' is more appropiate in this context.

[@heyyoubuddy6749]

Hi sweetie, I’m glad you and your family are happy and healthy. My lovely bride and I have 4 beautiful mixed kiddos. They got the best from both of us. We live in California, and visit the islands every year. Our kiddos are grown now so it’s mama and me that visit. We have a house in a nice subdivision 1/2 away from wifeys family compound. In the subdivision are wifeys closest Nieces she grew up with. They are a few years younger then her. They have kids and it so nice to spend time with family. Sometimes my wife sends me to the market to buy food and veggies. When I’m with her I’m “safe” when I’m alone the ladies ask me if I’m married or have a girl friend. They all laugh when I say happily married since I was a young fella. I’m old chubby and balding. No catch at all, but the ladies still ask! My wife holds my hand like I’m a lil boy when we go out. So funny. When my wife retires I would like to spend time in Bagiuo where it is cooler I don’t like the heat! Thank you for sharing this video, take God bless you and your family.

[@abkeener81]

I’m in my forties. But I’m not sure what you mean by more experienced, Leah. I’m a virgin. And as a Christian man … I want to give that to my future wife as my wedding gift to her (after marriage). But I agree with you about communication. I personally won’t put up with tampo. I’m Andrew. I also want to live in the United States (where I’m from). But that’s because I have ADD (attention deficit disorder) and bipolar. I’d likely get better treatment here in the United States as compared to The Philippines.

[@8888-n9e]

I will make something very clear. A woman suppose to want a man for his resources (His leadership, protection, love, money, etc.) as long as she is providing her service to him. ( Submissiveness , femininity, loving, caring, nurturing, sex on a regular, and of course respect. Respect and submissiveness is her way of showing her DEEPEST love for him) It's those women that actually are with a man for his resources (support) but don't provide any of the things that I mentioned except SEX that makes age gap relationships questionable.

[@jjwilly13]

At what age would you consider a foreigner older?

[@lorandmagyar]

I ain't stupid ! I understand that being relatively affluent helps a lot🙂. However I also know it's also possible to be deeply in love with each other. If all she wants is a "green card" ?? No problem 👍. I can go that 🙂. I have never lied or cheated in a relationship. I have dated and lived with much younger women. It was great for both of us ! I am best friends with nearly all of my former gfs ❤️

[@domenicv7962]

In my opinion, you have some issues

[@WineSippingCowboy]

Similar to Latinas. I know of Mexican 🇲🇽 women with American men and other Western men. Example of a son of an age gap marriage 💑. Barry Zito. His uncle actor Patrick Duffy approves 👍. Filipinas can go for Leonardo DiCaprio. 😍 But, the Filipinas must be between 18 and 24 yrars old.

[@markc7274]

Ask a young Filipina if she would be with someone her dads age or grandfather and most will tell you no!!! That is gross....I am old myself so fully support anyone to do what they want. There are always exceptions....but lets be real about it.

[@cherrymayl.gambalangambala8613]

older is better than younger..

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

❤️

[@Nick2842]

I have been to phillippines twice, Manila.Cebu.bohol and yes I see young phillippines women with older foreigners but,I have never ever seen a young phillippine woman with older phillippine man, answer that?

[@JohnSmith-ks5xw]

She did actually. The reasons she gave would explain what you just said. You just have to put 2 + 2 together.

[@user-wx1br9jp6u]

I have. Just because you haven't seen it, doesn't mean it's not happening.

[@TravellingMan20]

There definitely are younger Filipinas with older Filipino men, I’ve met them. It just stands out more with mixed couples. The same rationale applies.

[@demandred1957]

Your audio for voice is only in the right ear.

[@mariacielosoberano3294]

well age does'nt matter but what happen to this filipinas if the old foreigner dies? get the another one

[@sandrabentley8111]

So would a younger Filipina continue in a relationship with an older man who became broke through sickness etc., though he had all the other qualities? I doubt it. Sorry.

[@8888-n9e]

Why don't young Filipina's choose older Filipino's if their intent is genuine about having a matured man?

[@smokinjoe90]

I don't know why, but I'm getting no sound with this video... any suggestions as to why? (having no problems getting sound with Leah's other video's)

[@hanglee5586]

Then why don’t we see older Filipino men with younger Filipinas in age gap relationship in the Philippines?

[@Giuseppe-s3x]

$$

[@leschgordon2350]

Nice top

[@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y]

People think that love is a noun, but it’s a verb. What is the problem that love (and marriage) is trying to solve for you? Gold digger is a pejorative statement; just as much as, he just wants sex. Solve your problem and love while you can. We have no guarantees for how many sunsets we will see.

[@alexgere529]

because of 💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲💲

[@simeonorive145]

Is it potential wealth?

[@batape1965]

Possibly no one alive will live up to the A.I. generated ex-pat in your thumbnail. That guy is already happily married and living elsewhere.

[@domenicv7962]

I can

[@marcom2248]

The real reason? They don't want sex that often and they have more knowlege, maturity and yes... more money...

[@sandrabentley8111]

Older western guys going to the Philippines do NOT look like the guy in your thumbnail Leah.😊

[@bradleymiller7375]

Click bait!

[@domenicv7962]

I look better

[@chosen_one1602]

I don't agree with this at all. There is no such thing as immature. Young people act the way they are suppose to. Most Filipinas typically date people their own age. This sound like a bunch of excuses. Financial security is the main reason, we all know this. No need for a 11 min video.

[@TravellingMan20]

It’s only hard to accept and understand for foreigners who can’t break out from their Western mindset. It is surprising when first encountered, but soon accepted and embraced by Western men …especially by those (many) with bad experiences with Western women.

[@cherrymayl.gambalangambala8613]

well said cousin ❤

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

❤️

[@leakyabstraction]

It's super bad to listen to a mono sound with headphones. I can only hear it in my left ear (and for reference I'm only 41 😅)

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Sorry about that

[@leakyabstraction]

@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 nah, it's okay, it was still a great video. And good morning in PH!

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

@@leakyabstraction some studies have shown that men do not fully mature until age 43…you're almost there 😂

[@leakyabstraction]

@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 come on, don't encourage me to age; I'm already terrified of wrinkles, and have more skincare products than 3 average Western women. When I went to PH I had 5 different sunscreens with me 😂

[@VENEMPASTOR]

Younger Filipinas like to date older foreigners in most cases because those foreigners will soon expire to leave them set for life.

[@jerryhumphrey2785]

You, little lady, are a lot more mature than you think you are.

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

Women love to change the wording to say "money isn't the ONLY reason". Well, yes, of course. I doubt a woman (any country) would stay will a rich gut who smelled bad, was rude and hit her. So duh, money is never the ONLY reason. Saying that is called a "red herring" logic fallacy. It's dishonest. Money is the first bar a man must cross. After the man has established he has money then the judging on other factors can begin. No money = no chance. For example Filipinas love to say "foreigner" as the type of man they're interested in. But they have no interest at all from men from poor countries like India and countries in Africa. Only interested in men from wealthy countries. A "foreigner" is a guy with the means to travel to PH and live there without a job. To Filipinos that a rich dude. Same happens with men. Beauty if the first bar a female must cross before a guy will even talk with her. Once the man has established her beauty then the judging on other factors can begin. Most of the items on "the list" in the video are related to money. A guy without money wouldn't meet the list items.

[@andrewdavis3322]

Money He'll die sooner She'll get it all

[@RiderOftheNorth1968]

A pity it is in mono sound, only left side sound. A bit painful to be honest.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Sorry about that,I'll have to check my mic settings.

[@seans7228]

Noticed that.

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

Someone *always whines* about the sound on content provider videos. Do you REALLY need the sound to be in stereo to listen & watch? Jeez. YT really brings out the goofballs. People who have higher standards for other people than they have for themselves.

[@RiderOftheNorth1968]

@@ScooterOnHisWay2024 No, don´t need stereo. I like to hear with both ears at the same time. Some of us might not have full hearing on both ears, you know? And in my case the left is the weak one (since military service) so, please stop being a complete narcisist!

[@RiderOftheNorth1968]

@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 Thank you. I have hearing loss on my left ear since my military service so i have problem when only left earphone sounds.

[@Paul-McB]

I'm a younger foriegner living in the Philippines. I've been approached by many of the older foreigner's wives and Gfs.

[@platoon1081]

Hyoergamy is present everywhere and the Phillipines is no exception. Men need to treat their partners fairly and respectfully or else they will stray.

[@user-id8fd5ds5o]

🥰😍💎❤️🌹💗💞🌈🌈❣️❣️💖

[@igorklob9375]

💸💸💸

[@wizerdjuice9589]

$$$

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

How 'old' is 'older'? My Filipina wife, whom I met in HK, is 12 years younger than I - she was 36 and I was 48. We have a child together. We live in the Philippines. We own property and have a business. We came here because she wanted to come home.

[@dsrrellgriffith1161]

I have seen many many older men and very very young girls, the girls do not look that happy with them. Or they are looking around to see if people are staring at them,,,,,hahahaha

[@mike.k]

Why You so cute? 😬🤩

[@stedye]

Yes she is cute and you can find many like her in Philippines. My lady is from Cebu . Just go for it and travel .

[@mike.k]

@@stedye mine too 😎