Why your children don’t speak to you anymore.

[@finallyanaccount]

"It's cuz of how you act, act, act..."

[@tia9583]

Well said!

[@ceethecounsellor]

Thank you!

[@matted.1213]

As a child, I have never heard anyone say the truth more clear and concise as you. Its was like my heart was speaking to me, thank you so much for this.

[@ceethecounsellor]

❤️❤️ I’m sad that you’re even having to go through this

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

The parents blame everyone but themselves. It’s the teachers, the social media, their friends, but never ask what did I do or rather didn’t* do to have raise a child that can trust and acknowledge me as their parent and loved one.

[@ceethecounsellor]

That’s true and unfortunate in a lot of cases.

[@haimeh8909]

I really want to share these to my parents but even if I do, I'm past caring there's nothing you can do when bond between parent-child relationship is broken... just like the video said it's all about THEM..

[@ceethecounsellor]

I am so sorry that you’re going through this. I hope one day you get healing and peace ❤️ you deserve it

[@hummingbird6130]

Yes. Narcissitic parents think they will always be needed regardless of their abuse.

[@ceethecounsellor]

It’s such a shame because narcissism is one of the hardest mental health issues to treat. And most people would never admit if they were a narcissist

[@megandavisT2P]

Yep .I know first hand unfortunately 😢 but thats exactly what they feel jus don't give up keep trying is all I can say u can't make up for it but u can start giving them time from here on out. They'll come around if u give enough effort. Mine did and now we talk almost everyday their adults now.

[@ceethecounsellor]

This is so lovely 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing this, I really hope it gives other parents hope not to give up. It’s worth it in the end, I’m so happy for you and your children!

[@megandavisT2P]

@@ceethecounsellor thank u so much!! It is worth it! I regret being a young mother who was always chasing alcohol and men while I kept my kids aty mom's or their grandma's smh but I'm older now and realize it wasn't worth it. I've even left the guys alone now for 2 years and have been concentrating on my kids and myself

[@corinnebourke6525]

Excellent video! You hit the nail on the head! I'm so so glad that I did all of the things you said. I have a wonderful relationship with my daughters. I always made the time to sit down and just chat and hang out. I always ask them how their day went. As a result, they always come to me to talk about things. I get on great with all of their friends. I'm so blessed. I don't know, but it's like I always knew it was more important than anything else to care for them emotionally and psychologically. Maybe it's because I was raised by my grandparents and not my parents. Anyway thank God I did the right thing and was always there for my girls ❤

[@ceethecounsellor]

That is so amazing to hear. Your daughters are extremely blessed and lucky to have you as their mum! I wish everyone had a mum like you! ❤️🥹 everything about your relationship sounds so wholesome

[@AbelNegash-oz1xc]

Why is this not viral?

[@miizzramirez]

We need to share this video so that it does go viral

[@ceethecounsellor]

❤️❤️

[@ceethecounsellor]

Appreciate you! 🙏🏾❤️

[@Wattpadreader418]

Very very well said❤ sad thing is they think they’re never wrong and I don’t even bother to talk to them anymore about anything 😢

[@ceethecounsellor]

I’m so sorry 💔 I hope one day your relationship is repaired.

[@oceanbella]

I literally had to talk to my dad about this today because every time I talk to him he's talking about something that's going on with him, I'll say "okay well you didn't even ask me how I was doing" and he'll say how you doing. I'll tell him, then that'll be the end of asking me any questions about myself.

[@ceethecounsellor]

That’s heartbreaking 💔 I’m so sorry and I hope one day he realises and puts you first

[@PlantBaePapi]

It’s been over a year since I stopped talking to her, and my spirits have never felt higher.

[@ceethecounsellor]

❤️ I’m happy for you! And I’m sorry that you didn’t get what you needed from her

[@christianealfred4500]

On point!

[@Notsocietybeauty]

As a parent now and never having a break, umm I think I’m going to care less if my kids want to talk me in their adult years. I’m skipping town once I know they are straight, deuces half of y’all think y’all were angels when y’all ran y’all parents down to the ground✌️😮‍💨

[@ceethecounsellor]

It’s not to say children are easy and always well behaved, but just that parents have more control the relationship with their kids than they sometimes perceive