Why Your LOOKS are NOT ENOUGH!

Hi Trophies!!!
Today’s video is one that I felt led by spirit to do. This is an important topic for you all to understand what you truly bring to the table and your intrinsic value.
Don’t just level up your looks, without leveling up your mind and your spirit. Doing one without the other is like putting lipstick on a pig.
If you don’t believe that there’s a man that could be that supportive , you’re limiting yourself
If you believe you have to choose between either having a man that actually loves and cherishes you and a man that is successful and a provider, you’re limiting yourself.
You attract what you are. You can have it all, but you have to BE it all.
You can be a good person and still have strong boundaries.
Being a kind and good person doesn’t mean being a pushover, accepting narcissistic behavior, or letting others treat you in any kind of way.
Men want women who have high standards and self worth, but communicate it with Grace.
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[@thenewtrophywife]

Hey Trophies!!! 🏆✨😘 Sorry the video is a bit uneven, Hubby bought us a new camera to celebrate 1k Subbies 🎉 and I’m still trying to get my setup together 🤣 bare with me ❤️

[@K.Shandi-fq9uq]

☺️

[@deejames1st]

How nice of him!

[@durgalakshmi2793]

So happy for u

[@durgalakshmi2793]

I seen women that have providers and in happy relationships and they are over weight or not even attrative. I just think sometimes it's meant to be. There are many attrative ppl who never got married

[@ColaBaby888]

Yay! Thanks Mr. 😊

[@xpnn]

In addition to working on your physical appearance, I highly recommend going to therapy. Many adults have unhealed childhood trauma that is keeping them in cycles of toxic relationships

[@durgalakshmi2793]

Your not lying at all. High self esteem people don't continue to go thru drama. Once they see a red flag they move on.

[@thenewtrophywife]

YES!! Therapy is a game changer and so very necessary!! I hope this can be de-stigmatized in our community ❤️

[@sc6975]

1000% I just completed a inner childhood healing Meditation 🧘🏾‍♀️ I felt lighter the next day. Cried for 2 days out of no where. But I truly feel at peace It will also help you understand the new version of you better. Literally I started to attrack a different type of man after this. I also did a chakrah alignment meditation for a week. 💪🏾

[@Donion333]

You have to be your own therapist and tap into yourself your mind is 10x more powerful

[@trilliontrillion8087]

Your looks got you in the door , but your personality kept you .

[@ColaBaby888]

I’m so happy that woman are starting to have stronger boundaries. We are the gatekeepers to our energy field, our womb and our heart & mind.

[@liorasitelman1856]

It’s about compatibility. You can be a good person and he can be a good person but if you’re not compatible, it’s not going to work. You have to be in sync with values life goals and personalities. You seem like a lovely person- ignore the jealous people. Your husband is a successful man and likely had plenty of pretty women to choose from. Ultimately, it’s your essence and who you are as a person that made him fall in love, not your looks or achievements

[@durgalakshmi2793]

This is very very true just become ppl r good ppl doesn't mean they gonna vibe

[@liorasitelman1856]

@@durgalakshmi2793 Yup. The people saying her husband married her solely for her looks are just jealous of her looks and her life.

[@thenewtrophywife]

So true, compatibility is a must!! 🥰😘

[@durgalakshmi2793]

@liorasitelman1856 if this was true than every single gorgeous women and even handsome men all would be marry. You can attract many suitors doesn't mean u keep them

[@liorasitelman1856]

@@durgalakshmi2793 you didn’t read what I wrote please improve your reading comprehension skills

[@lexusindia9426]

I love your channel. A classy, intelligent, beautiful black woman helping and adding value to the community through Christ is what we need more of. Thank you💕

[@thenewtrophywife]

Aww thank you my love 🥰😘

[@sendinglove5040]

Something I really enjoy about this segment is you being thankful to your husband and believing in God. In addition to the fact it’s not always about looks that will get/keep a man.

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you my love ❤️😘

[@Tsaradiego]

you forgot to say that even if you are the most physically beautiful, the most educated, the most virtuous, the most interesting, that is not enough if you are not his preferences he will not choose you. You have to go to men who are attracted to your beauty. I have always had difficulty finding a quality black man because I understood that I am not their type, I am dark skin woman. so I opened my options and found a man.

[@alaerelifestyle]

I LOVE that you brought God and inner beauty into this discussion, I hope God continues to use you in this way. Your videos are really affirming! 💗

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you so much Gorgeous 🥰😘😘

[@kendrabee100]

She’s so fabulous 🥰

[@thenewtrophywife]

Awww, that’s YOU babe 🥰😘🏆✨

[@adidimbolek3263]

Your video made cry, as a woman who grew up without a father figure

[@Queen-ConsciousYa]

Yes, God is so good. I want more women to realize that.

[@thenewtrophywife]

God is AMAZING and can do all things ❤️ I’m so glad to be around like minded women like you!

[@iadorenailsxfashion]

And this video is so true! Their are soooo many beautiful women out there receiving the least and women who don’t look as good as them getting the MOST.

[@_Hope_dealer]

This!!

[@Lavenderspice942]

Yes I can relate to that.

[@thesymonebrown]

I knew I was drawn to your channel for a reason!💗A lot of the other relationship/ level up KZbinrs are toxic & are not aligned biblically.

[@thenewtrophywife]

Aww thank you babe! I’m so happy it resonated 🥰😘😘

[@SonyaOutThere]

If it’s the men in your comments section being salty, then just imagine a woman who doesn’t meet any conventional beauty standards getting the life she wants. They’d go out of their way to tell her that she’s just an exception. As you correctly noted, most of these men are living in rental units with some roommate and cannot stand the thought of more and more women living the life they want without these men.

[@thenewtrophywife]

They will always have something to say unfortunately but it won’t stop the message! ❤️😘

[@goddess_Kate]

"When you meet a true provider, he already knows"

[@xpnn]

Happy 2K subbies! Your channel is growing so fast. Love that you’re also talking about the Lord

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you so much babe!!! It’s all because of HIM 🙌🏾🙌🏾🎉🎉🎉

[@sheaNERD]

I can tell that you truly love and respect your husband ❤😢I cried and prayed about this the other day. Someone I get discouraged with putting myself out there and feelings of hopeless in regards to marriage to a healthy wealthy provider man.

[@thenewtrophywife]

It will happen babe, keep your faith strong and God will lead the way 🏆✨😘

[@drakeforever560]

I LOVE THIS!! There is too much content on looks! I am with an older man and I realized my character almost ruined the relationship because I thought beauty was everything. You have to be respectful towards him! And his family! And his friends! And then he will protect & provide like never before! If you don’t act toxic, he won’t ! Tell him what you need emotionally too! He can’t do anything if he doesn’t know!

[@Naadirahp]

Can we have some casual videos too day in the life’s, grwm etc ❤

[@thenewtrophywife]

Will most likely do that stuff on TikTok my love, trying to get you all the content you ladies are asking for 🥰

[@gissellemendez8390]

Can you do a makeup, hair, outfit video or a all in one how to present ourselves as feminine? I’m learning to show my feminine side

[@thenewtrophywife]

Yes, coming soon!!

[@Sunshinebabysol]

I love the vulnerability in this video❤ blessings 🙏🏽💗

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you my love 🥰😘

[@iadorenailsxfashion]

We need outfit hauls… you always look amazing!❤

[@thenewtrophywife]

Coming soon! Thank you babe 🥰😘

[@BronzeandBrainy]

Love your feminine spirit! Keep doing what you're doing. 🩷

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you!! 🥰🥰

[@NadiaJosephina]

A beautiful, classy, woman of God. We love to see it ❤

[@claudiajones879]

❤Beautiful message sis, God get all the glory always 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@thenewtrophywife]

Yes!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@sparklejewel2258]

I love this. Your advice is spot on. I'm not sure how you came across my page but I'm glad you did.

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you my love! 🥰😘

[@Divinefemi.9]

🏆 Hiii loving the content so far ! - something I felt while watching this video is not to forget that while you may really want this husband and he is a prize also, but you’re *THE* prize 🥇 !! because on the level up/hypergamy journey it can be hard to forget that as women because were looking to attract a man . We have the womb, we’re the portals for life on this Planet . Without us there wouldn’t be a them . And not in a narcissistic way but knowing that because of that you are truly *Divine* & you should act as such.

[@esthernuuyoma2794]

Absolutely loved this. It’s a topic that’s not emphasized enough✍🏽 also absolutely love your calm and gentle demeanor 🤍

[@goddess_Kate]

"Give him that sense of Home" 🥰

[@Iamnayhall]

Heyyyyyy im definitely a trophy 🏆 🏆 I'm love you and your videossssss

[@thenewtrophywife]

Yes YOU are!!! 🏆✨😘

[@jasminealexia]

So happy you acknowledged God almighty in your truth 🙌🏽 like someone else said, there is so much toxic misinformation being spread on this platform, but there is a right and a wrong way to do things. God’s way is the BEST and I can see that shining through you sis! New subscriber here! Keep shining your light gorgeous woman of God! 🩷🩷🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you Trophy! 🏆✨ God is all we need to succeed! ❤️

[@its_Diamond_duhhh]

Love your channel ❤ period . Seek God first and all will fall after . Keep inspiring sis 💕

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you for being here my love 🥰🏆✨😘

[@shirabrilliantsky4110]

Thank you for your video and I love it so much when you talk about God...😍

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you Babe!!! 🥹🙏🏽😘

[@desireenunez7824]

Love seeing this side of you ❤ the spiritual aspect of leveling up ❤

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you Trophy!! 🏆✨😘

[@mimikelembe]

i just came across a clip of yours on tiktok and i ran to find you on KZbin to subscribe, love your content and your beautiful feminine voice ❤

[@thenewtrophywife]

Aww thank you My love ❤️ I’m so happy you are here! 🥰😘

[@sylviasweet7483]

I see a lot of myself in you. 😊You've inspired me to start a similar KZbin channel. You are amazing inside out girl.

[@thenewtrophywife]

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🏆 I love this channel!

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you Beautiful!! 🏆✨😘

[@tamuredahwilliams8215]

@@thenewtrophywife you are welcome!

[@celestinebennett212]

The first attraction Men look for in a woman is Beauty, then the character. They want to come home to a woman that will get them out of the Masculine energy they face every day and welcome them into the feminine energy where there is peace and luxury a place they can relax and reboot again for the next day. those are the women men marry ..But sometimes it's not only Beauty it's character the energy you give out matters. and sometimes Men are scared of approaching a beautiful woman they will say she will be a problem eg other men desire her it's crazy and the only men that can actually approach that kind of woman are either "Married Men, Sugar daddies, or Toxic man " these men have nothing to lose it's going nowhere it's crazy out here, I have had men that I talk to them ..they lose there word when am asking for direction practically even when we go out with my friends they will tell me to the left that guy is staring but they don't make a move..The only one time a guy asked me to marry him is he was an engineer but he wanted me to be his second wife, ha ha ah and another guy I must admit was much younger than me but he had the courage like a man ..the age gap was just too much

[@Chynawhite31]

God bless you and your family. Your content resonates with me I’m so glad I found your channel 💕💕

[@thenewtrophywife]

I’m so glad! Thank you for being here 🥰❤️

[@kaheaisaac1]

What a beautiful video ❤

[@The_Absolute_Lady_]

I love everything about this viddeoYou are a true Gem, i can watch your vieos for hours just because of your energy and spirit

[@lorraineblake2652]

Beautiful. Would love to see your sisters that you helped to level up. Blessings 💞 🙏🏾 💜

[@rikkifrank5681]

I love your channel because you can tell you’re actually a really good person and you still were able to become a trophy wife not by doing anyone wrong or tricking anyone. You have values & faith. love that you totally deserve it.

[@jcrawford5674]

Wow I got reeled in because I was seeking a better dating strategy. Thank you for making this channel deeper than the superficial and seeing that a high value man requires a high value woman.

[@MariaLiLV]

I am a new subbie! Love this channel. Ooo get ready for some haters and messed up comments you KNOW people hate these kind of channels. People are gonna be mad you are intelligent, pretty, AND got a good provider husband. Aw naw! 😂

[@thenewtrophywife]

People are so triggered by happiness 😂 Thanks for being here and watching my love 🥰😘

[@ulongo123]

You should consider going to whatever podcast, myron, or justpearlythings and other relationship podcasts cause your advice is definitely needed for single mothers.

[@thenewtrophywife]

Lol maybe one day! 😆

[@lailamuhammad6889]

thank you for this valuable information

[@Annonymous28]

It makes me so happy to find this out I did not know that you were a single mom prior that makes you more relatable and now I wanna share your video with my older sister who is struggling to find someone❤i took sheras advice too

[@alohadanie777]

yes ❤ there is no limit when God is in the plans!

[@thenewtrophywife]

AMEN!!!

[@FeliciaBerryVlogs]

Love!! Can you make a video about glowing up?

[@thenewtrophywife]

Great idea! ❤️ will do babe 😘😘😘

[@majad.2087]

This is the thing I don’t agree when listening to Shera, for example. I think to have to pretend to be this cold, untouchable human being is actually just a mask trying to chase what we want. Like, sis. I can love my man and still get what I want, without playing mind games every second of the day. So, yes, I like Isis because it feels like she teaches not only from the brain but from the heart too and I appreciate it❤️

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[@amitg3702]

This just made me reflect on a recent situation with a man in my family. 🏆

[@TheJessicaSabogal]

great video!

[@karunasol]

Thank you for praying mid video that is so amazing and you’ve gained a loyal subscriber 🥰 thank you for your wisdom 💎

[@caleighmiller4016]

Thank you for this. Living in Dubai its been hard to find a good match. Im a natural girl and Im watching these kinds of videos because Im trying to understand how gold-digging women (not you) are so successful here (and unsuccessful). I've never cared about money but as I get older of course I just need to find security and strength. Its so refreshing to hear you talk about whats on the inside because while I live in Dubai, with millions of 'Dubai Girls' here to compete with, I have to trust that I'll find a provider who will appreciate my loving, hardworking and passionate spirit and wants to go on adventures instead of fancy restaurants. Just saying all that to claim that I WILL find a provider who also fits my natural-girl, wholesome personality ❤ Thank you again

[@Belleashix]

I just came across your channel today and I’m already a subscriber.. luv your energy.. luv your vibes. Thank your sharing your wisdom with us ❤

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🏆 Yes praise God! I subscribed because of this video. God bless you sis.

[@thenewtrophywife]

Awww thank you my love, God bless you too!! 🥰❤️😘

[@deejames1st]

Another video of great advice. I look forward to the videos about leveling up inside as well as on the outside. Trophies are a whole package!

[@thenewtrophywife]

Thank you babe 🥰🥰😘😘

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Love it here ❤🏆

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SO GOOD!!!! Thank you for this!

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The Goodness that he sees in my heart❤️❤️❤️, ❤️🌹❤️ it's exactly what I've been focused on, while leveling up in finding,my future 👑 King .- 🏆💍🤌Thankyou for all the wonderful advice Isis,that you're so graciously sharing !!!

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Awww ❤ you are so sweet

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[@A.Aleena]

I don’t like to talk about people but as an example do you think Sheras husband picked her because her good heart? I’m not saying she doesn’t have it but I truly don’t think that’s the case. I think he was attracted to her dark feminine aura

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