Wife Cheated After 20 Years of Marriage-Now She’s Furious I Took a Trip With My Female Best Friend!

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

He should have filed ASAP. And she's a non romantic childhood friend.

[@erasus0307]

S2, I had a coworker go thru something similar, come to find out the reason his wife was so jealous and hurt was because she was cheating in him. She didn't like the fact that someone may steal her backup plan. Long story short, female coworker was let go, and he left his cheating wife.

[@dondiego1141]

What I immediately thought about! Cheaters sometimes project because they don't want to experience what they inflict

[@HistoriasContadas68]

Entiendo que la situación es complicada, pero todos merecen respeto y honestidad en una relación. Espero que ambos puedan encontrar claridad y paz en esta situación.

[@jaybreezy1274]

S2 once shorty said “comeback to bed” I knew it was downhill for bro gg’s😂

[@LifeUnraveled7]

Yeah that dude was dumb

[@PhilipJFry58598]

For the last time once one person cheats there is no longer any marriage

[@tioraytm]

S2 - So all you did was go to dinner alone with the new attractive girl, tell your wife not to join and lie that to your wife about how attractive the new girl is. Yeah, I can't imagine why your wife would be crying after finding your new girl sitting on your desk and leaning into towards him. Then he refused to let his wife see his phone. LMFAO 🤣. This guy is full of crap. This can't be a real story. OP is the one at fault in this. Not the new girl and not the wife.

[@dhikaharlian]

story 2: if nothing to hide why not giving the phone? why can OP be more open? is it the privacy bullsh*t thing?

[@Thaddius0]

2 minutes in. Why are you bringing up her cheating as a way to justify going on a trip with a girl? If you wanted to forgive her, then move on. If you are going to hold it over her head, then just divorce already edit: okay the reddit comment immediately said the same thing lol.

[@426mak]

If you are going to cheat on your husband do it, don't bother commenting on YT videos to make yourself feel better.

[@Fudoggy16]

story 2: i think the wife is losing her mind.

[@grahn3878]

More 2 this story than he’s telling jmo

[@jeremiahnewson2260]

@@grahn3878yeah I agree OP is withholding something cuz ain’t no way you keep getting caught in inappropriate situations with the same person

[@SueñosReddit-q3y]

Es importante mantener el respeto y la empatía al tratar temas sensibles como este. La comunicación abierta y sincera puede ayudar a resolver los conflictos y aclarar las expectativas en cualquier relación.

[@doncjack5913]

S1: Funny calling the kettle black on his wife's end. This should make OP's wife feel what he felt when she cheated on him, well deserved vindication. The friend is just close, not enough for OP to make commit infidelity with her. S2: Well, the relationship is just plain problematic.

[@MrPMAntunes]

S2, this guys sucks bro. Not gonna defend a dude just because he's a dude, he sucks. If there's only her, how is it team building if its only her and you? Cancel and reschedule. She's crying in the shower and you leave? The hell you mean privacy? If it was him asking and she said the same about her own phone he'd lose his mind and tell her it was proof she was cheating. That come back to bed comment should've been enough for a sane person to immediately do something about it, so out of pocket wtf. He sucks, and I'm glad the comment section tore him a new one.

[@zanatosprime3460]

Yea he’s a cpt. Genius. Had it been me, I would have rescheduled the hangout as no one else showed up. When she was crying in the shower, he should have supported her and then when she asked for his phone. Just give it to her. There’s nothing to hide. I honestly don’t understand the concept of privacy invasion if you’re a couple. I’d understand if you were a like military contractor with high level information.

[@MrPMAntunes]

@zanatosprime3460 agree with every point

[@grahn3878]

Story 2 he is a ahole . He should have never of been alone with new worker so inappropriate. More 2 this story than he’s telling jmo

[@reeseseater12]

S1 - if you forgive someone you can’t bring up what you forgave them for unless it’s something you didn’t actually get over and you’re ending it that conversation S2 - the guy should’ve known his team was not going to be able to make it and just reschedule it rather than go 1 on 1 with a woman his wife is jealous of, that was the dumbest thing he did this story and if he avoided that he probably wouldn’t be as deep in this crap as he is and it would’ve been easier to get ahead of. The guy is an idiot, however marriage is about trust and his wife should trust him unless she finds actual evidence he cheated. Also does she want to have this other woman, who as far as she knows is only attractive and in her husband’s presence, to lose her job because she’s insecure? That’s not fair especially if nothing happened between the two. She claims that he doesn’t understand how she feels but it doesn’t sound like she sits him down and has a heart to heart, so that’s on her. So both are a-holes in this story imo

[@titusp9280]

I think a solid relationship rule is when your SO is crying in the shower, you get in the damn shower with them. This dude was a jackass throughout, best of luck man, you’re going to need it

[@Billzonker]

Sounds more like the wife is cheating it is projecting your insecurities on him thinking that he'll cheat because she does

[@johnsanchezz]

Nah, way outta line

[@jcb5755]

After s2 tried correct things for being an a-hole, his wife wanted a dancing monkey. He messed up royally and destroyed her security in their marriage. Time to let go

[@Militarize]

No way should the NG be fired. The wife should never ask for separation. You might as well divorce right then.

[@estabenfew2600]

Cap lol

[@kjabber7245]

S2 - NG got screwed over. Yeah her comments were off color. OP could have been more open with his wife instead of being a stubborn mule. Personally, I think OP's wife is a walking red flag...

[@grahn3878]

I’m guessing he’s leaving a lot out of this story. He should of never been alone new the new girl and never hung out with her again if it was an issue for the wife

[@kjabber7245]

@@grahn3878 I think you're right...he's censoring himself.

[@aaronthiesfeld]

I agree completely the ng got the short end of the stick. OP’s wife seems vengeful.

[@MrPMAntunes]

Always blame the woman. Nah the wife is absolutely right, NG talked about him coming back to bed, he was alone with her (it was a team building thing, he should've reschedule as soon it was known it was just the two) woman I crying he gets pissed and leaves, doesn't show the phone talking about privacy. If it was a story about a man asking his wife to see the phone and she said no, you'll not be calling him a red flag, that's for sure.