WIFE CRIES OUT, MY HUSBAND CAN'T TAKE DECISION WITHOUT MOTHER'S APPROVAL || Justice Court EP - 188

[@johnm.3415]

I laughed so hard when the wife said “ Everything we are saying here , Jimmy will not do it because he is a MUMMY’s boy .😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂. Our sweet mothers please kindly leave your male children to get married in peace and have a joyous home with their wives😂🤣😂🤣

[@Mariamsadventure]

It starts from young age unfortunately… some train them to be fully dependent on their mothers

[@elizabethoparaocha6433]

I was laughing. Mummy boy

[@jonathanogbone9925]

the women complaining will do the same thing later

[@emeraldzzz8062]

I swear this is one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage

[@Size14queen]

​@@jonathanogbone9925 mostly is attachment do cause it, people need to learn there kids will grow up and become an adult.

[@mariama7285]

These parents have no idea the damage they doing. Seperating siblings for that long that lives in the same city. Just sad.

[@ao.6916]

Having a 3rd leg doesn't automatically mean you are responsible. Responsibility starts the day you are detached from your parent(as a man)

[@Size14queen]

The word " detached " 😢

[@AugustineAriola]

How can you detached from my parent ?

[@Size14queen]

@@AugustineAriola that process isn't for everyone, you can do as you please.... We are here to watch next episodes of who don't think outta box 😎

[@RosezelarBlog]

Wrong word to use not detached I think the best word to use it’s no your limit not everything you say to your parents

[@gscalesworld9864]

Lol and women stil attached to ther mum

[@sandraakuako5015]

The man is just too calm. Everything literally points to the fact that all what the wife is saying is true.. How can they comfortably separate siblings? Wow! 😢😮

[@victorojums1964]

The man is equally not cerebral and articulate. I do not believe they both understood what the judge meant by "move on". Sometimes, allowing people express themselves in a comfortable tongue, profers an elaborate perspective of the conflicts/misunderstandings.

[@elizabethoparaocha6433]

Even block each other

[@sandraakuako5015]

@@elizabethoparaocha6433 you can imagine

[@charleschidera1071]

The way the young man is saying Yes Ma Yes Ma. It shows Bobo will not do anything. In fact he will disappear this time. 🤣😂

[@IsrealDadvisor]

😂😂😂 Haha You're very correct, he will took to his heels this time around and will definitely not return back

[@peterpeace1859]

Exactly my thought. Everything yes ma, yes ma 😅😅.

[@lawalomotola9964]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@leaholu-king164]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mekwunyesunday1226]

Thank God for this court. Please this court should be publicise the more for people that have issues in their marriages to get justice.

[@nyatherauhuru151]

I even blame her. How did she look at this individual and said he's responsible man that can make independent decisions? He clearly has no back bone.

[@MYFATHEREMMANUEL]

I pray they work things out for the children and for themselves. ❤

[@bimsnackskitchen6332]

One sad thing about separation and divorce is, the children are always the ones who suffer the most.; Weldon judge Funmi, I always like your judgement. Separating the children is definitely out of order!

[@seteoluisikilulanrelanre2359]

If truly the marriage certificate is with the husband's mother that means he is mummy's tomboy.

[@dembamsesay5983]

The was he is quick to say YES tells me that he is not going to do what he is saying YES TO😊

[@chukwukaokafor2673]

The man is olodo

[@frankefe-ir5fc]

One hardly sees a judgement of Solomon like……. God, bless Justice Asaolu.

[@obinnastanley6475]

I am disappointed with this so called Man. How can you separate your children from each other.

[@ariesunicorn8225]

Me.n and their *obsession* with male children! Imagine taking the son and abandoning the daughters! 😠

[@Mariamsadventure]

Very wicked and heartless…

[@Phalilat]

The funny thing is that the male will later in his old age abandon him while the female he abandoned might take care of him in old age.....😢

[@dadaolagoke8796]

so that the man can help in the shop lolz

[@olufemitosin3526]

@@Phalilat true life story, i have example currently

[@BossouKomi]

Normal

[@daolakschools7526]

This is man should go to prison from here right a way. He is wicked. What could the wife would have done to have separated children from one another. He is the mum's pet. May be he is only son of his mother or the first child. No matter the case has no right to separate the children. Why should he even have a wife. He should have married his mother instead. Some mother in law can be wicked. This divorce is not as difficult as they think. I won't doubt if the mother is not a witch.

[@anneemitomo]

Man, your mother is not going to leave with you forever, if all are truthful you are doing yourself and you are allowing your mother to mislead you, Your mother will not be able to rescue or help you when you are suffering in your old age, truth is bitter, go and ask those old men that failed to take responsibilities of their children when they were younger

[@ogechistephen-oleka]

The man is a "anything goes man"😂😂😂😂. He will say yes to everything and do another thing. The guy no send her message. He looks and sounds very irresponsible and unserious. The lady dey try.

[@favouredokpa5076]

😂😂😂

[@genevievemega6524]

🙈🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 I am telling you

[@Topyson-i5f]

Which kind father be this? You separated siblings 😢😢ah

[@oscarmarcello-pt6iy]

Did the woman also make efforts to send them ?

[@peacemicheal2379]

Send them to where ?? Please just asking...

[@oluwaseyiakadiri4499]

He separated the kids so as to share responsibility of their upkeep with the wife.

[@lauriaendy4595]

It can't get any worse than that, a whole ingenior with a heart of stone! African men most need to be educated on how to love a woman, and how to stop being harsh towards their family. I mean this is heartbreaking, have 3 children with the woman, why so much hostility towards the mother of your children? It's a real shame!

[@djfitzfabiola]

you are right African men really need to be educated on how to treat women right

[@AGHENUKINGSLY]

Africa man don't need love and respect from Africa women abi

[@StanleyIgwe-v7y]

The husband can not express himself very well

[@Mariamsadventure]

What is stopping him? Is his mother who will continue to express herself on his behalf?

[@westafromusikreview7491]

That man is a drunk 😂 from paraga to Jedi 😂😂😂😂😂

[@uchechiglory7409]

Lol...... Funny you​@@westafromusikreview7491

[@edwin7720]

Irrespective of what happened between both parents, you can’t separate siblings. Very Selfish and inconsiderate.

[@maudaddo5369]

Judgement is just. Parents should take themselves out of the equation and parent their kids

[@ONUCHEJAT]

The man is too calm to a fault, he trully looks controllsble,i believe the woman, na the mother dey control am...

[@tem.jones.luxury]

😂😂😂me either

[@ib6435]

and I'm sure you didn't peceive how disrespective the ex-wife would have been while they were married.

[@amogcholdings8080]

Not calm. Timid

[@LAWALYRICS]

There’re some people once they’re not sound in speaking in English they’ll look cool like am sure if this man can express in Yoruba he’ll say something

[@tejudaniels3109]

​@@LAWALYRICSExactly, the man just appeared came simply because he couldn't communicate well in English.

[@Nwakaegoubah]

All dis men who doesn't want to take responsibility, i wonder what dey are thinking.. 7years ??Who dose dat .

[@mercysunday230]

Imagine person wey dey chop steady beating for marriage still dey bother about who hold the certificate 😂 even after seven years of separation, madam abeg nah the welfare of the children dey very paramount now no be you or your certificate.... Judging from their looks/ words, e just show say them no fit eachother..... My opinion though

[@Mariamsadventure]

From looks? She needs the certificate for legal reasons…

[@Mariamsadventure]

She mentioned it, to highlight the mother in-laws involvement. Why would she hold the certificate? She is running the marriage. Also applying for marriage certificate is not straightforward.

[@DamiJoyce]

Aww I love this I think I need to invest my data here than Yoruba movies ❤

[@augustinababanawo1151]

This judge is tired of Nigeria 😅

[@taiworafiat5314]

😂😂😂😂

[@RA-ms3je]

😂😂

[@luciamulopwe]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lateefagboola7614]

PLS THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH NIGERIA BUT THE PEOPLE OUR UPBRINGING NEEDS A LOT OF AJUSTMENT. NIGERIA IS OK.

[@abokoeguale9783]

Hahhahahahah

[@jameeschear9948]

Please and please this woman is a God sent

[@victoriaharry1048]

. Children no get problem.befor 2 hra them don dey fight sef dey play Thank u Judge

[@ChiomasCut]

Judge fummi,please always give them time to explain themselves, reason why some of us are here

[@OlumideOwaduge]

The man doesn't look like someone who talks to much. He looks like a "yes ma boy"

[@eniolamichelle8905]

Abi

[@lawalolatunji23]

I pity the woman, she is emotionally tied to the stupid man. Their marriage can still work, if counseling can addressed the root cause. I pray things work out for them. God bless George Funmi Asaolu for her service to humanity.

[@seteoluisikilulanrelanre2359]

This young man's mother knows the son's wickness and to be protective but she has

[@mobolajigbaja220]

This is how siblings marry each other when we parents don't allow them to know each other from the start.

[@AdaugoAmaechi-m5b]

The man is very wicked

[@okonkwoifunanya9029]

Very very

[@emmanueladeshina7241]

@@okonkwoifunanya9029 Very very o

[@ogechistephen-oleka]

Is not wickedness. Is nonchalantness and irresponsible. He jumps at every thing the judge says, but I don't trust him 😂😂. He will run away 😅

[@Mariamsadventure]

@@ogechistephen-olekait is wickedness. He is not a child for heavens sake. Stop downplaying the severity of the situation.

[@sekinatowoseni7714]

I will say he his foolish

[@bongiwencayiyana220]

Shameless man😮😮😮😮yhoooooooooooo

[@emmanuelobelogu]

Okay ma, yes ma, alright ma, I hope it's just cos he's intimidated cos he's in court 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mayclemz42]

How him dey answer Yes Ma..Yes Ma dey vex me.Father of 15year old still be Mummy's boy

[@cynthiaorah7742]

They haven't moved on ooo 😆

[@eshoke4190]

So lovely

[@mariabonaparte1574]

This man is wicked to tell his son not to talk his mother he can't talk cause his mom hasn't approved it mama's boy

[@kayodeisrael5927]

I can't leave my son's for weeks talk of year.... this heart breaking

[@Ephromech_intl6153]

Devil is really a bastard. Just imagine! Judge Funmi Asaolu, you will live long. You are doing extremely well ma.

[@Lyfwithdija]

What Judge Funmi is telling the man is entering the right ear and leaving through the left ear 😂

[@NMACEOTV]

😂

[@chinenyennodim298]

I agree with you 😂😂😂

[@chinenyennodim298]

I agree with you 😂😂😂

[@chinenyennodim298]

😂😂😂

[@igeadeleke]

Lol..

[@speaklesss8313]

Judge Funmi u are a great woman. More wisdom.

[@pamilerindejoy]

God we continue lead us right

[@shehuokunnu8143]

My worries about judge funmi about school fees is that why is she not encouraging public schools and always supporting private schools

[@Chomzy27]

She only asks if they are in school already and if yes, and the parents are ok, she won't force them to stop the school

[@GraciousGracious-ho9vz]

Poor man, He needs guidance

[@devincoscomedy614]

The man is too calm and i see the woman is taking the advantage of his calmness as well though he might be at fault. I know the family might be there for him to be liberated from the total control of the woman but the wife would always looking for a way to break the relationship between the family so with that, the woman will be upset and become hard in the home.

[@Mariamsadventure]

Poor him… no evidence. We see through him. He is wrong.

[@ahmedsuleimon6986]

Kudos to Judge Funmi Ashaolu 😮😮😮

[@oscarjackson9826]

Have you move on, No, have you move on, No, so what are you guys waiting for not to move on 😆😆😆😆

[@valentinakendima7735]

😂😂😂

[@bernadettebesong7831]

They can work. The issue there is one person is nonchalant and the other press in a lot. Then family involvement too. Hahaha they can be a sweet couple

[@bernadettebesong7831]

See him laughing when his wife was talking that he will not comply. They can work

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Sir, this BABY DADDY that you. Once over needs to STOP. It’s ‘CHILD’s FATHER’. It is so derogatory! Viewing from the USA.

[@app1mxh]

Plaintiff speaks well 😊😊😊

[@TDO1224]

You worry about mother in-law in court when she’s nothing but third party. Did mother in-law has say here in court?

[@reinematene460]

Some inlaws😢

[@EtteobongEffiong-xu1ri]

The same I went thru off recently oooo,funny enough during the chaos I was three month nd days pregnant when I left till now

[@jonathanogbone9925]

this woman complaining now,will still do the same thing to her own daughter in-law, the man would have said much, but he is a calm person and not very expressive.

[@adegokevictor6973]

From the look of things, the man is culpable & I think with professional counselling, they look like couple who can come back together.

[@nwaoliwegregorynonyalim4646]

Where una dey see this kind wife?

[@youngChefebube575]

Marital crisis everywhere, mummy's boy is talking

[@olatubiayomidevictor542]

I can't wait...

[@evonza4858]

She married him not his mother 🤨

[@igeadeleke]

I suspect the lady is correct that the mother controls the guy. He is too calm. Haba. Hopefully they reunite as a family.

[@adewoleesther9579]

This couple hate eachother ehhh. Expecially the woman, she has given up on the man. Nothing cn make her come together again

[@abiolaayeni8359]

Poor lady. I applaud the judges patience but some matters were not addressed. Like Evidence of her monthly medical bills, bank transfers, address the issue of abuse, how the pay back will be made being that he has no job.

[@TDO1224]

This judge uses wisdom now she she mother in-law or certificate does not matters here

[@rotimimosesbamidele9947]

That guy will stubborn

[@westafromusikreview7491]

lol that man you are seeing is a drunk 😂 from paraga to mokole and jedi 😂 he’s just occupying space, he’s not living! He agreed to everything judge Funmi says 😂 the guy no want talk too much! That man doesn’t have up to N2353.00 in his account, and he said 30 thousand monthly.. people have told him, when dey ask u how much u go pay, tell them 30😂😂😂😂! That man is not coming back to this court room😂😂😂! Omo Igboro ni!

[@emirowland-douglas4006]

Do u know him personally?

[@westafromusikreview7491]

@@emirowland-douglas4006 God4bid😀😂😀

[@bolajiprincess3996]

🤣🤣🤣

[@tobimcmorris7690]

It's a case of mummy's boy! When mothers latch on to their male children in a controlling manner, into adulthood, you get this: An EMASCULATED MAN. That's why she instructed him to extract the grandson from his siblings in a typical patriarchal manner where they claim that, "The girls will marry and be UNDER their men, while the boy needs to be trained to be a man and have a future". The wife is very ASSERTIVE and the typical Nigerian mother-inlaw WILL neither LIKE nor acquiesce to it. She will say that the wife wants to CONTROL her son. I won't be surprised if the mother has found him a "small girl" she can control. That nan cannot do anything without the mum's endorsement, SADLY.

[@passionateforjesus4019]

Pakam You don talk am

[@passionateforjesus4019]

Pakam You don talk am

[@FrancisOnyeka-x1c]

How can one get the contact of this court please

[@louisabrown4959]

Am not the one that pursue her 😂😂😂

[@margaretpeterogwucheTA]

😅😅😅

[@engradam1603]

She said the man is not responsible since the day she married him and she born 1,2,3 children's to him after all you see the red flag and you keep on deceiving your self sorry to say I don't have any pity for the lady😮

[@Blink4army7stay8]

My dear, som ppl do not lik 2hv chiren frm different men. Once they hv 1, they want to make it 2. I'm one of such persons. I hate having chiren with different surnames. If 4any reason my husband misbehaves and I hv 2leave, I will wait till I hv at least 2 bcos I don't want any child 2b a loner.

[@Blink4army7stay8]

I hv a sister who had a daughter. Bout 2yrs after d girl was born, d husband started acting up. At a point my sister decided she was going 2leave him. But she said she didn't want 2hv a child dat wud b alone, without at least one brother or sister of same mother & father. Dat incase they go their separate ways and maybe hv more chiren, it means d daughter will hv half brothers or sisters frm either mother or father's side. Dat she doesn't lik it. She stayed till she had anoda baby, luckily na boy. So they r now 2 - a girl & a boy. Wen d boy was a year old, d husband sent her away. Not knowing dat he was dating our cousin who was their househelp. My sister left, d house with d 2kids. Our cousin was living with him 4 over 8yrs. He eventually sent her away bcos she couldn't hv any child

[@blessingisaac3372]

@engradam1603 Thank you!!!!!!!!!

[@abokoeguale9783]

​@@Blink4army7stay8😮😮😮😮😮

[@djfitzfabiola]

​@@Blink4army7stay8 this doesn't make any sense at all In relation to the court the judge stresses on not having more children when issues crop up in the marriage because the burden is usually too much for the mother if the father becomes irresponsible you are here bringing up ridiculous excuses about children been alone and what not

[@AsiemorAsie]

nice one

[@joelsamuelizang6707]

God bless you ma'rm

[@Demman01]

I like this judge she’s very reasonable and acts like a mom but why does the man have to pay for everything? We’re in 2024 not 1800s. I wouldn’t have a problem if the man has to pay for school fees and medical care and the woman for upkeeping (food and cloths) but she wants him to pay for everything, that’s a little too much honestly I’m obviously male so you might think I’m biased or something but I’m not, I’ve just been outside Nigeria for a long time and have seen things like this done more reasonably. I have a girlfriend (not married yet cause still quite young 26) we’ve been living together for almost 2 years now, we’re both working so we both pay for everything equally that’s how it should be and she understands that.

[@djfitzfabiola]

Its not about the year whether 1800 or 2024 Men are born providers and nurturers. You better accept it like that and stop looking and waiting for a woman to foot the bills. Do you guys want to kill women.Women go through a lot biologically to produce take of them,take care of the home and you are still there waiting for her to contribute to the bills . Oga abeg shift one side.Providing and paying bills is solely the man's duty a women can assist in her own little way it is not about sharing any bills equally. If you say share bills equally then you must also be ready to share labour pain, Babysitting, cooking and cleaning equally.

[@Demman01]

@@djfitzfabiola if a woman who works full time and earns let say €3k and a man who works full time as well and earns €4k lives together and the man is supposed to pay the bills and everything then please tell me what the woman does with her 3k that she earns

[@PhiloAima]

Because that's what Nigeria constitution says & besides am yet to see any reasonable amount given for children's upkeep. The men voluntarily mention what they can afford. Let's be honest with ourselves, what will 30k provide for 2 teenagers in a month? Most times the women provide accommodations, clothings, transportation, snacks & still subside feeding.

[@marisomo5791]

Everything judge funmi is telling the man ok ok ok. Lol the woman said he won't take it serious. He looks so controllable

[@jameeschear9948]

I mean the chiefgurg

[@hotpepe9485]

They are immature and irresponsible parent... Dey need serious attention..

[@petermadu1171]

She picked him.

[@olufemiogunba6875]

A man is not taking care of you and children for 7years and you Re talking about marriage certificate.To do what precisely.? We need to raise our girl child with a mentality that marriage alone do not determine their success in life.A lot of women are suffering and yet are afraid of how the church and society will judge them. 14:44 14:44

[@victorezeagu1893]

Co parenting

[@tejudaniels3109]

She needs it for divorce, that's why Judge Funmi was telling her she could get a CTC from where they got married.

[@Mariamsadventure]

She mentioned it, to highlight the mother in-laws involvement. Why would she hold the certificate? She is running the marriage. Also applying for marriage certificate is not straightforward.

[@patieokogbe6770]

​@@Mariamsadventurewhy are you on every comments section? Why do I have a feeling you re related to her?

[@bidemifolakedada8457]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Mariamsadventure]

If you have a good husband and good wife, please take time to thank God and pray for peace and happiness to continue. Be kind enough to pray for your brothers and sister s to also have good spouses… cause the going is tough.

[@kehindesherif4593]

❤❤❤

[@glorynzube4384]

Why will separate the children? Ogogoro man

[@TDO1224]

Lack of knowledge what nonsense wedding certificate good for when u can easily go get a fucking true certify copy

[@sekinatuonanuga-olalekan1247]

One word illiterate.

[@agnesalbarka5366]

So, because wife left without u asking her you decided to separate the kids?

[@petermadu1171]

You are reporting to your family..He is reporting to him mum.....d matter balance be dat😂😂😂

[@lornaflo2596]

Judge you did well ma God bless you and i think both can still come back

[@Mariamsadventure]

Years of separation and the way she highlighted the toxicity, you’re talking about coming back…

[@Phalilat]

Good, she brought him to court, but a bit late after 7 years........ If your baby is young or you are pregnant and your baby dady is not having sense, please take him to court now.

[@TutuLolaAboh]

You people have not moved on😅😅😅

[@alliswell1605]

The woman is truly a very troubled woman. It's obvious . You blocked a man and still claim no contact . Lol

[@makindemary9021]

Husband has never been responsible and you went ahead to have 3kids It is well. It’s more like she already accepted ma she go take care of the kids herself

[@djfitzfabiola]

💯 One ridiculous viewer was giving excuses for her claiming some women don't like having multiple children in different marriages that's why they keep having more than one child in the marriage gosh so ridiculous 😂

[@akinpeluracheal1712]

She was getting pregnant every time she forgave him😂 you can tell from the gap in the kids 4 and 5

[@charlesonyeka3185]

This woman eye dey back… she wants to control the man

[@Mariamsadventure]

You are not right in the head. Biased people like you should never be in position of power.

[@liveevent3646]

U b big f00l capital f00l

[@RA-ms3je]

True, but it is better the mother control him instead😂

[@omotoshoidowuadedeji4093]

Nawaoooo

[@abiolarufus5065]

Why did i feel Akin is Shelding too much weight. Please be fine.❤

[@herstory1012]

Both parents are ridiculous. Poor children being separated.

[@nikeakinsuyi6688]

Yeye father. Oh what a wicked father. God will judge u jimi. U will regret this.

[@ebonysweetnesssweetness5153]

What a wutless mammas bwoy - disgustingly denying the mother and boy child to have time together and leaving the mother to look after the other children without support - shame on him.

[@kingtemisan]

These two still love theirself 😂

[@sheilae.9670]

Nope! I absolutely don't see love

[@Mariamsadventure]

If this is your definition of love or you see love through this toxicity… you need help.

[@fadeelahbintabdulkareem9816]

Awon love seers😂

[@adesewa100]

Mr man you're not mam enough... please take good care of your girl child...girls are very good personality

[@timothyuzonduministry2893]

They are from desame tribe what a shame