WIFE has TEMPER TANTRUM in Public - Weekend Review!

20190211 - Join us as we recap our weekend! We have not one, but two projects we're starting at the same time. Wrapping up the remodel of our kitchen, and remodel of our downstairs bathroom. As a result, our house is a huge mess, and tempers are short. However, progress is being made and we still love each other.
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[@RedHotFiat]

You guys sound just like my wife and me. Over 46 years we have remodeled, built, or rebuilt many houses. She gets the final say on color and style, I get the final say on quality and structure. Compromise plays a big part in everything we do together. I think your house is really cool. The oldest house we worked on was our first, it was built in 1906.

[@1870s]

That's a decent compromise

[@fourdayhomestead2839]

Just caught this video. I've had to take on my own home remodel, due to negative attitude & lack of support from my bf. Luckily I have a brother who is supportive of my style & he's helping me do my projects as I want them.

[@galeharris6696]

One side of my house was built between 1820-1830, and an addition to it that just as big as the original side, and that was built in the 1890's. Nothing is straight or true, and I love that house so much! Great video, guys!

[@bettylee7356]

You two are so great together! In March my husband and I would have been married 60 years. He passed five years ago. So, keep doing what you're doing - its working!!!!!

[@kdkay4039]

I’m so very sorry for your loss. My husband and I’ll be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary in a few weeks, I can’t imagine loosing him.

[@jennifercomeaux241]

I understand all about y’all house . I live in southeastern Louisiana. And our hone is a old Cajun cypress house. Can’t fine out when it was built. Went to the land office to see if I can fine something out. All they have on record is it had 209 acres with 3 building on it. And that was recorded in 1816 , after the Louisiana Purchase took place. We love it.

[@kdkay4039]

This is me and my husband to a TEE! After all is said and done, he reminds me he’s not a mind reader. Then I whip out pintrest and he says “I’ll build it for you”. Then our fight is settled and all is forgiven. 😂🤣😂 Your daughter trying to slyly slip by out of frame at the mention of food, about killed me! How sweet!

[@centraltexashomestead-mike4956]

We have the same stove and after 22 years working as a chef after we clean the top we use Weiman cook top clean and shine and it make it easy to clean.

[@lifewithlois7262]

You 2 are very busy ... My little house is 122 yrs old and believe me it not level... God Bless💕 You 2 are awesome 💕💕💕💕

[@1870s]

Very busy and thank you 🥰

[@kno1985]

I have the same gas range stove. Always, always gets so gross after cooking. Yes, its always a pain to clean as well.

[@ritaferguson3149]

Ya'll are great together! I do a lot of smiling and laughing out loud. You lift my spirits every time I watch your video! Please keep it up. Stay well and stay safe! 💕

[@terricrisman5281]

I am so glad you said 3trips to the big box store. I have always grumbled at this. You are in good company.

[@allisonhartley6712]

I have that exact stove and it is horrible to keep clean. It is a magnet for everything!

[@HannahMattox]

I am So glad to know I'm not the only one that has a constantly dirty gas stove 😂 I don't get it! It was nothing like this on an electric stove, and my sister's glass top never gets so grody 😂😂

[@HannahMattox]

I just love you guys ❤️ Todd is only a year older than my big brother, and even though he's old enough to actually be my dad, you guys have a parent feel to me while still not seeming to be old enough to be my parents. My dad was over 40 when I was born, brother was 18, but my best friend for years was old enough to (in years) be my grandmother, but she felt more like my big sister. But the easiest thing is to just say I adore you guys, with not putting you in any age group or position of Parenthood... You're just awesome folks, and I hope to watch you guys forever ❤️

[@CreatingEssence]

Breakfast with the homesteaders! :-D I'm just like you in my visions of things, Rachel, and God bless him, Josh is like Todd. He just knows me well enough to carry on and do what I ACTUALLY want.

[@1870s]

Lol, our sweet husbands. My daughter is a trooper dealing with her parents youtubing, lol

[@pamelastokes2964]

I truly love you guys! You two are an absolute hoot. You work together so well and are still real. Y'all don't try to hide your faults, mistakes, or whoops moments. You show your challenges and your yeah, we did it moments. I wish only good things for y'all.Pam in South Carolina

[@SuttonsDaze]

If you're not a messy cook, you're doing it wrong.....lol I can't wait to get back to a gas stove :-)

[@1870s]

Oh good, I feel better now

[@debraphillips12]

@@1870s you should you do a fabulous job! Thank you for all the great video! 😊

[@dorothyhatcher4714]

I could fill your table at least 10 times with my kitchen supplies I love love kitchen anything.I have 6 muffin tins from wee to large. I have 3 adult grandkids that will have a blast free shopping for kitchen supplies in my kitchen. Be sure your kids don’t need your extra. I love your kitchen cabinets. You two are the hardest working couple I have ever seen.

[@AlmostHomestead]

"On this weeks episode of hoarders" Hilarious! Gave us a good laugh. Nice to hear about real life. Who hasn't had a moment of frustration at the hardware store. Sounds like you handled it lovingly Todd. 🙂 Making progress guys, very nice. We were surprised at the age of some stuff that we found in our cabinets when we moved. You guys are really getting a lot done there.

[@1870s]

It's going well, just call it marriage strengthening exercise, lol

[@grammyspieface1]

Yep been there too!!I do the same thing,lol...

[@cherylnugent3240]

LOL! Todd reminds me of my husband so much!

[@shawnamarcum3077]

Love watching you guys! I started canning this year and now I’m obsessed. Glad I found ya’ll, much ❤️ from Ohio.

[@1870s]

That is awesome! Happy you found us!

[@bjquilts29]

I can so relate. Been married 52 years, to the same man! God bless.

[@marilyncapehart663]

Thanks Todd & Rachel 5-9-2022👍🏽♥️

[@deborahkelley8641]

It’s always great to minimize. 😀every project will be worth it, Wonderful endings. Enjoy your weekend reviews. 🙏💕🍀👼 a thought with your canned fish. You could make fish cakes.this rental property was built in 1949. Waving as always from VA.

[@1870s]

Yes going to make fish cakes with the canned salmon. We grew up calling them salmon patties and served over rice with white gravy.

[@kgs2127]

Check the lids on some of your bigger spice bottles they may fit a regular canning jar (I know the ones from the "sprinkle cheese" as my kids call it i.e . parmesan do).

[@1870s]

Oh thanks for that reminder!

[@blissfulacresoffgridhomest2098]

And here I thought I was unique! I get so frustrated when it feels like my husband is just squashing my dreams or ideas with all the technical reasons why not! That's okay he loves me anyway!

[@1870s]

Oh their logic can be so frustrating 😆

[@lindakrause8793]

I so love watching you two! Such a team of friends! But I know your marriage is not perfect. My Troy and I were so blessed in our marriage. We only argued a few times the 25 years we were together. However, that doesn't mean our marriage was perfect and i don't believe any other marriage is either. **But** as you two, we had a blessed marriage. I lost Troy in 2013 to cancer. I miss him more today than i did then. You two stay loving and take care of each other while you can!

[@debraraiche3327]

:))))....us women (and Men) Know exactly what we want! Thank goodness....LOVE!!! So glad you attempted/did your bathroom project on your own!!! Feels so good!! Thanks for your videos!

[@vjohnson2400]

Rachel you’re a woman after my own heart. Todd you’re brilliant and thoughtful. Gotta get worse before it gets better!

[@jennifersiegrist8440]

My stove is the same way, my hubby is a messy cook. Lol ❤️

[@rosanna3714]

I love your weekend reviews. Can't wait to see the kitchen cabinets and the bathroom remodel.

[@1870s]

Thanks, videos should be up by the end of the month

Five guys! is the best! yum yum yum. You guys are not kidding around when tackling projects inside the house... I need some of that motivation to finish the 24 open remodeling projects we have on the house hahaha. (and also, I will totally judge you for dipping tater tots in ranch.... you know better than that! plus everybody knows that they are way better dipped in mayonnaise ;-) )

[@1870s]

Lol! Get after those projects or Karen will never let you buy a farm!

@@1870s shush.... ;-)

[@cynthiafisher9907]

Thanks for sharing all you accomplished, you guys are workhorses! About the stove, I have gas and I love it, but mine is always a mess as well. I think it’s the nature of the beast. I guess I have a higher tolerance for messes, though. It doesn’t drive me crazy too often. I could relate to your reaction to Todd’s negative remarks. When I get a vision for something, I’m pretty focused on it being exactly like I can see it in my mind. I’m sure I was a royal pain when we totally remodeled our 1910 house in 2008. My husband was sweet and patient with me as well. Love you guys!

[@1870s]

God bless our husbands, lol

[@onelittlemiracle241]

Ok, I finished the video. You two are adorable! Great teamwork. No wonder we all love your channel.

[@1870s]

You're the best!

[@laurab8547]

Old video, but was so excited about you guys having the same cow butter dish that we do! Kind of dumb, but I loved it!

[@1870s]

It has since broke, so we don't have it anymore ♥

[@thehoganhomestead7948]

My gas stove is disgusting after I use it too, so you are not alone!

[@1870s]

I'm about to line it with foil, lol

[@blissfulacresoffgridhomest2098]

I cook on a propane camp stove. It's harder to clean then a regular stove top. I decided to move it to a different area in the kitchen and forgot I had cardboard that had grease spots on my cardboard wall. Filmed a couple of videos and guess how I found out?! Not going to redo those videos but you can bet they won't be in the next ones!

[@1870s]

Oh no!!!

[@13MoonsOverMayhem]

That could have totally been my husband and I in Home Depot and Lowes, lol. Our house isn't as old, but we're still renovating most of it, so I totally get where you're at with the constant busy-ness and having things stacked everywhere. Looking forward to an ending, ohh....maybe before summer. I hope. Well, inside the house, outside we have years of work ahead.

[@1870s]

Our first two years focused on the land now we are finally spending some time on the inside. Have fun with your projects!

[@onelittlemiracle241]

It's nice to see real life. Being from the South, that sounds like a good old fashioned hissy fit. We all have 'em sometimes. It's wonderful when your mate knows how to handle it without making it worse or shaming you. Sometimes you just have to get it out and over with. You're a good man, Todd.

[@1870s]

Right on ♥

[@freedomhomesteadky]

Loving these weekends in review!

[@1870s]

Thanks for watching, hope you got a giggle or two

[@denisebrady6858]

Hey Guys I cannot remember watching this video, so I watched again & laughed all the way through it as you are both so much " IN LOVE WITH ONE ANOTHER " amazing video xx Cheers Denise - Australia

[@thalleshoward3962]

Todd is a smart guy and keeping the wifey happy.

[@1870s]

He's too kind to me

[@tinacostner3069]

I think I have the same stove that you do. Love it and hate it.

[@TheBarefootMama]

First video I've watched! Loved your weekend in review, such realness and honesty! Excited to watch more videos

[@1870s]

So glad you found us. Hope you hope on board and have a fun ride with us!

[@reneep9968]

Who doesn’t love sloppy Joes! and tator tots! You guys get more done in 2 days then most do in 2 months! They say that if you can make it through a remodel you can make it through anything. LOL! You can definitely see the love you have for each other & the life you have. Blessings..

[@1870s]

Awe thanks. Nearing the end of both of these projects and I can't wait!!

[@BearBottomAcres]

I love your sense of humor. Fun video. ~Heather

[@1870s]

Thank you!

[@jonabriggs8829]

Oh Man, what a beautiful Sunset...I'd give my Right Arm to live in a Tiny House there,lol

[@azdesertrat9104]

All REAL marriages are NOT perfect 😊 I had many times when I too got 'snippy' with my husband and vice versa. Marriage is about building a strong partnership that produces VALUE. It's about give and take, compromises, and working hard together to do the work to make this partnership work. Too many marriages end in divorce probably because not enough of those people were will to do the work. It does take patience, discipline, forgiveness, putting the family first and above all, love. My folks didn't have a perfect marriage, I don't think one exists. But I saw what they went through together to raise seven children and some of them (especially me) were very spoiled and needy! 😂 BUT, they were my examples of what a strong marriage and commitment to one another looked like, and that's all I ever wanted. Thanks for being honest, open and sharing. Obviously, your marriage is one just like my parents had - strong!

[@allisonlavine8178]

Love to see you two keeping it real! :)

[@1870s]

So real, lol

[@laurielyon1892]

My bathroom renovation happened within a few months of moving into our older home built in 1930 because we found out the only thing that worked correctly was the toilet but it leaked-that was the easy fix. This started back in 2014 and it still isn’t done. My only light is a night light. We need to re-wire and get a new breaker box set up but everything else has taken priority. Too much to comment about. My husband mentioned we needed to put a dishwasher in for me. I declined. I said bathroom first.

[@deltorres2100]

Rachel I love a gas stove I’ve always had one and my trick is and I have a white one my trick is I cook every day trip pretty much as well as you I cook homemade meals so on Fridays which is tomorrow I will take all the grits off and I will spray ammonia Windex really Windex all around and I will walk away for 15 minutes and when I come back I use a small scouring pad or an SOS pad and it is super easy to clean then I get some napkins clean it up finish it up with another thing of Windex or even some bleach

[@deltorres2100]

Omg my love never see my VISIONS..,till it’s ✅ done

[@ahandmadehomestead]

I feel like my husband squashes everything I say too! In fairness, I probably do the same to him, but I feel like I’m more open minded. Maybe? Sometimes I forget how things used to be before we started living more “naturally”. I forget that things like manwich and tater tots exist! Then I am like... gosh. They say this is the simple life, but buying hamburger buns, a package of meat, can of sauce and bag of potatoes seems a lot simpler than what I’m doing! Lol!! Balance. 😉

[@1870s]

Todd appreciates balance way more than I do, but throw backs are fun and Grace goes along way!

[@valeried4504]

You got a lot done 👍, congratulations on 5k...

[@1870s]

Thank you Valerie!

[@margiebenson2067]

Sweet

[@dschaechter1]

I have the same issue

[@Greens5511]

How cool....ur stove looks exactly like mine 😉 I really like mine except when I started to can with it, the corner under the grate gets so hot that the little bumper that sits between the grate and the stove kinda got soft and then stuck to the grate so when I took it off to clean it kinda tore.

[@1870s]

Ours did that too!

[@robertmaciver130]

i have the same stove hard to keep clean you right

[@HomesteadDad]

You guys are just the messiest cooks, ha! You should see our stove with the kids cooking, it gets gross in a hurry. I’ve never eaten at a five guys, I’ll have to try it.

[@1870s]

Filthy animals we are! Oh you should totally try it, FYI for first timers the regular fry could easily be split between 3 people

[@bill-chichi9701]

You guys gotta try Red Robin burgers. They will knock your socks off. 🍔🍺

[@francinelarsen3303]

You said you got your salmon done, but when I saw you cutting open the freezer bags, it was Cod. Did you do salmon in addition to cod?

[@lynsmith2698]

Love you guys....you are so real. Nothing wrong with tater tots and ranch Todd. hehhehehehe Now i want some. geez

[@anneturner2018]

❤️❤️❤️

[@AngiesPantry58]

🤗

[@grannybee6805]

Not judging here. Papa Bruce said the sloppy joes and tater tots sounded really good, so I will fold up my toque tomorrow and do the throw back thing.

[@1870s]

Alright enjoy

[@CluelessHomesteaders]

Lard makes em better! You guys like cheese, try putting minced garlic and shredded cheese into the dough, delicious!

[@1870s]

Oh that sounds great!!

[@dustyflats3832]

Be happy your stove is black. Things really show up on white. After 38 years of marriage plus-I know that tone🤣. Do things while you can as it gets less as you get older.

[@SheMovedMountains]

We are have been cleaning and purging this weekend too! Busy busy. My brother's family loves five guys, I haven't tried it yet, will have to now. Your bathroom will look beautiful. Thanks for sharing, you two. Canning Fish, hm!

[@1870s]

Worth trying it, might be the next best thing!

[@americaneden3090]

Did u ever do a review on how the canned fish turned out?

[@1870s]

Not a stand alone video but I know I showed making tuna salad with it in a vlog somewhere. It's all gone so that says something. I'd definitely do it again

[@americaneden3090]

@@1870s ty🤗

[@fourdayhomestead2839]

Just caught this video. I've had to take on my own home remodel, due to negative attitude & lack of support from my bf. Luckily I have a brother who is supportive of my style & he's helping me do my projects as I want them.