WIFE TALK ft Melody Xaba | Roles and Responsibilities in a marriage

[@matodzi01]

Melody is definitely here to drop wisdom! No sugar coating!!! 💛💯

[@sasha1481]

YES YES AND YES! The conversation about gender roles is so important especially for young African girls. You are not signing up to be someone's maid and you are not seeking a leader in marriage. Melody literally spoke to the way I think in that even in my relationship, I refuse to clean his place unless it's a team effort. My man is thankfully very self-sufficient and even when I visit him for extended periods, I wait and observe how he maintains his space and I follow accordingly. Even if he's been at work all day and I've been home, I do not give in to the temptation to clean his place unless I've made a mess myself. You certainly reap what you sow, thank you ladies.

[@lizzybopape4920]

We need part 2 this is what I needed ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tshegofatsolilly926]

This conversation is everything....May God grow your channel Buli you've just gained yourself a fan❤ #NotificationGang🙌

[@BokangPh]

Part 2 with Melody is definitely needed, this was good and we easily fall for these gender stereotypes that families and society put out for us. But at the end of it, it's the responsibility of the couple to determine their lifestyle and what rocks their boat Also @Buli I'm with you on the ironing part, I don't mind doing anything (within reason of course) mara ironing miss me on that fam. Ironing shirts for the week is exhausting and that extra one net for control in case they change their minds. Andizi

[@BuliMakhubo]

i think a part two is needed! I've been receiving such comments about a part 2 . I don't like ironing period !! ill rather find another outfit if my first option is wrinkled lol yhhhuuu i cant deal. thank you for watching !! i appreciate you

[@simplygugu]

Andizi Nam girl sorry

[@zizydapoet7262]

I love this woman called Melody Xaba. She's beautiful inside out. Not only is she my part time lecturer but also my role model

[@itumelengmbane5922]

Come through new subbies. Wife Talk is 💥💥💥 You are teaching us how to date well. The true preparation starts in dating. Sizo jola smart yazi. Or bathini aba zalwane sizo court shippa smart.

[@BuliMakhubo]

LOL thanks sis Xx

[@laurettembaya474]

part 2 with Melody , PLEASE

[@WellRead93]

Hi Buli these are very insightful conversations. I'm unmarried but watch the wife tags religiously. Can you also have married men who will have honest and open conversations on their expectations from women. Thanks.

[@BuliMakhubo]

Wow that one would be intense ! lol but i'll jot this idea down too and ask the Holy Spirit if we can go ahead and do it. thank you so much for the support thus far Xx

[@matodzi01]

Buli Mazwi It would be great if you do something like that with your husband too. And how you guys navigated roles and responsibilities.

[@BuliMakhubo]

@@matodzi01 I think we can share how we do things in a Q&A because its not that complicated lol it would be a very short video lol

[@nolumakipodcast3195]

Melody is fire lol, this chat is definitely helpful totally love the part of setting a constitution and a vision.

[@BuliMakhubo]

She is intense ! lol i loved setting a constitution too ! thanks for watching Xx

[@becomingkea7759]

Yeeey I have subscribed, am not married yet but am loving the knowledge am getting from this series, thank you sesi may the good Lord do you good.

[@BuliMakhubo]

It's something i wish i had before i got married so you're never too early to start Xx

[@becomingkea7759]

@@BuliMakhubo I agree hey, one major thing am taking away from this series so far is the importance of pre-marital counseling.

[@tumelobokgwathile7154]

Part 2 with Melody is really needed!! Im so glad I discovered your channel ❤️

[@tlalylemeke7240]

Melody is not here to stroke egos! She's here to set facts straight. Melody is my first love in the next life!!!

[@maboocie]

I love this ! We want more!

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you my friend ! love ya

[@b_reshoketswe2777]

We really need a part 2 with Ms Melody please 👏🏿👌💜

[@anointedchosen141]

Great ladies. It would be nice next time to go through an African makoti's duties as well.

[@hlengimageba9206]

God introduced this channel to me yesterday , umh i watched da episode u did with Mpoomy Ledwaba and wow i made sure i subscribe to ur channel too Buli. your work is wonderful , i like it dat you dont just give us the human mind but u allow God to speak through u and ur guests. This channel is going to grow we need to see you having your own TV show in Gods right time. we love you, i have started following you and Kevin on Instagram too.

[@letlhogonolomalele9921]

Loved this. It is such an important convo. Please please please Buli consider inviting Rachel Kolisi. #LoveWifeTalk.

[@SerameAndBeyond]

Beautiful conversation... I really wish more ladies who are going into marriage can listen to this

[@tsepisompangane5704]

I truly love this channel, i'm really hooked on this!!!!! we need such on tv!!!!!!

[@anithamanjanja3375]

Omg I absolutely loved this maybe because I relate so much with almost everything said. This has become my favorite channel.

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you Anitha .. i appreciate it Xx

[@MbaliMfundo]

Wow!! The amount of wisdom in this video 🔥. We definitely need more!

[@BuliMakhubo]

thank you so much. God bless you Xx

[@changweaishamwape9331]

I’ve watched a couple of your videos but this one has got me to subscribe. This was good. ❤️

[@BuliMakhubo]

Haaa ! After all this time ?? Lol ❤️❤️ thank you 🙏🏾

[@changweaishamwape9331]

Buli Makhubo 😄 can you imagine,. Am two months away from getting married so this is so timely to me

[@thenjiwegumpo227]

Melody is full of wisdom.The vlog was lovely l learnt a lot.Im waiting for part two.

[@GracefullyTori]

wish this was longer. i learnt so much . maybe you could have a panel of wives some day

[@hlengimageba9206]

wow this is a brilliant idea i hope Buli noted it.

[@phindilemanana5840]

Mam Melody is such a force yooooh!!!

[@BuliMakhubo]

100% !

[@b_reshoketswe2777]

Your channel and video topics are such a breath of fresh air, so knowledgeable and inspiring thank you sis ❤🙏🏾

[@lebogangpetlele8998]

I love this... Good one ladies 💐💐

[@matodzi01]

Thank you Buli. Such a necessary series, God bless you. ❤️

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you for watching sis Xx

[@nakedirameetse2770]

Loved this. I can totally relate. Uncomfortable conversations are a must in marriage

[@zamafulelacindi9767]

We need more from Melody

[@kegomaota340]

Thanks Buli, very helpful. Your face at 10:05, Sis I feel you. Quick one: One day can you touch on the influence of friends before and in marriage, opposite sex friends and stuff how does that change if it does at all. Thanks

[@BuliMakhubo]

Hey Kego !! i think that is such a great topic! I'll jot it down and pray about how it can be executed . thanks so much Xx

[@sisiphomzondi5421]

Yes definitely, especially opposite sex friends

[@mukonazwothemudzanani3729]

This is an eye opener 👏👏

[@KathrinAmadhila]

This conversations are helping us 👏👏👏

[@nokuthulamdluli3289]

This is fire Buli!!!! 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@mashako4347]

I love wife talk series. So insightful. 😍

[@theparttimehomemaker]

Very interesting discussion, even though I don't agree with everything that was said. Xx

[@tshenolomasilela6360]

Lots of Love Darlings! Lots of love!

[@misskaykayRSA]

Melody is going in hard hay. I love this.

[@zinangoni297]

So many lessons! My word!

[@happinessrasepae8477]

Well me and my hubby have not had that conversation of roles and responsibilities..we went with the flow and i can see now dat Lack of communication between us has build a lot of burden and moods swings...we wil both do things but at the end of it why couldnt the other person volunteered to do it maybe because of the one who has done it was exhausted or feeling busy and still felt obliged to do the duties

[@thandekambatha7151]

Mrs Xaba you are so wise :-)

[@thabiledladla7424]

I really enjoyed watching this video, such amazing content.

[@bettyciamukansi6842]

Thank you this was worth watching 🌸💃💃💃

[@kholiwembhamali9504]

I wish I had seen this 8 years ago before I got married 😁

[@faithmmbi5706]

I really enjoy your videos, I even recommend them to my friends... even though I wish you posted more frequently(no pressure)

[@BuliMakhubo]

Hey Faith ! i honestly aim to do so this month and post weekly . Because im not the most "conventional" youtube channel for lack of a better word, creating content takes more. I also hold back because have to wait for peoples schedules to work with mine . However lets see how this month goes. i'll do my best

[@ntsakisibaloyi6426]

The wisdom ❤❤❤

[@thabileramootla1595]

Most of us messed it from the onset now we suffer the consequences

[@nhlakanipho_mazibuko]

Notification squad 💃🔥

[@thathokuhlelihle]

😂😂😂😂 The head killed me.

[@debramontymmatau5136]

This is beautiful

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you Debra Xx

[@khunindlovu3310]

Why is KZbin sabotaging me and not notify me haii

[@mahlengimadonsela493]

great topic

[@tshepang_gm]

Wisdom 💕

[@msphasha6321]

Yoh, My premarital is 8 weeks them we have one on ones

[@gugulethumthimkhulu6480]

Can you please talk about submission

[@BuliMakhubo]

A heavy topic ! lol noted sis

[@nkhen_c357]

@@BuliMakhubo it shouldn't be. It will only be heavy if we do not understand it

[@Thandi899]

Thanks for this video Please talk about building relationships with the inlaws

[@BuliMakhubo]

Hey fellow Mrs ! I hope i can soon / one day. I'm also still getting accustomed to having a new group of people that i get to call family. Hubby got to know my family more while we were dating, so its easy for him and im still getting there with his family so once things are good and settled im sure i will be able to add my two cents without looking like a hypocrite or not sympathizing with those who might now have it easy ( i hope you get me ! not that my in laws are tough.. they are really kind people ) .. thank you for watching Xx

[@Thandi899]

@@BuliMakhubo I definitely get you. I've been married just about 5 months now. My inlaws are great people but it's still been an adjustment nonetheless. I would definitely would love to hear how others navigate through expections from them, trying to accomodate and sometimes even please them but still in a space that's comfortable and healthy for everyone involved. Will keep an eye out for when you finally upload that video, thanks😃