RICKEY SMILEY talks KATT WILLIAMS, LOSING HIS SON, BETRAYAL from FRAT! Love You Moore Show| Ep. 44

[@lekeitaslaton160]

No matter what I'm going through, I will still serve you, God... keep up the God work, Ricky

[@lynellesiler1872]

Hi

[@Rollin3_withAP]

I met Ricky at the bus station in Birmingham when I was on my way to my 1st duty station. His words to me was don’t go out to Texas and disrespect your family. 20 years later and I still remember that conversation.

[@EvolvingMama_]

Ricky Smiley is the only celebrity I have met in person. I grew up in the DMV listening to his morning show on the way to school. My family is also from Montgomery, Alabama 🫶🏾 I recognized him at the airport. I did not want to bother him but I had to ask for a pic to show my mama. He took a picture with my daughters. He was so kind and made us laugh 🥲 a few months later I lost my oldest in a car accident, so when I heard about the loss of his son I prayed for him deeply b/c only grieving parents understand the pain 💔When he spoke on the story of Joab ‼️but I’ve learned to have the same mindset “If I can get through that , I can get through anything” everything else seems so trivial. Despite it all... God has been faithful 🙏🏾

[@lornagreen8961]

God gives us priceless moments that carry us when nothing else can.. bless you🙏🏾 He's so good. And Rickey is truly a child of God moving in his purpose 💜💪🏾💜

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@mesheher6820]

I saw you perform at the comedy club in Tampa last Nov, & had the pleasure of seeing you again at the Que Conclave a few months ago with Ben Crump, DL, & Joe Torry. You were the only one of them who didn't hang out every night & party after your obligations ended, lol. You were out! Now I get it 🤗. Much respect​@rickeysmiley-12

[@thecrystaljexperience]

Beautifully expressed, and I completely agree. It's unfortunate that social media has, in many ways, desensitized people to the point where hate and ignorance are spread so carelessly online. 🙏🏿💞

[@andreamccray6474]

We lost our older son, also named Brandon in a drowning incident in July, 2009. Ricky everything you spoke of has been my experience. I, too recognize that sadness in other people's eyes. I pray that God keeps all parents who have lost a child in His care.

[@ZoniaC-e9k]

Ricky Smiley... It was me, the mother whose son (Jordan) was killed in Chicago. Today, September 16th, marks now 5 years, and what you are describing about the initial pain is describing mine... It's ours... BUT GOD! I've never felt God's arms wrapped around me so tight as I did during that time. But I continue to live on because the world doesn't get to write my baby's last page, I DO.. That's why I keep getting up! "JC MATTERS EXTENDED FAMILY OF LOVE" if you can just reach out to me. I would be more than happy to pray with you brotha. 🤗🙏🏾

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@ZoniaC-e9k]

@@rickeysmiley-12 you're welcome sir. Thank you for sharing your gift with us. I've loved you since you and Steve did Megafest in 2005! 🥰

[@MsTineyhighlyfavored]

@RickeySmiley, I just want to say I appreciate you for the inter action. we had the unconditional love you showed me in Daytona beach for your birthday, 2023. You let me know that God has my back, and there will be light at the end of the tunnel.. After losing my Mom in 2010, I never got professional help. I was in such a dark place in my life. But I started following you 2 years ago, and your humbleness, transparency, and respect for people gave me so much hope. May God bless your soul, and please know I love you, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it .. Ms. Tineyhighlyfavored Jones🙏🏽❤️🤍🕊 By the way, I have come to see you in Dania Florida, Birmingham, Funnybone in Columbus, ohio, 2024 Hollywood Florida!! You help my soul❤

[@theChosen2017]

This helping me a lot sir, God bless you man much love. I'm raising my son that 7 since he was 7 months, mother left, got divorced it's just me and him. But I feel he changing my life. Pray for us as we keep going, my name is Moses his name is chosen ✊🏽💪🏽💯🙏🏽​@@rickeysmiley-12

[@xxmoniquexx1966]

I love how the fact that throughout it All Mr. Smiley remains Gracious & Humble.

[@ericamiller3585]

Facts on God

[@michellesimonton2764]

I lost the love of my life 9 months ago, the father of my oldest son, has forever changed me I have watched my son break while breaking myself. I watched his mother break and to see the sadness and hurt in her eyes has hurt my heart. His children are forever changed his grandchildren are forever changed our family and lives are forever changed. Rickey thank you for sharing your pain your love and your time with the world. Addiction is ugly and more damaging to people left behind who have to deal with the aftermath of it all. I’m praying for you I love you and you are not alone. May God continue to shine on you and through you. 🙏❤️

[@ladylibra5152]

Rickey Smiley is so humble. That's the God in him. Much love to you both, Men of God.

[@kasandrawhitehead4398]

This episode was truly insightful and a blessing. When Ricky Smiley mentioned Job what a true testament. May God continue to bless your mind, your heart and the love you have for others. And to you Willie Moore Jr. keep up the amazing work you do with your show, I laugh, I cried and I truly thank you for it all.

[@tebogomaimane3582]

Wow, what an interview. I don't have children, but when he spoke about his son, I could feel his pain. May the Holy Spirit continue to comfort Rickey. Much love from South Africa

[@mamag3856]

This interview was like being in therapy …heart to heart…and you see ME for the losses I have experienced being a strong support for others..but misunderstood when I needed it.THANK YOU Rickey and Willie❤❤❤❤

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@shawnyabrown8111]

I absolutely love the honesty that Ricky showed in this talk....I am sure that there are many who needed to hear his message...

[@adriannefarmerministries7617]

Thank you Willie Moore for this episode. Thank you Rickey Smiley for your vulnerability and your transparency. I lost my 3rd child due to ectopic pregnancy. The part you shared about it not going away and grief being a process. Sometimes I bury it too much for the grief of losing him and not birthing anymore children. As you began to share your grief the Lord showed me yet still dealing with mine. As heavy as each tear feels, I am grateful for every time that the Lord shines light on this much needed area of healing. I can't thank you enough for your openness.

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@BuWu31]

​@rickeysmiley-12 ..... You are indeed "a MAN" sir.... RQQ TO YOU QUE......LOVE...

[@charjohn9018]

I have always loved Ricky Smiley for being genuine and honest. The was one of the most honest and heartfelt interviews I have ever seen. Thanks Willie Moore Jr and thank you Rickey Smiley. Gods hands are upon both of you gentlemen. Keep bringing us laughter.

[@makiebahatton2628]

My heart goes out to Rickey for Brandon! The Lord will make all things new, and there's no sorrow Heaven can't heal! ❤ keep walking tall in The Lord!

[@kendrawinchester3704]

I lost my first born son 9 years ago. You will never be the same and it does change you permanently. I have PTSD and I tried to go back to work right after and not go to grief counseling. It came back to haunt me shortly after to the point where I was blacking out at work. I have triggers, crying spells. You just learn to live with the pain.

[@charturner7527]

Rickey Smiley, thank you for your honesty, your heart, and your resilience. Thank you for the love you have for others. 💖

[@demetresthomas8041]

This is by far one of the best episodes ever! I love Ricky Smiley!!!!!❤

[@kimr5479]

I love Rickey Smiley also & the RSMS & CREW!👍😊

[@mekemeke8497]

Oh Rickey, I will definitely continue to pray for you.

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@mekemeke8497]

@rickeysmiley-12 thank you too. I have lost 3 important people in my life. I rarely talk out loud about it because in loss, I realize most people will never care about my loss like I will. Leadership at work may say, take all the time you need, but after that bereavement period (which I never take, nor do I tell them when I lose a family member), the expectation is to return to work and function. So, in knowing that my grief will be forever since 3 puzzle pieces of my heart are missing, I will have my moments privately when I need to, all while knowing that their is a God, because he keeps my mind. And, I know if he can keep my mind, he can keep yours too. War Eagle!!🤣

[@fah232]

I love the heart that Rickey has for children, and particularly for black boys...

[@dariussmiley2811]

And black menz

[@jew-el1]

👀

[@rodcooper7532]

Stop lol​@@jew-el1

[@sarahb6163]

I bet kitty kat like big black menzzzz as well look at Friday

[@sarahb6163]

Let me reiterate I bet kitty kat like black menzzzz too

[@Veronica-w5w]

I have so much respect for Rickey Smiley.

[@youuuknooow7699]

Good for you his paid employee. 😮🙄🙄🙄

[@leshaopinion3088]

He’s not lying about the grieving it’s been 4/4/20 since my son passed and I still haven’t processed it bcuz I had to be strong for my family sure I am my little moments here and there, but I dnt think I have grieved yet much 💜💜

[@navacoppin5751]

This touched me! Only God is keeping Ricky! No weapon formed against him shall prosper!

[@vanessahardrick4115]

Rickey they weren't the real fraternity those aren't the brothers. Hopefully one day it's addressed how Rickey was treated. My mom always said be careful how you treat people You never know if there one of God's soldiers. God got it he is a healer. We will see one day the greatness of Rickey how he overcame the fraternity hurt.

[@judithwilliams3863]

what happened exactly?

[@katrinamorris7709]

One of the best and authentic interviews I've seen in a long time. Great Job Willie and thank you Rickey.

[@melissarivera2643]

This interview was real!!!!!!!! I felt him!!!!

[@pocahantuz131]

I met Rickey Smiley at his book signing in Dallas, such a great guy! Been listening for years & loves what he stands for especially when it comes to raising kids. Forever a fan!🙌🏽🤎

[@evangelistjones1563]

This interview was such a soothing and healing balm for me. I didn't realize how I was holding back; trying to be that strong Sister. Thank you Rickey for helping others in the midst of your struggles. God bless you and continue to cover and keep you.

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@YEP_THATS_IT11]

I'm OVER being the strong one!

[@ulalyons9257]

Fatherless kids is an impacting issue for children.

[@rashedabrown6797]

I have the utmost respect for Rickey Smiley. Even in his time of grief, he still helped others. Just shows the kind of person he is and the type of heart he possesses. May God continue to bless him and give him the strength to endure on the days he feels he can’t go on. This was one of my favorite shows soo far. Thank you Willie Moore Jr for this platform.

[@andrealipsey94]

This episode made me cry and blessed my heart. I lost my only daughter 3yrs ago. And 1yr ago lost my mom on my daughter's birthday. It's so hard, but I push through and help others. Thank you, Willie and Rickey. Continued blessings for you both ❤

[@makiebahatton2628]

I love Rickey Smiley! He really brought kindness, structure, and standards back.

[@THEVCM23]

Ain't nobody with Rickey throughout all of this? 😢Goodness.

[@annegreene7690]

Ricky your words remind me of my Mothers’,she said,”the body is dead,you can’t mourn now!-the body have to be buried.” “Handle your business!” You are blessed. 💐💐👏🏽👏🏽

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@DonzellaBurton]

This was an amazing interview!!! I always liked and respected Rickey Smiley but this interview made me have a totally different level of respect him as a MAN not even a celebrity!!!!!!! 🤩

[@melvabutterfly7961]

When I tell you this interview BLESSED me! MY LORD! Bless both of you men of God!❤

[@slpclass]

I’m so touched by the wisdom and ministry of this man of God. Your pain has a purpose. You are loved and admired. It matters that you were born. God Bless you always.

[@charlenejackson3093]

Thanks for your transparency and wisdom. I have never lost a child, but I did lose my husband of 27 years unexpectedly 3 years ago. That void will always be there. It's something that you never get over. You just learn to get through it by God's grace everyday. Keeping you in my prayers and ordering your book.🙏🙏🙏

[@sherrywarren616]

Thank you so much ❤ This was a beautiful heartwarming interview!!! I love Rickey Smiley so much. With all he’s been through and still going through.. he always takes time to love and care for others. He has a beautiful soul ❤ I came across your Show by accident.. I have subscribed.

[@porshacohen7941]

Such respect for this man…Here’s to having more men like this in the world that lead their families well.

[@blackknight1906]

I have been a Rickey Smiley fan for years. But I have a new sense of admiration for this brother after seeing this podcast. 🤙🏾

[@NickieJai]

Now I have never heard of Mr. Willie until today. Because I follow Rickey Smiley I stumbled across this video. This was an amazing interview. I will be following you Sir!!

[@patricegrace437]

Wow! That is how we are supposed to do it. Serve in the midst of trials and tribulations. My God I feel this!🙏🏾❤️

[@karensnipes9118]

Willie Moore thank you for your words . There is something in all of us that needs more healing.❤

[@funkenstein151]

Rickey, your Kappa Kappa Psi bruhs love you!! Keep doing what God has called you to do!! AEA

[@marcelamaurepass767]

Grace and peace to you brother Rickey may God continue to give you strength 🫂 🙏🏽 keep your head up, thanks Willie 💕 🙏🏽

[@katricewhywhy1888]

I am a Rickey Smiley fan! I saw him when his younger son and cousin? Was playing for Irondale Titans little league football. He is so nice and hospitable when he doesnt have to be. May God continue to bless him and his family.

[@JustLaLa22]

I lost my mama in 2022 and I feel like this year it hit me the hardest.I'm the oldest so I had to be strong for my GMA ,my kids and siblings 2 of them are teens so it was a lot on me. I'll never be the same and I'm very traumatized scared every and anybody gonna pass ..I'm learning as I go to adapt but ain't no getting over the grieving process and my tolerance for certain things are at a 0. I choose to be grateful and happy about what and who I do still have. So I completely understand what he is saying on that part.🙏🏾

[@sharlinecobb609]

All I can say is That I have A love for Ricky Smiley like No Other…❤ I Thank God for allowing me have a listening ear, Open Heart and Mind to receive The message from Both Gentlemen… Earth Has No Sorrow, That Heaven Can’t Heal 🙏🏿

[@carolspain1074]

This interview with Rickey Smiley has been the best yet. I love what God is doing in his life and yours.

[@MinPamelaDBailey]

I want to thank you Both for being honest, open, and sincere in how you helped and encourage one another of the years. God has chosen you Brothers to pour into other men on how to handle your business and take care of those in the family. God fearing men who are willing to be service for Our God. God bless you, Both. My prayers are continually being lifted up for you, Both.

[@WillieMoorejrlive]

love ya much

[@diannahale1328]

Man. I absolutely love this show and I love both of you Men. God has definitely been good to you guys and his grace is sufficient. Thank you Willie and Rickey for your empowerment, encouragement, influence, Impact, motivation and love you both continued to give to the world even while going through your own storms. Thank you for letting your light so shine bright that all men shall see and glorify your Father in Heaven. Thank you for finding the strength to keep going even when you wanted to give up because in the darkness is when God does his best work and you both are living proof of that. I thank God for you both and I pray that God continues to bless you guys beyond measures and that you both will hear well done my good and faithful servants when that day comes that you have finished the race and kept the faith and gave us all that God has placed on the inside of you to give to this World. Blessing upon Blessings to you and your families.

[@lmkeys4success]

I'm proud of you Frat ! Keep doing what you're doing !

[@AverySwarn-b7i]

This was a great interview that I stumbled on! I really enjoyed it.

[@arigosa1024]

You are LOVED, Ricky Smiley.....

[@rbens362]

I love you, Rick, from BHM. Brandon was such a nice young man. He did some work at my house one day. When I first saw him, I said, "You're Ricky's son, Brandon." He smiled & humbly said, "Yes ma'am I am." Then we joked for a minute. I watched him from my window like a proud mama because he was working so hard that day. ❤

[@kennymcdonald7324]

God Bless you Ricky Smiley, your a class act brother 🙏🏿

[@aliciahogan509]

Awesome, Awesome interview. Thank you, Ricky Smiley, for all you do and who are you. Thank you for your podcast Willie Moore you just keep rising and reaching people with this awesome and Blessed podcast. God Bless you both!

[@mochacurves]

God bless you Mr. Smiley. You have a big heart and an amazing beautiful aura.

[@RodneyandCallie]

Absolute amazing interview.Ricky Smiley is truly a child of God . Grief is something you never get over you just learn to live with. Hardest thing to ever do in the world !❤

[@mdelgado6754]

An excellent interview. I have always liked Rickey Smiley. Thank you.

[@dadzgulclothing3738]

Bro this was the convo I've been waiting for! I love and listen to Rickey daily! Grieving the death of a child changes you FOREVER! I will keep him covered as he navigates the ebbs and flow of his emotions now that his son has transitioned. 💙🤍🙏🏾💜💛

[@feep303]

Yes it is. It has been 28 years for me. When you are a believer in God he will see you through the grieving process. God is amazing even through the emotional roller coaster process.

[@Francie315]

Love Ricky! Love, love Steve Harvey and absolutely love Katt Williams. I am praying for all of them and I can’t wait to read Rickey Smiley’s book!

[@calvinfelton4077]

This was an amazing interview. Kudos to Ricky for being so honest & forthcoming. It takes a lot of strength to share all of this. 🔥 💯

[@sabrinamj4850]

What a beautiful testimony, you are truly a blessing Mr Smiley.❤🙏

[@michelletaylor8346]

Two of the best that ever did it. We are Grateful for Transparency.

[@RSC63]

Wow I just found this channel by accident, well let me change that, it was not by accident!! It was an ordained find! Yo willie much love, respect and above all much continued blessings upon you my brotha! Your channel Carry a different spirit to it, that supernaturally comes through to the viewer. And with you at the Helm spearheading the vehicle makes it what it needs to be. Continued prayers for brotha Ricky! And may God bless this channel and take it and you, to heights you could not even think or imagine! Again, thank you man!

[@ReneeWilson-gf8yt]

Rickey Smiley always delivers in a real and authentic way offering up Vulnerability that makes it OK for the rest of us to get connected to our own feelings. My God! The strength & commitment to his born assignment is simply nothing more than divine order. I always leave with incredible insights and always so proud of the Man. Thank you & continue blessings….🙏🏼

[@awilliams382]

❤❤❤ My heart goes out for him. Watching my mom after my 18 years old brother passed away was hard. 30 years later and she’s still not the same person. To go through this and still put everybody’s needs before his own is one of the most selfless things. Extending love and grace to him and his family.

[@gloriaanderson3233]

I'm so grateful for this episode. It was transparency and healing. My son was murdered 2020. The pain is still there, but I thank God the depression and anxiety is gone. But I do need as will seek out counseling.

[@WillieMoorejrlive]

praying for you

[@nathanielozell246]

Rickey Smiley Is A Wonderful Person Just Awesome And So Humble And Funny Ass Hell.

[@maxinamcmillian7410]

This was a very heartfelt interview with Ricky Smiley, and he is a another real strong man as him being a Father and Grandfather. It's also a Blessing to see that he is willing to take care of his Grandchildred, that is so wonderful and amazing.

[@vannieciabrown3133]

Just a breath of fresh air on a Sunday evening.

[@WillieMoorejrlive]

thanks for watching

[@sheromewilson7877]

I pray that God continues to help Rickey keep his mind...he is truly an amazing person..the responsibility that is on his life is so heavy..i pray that God continues to helo him carry that load..

[@mariacaldwell4352]

This was a very informative show. I truly was blessed by Rickey and his transparency.

[@BMoreLady]

Once again, The Lord has breathed on this interview and provided healing for many. I to, am the person in the family that has to handle business to make sure everyone else is comfortable, then grieve later. That weight is heavy! Well done. Thank you!

[@rickeysmiley-12]

⁠ thanks for the lovely comment May the good lord bless you and your family abundantly

[@BMoreLady]

@@rickeysmiley-12 You are most welcome. You are continually in my prayers.

[@rickeysmiley-12]

@@BMoreLady Thanks for the love and support you on, it's been a wonderful year having fans like you solidly behind me I really do feel blessed having you as a fans it has been your support and prayer that has brought me so far and thanks again for always listening to my shows

[@SHAPATT75]

This was a deep show. My prayers are with Rickey Smiley and Willie Moore Jr. You have to have the strength and courage to tell your story and strength to listen to the story and stay strong within. I watched a comedy show of Deon Cole hurt from his mom's death and listening to Rickey talk about his selflessness and thinking about Dean's show let's regular people know that celebrities are human too and go through what we go through. Thank you for this podcast that allows the audience to see the behind the scene of Pastors, comedians, actors and singing artist. I love your platform

[@rubyredd6366]

Happy Birthday Greyson! Ricky, you're a great father, grandfather, and friend! 🎉❤🎉

[@WillieMoorejrlive]

🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾

[@karenwilliams4918]

Rickey I will always watch and listen to your radio show ❤🎉😊

[@jantanner6918]

SUCH A TOUCHING INTERVIEW. 🥹🙏🏾❤️

[@thefascinatingfee]

Yes it it! I listen to Rickey everyday and I’m so glad he is able to get this off his chest. I wish this interview was longer- he had another hour of stories to tell. We love you and we are sooo proud of you Rickey!!! Thank you for being you

[@Mahogany721]

WoW ... I am Sooo Grateful for this platform!!! It is Sssooo heartfelt and Sincere!! Wow.....

[@lisapalmer4041]

Enjoyed the show Blessings Ricky Smiley

[@valariejenkins8382]

Beautiful testimony !

[@s.j.l.8252]

Willie is a good listener. He doesn't talk over his guest and he isn't hell bent on finishing their sentences or pushing past their sentence to get to his next question.

[@antoinettewilliams2897]

I like listening to Mr. Smiley he has so much wisdom, love and kindness.

[@montieceoglesby7858]

Best episode, didn't loose a child but my older brother and I haven't dealt with his passing much just keeping myself busy. After watching I know I need counseling and it's ok. Thank you Ricky, and Willie❤

[@sharonjames5625]

Good morning Willie, I would like to thank you for having Rickey, on your show today. Rickey, thank you so much for sharing your life, pain, testimony of God’s goodness. Thank you for being a servant of God. I want to say that I’ve lost my parents, siblings, grandparents and many other relatives. Rickey, my grandson, passed and the hurt and pain of losing him, it’s totally indescribable! I wanna say that I really love and appreciate you! I pray God’s continued blessings and strength upon you and your family! God’s got you Man of God! Love, Prayer and Thanks.. I pray that one of these days, I would be able to meet you in person.. Sharon/Shreveport

[@WillieMoorejrlive]

love you thank you

[@michelefrison4377]

May God continues to keep you wrapped in His arms. Much love to and for you both.

[@joe103060]

Sincerest condolences, Ricky. Prayers for your daily strength. Losing a child changes you on a core level. Thank you for this interview. This was very good.

[@gladysbrown984]

This was a moving a great interview about keep trusting and serving God through the storms Wow that was something I cried while you were enduring all that pain you still thought about others like Paul in jail and while being in jail he still thought about the people teaching the gospel God Bless you Rickey and your fam🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️

[@sparkleakaivy]

This interview blessed me! I laughed and cried and then thought of God's goodness. Thank you for your willingness to shine

[@rowrow504]

Bless you, Rickey Smiley!!

[@stephaniegale880]

Rickey is so thoughtful. May God continue to bless you.

[@MelodyMaker151]

One of the greatest betrayals in my life came from a frat brother. I wasn't active for years because of it. I am thankful to be past it but it was not easy to get over.

[@tiffany79]

Same here with some of my sorors. It's an indescribable pain.

[@bjackson1904]

Interview was wonderful! Keep your head up Rickey! You are a wonderful human being!

[@WillieMoorejrlive]

god bless you

[@akaomplished8776]

Ricky, thank you for transparency when it comes to Greek life. " I'm not the same person." Whew..

[@RobertHelem]

I love love love Rickey Smiley A Christian man that is anointed and appointed .thank you Willie Moore first time listening😂 to you you got it goin on ..keep it moving .God is watching and blessing you😂❤❤

[@eunikajordan5401]

Great show!! Rickey thanks for opening up & showing your vulnerability. People really need to hear your story. Good luck on your book & continue to let God use you. God Bless You & your family!!

[@sheenathatgirlhoward8569]

Thanks I'm going through this right now nephew and mom months apart it the extreme grief for me I'm coping but it can be better pray for my family.

[@scorpio54williams96]

I have no idea how it feels because of the loss of a child. My Mom lost two children my brother and sister. Both of them passed away at a young age. My brother at 38 and my sister at 45. My father had already passed away so I can't imagine how my Mother felt. I grew up in Birmingham Alabama just like Ricky. I could see the pain and hurt in his eyes when he would talk about his son and all I could do was pray for him that God would ease his pain.