AVENTER GRAY talks JOHN GRAY, FIRST LADY DUTIES, SHE TELLS HER TRUTH! Love you Moore| Ep. 24

[@davilynreid9394]

I really love this woman of God. She really gave me encouragement. I was sinking into depression and saw no reason to think my situation could change. Thank you for letting God use you.

[@kellialexander4080]

"I have friends that I known for years; that I didn't know for years", what a message right there.

[@0709happy]

WOW

[@sondoshine]

That jumped out at me too! 🤯

[@cheryltaylor1693]

I have that testimony! I have family that l have been around all my life and didn’t know them.

[@mcstafford3]

Family that I have known for years that I don’t know

[@bellaendale7174]

While I agree..I also know that none of us have been there for no one for the entire time. I see friendship now as a relay..where we do our part and hand the baton to the next person.

[@ShakiraNicole83]

From this interview I learned the importance of making sure my relationship with God is more important than my relationship with my husband. Literally a total mindset shift. Thank you.

[@tamiward6225]

This makes all the difference in your marriage.

[@terryfrans235]

Yes!!!

[@charleneshanks9328]

From this interview I learned that I want to be what God created me to be and not what I made myself to be! In Jesus name Amen!

[@nursed.porchae990]

I know that's right. Same

[@sash3jm]

Amen. A form of Godliness but denying the power there of. The blood of Jesus is powerful but only if we allow the Holy Ghost to clean house. We can't want to be ourselves and call that Christianity.

[@MrPetersonG]

What does your statement mean (I want to be what GOD created me to be and not what I made myself to be)?

[@RelaxationEnsembles]

⁠@@MrPetersonG Speaking for myself, because I can completely relate to @charleneshanks9328’s comment. For so long I lived my life in a closed minded view of making decisions and seeing myself in my own perspective, my own view and using my own wisdom. As I renewed my relationship with God and grew closer to Him , I began to desire his wisdom, his guidance, his love to make my life decisions and moving forward in life as he created me to be such as confident, abundant, selfless, loving, business owner, etc. In short, what the statement means to me is to live as God sees you , and not how we limit ourselves .

[@tenishalarkin5712]

😢i truly agree i want to be what god created me to be .. people really teach you rather its bad or good to follow god rules in guide lines respecting god is the key to every lasting life 🙏 ❤✨️✨️

[@manetamed5904]

“Marriage is a commitment to God on behalf of another person not to the person” 🔥 🔥

[@MSBaconRoss]

It's impossible to make a commitment to God if you don't know him. Most people that quote Holy Matrimony vows does not live a Holy life or Christian life. My point is she said: Who said I wanted to be a first lady. Then DON'T marry a pastor. Be Blessed 🙏

[@LtplovesBen]

I disagree with her statement. Marriage is a commitment to God by both people. One person being committed to him/herself can cause a marriage to fail.

[@tiamaria44]

Untrue statement its to God and the person.

[@patriciareese9851]

Now that is a word 💯✨

[@ms.moniquebrown6754]

She just needs to have a whole book of gems!

[@sash3jm]

My heart is crying for what the church and the gospel have become. Study the Bible, you all, what we are seeing in mainstream America is not church. The Holy Ghost changes us from our natural self.

[@bonitabeverly9953]

Yesssssss This is TRUTH

[@arius33blac]

Facts

[@joystallworth7239]

No shade but I'm curious about why did you watch... did you watch too judge it or to turn people away... maybe her honesty and transparency look carnal to you... I'm trying understand your comment

[@Godslight1970s]

Amen!!

[@MsDeeAnn]

Talk that talk...most of them for sure are for their own objective that they "think" God said. His Word does not change....He said "be ye holy for I am holy."

[@jamesjamesdavis5050]

Willie Moore shows his skills of enabling his guest freedom to tell her story. As a Graduate of Psychology and former Academic I see how important it was for Aventer to freely tell her story and how beneficial her story may be of help to many people. Congratulations.

[@ibiminaabiye257]

Also a graduate if psychology, about to begin my masters

[@jamesjamesdavis5050]

@@ibiminaabiye257 wish you the best in your studies.

[@andreacooper1105]

What Aventer showed was how she isn't a Christian at all! Christians immulate Jesus Christ, I certainly didn't see or hear anything that came close to a woman of God! She's a perfect example of how her father, the devil, has infiltrated the church, and his children are running rampant around deceiving many!

[@Nnayahel7788]

Were you an Arts or Science major? May I also ask what will you do your Master in...Counselling, Psychiatry, etc?

[@jamesjamesdavis5050]

@@Nnayahel7788 I completed my Undergraduate degree in Psychology (HONS) in London (United Kingdom). I completed my Master of Science in Psychology at the University of Wisconsin {USA). I also had a Professional qualification in Psychiatry in the United Kingdom.

[@tammymorgan5348]

"I'm always giving myself away, and I'm tired". I felt that in my soul!

[@BMoreLady]

Aventer dropped a bar with "I have friends that I known for years; that I didn't know for years". I felt that on many levels! I love her honesty with herself. Great show as always!

[@kaymarie4018]

From this interview I learned that if we seek God we will discover who we were created to be.

[@CeeJay611]

And doing this will help you defeat the enemy

[@LivingLifeByGodsDesign]

Amen. We are called to be disciples. That’s our sole purpose as enlisted Christians.

[@VOTE2025]

"I have people that I've known for years that I really haven't known for years..." Whew 😮‍💨... Felt that!!

[@thereathabennett9690]

Excellent news

[@thereathabennett9690]

Excellent teaching I loved it.❤

[@marlenmorrow]

I was reminded that our horizontal relationships are a reflection of our vertical relationship with the Father!

[@angelaspringfield5584]

That’s deep🙏🏿

[@GLHJ-pv4dl]

Aventer is a down to earth person, she is relatable. I appreciate her openess, her ability to be candid and direct.

[@tamiward6225]

This is the type of transparency and spiritual maturity that is needed from the First Lady of a congregation.

[@VisibleTimes]

I also learned the difference between listening to a clip versus listening to the whole interview.❤

[@koffe323]

I learned from this interview I cannot be everything for everyone I cannot be something for someone if I am nothing to myself❤❤❤

[@catrinadavis]

I have never heard her speak, but I'm thankful for this interview. Her transparency was refreshing. There was a lot of comments that made me reflect on my thinking and walk with God. I remember when Pastor Gray said deal with you in private or God will deal in public. I have allowed God to expose so much of me to me and we delt and healed from it. The freedom from your past and people pleasing is amazing! Lean into God's process because the other side is worth it! Proud of you both!

[@tracyreid1795]

I learned that First Lady Gray is not the woman I thought she was...on the outside looking in we have so many judgemental thoughts on ppl who we "think" have such good lives and have so much "more" than we do. She is a black woman trying to raise children and keep a household, marriage and church going ALL with the help of GOD. We are not so different, except she's younger than me and I am divorced, but I am also taking care of a child in college. We as women need to seek forgiveness from GOD and lift each other up more than we do presently. Great interview and I pray GOD's blessing over her and her family.

[@LeonardEarnshaw]

there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. What works for Adam might not work for peter. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

so much sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@LeonardEarnshaw]

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

this is helpful, I will look her up now online

[@LeonardEarnshaw]

You definitely should. You wont regret it

[@CherylMcMillian]

She blessed my whole heart, mind, emotions very authentic so much grace

[@mrsscott0616]

I never knew just how REAL she is. I love a REAL person!

[@latashafountain178]

I learned again in comfort you can't be stretched and what marriage truly is a commitment to God on behalf of the other person 💯 ❤

[@angelajohnson7001]

Just wondering, does that include infidelity, mental, or physical abuse? Is that an acceptable part of “stretching”?

[@venitabutler1430]

Right, they probably need money

[@timbawangu3038]

​@@angelajohnson7001it's a package

[@angelajohnson7001]

@@venitabutler1430 Or to save face

[@latanyajohnson6574]

Hi, I have learned that it's ok to choose yourself and do for yourself. I put everything first and take care of everyone before me. Until it's too late and my body starts breaking down. I realized I have to take care of me first, no matter how people feel about it.

[@VisibleTimes]

So true 💯

[@carolwilkes8411]

Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@tylynn256]

Yes. Self care is a must!

[@lenapin6521]

We Were Made To Bring Glory To God. Google scriptures Galatians 1 vs 10. Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.

[@anitatukes-hilliard4632]

From this interview I learned to be yourself. I also love and respect Aventer Gray even more❤

[@carlar1820]

I'm not sure what's going on with church culture myself. Sometimes I feel like these people aren't really saved. I've definitely noticed a difference just from the time I was a kid to now. It's like people don't really study what Jesus did and who he really was.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@laurielouisy9186]

Sadly yes

[@genevastirrup8090]

I am screaming from Orlando Fla Lady Aventer you bless me abundantly with your openness transparency This is what the church needs we are human,I love love love when you said I am Aventer 1st than Gray, girl lol that part was a homerun You imparted so much freedom, healing,self love packed with the Word God Bless you in this new season

[@mslipps02]

From this interview I have confirmation that God took people out of my life because I wouldn’t let them go. He has something GREATER in store for me, and they can’t go 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽✨✨✨🫶🏽

[@jeanetteNYC2020]

John did more than emotionally cheated in his marriage because she is still talking about it 5 years later. I wish she would emotionally heal herself and stop blaming herself for his behavior

[@Carolyn100000]

I agree

[@DanielleTRushin]

You can’t heal if you stay in the same environment that’s wounded you and made you sick. This is one thing that a lot of Christians don’t understand and the enemy uses this very thing as a trap every time.

[@joyfullnoize2242]

I don't see her as blaming as much as taking responsibility for her part. I had to do that as well. My ex asked me to apologize to him and I couldn't figure out why. I thought about it for a minute and said I apologize to him for being with him in the first place! The truth is if I was in a better place with God, I would have never been with him in the first place.

[@tarnett331]

I love that Aventer spoke on womanhood/self care to be a vessel for others!

[@MamieGarrett]

Aventer was so real and I love her ❤

[@staceyarmstrong5818]

This interview is blessing me as a woman, wife, mother, and as a First Lady! Thank you for this!! ❤

[@africansister]

First lady is not biblical, your hubby is not the president of the church and the church belongs to Jesus.

[@staceyarmstrong5818]

@@africansister thank you for your comment. I am aware of all of that and I agree. I am sorry for your feelings in regards to the term First Lady. Unfortunately, for you, but fortunately, for me, it is the position and title that was given to me that I too didn’t ask for. We have to be careful with judging a book by the page that we started on. There are many chapters before and more to encounter after that we may know nothing about. I pray your day is blessed.

[@jerrygrant3203]

She is too modest to say it, as as she said “she is a First Lady”, you did not have to comment. Time and place for everything. Her husband chose her, God and the church chose him, so, she is a First Lady. Read the Bible as Christ spoke about earthly leaders… As a ChristIan I am begging God for grace for people like you who need to reign on other parade. Stacey, may you and your family be blessed and I am keeping you all in my prayers. Unknown person, I bind you in the blood of Jesus. Not today.

[@staceyarmstrong5818]

@@jerrygrant3203 Bless you. I appreciate your comment and welcome your prayers. ❤️🙏🏽

[@milanC4659]

​@@staceyarmstrong5818The bible also said you shall know them by their fruits the other comment said it's not biblical is definitely not and we do have the right to judge righteous google it !!!

[@mariatauveve4055]

It might confuse a new believer when it looks like we serve God and the world . Help us Jesus 😢❤

[@anitapatterson5813]

This was so good!!! I love her. I learned to be the beautiful fabulous woman Hod has called me to be. Sometimes my hair is purple or sometimes red. Love creativity God has given me at 63 and I don’t care now what others think about me, God gives us freedom in Him and not others. Thank you Willie Moore, Jr

[@kelligirl2482]

So nice to hear her. Such a strong confident woman! Just seems like powerful people in ministry even in music just seem to love things of the world with no care of how it looks or can affect someone else’s walk with Christ.

[@adriannebaughns741]

Wow! This is my first time checking you out, and what an incredible interview. Never heard of Aventer Gray, but what an extraordinary woman. She is ministering in this interview. Thank You.

[@mistysouthall3602]

Thank You Pastor Av!! What i took from this interview is that I can be my authentic self , flaws and all and still draw closer and be with God and he be with me in the midst of it! Not beating myself up anymore. He knows me , he created me! This was needed , God Bless!!❤

[@thecherryvineinspiration]

This was an amazing conversation about authentic life, love, experiences, and soul work! I heard so much of me in this. Thank God for it!

[@namsahamoments7224]

Really loved this, thanks Aventer. Nothing is more beautiful than authenticity is its healing to others as well. Thanks team

[@spoildchik1]

I Love Aventer! When she spoke about friends, Church Culture - MAAANNN she really blessed me.

[@latonyadover3588]

From this interview I finally feel like Aventer is a real sister. I have watched her from afar and always thought she was fake. Now this interview has completely changed my perception of her. I like her now. Yes a real person . Thank you for the interview.

[@gloriaanderson3233]

At 69 years old this had helped me a lot. I ve been weary about a friendship Ive had for 30:yrs. Thank You Jesus 🙌🏽 You moved them.

[@ascottie7233]

I learned and learning to accept, release, and Thank God for those who have walked away. When I am weak HE is STRONG.

[@artofunk]

I would say people running away from “church” & to God instead of running away from God… then I’ll add that some realize that journey is a internal, personal, spiritual self actualizing process of pure love🙏🏽❤️

[@moxiejae321]

From this interview I learned it’s important to not rush into marriage. And God is not telling you everything you hear. And that we have free will to do things and to simply be a good humans if we want and not make excuses for others behavior.

[@shunnadunn]

This message blessed me in so John Grey ministry in a different way. What a blessing and may the Lord continue to bless his family and the foundation of the Lord .

[@valeriehill4846]

I truly enjoyed this interview. I am thanking God so much for Ava's boldness and her being so real!!! It truly blessed my soul!!! May the blessings of the Lord continue to overtake her and her family and their ministry!!! God bless you for also sharing your strory and what you went through too. It was a blessing.

[@queenie4837]

Willie & Aventer keeping it 'real!' Thank you so much, sending you love & blessings from England...x

[@roxannamcdonald9301]

I am new here. I literally just found your "Show"😂💜🙏🏾. The depth of the your interviews and the substance of the conversations you have with your guests. Phenomenal 💯🙌🙌💜🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@marcystalling5185]

Likewise ❤

[@shaniquaholmes4412]

Choose yourself before others. Know who truly has your back!! Great interview 🙏🏽❤

[@karenp7978]

From this interview, I learned that I am who God wants me to be. I am learning daily that my rock bottom was necessary to elevate me and to trust in God earnestly and wholeheartedly. Seeking Him and stepping into who God has ordained me to be. 🙏

[@lanicelightning3010]

Self care is super important

[@smileyperlishia]

I love this interview 🙏🏾❤️❤️She was real and uncut!!!She wasn’t shy about anything!! Thanks sis❤️

[@karenmarsh2439]

Thank you for your Transparency, Transparency, Transparency! You can always choose "you" when you're Authentic and Transparent. You go girl!!! I celebrate the God in you AVENTER GRAY!

[@jasminewillis4997]

21:52 teach Aventer. I’m so glad I’m watching this. You are an Awesome Powerhouse. You’re very knowledgeable and insightful. God led me also to SC almost seven years ago. Crazy smh. I wanna leave here for Texas but God had me here and hasn’t disclosed why. Obedience is better than sacrifice

[@Etwine1]

Praise the Lord for this Woman of God!!! AG... A continued multitude of Blessings to you... Keep pressing and Blessing the people with your anointed MINISTRIES 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@AngelineBerleus]

I have so much more respect for this woman of God ❤️ love her confidence and love for her family 🙌🏾

[@ajihk]

Love her authenticity! She was not speaking from a standpoint of taking the blame as others are interpreting, she's talking about HERself❤

[@ashleybasquez2306]

This is spiritually informative. Thank you

[@marilynbailey1972]

This was sooo good!!!! I was reminded of the freedom that God gave me when I released the marriage that I was in. I know now that I forced this and God still covered me in my misdirection. Thank you both for your transparency and willingness to be vulnerable and sharing your experiences. TGBTG!!!!

[@SheHasHisGrace]

SOOOOO much is packed into this episode. What sticks out for me most are the two simple reminders: 1) Eyes focused on God and 2) I am who God Says I am. MUCH ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Aventer! MUCH ❤️❤️❤️❤️ WMJ!

[@deidracanty5417]

I love Aventer Gray❤ she is so mature in her relationship with God. Marriage is continuous❣️❣️❣️

[@tonyaward9933]

From this interview I learned everything Ms. Aventer said was a blessing to me as woman,mother, being a divorcée thank you.❤🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@chitowntrini]

I have never heard about Aventer Gray but I will say many things she shared here really touched me. God is putting so many things in place for me as I prepare for my future role in ministry ❤ Thank you Willie Moore Jr.

[@muwanguzivictor6242]

Pastor's wife: "I love Beyonce, etc, and God is ok with it..." American church: "I love her, she is so real" Repent oh America 🇺🇸 😢 Repent oh Church of Jesus! So blind, the blind leading the blind 🤔

[@Camille-st6mz]

So she should say I hate Beyonce

[@lisafoster3868]

Agree

[@ConfidentNotConceited]

@@Camille-st6mzI think the commenter is saying she should separate secular music from Godly music. I could certainly be wrong

[@gabriellejones6451]

@camille if you love God you should HATE witchcraft . Period. I pray your eyes are opened and Gods loves overtakes you in Jesus name

[@nakeiadavis2949]

Amen! Many are called, BUT few are chosen. The be sanctified is to be set apart.

[@towncenterexecutivesuites9543]

Thank you, Minister Willie Moore Jr, Love you Aventer!!! God has given you beauty for your ashes. Keep on Keeping It Real... What I learned or was reminded of is to Keep It Real Always w/ who I am 1st before the additives... Blessings.

[@mrsjaetyson]

This young lady blessed me. And, I'm adopted also. I never met my biological family. And at 62 and having to lay to rest my brother (also adopted) and my parents, I've experienced true grace and mercy. I blessed 🙌🏾

[@Donna5971]

This is such an awesome interview! I really enjoyed it! She said so much in being who you are to being who God created you to be!🎉 The highs the lows the valleys! I really enjoyed her being open and honest!

[@gigiwashington8167]

Absolutely positively Lady Aventer has been a true blessing n my life!!!!

[@LaPerledesAntilles1804]

I learned from Ms. Aventer Gray is to remain open and obedient to God's will for our lives whether we understand His plans for us or not. I learned that we have to trust the process and go with God's plans for our lives! Thank you for being so candid, Ms. Aventer Gray! Very nice interview Mr. Moore, Jr. 🙏

[@pamelajackson7210]

Wow!! Thanks so much for your awesome interview Aventer🖐🏽 When Father uncovers and reveals in our journey, it’s not always for evil but in this time it’s for His ‘good’ for you and John as you go forward in your calling!! Ephesians 6:10🖐🏽

[@TaySaidSo]

She was awesome! Love her testimony, spirit and that she is a real person. Great job!

[@angelahope9213]

I appreciate this show! Thank you for sharing!

[@debrafoster384]

God blessed Pastor Aventer Gray. Love your authenticity.

[@Psalm-24]

This is a very good interview. Real Talk. Real people. I enjoyed the testimony.

[@faithleonard1537]

I'm impressed with her interview. Well spoken, real, authentic

[@cookiegraham357]

This was a very beautiful interview and it definitely blessed me and I appreciate you WOG for sharing your God given insight❤️

[@awilliams382]

❤❤❤ I love Aventer Gray!! She always with the real talk!💯

[@ms.moniquebrown6754]

I've always loved her and felt bad for her and the kids when everything happened. However, I have gained so much more respect for her and her family including Pastor Gray and what it takes to hear God before I hear any other voice. What an amazing testimony!

[@adabrooks7946]

Thank you Aventer Gray. Beautiful message. Put people in your life that you can have for later.

[@redeanaraeroebuck1576]

Wow. This is an amazing interview. Aventer ( I hope I spelled her name correctly.) is so open, honest and transparent. She inspires me to be a more authentic woman. I really hope I can meet her and talk with her. She is one of my new role models. Thank you Willie Moore Jr for this interview. I love it.

[@4dnblovelyfe769]

Yes..Team Aventer you go gurl!! Love it!!

[@donnaprince1822]

WOW!!!! Aventer you are amazing, Thank you Willie Moore Jr. I love what you do. Needed this

[@vickienix8470]

also thank you, WILLIE MOORE JR! For your transparency; i didnt know much about you and i'm glad God has kept you; I WAS so happy when i found out you were over at KGGR; (Dallas-FT WORTH ,TX.). when KHVN left. keep it going and may God forever bless you!!

[@bcjones541]

Praise God for this podcast! Thank you, Sis. Aventer for being so transparent sharing your story! God's continuous blessings to you and your family. 🙏 ❤

[@shayshaylamoore9959]

From THIS interview, I learned that I love Miss Aventer and John! Ive been watching them for years.. but this interview is so encouraging, because I love ppl who are just REAL!! My little- big cousin(hes about 6'7 or 6"8) graduated from FAMU too and hes one of the reslest cats I know, but Thank God for you being so transparent about dealing with God ..and His kids lol! They will try you, but we must listen to God first!

[@yvonnedelories4780]

The song and video CLOCK WORK is woooo❤❤❤❤!! I loved this video! What a woman!!!

[@cherylgilmore1032]

Thank you for your transparency! I learned so much. God bless Lady Aventer and her family!

[@OfficialDesimberRose]

Thank you for being your Authentic Self and keeping it real Av!

[@scottas34]

This was a great interview! I love how real she is....people always on the outside looking in and be ready to judge...smh...you the truth Aventer and I am so happy for you and what God is doing for you and your family

[@bettyburr5427]

Speak Ave! Always loved you❤ you were my 1st lady from 2018-til the pandemic..due to I found local church in charlotte ❤🎉

[@alicethomas3289]

I love this conversation!♥️♥️

[@anmhiggs1]

Aventer is so multi-faceted! I love that she was a dancer. I love how she keeps it real about racism. 🙏🏾

[@tracm1]

Whewwee Chile @Aventer Gray Setup & spoke truth without a blinking of an eye! I needed every bit of it!✝️🙌🏾🩷🔥

[@claymenia71]

I have truly enjoyed this conversation. She is really lead by God.

[@evelyntaylor9215]

I'm soooooooo appreciative of your truth... you demonstrated the true wall of a Godly woman in spirit and in truth! The way you broke down the vows are unto God first, then your spouse, was new revelation to me! Awesomely delivered!❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@nothingnothing5030]

So Proud of you Lady ....I appreciate your realness..Keep on keeping on

[@patriciaharris6422]

It's giving Kingdom wife in the truest most transparent sense. Love it!

[@sofiamaame5467]

My quality of life flows from my relationship with God ❤️ thank you for such a transparent interview!

[@darleneslaughter6016]

Thank you bro

[@lucianaesutton27]

🎉❤ YOO!?‼️‼️ the transparency of these are SOOO DOPE.

[@tivedamatthews-wl4hb]

Really enjoyed the Realness about Life as a Human Being. And once you get to Know, accept & Love you it's so Rewarding to your mind. AMEN

[@nikkismith5782]

Had never heard her before, but she dropped a lot of nuggets in this interview. Appreciate her testimony.