Emeka Ike’s ex-wife Suzanne finally speaks up: ‘He beat me until I was paralyzed’

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@funmilayoadedipe5527
@funmilayoadedipe5527 11 ай бұрын
This woman is beautifully pretty,wow,speaks so calmly with intelligence.
@sandraodigie3692
@sandraodigie3692 Жыл бұрын
If you haven't walked a mile in another person's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. She isnt doing this interview to be believed by anyone. She is only telling her story.
@Keyona1303
@Keyona1303 Жыл бұрын
Period!
@onyinyechinwazue9955
@onyinyechinwazue9955 Жыл бұрын
Birds of the same feather. You don't use children against their father. Regardless of what happened between He needs to know where their children are. He reached out to cover up. I am a woman the father should be in the children's life. If you don't know advise her. They will go through mental health issues. If not now later. If it is in the USA she will go to jail for taking the children away from their father.
@Keyona1303
@Keyona1303 Жыл бұрын
@@onyinyechinwazue9955 ok ma.
@tamarabello
@tamarabello Жыл бұрын
​@onyinyechinwazue9955, which jail are you talking about? If he is the abuser and it is proved in court, he will not be anywhere near the kids. If they grant him visitation, it will be contact visit.
@Keyona1303
@Keyona1303 Жыл бұрын
@@onyinyechinwazue9955 people like you advise people to stay back in abusive relationships.
@chiamakaonwuagba8139
@chiamakaonwuagba8139 Жыл бұрын
Never pick a man over your dream. Never😢
@bankysCorner
@bankysCorner Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Your dream is you, your purpose,your life.Spouse will fade away , everything fades away but your achievable dreams. Joseph chose his dreams over his brothers and family andeventually got to the topmost. God bless you for this post🙏
@tegabaahmedia
@tegabaahmedia Жыл бұрын
NEVER OHHHH my dear!!!!!! Cosssss these ninjas ain’t nuuufffffiinnnggg
@onyekaumeagudosi5674
@onyekaumeagudosi5674 Жыл бұрын
Most girls dream na man
@shemimaansoa4246
@shemimaansoa4246 Жыл бұрын
@@onyekaumeagudosi5674I tell you 😢
@jayoriona5505
@jayoriona5505 Жыл бұрын
And if they don't change that narrative, they will keep suffering and dieing
@gracefieldgracefield707
@gracefieldgracefield707 11 ай бұрын
She can't even shed tears anymore telling her story because tears has finished.
@dabbybliss4050
@dabbybliss4050 Жыл бұрын
Emeka didn't see this coming. He thought she would never speak up 😂. I love her
@gloriaah
@gloriaah Жыл бұрын
She spent years crying secretly; now she has no tears to waste. She took her time to heal and is still recovering. I pray the Lord perfects her healing.
@curlynaijachic4116
@curlynaijachic4116 Жыл бұрын
True
@RachealEde-oh8hk
@RachealEde-oh8hk Жыл бұрын
According to Chude, she cried a lot, broke down many times, but she begged for it to be removed from the video.
@gloriaah
@gloriaah Жыл бұрын
@@RachealEde-oh8hk Oh, thanks for clarifying.
@gloriaah
@gloriaah Жыл бұрын
@@curlynaijachic4116 🙏
@myteelyon5780
@myteelyon5780 6 ай бұрын
make sure u confirm before u believe
@ijeomaejinwa5837
@ijeomaejinwa5837 Жыл бұрын
We did not inherit the silence of our mothers!
@blessedpikin5836
@blessedpikin5836 Жыл бұрын
Poor woman. Emeka never loved this woman. He didn’t even deserve her. Thank God she’s free from him.
@naakorkoraryee
@naakorkoraryee Жыл бұрын
Oga Chude, let me tell you something...Emeka carefully picked his victim, groomed her because she was naive and used her to fill his ego and status. She left and he is confused because a narcissist thinks you're their property. Emma saved her own life and we need to stand with her❤. Praying for you sister🎉🎉❤❤
@africanempress9358
@africanempress9358 Жыл бұрын
AMEN & AMEN!! ☝️☝️🙏🙏
@greengal2002
@greengal2002 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes....
@queenjudeofficial
@queenjudeofficial Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@AskTutorNenye
@AskTutorNenye Жыл бұрын
Perfect description,they usually know how to pick their victims
@babangida4311
@babangida4311 Жыл бұрын
Listen again. She picked him with the intention of using him to enter the movie industry
@IjenwaIvy
@IjenwaIvy Жыл бұрын
I almost got married to a narcissist this December, but I was quick to notice and ran for my dear life.
@okoronkwoemmy3485
@okoronkwoemmy3485 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 thanks be to God for your life..I too ran for mine this year January
@ivyofori
@ivyofori Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@nkemo65
@nkemo65 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations my sister
@anointingchrist1607
@anointingchrist1607 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Thank God for you o
@CherryJ2911
@CherryJ2911 Жыл бұрын
Thank God oooo😂😂😂
@yvettewilliams5967
@yvettewilliams5967 Жыл бұрын
I BELIEVE HER 100%!!!!
@priscillaajayi5744
@priscillaajayi5744 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@iyaibeji4120
@iyaibeji4120 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Busayom3799
@Busayom3799 Жыл бұрын
Me too 😢
@jenniferasoro7451
@jenniferasoro7451 Жыл бұрын
It's only a strong woman that can speak up this way. I admire her strength 😢
@alhassanjunior7472
@alhassanjunior7472 Жыл бұрын
As a psychologist i can attest shes telling the truth.Her mannerism says it all..I pray she fully heals😢
@firstlady6662
@firstlady6662 Жыл бұрын
Yes she is a glorious woman
@fellaz1983
@fellaz1983 Жыл бұрын
I hear you
@israelamoah6590
@israelamoah6590 Жыл бұрын
Dropped out psychologist 😂
@isaacelinamspielberg5752
@isaacelinamspielberg5752 Жыл бұрын
Nonsense
@Alliswell-zl4uj
@Alliswell-zl4uj Жыл бұрын
Such a calm and composed lady.
@StoryofLebi
@StoryofLebi Жыл бұрын
I attended same church with this lady and i will tell you for a fact that she values herself, her children and she is highly sophisticated.
@kursbella978
@kursbella978 Жыл бұрын
Do u think what she's saying is true pls....just asking
@JustinClark-r4z
@JustinClark-r4z Жыл бұрын
Everything might not be truth, she is acting like a saint
@obiemmanuel2782
@obiemmanuel2782 Жыл бұрын
​@@kursbella978Thank God you said 'think' and not know for sure... nobody is 100% guilt free but she is telling more of the truth in this scenario
@MellowSoul-ek3bj
@MellowSoul-ek3bj Жыл бұрын
The only reason her story might not be “100% true” is because she may not have told every evil he did to her. Do you guys understand these psychopaths are mentally ill? Wait until you encounter one then you can have an opinion. I’m also not mad at people trying to fault her cos I believe many of them are just “honestly ignorant “. The truth is there is no way you can understand if you have not either been in super close proximity or experienced it. Narcissists don’t go for “ tear eye” women. They know how to pick their naive targets, then they groom and brainwash you into thinking that abused state is your normal. They start out extra nice , too too nice and then the discard phase is like someone thrust you facedown out of a skyscraper. The emotional and psychological abuse can make a victim suicidal, intentionally ripping them of their self worth. Some never recover . At the very least go and google relationship with a narcissist. Abuse gives them supply and it’s like blood in their system. Take it from me, your superstar is a lying, manipulative, gaslighting narcissist. If you like don’t learn from the experience of others . Wait until you encounter one, God forbid. It’s indescribable, like no one who hasn’t been there will believe it. It’s called Leviathan spirit for a reason.
@RDCFemmes
@RDCFemmes Жыл бұрын
​@@JustinClark-r4zwhat would give anyone the right to maltreat someone? She might have been a "bad" wife but her husband would still be wrong for maltrsating and torturing her
@nnaedozieokoli2317
@nnaedozieokoli2317 Жыл бұрын
This is why it is dangerous to listen to a one sided story. Am glad she is saying her bit.
@bankysCorner
@bankysCorner Жыл бұрын
One sided story is bad.
@Markks100
@Markks100 Жыл бұрын
but how are you sure of this new story?
@ViewswithLadyVee
@ViewswithLadyVee Жыл бұрын
@@Markks100just google their name . You will see their court case. It trended years ago.
@Beyondbraids
@Beyondbraids Жыл бұрын
@@Markks100how are you sure of the first story? Every story is valid based on perspective and clearly some people are good at lying and arrogant which you can clearly see in Emeka while this lady spoke about what she did wrong not only what Emeka did but your first story only talked about what she did wrong without acknowledging doing anything wrong! That should be enough clue to you who’s lying. My one cent! I’m not backing any of them by the way!
@DailyPrayers111
@DailyPrayers111 Жыл бұрын
The moment I listened to Emeka Ike, I knew he was lying. His stories were cut and Join and didn't add up. I just came to listen to the woman to confirm.
@r.a2229
@r.a2229 Жыл бұрын
Look at this pretty woman... You could still tell from her tone and countenance.... Anyone who has been through abuse can instantly tell that this woman went through a lot 😢
@ChristianIsaac-xx1vt
@ChristianIsaac-xx1vt Жыл бұрын
How ??? What makes you think she's telling the truth?
@ExtraToken
@ExtraToken Жыл бұрын
Oga your type can easily get deceived by women like this. This woman is a pure definition of devil 😈
@NoName-sp5dp
@NoName-sp5dp Жыл бұрын
@@ChristianIsaac-xx1vtit’s not hard to tell who is a liar
@AaronB648
@AaronB648 Жыл бұрын
Simple, consistent, no intent to cast blame, just saying it as it happened while referring to witnesses that saw it, yet appreciating the few good things he did, says it all. 100% truthful.
@iyaibeji4120
@iyaibeji4120 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@blessingelelegu4622
@blessingelelegu4622 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 %
@KabiesiAdemola
@KabiesiAdemola Жыл бұрын
She even said 'My husband' in part of her references, I feel she's saying some truth
@teddybear668
@teddybear668 Жыл бұрын
Her composure suggests she could be speaking the truth, but to say "100% truthful" could be a little bit of an exaggeration.
@sharonasmah358
@sharonasmah358 Жыл бұрын
Bam. Lie can easily be predicted but you can feel the truth 😢😢
@ebube_miracle
@ebube_miracle Жыл бұрын
This woman is strong enough to have held back her tears.
@C.Nchezor
@C.Nchezor Жыл бұрын
I tell you !!!
@blezareth_atelier
@blezareth_atelier Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts
@ejioforbami
@ejioforbami Жыл бұрын
Or a blend of fabrications and embellishments? I don't believe her, and I also don't believe Emeka. Both of them should be ashamed for not being mature enough to consider the well-being of their children and the repercussions of this shameful public embarrassment.
@cjos7304
@cjos7304 Жыл бұрын
Crocodile tears! Thank God she held it back. Crying means nothing these days. A lot fake it for sympathy. They should both be ashamed of themselves. Keep ur business private but she chose to slander him by the initial rumours. If he abused you so much, where are the injuries, scars and police report? Why didn’t you involve the police? Lies!!
@samuelnyarkotey9618
@samuelnyarkotey9618 Жыл бұрын
Her story is a story
@akwariiroha9206
@akwariiroha9206 Жыл бұрын
Did anyone else notice the pain and honesty in her eyes?
@ValeryTah-um6rn
@ValeryTah-um6rn 5 ай бұрын
Am telling u.
@vcj8096
@vcj8096 Жыл бұрын
Anybody, I don't care who, that tells a woman, or their wife not to go after their dream or goals is a witch or wizard. Periodt.
@AnneOba
@AnneOba Жыл бұрын
Emma,was my class mate in secondary school,she was so young when she married him and she is telling the truth
@ck-sl3kt
@ck-sl3kt Жыл бұрын
@user-nq4ie2db2n Except that she did not provide police report of when she was beaten and paralyzed! Where is the evidence of she reporting to police and the report of the investigation? Coming online to lie against your ex with zero evidence is stupid!
@floraolaniyi73
@floraolaniyi73 11 ай бұрын
Imagine
@ucheok4562
@ucheok4562 9 ай бұрын
⁠@@ck-sl3ktyou have to be a child or mentally delayed not to know that many women in abusive relationships struggle to report the abuse because of shame, financial reasons, emotional damage, especially in Africa where we have a patriarchal system. I’m sure people around her were also in her ear. She was also a child who was too young to know better. I hope you grow up and I pray life doesn’t teach you this.
@janetawah
@janetawah 8 ай бұрын
@@ck-sl3kt It appears you are the same with her ex. Did you not hear her say that she presented evidence to the court and that she still kept some? Why does she even need to bring evidence? Was her ex presenting evidence during his own interviews? Just wow..People
@ck-sl3kt
@ck-sl3kt 8 ай бұрын
@@janetawah How old is the evidence? Evidence that she didn't show us the next day after it happened? Her ex only went to defend himself against a frivolous allegation! For your information, I can never abuse a woman. The day you messed up is the day you move out peacefully or I move out peacefully and both parties are happy! What I hate is a liar who will appear in 2024 and claim she was abused in the year 2010! If you were abused in 2010, what were you still doing in that house the next day?????? Greedy liar does not deserve my respect!
@joeedache7590
@joeedache7590 Жыл бұрын
She is so calm, beautiful and polite. Honestly, she went through a lot. The consistency in her story is glaring. She is so intelligent. I pray she heals completely.
@daprophetmusic9470
@daprophetmusic9470 Жыл бұрын
She is so calm doesn’t make her a saint. And am not saying she’s right or wrong. Stop seeing peoples calmness as a way that they’re truthful. Amber head on the Jonny Depp divorce case in court, that lady is so calm that you can’t even tell she can hurt a fly but look at the things that were exposed about her and how she abused her ex husband but first lied to the court years earlier he was the abuser. He stayed silent until Years later he sued her with video evidences and the whole world was shocked. To be calm is good but that’s no basis to think someone is honest. Let it sink. Like I said, do not argue me. I didn’t say if she is right or wrong. Am just pointing out your lust in thoughts.
@kofiaturu3363
@kofiaturu3363 Жыл бұрын
Thats narcissistic…I had an experience and am still healing so I believe her ..they are the most dangerous to live with
@preferjacker5369
@preferjacker5369 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly the right approach, no one should pronounce her innocent based on her looks, it's a very shallow way of looking at this issue, she could be right or wrong we don't really know@@daprophetmusic9470
@ms.b8724
@ms.b8724 Жыл бұрын
@@daprophetmusic9470 people can think and say or express whatever they wish. It is called Freedom of Speech. Who are you to tell anyone what to say and how to say it? That is how such control of others begins. We are all entitled to our opinions, so say nothing instead of saying something unkind to people who make comments here!
@jenniferashilevi386
@jenniferashilevi386 Жыл бұрын
@@daprophetmusic9470lol😅 Did you watch the court proceedings of Amber vs Depp. Amber is no where near calm, and anyone who followed could figure out her inconsistencies
@kayshera8872
@kayshera8872 Жыл бұрын
My mom married a narcissist, a man I refuse to call father. He drained the essence out of her. My once beautiful mother aged beyond her years. Watching this lady, I see the pain and trauma manifest in her physicality, just like it did in my mum. When you tolerate and endure abuse, in the name of longsuffering and being a good woman, you become haggard. I wish this wonderful lady the very best, going forward!
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 Жыл бұрын
You're right. You could see she lost a lot of herself because even physically she appears older although she's younger than Emeka. I am glad she has broken the chains of the fear he put her in. That she kept silent for ten years until now is quite serious.
@annaolokede4582
@annaolokede4582 Жыл бұрын
I am going through the same. How did you deal, because it eating me up. I am not allowed to say anything, my mum keeps saying she has to submi. That when I realize that subjugation starts from women. She cant free herself and she is not beign a good role model for her daughters . What do we learn from a mother that believes in women subjugation?
@kyfy777
@kyfy777 Жыл бұрын
My mom went through the same thing. She's only now starting to take care of herself and pour into herself. She deserves so much more and i pray God restores her fully.
@everythingentertainmenttv7910
@everythingentertainmenttv7910 Жыл бұрын
​@@annaolokede4582 if its physical abuse report to police or Human rights activistsm if is verbal abuse u guys can deal with that one in as much as u are up to 18
@willdan4799
@willdan4799 Жыл бұрын
Same with me and my mom. My mom suffered for years because she loved the wrong man.
@FeliciaBeee
@FeliciaBeee Жыл бұрын
I'm amazed at how calm she speaks with her story. Listening to her makes me wonder how she coped in her previous marriage for 14 years and is still alive, I thank God she's in good health. That marriage was a movie by itself.
@alfredowuor830
@alfredowuor830 Жыл бұрын
The poise, demeanor of this lady is world class....makes her believable
@oaplaffy
@oaplaffy Жыл бұрын
As a man, I can boldly say that this woman is indeed every man's dream wife. So beautiful, humble, understanding, intelligent and mature. Some men just don't know how to take care of a "priceless jewel" like this lady. It is so hard to get a very good woman like this these days. God bless her.
@elizabethanuforo9171
@elizabethanuforo9171 Жыл бұрын
And so beautiful 😢
@meekyngum2015
@meekyngum2015 Жыл бұрын
Stop being naive. You know absolutely nothing about her.
@jeanettewilliamsbrown2958
@jeanettewilliamsbrown2958 Жыл бұрын
​@@meekyngum2015 Do you
@SymplyEmy
@SymplyEmy Жыл бұрын
​@@meekyngum2015 You tell us since you know.😏
@traceryibo853
@traceryibo853 Жыл бұрын
⁠@@meekyngum2015it has nothing to do with believing her but it’s the truth, I’ve seen good women marry men who abuse them, sometimes you wonder if being a good woman is even worth it, I don’t think men like good women, they prefer bitches
@queennaja27
@queennaja27 Жыл бұрын
She speaks so calmly……and intelligently show how much of a kind soul she’s 😭
@RaveonlineTv
@RaveonlineTv Жыл бұрын
This woman is an epitome of beauty what a goddess, guys when you see a good woman, learn to praise and cherish them cos they are difficult to get these days.❤
@Officers-Office
@Officers-Office Жыл бұрын
How you people can conclude on issues base on a persons outlook and one time demeanor
@MellowSoul-ek3bj
@MellowSoul-ek3bj Жыл бұрын
@@Officers-Office Actually she does come across as authentic and calm. No one’s talking about the fact this guy was all of 19 years older than her and she was quite young and naive when they got together. He was older, richer, more experienced and super popular- all the odds were in his favor and it appears he didn’t hold back throwing his weight around.. Severally she acknowledged the good the guy did for her but also spoke on the bullying and abuse. I listened to one voice recording of her ex cussing out his son. His harshness and tone of voice and the barrage of curses and threats made me nervous. You can tell he’s a really angry and aggressive and controlling individual. Nobody’s perfect but abuse is another level of twisted. Let’s allow the victim be.
@odvtv8208
@odvtv8208 Жыл бұрын
they have never seen a calm person that can do the unimaginable. I am not siding tho, but they should calm down with their sidings.@@Officers-Office
@Anonyme67
@Anonyme67 Жыл бұрын
Her voice still has emotions. She is very hurts even traumatized
@AmayaRue2360
@AmayaRue2360 Жыл бұрын
OPEN LETTER TO SUZANNE EMMA From one survivor to another in this our lonely land of survival, my sister, you are a VERY GOOD MOTHER ❤️❤️🙏🏾. You faced domestic violence, and you left to save your life because you were put in a position to preserve it in the very place you are meant to be protected from the whole world. Yet you still compromised with your abuser and left him his kids in recognition of his fatherly role. You even kept quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. Furthermore, you had no time to influence this boy because he was in his father's custody . We did not see anyone put out ring light to speak for your matter. But the moment you saw that the violence had moved from you to the kids ( typical of abusers do to continue the abuse cycle psychologically ,by hurting those you love the most) ,you rightly activitated mother hen protection. Now we see ring light and motivational speakers everywhere, people calling you a bad mother. These were the same people who asked the late Osinachi why she didn't speak out or leave, but we all know in survivor land, that what we have to say society will never be ready to hear . That is because it is either too unimaginable for them to associate with their reality or too uncomfortable to the extent of awakening their own ghosts in their lives. Where there is domestic violence, there comes a time when all conventional family standards and titles such a father, husband, and even human being no longer apply . You are dealing with a PERPETRATOR PERIOD!! If a cooking fire begins to burn the home , it no longer has a relationship with food and nourishment. It is just DANGEROUS FIRE THAT CAN KILL ,SIMPLE!!Did Emeka himself not say in 2016 that if a woman is being abused, ask the children? And now the children are old enough to speak out and she is a bad mother . When a man begins to use his God given leadership as the head of the home, to talk about human life, as if it were that of Christmas chickens, that is a call to preserve life ,not family titles. Remember that it is not marked on anyone's forehead, the one who will wipe their family , when and how they will do it. Those are expensive chances to take .We all know in survivor land that the worst sociopathic/narcissistic rage you can ever trigger in your perpetrator is LEAVING. And the children leaving has enraged this narcissist to unimaginable heights. You have challenged their sense of power . If he can't get you, he will traumatise whoever you love to destroy your soul even by proxy. You would be a bad mother if you had brought all your kids to the interview, but you didn't. You brought a son who has come of age, who has his own victimhood story to tell. Even CHILDREN are victims of domestic violence, but that is also another conversation society is not ready for. You didn't bring your son because of one incident , or one over a day , weeks, or months, but 8 years in your absence. Clearly, we see that he is old enough and has taken it upon himself to assume the fatherly role to protect himself, himself, and the family, something he shouldn't be doing because it goes against the natural order. You should be most proud that as a man, he is questioning his own path . Your lived experience and that of your son is REAL. You deserve to preserve your life as you fit . DON'T ever let anyone make you doubt yourself , and your survival kit . In survivor land we already know that the only respected voice of domestic violence is that of the victims whose stories are told beyond the grave. Don't mind all these people calling you a bad mother. They are waiting to write R.I.P. and shoot videos as one- off motivational speakers, if he finally ends your life.Look at them coming for you now, but they were quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. From all of us at our lonely but authentic, thick skinned survival land , we understand you , we love you, and we are proud of you and your son 👏🏾❤️🫂🙏🏾
@EmiliaObiedelu
@EmiliaObiedelu Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@ilovejesus9303
@ilovejesus9303 9 ай бұрын
Very powerful ​@@EmiliaObiedelu
@ilovejesus9303
@ilovejesus9303 9 ай бұрын
Very powerful letter
@zainabuthman4660
@zainabuthman4660 7 ай бұрын
Haha ha 😂😂😂😂this is long
@AmayaRue2360
@AmayaRue2360 7 ай бұрын
@zainabuthman4660 that's why it's called a letter 🤷🏾‍♀️🤔
@ifeomaodezugo4383
@ifeomaodezugo4383 Жыл бұрын
Thank God for my dad - God rest his beautiful soul - I almost quit my job because it was obviously a bone of contention in my so-called marriage. My dad told me then that it would be the worst decision of my life if I quit my job. Mind you, I was breadwinner and I still am. The so-called husband left when he felt I was ‘growing wings.’ Now I do my breadwinning in peace with my 5 beautiful children.
@agnesjohnson2369
@agnesjohnson2369 Жыл бұрын
Dad really saved you
@telenet6041
@telenet6041 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Receive the grace to raise your kids in Jesus name 🙏
@ewilliam6838
@ewilliam6838 Жыл бұрын
Best thing I have ever heard. God bless you and your kids
@ogunkunlemoseskehinde1575
@ogunkunlemoseskehinde1575 Жыл бұрын
That the best dad ever did for you can we speak privately
@luwamalem9537
@luwamalem9537 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you! 🙏
@winifredohiku1052
@winifredohiku1052 Жыл бұрын
He got you the moment you left your dreams to be with him.
@winniealwayo700
@winniealwayo700 Жыл бұрын
FACTS😢
@floBar51651
@floBar51651 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!
@TemitopeMelindaFagbenjaAdebiyi
@TemitopeMelindaFagbenjaAdebiyi Жыл бұрын
Emma was so gentle and loving. I believe her to the core.He just took advantage of her Ladies speak out
@nanastrybe
@nanastrybe Жыл бұрын
✅✅✅
@vivianyayraahorlu5943
@vivianyayraahorlu5943 Жыл бұрын
Yes let speak out even though Counselors will say that we shouldn't talk
@iyaibeji4120
@iyaibeji4120 Жыл бұрын
Exactly,she was 18 when she move in with him,naive yound kid
@soyennora5771
@soyennora5771 Жыл бұрын
I literally tear up watching and listening to this podcast .I see a good and a virtuous woman here💯%, I can easily relate with her story because I have experience how my dad treated my mom badly and still paint a picture of a nice and great man to family and friends. Only those who have walked in this shoes can understand better.Thank God she left on time. You are a strong woman. Lots of 💕💕💕
@zealoftheLord
@zealoftheLord 4 ай бұрын
She is lucky
@liselinambota5979
@liselinambota5979 Жыл бұрын
If you have never encountered a narcissist, you can't understand her. Being a counsellor, I have come to know them. They always shout the loudest. They always move from one place to another, telling everyone how bad their partners are. The first time I watched Emeka discuss his marriage online, I was able to see through him. This woman is strong, very powerful... many who survive such don't even look this good. Kudos to her supportive family.
@afromedia710
@afromedia710 Жыл бұрын
Only them know the truth. He says she says are never true. Everyone would tell the story to favour themselves… Stop running into conclusion.
@tundeednutgodson
@tundeednutgodson Жыл бұрын
Emeka Ike's Ex Wife Suzanne and son Finally speak up: He is a Beast (EMEKA IKE AND SON IN BLOODY CLASH) kzbin.info/www/bejne/qn-2maN6mamgq5Isi=0GS1a2K8c61by-oO ..
@kingsleyoseghale8315
@kingsleyoseghale8315 Жыл бұрын
Lol this woman is strong very powerful 😅😅😅😅. Who be this one self. Probably single mother and alone
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 Жыл бұрын
Fact
@clementeniye4711
@clementeniye4711 Жыл бұрын
​@@afromedia710absolutely true. 3 sides to a story: his, hers and the truth- which we may never know.
@senayon85
@senayon85 Жыл бұрын
This woman was still a child when she met this man. This is why I don't like grown men talking to little girls. It's very predatory and manipulative. I pray she finds healing and peace🙏🏿🙏🏿
@NileGoddess
@NileGoddess Жыл бұрын
Grown African men groom young girls
@Windrain321
@Windrain321 Жыл бұрын
Yes its grooming
@senayon85
@senayon85 Жыл бұрын
​@@Windrain321 Exactly...
@sonjas6297
@sonjas6297 Жыл бұрын
18 years is not a child. Check it.
@MaryjaneChigbo
@MaryjaneChigbo Жыл бұрын
@@sonjas6297They are i am 29 at 18 i dont think the same way that i do now. You can think an 18 years old who are on social medias or are graduates are not kids they are. Maturity indeed comes with age. Although people refuse to use them.
@Rukilawal
@Rukilawal Жыл бұрын
He stole her youth, traumatized her and left her to deal with what’s left of what he’s done using of her. Such a painful and regretful experience.
@jenniferiyawe2403
@jenniferiyawe2403 Жыл бұрын
So sad 😢
@cmbe6161
@cmbe6161 Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful woman
@cmbe6161
@cmbe6161 Жыл бұрын
No one deserves to live an abusive life
@josephchinaza1623
@josephchinaza1623 Жыл бұрын
Fear Emeka the slow poison
@iyaibeji4120
@iyaibeji4120 Жыл бұрын
Exactly,18ys old she is naive kid
@debimehnjume9410
@debimehnjume9410 Жыл бұрын
😢😢I can only imagine her pain. Hearing her narrate all this with so much poise... God please truly heal her from every pain, every tear, every heartache and worry. Kudos to this strong, extremely beautiful and intelligent woman❤
@promise_fejiro
@promise_fejiro Жыл бұрын
I believe this woman!!! The abuser is quick to come cry victim. We can see through abusers. It shows.
@promise_fejiro
@promise_fejiro Жыл бұрын
And let me include this “I’m so glad you spoke out!!!” Thank you! Thank you!
@Diaryofalovedwife
@Diaryofalovedwife Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@omalicha7388
@omalicha7388 Жыл бұрын
Certainly. He is a jerk
@carollaker
@carollaker Жыл бұрын
Great Insight,it's always that way 💜
@sharonOB
@sharonOB Жыл бұрын
Absolutely I believe every word
@shironjuguna5853
@shironjuguna5853 Жыл бұрын
Danger of a single story!!! Well done for speaking out. This is you walking out of his jail and finally taking BACK your charge. Congratulations! I believe her 💯💯
@Enkaybe
@Enkaybe Жыл бұрын
Exactlyyyyy, Chimamanda said it all!
@ezerahpeace3322
@ezerahpeace3322 Жыл бұрын
I knew Emeka's story was not adding up from day one. God bless you for speaking up Madam. I believe you and I believe your story, everything about you speaks truth.
@annitachewe6312
@annitachewe6312 10 ай бұрын
The best decision Emma ever made was leaving her abusive marriage i believe her 💯%
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 Жыл бұрын
I have listened to this carefully, and based on my knowledge and experience of narcissism, I can say that this woman has escaped a narcissist and may be more. And usually, narcissists are the first to step out with all manner of lies and play the victim. The woman has suffered. I am glad she finally dared to leave and didn't die in it. She was naive from the age of 18 and she was simply taken advantage of, manipulated and abused. This is a good woman, I bet you that if Emeka hadn't even come out this way, she may never have spoken just to cover up for him and protect her image too. That she had been quiet for ten years is some real self-control but I also see fear. He put fear in her and that silenced her. Narcissists can tell the craziest lies you can ever think of. I am not surprised by the explanation the woman is giving for all the things he said. Both male and female narcissists are very dangerous but I think male narcissists are worse from the experiences I have witnessed.
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
Chude gave her the platform to speak up for the first time. Emeka was horrible to her. He seems to be a woman hater.
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 Жыл бұрын
@@Jooniebug Sadly, there are many men like that. Recently I got to know of some women married to men who beat them and yet it is not so easy for them to separate or divorce. These are educated women oh. Leaving an abusive relationship is not that simple especially when kids are involved and the woman is not financially sound. It is worse in Africa bcos no proper safety social net for victims.
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
​@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 I mean for him to be a woman beater he obviously hates women. Even his films in those days were always maltreatment of women. It came so easy for him to act on those roles. I agree with you. He is a liar, manipulator and obviously took control of a younger girl. Do you know what really pisses me off? Is that he came to promote his film in over a decade and instead was still doing his abusive behaviour by lying and angrily talking about Suzanne. How he thinks its OK is beyond me. All he had to do was promote the film. He's an ass.
@blessedfamily9141
@blessedfamily9141 Жыл бұрын
I am married to a Narcissistic the pain is too much to handle 😢
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 Жыл бұрын
@@blessedfamily9141 I pray you get the strength to take that decision you need to take for your own safety, happiness and self-worth. That is if you are very sure about what you are dealing with. If you want to have a conversation with me about this, I can give you my email address.
@syliviaatimong5246
@syliviaatimong5246 Жыл бұрын
Nobody buried my mother with me...😢😢😢😢😢...this is so heartbreaking...she has been through it all..Her strength alone is a big miracle.
@chetaobika
@chetaobika Жыл бұрын
This woman's calmess is out of this world. So soft spoken. May God heal you completely and restore all you have lost.
@adeolaoke4165
@adeolaoke4165 Жыл бұрын
Not blaming her… but being soft spoken does not depict being kind… naturally soft spoken people sometimes do trigger people who aren’t
@daprophetmusic9470
@daprophetmusic9470 Жыл бұрын
Can y’all really stop. Don’t be dumbbbbb She is so calm doesn’t make her a saint. And am not saying she’s right or wrong. Stop seeing peoples calmness as a way that they’re truthful. Amber head on the Jonny Depp divorce case in court, that lady is so calm that you can’t even tell she can hurt a fly but look at the things that were exposed about her and how she abused her ex husband but first lied to the court years earlier he was the abuser. He stayed silent until Years later he sued her with video evidences and the whole world was shocked. To be calm is good but that’s no basis to think someone is honest. Let it sink. Like I said, do not argue me. I didn’t say if she is right or wrong. Am just pointing out your lust in thoughts
@adeolaoke4165
@adeolaoke4165 Жыл бұрын
@@daprophetmusic9470 Certain people are naturally calm, has nothing to do with their character.
@preferjacker5369
@preferjacker5369 Жыл бұрын
very true, being soft-spoken atimes can be a manipulative tool, no one should jump into believing any of them, looks and perception can be deceiving
@victoriaolufade6686
@victoriaolufade6686 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@mrshappilymarried1
@mrshappilymarried1 Жыл бұрын
Her story sounds like a Nollywood movie..the ones I scream at the TV while watching. The ones that show how cruel and inhumane a beast can be to a beautiful naive woman. God Bless the 2nd half of her life with Peace & Love.🙏🏽
@ucheycharles2335
@ucheycharles2335 Жыл бұрын
Amennn. God is fighting her battle and it will end in praise for her. My prayer is that her children will not take the footsteps of Emeka ike the monster
@bolabalo
@bolabalo Жыл бұрын
It’s how she’s still so soft and graceful for me ❤
@DMstudiostv1123
@DMstudiostv1123 Жыл бұрын
She is telling the truth,I worked for her and emeka as the dance and drama instructor in their school,I saw,heard and experienced things oo
@vickywatt7082
@vickywatt7082 Жыл бұрын
Because you where staying with them at home
@DMstudiostv1123
@DMstudiostv1123 Жыл бұрын
@vickywatt7082 what I told you he threatened and one of the days pursued with a gun for a useless reason I can't even think of,and I have seen smoking hard drug at ojota where some thugs normally gather to settle scores..if you know me,you wouldn't be making funny statements..because He is your celebrity, you want to swallow everything he is pushing out to you abi
@vickywatt7082
@vickywatt7082 Жыл бұрын
@@DMstudiostv1123 Hmmmm... Nigeria's with useless mentality
@vickywatt7082
@vickywatt7082 Жыл бұрын
@@DMstudiostv1123 You saw him smoking hard drugs in ojota... Bro fear God
@carterwyatt2616
@carterwyatt2616 Жыл бұрын
@@DMstudiostv1123lies
@old_blues2397
@old_blues2397 Жыл бұрын
Can we all take a moment to acknowledge her beauty? It is evergreen!❤
@songelisus8545
@songelisus8545 Жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous and a sweet soul mainly looking at her. Emeka messed up as a man.
@abenaitwediana1273
@abenaitwediana1273 11 ай бұрын
So calm well mannered, may God bless her
@vcj8096
@vcj8096 Жыл бұрын
I pray the world would support this woman like May Edochie was supported to use her talent again. This man covered her glory, just like most African or Nigerian men do. God forbid!
@estheralbertine67
@estheralbertine67 Жыл бұрын
Awww,true talk laaa
@alhassanfirrdous7292
@alhassanfirrdous7292 Жыл бұрын
The womans story is soo straight forward, no crocodile tears, Emeka is disappointed the lady has grown and has moved on!
@tundeednutgodson
@tundeednutgodson Жыл бұрын
Emeka Ike's Ex Wife Suzanne and son Finally speak up: He is a Beast (EMEKA IKE AND SON IN BLOODY CLASH) kzbin.info/www/bejne/qn-2maN6mamgq5Isi=0GS1a2K8c61by-oO
@ezechinemerem9927
@ezechinemerem9927 Жыл бұрын
She would have been more if she didn't meet him.
@julietkwamboka2192
@julietkwamboka2192 Жыл бұрын
She is a strong woman for speaking up. You are empowering other women to have the power to leave abusive marriages/ relationships.
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
You can tell that he really tried to ruin her life. The thing that annoys me most is that she has never said a word due to how oppressed she felt but he has been talking about her for 10 yrs. So glad that Chude gave her the opportunity to speak up.
@ms.b8724
@ms.b8724 Жыл бұрын
And they often need a lot of convincing that emotional and physical abuse in any way, is not acceptable. Once a man puts his hand on you, that is the beginning of the end.
@stevenwilliams3015
@stevenwilliams3015 Жыл бұрын
​@@ms.b8724And when a woman starts verbally insulting you, that is the end. It goes both ways. Choose wisely before getting into marriage. This is not a man or woman issue, it's the person
@ruthemmanuel4739
@ruthemmanuel4739 Жыл бұрын
Honestly
@vicstreams7225
@vicstreams7225 Жыл бұрын
You girls should stop chasing a man because of his fame, financial status and materialism
@folakemiodunayo2330
@folakemiodunayo2330 Жыл бұрын
I believe this woman breakthrough has come because she found the courage for the world to hear her voice. Thank God she was not broken. Dealing with a narcissist is horrible, if you're not careful and brave you will start believing you are the problem because they like to take all your self-worth. Congratulations to you Suzanne 🎉
@chinaemeremchibueze7127
@chinaemeremchibueze7127 Жыл бұрын
That is why is good to hear from both side, when l had the man been interview l don't known that she had to went through all this Is well with you God will help you
@degaeric2955
@degaeric2955 Жыл бұрын
My sister in fact this woman pass true a lot
@hookedbystan
@hookedbystan Жыл бұрын
Did you live under the same roof with the both of them? If no?, then you must be a dummy and baby adult cause Hmm 👿 can appear calm,smooth talking and innocent
@graciouslykind22
@graciouslykind22 Жыл бұрын
As a person that left abusive r/ship with kids, hearing her say she left her marriage because of abuse but still feel abused sounds familiar. From experience, Abuse when they're kids involved doesn't end with divorce, it reduces to an extent but doesn't stop. And she's definitely genuine.
@fauxgars736
@fauxgars736 Жыл бұрын
Without knowing them, I got a glimpse of what the husband said, I haven't listened to the woman's voice but I know he is liar liar pants on fire. I glad this woman is still alive to tell her side for once. Class act.
@iyaibeji4120
@iyaibeji4120 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@gregovie6552
@gregovie6552 Жыл бұрын
This whole episode is a teachable moment that you don't have to envy anyone. I will not in a million years think of Emeka in this light, I'm shivering right now, intermittently utering wow wow wow. All that glitters indeed is not gold.
@preciouschristian
@preciouschristian Жыл бұрын
I have always perceived his personality even from his movies. His demeanor says it all. He only confirmed my suspicion
@chiomaikechukwu5483
@chiomaikechukwu5483 Жыл бұрын
😳all that glitters are not gold,hmmm
@lizzybens
@lizzybens Жыл бұрын
Same here 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
@ExpandingLimits23
@ExpandingLimits23 Жыл бұрын
swrs
@victoriaoseni8648
@victoriaoseni8648 Жыл бұрын
I believe her, if you watched "Gulder ultimate celebrity show down", you'll understand this woman. I saw who most of these so called celebrities are on the show including Chioma Akpota, Princess, Funke Akindele and Daddy showkey.
@cynthiaonyinyechi6162
@cynthiaonyinyechi6162 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad she’s taken time to put herself together.. such a beautiful woman
@mrnatha
@mrnatha Жыл бұрын
She could have actually won Miss Nigeria🥺. Decades after she still looks this beautiful,despite everything she's been through
@divabeauty_glam
@divabeauty_glam Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you came out to speak out,you’re a strong woman,you still maintained a calm posture while narrating your story,to tell you’re indeed a strong woman
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
Thanks to Chude for giving her the platform to speak up for the first time ever. The annoying thing is that Emeka thought he can still ruin, bully and abuse her AFTER 10 yrs! What an arrogant ass!
@divabeauty_glam
@divabeauty_glam Жыл бұрын
I knew from his interviews that he’s a narcissist
@frappatoni8709
@frappatoni8709 Жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@Profjun1998
@Profjun1998 Жыл бұрын
She kept going back and staying because she was trauma bonded to him. I believe her. It’s very difficult to leave such a relationship. You live with the scar even after you’ve left. I’m proud of this lady’s strength.
@hopeofzionheavenlymissionarytv
@hopeofzionheavenlymissionarytv Жыл бұрын
Some dont even have where to go if they decide to leave
@MellowSoul-ek3bj
@MellowSoul-ek3bj Жыл бұрын
You know!
@justkofo
@justkofo Жыл бұрын
Yes
@tinatomahsmith4320
@tinatomahsmith4320 Жыл бұрын
The fear of restarting by yourself. May God heal us all
@alhassanfirrdous7292
@alhassanfirrdous7292 Жыл бұрын
She was young and naive
@omowaniebunibi9696
@omowaniebunibi9696 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Emma for speaking up. This woman is beautiFUL!!!
@dinnyuynancykinyuy1687
@dinnyuynancykinyuy1687 Жыл бұрын
Not wanting her to work was a red flag
@hopeorahemo2083
@hopeorahemo2083 6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@aSlimtube
@aSlimtube Жыл бұрын
Interviewer and interviewee are both impressive. Compelling story. Respect to a wonderful woman.
@PoSHEmediaglobal
@PoSHEmediaglobal Жыл бұрын
When she was describing the hot oil situation and her howling I burst out crying I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. No one deserves this 😢
@emwiogbonegberamwen9295
@emwiogbonegberamwen9295 Жыл бұрын
I went through this threat of hot oil bathing 😢
@rolandnatmia5754
@rolandnatmia5754 Жыл бұрын
Did u listen to Emeka Ike's PA?
@chukwudiezekiel4127
@chukwudiezekiel4127 Жыл бұрын
Cry well
@naadumeals8175
@naadumeals8175 Жыл бұрын
Was there an oil scar?
@funmibabs767
@funmibabs767 Жыл бұрын
​@@rolandnatmia5754Leave them to keep believing some of her lies.
@Dorothy8631
@Dorothy8631 Жыл бұрын
I have a first hand experience with an abusive husband. I took it all in without calling the police on him ever. I packed my things one day and left with my two kids without taking anything. When I started talking, he asked me why I didn’t call the police if he ever abused me. With where we stayed, he could’ve lost his job and properties if I had called the police on him. I also didn’t want the people back home to accuse me of destroying his life. Now, he’s out there telling people lies about why I left. Even his 3rd marriage has ended. I have learned to not judge others when they leave their marriage.
@NileGoddess
@NileGoddess Жыл бұрын
Absolutely.Sorry about your experience .It’s great you left .I have been there too.
@sandraudekwe3719
@sandraudekwe3719 Жыл бұрын
Don’t help abusers Next time report them!! What kind of frog 🐸 lifting are u giving such a person?
@christinengo-bilongmoukond4986
@christinengo-bilongmoukond4986 Жыл бұрын
​@@sandraudekwe3719And the children? He may need that job to (at least) be sued for their support...
@onyekaonuoha5020
@onyekaonuoha5020 Жыл бұрын
This is so sad,I'm sorry you had to go through all this.Some monsters
@chanorou2075
@chanorou2075 Жыл бұрын
Next time do the needful and report
@chinonsoola2303
@chinonsoola2303 Жыл бұрын
This woman is so soft spoken. No doubt there would be some epitome of truth in her story.
@piusokpeaifoh1532
@piusokpeaifoh1532 Жыл бұрын
I believe all the things this lady said 100%, because this lifestyle she describes fit him perfectly
@Maxlly
@Maxlly Жыл бұрын
So you just heard and concluded
@ebukambakwe5409
@ebukambakwe5409 Жыл бұрын
So who do we believe now but how can 2 people come out with 2 different storyline
@olaidejabar4380
@olaidejabar4380 Жыл бұрын
I believe her 💯 men like this go for younger girls so they can control them is only sadistic men that does that then cry out, as the victim.
@eurexfitness
@eurexfitness Жыл бұрын
@@ebukambakwe5409those who know Emeka know how he is. A friend who lived close to them talked about how he beats his wife black and blue. Even when he was on gulder ultimate search, his behavior was too arrogant
@Spiritualgrowth_chi
@Spiritualgrowth_chi Жыл бұрын
@@olaidejabar4380thank you . I broke up with one recently i noticed he is dating a very young girl now his next victim. I only pray God help her realize on time 😢
@pamelatshikila2004
@pamelatshikila2004 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being the voice of so many woman being abused by their so called husbands. An abusive man is a coward. May God strengthen and help you build your life with your children.
@naphisa340
@naphisa340 Жыл бұрын
I love that you emphasized that "so called husband." A real husband wouldn't abuse his wife..
@ekachuks7481
@ekachuks7481 Жыл бұрын
Big coward
@jimohkudirat9200
@jimohkudirat9200 Жыл бұрын
😊8😊77h​@@naphisa340
@temiaghedo4754
@temiaghedo4754 Жыл бұрын
This is why it’s good to hear the 2 sides of the story. We all know she’s telling the truth. This is exactly the way narcissists behave. Now they are divorced, he won’t leave her alone. Mad men everywhere. Say no to drugs
@BB-dk3fd
@BB-dk3fd Жыл бұрын
Exactly 😢
@waleakinola
@waleakinola Жыл бұрын
Yes, the drugs mix sways the pendulum madly against Emeka.
@missjenn6861
@missjenn6861 Жыл бұрын
Did you ever live with them to know who’s speaking the truth?
@TheMelanatedDonaldTrump
@TheMelanatedDonaldTrump Жыл бұрын
@@missjenn6861 Excellent question!👍🏾
@hookedbystan
@hookedbystan Жыл бұрын
Have you live under the same roof with them? Group of dummies 😅
@joellempungu1578
@joellempungu1578 Жыл бұрын
I remember leaving my 12 years hell marriage,i left quietly and no one even knew i left but the abuser and narcissist in him didn't stay quiet so what he said and did was exactly what Mr Emeka is doing and i believe this woman,only those who have gone through this kind of things know.Very sad.Whether they believe you or not,that's your story and God is the only one who saw everything ❤️
@dinnyuynancykinyuy1687
@dinnyuynancykinyuy1687 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@chikochiringa7247
@chikochiringa7247 Жыл бұрын
You can very right
@soniansor8515
@soniansor8515 Жыл бұрын
U are absolutely right
@opolamankayi381
@opolamankayi381 Жыл бұрын
I am glad you are safe darling , it's only those who wore the shoes will understand May the Lord Bless you and comfort you❤
@erimsnissiosaguwe5705
@erimsnissiosaguwe5705 Жыл бұрын
What a humble woman I pray God will come through for you
@LyletteNewton-th4vi
@LyletteNewton-th4vi Жыл бұрын
As a Caribbean woman you & I have lived the life of an abused man for almost 15yrs. I have attempted suicidal twice in the marriage, the most dangerous one was when I was 7months pregnant with my son. But to God be the glory, my children & I are still here.
@doriseze1130
@doriseze1130 Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you. Please leave if you feel unsafe. You need to stay alive for you and the kids.
@ms.b8724
@ms.b8724 Жыл бұрын
Remain strong and cling on to God. He will see you through it all. One day, you will look back and be able to help other women get out of the same situation.
@bernedettekuteyi3843
@bernedettekuteyi3843 Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you not letting that demonic man to take you out.
@LyletteNewton-th4vi
@LyletteNewton-th4vi Жыл бұрын
@@bernedettekuteyi3843 Amen. Thank you
@LyletteNewton-th4vi
@LyletteNewton-th4vi Жыл бұрын
@@doriseze1130 Thank you 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. I ran away nine months after my second child was born, went back because my mom was ill, I needed some one to take care of my kids while I go help my siblings take care of my mom. When I got back for my kids he refused me to take my children so I had no choice but to stay, I wasn’t about to leave my kids behind. The second time I had no choice but to be strong, let him know I was leaving and never returned. My kids & I had was to leave because it was getting dangerous for me, & unsafe for my kids. My son will be thirty five on January 16th. Grace kept me Amen
@Dela-y2o
@Dela-y2o Жыл бұрын
I had goosebumps all over me, this woman is an epitome of beauty and a virtuous woman. The tone of her notes is so calming to the soul. God bless you and keep you alive to take care of those kids. Leave that man to his conscience that’s if he has one. Nemesis will catch up with him.
@grambl2
@grambl2 Жыл бұрын
😆😆😆Gerrout jare!..You are an adulterous fellow. Leave the poor woman alone
@haske_
@haske_ Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. Such a beautiful woman.
@ifeomaodezugo4383
@ifeomaodezugo4383 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@hortyyesset6006
@hortyyesset6006 Жыл бұрын
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@bevwalshtv2745
@bevwalshtv2745 Жыл бұрын
I think Emeka felt he had to speak out on his last interview BECAUSE he knows that there are people who know the truth which will affect the movie he is in. It was a calculated strategy, BUT....he was also spiritually set up by the devil to bring himself down. The producer took a chance on giving him that role which after hearing this interview I am sure she will regret....and to think, from what i understand, Emeka himself was worried about what people will think before accepting the role. That in itself says a lot. This situation is so sad. It makes us realize also how the devil "if allowed," can rubbish the life of someone who is gifted and talented. The behavior that this man brought out did not start with him...I do not think so. Some things are inherited and sadly ignored. This man needs serious help. Great interview. We thank God for keeping this lady alive to tell her story. He will see her and her children through.
@golden3266
@golden3266 Жыл бұрын
The best comment on here. I 100% agree
@floBar51651
@floBar51651 Жыл бұрын
He's is a subanstance abuser. His behavior is pretty standard for one who is always high on substance.
@jenniferasoro7451
@jenniferasoro7451 Жыл бұрын
This is soooo my story 😢😢. Met him at 17 (my 1st ever), but it's been torture. I even had suicidal thoughts, so I completely understand all she's saying.
@alicenalulwe84
@alicenalulwe84 Жыл бұрын
If you are still there and no change move mama
@ellianadimond3656
@ellianadimond3656 Жыл бұрын
Are you still there?
@godslove7301
@godslove7301 Жыл бұрын
Please leave such marriage it's not worth your life
@lovertlambe2945
@lovertlambe2945 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ!!! Never been this glued to an interview! She had me sit down and listen, keenly. You are a string woman, ma'am and the lot, here, believe you. Thank God for my father who isn't perfect, but never touched nor verbally abused my Mom.
@brightrobert4037
@brightrobert4037 Жыл бұрын
Swears 😢😢😢😢
@chikatheodorandukwu2076
@chikatheodorandukwu2076 Жыл бұрын
Same here😢 I pray that God blesses her and give her all her heart desires 🙏
@summeraku
@summeraku Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Chude for this interview. 👏👏👏👏👏 As I content creator I was really struggling with the story when Emeka said the things in his interview. I really wanted to hear from Emma first before I make a video about it. I’m glad she has finally said her side. When I make videos saying couples should go their separate ways in peace instead of staying together and deleting or harming each other, some people don’t get it. It’s even worst for the children who witness their parenting fíghting. The trauma can last a life time. At the end of the day, like I always say in my videos, ‘having your parents apart but alive is better than one getting kiIIed and the other getting jaíled.
@angiebennie8438
@angiebennie8438 Жыл бұрын
Summer, Emma was a year my junior in FGGC Benin. She was a very well-behaved, quiet, and law-abiding girl, a sweet calm soul. Emeka took advantage of her naivety and abused her. Didn't allow her bloom. Not allowing a woman to work is taking away her financial freedom and the early signs of abuse
@nmd298
@nmd298 Жыл бұрын
Summer please keep it real when you try to analyse this video because you are in the business of jumping ship. We know you also have told a story of your ex abusive husband which made you hate church and men. But please this is different because your Yoruba ex married another person which made you feel bad and it's understandable.
@NeckyUmeobi
@NeckyUmeobi Жыл бұрын
@sissummer# There are so many reasons why some women stay in abusive marriage,Emeka took advantage of Emma because of her humble background, while Emma choose to endure because of not financially capable to move out of the marriage.There are some stories I will hear and I began to wonder if someone people still have a heart??, let's be more of human than man.Marriage is meant to enjoy not to endure!. Am glad she finally speaks out! Adi ebi ikpe na onu ofu onye.!
@summeraku
@summeraku Жыл бұрын
⁠@@nmd298 I was never married to any abusive person. I’ve never experienced abuse in marriage. NEVER. What is this you’re writing about my “husband marrying someone else”? Wow! you must be mixing me up with someone else.
@summeraku
@summeraku Жыл бұрын
@@NeckyUmeobiNne, true. It’s a good thing she spoke her side of the story.
@astiradaniel
@astiradaniel Жыл бұрын
Love and hugs to this woman! She truly suffered a lot. I pray for peace and happiness in your life forever
@justtbella5153
@justtbella5153 Жыл бұрын
The consistency in the story and timelines, her composure too. I pray God restores all she has lost.
@Priskarl
@Priskarl Жыл бұрын
I couldn’t hold back tears. Kai this woman is strong. He is pained because she got away and has moved on.
@dianajudith
@dianajudith Жыл бұрын
3 years since I left my abusive marriage, you doing 10, mama you are strong. I could not do that. The emotional, psychological financial sexual abuse would not allow me do that. You will rebuild your life and all this will end. I pray for God to give you peace and strength in Jesus name. Truely all that glitters I not gold!
@MalcanniPlus
@MalcanniPlus Жыл бұрын
She's a beautiful woman!
@faitha1075
@faitha1075 Жыл бұрын
When I heard emeka’s story, I was like I will only hear the woman’s side to believe it. Thanks God she finally came out
@TheZuluman7
@TheZuluman7 Жыл бұрын
The boiling oil moment for sent shivers down my spine. What a beautiful & intelligent lady ,narrating her ordeal flawlessly , eloquently & with such consistency that alone proves a point she is 💯 telling the truth.
@fitonlyforthemastersuse.3733
@fitonlyforthemastersuse.3733 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't have summarized this any better.. you're so spot on!!!
@Comrade-m4w
@Comrade-m4w Жыл бұрын
Don't conclude someone can be cool and still be dangerous pls..
@RuthOkpese
@RuthOkpese Жыл бұрын
This woman need so much love and peace, can’t he just leave her alone after abusing her from 14 years? Narcissists are so disgusting. I’m sending hugs and love to this amazing strong woman.
@bernedettekuteyi3843
@bernedettekuteyi3843 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately men like Emeka Ike and Yul Edochie are both natural BORN NARCISSIST
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
This is sad to hear but am glad she spoke out. I pray my daughter never meet a manipulating man. Glad she left for her own safety and mental health. I believe her. He is still angry at her AFTER 10 years and has the arrogance to think he can still abuse her! You can see that Emeka is arrogant and makes things up as if he were a rich man when he wasn't. Am so happy she's better and her own person. More power to her.
@doriso6571
@doriso6571 Жыл бұрын
Thank God she is alive to tell her story. Useless man with his horrible acting.
@mumsrfun
@mumsrfun Жыл бұрын
I noticed that arrogance in both TVC and Channels interview. He needs to get it checked.
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
​@@doriso6571Yes. Am glad she is alive to speak up. He has been the one talking and very angry with the woman even after she's completely moved on. Even when he was talking in the interview he was still angry and arrogant.
@Jooniebug
@Jooniebug Жыл бұрын
​@@mumsrfun yes I saw that. He was so angry and rude to the women of your view.
@FEO538
@FEO538 Жыл бұрын
Empower your daughter with sense now.
@Naijatoabroad
@Naijatoabroad Жыл бұрын
I would’ve ended up like this woman if I had married the man I was engaged to. I thank God for saving me
@marykaguma3512
@marykaguma3512 Жыл бұрын
Im watching this from the UK.Actually im from kenya,and i was married to a kenyan man for 26 years ,he was a narcissist i mean we had everything but he made my life miserable i had to leave.Im a mother of 4 kids.I ren away from kenya to the UK to seek asylum because of the father of my children.Im now safe and been able to reunite with my two youngest kids through the help of British red cross.Every story has an end and if its not working ( marriage)just love yourself and walk away .Happy xmas to you all and God bless!
@beverlykombo9004
@beverlykombo9004 11 ай бұрын
Came to wish you all the love and strength Mary.❤
@josbenyator2795
@josbenyator2795 11 ай бұрын
Pple who have no idea what a narcissist is can't relate it's terrible
@oladipupomunis8392
@oladipupomunis8392 Жыл бұрын
Very intelligent and beautiful woman Emeka lost, what a pity
@ijangyvonnembah
@ijangyvonnembah Жыл бұрын
Kaii this woman is honest. Truth. Sometimes don't listen to one sided story. Thank you Chude for putting this up. Such a beautiful woman who has spent all her youthful age wasted.
@Maya_4543
@Maya_4543 Жыл бұрын
My eyes is filled with tears😢 even as I listen to you. My dad keep making my mom feel she is small and this has affected us as children. I pray she heals quickly. God will replenish all the lost strength. Bless up
@KosiHobenu
@KosiHobenu Жыл бұрын
This woman speaks the truth. I saw Emeka in his prime in movies back in the days, the lady is narrating who he is not just in the movies but in life. The passion in which this woman speaks without casting insinuations, I believe her.
@helinananky
@helinananky 11 ай бұрын
Exactly
@georginahmunyarari8342
@georginahmunyarari8342 11 ай бұрын
I saw that too in his movies. I used to hate his movies for that . Sadly another person had to live with such a person
@sleepmaiden
@sleepmaiden Жыл бұрын
I dated a narcissist once. I was barely recognizable at some point in my life. When I tried to leave, he’ll profess love and cry like a child. I relocated and saved myself. I stand with this woman. I’m happily married for 10years to a well raised man and I still pinch myself out of anger for dating that demon. Sis, let him have his pity party.
@vivianobioma3146
@vivianobioma3146 Жыл бұрын
My story....😢😢😢
@VoguishMis
@VoguishMis Жыл бұрын
Chale! Like mine! He'll cry like a fucking baby asking me back. After fucking up a couple more times, 😢 he realised his tricks weren't moving me no more. Almost six years! I still have remnants of the trauma I endured.
@cutandgo
@cutandgo Жыл бұрын
Me too. I don't know how God pulled me out of that 1 year of hell. The only saving grace was that I was financially independent and even supporting him.
@sleepmaiden
@sleepmaiden Жыл бұрын
@@cutandgo good for you. I was a student. He got me at the prime when I was young and naive. He lied about his age. He was approaching his 30s and I wasn’t even 20.
@ayuma4747
@ayuma4747 Жыл бұрын
And the narcissist love media.... She did good and he is dry trying to recharge maybe it's not soft at the other side. Maybe he got a balance of him
@chinazoucheaga4825
@chinazoucheaga4825 Жыл бұрын
He thought she would never speak up. Bravo brave woman! I can only wish her peace and joy moving forward. I only pray this serves as a warning for people who may be about to walk into this same situation and are ignoring the signs. Not everyone lives to tell the story. This interview is enough for the wise.
@rispaqueen
@rispaqueen Жыл бұрын
This is what l went through, for so long antil when l saw death ad l decided to live😢😢😢after 18yrs. 6yrs since I left but still the pain is fresh l miss my children, l know one day l meet them.
@spotlightonthesilverlining6006
@spotlightonthesilverlining6006 Жыл бұрын
It's only people that has ever walk through an abusive relationship and survived that can read between the lines here, mah God heal all our relationships. Singles out there, plus pray so you don't end up as a prey.
@judithemmanuel7575
@judithemmanuel7575 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Godflakes
@Godflakes Жыл бұрын
i am so glad she spoke up, i pray she finds peace and healing and that Emeka answers for what he has put her through
@D.R.E.Y.Z
@D.R.E.Y.Z Жыл бұрын
Ladies - when your husband tell you not to work, irrespective of how rich he’s, run o. Of course, before you run, make him to realize you want to work. If he still does not agree, run. Those type of men will control you 100% because they know you depend on them financially
@abimbolaolorode8963
@abimbolaolorode8963 Жыл бұрын
You are mental, you keep posting the same rubbish in people's comments. who send you, comot for here.@NuratyGiwaSalvador
@judithemmanuel7575
@judithemmanuel7575 Жыл бұрын
Walahi
@anita-queen1629
@anita-queen1629 Жыл бұрын
​@NuratyGiwaSalvador She wasn't silent, she just didn't bring it to the media, unlike Emeka. Listen to grasp, don't listen to contribute. After listening to everything she said, you're still asking such a question? Means you didn't understand anything you watched. Na wa oo
@oluremiajayi6096
@oluremiajayi6096 Жыл бұрын
​@NuratyGiwaSalvadorare you mad? You're the only insane person in the whole of this comment section. You call a survivor a liar? Is your understanding of English language flawed? Stop being a nuisance and get out of here!
@kind2423
@kind2423 Жыл бұрын
Its true. All the women where the husband doesn't want her to wotk are in terrible marrisges
@nanayaadarko9796
@nanayaadarko9796 Жыл бұрын
Ohh poor woman, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. 😢Everyone here believes you and your story. Thank you for coming out to share your story. This will help other women. You’re so strong and loving. I really wish my mother would watch this and make this bold move. He tried to destroy you but you came on top. I hope and pray that you heal . Much love.
@habygass
@habygass Жыл бұрын
This woman is not lying. She is telling the truth. You must live with a narcissist to understand what she is talking about. I left 4 years ago and still healing after 8 years of living hell. When she said i lost people i felt that because they were scared of him😢😢😢
@Michael-cm5uf
@Michael-cm5uf Жыл бұрын
This woman is very strong. She has been through a lot at the hands of an animal. I wish her the best moving forward
@ekachuks7481
@ekachuks7481 Жыл бұрын
Pure an!mal to the core
@AmayaRue2360
@AmayaRue2360 Жыл бұрын
The moment she said drugs it explained his behaviour on his interview. He seriously was twitching like someone with a drug problem. As a survivor myself there is something about survivor vibes and you can tell she is one of us. 10 years of silence is no joke . Emma l would say stay clear as in faaaar away from Emeka because he is now more dangerous than he ever was because you have exposed him
@eurexfitness
@eurexfitness Жыл бұрын
Yes. As she has exposed him, he might harm her. That’s how they behave
@iyaibeji4120
@iyaibeji4120 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@brianbelieve
@brianbelieve Жыл бұрын
Truth
@RachealEde-oh8hk
@RachealEde-oh8hk Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you,Emma. You survived and you are telling your story❤❤
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