Q&A | Going Offline, Changing My Name, My Future Partner | Fall 2020

[@Erin-thornycrown7]

I'm in no place to tell anyone what to do. But as a longtime subscriber, commenter and admirer of yours I think it would be a great practice if you tried not to mention your 'haters' in your videos. I think there are mean people who actively are trying to get a reaction from you. So I hope this is not taken the wrong way but maybe just don't give them any response at all because I think there are some people who are watching to see if you respond. I liked you ten years ago. I liked you five years ago. And I like you now. I think that you are a great person and you have such a sweet nature and you tend to apologize for things you don't need to apologize for. You can be however you are and we as your viewers can watch it or not. And so many people choose to watch and are nice. I wouldn't give any weight to the people who are mean.

[@Butterflye9]

Well said and I agree.

[@RachelClareable]

Completely agree with this! We love you Jen and you do receive so many supportive comments. I know it must be hard to ignore the negative ones but by starting the video with a passive aggressive comment to the haters (‘I’m sure you’ll say something about my hair. THANKS). Well yes I’m sure someone will say something but why prod them or even acknowledge them? Just ignore them. You’ll never please everyone.

[@Davinia77]

Exactly there’s way more people who love her! I don’t understand why people watch her if they don’t like her!

[@mnelson2008]

YES!!! Haters gonna hate, and they love getting attention. We love you, Jen. Long time subscriber, and your light and inspiration continues to make our days better. Focus only on that majority who very much enjoy everything about you and your videos.

[@Jen-Chapin]

As a creator here on YT I agree. You’re never gonna change the haters minds. You just gotta be you.

[@Mitzi73]

Happiness is a temporary feeling and a high bar. Contentment and well-being is better, I think.

[@sarahk8464]

Girl! Date. Lots. Go for drinks with lots of different guys, have different conversations with different personalities, push yourself out of your comfort zone. Have fun with it! I know to many people who get out of a long term relationship and then the first person they date is basically their ex.

[@beautyequalshate]

Amen! Even if she gets a coffee with people or takes a walk with them. Some men may be recently out of divorce too and just want a companion and don't want to rush it either.

[@CharliecatII]

no the vultures sweep in just enjoy yourself and do your own thing

[@tuesdayisthenewfriday]

YES!

[@bluviolet]

As a silent subscriber who’s been with you since the beginning. I am so happy to see you back. You seem lighter. I hope you know that there’s a lot of us rooting for you and praying for you and for your family. You have prayers from everywhere, even from here in the Philippines where I’m from.

[@charlottereiten6245]

I have followed your sweet channel for several years and have fully enjoyed the transition from dog mom to house and schedule full of children. I think you are amazing and Rocking it! Change is our only constant. You are a great example of being a real life Mom, striving for balance and demonstrating options for a peaceful day where we bend with the winds of change. Thank you for being an inspiration and validation of real life struggles with healthy options for self care.

[@djbrec]

Strengthening my relationship with God has done a WORLD of wonder for any anxiety or down feelings. It truly will change your whole world to be able to give any worries over to Christ and when those thoughts creep in to have that relationship to grow has helped my life in ways words can’t express. I will truly and sincerely be praying for your peace during this time in your life ❤️

[@glasscitygirl]

When someone can talk about pain and feelings without getting emotional and crying you know the awareness is real. Being vulnerable is scary but also so pure for your soul. Love you Jenn. 😉

[@isbaileyreading]

I love how gracefully you talk about your divorce. You are equally respectful while also admitting you did this for yourself! Stay strong and we are rooting for you!

[@lynnconroy8]

Don’t think of it as dating. Think about it as getting to know new people. Like a coworker or friend of a friend. That may take some pressure off the “dating” word. If someone pops up as very interesting, and you’ll know, take the next step. Also, I’ve noticed a brightness in your eyes. Very becoming!

[@kayu7941]

Who can sleep? Its 2020. We are all awake at 3am. Lol

[@lauraburgess1534]

I've done some reading lately about medieval sleep practices; apparently, EVERYONE used to sleep in 2 stages, and would even get out and visit neighbors or have tea or read or other activities in the awake time in between. It has done much to make me feel like waking up at 3 is normal, and embrace my awake time and make it special. Then I can relax and get back to sleep.

[@witchescauldron]

@@lauraburgess1534 @Kay U So comforted to hear others are having sleep issues like me! Also, incredibly vivid and intense dreams, every single night. I had heard about the Medieval sleep situation - what a time to live! :)

[@saltymilspouse]

As a now 51 yo woman whose parents divorced when I was 7, it was the best gift my mother ever gave us. My parents were not good partners but rose to their very best as parents after the divorce. My mother was such an amazing role model for us to know our worth and to have standards. Also, I remember in 5th grade wishing my mom had the same last name. She had retaken her maiden name. Keep on moving forward and know that your children notice more than you think they do.

[@mehmay2518]

Thinking of you - as a mom on her own who also suffered from anxiety - sometimes debilitating - I really understand. Just remember to love yourself through it mama. Today I’m a first time gramma of an 18 month old angel and my daughter is a wife and mama who is really happy. We made it. ❤️ 🙏 for you and your little ones. 😘✌️❤️

[@rebekahduhaime8713]

Jen, I have watched and followed you for so long, sooo many years. You are a source of familiarity and comfort for me and I find you to be a source of peace and light in my life. Thank you for continuing to share with us and spread all the love you have to give. ❤️

[@TheGabriel2002]

You sound clear headed and there’s that glow in your eyes I missed ❤️. You are becoming you again, the road to finding yourself has been difficult but you’re getting there ❤️❤️❤️

[@jo-annebotha9609]

The animated movie "Inside out" showed us that all our emotions are valid. We don't HAVE to be 'happy' all the time. We and those around us have to learn to deal with that. We can only live authentic lives if we are honest with ourselves first and that means giving ourselves the permission to experience and acknowledge all our emotions.

[@lauraburgess1534]

I am always telling people about this movie. Not only are all emotions valid, but we can experience multiple ones at the same time. At the end, when Riley's memories get "recolored" as both joyful and sad, or sad and angry, was so powerful to me.

[@jo-annebotha9609]

@@lauraburgess1534 definitely. Emotions are complex

[@user-tr6ts5ck6h]

Hi Jen! I started watching your MHWL channel in 2011 when I was 20, because at that time I really wanted to be a housewife lol, and I loved all of your cozy content & organizing vids! I stopped watching maybe 5 or 6 years ago and I came back to your channel a few months ago--I'm now 29 and your videos feel "like home" to me. A deep sense of nostalgia overcomes me when I watch. It is so cool to see your journey through the years, and you navigating this new terrain in the world of dating, etc. lmk if you ever need dating tips, b/c I'm right there with you ;)

[@cynsue1618]

Your words made me think of this quote “The world is indeed full of peril, and in it there are many dark places; but still there is much that is fair, and though in all lands love is now mingled with grief, it grows perhaps the greater.” J. R. R. Tolkien I have also noticed how negative people are, I think we are all weary of COVID, but I have unfollowed some content creators because they are becoming more and more negative and complain. Your positive and honest attitude is refreshing!!

[@jasminecruz7643]

I just love you girlfriend!!! You are a blessing to have in my life even though is thru social media... the friends in your life are truly lucky to have you. ❤️ Thank you for sharing.

[@asher20100]

You’re intro was super cute , and your hairs fine! You’re a mama and now navigating through a new season of life - I’m right there with you. Divorce is hard and real and takes work. It’s hard and you’re doing your best. Keep it up mama!

[@roxanamcdavid3524]

I was so excited to see this video! I am in the same boat. I am a 44 year old with 19 year old and 15. It does get easier... but like you said some days you will struggle emotionally. I still do that. Enjoy these moments with your little ones. I watch all of your old videos at night... it helps me sleep. Last night I just watch your holiday prep from 2012☺️. Sending air hugs

[@busymama7903]

@Roxana McDavid, I am a lot like you, 46 years old with a 19 year old and 14 year old and have been watching Jen on her journey since her Organized Like Jen days before she had children. There are days I miss my kids being little, but then there are days where I really enjoy the deep and meaningful conversations I have with my older children. There is always this push/pull of emotions and we just need to ride the waves the best we can 🌊

[@AlongOurLife]

I don’t understand why would anyone dislike this video? Why such honest and truthful expressions of her feelings and struggles bothers people!! Jen, you are a true soul and you shine no matter what. I am dying to see your future decorating, workout videos. Stay positive, the stormy waves will come to piece by time.

[@rtk9630]

Jen, I have shared before, if I don't do 50 minutes everyday of cardio (increased HR) I am doubled over with anxiety! If I skip a day or two, it takes me 2 weeks of resuming daily to Re-stabilize. If you are injured, swim, or do anything to >HR x 50 minutes. Do bicycle air kicks, whatever, just get that heart Rate up and keep it up. Love you and thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us.

[@shannonbean6954]

I always enjoy your chatty videos. So relaxing. As someone who is also happy but also struggling, and also afraid of their brain, thanks for putting those thoughts into words. It's helpful to know I am not alone ❤

[@Beachbum12351]

Just wanted to say I watched your channel years agon when it had a different name, took a break from watching KZbin and was so happy to find your channel again. You've always been someone I admired and looked up to. You've always reminded me of Kristen Davis. You are so put together, so sweet, and have great content. I hope you're doing well.

[@WithWonder]

Thanks for coming back! ❤️

[@kirsty001]

Fingers crossed for vlogmas, have been watching the old ones. Been great catching up with them all ❤️ Hehe so funny when you swear then the giggling after 😁

[@cleo962]

Speaking as someone who is also uncomfortable with casual dating, you are by no means obliged to see more than one person at once, I used to chat to a couple of nice people on dating apps and if they were really nice then meet them in person for a first date, with the mindset of if I found someone I then wanted to go on a second date with I would stop talking to other people. I was always incredibly honest that I was not looking for an open relationship, exclusivity was a priority for me and if that wasnt something they feltl they were ready for I politely said goodbye, Yes this way can make things take longer but I was in no rush. The biggest piece of advice I give for all to consider is spend a good amount of time deciding what YOU want, and be as open with it as possible. The whole concept of dating/relationships/good traits/bad traits/superficial/genuine is all subjective, so don't ever chastise yourself for the things you consider a priority, everyone is different, find someone who's priorities line up with yours as best as possible!

[@leiaas3862]

Ms Jen! I’ve watched you for years, I’m sure your videos have shaped me in ways I don’t even know yet, I’m happy to hear you’re doing so well even with a divorce, it almost scares me in some ways. I’m currently in your 19 y/o shoes myself. But I know that whatever happens, happens.

[@omghandbags1]

You seem very relaxed and peaceful. U have a very calm affect. U always inspire me😉

[@climoag4]

Jen you are so wonderful! So calm and down to earth! It's been so nice to see you discover more and more of yourself over the last year!

[@MsMickey777]

I've missed you! I know you have been uploading video's but I have been watching you for 9 or ten years now and somehow this video was kind of coming home for me! If you know what I mean. Lots of love

[@ageorge5362]

I am all for women empowerment! 💪 I teach my girls everyday to get their education so they can make their own $ and never depend on a man! Girl power!

[@gabygaby5701]

Isn’t she supported 100% by her ex???

[@preservid]

"Afraid of My Brain" Perfect to describe those late night runs, I call it Spinning. And it always happens worse when I lay my head down on my pillow!

[@ashlinielson2578]

I have anxiety and depression and have found that a good book with some hot tea in my recliner. I also enjoy collecting quotes that are positive and motivational for me. I look for them everywhere, I have a special personal size ring binder that goes everywhere we me. I have photos and quotes from magazines, words to increase my vocabulary (helps with my book reading.) scripture lists, interesting facts I don’t want to forget. It helps me feel more in control because several of my health issues cause memory and “brain fog”.

[@kristeno.664]

Have you ever tried a weighted blanket for anxiety? Enjoying tiny house tours and finding them calming leads me to believe that this is something you may find helpful!

[@nerdy80shairbandmom]

The underlying happines you refer to is Joy. Happiness is situational. You can have Joy in your life and still experience moments of unhappiness. You can also experience anxiety about certain things without giving up your Joy. Tap into that Joy.

[@shannin2165]

i just had a scary test done at the hospital and i immediately played one of your videos to calm me down!! your voice is so soothing and i really feel like i’m hanging out with a friend when i watch your videos 💜💜💜

[@carolynbennett1867]

I am absolutely the same when it comes to sleep. There is something about actually turning out the light and trying to go to sleep that can feel an insurmountable task. It sounds really weird unless you've gone through it yourself. I've found putting on an audiobook and using a warm eye mask for about 15 mins really helps. It kind of bridges the gap between not going to sleep and sleeping. Sort of tricks my brain into thinking its not bed time when it is. Then after 15 mins when I take the mask off my eyes are already shut, the light is already out and I'm much more content to sleep. Just wanted you to know that you are not alone in this at all. Xx

[@katiesmith91022]

I was definitely a relationship girl as well! But do go out on dates and don’t take everything so serious! You will find the right partner when it’s the right time! Love your videos Jen! Stay happy and healthy!

[@jessicaoliver773]

You are such an amazing person Jen. Thank you for opening up and sharing your perspective with all of us. You and I are very similar in the fact that we had one teenage relationship then another that became our spouses. I know you haven’t been feeling yourself, but I can see just how strong you are. Hugs and love to you!

[@RachelClareable]

I love you and your content and would never dream of saying anything about your hair. I think most ppl watching are the same. So please don’t start your videos with passive aggressive comments to the ppl who are horrible to you. Just ignore them!! I know easier said than done but think more about all the support you receive from people. Also, we don’t mind you having time off, don’t feel the need to justify yourself. Just do you! 💗

[@vickifenlon2235]

I can so relate to you. I wasn't allowed to date until I was 18 and then was afraid to because I didn't know how. I married my husband after a very short time of knowing him. We didn't really date. After two children and 5 grandgirls I divorced him ( I was never allowed a vote in any decision no matter it's importance). Shortly after my divorce I moved from Michigan to Ireland to a place I'd never been. My grandfather was born in Ireland so citizenship was easy for me. I have never been as contented and deeply happy and free as I am now, but I am also a bit anxious over this whole damn penic ( mispronunciation intentional). Love your vlog!!

[@julieanderson3915]

A thoughtful, authentic Q and A. Take great care of yourself on this journey, Jen. You have deservedly made many virtual friends around the world who care about you.

[@Bramdmd]

I feel your pain regarding the sleep. I am older than you and at your age I also went through extreme anxiety (possibly due in part to an unhappy marriage or was contributing to it. I dont know which) sleep is important. I have done a lot of reading about women's health in the last 5 years since I turned 40 and have discovered that food really impacts the way I feel. It was not uncommon for me to routinely skip meals and eat poorly in the past but since I've made an effort to eat more regularly I find that it helps tremendously with my anxiety. I also take melatonin for sleep which helps me and I am now in a new relationship. Sorry for the unsolicited advice but seeing you like this reminds me of what I was going through and I wish someone had told me!

[@thecrazybookworm3086]

Don't stress yourself about doing vlogmass! If you wanna try and see if it works you could or do a hybrid version. Like one vlog a week either of one day or for the whole week. You don't need to do a video every day. While we will love whatever you post don't do it just for us. Do it if you want to and don't make it something else you HAVE to do! I'm glad you are doing pretty well. I get what you mean by being happy yet struggling.

[@lizzie11993]

Loved the video! Your channel is one of my favourites, i just feel you are so real and relatable. That's hard to find ❤️

[@BeautyandStyleFiles]

Ooh....I get that happy but struggling portion. I feel the EXACT same way. Things are so uncertain and stressful...it’s like constantly bracing myself for the next crazy thing to happen. At the same time, I do feel incredibly blessed and grateful. Thank you for articulating that so well, it definitely resonated with me.

[@galeclarkson4846]

We love and appreciate your honesty amd generosity in sharing. Never change Jen. Been a follower since 2012. Trust is so important to me too

[@halinayen9744]

The current situation,in our lives, is unrelenting! I have always been very happy and a mostly positive person! BUT I have found myself anxious and struggling to find the positive these days... Thank you for sharing and reminding us that we are all dealing with difficulty right now and that it is OK to be happy and anxious at the same time! We will get thru this and hopefully there will be a silver lining for us all!

[@vicinalucinda]

I love your Q&A's so so much. You feel like a friend and I wish we could meet. Wishing you lots of good sleep. When I'm scared of my brain I start to write more, in general. To get all the scary and negative out. Or at least take the edge off. I start writing and write down whatever comes to mind, unfiltered. A few days later or a week in I start to feel better. Like the dark clouds are drifting away. Maybe you can try it, if you don't already 😘😘😘

[@WithWonder]

Yes to journaling! 👍

[@JanaD1985]

Hi Jen! Registered yoga teacher here....I highly recommend you take up a restorative yoga practice! Especially before bed since you mentioned not sleeping well. I think you would really enjoy it and the benefits are endless

[@dianeandbrad529]

She's been doing Yoga with Adriene for quite a while

[@Teresa30ish]

I feel I can relate to you. Take care of you. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Knowing other feel the same as you is a little comforting, sometimes I feel I'm the only one struggling and that makes me feel more down. Again, take care of you.

[@Elparker28]

YES on the cross road feelings! Life is about the process and finding joy in where you are. This took me a long time to discover, I was a runner- big time. Any time I felt unsure or discontent my automatic response was a big change, a cross country move, a career change, a break up. I finally have come to a place where I realize that happiness comes from working within myself not some external change. That’s not to say that this is everyone’s experience and it certainly wasn’t my childhood experience growing up with drug addicted, dysfunctional parents.

[@tealpaisley8434]

You're so sweet. God is going to use you as you, adapt to your new life. There are so many people that will be blessed by your life. I wish you only the best.

[@LiveLoveLaughxx2010]

Ohhh your vlogidays videos are some of my favs. I totally get what you’re saying though, maybe a half day vlogiday kind thing would be easier to manage?

[@InMyHonestOpinion1]

“If you want to dance to make fun of me, that’s cool too,” she says with a fun-loving smile. Love you, Jen! Be silly and confident ❤️

[@hbellplans]

Thank you for sharing your life journey. I went through something similar to what you are going through. About 12 years ago I found myself separated after 18 years of marriage and soon after divorced. My friends and family didn't understand why I working on getting along with my ex for our son and not bad mouthing my ex. The emotions you go through are a roller coaster of emotions. It took me a long time like 3 years to get to a point where I was ready to date. I love that you are being true to how you feeling and what you are going through. Stay strong.

[@xhisgirl3x]

"I'm afraid of my brain". I totally understand that! The lights go out at night, and it's like my brain doesn't have a shut off.

[@homemakingwithdenise]

Hi Jen, I am so glad that you are doing well. As always, one could be doing a bit better but I am glad you are doing well. Keep doing you. Keep thriving. There is a saying that the best revenge is living well. Live well. I continue to wish you joy and the peace and blessings granted by God. And you know, we don't need to know everything. Today, sometimes, people think they need to know every little thing about others, particularly our online or public personalities and sometimes, we feel we need to share more. You do you. You only "owe" something to your children and yourself. Other than that, you don't owe anything to anyone. Be happy. Be you. I enjoy what you share when you are willing to share it. I've been watching a long time. I don't always leave comments but I do watch. I love your content.

[@doodlebug5105]

Another feel good KZbin channel that always soothes my soul is Squirmy and Grubbs. They are truly a light particularly now.

[@docpadma]

I was doing this with facebook. I realized I was seeking out the feeling that made me feel really really bad, it showed me all the things that "could have been ", "should have been " my life. uggh. nope. not looking at that again.

[@christinac6907]

I love your videos. You have so much class. But when you said "sh*t" I almost lost it!!!! HILARIOUS!!!!! What made it so funny was you laughing right along with your viewers.

[@carlacovington1792]

It was good to hear you say that you are happy. That is all I want for you, to create your happiness whenever and wherever you can.

[@thissimplelife653]

💕Ohhh I went to a dance fitness class before for like almost a year straight on a weekly basis and gosh it was ahhmazing!!! I would love to somehow stream your class in the future!!! 💕

[@ThunderDunder123]

Welcome back Jen! I can’t imagine dating. I’ve been married 22 years and it’s not even the same world anymore. But I would bet if you make space for someone new in your life, it will happen organically. Part of making that space for someone is, after deciding what you need from a partner, to decide what you are able to offer TO a partner. This is equally important. I think when we focus on being a giver, good things flow to us.

[@WithWonder]

That’s a wonderful perspective

[@zoeeve17]

Always a great Q&A! Congrats for coming into your own so gracefully and candidly. Your bravery to share is a great example of how strong we can be when we push ourselves out of our comfort zones. Stay healthy and safe!

[@roxyjinks9643]

I think not being able to sleep is happening to a lot of people me being one, I don’t want to shut off the light and go to sleep. I use a product called calm you can get from Walmart or a health food store and it’s magnesium basically and it helps with anxiety! My daughter would have panic attacks and as soon as she starts to drink it the attack stops!

[@gabrielablackwell5102]

What aisle is it in,is it a tea? Thank you for sharing!

[@roxyjinks9643]

It’s not a tea it’s over by the vitamins!

[@blonde761]

Yay for holiday gift guides! Having followed you for close to 10 years, we have quite the collection of Jen inspired items. We love our “Jen” Williams Sonoma hot chocolate pot and up until very recently when my son got a new phone, our “Jen” charger. No one but me knows exactly who this mysterious Jen is (haha!) but they know she has good taste! Look forward to celebrating another holiday season with you!

[@chelseab91]

Definitely feel you with not sleeping. I've been in the same boat, minus the children. Afraid of my brain, love that. So true. I truly appreciate seeing your smiling face. As awful as this past year (plus) has been for everyone, I think we'll all come out of it stronger and wiser. Looking forward to the office organization video! Hope your hot chocolate was good! :)

[@sarahdufrene7474]

Hey girl been watching your videos since the beginning, love your content. I just wanted to say since you mentioned it the first 5 seconds of the video. If you are worried about styling your hair and all the haters out there, there’s hair pieces called toppers-not a wig but just extra hair you clip in and all’s you got to do is style it and then you can wear it for about a week or 2 without having to do anything to it. It’s so easy. I don’t sell them or anything it’s just something I recently came across and am interested in getting one myself. I like the Lauren Ashtyn Collection. Just FYI. Hair is stressful doing it all the time, so why not make things simple?

[@lakb45]

It’s funny-I never wanted to change my name when I got married. But, I did and sort of “lived into” my new last name. We have been divorced for years, but now what was once his last name is now mine. Has nothing to do with him.

[@mossyoakmom8880]

I want you to know I love your videos. I’ve watched your thanksgiving prep videos and organizing videos in the past and I just love them❤️

[@Gunmetalpuppy13]

I love hearing you swear 😂🙌

[@amyrundbaken1728]

I love everything on this video. Just a side note. Do t forget to anchor all the kids furniture. When you mention bookcase my mind went there.😍

[@hannahpfingsten3280]

I used to watch your videos like crazy, I was maybe 12 (almost 19 now) and I was obsessed, just loved watching your vlogs! I came back and Im glad I checked in. Im excited to see where your life goes, change is good! :)

[@Tayenmadsen]

2020 is trying us. Ive had anxiety since I was 12, and was just diagnosed with PTSD. You’re in my thoughts through this Jen!

[@kristinaroberts7216]

Jen totally with you on the happy / stressed and I think a lot of us are feeling just kinda weird . I miss my family cause of Covid , kids are grown and maybe doing other things which is totally fine but I am feeling just weird this year . I am longing to be normal again but thinking that isn’t going to happen, you are doing great and really inspire me love u 🥰

[@BonjourMama]

I just love you so much. You are so empathetic, gentle, smart and sweet. 💖💖💖

[@lindseymontejoandnatalie4123]

Joy... Joy can be found in the struggles and in the times that are going great.

[@Fray14318]

When I heard the jingle bells I got so excited lol. Vlogmas video back in the day were my favorite!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pearlstars977]

Congratulations on getting the certification 🎉🥳🎉👏🤗 can't wait to join the online classes ☺️

[@kelly4836]

Would love the opportunity take your WERQ classes!!

[@jesswnukow]

You are a wonderfully genuine person... Hope you find a great date that feels like home. You deserve the best. And You can always make up your own plan for Vlogmas. It doesn't have to conform to anything other than what you can do. A walk with Winnie and a coffee chat. a tree trimming, a dinner. Idk . I feel like you enjoy doing vlogmas and I think you can make it work in a simple way. Loads of love....Jess

[@julieklika270]

Have anytime to do Project Life video or organizing crafts? I haven't touched my Project Life for 8 months. I need your motivation to get me going again. You inspired me to do Project Life with your December daily.

[@GerdeVids]

Glad you are doing well and I'm super excited for the office content!!

[@susanmoodie2174]

You are doing amazing ! You should be proud of yourself :)

[@Paula-xp7ve]

About your name! I kept my name after my divorce because of my kids! I grew up in the 60’s with a mom whose name was different from ours so I wanted to keep my name the same as theirs. Then I remarried after they were grown (21 and 25) and I still kept my first married name. By this time it had been my name for 27 years and it was MY name . And name changing is such a pain in the ass.....so many things to change. Do what feels good for you!

[@marielaliberte8219]

Thanks for sharing you thoughts and your journey with us. I like how I can relate with how you feel, even though I,m not going through the same hardships as you do.

[@xtina1822]

Vlogmas please, Jen! They are my absolute favorite videos of yours

[@greengiant3421]

I am so happy you are back. I understand what you was saying. Blessed yet uneasy, happy yet sad & etc.....I get it 100%. I love your videos so much. Take care of you & your beautiful family!!! Happy Fall.

[@kjroberts2050]

Currently in the bath watching you (my something soothing!). I love watching your old vlogs and organisation videos when feeling anxious. Please never delete them 😂 keep being wonderful x

[@mossyoakmom8880]

I have no Facebook or instagram. I don’t miss them because Ive never have had them😊

[@natashalarock1975]

Take a listen to Dr. Laura Schlessinger's advice on dating after divorce and the impact on children. Interesting perspective.

[@fmm269]

Agree and thought the same thing...! But don’t think she’d like it 😬

[@natashalarock1975]

@@fmm269 You may be right. I think it takes a little time to digest what Dr. Laura's position is on this but after hearing so many people's issues with dating and even remarrying with minor children, it's undeniable that there's a significant negative impact to the children.

[@fmm269]

@@natashalarock1975 oh, I couldn’t agree more!!! undeniable is right. and dr. Laura is rarely wrong about anything in her 40 years. on this one issue she really is particularly smart

[@natashalarock1975]

@@fmm269 Interestingly enough, I ran across her show on Sirius XM radio just this year and had never heard of her before. However, it did not take long for me to listen to her show and learn so much about decision making as it relates to your IQ vs. your feelings. Very insightful show.

[@fmm269]

@@natashalarock1975 yes! it’s so true!! people don’t like to hear the truth though

[@maeveniacal]

One suggestion for vlogmas might be to film everyday but do weekly vlogs -- perhaps that would make it less overwhelming? Of course, I support whatever choice you make regarding doing/not doing vlogmas! 🥰

[@lindsaychurchman1060]

Sorry for all the comments, commenting through the video. I would totally sign up for your online workout classes! Also your vlogmas is my absolute favourite, would be happy with Christmas themed videos instead! I wish I could be your friend in person, you are so kind hearted and beautiful, having a tea with you is my dream!

[@AbsolutelyAdorableStudio]

Who’s apple’s favorite relative? *Granny* 😂 Just had to share this silly fall joke with you! I always enjoy your videos ❤️

[@silentlyric]

Quote “taking a full week off is not good for your business as an online content creator” Girl, yes it is! If you worked a 9-5 in an office, you would be given vacation time (2-3 weeks per year if not more). Just because you make your hours, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be entitled to that as well. Take time off! Also, iPhones now have a setting where you can set time limits for apps per day. Maybe that will help you unplug a bit more? I would LOVE to dance with you. I hope the streaming would be available to Canadians as well! Take care, friend!

[@youungforeverr2]

Hi Jen! I wanna dance with you so bad!!! I’ve watched you since I was 12 (I’m 23 now), we actually live not far apart (I won’t say exactly bc internet creeps), you’ve helped me so much over the years. I relate so much to your personality, I’ve always struggled with anxiety and depression but have always been such an old soul and find happiness in home making, children, exercise and things, thank you for giving me a space to grow up. I can’t wait to see what you do in the future, you have inspired me so much and I know you’ll keep evolving over the years. There will always be ups and downs to life but by the blessings in our life we will survive ❤️

[@conuregirl007]

Don't mind the negative comments....people operating at a low vibratory frequency can only see through negative eyes. Ignore them and just be yourself. It takes strength and fortitude to put your feelings out there in any situation, but on social media, it can be rough. There will always be people who love to see others fail. Those who encourage and give loving constructive advice are those who want to see you win at life. These are the ones you want in your tribe. You will do well, and it will be because you will see to it that you do. Don't listen to the negative Nellies.

[@constancehildreth4751]

I'm so happy to see this video and your beautiful smiling face this morning! ❤️

[@lilfrog3859]

I am quite interested in yin yoga- do you have any recommendations on how to start or any channels/websites to follow??? Thanks!

[@NataliaNNS]

I really like down dog. It’s an app and it allows you to customize the length and focus of your workout, and it’s free until juli next year