You are right up to a point. You also must keep your partner happy or else it's just a matter of time before they will find a replacement for you.
@AReese-eu5zsАй бұрын
Men eventually learn that the most important words are, “yes dear” and “you know, you’re right!” Peace is the ultimate goal.
@jeandupont7066Ай бұрын
kindest regards from austria dear Lisa
@sage4293Ай бұрын
It should be "Happy spouse, happy house!"
@bobgoodall1603Ай бұрын
I know when I am going to be busy, because my wife says the 4 dreaded words,"I have been thinking". We compromise as well, I wanted 2 children, she wanted 4, so we compromised and had 6. You're right about the TV, which is why I spend the evenings on my tablet while the cop show rerun is on the telly. I am now fully house trained and can cover absences, cooking, washing and occasionally I can vacuum, but I have to put Freddy Mercury on and dream.
@MarkGreen-uy9emАй бұрын
Thank you for your honesty and openness Lisa. I hope you and your husband are having a good day today😊 I have to agree about the necessity of the mute button on occasion 😂😂😂😂
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Haha . Thank you.
@nekite1Ай бұрын
My wife died 6 years ago. We were together for 40 years. I still miss her. She was an exceptional person. My brother's wife told me not long ago that she woke up crying from a dream that she had about my wife because she misses her so much even now.
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
I’m sorry about your wife.
@nekite1Ай бұрын
@@GobbyLisa99 Don't be, she lives in my heart.
@vectorm4Ай бұрын
I have been told there is a saying in Mandarin: Three women in the kitchen is a comedy.
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Haha.
@lighting7508Ай бұрын
Although there is some truth to this, there are as many different relationships as there are stars in the sky. Some couples have a different dynamic to the one you’ve described and that’s okay too! 😂👍
@tomcavanaugh5237Ай бұрын
Oh, hell yes! I had one of those once.
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Haha
@timothyschubert8173Ай бұрын
I am married to a Chinese woman in Australia. We have a saying here in Australia. Happy wife. Happy life.
@tomarmstrong5244Ай бұрын
I've had a Chinese wife for 40 years. I agree.
@cdl0Ай бұрын
It is impossible to disagree with Gobby Lisa. 🙂
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
😊
@thomascunliffe4758Ай бұрын
I would say that relationships in general are troublesome but much better than being on your own! I've been together with my English wife for 19 years and married for nearly 8 years. I would say that my wife is more emotional than me when we argue but im not sure that's true in general - there's a lot of individual variation between people. I know plenty of men who are quick to emotion and illogical in their thinking. E.g. my mum is very logical and rational - i would say my Dad is the emotional one. Both partners should work hard to keep the other happy. For me, it's been all about honesty and communication. Its all a negotiation - the more you work at it the better your relationship gets. I think people nowadays often resort to divorce too quickly. There are obvious reasons to get divorced but often i think people imagine they could just quit the relationship and find the perfect partner. I dont think that's right, all relationships involve work and in many cases you just need to talk more x
@adamlee3772Ай бұрын
We have saying in Australia, "if it has tits or tyres, you are going to have trouble" but I want the trouble.
@DHodgsonАй бұрын
Hi Lisa, Hence the expression that a wife is a ball and chain, haha.
@robertlonsdale5326Ай бұрын
A man will only forget a wifes birthday once.
@tomarmstrong5244Ай бұрын
I've never forgotten my wife's birthday: I just didn't know that it was 17th August that particular day. I thought it was 15th,
@jackdeniston6150Ай бұрын
...and yet she will never do anything for yours
@Steve-hh9gs4yo2iАй бұрын
As a never-married 72-year-old male, I don't think I'll ever have to worry about these things?
@petersheppard6085Ай бұрын
You always make me laugh...and you speak the truth....
@keithhudson1358Ай бұрын
WE have a saying our country, happy wife equals happy life. This means that women, or wives are always right when it comes to marital issues.
@JeffO-h5pАй бұрын
What a pleasant woman
@pipercharms737419 күн бұрын
Husbands are the most troublesome creatures too, it goes both ways :) Personally its my dad that gives my mum the most trouble in their relationship, she is usually the more sensible logical one XD
@ianh452Ай бұрын
Happyy wife .....happy life.
@albin2232Ай бұрын
It's the best kind of trouble 😊
@vectorm4Ай бұрын
OK - OK, yes my wife (from JiLin) is the prettiest and best, but yes she does try to start trouble.
@bobbieboothroyd8531Ай бұрын
Hi Lisa Great Video. You always make me smile. I'm a single male. But all the women in our family are very strong. And so are the rest of my female Friends. I see your strong as well
@nigelfisher3756Ай бұрын
This lady shoots from the hip and scores a bulls-eye every time! Very true and wise words. I’ve got a Chinese wife….she’s ok, not too controlling but sticks to her (bizarre?) culture. This occasionally brings problems; sometimes I feel like I’m married to them. But, ultimately, I tend to make the big decisions (which she likes) and I still retain a type of husband ‘strength’.
@jeffreyjackson5229Ай бұрын
I have long concluded that about and the reason why I am not and will never marry. Residential peace is far more valuable.
@kallel5155Ай бұрын
"Women are like drugs" 🤣
@robertlonsdale5326Ай бұрын
Lisa, your becoming troublesome. x
@KingArtexerxesАй бұрын
Indubitably
@alexc3744Ай бұрын
😂 This is hilarious. In the best way. I agree with everything you’re saying, Lisa. I am, perhaps, in a strange position… I am divorced but my ex wife and I are still very good friends and I have much love and respect for her. Still, I wouldn’t have married her if I didn’t like/love her. But sometimes I think two people can be the best of friends but that isn’t necessarily a recipe for a successful marriage. Just my personal experience. 😁
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you. My husband says I am his best friend and psychologist.
@alexc3744Ай бұрын
Ah… best friend and psychologist! That’s perfect. That’s a great marriage without doubt, 👍🏻😊
@thomastoseland7113Ай бұрын
To be honest I don't know because I'm not married.
@kalasatwater2224Ай бұрын
Yeah that's why I never married 😅
@walsakaluk1584Ай бұрын
It is possible to own two TVs.
@bobbieboothroyd8531Ай бұрын
My Dad always said she who musted be obayed 😂
@pinotnoir6974Ай бұрын
She the most troublesome when she’s a KTV mistress to another adulterous married man. Trust me, I know. 😢
@peterbaylis2111Ай бұрын
U are a Funny Woman But Pretty Right with This Lot
@ChrisLivingInYorkАй бұрын
I’m married to a Chinese woman and she always justifies punching me when she’s angry. Her justification is punch means love. Is that really true?
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
If it's like the force of boxing, then it's not.
@franklinsanchez5408Ай бұрын
Nice video ,Lisa
@AlanMartin-lc5diАй бұрын
Your right happy wife happy life but add in Chinese wife and culture and that brings even more complicated problems, my wife has two birthdays a Chinese one and western one, all though her life growing up birthdays have never been important in her family and i should have kept it that way, but stupidly i decided to celebrate her birthday each year and everything was great until one year i forgot and all of a sudden birthday's are very important to her now!🙄
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Haha.
@jonathanchurch7561Ай бұрын
I always take any example and turn it around, if the husband is happy, the wife will be happy, can you imagine women agreeing with this. Most men today just capitulate to the wife's demands....for their 'survival', dreadful attitude. But with 72% of woman filing for divorce in the US, that says it all. With billions and billions of people getting married, obviously millions have to be happy, stands to reason, doesn't make it fun for men though!
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
I agree. I am happy when my husband happy.
@nw8000Ай бұрын
I Agree
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
😊
@Guitar6tyАй бұрын
I disagree I was happily married for 34 years to a wonderful wife who was my very best friend my soul partner a veritable gift from God. Sadly lost her to cancer.
@ariesmarsexpressАй бұрын
The best kind of troublesome. I will tell you though, there is a big difference between Chinese wife and western wife. Totally different kind of troublesome. With a western wife you might might try to argue your point. You will probably lose, but you will try. Maybe this argument goes on for some time. This might happen regularly. With a Chinese wife, you only do this once, and then you never try to do that again. lol Happy wife, happy life.
@johnclark1146Ай бұрын
Aren’t you going to get into trouble from the wife’s union for telling these secrets?
@katejackson7432Ай бұрын
aw hun, no dont agree lol
@neilkent8296Ай бұрын
lisa like your husband ive lost my hair and money
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Haha.
@pipercharms737419 күн бұрын
Some of this I agree with but others I disagree with "She is the mother" Not if you don't want children :) And I do think in general women are more emotional but I don't believe that makes us have any less logic than men, in fact a lot of women I see are more logical. My dad hates to admit when he is wrong and often doesn't think about things when he suggests things, sometimes he has too much pride and is a bit arrogant but usually what my mum is saying is far more logical argument XD
@GobbyLisa9919 күн бұрын
Some I agree with you. But I forgot many women don’t want children. Including me 😄