Sista Laments After Realizing She Lost A Good Man Because She Chose Her Work Husband

[@jessicaserrano3800]

So the back story was no I wasn’t having sex with both of them. I went on a few days with him and that was it. He wasn’t applying enough pressure for me!! That’s it that’s all! Life goes tf on. TAKE ME OFF THIS PAGE RIGHT NOW

[@turbo1997hsm]

😂😂😂

[@unadulteratedtruth8716]

This is for educational use and should stay here as a cautionary tale for women who think they can juggle men at their whim.

[@charlesr.dearsjr.3027]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Keep it 💯 sis. Men love honesty and transparency.

[@dcbr1zzle]

It's all good ain't nobody judging you. 😌

[@unadulteratedtruth8716]

Ain't nobody getting this worked up and making videos however long after the fact about somebody they just went on a few dates with. People ain't crazy.

[@marcojohnson8488]

If I hear my woman call another man her work husband I’m leaving that same day

[@Mrjonezzz]

Yea we’re over immediately.

[@garlandshort8416]

😂😂😂

[@eliastate7263]

You should leave. The term itself is very disrespectful

[@Dragonmuslimah73]

Run dont walk

[@marcojohnson8488]

@@Dragonmuslimah73 😂😂💯

[@thepassportog]

She doesn’t see him as a man, she only sees his dependable resources

[@franklinbrandon5283]

Exactly

[@Nyufly]

💯💯💯💯 💪💪💪

[@Magikk_Handles]

I noticed the way his profession was mentioned too. I didn't hear anything else that made him a good man though. 🤔

[@franklinbrandon5283]

@@Magikk_Handles we're only a wallet to them!!

[@backmanbolee4853]

😂 true to that.. women’s mind doesn’t operate on logic, just chaos. That’s why they love the bad immature guys..

[@Larry-qz3es]

For all those fellow good men that got passed up by these women who did not desire them...Don't look or take them back.

[@MoeFro78]

Right. Leave em where they are!

[@ismaelgirado2887]

True That, move forward left foot forward.

[@adamjayson2007]

Well said.

[@DrudgecoinMaxi]

Cheers Brother 🥂

[@PhukYoutubeIsRacist]

Make it hurt.

[@unadulteratedtruth8716]

She kept him as a friend when she thought she had the upper hand. As soon as HE moved on, all the sudden, seeing him happy makes her sick to her stomach!!!

[@StrokaReviews]

☝️

[@derrickandrews6407]

Truth

[@PelicanGuy]

Bingo!!!!

[@KAW101]

You just told the truth.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Exactly!!!

[@teepre23]

That work husband worked her goofy ass!🤣🤣🤣

[@toussaintloverture7275]

She is probably using child support and courts to take out her frustration.

[@ZeeBowski5543]

🤣🤣🤣

[@adraincrawford7733]

😂 😂 u sho ain't lying

[@keshhan6412]

Gentlemen, don't be mistaken and mislead by them. They are never sorry for hurting you and betraying you, they are only sorry for the convenience they lost.

[@anthonywilliams9415]

Facts on top of fax 📠

[@OnyemaechiAmuro]

*Black women...* 🙄 --- *Moral of the story:* Dont date single moms.

[@subzfit]

Solid facts

[@JWFitness1]

Or sorry for getting caught

[@scottparker1055]

Goes for so called Christian women also.

[@xG1ZZM0x]

I bet women will still tell her, “It’s his loss SIS!”. 😂😂😂

[@donaldlyons180]

😂😂😂

[@marvl6472]

No Accountability for the kweens

[@JasayMyName]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣😂 facts

[@bumblebee4024]

Only women *like her* will see it that way. Women like me - who just celebrated 33 yrs of marriage to a phenomenal man - don’t feel sorry for her in the least. She was a fool for letting a good man go.

[@biggyman1539]

heeheehee 🤣🤣

[@stacypatton84]

Glad she shared this story... she would have ruined the good man anyway.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

That was my take as well. Lol.

[@HowardLKing]

And they wonder why we do not want to get involved with their toxic delusional Jezebel asses...SMH 🤣🤣🤣

[@sidneywilder2731]

I said that too,if she hadn't did that good man wrong, she would've done another good man wrong, she was the problem

[@12Gates.]

Wait so women actually admit decent men exist now!? 😂😂😭😭😭

[@jonjones7137]

@@12Gates. yep once they see him wifing up the new chick and upgrading her life....NOW.....they get it. She is just a simple pass-a-round chick

[@midcharles7989]

In my early 20s I was dating this girl, I was good to her, but I didn’t have too much(car, house, good job) she cheated on me, fast forward to a few years ago she found me on Instagram and apologized, telling me I was good guy blah blah, and the dude she cheated on me with was cheating on her, was a deadbeat. I accepted her apology but tbh it felt good karma came back around

[@Jarack123]

Trying to get huh? Shame on her.. don't ever take back a cheater.

[@marcelljackson2868]

Block her for real cause she throwing that bait out. She trying come back

[@marquishoward3529]

@@marcelljackson2868 they always do, when they find out the grass ain’t green on the other side

[@tmantman6896]

don't accept no apology move on that is an mistake

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Cut her off and move on.

[@bagz2shuz]

Nobody wants you until somebody wants you. Women in particular are guilty of this. All of a sudden when the man is happy and has moved on, they see how good he is and how dumb she was. And the bad part is they don’t even want you…they just don’t want anyone else to have you. They want to play and get ran thru and then present that “goodwill” 🐱 like it’s still what’s good. Fellas, check the carfax on those 🐈 s.

[@Mad-UpperCuts]

Spot on.

[@stewartfm2319]

My ex said the same thing! don't want me with anybody. Else. Smh

[@latonyanewsome0]

The crazy part is this man was willing to accept a child that wasn't his. She left him got pregnant with #2 and miserable while he's happy.

[@BIGDADDDY80]

Preach

[@capcomman1]

Lessons that I've learned in past relationships. If she still is talking to a old flame as a "friend",having many male friends ,or have any exes that are street dudes. Stay the hell away from those women .Idc how good the sex is or you really like that woman. Leave her alone . You'll thank yourself later, trust me. No pity from me when I see these women passing up good men for sure

[@szasz9260]

For sure

[@iceman_2360]

Can't feel sorry for these women. We'll see posts time and time again of women becoming some guy's upteen baby mama then shame the men who don't want to be a stepdad when they're ready to settle down. I hope these good men continue to win in life.

[@melanatedsoulja7067]

Facts..another lie they love to tell too is that" there is no good men out here or they are taken" but they never tell you how these good men DON'T want them!!

[@desmondjefferson2127]

We are! Women like this week used to be thin and pretty KNOW I don't look back. They had their chance and I have NO BUSINESS dating any woman post wall or with kids.

[@darrionreed1240]

Never fails females always say it's a work schedule when it comes to good men but have all the time in the world for a pookie and ray ray

[@concernedcitizen4824]

Facts.

[@Jay7682]

Facts

[@whateverhappened2]

I applaud her honesty, few women are willing to admit to their mistakes

[@Fatfacetony86]

Nah, she don't get credit. They love telling their business anyway

[@antwangordon6918]

@@onceagain6184 naw, men are forced to take accountability for everything. Society has the tendency to bail women out from their reckless behavior. Women are the consumer class. 70 cents of every dollar in this country is spent by women. So companies, government, and educational institutions pander to women. To sell products and services. There’s a market for keeping people single. Even real estate. More units are rented and sold if men and women live separately.

[@TheLadymac1982]

@@Fatfacetony86 do you want women to take accountability or not?! Y’all get on here saying women need to take responsibility & when they do y’all make fun of them as if y’all ain’t out here harming & deleting women & children.

[@antwangordon6918]

@@onceagain6184 Wow, I can see my original comment. So basically KZbin hid it because they know it’s the truth. I didn’t say anything inflammatory about women at all. Stop projecting your insecurities. People can’t see my comment so you tried to project a false narrative as an attempt to discredit me.

[@Fatfacetony86]

@@TheLadymac1982 Yeah she learned her lesson, but she had to hurt someone in the process

[@FBACERTIFIED]

I'm glad she just being honest though but see she reap what you're sow this what these black women like her don't understand GOD is not going to allow you to mistreat good men and then give you another good man to mistreat he'll give you one just like you.

[@d-kreate5468]

Fellas when women truly desire you they’re not going to let your schedule interfere with interaction. She never wanted that man, she just liked what he could do for her and thought she could play him in the background, while she dated the man she was really sexually attracted to and now that the “good” man is not in her orbit anymore and totally off the market, she feels like she played herself, which she did. She knew exactly what she was doing, as an already single mom. She knew single mothers are not desired on these streets and she CHOSE the wrong dude knowingly.

[@jimjones3287]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@paulacurrie2441]

She never wanted that man and he never wanted her either. He could see upfront what you just summed up in your comment and that's why he, per her written comment, "didn't apply the pressure".

[@brothacurbstomp]

I don't mess with nobody at work, it's a recipe for disaster.

[@sweetbeauty2153]

Absolutely🎯

[@thesunflower-samurai4705]

These are priceless facts

[@argerinejordan4703]

Yes it is

[@EE-iy9rq]

Indeed

[@jdh1969]

Two kids, all tatted up and single. The chances of her getting a good man now are slim to none.

[@apostle100]

And slim died.

[@colbalt95]

Eh she still looks okay. There's a sucker born every minute.

[@apostle100]

@@colbalt95 - No doubt she'll still find a man, but jdh1969 said "...a good man". I'm sure Pookie would love a place to rest his head with a home cooked meal and some constant poon, but she'll resent him in time.

[@HB-yk4ut]

She is way past her expiration date. She was made a fool of and wants folks to feel sorry for her. Keep enjoying your one night stands!🤡

[@anattaokonkwo]

Tattoos have nothing to do with it.

[@simmons4690]

I'm not ashamed to say I was dumped by my high school sweetheart, my first love, why, she said I work too much and I studied all the time, she wanted to have a good time, all the time. She dropped out of college, went to work and dated a series of dusty dudes, broke, no ambition, baby daddy men. Do I care, at first I did, cause I knew her family, she has a married mother and father in the home, so it had nothing to do with up bringing, their hard working people. She now dresses like a stripper, club all the time and who knows what else and she wants us to be friends, but I told her I don't believe in going backwards and I bounce in the other direction.

[@druth5134]

They all pass up good men . I don't feel bad for none of them.

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

Me neither!

[@HowardLKing]

Me either, it's more of Us who has been hurt then them. 😖😌😰🙏🙏🙏

[@mrquackers8986]

like joker said: "you get what you effing deserve!!"

[@Jay7682]

Agreed

[@evos469]

She made time for her baby daddy, fellas. Stay on your grind and remember the wrong women are a dime a dozen.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Exactly.

[@cmaccmcqueen7639]

Oh yeah they always make time for the baby daddy. Even after they are broke up with the baby daddy

[@cmaccmcqueen7639]

Oh yeah they always make time for the baby daddy. Even after they are broke up with the baby daddy

[@oneman5753]

This is why I say folks being like "he'll come when I'm ready". Nope. Sometimes things come along when we think we're not ready and we just need to jump on the program.

[@kthename08]

💯

[@thesunflower-samurai4705]

Absolutely

[@ruachpneuma5638]

Bingo

[@alegna1983]

People out here looking for good good men and then you have this. The longer you are emotionally attracted it is destined to become physical.

[@tmantman6896]

and when you hit the wall it is over should of picked better at the beginning

[@Think1stMedia]

That's why many men don't like their woman to have male friends.

[@GoatHolyfield]

@@Think1stMedia but you're being Insecure he just a friend🤓

[@calebhenderson6507]

And they said kevin was the only person who cared about saving marriages.. Phil is legit trying.

[@adamjayson2007]

Stories like this make me glad that I am a good man.

[@adraincrawford7733]

I'm with u when u right

[@wshelby83]

Continue to be just that. Someone will appreciate you

[@GoatHolyfield]

Why nothing good comes out of it no women respect good men just use them

[@adamjayson2007]

@@GoatHolyfield true that's why they end up alone.

[@cashree2370]

I'm more happy he let her see what she missing don't block them but don't take emm back

[@MarcheRenoir]

Men: She wasn't actually dating 2 guys. She was engaging in INTIMATE BACK FLIPS with a variety of men in dark and lonely spaces. Now she's CRYING IN THE LIGHT and soliciting sympathy from RANDOM STRANGERS on the internet..!

[@StrokaReviews]

When being a 304 goes completely wrong.

[@marquishoward3529]

I swear I was thinking the exact same thing

[@adsmith364]

All I can say is, I hope these young chicks and single ladies are listening to this. For some reason we don't often tell our younger ladies the mistakes we made. Help a girl out thats willing to listen and learn and will do better.

[@tmantman6896]

dumb mistakes will keep you single for a life times chasing after pookies and Ray rays that don't have any sense

[@edgardovilla199]

Women have have dropped the ball on their daughters. Instead of helping them out, the mothers will encourage them to do bs.

[@trevorkinchen6124]

The two key words that's almost never in a woman's vocabulary LISTEN AND LEARN. Those 2 Ls could one day get you a W, try it sometime

[@jbubba1053]

Also single women keep other women single. If you got a good man don’t listen to your lonely friends telling you to leave him

[@ViralAgent1]

@@edgardovilla199 meanwhile, fathers are putting their sons up on all kinds of game. Because, unlike women, men actually care about future generations.

[@hpt_huxtable7085]

I wish him and his fiancé the best. Life is about choices.

[@REGGIE_BXNY]

I remember 24 years ago when I was a newlywed, a chick at my job started flirting with me, gave me her number and said to call her if I had anything juicy to say. She also told me that men in our company had a wife at home and a company wife. I held the number for a few months because I was young and struggling with temptation. Thank God I threw her number in the trash. My wife and I have been together for 28 years now and will have our Silver Anniversary next spring. We had 3 beautiful children together. It was not always easy but I have been faithful to her throughout our marriage. It seems like more women hit on you after your married than before your married. I thank the Lord that I never give in to that 304’s advances.

[@themusicman2005]

Yeah it's azz backwards out here.

[@buckytravelsplaces7581]

Awesome

[@dboygreat]

Feeling real dumb aren't we? Never understood why some women turn away a good man for a fool

[@tmantman6896]

and she's the big dummy coming from fred Sanford

[@jonjones7137]

Cause friends, family, social media, and other hating azz females tell them too. At 28 to 35 and 2 babies in.....they wake the heck up.

[@clearvision3316]

Nice guys get railroaded.

[@rickymcdonald2669]

Move to Kankakee IL and you would see black women by the boat loads chasing married men or pookie and Ray Ray. Good brothers have to hit the highway to Chicago if he's not pookie or Ray Ray.

[@dboygreat]

@@jonjones7137 misery truly loves company

[@BigKeith510]

Sounds like the brotha dodged a major bullet.

[@StrokaReviews]

John Wick style

[@Israel85324]

A missle!

[@ericfletcher6443]

It's better to prepare for an opportunity, and never have it come, than to have an opportunity come, and not be prepared. -- Les Brown

[@derrickscott6]

That's the reason why so many Men don't want to be bothered with them. They always want to play games and think it's fun until reality kicks in

[@sidneywilder2731]

Facts ,that's why men avoid them, always playing games,dating multiple men ,how could one take them serious

[@n003326]

🧢 on “couldn’t find time due to our work schedules”. If there’s one thing i’ve learned it’s women will find and make time for someone they really like.

[@SL-ud7tf]

Yep, blaming work schedules when she was busy with 2nd baby daddy aka her work husband, I bet they took breaks together and stay behind late to "work". That brother be thanking God hard for protecting him, when he sees her post.

[@Jay7682]

Facts

[@edwardlandersonlll9096]

Lot of these women are beginning to realize how foolish they've been and how right brother Kevin Samuels was!

[@CreativeWayz]

I've worked too hard to have to settle for taking care of another man's kids bro not doing it....

[@anthonyjohnsonsr.5220]

Real talk brothers, the one thing we do have going for us is there's plenty of options nowadays.

[@pontiac00]

These women don't know the definition and what a good man is, fellow move on and stay away of these type of women, thats how these type acts, goofy and stuff is a joke to them, you need to be single for the rest of your life you women like this,

[@MarcheRenoir]

Ladies: When y'all gone learn? FREE COOCHIE is the ADMISSION PRICE for trauma. The more you give it away? The more you're going to OWE YOUR THERAPIST..!

[@ktv9247]

Naw not even if she gave to real ones she'd be aight 💯

[@back2thebasicsx]

Dating two men at the same time 😑😒🤦🏾‍♀️. Chiiiiilllllleeeeee, pleeeez sit down somewhere. Why waste a man’s time like that. Your work husband🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@MoeFro78]

👀💣💥🔥🖤🤎🖤🤎🖤🤎🤸🏾‍♂️💯💯💯

[@bracebrooks967]

This is a major problem in the U.S, as far as good men getting overlooked and under-appreciated, but it's an even bigger problem in the black community. I hope some young ladies do learn from this, and not make the same bad decision.

[@tmantman6896]

you can forget about that you just have dumb women that's the truth

[@ruachpneuma5638]

Bingo

[@Ekenei]

Believe it or not, they keep making the same mistakes. It is a generational curse for many of them

[@Mr_International_]

I'm convinced BW have an obsession with seeing their daughters fail. It's sickening. BM will eventually put their sons on game and encourage them to date out.

[@QuentinAD]

Love to hear these stories 🙂

[@brandonpotter4915]

Absolutely love this

[@welivetoosee3609]

Me too brother

[@Abmarp]

Lol

[@andrewfitzpatrick9741]

She did not fumble him, dude realized his worth and found better. Those are crocodile tears.

[@cpthetrucker9067]

Yeah...this didn't even get out the GATE good. She got pregnant by the guy she wanted to. It wasn't a mistake..it was a choice. NOW she got alleged buyer's remorse. 🙄🤷🏿‍♂️

[@adraincrawford7733]

I have no sympathy for these kinds of women. I feel nothing

[@mrquackers8986]

like joker said: "you get what you effing deserve!!".....

[@williamwinston9671]

She deserves exactly what she's gettin!

[@JARRSTARRTV_RADIO]

Thanks Uncle Phil! I been passed over for 75+ time! I'm age 72 with my U. S. Passport and enjoying life with Latina Sisters all over Central and South America! I thank my American Sisters for rejecting me over 60+ years! VIVA TO BEING A PASSPORT BROS!

[@ironbody2682]

Wow 😮 for over 60 years?? I wouldn't think women were like this even way back in the day!

[@bamaboi6845]

The tattoos is a red flag for me

[@smooth4life554]

Especially on the titties it’s so trash

[@jaymvx3]

She unfriended him when she saw his proposal, 😂 good for her. Truth be told he most likely forgot they were "FB friends" nor will he notice or care that they're no longer social media friends.

[@CLOWNBOT00]

Seeing Phil over there radiating with Joy brings me great happiness! 🌈 🙏😂

[@joejames9974]

When unc is happy we are happy

[@joejames9974]

@@onceagain6184 and also I want to thank the people who like my comment y'all know what I mean by being supportive of this channel and to those who like this moron comments y'all just as stupid and negative as he are her is so you can get the Fked

[@SL-ud7tf]

When he called her Ronald 🤣

[@blakewilliams5627]

I hope she applies this new found knowledge to her kids, so they don’t make the same mistakes.

[@cruisecontrol6938]

Doubt it. That's why we have these generational gaps of knowledge

[@michaelbetts8379]

If she has a daughter she probably want . Some women want they daughter to fell and keep the cycle going

[@marvl6472]

They all need a wake up call instead of getting mad at Brothas who try going the appreciation route

[@bluebloodroyalty8012]

Phil when you said Yes that cracked me up but god saved that man she’s not a good woman and didn’t deserve him just like millions of females just like her

[@JusTheKing.]

Show this video to women when they swear up and down that they want a good man. The straight truth is that women on average are drawn to chaos and dark energy. It goes all the way back to Eve and the serpent.

[@bigmoneyscratcher5575]

This is true woman is in love with evil it is from beginning they alway turn them down n say they are boring

[@rickymcdonald2669]

Preach my Brother preach

[@rashelwilliams3619]

I said the same thing kinfolk 🤜🏾🤛🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@patrowland3107]

They'll believe a lie before they believe the truth!

[@jamescbanks1080]

People make time for those they truly like or care for str8 🆙 I think she’s capping about not finding time to hangout with the so called good man that she fumbled 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@eliastate7263]

Phil, Your commentary is priceless! There are so many who needs to hear it. I just want to say keep up the great work, brother!

[@plantbased15]

She would have probably messed it up anyway if she did get dude.

[@redred9382]

He said yessss I love it 😂😂😂

[@bakulubaka8661]

Yes Philly, these women be having men on their rotation, with no shame.

[@tmantman6896]

and you will be the foolish man to place yourself in that position

[@bakulubaka8661]

@@tmantman6896No I don't think so.

[@mafamac4069]

that's why you have to have them in rotation as well. it's literally that simple plus you will be more secure in yourself because you hv a strong pulling game

[@coldhardtruth333]

@@mafamac4069 you’re also toxic. ..

[@golden5269]

Say it again Phil! No man is perfect, but my husband is the perfect imperfect man for me and I’m his perfect imperfect woman. We have been the perfect imperfect couple for 22 years in January. I love him as he is.

[@eliastate7263]

Exactly right because they would do the same thing again if they thought they could get something better.

[@russelljohnson2008]

I love to see women like this crying. Makes up for all the times I got mistreated by them in the past.🥳

[@Lantian99]

These women are waking up too late. 🤷🏾‍♂

[@cavindent6973]

She's going to cry in the car when the camera is off.

[@welcomehavefun910]

Im glad she's devastated that she lost a good man. Most of these females be out there clowning thinking they are smart.

[@D4lF4l]

I fell for the whole work-husband thing then changed jobs and started working away from home that's when I saw the light. Give thanks for the light

[@turbo1997hsm]

And this is why I rather stay single, work on myself, and continue to be successful

[@deetaylor2202]

Me too brotha 💯

[@ashuradailyy]

Honestly i love your channel, you speak nothing but truth without disrespecting anyone.

[@BMW19Lincoln]

Thanks to your channel that it’s exposing the truth about good men and breaking the toxic stereotype the women keep tying to paint us being.

[@dbreezy8716]

Yes...the X'ers and generations of men down the road have been blamed for oft times our father's generation's doing....baby boomer gen was a purely selfish gen and it shows in how this world is being ran by these old farts men and women....ladies you mentally need to GET OUT

[@GoatHolyfield]

It doesn't matter women are still going to blame us

[@BMW19Lincoln]

@@GoatHolyfield They can blame us all they want however facts, data, statistics proves us right and their feelings wrong. Give it time and if they don’t adjust soon consequences will be knocking on their front door.

[@GoatHolyfield]

@@BMW19Lincoln I know we're right men lie women lie but facts and data don't but women don't believe in anything that Makes them look bad they will just claim you're lying and just hurt and bitter which is why I don't argue with women it a waste of time they will simply just keep blaming us no matter how much facts we throw at them

[@annoyedcitizen8652]

The good guy won, and she took the L running behind baby daddy #2. I remember uploading a nice selfie my girlfriend took as my fb profile while on biz in Japan. The pics get posted as post which I try to delete so I don't have to respond to responses, but before I could I had at least 6 "😒" and "🙄" from hating women who HAD options. I didn't ask them for their opinion, these are women who were from highschool and college, and some of them were busy chasing athletes running through females. I find it funny that we get the hate for not waiting to be chosen by the jumpoffs.

[@mutechannel13]

If any women come home and tell you she got a work husband or boyfriend....Believe he is clapping those cheeks or he's about to be... lol... Don't investigate $#!+.... Just leave.

[@C.I.A1947_]

I hope these other women are taking notes at these revelations these women are revealing, while it’s funny to laugh at and say I told you so I’m glad they’re finally breaking code and telling these young women they’ve been lied to, and these good men you’re overpassing for these pookies and ray rays aren’t worth it lol

[@ginobold]

See she did him a favor. I hear these women say they can't find a good man, and I realizing they have to be a good woman first.

[@risingphoenix1484]

No she did the right thing she saved him..... because she is a cheating loser that makes bad decisions..... leaving him alone so he could find the right woman for him was the best thing that can happen.

[@sigmawolf4411]

I finally stopped focusing on relationships and just build my money up hey better late than never to work on myself

[@harvelle1]

I really appreciate her honesty and transparency. The truth and application of the truth will set one free.

[@Think1stMedia]

Because of situations like this, that is why many men don't date women with male friends.

[@sacredlove4411]

It goes both ways. It's just not women and it's just not men. Hats off to her for being accountable. May she have learned her lesson.

[@eugenedantzler4485]

"Y'all wanna hear how I fumbled a good man?" ... ( Brother Phil YES!) Lmfao

[@Da5thSith]

I have bumped into an ex at Walmart with her children & when she saw me she tried to hug me but I stepped back & gave her a hand shake. She started talking about the past & how we should hook up again. I looked her dead in her eyes & said Hell No but thanks for the offer & walked off.

[@D_day1969]

Damn you can tell she’s really hurt. Oh well at least she admits it most of these females can’t or won’t. But the same thing happened to me a woman passed me over, now she’s regrets it that I’m happy with a another woman. And now I’m living a great life. And she’s mad lol.

[@vahustle804]

She’s not upset she lost a good man she’s upset another woman is receiving the love and attention isn’t on her anymore…go off queen!!!!

[@ricostpatrick]

Facts!!!

[@jamesbanks2492]

At least she's been honest with herself she know she's the one that messed up and she's not blaming on no one else but herself that's a stand-up woman😎😎😎!

[@wokequil9423]

There is no incentive to be a good man in the black community. Focus on yourself & those who respect you be that in America or elsewhere.

[@damianmccallie3980]

That Real facts bro.

[@gunznroses]

No incentive at all. We get treated the worse. Become a decent black man and your options go down.

[@mrquackers8986]

yep, they dont want us then say "what can that asian woman do that a black woman cant?" or "why you with that younger woman?, u cant handle a real woman"

[@cruisecontrol6938]

@@mrquackers8986 aayyyyyeeeee holler at ya boi ! Whoooooooooooooh them asian girls.. bruh. They hungry

[@marquishoward3529]

Real facts

[@samuelgates5935]

She can have a "work HUSBAND" but don't want a in the home husband. Just a baby daddy😵‍💫😵‍💫🤕🤣🤣🤣

[@ricostpatrick]

Sensational 🔥🤙🏾

[@darrellmfume4020]

Phil nice commentary. the GOOD men always show-up in yall lives ladies. the problem is, yall don't know how to recognize them when they show up.

[@yikemikehappa2463]

I am just cracking up. It is funny how they always mess up and go on tik tok to tell everything....

[@spalding5198]

Watch out for the tattoos!!!!! Especially the ones on the chest!!! Just think what it takes to expose yourself/breast to get a tattoo from what was likely a total stranger Run for the chopper!!!!!

[@100BARBWIRE]

Phill makes great reaction videos. 😂

[@cedriclockett942]

I was turned down the other day just because of my height. It shocked where I told her thank you and have a good life.

[@FBACERTIFIED]

She called herself correctly Ronald McDonald the clown and got clown and stuck with two little baby clowns

[@MarcheRenoir]

Them 2 LITTLE BABY CLOWNS: Dat part. That's the part I most enjoy about the comments section. The truth is MUCH MORE HILARIOUS than most people realize. You wrong for that; but that's exactly why it FEELS SO RIGHT..!

[@ryon_james92]

Leave the kids alone bruh. Her Mistakes ain't those kids fault. They didn't ask their mom too be stupid af. Calling the kids clowns makes you a clown bruh.

[@DXDMK35103]

I guess "good opportunities" is a type of *GAME* to these women. Life is a *game* to them. Keep playing stupid games to win stupid prizes

[@jamesross1798]

Women low key live life seeing how much they can screw up and rebound. But most never do.

[@dboucher26]

She chose. That "good guy" would've always been her 2nd option. She's hurt because she's selfish and wish he would've remained available as her standby option. My ex unfriended my friend when he posted photos from my wedding, and the ex before her sent me a text admitting she regret losing me (my wife saw the texts because we use each other's phone all the time and there's nothing to hide). They usually hate when the ones they fumble move on.

[@Jay7682]

True

[@Ktronprime]

Fact that women are comfortable with openly saying "work husband"... Says alot

[@Sals-Clips]

Have to respect the honesty and accountability.

[@gorgeouslady5612]

Sung by William Bell Trying to love two Ain't easy to do When you're trying to love two It sure ain't easy to do I've got a man at home That's sweet as can be A man on the outside Crazy about me I'm caught in the middle Of a three-way love affair Caught up in this triangle Can't go nowhere Trying to love two Sure ain't easy to do When you're trying to love two Oh, sure ain't easy to do, no I need to be three women in one To get my job done I need a thirty hour day Two jobs with double pay I need a Woman to go to work A Woman to stay at home I need a Woman on the outside To keep my man strong Trying to love two Sure ain't easy to do, no When you're trying to love two Oh, it ain't easy to do Both men are aware There's another man somewhere When you're trying to love two Oh, it ain't easy to do When you're trying to love two It sure ain't easy to do Hey, it started out, had lots of fun But now it's got me on the run This jumping in and out of bed Keeps messing with my head Trying to love two Sure ain't easy to do, no When you're trying to love two Oh, it ain't easy to do Trying to love two Sure ain't easy to do Oh, ain't easy to do When you're trying to love two It sure ain't easy.

[@hermanjr47]

Who sang this song? I like the lyrics.

[@trevorkinchen6124]

Shorten it into haiku form

[@lesaowens7416]

@@hermanjr47 Carl Sims sings that song. It's called I'm trapped.

[@gorgeouslady5612]

Song by William Bell.

[@hermanjr47]

Thanks

[@snakemanjones8272]

Good for her for seeing that she messed up chasing Tyrone. Now she needs to heal herself and take care of those kids and allow a man to come to her but only when she feel like she is ready for a good man. We all make mistakes and if we can just learn to forgive ourselves and work on ourselves we can still make something of this life we have.

[@sa1lor_jarry139]

No. She either makes it good with the baby daddy or go buy a 🐕 and 💀 alone.

[@atgn-0088]

I can't even be that mad at her. She made a mistake, owned up to it, didn't try to blame anyone else and has hopefully learned from it.

[@cpthetrucker9067]

She didn't make a mistake: she made a choice. May she live forever with her alleged buyer's remorse.

[@I_AM_Legend_007]

She’s didn’t make a mistake, she made a choice knowing the potential outcome

[@tmantman6896]

she will never learn they never do just keeps making costly mistakes

[@whoisthis4052]

She probably not telling us the real story, until we have the other guy , tell his side🤔

[@sticktothescript107]

There is know mistake she choose and got what she deserve