Woman Can't Understand Why Some Men Switch Up After They Get Some

[@denzel1877]

Post-nut clarity is the moment of enlightenment.

[@JamesMeloncon]

😅

[@Kam-nm3ix]

Exactly!

[@angelaedwards7866]

@@denzel1877 HOLLIN 😂😂😂

[@michaelrandle8316]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Yabani-Ra]

He didn't respect you before he got it.

[@Madison-sr5nl3ie6y]

You're right

[@123redrasta]

Or she didn’t respect him

[@bossbradley]

You are who you attract.

[@SinzuSage]

Women vastly underestimate the value of post nut clarity. It has saved men tons of long and short term issues.

[@JerronJackson-uo1im]

I'm so grateful I am abstinent 😅. They cannot catch this cat. All praises to the Most High.

[@tammyn2856]

🤣🤣

[@Yahshe]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@michaelfleming5736]

She wants the bad boy to commit! She is probably passing up the good guy.

[@RTA6226]

Then she's a DAMN fool!

[@sorry11303]

Bingo🎯

[@Theeorie4393]

What's a "good" guy

[@freddy8479]

💥💥💥 FACTS!!!! 👌 YOU SAID A MOUTHFUL, BRUH!!!!

[@MarkMagnus86]

Maybe she should deal with guys who still want something to do with her other than clapping cheeks…

[@kq9318]

She just need to come clean and admit that she be callin on Chad and Tyrone to scratch her itch.

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

📌

[@abuck77]

Women also have a switch up. Ask men in the friend zone, men in sexless marriages, and divorced men.

[@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106]

I was about to comment this. You on point with this.

[@joshuajackson7050]

As many times women have ghosted men, gtfoh 😂 act one way before you get the number act totally different through text when you get the number.

[@learningearning8385]

Men discuss this like you can’t be a jerk and give her a reason to divorce and not want you romantically

[@joshuagrant6192]

​@learningearning8385 Nowadays, a man doesn't even have to be doing anything wrong to get divorced, because the woman will always use the same old Tired "I'm just not happy " excuse.

[@eugenedantzler4485]

​@@joshuagrant6192💯💯

[@sbolden123]

😂 once we reach that climax, our climate change 🤷‍♂️💯

[@mr.mustwatch5778]

😂

[@MrExtraFINESSEtrial]

AAAAYOOOO 😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂 DIABOLICAL yet true!!

[@RTA6226]

@@sbolden123 Just like Antarctica. 🤣

[@robertbeverly8010]

Because men know the BS is coming if given time.

[@sbolden123]

@@RTA6226 lol 😆

[@garymac6549]

Mission accomplished. Why don’t you women understand that.

[@Rettajean]

@@garymac6549 but then y’all get mad if we hold out. As usual it’s all games

[@RTA6226]

​​@@RettajeanBwahahahaha! 🤣🤣🤣YEP, so much of it is! PREACH girl!!!

[@DarkroomMedia007]

Oh dear... I was waiting for this comment right here 👆🏽🤯 this is probably why Steve Harvey cashed in on the 90-day rule! ATLEAST make the man wait to get to your golden gates! AND IF HE STICK AROUND, GIVE HIM MORE POUND TO TOWN. Back in the day when I met my husband I gave him 30 days and it was on and Poppin'. 💪🏽🤣💯💯

[@Zurai-Lion]

💯

[@Angel05433]

​@@DarkroomMedia007 Lol then he will cheat on u so gone ahead and while he wait he will go to other women if he can.

[@DblONo7]

Fellas, please keep in mind, her complaints like many, many other BW only go for certain type of dudes. So in other words, she's just salty because she "chose" the same type of BM(hood dudes or simply because of looks) and experiencing the same result(Pumped and Dumped).

[@SaxWithShad]

Being slow is a mental illness as well

[@donegood8712]

🤣😂

[@touchgemini1372]

Even the trash man hates trash 🗑️… After you’ve been with a lot of them, you can tell the difference between good and bad cat. Worn out, loose, dry and or without walls; they will often hit it and quit it. If it’s good, you are rarely pumped and dumped.

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Loose Wall😂

[@globallogistic255]

😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 wow

[@nhutt1961]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@giovannisalamon2706]

She cant get Tyrone to commit.

[@MixtapeKilla2004]

Facts

[@kareem.10]

If a woman has had multiple men, then she can only blame half the men as only pursuing to get the cookie. The other half probably genuinely liked you and losing them is on you.

[@berniecohens6409]

He's not two different people he didn't want you in the beginning, he just wanted to hit 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Zakaryah.]

Because it was TRASH!!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@chrisjackson8299]

The truth!!!😂😂😂😂

[@DDylast]

Same thing I said.😂

[@marockamalbey8144]

Facts

[@kboy2219]

That’s the problem they think it’s a Treat and find out it’s not , it’s garbage and not cash 🫤

[@Sorrydo44]

Or smells bad

[@BrothaJohn-br2hd]

Mission Accomplished. It's time to call you an uber. Bye.

[@davidford3073]

😂only fans

[@globallogistic255]

😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@KobaKashOwt21]

Ma’am, you played the game and he won. Game over. On to the next opponent.

[@Jayshawn832]

It wasn't even worth the headache

[@Mamacita8701]

Transition of power… before the sex the woman has the control. Once she opens up the control shifts to his favor. Recognize when you hold the cards and stop giving your power away.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

It's already well studied, it's called post nut clarity. Men pair bond off commitment through different chemicals while women pair bond off physical contact using another set of chemicals. A wiman can completely pair bond with a man after just 20 seconds of hugging a man! This is why school teachers would make sure boys and girls wouldn't dance too close at the school dances. Women hold the key to sex, men hold it for relationships. You play your leverage cheaply, you lose. We are very different in these aspects.

[@R8OASIS]

So the customer tried the lemonade... But then realized "I don't really want to buy an entire bag of lemons, because the juice is not worth the squeeze"

[@JerronJackson-uo1im]

@@R8OASIS precisely. Thanks for this pertinent information ☺️❤️

[@Levlu232]

You know what to say. 💯

[@vr4892]

A couple of things here, he either is: A. A player B. Was not impressed with your kitty, as you call it

[@Huey18748]

Tell them no and see how that works.

[@RTA6226]

Bwahahahaha!🤣Don't let the doorknob give you an enema on the way out 'cos you're full of s_ _ _!! I swear a woman is damned if she does and damned if she doesn't. Makes me grateful for the man I have now.

[@donegood8712]

And their gone like the wind.

[@IveyAdam]

Women switch up too. But they wait until they get to the altar to switch up. The minute you say, "I do", they say "I don't."

[@MixtapeKilla2004]

Facts

[@Juice3059-ie4es]

Yep that's when the puddytat dries up

[@mv4463]

Hand her some batteries.. she will get over it.

[@freddy8479]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@otodontidaepell9283]

Lmfao 😂😂😂 I wonder why I switch up like that too. It's not good as she thought it was

[@antoineragins5035]

“The person u actually need in your life might not LOOK the way you want them too”

[@realreddhrt]

Pluto said it best…”I’m cool on her I done had it” 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@alpheushill4292]

You picked him, you let him in the door deal with it💯💯💯💯💯

[@biggdogg19]

She’s hurtin!

[@sydnitheromantictaylor112]

I blame hookup culture.

[@Madison-sr5nl3ie6y]

Yep 🤷

[@palecitron8472]

You attract what you put out, could not have said it better.

[@KASLtja]

Its because its not as good as YOU think it is. If it was, that man would come back for more.

[@globallogistic255]

So that's why my ex's try every year to come back to me. It's to late now

[@KASLtja]

​@@globallogistic255Keeping it classy.

[@marvl6472]

Yall poison him after giving it up, plus he knows you dont value yourself anyway with ya 6 baby daddies

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

7

[@th3azscorpio]

If you're actually looking for a relationship, you dont give up so soon. Make him prove he's worthy, and is a man of actual character he claims to be. Honestly, past a certain age, most men will be honest enough to admit what theyre looking for. If he just wants some nookie, there's plenty of it out there for him, if he just wants to be a player. This is why you never just date, of settle for one person in the beginning either.

[@RTA6226]

What I'm wondering is was her father in the home? It seems like he would have told her that. My dad told me all of this and then some. He prefaced it all with "Before you get into that activity you better make damn sure he loves you!" And with birth control he said, "Be consistent at ALL times! Don't be getting lazy and not using it."

[@transitengineer]

Yes, this is how both my sister and I, were taught as our parents raised us but, that was back in the 1970's (smile ... smile).

[@RTA6226]

@@transitengineer Yep. That's when it was for me too; late 60's early 70's.

[@learningearning8385]

Had my father in the home. He never said a word

[@RTA6226]

@@learningearning8385 I've heard of fathers like that. In what era were you raised? The 1960's, 1970's or when? We mean STRONG fathers, not weak fathers.

[@coffeetablemedia1704]

The truth is most of yall only worth Cat!! Nothing else just a slay and play ▶️ ✨️ 🙌 😍

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

For me, sometimes the minimal effort was merely to see if I could. Other times, I felt like I needed a return on investment of time and attention. Other times, the buns were HORRIBLE.

[@nhutt1961]

@@Mr.Boring_Man 💯💯💯 No lies told!!!

[@JerronJackson-uo1im]

@@Mr.Boring_Man lolol 😂. "The buns were horrible.". That's just sounds 😂 😆😂. However. If any consolation. Horrible buns definitely seem unfortunate 😔

[@Yahshe]

Don't give it to him.

[@EugenioMagay-fc7gm]

WHY these Ladies Complaining after giving The MILK for FREE is Incredible 🤯🤯. and They/Them ask WHY NO ONE COMMITS TO THEY/THEM 🤣🤣🤣

[@thebrentrobinsonshow2882]

If you are giving it away easy. They're not going to respect you, on to the next for them.

[@toppsecretpyro6274]

She probably called the wrong name when she reached the finished line😅

[@BoBoAnderson4052]

Pump N Dump is very necessary in 2024✌🏿💯🇺🇸Trump 2024

[@globallogistic255]

😮😮😮😮

[@revolution7565]

😂😂

[@kevinmaden5572]

People change like SOCKS 🧦🧦🧦🧦🧦🧦

[@blackhawk6615]

Post nut clarity! Plus that cat was not right! 😅

[@TradeforpeaceMoney]

Musty cat will do that. I got turned off plenty of times, by that fishmarket odor and she never got my interest after that.

[@cecilfletcher4404]

That's easy to answer. Tell her to think of how quickly women change it up after they eat the wedding cake and have a child to get extra ends from the inevitable divorce that she files for!

[@maxamilliansteele6454]

_PUT US THROUGH TOO MUCH_

[@RosaX305]

In my 41 years on planet earth, this has never happened to me. So, I’m guessing the Box might not be that fresh.

[@Madison-sr5nl3ie6y]

That's what happens when you have one night stand's 😢

[@Beyt_El]

I really don’t understand what’s so hard to grasp about this. THEY DON’T RESPECT YOU!! Never did! It’s so easy to spot them. When you’re aware of the nature of a man their games can be perceived quite easily. It’s not them that need to be studied it’s y’all women who dumb enough to fall for the okie doke EVERY time, DESPITE the warnings family members and friends have given regarding these types of dudes. Y’all just don’t want to listen and then y’all get your parties in a bunch when they switch up on you like you didn’t see it coming. The signs are there, ya’ll are just willfully ignoring them. Also their weak flattery and minimum effort texts and phone calls don’t mean nothing if they’re not dedicating their time in the flesh with you. Men value their time above all else. That’s how you know if they real or not. It’s what they do not what they say that matters.

[@kevinmaden5572]

Join club CAPRICORN ! WE NEVER CHANGE !

[@globallogistic255]

I'm cap what u mean??? We never change

[@PlatPodMediaCEOSean]

The cat was wack, had to hit the eject button immediately after.

[@nux2k]

It's not hard to understand you wasn't worth it. Once he got it he realize it wasn't all it was cracked up to be so he had buyers remorse Post nut clarity kicks in and he can see the sky again. Or he knew he wasn't going to like you but he needed to recoup on his investment which happens too in a smashing dash. Step your game up and pick better 💃🏾

[@rollingthunder1221]

It's called refractory period😂😂😂 I don't think women experience this.

[@j.ronnygibson]

I thought it was post nut clarity

[@angelaedwards7866]

It must not be good

[@jameslogan4534]

You right cause some good stuff will have you running back for more, and she knows how this game goes and I'm sure that every man she's been with was not top shelf 🤔🤔😐😐🤣🤣

[@kunguru1058]

OR, it must be SO good that a ninja has to assume she crazy…🤔

[@MixtapeKilla2004]

Facts

[@moritzcaiquo1746]

Sometimes that 🐈 is not what we thought it was or you weren't who we thought you were

[@edwardheard8000]

It either bad chioces,something about you, or your box🤨

[@Peacefulenvironment86]

Different personalities, that be them soul tie stupidity that show in actions

[@MikeA8302]

Why she is posting this online????????? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐

[@michaelbrown7263]

REALLY??? ALL OF US?....I did not know that about myself. Thank you....WTF???!!!

[@coffeetablemedia1704]

The 2nd truth ..We both know what it is, your McDonald's drive thru was just slow 🐌 ! 😂😂😂

[@rebeccalpjohnson5497]

living to please God would save you from this circumstance

[@Craig-pm2kc]

She isn't capable.

[@rebeccalpjohnson5497]

@@Craig-pm2kc that sounds judgmental; she is just ignorant of the Word of God and caught up in the schemes of the enemy - she can be delivered - nothing is impossible for the Most High God...i will pray that she is delivered and that the Lord will send the perfect worker across her path so that she will accept Jesus' free gift of salvation....

[@Craig-pm2kc]

@rebeccalpjohnson5497 judgemental? What needs to be studied is why some women sign up to be bay momma #3,4 and 5.

[@rebeccalpjohnson5497]

@@Craig-pm2kc easy...lack of the presence and the Word of God in their hearts and lives...living to world standards

[@stephordless8876]

In and out just like a robbery - 2pac how do you want it

[@globallogistic255]

😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@kkroyu]

Say "you're not a catch" without actually saying "you're not a catch"

[@adaezeokafor4331]

YOU DO NOT GIVE SOME!!!!!!! YOUR MOTHER DID NOT TEACH YOU THAT!!!!!

[@understandingunderstanding4880]

woman this ain't new we've always been like that We say what you want to hear We play the role until we get that sweetness

[@bobfisher-zd2lt]

For some reason after I always wanted to go play basketball 🏀

[@ButterBiscuitGobbler]

My ex used to call it “post-nut clarity”.

[@clytchan]

A few reasons why that might happen; you probably made him wait so long to get, and it wasn’t what he thought it was gonna be. Or, he hit it but thought your hygiene was less than springtime fresh.

[@deezworld2318]

😂😂😂. Kind of how women switch up after they get the RING. Should all men keep their rings to themselves too?😂😂😂

[@corneliush8961]

Cat was no good

[@alimyrick4598]

They probably keep switching up on her afterwards because it's not any good. If it was good they would try to cuff her. They probably just don't want to hurt her feelings. Or she might have an odor issue and they chucked her the dueces.

[@wtfsamusidk7574]

Players only love you when their playing

[@kvantonio2001]

She is all cap most of these women don't deserve it women do change all the time you saw Thin Line Between Love and Hate with Martin Lawrence

[@jidec3165]

They go about making all sorts of demands from men only to get pumped and dump by Chad and Tyrone 😂 Chad and Tyrone don’t discriminate and will hit it and bounce on a slow Tuesday 😂

[@globallogistic255]

Wow 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@johnreklaw]

The men she's sleeping with don't value her at all. She need to make better decisions when it comes to giving herself to certain types of men..

[@KELLENKASH]

It has been studied but you have to read the scientist dont tik tok or social media much.

[@focuz4899]

It wasn't good...

[@donegood8712]

She a member of the Ding Bat Society. She has given up so much of cat away, now she can't find the real men to deal with her. Chasing poky and ray ray for the hype, but now the wall appears right before her eyes.

[@goyoy6433]

Just looking at her stuff hanging out but still decided to upload her video for the world to see. Maybe she needs to change up her uniform.

[@Goldsamurai7777]

Probably was trash.

[@jacquelinetrejo3136]

Did your mother teach you anything?

[@RTA6226]

Yes! What about your FATHER? DAMN!

[@SuperThudor]

Maybe it stank

[@poupee6929]

Why insult the young lady. Not necessary

[@bigfellamike1913]

@@poupee6929 he did say maybe

[@willmallory9085]

Answer: it wasn't good.

[@Nleezie33]

Women do it too nowadays

[@garrettdavis6500]

Niagara Falls.

[@Madison-sr5nl3ie6y]

🧐

[@justacontrarian]

Post-nut clarity, the kitty was trash, you stunk below (very common among black women, many who have a preponderance of BV), your home is dirty, etc.

[@True-Lies41]

In her case I bet it kinda stinks and she is immune to it 😂

[@SPEIGHTS78]

Say Phil did you see the video about the woman who doesn't like coffee dates

[@davidford3073]

Wait what!? Post clarity 😅😂

[@NightSurgeon09]

Do folks not understand post-nut clarity? I thought we were all on the same page...

[@jdkodak487]

Lady you not beautiful enough.😂

[@chuckc7239]

The number one reason, smell, doesn't matter how pretty she is.

[@belleame4671]

Make men wait 6 months..

[@Angel05433]

@belleame4671 you can do that but what if they ask well did you make your ex's wait 6 months? What will you say then.

[@belleame4671]

@@Angel05433 that's none of his business love.. Simple!!

[@Angel05433]

@@belleame4671 You see how unfair that is, some of yall women don't think things through.

[@Angel05433]

@@belleame4671 You realize that he isn't going to like that it makes no sense to make your new bf wait but yet all the other guys in the past didn't have to but ima tell you rn, if you make a man wait guess what only two things will happen, He will either walk away from you or he will sleep with other women, while you make him wait.

[@belleame4671]

@@Angel05433 tells me that's all he wanted.. If you want something you'll be patient and work hard at it... I'm in no rush... It's unfair?? You're silly.. No, grown man should be asking me about past men... I'm grown, stable,blessed and i'm confident in who i am... Run along love

[@DougTransportation]

Maybe that 🐈 wasn't good and he ghosted

[@malcolminthemiddle8777]

Now take that $40

[@Madison-sr5nl3ie6y]

😮

[@robertchambliss9338]

You just notice that it don't mean any thing

[@telayajackson1.0]

Because these guys are selfish. He has to smooze with you to get it and ghost. It's also evil. Games like that can make everyone miserable.