Woman Cracked The Code On Why Men Refuse To Marry Women That Receive Too Much Attention

[@backissue7373]

Who wants an attention seeker raising his children?

[@mikecarter5631]

Raising his children, collecting child support, and alimony, from him, while living in the house he bought for them. No man wants that.

[@Army_Brat1980]

Especially when hes gonna run off anyway? She needs to be focused.

[@TCR2025]

You don’t bring home 304s to meet your family

[@JBoomer-pi6ml]

Fit, feminine and friendly- With positive Character.

[@freddy8479]

DON'T FORGET "QUALITY!!!"

[@BlueKidSwag]

RIP to Mr Samuels.

[@thesuperdingos]

She’s right: the cute modest girl is the one you bring homes

[@freddy8479]

Whom will be VETTED BY MOMMA!!!

[@cjjohnson3827]

Them the ones I usually go for. Not them chicks with the ig model start up kit. BBL, weird eye lashes, and lace front hair hats. Give me a natural woman any day of the week.

[@freddy8479]

@@cjjohnson3827 INDEED AND AGREED 💯

[@kevingordon8275]

Always & 100%

[@bodhisattva2348]

Then how come those girls are single?

[@TheMhtsxplz]

The problem is the good women now and days are standing too close to bad ones and some even dress like bad ones.

[@johncoleman3576]

Facts

[@TheMhtsxplz]

@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure You can’t speak for what I’ve seen in my lifetime, I’m soon to be 57 and I’ve seen a lot of Tom Foolery from men and women.

[@Maxx-mw2zt]

Good women don't hang out with those types. Their character would clash. It's an internal thing not external. She's attractive from the inside out.

[@TheMhtsxplz]

@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure And again you can’t speak for what I’ve seen and you can’t give me my opinion on what is good or bad.

[@TheMhtsxplz]

@@Maxx-mw2zt It’s better to say you don’t hang out with these women, again what I’ve seen suggests that they do.

[@Rock-d1k]

Character, class and modesty matters.

[@freddy8479]

QUALITY!!!!

[@anthonywilliams9415]

📠

[@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71]

Yep. Here's a scripture. Proverbs 11:22 A beautiful woman lacking modesty and discretion is like a fine gold ring in a pig's snout.

[@TruthSeeker30_]

All that attention growing up from their beauty stunts their mental growth

[@Kris-ym2zr]

Yeah, down to earth, modest and humble wins the day.

[@theoriginal668]

She is spot on. Ive always avoided those type of women and went for the low-key woman

[@mfati9077]

Cos in honesty, you are broke!

[@PatricioJoseph]

@@mfati9077 get rich... avoid a b--ch

[@ericlewis450]

​@@mfati9077AND YOU SOUND LIKE A GOLDDIGGER

[@yayeeva7745]

​@mfati9077 what does that have to do with being broke? 🤔🤔🤔

[@teelove4443]

​@@mfati9077You can't get mad at him because men aren't choosing you 😂

[@ammonioussaccas]

She’s not lying.

[@walidshabazz5193]

When choosing a woman, consider these three qualities: peace, pleasantness, and truthfulness.

[@DominantBlackMaleLeader]

Here’s a fourth; gainfully employed

[@darnellrhodes6174]

A woman’s past is a clear indication of who she is as person!!

[@bcinnamonclark8301]

Sundress wearing Down to Earth Beautiful women are always on the top of the list.

[@markbrunner7793]

YAHTZEE

[@GradyBrown-i3m]

I always loved a woman that’s very god fearing, good heart, beautiful, and naturally nurturing low key divia

[@marshallallied]

Basically, a sensible man knows: Beauty fades; Ugly stays.

[@jorgetomas380]

.....that & PEEEEEEEACE.

[@oneperson1138]

Finally, a woman who is absolutely correct. She gets it, cause that's exactly what I look for in a woman.

[@afronational2340]

Even as a kid I always said "sexy" has the word sex in it. It's that simple.

[@Cahluvca]

My elders said this regardless of gender....a princess ISNT a helpmeet!

[@gotti400082]

That woman knows the real💯 I remember this one feminine down to earth lady I tried to holla at turned me down gently but she was so sweet about it she even hooked me up with her homegirl Notice I said ONE because they are hard to find these days I have never been so happy after being rejected on that day😂

[@Ncognito579]

😂😂 this is hilarious 💕💗

[@jeffreyscorner123]

She's right i go for the quiet modest cute women. I love humble beauty

[@jmatt7804]

Spot on !! She completely understands how men works !!

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

*The Rolls Royce Theory:* I'll look at it, _but I will _*_NEVER_*_ take over the payments._

[@ricostpatrick]

Perfect analogy!

[@bert891]

They typically don’t become down to earth until they become a baby mama. Now they’re all friendly and ish 😂😂😂😂

[@lyricistdestroyerqueensbor8782]

Exactly... after they go to prenatal appointments by themselves is when they become down to earth 😂

[@IAMCONCEITED]

They dumb ass got humbled that’s why 😂

[@SSNRadi0]

Oooo wee wee 🤣🤣🤣

[@kennethsmith1897]

😂😂😂😂

[@charlesbeatty888]

Unconsciously. I've never approached a woman who wore makeup or a wig. It's the natural hair, Down to earth, no make up...the smile.

[@Zoloft77]

One of the main reasons I avoided the popular girls. To me, popular means tainted and drama. Ironically, ignoring them somewhat makes them approach you. At least in my experience. 😅

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Fax 📠 Machine 💯

[@stephenfoster1257]

The song "Roses" by Outkast sums it up perfectly.

[@KopJustin]

Ecclesiasticus 26:23 - “A wicked woman is giuen as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is giuen to him that feareth the Lord.”

[@xavierdorsey2160]

No disrespect but I don't believe that happened like that always, there are good women out there who were in a relationship with a man who turned into monsters and vice versa. I watched documentaries about things like that. So I don't believe that's always true.

[@KopJustin]

@@xavierdorsey2160 Just quoting scripture ..not my opinion

[@Payday-ky7mb]

Proverbs 5:3-8 son stay away from that adulterous woman. Her lips drip honey but her heart is bitter. She chooses death over life. Her foot steps lead to the grave.

[@xavierdorsey2160]

@@KopJustin I'm not hating on you for that. Nothing wrong in quoting scriptures from the Bible I'm just saying.

[@nonyabiz12]

"27For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. 28She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men." (PROVERBS 23:27-28)

[@blackhawk6695]

Men will date down for peace! & a win!

[@OnyxTiger]

You also gotta be careful, some of these 304's act like they are ladies just to trick a man.

[@FC-xc3zy]

Amen

[@hundreds2696]

Girls like that after you had them 4 or 5 Times you not even pressed about her anymore.

[@TradeforpeaceMoney]

Facts..the baddies usually are boring, the s3x is typically average, and they are not good people at heart!

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

Bingo

[@StNixdaIV]

Who can FIND a VIRTUOUS woman in a bbl, augmented, narcissistic, opportunistic virtual world 😂

[@Payday-ky7mb]

The 304 mafia is everywhere and becoming harder to spot.

[@alexnevermind2764]

She has developed an attitude plus she can’t be trusted when you’re not around and she shows no interest in covering up and dressing tasteful conservative.

[@Reignsupreme76]

This sister is absolutely right. Men, like myself, goes for a woman that is attractive and down to earth.

[@poeticwisdom3]

I absolutely agree with this woman's statement.

[@heymisswest]

This is so true!!!!!!! They love the pretty feminine ladies

[@viviennebaptiste]

But will cheat on you with the baddie type

[@rons3634]

Better off with a woman who is a 6 and knows she's a 6, rather than a 10 who knows she's a 10. Even worse is the 6 that thinks she's a 10.

[@purplelove010]

So you prefer insecure women?

[@shamashwanyasharahla]

Broke the sister code lol

[@markf.5551]

That's why it's best to explore the world before you chose a modern women!!!

[@ammonioussaccas]

If they have the internet they’re modern. Good luck.

[@yayeeva7745]

​@@ammonioussaccas😂😂😂 so simple?

[@jahbless4ever]

Exactly

[@doretteolivera2963]

Too much contradictions.Some wants a hottie,some wants a modest woman and t them they complains that she let herself go.

[@little95]

Cute, feminine, sun dress always win, brings out the chivalry in us 🔥

[@iamceino]

Looking to settle down after they’ve been ran through.

[@CoolGent87]

Proverbs 31:11-12,30-31 [11]The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. [12]She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. [30]Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. [31]Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

[@Ob_BarberStylez]

Unc is speaking true facts. Sleeping with and wifing are completely different. Many times women radiate beauty but the heart/mind/soul do not match the exterior. Shadow work/inner work and character and value development will bind a man to a woman even after the natural beauty departs.

[@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage]

It’s sad that women have to tell other women things that are just common sense as if it’s a major epiphany. Small children know this instinctually😂🤣😂

[@seangarvey3875]

Like seriously? This is news. We don’t bring home 304s. This is as old as time.

[@Drax-ct3mt]

"The kind you don't take home to mother"--Rick James

[@sbolden123]

Good Valid points 😊

[@kazi1]

Fr

[@Bigfish1day]

Plain Jane for me. But be careful some of them are rotten apples too.

[@willmallory9085]

3:55 Facts, looks attract, but character KEEPS!!! 😊❤

[@Pamela-w9r]

Well Said.!!!

[@mannysantana]

She’s right but the problem is: 1, there aren’t enough cute and feminine woman to begin with, 2, the ones that do exist are taken by the time they’re 25 years old, and 3, the ones who aren’t taken have too many walls up and emotional expectations (opposite of the materialistic expectations the party girls have.)

[@j.smoov7220]

I get what she's saying but it's not that we don't want a sexy woman because the cute modest lady is still sexy. We just don't want an over sexualized look/vibe that draws the wrong attention.

[@curtisalleyne3710]

Humble women get the prize 🏆

[@GMacII]

I didn't fully grasp this until I matured. My mentor's advice when I was younger was, "Enjoy yourself, but when you're ready to commit, aim for a solid 7." It's remarkably accurate. A perfect 10 might not be so easy to work with-they often think they know it all. A 6 or 7, however, is receptive to coaching and stunning when dressed up. The allure of the girl next door is what most men truly desire.

[@Silversiren-d1b]

Wow, this video hits home! As a woman, I've always wondered about this 'attention' factor in relationships. I want to hear this woman's insights and gain some clarity on what really goes on in our heads when it comes to commitment. Let's dive in

[@armandoperez7967]

The drop dead gorgeous woman have as much traffic as the Lincoln and Holland Tunnels, for the most part. Not all, but most of them.

[@Kiki-ko1cr]

I think she’s right cuz I still consider myself a cute tomboy that can definitely scale it up when necessary! I don’t like people gawking at me!

[@Exoticbarbie.]

Your really pretty

[@nicolasjones3378]

She is 100% right.

[@Reignsupreme76]

It's funny how things are the opposite when it comes to the genders. Women love popular guys, but men do not like women that alot of people know.

[@deeolusanya9325]

It’s called class.

[@freddy8479]

Besides the attributes that she mentioned, it's all about THE QUALITY for us!!!!

[@roncall6065]

We run though baddies. No one wife’s those

[@bryanmcgee7522]

Yep "THE GIRL NEXT DOOR TYPE"

[@CoolGent87]

Stay far away from the proverbs 5/7 Immoral women. I'm all for the proverbs 31 Virtuous women

[@allmuscle839]

Spot on unc! Spot on!

[@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71]

Well one day God Almighty Yah put this quote on my mind and I will not forget it. "A none virtuous woman has about as much value as a wooden penny at best and detrimental at worst." When I ask women are they truly virtuous women they could not honestly say yes.

[@Yahshe]

But it's not fair. Those men like Wild 'n out with the 304s. Then after they've got it all in, now they wanna nice clean decent girl. No. Stay there. Leave the decent girl for a decent man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. No. It's no different to a man that won't wanna be with a woman even though she WAS a 304 but changed her life. He gets no passes either.

[@Floridabound561]

Yesss this is so truee

[@jsimeonf9141]

The problem is that you think men and women are the same , you start off by saying it's not fair

[@Yahshe]

@@jsimeonf9141 It's not. Women don't get a pass and neither do men.

[@kmonger]

Life ain’t fair . You haven’t realized that yet ?

[@uncannytheos2454]

We tell them this all the time but they always ignore what we men say. Welp there bitter old an alone now. Shouldn't have been prideful an foolish wasting your years

[@rturnersr1853]

Winner winner!!! She cracked the code.

[@stayhard2796]

10000%Facts

[@user-abdulalimuhammad]

The song by The Temptations Beauty only skin deep 🎉 the song by Chaka Khan Fool's Paradise🎉 the song by Earth Wind & Fire It's All About Love🎉

[@duaneninjaray]

So basically she listened to a man or men, telling NO yelling loudly, what they literally want..instead of ignoring what men want 😂

[@Affiliate067]

Personable and friendly plus beautiful is top tier.

[@toddmays4065]

Pretty ones that get all the attention don't have nothing to think with majority of them are short term thinker don't think about the road ahead a lot of them just think for the moment

[@TheCakediva08]

So true!!

[@user-ex2yt1pl6u]

If you point this fact out as a man, such women will say you are intimidated as a deflection tactic.

[@derekjwilliams007]

Talk to men you respect and you will know 💯

[@househeadspeakz]

She's correct. I prefer the cute, humble girl next door type. A woman I can bring around and family and close friends.

[@bohemians0ul180]

Nah, you finding a partner has more to do with what life has in store for you. You finding a GOOD partner depends on your karma. All this other ish is insecurities. Because you can dress plain as hell and still attract attention. You can be sexy and have a great personality to go with it at well. This is just perception.

[@FC-xc3zy]

You have learnt nothing. You are not interested in learning

[@bohemians0ul180]

@@FC-xc3zy thank you for letting me know that...

[@koolshaker7615]

Yesss on that SUNDRESS.......😊🤜🏽🤛🏽🥂

[@SaintClay-e5w]

People are too superficial. All they want to do is surgery to beautify the flesh. But that demon is still within. Get rid of your demon and become more modest. It will suit you better in life, in your spiritual faith, and in partnerships.

[@joycewatt8289]

4:55 As a woman No lies found here ☝🏽 He said it….. “Get a therapist” Internal authentic beauty is better than the exterior facade that many women focus on.

[@miguelwilliams6876]

Facts over Feelings 😢

I believe Chaka Demus and Pliers already addressed this.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

Men light approach the cute ones but once you talk to em they are all the same. Chameleons get vetted out later on.

[@msgt777]

I agree with her 100%

[@djsharpshoota]

She is a genius,❤simple she got the ring!

[@blindpanthervlogs]

As a blind man who can’t see the outer façade, most of the women that I try to talk to are taken because my interest in them stems from them as a person.

[@Lightning1394]

Even the chunky ones still be ugly inside

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

She has a feminine voice. 😊

[@kabbaaurora168]

😂 Shes Right! In most cases

[@JaiOva]

Her brothers put her on game hard, yeah she got it 👍 💯 😏

[@mlk.ali_X]

Correct but how much attention she gets matters less if she has a history of handling the it in a graceful manner. Is she grounded by life in the midst of said attention?

[@RayRockDrummer]

I want a ( I Call You Killer Because You Slay Me) Woman 😂🤣

[@edwardheard8000]

She's spot on! We'll ride ya hard, but means nothing to us🤨

[@rodgaray1]

Great points Uncle Phil ;Jamie Dimon CEO of JP Morgan Chase just wrote a response to a 25 year old woman who was asking how she can get a rich man his response was awesome

[@stripedrajang3571]

What was his response?

[@rodgaray1]

It was a three/four paragraph response you can Google it

[@blackstar90]

100% correct

[@sammysam486]

Nailed it!!🎉

[@ciddyfent4246]

She is right.

[@kielhall8363]

100%Right - Right100%☑️

[@lavonnealexander6936]

I know women who do this to men. They don’t want the hot cheating bad guy but the fearless assertive dominant guy. Not the nice guy either, nobody wants a pushover.