Who wants an attention seeker raising his children?
@mikecarter56315 ай бұрын
Raising his children, collecting child support, and alimony, from him, while living in the house he bought for them. No man wants that.
@Army_Brat19805 ай бұрын
Especially when hes gonna run off anyway? She needs to be focused.
@TCR20255 ай бұрын
You don’t bring home 304s to meet your family
@JBoomer-pi6ml5 ай бұрын
Fit, feminine and friendly- With positive Character.
@freddy84795 ай бұрын
DON'T FORGET "QUALITY!!!"
@BlueKidSwag5 ай бұрын
RIP to Mr Samuels.
@thesuperdingos5 ай бұрын
She’s right: the cute modest girl is the one you bring homes
@freddy84795 ай бұрын
Whom will be VETTED BY MOMMA!!!
@cjjohnson38275 ай бұрын
Them the ones I usually go for. Not them chicks with the ig model start up kit. BBL, weird eye lashes, and lace front hair hats. Give me a natural woman any day of the week.
@freddy84795 ай бұрын
@@cjjohnson3827 INDEED AND AGREED 💯
@kevingordon82755 ай бұрын
Always & 100%
@bodhisattva23485 ай бұрын
Then how come those girls are single?
@TheMhtsxplz5 ай бұрын
The problem is the good women now and days are standing too close to bad ones and some even dress like bad ones.
@johncoleman35765 ай бұрын
Facts
@TheMhtsxplz5 ай бұрын
@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure You can’t speak for what I’ve seen in my lifetime, I’m soon to be 57 and I’ve seen a lot of Tom Foolery from men and women.
@Maxx-mw2zt5 ай бұрын
Good women don't hang out with those types. Their character would clash. It's an internal thing not external. She's attractive from the inside out.
@TheMhtsxplz5 ай бұрын
@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure And again you can’t speak for what I’ve seen and you can’t give me my opinion on what is good or bad.
@TheMhtsxplz5 ай бұрын
@@Maxx-mw2zt It’s better to say you don’t hang out with these women, again what I’ve seen suggests that they do.
@Rock-d1k5 ай бұрын
Character, class and modesty matters.
@freddy84795 ай бұрын
QUALITY!!!!
@anthonywilliams94155 ай бұрын
📠
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm715 ай бұрын
Yep. Here's a scripture. Proverbs 11:22 A beautiful woman lacking modesty and discretion is like a fine gold ring in a pig's snout.
@TruthSeeker30_5 ай бұрын
All that attention growing up from their beauty stunts their mental growth
@Kris-ym2zr5 ай бұрын
Yeah, down to earth, modest and humble wins the day.
@theoriginal6685 ай бұрын
She is spot on. Ive always avoided those type of women and went for the low-key woman
@mfati90775 ай бұрын
Cos in honesty, you are broke!
@PatricioJoseph5 ай бұрын
@@mfati9077 get rich... avoid a b--ch
@ericlewis4505 ай бұрын
@@mfati9077AND YOU SOUND LIKE A GOLDDIGGER
@yayeeva77455 ай бұрын
@mfati9077 what does that have to do with being broke? 🤔🤔🤔
@teelove44435 ай бұрын
@@mfati9077You can't get mad at him because men aren't choosing you 😂
@ammonioussaccas5 ай бұрын
She’s not lying.
@walidshabazz51935 ай бұрын
When choosing a woman, consider these three qualities: peace, pleasantness, and truthfulness.
@DominantBlackMaleLeader5 ай бұрын
Here’s a fourth; gainfully employed
@darnellrhodes61745 ай бұрын
A woman’s past is a clear indication of who she is as person!!
@bcinnamonclark83015 ай бұрын
Sundress wearing Down to Earth Beautiful women are always on the top of the list.
@markbrunner7793Күн бұрын
YAHTZEE
@GradyBrown-i3m5 ай бұрын
I always loved a woman that’s very god fearing, good heart, beautiful, and naturally nurturing low key divia
@marshallallied5 ай бұрын
Basically, a sensible man knows: Beauty fades; Ugly stays.
@jorgetomas3805 ай бұрын
.....that & PEEEEEEEACE.
@oneperson11385 ай бұрын
Finally, a woman who is absolutely correct. She gets it, cause that's exactly what I look for in a woman.
@afronational23405 ай бұрын
Even as a kid I always said "sexy" has the word sex in it. It's that simple.
@Cahluvca5 ай бұрын
My elders said this regardless of gender....a princess ISNT a helpmeet!
@gotti4000825 ай бұрын
That woman knows the real💯 I remember this one feminine down to earth lady I tried to holla at turned me down gently but she was so sweet about it she even hooked me up with her homegirl Notice I said ONE because they are hard to find these days I have never been so happy after being rejected on that day😂
@Ncognito57917 күн бұрын
😂😂 this is hilarious 💕💗
@jeffreyscorner1235 ай бұрын
She's right i go for the quiet modest cute women. I love humble beauty
@jmatt78045 ай бұрын
Spot on !! She completely understands how men works !!
@MyNameIsUnavailable5 ай бұрын
*The Rolls Royce Theory:* I'll look at it, _but I will _*_NEVER_*_ take over the payments._
@ricostpatrick5 ай бұрын
Perfect analogy!
@bert8915 ай бұрын
They typically don’t become down to earth until they become a baby mama. Now they’re all friendly and ish 😂😂😂😂
@lyricistdestroyerqueensbor87825 ай бұрын
Exactly... after they go to prenatal appointments by themselves is when they become down to earth 😂
@IAMCONCEITED5 ай бұрын
They dumb ass got humbled that’s why 😂
@SSNRadi05 ай бұрын
Oooo wee wee 🤣🤣🤣
@kennethsmith18975 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@charlesbeatty8885 ай бұрын
Unconsciously. I've never approached a woman who wore makeup or a wig. It's the natural hair, Down to earth, no make up...the smile.
@Zoloft775 ай бұрын
One of the main reasons I avoided the popular girls. To me, popular means tainted and drama. Ironically, ignoring them somewhat makes them approach you. At least in my experience. 😅
@MyNameIsUnavailable5 ай бұрын
Fax 📠 Machine 💯
@stephenfoster12575 ай бұрын
The song "Roses" by Outkast sums it up perfectly.
@KopJustin5 ай бұрын
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 - “A wicked woman is giuen as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is giuen to him that feareth the Lord.”
@xavierdorsey21605 ай бұрын
No disrespect but I don't believe that happened like that always, there are good women out there who were in a relationship with a man who turned into monsters and vice versa. I watched documentaries about things like that. So I don't believe that's always true.
@KopJustin5 ай бұрын
@@xavierdorsey2160 Just quoting scripture ..not my opinion
@Payday-ky7mb5 ай бұрын
Proverbs 5:3-8 son stay away from that adulterous woman. Her lips drip honey but her heart is bitter. She chooses death over life. Her foot steps lead to the grave.
@xavierdorsey21605 ай бұрын
@@KopJustin I'm not hating on you for that. Nothing wrong in quoting scriptures from the Bible I'm just saying.
@nonyabiz125 ай бұрын
"27For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. 28She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men." (PROVERBS 23:27-28)
@blackhawk66955 ай бұрын
Men will date down for peace! & a win!
@OnyxTiger5 ай бұрын
You also gotta be careful, some of these 304's act like they are ladies just to trick a man.
@FC-xc3zy5 ай бұрын
Amen
@hundreds26965 ай бұрын
Girls like that after you had them 4 or 5 Times you not even pressed about her anymore.
@TradeforpeaceMoney5 ай бұрын
Facts..the baddies usually are boring, the s3x is typically average, and they are not good people at heart!
@MyNameIsUnavailable5 ай бұрын
Bingo
@StNixdaIV4 ай бұрын
Who can FIND a VIRTUOUS woman in a bbl, augmented, narcissistic, opportunistic virtual world 😂
@Payday-ky7mb5 ай бұрын
The 304 mafia is everywhere and becoming harder to spot.
@alexnevermind27645 ай бұрын
She has developed an attitude plus she can’t be trusted when you’re not around and she shows no interest in covering up and dressing tasteful conservative.
@Reignsupreme765 ай бұрын
This sister is absolutely right. Men, like myself, goes for a woman that is attractive and down to earth.
@poeticwisdom35 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree with this woman's statement.
@heymisswest5 ай бұрын
This is so true!!!!!!! They love the pretty feminine ladies
@viviennebaptisteАй бұрын
But will cheat on you with the baddie type
@rons36344 ай бұрын
Better off with a woman who is a 6 and knows she's a 6, rather than a 10 who knows she's a 10. Even worse is the 6 that thinks she's a 10.
@purplelove010Ай бұрын
So you prefer insecure women?
@shamashwanyasharahla5 ай бұрын
Broke the sister code lol
@markf.55515 ай бұрын
That's why it's best to explore the world before you chose a modern women!!!
@ammonioussaccas5 ай бұрын
If they have the internet they’re modern. Good luck.
@yayeeva77455 ай бұрын
@@ammonioussaccas😂😂😂 so simple?
@jahbless4ever5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@doretteolivera29635 ай бұрын
Too much contradictions.Some wants a hottie,some wants a modest woman and t them they complains that she let herself go.
@little955 ай бұрын
Cute, feminine, sun dress always win, brings out the chivalry in us 🔥
@iamceino5 ай бұрын
Looking to settle down after they’ve been ran through.
@CoolGent875 ай бұрын
Proverbs 31:11-12,30-31 [11]The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. [12]She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. [30]Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. [31]Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
@Ob_BarberStylez5 ай бұрын
Unc is speaking true facts. Sleeping with and wifing are completely different. Many times women radiate beauty but the heart/mind/soul do not match the exterior. Shadow work/inner work and character and value development will bind a man to a woman even after the natural beauty departs.
@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage4 ай бұрын
It’s sad that women have to tell other women things that are just common sense as if it’s a major epiphany. Small children know this instinctually😂🤣😂
@seangarvey38755 ай бұрын
Like seriously? This is news. We don’t bring home 304s. This is as old as time.
@Drax-ct3mt4 ай бұрын
"The kind you don't take home to mother"--Rick James
@sbolden1236 ай бұрын
Good Valid points 😊
@kazi15 ай бұрын
Fr
@Bigfish1day5 ай бұрын
Plain Jane for me. But be careful some of them are rotten apples too.
@willmallory90855 ай бұрын
3:55 Facts, looks attract, but character KEEPS!!! 😊❤
@Pamela-w9r5 ай бұрын
Well Said.!!!
@mannysantana4 ай бұрын
She’s right but the problem is: 1, there aren’t enough cute and feminine woman to begin with, 2, the ones that do exist are taken by the time they’re 25 years old, and 3, the ones who aren’t taken have too many walls up and emotional expectations (opposite of the materialistic expectations the party girls have.)
@j.smoov72205 ай бұрын
I get what she's saying but it's not that we don't want a sexy woman because the cute modest lady is still sexy. We just don't want an over sexualized look/vibe that draws the wrong attention.
@curtisalleyne37105 ай бұрын
Humble women get the prize 🏆
@GMacII5 ай бұрын
I didn't fully grasp this until I matured. My mentor's advice when I was younger was, "Enjoy yourself, but when you're ready to commit, aim for a solid 7." It's remarkably accurate. A perfect 10 might not be so easy to work with-they often think they know it all. A 6 or 7, however, is receptive to coaching and stunning when dressed up. The allure of the girl next door is what most men truly desire.
@Silversiren-d1b5 ай бұрын
Wow, this video hits home! As a woman, I've always wondered about this 'attention' factor in relationships. I want to hear this woman's insights and gain some clarity on what really goes on in our heads when it comes to commitment. Let's dive in
@armandoperez79675 ай бұрын
The drop dead gorgeous woman have as much traffic as the Lincoln and Holland Tunnels, for the most part. Not all, but most of them.
@Kiki-ko1cr5 ай бұрын
I think she’s right cuz I still consider myself a cute tomboy that can definitely scale it up when necessary! I don’t like people gawking at me!
@Exoticbarbie.5 ай бұрын
Your really pretty
@nicolasjones33785 ай бұрын
She is 100% right.
@Reignsupreme765 ай бұрын
It's funny how things are the opposite when it comes to the genders. Women love popular guys, but men do not like women that alot of people know.
@deeolusanya93255 ай бұрын
It’s called class.
@freddy84795 ай бұрын
Besides the attributes that she mentioned, it's all about THE QUALITY for us!!!!
@roncall60653 ай бұрын
We run though baddies. No one wife’s those
@bryanmcgee75225 ай бұрын
Yep "THE GIRL NEXT DOOR TYPE"
@CoolGent875 ай бұрын
Stay far away from the proverbs 5/7 Immoral women. I'm all for the proverbs 31 Virtuous women
@allmuscle8395 ай бұрын
Spot on unc! Spot on!
@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm715 ай бұрын
Well one day God Almighty Yah put this quote on my mind and I will not forget it. "A none virtuous woman has about as much value as a wooden penny at best and detrimental at worst." When I ask women are they truly virtuous women they could not honestly say yes.
@Yahshe5 ай бұрын
But it's not fair. Those men like Wild 'n out with the 304s. Then after they've got it all in, now they wanna nice clean decent girl. No. Stay there. Leave the decent girl for a decent man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. No. It's no different to a man that won't wanna be with a woman even though she WAS a 304 but changed her life. He gets no passes either.
@Floridabound5615 ай бұрын
Yesss this is so truee
@jsimeonf91415 ай бұрын
The problem is that you think men and women are the same , you start off by saying it's not fair
@Yahshe4 ай бұрын
@@jsimeonf9141 It's not. Women don't get a pass and neither do men.
@kmonger4 ай бұрын
Life ain’t fair . You haven’t realized that yet ?
@uncannytheos24545 ай бұрын
We tell them this all the time but they always ignore what we men say. Welp there bitter old an alone now. Shouldn't have been prideful an foolish wasting your years
@rturnersr18535 ай бұрын
Winner winner!!! She cracked the code.
@stayhard27965 ай бұрын
10000%Facts
@user-abdulalimuhammad5 ай бұрын
The song by The Temptations Beauty only skin deep 🎉 the song by Chaka Khan Fool's Paradise🎉 the song by Earth Wind & Fire It's All About Love🎉
@duaneninjaray5 ай бұрын
So basically she listened to a man or men, telling NO yelling loudly, what they literally want..instead of ignoring what men want 😂
@Affiliate0675 ай бұрын
Personable and friendly plus beautiful is top tier.
@toddmays40655 ай бұрын
Pretty ones that get all the attention don't have nothing to think with majority of them are short term thinker don't think about the road ahead a lot of them just think for the moment
@TheCakediva085 ай бұрын
So true!!
@user-ex2yt1pl6u27 күн бұрын
If you point this fact out as a man, such women will say you are intimidated as a deflection tactic.
@derekjwilliams0074 ай бұрын
Talk to men you respect and you will know 💯
@househeadspeakz5 ай бұрын
She's correct. I prefer the cute, humble girl next door type. A woman I can bring around and family and close friends.
@bohemians0ul1805 ай бұрын
Nah, you finding a partner has more to do with what life has in store for you. You finding a GOOD partner depends on your karma. All this other ish is insecurities. Because you can dress plain as hell and still attract attention. You can be sexy and have a great personality to go with it at well. This is just perception.
@FC-xc3zy5 ай бұрын
You have learnt nothing. You are not interested in learning
@bohemians0ul1805 ай бұрын
@@FC-xc3zy thank you for letting me know that...
@koolshaker76155 ай бұрын
Yesss on that SUNDRESS.......😊🤜🏽🤛🏽🥂
@SaintClay-e5w5 ай бұрын
People are too superficial. All they want to do is surgery to beautify the flesh. But that demon is still within. Get rid of your demon and become more modest. It will suit you better in life, in your spiritual faith, and in partnerships.
@joycewatt82895 ай бұрын
4:55 As a woman No lies found here ☝🏽 He said it….. “Get a therapist” Internal authentic beauty is better than the exterior facade that many women focus on.
@miguelwilliams68765 ай бұрын
Facts over Feelings 😢
5 ай бұрын
I believe Chaka Demus and Pliers already addressed this.
@TURBOBEATZZZ4 ай бұрын
Men light approach the cute ones but once you talk to em they are all the same. Chameleons get vetted out later on.
@msgt7774 ай бұрын
I agree with her 100%
@djsharpshoota5 ай бұрын
She is a genius,❤simple she got the ring!
@blindpanthervlogs5 ай бұрын
As a blind man who can’t see the outer façade, most of the women that I try to talk to are taken because my interest in them stems from them as a person.
@Lightning13945 ай бұрын
Even the chunky ones still be ugly inside
@SAMack-xd2fn5 ай бұрын
She has a feminine voice. 😊
@kabbaaurora1685 ай бұрын
😂 Shes Right! In most cases
@JaiOva5 ай бұрын
Her brothers put her on game hard, yeah she got it 👍 💯 😏
@mlk.ali_X5 ай бұрын
Correct but how much attention she gets matters less if she has a history of handling the it in a graceful manner. Is she grounded by life in the midst of said attention?
@RayRockDrummer5 ай бұрын
I want a ( I Call You Killer Because You Slay Me) Woman 😂🤣
@edwardheard80005 ай бұрын
She's spot on! We'll ride ya hard, but means nothing to us🤨
@rodgaray15 ай бұрын
Great points Uncle Phil ;Jamie Dimon CEO of JP Morgan Chase just wrote a response to a 25 year old woman who was asking how she can get a rich man his response was awesome
@stripedrajang35715 ай бұрын
What was his response?
@rodgaray15 ай бұрын
It was a three/four paragraph response you can Google it
@blackstar905 ай бұрын
100% correct
@sammysam4865 ай бұрын
Nailed it!!🎉
@ciddyfent42465 ай бұрын
She is right.
@kielhall83635 ай бұрын
100%Right - Right100%☑️
@lavonnealexander69365 ай бұрын
I know women who do this to men. They don’t want the hot cheating bad guy but the fearless assertive dominant guy. Not the nice guy either, nobody wants a pushover.