Woman Discovers Four Personalities After Stabbing 'Creepy' Man | Sarah Gonzales-McLinn Case Analysis

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Dido

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Same here

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[@KarlaO1986]

Had she chose the second excuse about him being a creep, she probably would've got a lighter sentence.

[@LilyFlowers-hh3sc]

Keep in mind that I think she should have gotten a much longer sentence. But I'm curious why you think what you think.

[@sweetteath]

It wouldn't have been allowed unfortunately.

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As my dad once said to me, “You have to be careful who you get naked with.” Good advice for both of them.

[@Lucy-ym8ch]

Extremely true. Why I always had sex with my clothes on till I was 24.

[@lynnettecapozio7327]

Where in the world are her parents in this!?!

[@TheTruthKiwi]

Seems like they just didn't care sadly

[@KatJ3st]

I doubt there were two parents at all for most of her life...

[@Mikeanglo]

@@KatJ3st Obviously if she ended up with this guy there wasn't even a single parent in her life, let alone one. Don't try to make this a single parent scenario.

[@kaleblavender6093]

Yeah, unfortunately it seems like she may have been looking for some quasi-romantic/parental figure in this man. Combined with her psychopathic characteristics and his sexual exploitation of her, she eventually turned to murder. I do feel sorry for her to some extent, she obviously needed adults in her life helping her make better decisions, but it doesn't justify the murder.

[@JungkooksWhore.]

Divorced and didn't care about her

[@shameronstar7220]

When a creep meets a psychopath.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

the fun is trying to figure out which is which

[@KLienne]

@@georgiegirl8345 As they say, "don't stick your [...] in crazy"

[@elijahsesi4755]

Sounds like the start of a bad joke

[@kayem9909]

Yes omg

[@iamzmodel]

Shes a psychopath regardless. Animal killings and cruelty is an early sign. Was he wrong and disgusting? absolutely 1000 percent. But dont get it twisted. Murder is murder. A psychopath is a psychopath. She had plenty of time to get away if she wanted to. World needs to stop giving murderers excuses. Period. ​@Applebottompants

[@JackieG123]

There’s no way on earth that I would allow a 16 year old girl in my care to live with a single man, I don’t care if he was related to us or not. Why did her parents allow this? The whole thing could have been prevented. The multiple personality fantasy just muddies the waters.

[@Saints_ravenfortheRainbow]

If someone really has DID they've gone through really dark things since a little kid, and really with the parents just letting her live with him it kind of just back that up.

[@edenstanding8676]

My parents let ke live with a 36yo man when I was 17, because they didn't care about me, and they didn't want to pay my way anymore. They didn't care about my safety, and they were looking forward to spending their money on vacations.

[@Rebecca-hc5ju]

​@@edenstanding8676I'm so sorry. They're pathetic.

[@l0sts0ul89]

​@@edenstanding8676 was he a bad figure?

[@debi909]

Me to... The unwanted part. Prayers 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@DigitalNeb]

I have a hard time feeling sorry for this guy. Seems to me like he was clearly guilty of grooming this girl.

[@Dj.MODÆO]

We don’t know that. I’m a little familiar with this case and She lied about everything else and He had a gf that lived there often and said she was like an adopted daughter that was milking him for money

[@DigitalNeb]

@@Dj.MODÆO I dunno man, seems super sus to me.

[@madeleineprice3556]

@@DigitalNebmany people also believe he groomed her

[@psingerman4778]

He paid a lot of money for plastic surgery just because of his warm fatherly feelings? I don't think so.

[@CrackpotPatriot]

Had to look way to far for this comment; I really think Grande missed the mark on this one.

[@lmc6425]

I wish I knew why her parents allowed her to live with him; why she found it unbearable to live with them.

[@goldshieldinthedark]

Some parents jump on the opportunity to allow someone else to care for their violent/volatile children because they are just not able to correct them. One woman I knew told me many years ago that she allowed her troubled 16 yr old daughter to marry and leave the home because she just could not handle her anymore. I believed her. This 16 yr old girl was the type to get what she wanted and if you stood in her way then watch out! There was hell to pay!

[@Boujiefoodie901]

Yea I agree maybe they also found it unbearable to live with her

[@lacienagalacey9454]

They were awful parents. Period.

[@spivackl]

When your victim has been rendered unconscious by the drugs you gave him and his hands and feet are ziptied, "self defense" is pretty much off the table.

[@viewandchew]

Facts

[@HeatherHolt]

This is why I don’t believe the whole gypsy rose thing was self defense. It’s like… ok but you could have left the house, you could have showed people you could walk, you could have done all the things you did after the mom was offed - not that I have any sympathy for her mother bc I do not at all, just don’t buy the whole “she isn’t culpable in her mom’s death” angle. She was and she did her time as she should have in my opinion.

[@sarahjaye4117]

@@HeatherHoltShe did run away though and her mom found her and tied her to the bed and was abusive and only fed her a couple times in 2 weeks and said if she did it again she would just tell the cops she was crazy and lock her away.

[@cindys9858]

So she says, but changes her stories often enough. Have you read the texts between her and Nick, or watch her lie over and over again in the police interrogation? Not one of the silly movies biased or documentary based on her word, but actual evidence? Gypsy lies more than she speaks truth.@@sarahjaye4117

[@nunyabiznes33]

​@@sarahjaye4117yeah Mommy Fearest had it coming

[@katarina1852]

After hearing about this 17-year old’s alcohol and substance abuse while living with this “father figure”, my first thought was ‘talk about contributing to the delinquency of a minor’. But it got worse, Hal was grooming her. But probably not to kill bunny rabbits or commit homicide. I feel more sorry for the rabbit than I do for Hal. He was a pervert. Sarah was a manipulative opportunist.

[@MagicMarty90]

As a bunny owner, nothing makes my blood boil more than abuse towards such gentle creatures.

[@rl1314]

Exactly. The poor bunny and just a world of weird.

[@allineedis1mike81]

People eat rabbits. I am actually an animal lover and would never intentionally hurt an animal unless it was trying to kill me. But the bunny thing is still a margin call. Teenagers do not think like adults and they express extreme stress in all kinds of messed up ways. This guy was a predator. Our justice system is so screwed up she may not have had the choice to just tell the whole story honestly without suffering undeserved consequences for it. She was using substances she couldn't buy herself. She was obviously having all kinds of screwed up thoughts. That's all kind of standard for young victims of sexual abuse. The guy had it coming. She should get some punishment but not life. Our whole system is built for revenge, not justice. Justice would be showing people the error of their ways and trying to help them to be better. Most of them never had anyone to do that. That's usually why they are in prison in the first place. Everyone can't be saved, some people are just evil. But sending them to how to be a monster school doesn't seem like the best idea to me. Especially since most of them will get out one day. I don't care about revenge. I'd just like less violent crime. Had he survived he wouldn't have been charged with anything even after everything came out. Technically legal doesn't mean ethical. I hate these kinds of stories. I feel bad for the bunny but I feel bad for her too.

[@nataliep501]

100% bunny is the only innocent party

[@rocknrolljesus3197]

Her crime was well proven.....why was his supposed "crime" merely an afterthought on her part?

[@zenawarrior7442]

Always skeptical of the multiple personalities. Great analysis of another person acting horribly. That age gap is beyond gross & disturbing. Thanks Dr G😊💖💖

[@basicallyno1722]

You should look up the story of Jeni Haynes, an Austrialian woman who was diagnosed with DID after horrific abuse from her father. She actually got justice YEARS later as an adult with the help of a detective who abused her. She was able to get a lot of evidence, many of it medical. Crazy story. She described her "alters" helping out with all the info they contained for her.

[@brittanywilcox7377]

I appreciate you finally making a video where you do not go hard against the existence of DID.. I do wish you would update yourself on the current research and information surrounding the diagnosis. While there is no such thing as a murder alter, and many attention-seeking tiktokers fake it for clout, it is truly a very devastating diagnosis with an incredibly sad criteria. Before we go around taking a big s*** all over people with this disorder we need to remember that it is caused by unrelenting and horrendous childhood abuse. I beseech everyone here to please consider whether they want to be the kind of person who continues to silence our most vulnerable demographic or if they want to be the kind of person who says they believed them and supports them and wants them to heal. Children already have no voice and no choice when it comes to the horrors they face. To deny their lived experiences incredibly cruel

[@RootwitchQueen]

Wow...honestly, thank you for this 😢 It really used to grind my gears that people can deny the existence of something that I experience every single day and KNOW that it's real. It's caused me incredible grief and turmoil and while that turmoil and grief are no longer things that I experience since coming to form such a strong bond with everyone in the system, it's still not all rainbows and sunshine. I'm really thankful for your comment and I hope more people will take it to heart ❤

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[@Swansong321]

I felt sorry for her..until I heard about the rabbit 🐇... ALL of her personalities just sound like different aspects of her in different situations...none of them innocent!

[@HeatherHolt]

Same!

[@apeyoutube7485]

So much more to this She did that when she knew someone who knew the situation was going to be there visiting It was a cry for help but the person didn’t do anything to try to help her Everyone who knew the situation was expecting someone else to do it They assumed the right people must’ve known & an investigation done I don’t believe her lack in memory was DID It was definitely because he’d been drugging her

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Some people just aren’t grateful for butt implants. Sad.

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Don't be cheeky.

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Backside balloons 😂😂😂

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😂

[@Lucky_Chase]

I wanna "discover" a few new personalities after being denied a damned loan despite my great credit.

[@mish375]

Maybe one personality is a millionaire, then you'd have some hidden funds.

[@liliannaogrady1391]

All of my personalities are wealthy. I'm the only poor one. Go figure.

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[@makeshift_battlefield_music]

I want to claim a few of my personalities as dependents on my taxes this year.

[@inductionsymphonytrd]

Thank you for all your videos , they really shown me that continuing down a path of resentment may create me an episode "man walks into forest and was never to be seen again"

[@elainehiggins713]

The guy should get a refund for that rhinoplasty.

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LOL!!

[@lindamuncy6308]

😂

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Snert 😅

[@bullwinkle69]

That’s snot funny

[@nhmooytis7058]

@@bullwinkle69 kinda snooty attitude...

[@JT-lu8tm]

I mean this 100% serious. I want to hear Dr. Grande read a grocery list. Love his voice and style

[@justinphoenix21]

Hi, this is Dr. Grande. Today's question is, can I analyze this grocery list. Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing any food items in this video, only speculating about what could be happening in a grocery list like this. This grocery list was created on July 29, 2013. It was created on standard paper stock, suggesting a certain level of practicality and perhaps an adherence to traditional shopping methods. The list starts with "2 gallons of milk," which could indicate a high demand for calcium, possibly a large family, or perhaps an insatiable love for cereal. It's also possible the person making this list is preparing for a baking marathon or simply enjoys having an ample supply of milk on hand. Next, we have "1 dozen eggs," which is interesting. Eggs are versatile; they can be used in baking, breakfast dishes, or as a protein source. This choice might suggest someone who values nutritional balance or perhaps enjoys cooking. It could also imply a planning mindset, as eggs can be stored for a relatively long time compared to other perishables. Moving on, "3 loaves of bread" are listed. This is more than what a typical small family might consume within a fresh period, suggesting either a larger household, a preference for freezing bread to maintain freshness, or possibly an upcoming event that requires ample bread. It could also hint at a comfort with redundancy, ensuring that the household never runs out of this staple. The list includes "5 avocados." Given the popularity of avocados for their health benefits and versatility, this could suggest a health-conscious individual. However, avocados have a notoriously short window of ripeness, which might indicate a risk-taker, someone willing to gamble on the ripeness of avocados. Or, it could simply reflect a love for guacamole. Finally, "chocolate chip cookies" are scribbled at the bottom of the list, almost as an afterthought. This addition might reveal a hidden or repressed sweet tooth, suggesting that even the most health-conscious individuals have their indulgences. Alternatively, it could represent a reward system, a treat for completing the shopping task or for managing to stick to the list's healthier items up until the very end. In conclusion, this grocery list might suggest a household that values nutrition, has a practical approach to shopping, and enjoys the comforts of home cooking. However, the inclusion of chocolate chip cookies might subtly hint at the list creator's latent desire to deviate from the norm, indulging in behaviors society might deem less than savory-much like the psychopaths who, beneath a veneer of respectability, harbors a penchant for the forbidden.

[@immersion7110]

I don’t know if you wrote the text by yourself, but this is excellent. 😆

[@sharonhoyt2133]

Hal and Sarah both seem "creepy". Seems they were both abusive in different ways.

[@vixs_0475]

He literally provided her drugs and alcohol and then abused her sexually how are they both “creepy” calling it just sex is absolutely crazy

[@emilyvee4922]

The reason she may have only spoken out about mistreatment later would be if she had normalized mistreatment from her past. It’s possible that after talking to other inmates she discovered the abuse was not normal.

[@thebloodsaves1219]

The Rabbit thing Reminds me of the old mouvie Fatal attraction 1987 when she boils the Rabbit that He had bought for his daughter....

[@mikev4089]

After listening to this episode, I’m not sure what I think about this case. However, I should be able to formulate an opinion once all of my 5 personalities are also finished watching it. Then we can all make up our minds. We thank you Dr. Grande.

[@michelerobinson4815]

He was a pervert. He didn't do anything to her when she was 16? How gullible am I supposed to be?

[@socialcommentary1014]

Well, well, well…this is the epitome of bias. People like you are ruining the justice system. Stay off of juries!

[@kathyflorcruz552]

Maybe just maybe he waited until she was of age so as to not be guilty of assaulting a minor.

[@justinphoenix21]

Still grooming of a minor.@@kathyflorcruz552

[@dominigurl19]

I agree. Even on the off chance that he did wait, the intent was there and he was slowly grooming and gaining control of her life. He was clearly interested in young women and was s**ually motivated

[@LWT1331]

Irrelevant. She committed murder, whereas there was no evidence of abuse. Gullible indeed.

[@phoenixrises1311]

Guilty!! She didn't complain until she got sick of him

[@nataliep501]

He complained the whole time

[@justinstrong9595]

​@@nataliep501read the case.

[@jennitaylor4122]

He was a 40 year old pervert. Of course she was going to get sick of him. No teenager wants to sleep with that! She needed a place to live, and unfortunately for her he was her fate.

[@BlackJesus8463]

@@jennitaylor4122 no

[@maxshea1829]

She made up four personalities, but she could only think of three names? Anyway, creepy is a way overused description, but if the shirt fits. I don't believe for a minute "Hal" waited until Sarah was eighteen.

[@marshawerner7882]

I'm a longtime viewer and a Patreon member, and I have similar opinions in most analyses. However, I am also a treatment provider for those who have DID and find the spread of misinformation on this channel disturbing. Simply because people attempt to fake DID (as people do with many other mental and physical health conditions, particularly trying to get out of criminal responsibility) does not automatically mean they are not valid conditions. I'd be happy to consult if you want accurate information regarding DID rather than making conclusions and determinations based solely on cases where people are trying to get out of criminal responsibility. Dr. Werner

[@user-fk4we1vp7d]

Thank you so much for showing that I'm not the only person upset by that detail. I've also posted several comments on this thread in different places asserting the same essential statement: DID is certainly real.

[@BlackJesus8463]

You sure its not just bipolar disorder?

[@TheRogerhill1234]

This happened in my town. I ate at the guys restaurant. It's funny, when they found her in the stolen car, they asked her if the guy was molesting her. She got very irritated that they would even suggest something so bad about the guy. Defending him really. This is after she killed him. later, after she was sentenced to 50 years in jail, all of a sudden he WAS molesting her....

[@Stewart1499]

I live in Topeka too. Where do you live?

[@TheRogerhill1234]

Lawrence. it happened not far from a rental of mine !@@Stewart1499

[@Vividly-Vee]

Well he was 50 and grooming a teenager, at the time she could have been in denial about the SA

[@Scipio_Americanus]

Or she was just lying about the sexual assault🙄

[@Scipio_Americanus]

Sarah has supporters the same way that Chris Watts has supporters.

[@rosihantu1]

When a creep meets a sociopath

[@BlackJesus8463]

Murder is psychopathy.

[@melaniehafford4689]

Thank you Dr. Grande! Always a good evaluation.

[@lisaann915]

I'm sure she was being harmed by someone before she moved in with Mr. Creepy. Children dangerously act out when they are being harmed, not protected, and neglected. It started somewhere, you don't become insecure and destructive when you have a happy childhood. She was easily talked in to that guy's life and i highly doubt they waited until she was 18. Regardless, neither of them deserved their outcomes.

[@crazycatladyjo2688]

@mipmipmipmipmip That doesn't excuse what he did to you and others. I'm not trying to trash your family member but I'm sorry you went through that.

[@jimgutt749]

@@crazycatladyjo2688 mipmipmipmipmip never indicated the family member was a 'he' -- why the sexist assumption?

[@crazycatladyjo2688]

@@jimgutt749 My psychic abilities.

[@Kaiverze]

Still doesn't excuse the murdering of the rabbit and creepy old man. And of course, she knew damn well what she was doing and did.

[@hhp2932]

I don't feel sorry for her. She wasnt a child and she used him.

[@emmaponymous]

He paid $6000 for that nose? Broh was robbed before he was murdered.

[@thebloodsaves1219]

Injecting garbage in your Rear when its supost to be the other way around....

[@LukeSumIpsePatremTe]

Yeah, breast implants are better.

[@yurilytviak9066]

Injecting rear into garbage?

[@melaniesmith1313]

The whole thing is creepy.

[@somaraisan]

It's like the saddest thing ever

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Even down to her having supporters who changed why she's innocent midstream lol

[@nonprogrediestregredi1711]

Yeah, that's an understatement.

[@itchysheets1222]

The thumbnail wording made me audibly chuckle. If you only knew how long it has been, good sir.

[@noorgonzalez1076]

Isaiah

[@eddypaul8959]

This whole situation is disgusting.

[@annaess3844]

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[@mayadavison6966]

I grew up 35 miles away from where this crime happened. I grew up going to Cicis pizza as a treat. This crime shocked the Midwest, and the rest of the nation as well. Still something so severely off putting about Sarah.

[@mayadavison6966]

Might I note, I do not condone hals actions whatsoever.

[@mayadavison6966]

@mipmipmipmipmip Lots of people have been groomed and psychologically manipulated, as well as given drugs and lived with an older man, and don’t end up slashing them deeply in the throat and writing stuff on the wall with their blood. There are some serious precursors there.

[@jennitaylor4122]

When children have been abused and neglected all their lives they usually grow up to be a little off pudding

[@Flamsterette]

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[@birdworldist]

Pi day pizza deals for lunch, Reuben day deals for dinner 😋

[@Flamsterette]

@@birdworldist Sounds like a great food plan! :D

[@manewland1]

I think everyone in this story had a problem (aside from that poor rabbit). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.

[@tonitoniitoniii5624]

Backside balloons 😂😂

[@pacificblue5461]

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[@user-er3ri6sc3j]

Rear area expansion.

[@loislynncameron9608]

Aren't the alters supposed to be unaware of each other?

[@user-fk4we1vp7d]

In general. But some have co-consciousness with one another and in therapy they all gradually develop that as the boundaries break down between them. The host personality is often unaware of any of the others until this process of reclaiming traumatic memories begins. I do not believe that she suffered from DID, although I do think she was abused. It was still no excuse for murder.

[@brendanmch998]

Dr grande! Another banger!

[@michellem1542]

My town. Your synopsis and opinion are spot on.

[@Katz_Pajamas]

Looking at the most recent pics, it seems she lied about getting a nose job and just kept the money he'd given her for it. That nose stayed unemployed. No job!😂

[@lostandfound5145]

😂😂😂

[@AmonAnon-vw3hr]

Remember, everything you're hearing about the murder victim is from the mouth of the person that killed him.

[@francislarv3012]

They all invariably have “ Many Supporters “

[@bthomson]

Yes! Why is that? You can find a good biscuit in the garbage but that is not the place to look!

[@Scipio_Americanus]

Free Jodi Arias and Chris Watts

[@francislarv3012]

@@Scipio_Americanus and Reuben Carter. He sits like Buddha in a ten foot cell. An innocent man in a living hell…. and lest we forget : Free Bobby Seale and Leonard Pelletier… if they are still alive. If not, disregard all this.

[@sharonhoyt2133]

I think the supporters are creepy

[@axxa5000]

simps gonna simp

[@Joelswinger34]

It's interesting how many people suddenly have multiple personalities when they are caught committing a crime.

[@TruthBeTold0914]

"Backside balloons" 😂 also, i didnt see the results of a nose job. And yes, DID does exist and is the result of horrific traumas- usually childhood sexual traumas.

[@Yung_Fettuccine]

I knew this was gonna be messed up when I heard she moved in with some random pizza restaurant owner at 17 years old

[@BlackJesus8463]

Sixteen is old enough to get married and start a family.

[@Steph23377]

Physically, not emotionally or mentally. ​@@BlackJesus8463

[@AmandaLeigh1004]

She had me in the first half, not going to lie. Once she was telling the police she killed a rabbit and wanted to try human murder, I was like "and this is why it's never advisable to speak to police without an attorney present." Even if it's true, my god you don't SAY it!

[@kathyflorcruz552]

It's as if she was proud of it.

[@elvia3068]

For what it looks like she never got the surgery for her nose...Thanks for the case Dr. Grande ❤

[@Ken-fh4jc]

She was pretty she didn’t even need surgery.

[@elvia3068]

@@Ken-fh4jc I was only teasing 😜

[@lochnessmunster1189]

@@elvia3068 She probably pocketed the money and told him the surgery was done.

[@sadiestoltzfus9798]

I was thinking the same thing her nose looked the same in all the pictures.

[@cristinawilliams7870]

Good morning bless day Dr.Grande watching from the Philippines 🩷

[@williamfuller3877]

Dr. Grande, I love you and I have listened to you, every video, for years. How can you not see the grooming? He literally targeted her at her job and seen the vulnerability in her life. She moved in with him before she was 18! In my opinion 18 is far from a legal adult age(Should be 21). He changed her body to make her more appealing and downgraded her to his family/friends. In my opinion she was a victim as well.

[@BlackJesus8463]

You might be a sociopath.

[@winterclevenger7307]

I believe she had Dissociative Identity Disorder. And he was a creep trying to groom her after she already had trauma. He probably had it coming. The bunny did not however.

[@theecosmetaverse]

Why do you block my comment? That man was a piece of sh*t. And yes. Sarah most likely had DID after all the crap she went through.

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Hi Dr Grande

[@hotdogflavoureddrink]

Hi everybody!

[@psalmsreader7997]

Hal was definately creepy and likely did terrible things to that young girl however she could have reached out for help and left. She was definately very confused, troubled and isolated.

[@brook7333]

He was creepy, she was psychopath.

[@Hey_Driver]

The best headline on the internet.

[@MarleneTrujillo-uc8bj]

He may have taken advantage of her situation and age but he didn’t force her to live with him. She murdered him

[@apeyoutube7485]

TALK ABOUT LEAVING EVERYTHING OUT OF A STORY!! 😢😢 Poor Girl. You can’t be that lazy! Her sentence was already reduced because of everything you left out

[@apeyoutube7485]

During the first trial it was known that he had kept a log of everything he paid for well before she turned 18 He told her she couldn’t leave until she paid it back and had to have sex with him while she was there He told her if she left he would be able to find her and terrorized her This was a set up from the beginning and he was the one who made her have the surgeries, telling her she was ugly He had breast implants on the list next This was all proven and why her sentence was reduced It was her counsel that dropped the ball They chose to not use this at trial for some reason, thinking insanity was better than abuse legally She didn’t have DID That was the defense psychologists pushing it Her lapses in memory were from being drugged constantly It’s not hard to find this info I like the stories and the doctor’s chill voice but his humor is redundant and it’s annoying how many times I’ve watched this show and saw him haphazardly leave so much out that’s readily available and only requires reading more than just a single short article It’s not that hard to do basic research on a case

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I love this channel lol.

[@susie1370]

He's a creep! That's true! And she is a psychopath! And that's true too!

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Back side balloons took me😂and the inflatable price😂 Dr. GRANDE is a gift to society.

[@williammoore5081]

Why make a deal to let a psychopath out early?

[@oleopathic]

Dr Grande, please do a video about the murder of a Russian opposition leader Navalniy, who was murdered in prison this week. This is massive news as it comes during Russian elections and a successful Ukrainian destruction of a large Russian battleship. Might this have been a revenge-murder of a political opponent ? Certainly an expected tactic used by Putin, as described by Guriev in his book "Spin Dictators". PS: 1 year ago, you reviewed president Putin. Today, he caused Navalny's end. It would be poetic justice to discuss the life and mission and end of Navalny. PPS: He was buried this week. Thousands of supporters showed up to the funeral despite the government's fear apparatus.

[@jimcronin2043]

Although Hal was the victim, he was not an innocent victim. He put a mental and emotional stranglehold on Sarah from an early age with his overall support and financing of cosmetic surgeries. I believe that this situation contributed to depravity. She is surely guilty of a crime but a lower charge might have been appropriate.

[@m.f.richardson1602]

Always interesting ❤

[@carrington2949]

This is like a Disney remake of Dexter.

[@brook7333]

Bruh

[@jocelynastheart2732]

The two of them deserves each other! I am also so tired of ppl using mental illness for their actions! I was diagnosed with BPD years ago and I always told my psych! that I would NEVER used my bpd on any of my actions! I still have to make the right decisions every day!

[@spanian7521]

I almost choked when he said ''Father - Daughter relationship'' while using pretty much an Liv in Escort xD

[@andrewcarter7503]

A very well balanced review of the case. Neither victim nor murderer came out of this with glowing reputation. I'd say pretty much spot on with essentially a cash/place to live in exchange for sex relationship. Maybe there was also some emotional element to it too. Did he love her? Did she see him as a stable person looking after her - something she craved? Life is rarely simple but murder seems to require absolute and black and white judgment. Was he an evil manipulative man; was she an evil murderous monster? "Pick your side" the media seems to ask. Thanks for a more nuanced look at this. The best of your reviews that I've seen. There's an ongoing court case in the UK at the moment - Constance Marten and Mark Gordon - which I think deserves a deep dive by you once the court case is over. It's tragic and hard to understand.

[@Boogiebear-1965]

I just went to Wikipedia and read about that case. Strange and sad indeed.

[@sammas2959]

"I wish everyone could get rich and famous and everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that's not the answer.” J. Carey

[@groverhateselmo]

She scares TF out of me, and I don't believe in DID but let's face it - she couldn't have chosen a less sympathetic victim. That guy was absolute garbage.

[@user-fk4we1vp7d]

You don't believe in DID? It's a legitimate condition caused by severe repeated trauma - CPTSD - and Hollywood is much to blame for giving it an unreal aura. But it exists. If people say they don't believe in it, as if it's a religion or a political ideology, all I hear is that they refuse to believe anyone could really have to suffer that much trauma just to live long enough to become independent and escape abuse -- and that, almost always, peacefully; very rarely the way Sarah did it. And no, though it's clear she was traumatized, I don't believe she had DID. She is fully guilty.

[@justinstrong9595]

You cant "not believe" in DID. The evidence is clear as day lmao, it exists and is in the DSM.

[@evelynwaugh4053]

As gross as we may find an older, wealthier person having sex with a younger person, she could have moved out. No one is going to provide food and lodging and questionable medical services to someone out of the goodness of their heart. I think this was a transactional arrangement (distasteful as that may be) but at some point she wanted more stuff without the inconvenience of his presence.

[@MichelleyB-zk3eh]

You just described a groomer to a tee

[@evelynwaugh4053]

@MichelleyB-zk3eh Grooming is trumped by torturing animals and murder. Whatever her unfortunate experiences, they're shared by many who don't end up killing and hurting.

[@iamzmodel]

​@@MichelleyB-zk3ehlet's not give murders who tortured animals excuses now. He was nasty yes, but she was a psychopath. And that has nothing to do with grooming.

[@fashiontrends9456]

Can you talk about how Misogyny is a serious psychological sickness

[@tfkdandsvkc]

It's seems Misogyny causes narcissism and is in the dark triad spectrum

[@itchysheets1222]

Yes PLEASE

[@fashiontrends9456]

​@@tfkdandsvkctrue ,, Misogyny and narcissism is the same thing ,,both have characteristis of narcissistic abuse which has features of dominance and control

[@missandry2669]

Also talk about how violent the XY gender is and how many women they love killing at a high rate!

[@missandry2669]

It’s power and control males love trying to possess

[@TheRogerhill1234]

One other thing. They guy had a long time girlfriend that would come over and stay. She said she never suspected anything other than a father-daughter relationship... and don't think she didn't check.....

[@XYZ-kb3mm]

@@mayc8674 she’s not very pretty but men like this don’t really care, just want to sleep with someone young, a fetish

[@mariahspapaya]

Then why would he brag about having an 18 year old girlfriend, or buy her cosmetic surgery ….

[@lostandfound5145]

That long time girlfriend was in DENIAL if she wasn’t outright lying

[@lostandfound5145]

@@mayc8674there can’t be a stable, sane grown woman in the world that thinks it’s anything wholesome when a grown man moves a troubled teenage girl into his home. I refuse to believe it 😂

[@cindys9858]

Did he brag or Sarah say that? I mean, her nose does not look any better.@@mariahspapaya

[@myasmindandbodymeditation2694]

i understand killing hal, but WHHHHYYYYYY kill a rabbit. noooooo 😭😭😭😭😭!!!!!!!

[@SIGINT007]

I knew a girl like this in High School. Her personality could flip several times in a conversation if you talked about something that triggered her. She was seeing a shrink and had meds to keep it mostly under control. She had a bad childhood that caused a lot of the issues but had a thing older dudes (10+ years her senior). Also partially Hispanic.

[@jillruben8924]

I hate our Justice system. Life should be life.

[@BrettSerug-ff7do]

She could have simply walked away from him. She used him.

[@justinstrong9595]

They used each other, genius. He was a creep and she was a psychopath.

[@LenaL146]

I think 50 years was the right sentence. Can’t believe they made a new deal cos they couldn’t be bothered to trial an appeal. She is very dangerous

[@BlackJesus8463]

Forealz! They lock up victimless criminals all day every day but they cant afford this one more trial. smh

[@tommccormick9290]

From what I see as far as the criminal aspect, she %100 the guilty party. Cold blooded.

[@Lucy-ym8ch]

I have a friend with DID and it's an absolutely heartbreaking condition. Forcing her to change her external appearance would have been extremely triggering for her.

[@srilakshmibalakrishnan3583]

"no name felt like a nobody in the grand scheme of things"....😅 That's humour oozing through every possible cranny

[@marytalbott5738]

Well that $6,000 "nose job" was a total miss...it looks like hardly anything was done at all...anyway, poor guy thought he'd landed a trophy...insteady he landed a complete psychopath.

[@emmapeel8163]

he landed a child & raised her for his amusement.

[@earlofcumbrae-Ground_Zero]

Dr.Grande da 👑

[@coweatsman]

If you have a terrible personalities then one strategy to avoid responsibility for misdeeds is to invent more "personalities".

[@iamzmodel]

People are so distracted by the "grooming" part they are not recognizing shes a literal psycho path. And a psychopath is a psychopath groomed or not groomed. And as a psychopath she could have been taking advantage of him being a creep. Alot of people appearently dont understand how a psychopath operates. Think about how people are sympathizing with her. She knew what he was and possibly thought there was a chance she could get away with murdering him because people would take her side considering what a perv he was probably. If you are to preoccupied with labels and stances you could label something inappropriately and deal with the repercussions in your own life. She could have been the actual groomer. Lets focus on victims who dont kill innocent animals and murder men just because they wanted to know what it was like. Stop giving murders excuses. Plenty of people have been actually groomed and been through it without victimizing innocent animals and resorting to murder outside of self defense. Which she openly admits she murdered him and that animal just to see what its like. Just like a psychopath. Call a duck a duck.

[@MooseGuy1]

Since only one of her 4 personalities, Alyssa, killed the guy, Allysa needs to be locked up. On the bright side, the cell only has to be a quarter of the normal size.

[@miriamorwin7603]

She was offered a good deal = oh well she got the good deal in the end. Shocking. Dreadful BS. Great analysis Dr Grande.

[@sofiar3176]

Honestly I don’t even remember what I used to watch on KZbin before I found Dr grande Lmao

[@BlackJesus8463]

Thats how they getcha!

[@carfo]

state: take the offer for life with parole at 25 yrs her: no i'm gonna take my chances in court her: **loses in court, now has 50 years of parole** state: ok no problem we'll just give you 25 what incentive is there to take a plea

[@charjl96]

Why condemn individuals for being manipulative while ignoring how manipulative our society is? What's with buzzwords and slogans, people in the media making appeals to emotion, the voiceover in commercials trying to relate with us? We're steeped in manipulation and it's disgusting.

[@jamesparker4471]

She sure filled the doctor's bingo crazy card . .

[@eeyoresgirl55]

Things got awkward between them

[@caro.caro.9578]

..."backside balloons" 😂😂😂 .Dr Grande 💜💜💜👌🏽 Mm l