Woman Says Ex Mother-in-Law Threatened to STAB Her | Part 2

[@b2trav851]

The fact that the grandmother can’t stop referring to her granddaughter as her daughter shows that she is way too involved she literally thinks her granddaughter is her child smh

[@Deepthoughts4ever]

I caught that! I agree!

[@LunnaJannah]

Right I picked up on that too. She actually wants to keep the daughter off her actual mother thinking she has more rights and the fact she said that the poor girl said she stabbed her in the back. She actually said she threatened to not that she actually did. 🤦🏽‍♀️ she thought she was right then got lost within her lies. My mother god rest her soul would never get involved in the technical problems she was there to support everyone even more so the innocent children and always showed respect to her grand babies parents that weren’t her children. And she always used to say just because ur my child doesn’t mean I’d take ur side if ur wrong. Gee some parents ruin peace

[@ninabtha1]

I thought that's who she was referring too! SHE'S TOO INVOLVED LIKE JJ SAID!

[@sp00kyg1rl]

I literally came here to say this. And I’m glad someone already has cause Jesus is it scary..

[@Tiffany513]

Exactly!!! 💯

[@jojobee42]

When the grandmother said the child loves to talk to her because she can't talk to the mother, that was the perfect example of how the grandmother is a pot-stirrer.

[@pamelavida1577]

I agree....gma wants to be ma....center stage ..

[@payableondeath9091]

​@@pamelavida1577 if she was a good person she would say that is none of my business sorry

[@smiley27b]

Right, trying to drive a wedge 😒

[@blujaebird]

​@@payableondeath9091 the child should be allowed to share things with her grandma. HOWEVER, it is irresponsible to use that against the mother or even bring it up.

[@joecrawford172]

Translated: I agree with and condone everything the child says and does.

[@cierakitty]

The grandmother was a fruitcake. The man said the ex was a good mother, and the ex said he was a good father. The more the grandmother talked...the more the man understood what the real problem was. (and so did the audience behind her)

[@Chewbroccolii]

You just see it all clicking in his head it was glorious to see haha.

[@jemma-joon]

I hope that happened, I wonder where they are now

[@pennypillow4445]

she wants her son and his ex to hate each other, she'll fight for custody of the granddaughter and completely alienate the granddaughter from her own mum. his mum wants her son and her granddaughter to be a family, she doesnt want her son's ex to be part of their life

[@QueenGail]

@@pennypillow4445 yes. Notice how grandmother kept referring to the granddaughter as my daughter 😆

[@michelehemlokhexwhite4310]

After they each said the other was a good parent, the grandmother then says right at the end that they don't get along, and stirred that pot despite their being no evidence the two parents were anything other than completely amicable. JJ was sure right about the pot stirring!

[@MuahahazZ]

Mother: "Im out 2500 in lawyer fees." JJ: "GOOD! ABSOLUTELY PERFECT!" Bruh 🤣

[@diegov2point0]

It’s the Pot-Stirrer fee! She wouldn’t have lost so much money if only she minded her business.

[@harleyb7880]

Savage 😂

[@X.Sheislia]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@tam9856]

A wise person once said “Ladies, your son is NOT YOUR MAN.” Too many mothers, like this woman, are so attached to their sons and act so possessive of them like the sons are their boyfriends. They see any other woman as a threat to them.

[@jessicaconner1242]

I want to like you comment but at the time it is 68… soooo here’s my comment love it

[@tam9856]

@@jessicaconner1242 lol

[@hayleewyant4598]

Tell me about.. I've had nothing but hell with my boyfriend's mom.

[@AnarchistPoop]

It's an upsetting statement....but it applies to many instances. It's a syndrom though, not the norm.

[@tam9856]

@@AnarchistPoop I didn’t say it was the norm. I simply acknowledged that many mothers, not all, are like this.

[@grammasscotsgirl]

She kept saying "She talks to me but she doesn't talk to her own mother" really made me wonder "And what LIES are YOU telling her that makes that happen?"

[@quanausher6924]

Exactly

[@binzypoo]

she's probably trying to alienate her from her mum. dangerous pot stirrer.

[@lilliankivutse9182]

I wonder what a 8yrs old little girl and her grandmother will be talking about????????????? Just curious 🤔 👀 😏 😅

[@xoangelicaf0523]

And she’s 8 wth she have to talk abt that’s so personal lol

[@xoangelicaf0523]

@@lilliankivutse9182 right like wth lol

[@ninosimone]

When judge Judy said “ TAKE YOUR MOTHER HOME “‼️😂😂😂😂

[@kiis0]

💀

[@haleymkoon]

💀 IN THE BIN

[@LittleCraftyKitty]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ninabtha1]

I screamed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kekejefferson9219]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@BeaHive333]

Her saying that her granddaughter prefers to talk to her more than her own mother is POT STIRRING!!!!!!!!! She's stirring the pot right there!!!

[@dynamopirate470]

His mom is so possessive. Calling her granddaughter her daughter caught me off guard.

[@sunnysun3740]

Yup, my blood got to the boiling point in a second

[@rennyd7574]

Not gonna lie my aunt did that with me. I found out that on my first birthday I got no photos with my mom unless it was a group photo :( however there were a whole bunch of photos of baby me and my aunt. My mom is a quiet woman so she really didn’t want to say anything but we talked about it when I was a teen and she told me she always regretted not saying anything. Plus my aunt wouldn’t let anyone else hold me and now I am sad because I would’ve loved to have photos of me and my mom on my first birthday

[@Bih1stOfAll]

@@rennyd7574 That's sad Af. I'm assuming Auntie is the older sister

[@rennyd7574]

@@Bih1stOfAll Yep she is my dad’s older sister :/ and he didn’t say anything about it. My mom attempted to bring it up to him but he went on about how I am the only niece/granddaughter of the family and they need to learn to share 🙄

[@michelehemlokhexwhite4310]

@@rennyd7574 oh I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you can have some fun with your mom recreating those first birthday pics now in some creative way! All the best to you.

[@welllivedlife-desireeg2804]

I found it interesting that the two parents were so calm and spoke favorably about each other while grandma is completely loosing it...lol. JJ saw right through her in a few minutes flat.

[@stormygayle4284]

Literalllly, they were both so calm and collected. I have an odd feeling that grandma is part of the reason the mother and father are separated.

[@the_red_bones]

i loved that part, they were very kind to each other in that moment, and when she was asked if he loved his daughter and she said "very much so" i felt that. it's such a shame that poor child has to have a grandmother who acts like this, doing so much damage.

[@welllivedlife-desireeg2804]

@@the_red_bones I agree 100%!

[@djfhfh]

It's pathetic her son's there in her favour

[@cinnechey6772]

“i’m not a pot stirrer” *is literally on judge judy suing her grandchildrens mother*

[@dynamopirate470]

She was even calling her granddaughter "my daughter."

[@liliwonka1637]

@@dynamopirate470 That was a HUGE red flag.

[@branz2002]

Also didn’t wanna follow the rules to the restraining order lol. Definitely a pot stirrer. Loved how judge Judy called her out on it each time😂

[@jamhamtime1878]

@@liliwonka1637 4:38 is worse "They actually don't get along" What a pot stirrer

[@weepingwabbitt]

A stirrer.She needs to smoke it not stir it😜😵‍💫😳🤣😂

[@kittylynne607]

"I'm not a pot stirrer." *continues to explain how she shows up to various places knowing she's going to be escorted out because of a restraining order*

[@annhenry3135]

So his grandparents died so he had to take his parents in and he is a disabled vet? This woman is worse than a pot stirrer. Why can’t she manage her own life?

[@dawnramos7729]

That's my question too. Seems like she is a control freak

[@ellymay1455]

She was sponging from her parents and now she’s doing the same thing with her son. Such a useless woman

[@CrustyUgg]

Hey life does happen. The dad had a stroke and he wants to help his parents. I see nothing wrong with that. But it shouldn't be forever.

[@ElanaVital83]

@@CrustyUgg She wants it forever.

[@Yvonne_ozlife]

@@CrustyUgg didn't his parents have their own home? Why does he have to support them because his grandparents died, were they their meal ticket?

[@ritamariealan93]

He gets it. You can tell he doesn't want to further embarrass his mother but he understands it

[@kellharris2491]

Normally in situation like this I have a lot of contempt for the man, but he took them in after they where going through hardship. He thought he was doing the 'right thing' as a son and look at how his Mom repays him by ruining his relationship and messing with his daughter.

[@joline2730]

Rita: I only hope he takes the advice and action required

[@justbenice7448]

He's a coward and needs to grow up and grow a pair.

[@nancybez]

Really telling that she keeps calling her granddaughter “my daughter”! So creepy!

[@juneahernauthor]

very - caught that too

[@dellahicks7231]

The woman has serious issues blurring the lines!

[@diamcole]

I picked up on that too. She’s disrespectful and the son needs to set some clear boundaries.

[@LaniAye]

Yup caught that too

[@welllivedlife-desireeg2804]

She's delusional. The parents were the calm, sane ones in this case.

[@animaanimus8011]

She “knew it was going to happen” if she showed up at the police station and she STILL SHOWED UP. She referred to her granddaughter TWICE as her “daughter.” That is disgusting and widely dysfunctional. It is even worse when she asserted that the granddaughter “talks to her and not her mother.” She is manipulating that poor child and that man needs to protect his daughter.

[@roxroxroxgrace]

THREE times! 😳

[@texasmadehoney1523]

The "knew it was going to happen" and showed up anyway, is proof she does stuff to start problems.

[@billybbadmollyholly7927]

If she not a "pot stirrer" than why is she the only one talking or having problems?

[@サディスティック人]

Probably divorced bcs of her

[@dynamopirate470]

@@サディスティック人 That's what I was thinking.

[@anasbaban]

@@サディスティック人 I want him to leave that pot stirrer mother and re-marry that beautiful humble wife. Surely, both of them make a good parents without that very possesive mother.

[@サディスティック人]

@@anasbaban *posessed

[@MJsLiberianGyrl]

Right. Very true.

[@iambreaajade_tv8056]

Every time she says “Pot Stirrer” and swings that arm I scream🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@noctrenn5636]

''Take your mother home'' lmao best line from JJ!!

[@RXbee2]

I'd have a really hard time taking that mother "home." She was outrageous.

[@ek2137]

That WAS kinda cold🤣😂🤣😂♥️.

[@sushles]

I acutally went slack jaw when she said that lmao

[@lindajoe9862]

🤣😂🤣😂😂

[@winterblossom4446]

Big girl pantries sealed the deal for me. Before that I was still on the fence /feeling a shred of pity for this deranged Grandma.

[@Shannymarie]

I give credit to the ex-wife for getting the over involved "pot stirrer" out of her life legally! It must take a lot of restraint to not hit that woman!

[@mangafq8]

Oh boy. The guy couldn't even look up at the end as his mother kept going off the rails. I have a feeling this couple would not have divorced if it weren't for his whack mother.

[@comitlight4688]

Honestly in situations like these, something tells me that if the mother was getting this involved, she was probably the one who broke up the marriage too. And her son is most likely a pushover who likely took his mother side when things were going south. She was probably putting things in his head and he didn't realize how off kilter she was until Judge Judy called her out on her BS.

[@gordonworth5461]

Off the rails 😆

[@greent16]

So sad really

[@shioriryukaze]

@@gordonworth5461 ....on a crazy train 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shioriryukaze]

@Crimsonite20 wouldn't you be???

[@brt5273]

"Her daughter comes to me because she can talk to me and not talk to her mother...she feels comfortable talking to me, she talks to me, she doesn't talk to her mom" Probably because when the daughter wants to complain about rules, restrictions, getting in trouble for something or not getting what she wants from Mom, Grandma is there to validate her feelings and agree with her how unfair her mother is over every little thing. It's perfectly natural for a kid to gripe about their perceived miserable oppression under the rule of a parent but it's sick for a person like this grandmother to play upon it. If the child wants to talk about something she claims she cannot talk about with her mom, a responsible grandmother would advise on ways for her to talk to her parents, rather than bragging in court about being the valued confidant.

[@dawnw4911]

💯

[@Meela234]

Amen!

[@theworldaccordingtoallie1176]

Very well said.

[@jerekmunoz7582]

"Take your Mother home." Savage! 🤣

[@Jgarcia68]

THE SHADE !!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@melissadurante1450]

JJ was raised out in Brookleeennnn!!

[@robonaught]

You're Honour I'm out $2500, Good!! Absolutely perfect 😂😂😂

[@thangvuong9196]

The ex mother in law is definitely the problem, she freely admits to trying to alienate the mother from her daughter.

[@ComaLies225]

I wouldn’t be surprised if she was also an issue in their marriage

[@payableondeath9091]

@Thang Vuong 🎯

[@yuzon0224]

This mother in law reminds me of both my previous moms of my 2 relationship they are controlling n possessive of their sons n discriminating me

[@the_redhead32]

The "take your mother home" was golden at the end. Love Judge Judy.

[@kiis0]

“She’s too involved in your business” “Yes, ma’am” - such a polite humble guy. JJ was nice to both of them, they both seem like good parents 👌🏼

[@keerthishree7824]

I don't know about humility. But he is letting her do such things... he knows and he has left his wife who is nice and daughter for this woman. He has spoiled his own life 🙄

[@itsnadaaaa]

she realized very quickly that he wasn't the problem

[@queezle4277]

The military learned that in to him 😂

[@kathleen9769]

I think that the mil had a lot to do with the breakup of that marriage.

[@brookeburkettofficial]

Judge Judy calling out the grandmother as the problematic pot stirrer was on point!!

[@aydinseyedi825]

“I’m not a pot stirrer” Literally proceeds to stir the pot as she finishes the sentence

[@jean6453]

She is literally trying to sue suing her granddaughter's mother

[@Kimillions]

That, "Take your mother home!" was golden. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😆

[@modeljaisimone]

This is so sad. Mothers like this ruin their children’s lives.

[@ElizaDolittle]

and their grandchildren's lives too

[@queezle4277]

I would not be surprised if this mother in law was majorly responsible for these 2 lovely people breaking up

[@NevaG2190]

I love what JJ told him and his mother! Too many grandmothers can't respect their kids' boundaries once they're adults. It's not your daughter; sit yo grand behind down and assist when they need it, but don't try to parent your grandchildren.

[@aimeeduhon3303]

Her son looks so embarrassed. I know he loves his mom so it may take time for him to cut her off but it'll eventually get there. Good for the exes to keep being friendly to each other despite the foolishness of the grandmother.

[@kiis0]

Definitely agree. Everything exactly as I was thinking! We think alike 😊

[@esosaimasuen8122]

He doesn't have to cut her off; she's his mother. But he does have to set some firm boundaries

[@jakeyjokes]

Yes; she has probably dominated his entire life and it takes a long time to “unlearn” that

[@albertbresca8904]

that is one reason I will never tell my mother that i have a child as i donated sperm .. I cannot be involved with this child as I have no involvement and i don't want to disrupt that family.. but if I told my mother she would want to see her grandchild and make all kinds of trouble ....sadly.....

[@shatteredscry]

​@@esosaimasuen8122Imagine attempting to set boundaries with this woman. Judge Judy couldn't even get her to pipe down. I think some Parental relationships are feasible, but if this man cut this nut off I wouldn't blame him. 5 minutes of watching her wore me out!

[@ericchang3820]

Notice how the grandma is the only one yelling and angry 😂 Yeah she is the problem!

[@comitlight4688]

You can see the the switches flipping in the son's head, now realizing who the problem was. The exhaustion in his eyes are unreal.

[@kaseyd264]

"I'm not a pot-stirrer!!" *pot-stirring intensifies*

[@dynamopirate470]

Like a witch with a cauldron.

[@dolam]

The litigants mom is causing a division between her granddaughter and her daughter in law. She told JJ that her granddaughter can't talk to her mom but can talk to her. She is creating a wedge and is going to try and make it even bigger. Shame on her.

[@Mrs.Suchnso]

JJ screaming “GOOD! Absolutely, absolutely perfect!” Aaaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahahaaha! 😂

[@kiis0]

I couldn’t control my laughter 🤣 also because you can’t see her, camera wasn’t facing her when she screamed “good!” So it was even funnier + unexpected 🤣

[@Mrs.Suchnso]

@@kiis0 every time I get a notification about this post and remember this clip I LOL 😂 That “GOOD” came from a deep place. 💀

[@kiis0]

@@Mrs.Suchnso I CANT LMFAO 🤣 💀

[@kiis0]

Can I like this comment more than once lmao 🤣

[@kiis0]

GOOD!!! 🗣 💀

[@skylertessmer1578]

The lady behind the grandmother to the left is having the time of her life back there.

[@vivianspinarski4846]

I live with my son , my ex husband won't come visit my grandson if I'm here . You know what I do ? I leave so my son and my grandson can have time with their dad and grandfather . Be the adult

[@GoldenHedgy]

"Grandparents, in this country, do not have rights to see their grandchildren." I AGREE. I'm always dealing with issues with the in-laws and they always believe they have rights to be with my children.

[@Grace-hp3wj]

There are grandparent rights look it up

[@Grace-hp3wj]

I’m not even a grandparent and know there are grandparent rights

[@sleepyidiot2010]

@@Grace-hp3wj incorrect. The grandparents does not get rights to the child the parent is declared unfit, a messy divorce, or the death of an adult child, then a grandparent may decide to petition for visitation or even custody. But that’s only if the parents are unfit and only very specific circumstances.

[@readinghomemaker2486]

@@Grace-hp3wj I mean, an actual judge just said that there aren't. judge Milian on the People's Court says the same thing. Look it up? en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grandparent_visitation Some states give grandparents the right to TRY to get visitation. On a federal level, there are no grandparents rights, and whether or not grandparents are granted visitation at the state level will depend on the best interests of the child, so very subjective and would probably be very difficult to obtain visitation rights.

[@jenem9618]

@@Grace-hp3wj Grandparent rights only really come into play in certain states. Even in the states that are the friendliest to grandparents, they only get rights if they can prove in court that the child was dependent on them for a significant amount of time.

[@truthhurts7045]

He needs to give his mother the boot. She is doing the most. I hope that she leaves so the child does not have to deal with this foolery. JJ was spot on

[@tinydancer7426]

Yeah, boot the old bat out but let his dad stay. If his mother was his father's care provider, with his mother gone, his father could probably qualify for some sort of disability that would help cover the cost of home based companion care while he is at school, shopping for groceries, picking his daughter up from school, etc.

[@femaledude2735]

This is why some marriages dont work out. The mother in law is just too much

[@carlakenyon6073]

Yup!

[@TheAfgchick]

I can’t imagine having this kind of mother in law … dear god save us from women like her

[@superstaff]

Try having a mother and mother in law like the plaintiff. I really hit the lottery in life...

[@jdspreest]

@@superstaff tell both to go to hell. Don’t be afraid to do it. Don’t even give it a second thought. It doesn’t sting as you’d think. It’s all actually be a relief. They’re not gonna die if you put your foot down. They don’t like it? Tough, then they’re out. See ya! They either do what you say, or they’re out. You’re the parent, not them. They can go pound sand.

[@gavin3598]

That woman is nuts. Did yall see how she'd close her eyes while rambling all that nonsense? Just crazy. She lives in her own psychotic head, and I would NOT want my kid around her.

[@macianodog1329]

this my ex mom in-law to the t .before i even heard judge Judy's option i knew that character like the back of my hand

[@superstaff]

@@jdspreest I'm not a parent. I basically already told them to 'go to hell'. I barely speak to my mom, and haven't seen my MIL in years. However, my spouse still visits his mom/family, and it creates drama because she tries to hog him to herself whenever he's over there. My mom also likes to stir up drama, directly and indirectly. People like this always find a way to slither into your life even when you go 'No Contact' on them.

[@LV2UXO77]

At 2:48, the plaintiff said to Judge Judy, "I showed up at the police station to support my son," and knowing there's a protective order against her by his ex-wife, this proves what Judge Judy said is correct, she's the one who is the trouble between the ex-wife and her son. Momma's boy.

[@pm_7747]

Even the lady’s hair looks crazy

[@annhenry3135]

She definitely needs to have a consult about her foundation garments.

[@peacheskong2245]

That's what I was saying😂😂 Crazy hair, crazy lady

[@ihateutube1143]

I'm thinking she's into astrology and card reading

[@TheSierraMoore]

😅😅😅

[@shatteredscry]

​@@ihateutube1143tarot readers are way hotter than her. She's spirit Halloween gypsy, maybe....

[@jadep7370]

00:44 I love the lady in the back nodding her head in agreement

[@harouttatarian1175]

MY FAV COMMENT 😂😂

[@benjie128]

Plantiff slipped. Referred to granddaughter as just "daughter"

[@canasta59]

And over and over and over.

[@stevenceja4706]

That and she fully admitted she violated the protective order knowing it would cause problems.

[@roxroxroxgrace]

THREE times!

[@tneal4135]

It’s the “take your mother home” for me. 😂😂

[@Moe4now]

JJ should've said, "Put your mother in a home" 😂

[@CanadianMonarchist]

I would feel sorry for the nursing home.

[@quintinrice2733]

"She Drives Me Into Her Business!" That's when I was done with this Lady. If she'll interrupt Judge Judy on national television, can you imagine what she's like at home. He's so polite and calm. It's hard to believe he was raised by her.

[@thomasmagnum3588]

Probably learned behavior, the only way to deal with that psycho…..keep your mouth shut!

[@SoulDelSol]

​@@thomasmagnum3588exactly. He had learned to be meek and quiet bc otherwise his mom would go berserk and gaslight him. He learned to never be assertive to her or he would truly get it (as seen here with the judge, his mom denies and blames and reverses victim and offender roles)

[@klebeau4]

Its amazing how jj calls somebody out about who they are and as the case goes on they show it.. that flip out at the end was the real grandma

[@amberbiggs]

It's sad the man enables his mother's behaviour. He should not have her living with him due to her attempts to alienate his child from her own mother.

[@ms.imakeitmybusiness]

Why does she keep calling her granddaughter, "daughter"?? Very telling 👀 Confused tf outta me lol

[@comitlight4688]

She's the type of mother-in-law that wants to be in control of the situation, especially aspects of her son's life. Most likely she had a hand in them breaking up too simply because she didn't like the mother. She's off her rocker, and you can tell that the son now sees it too after judge Judy called her out on being a pot stirrer.

[@cje3247]

That grandmother has no boundaries. Her son needs to stand up to her & send her to counseling. That g-ma is in competition w/ the mother.

[@ransom182]

His parents were mooching off his grandparents and now they are mooching off him! Pathetic parents.

[@oumryeternity7871]

They should file for a ten years restraining order against her. She's crazy and too much involved and maybe the reason they even got divorced in the first place.

[@gavin3598]

This woman is nuts. I wouldn't want her around my kid either. She thinks that's her daughter cause she slipped up and said "my daughter."Get a life lady.

[@whisperflame427]

They need to get that mother out of the water and the parents could actually raise their kids

[@P.Leonardo]

Judge Judy was so on point in this case. What's there to be continuously disputed by the grandmother? The more she opens her mouth, the brighter the realization about who's the real trouble in the ex's and child's life.. we're not all judges but audiences can clearly rationalize the situation. I understand the sentiment of the grandmother to also be a part of her grand daughter's life but instead of suing her ex-daughter in law, why not try to be in touch and talk about the problem, it seems like the ex daughter in law and the ex husband are both reasonable people to begin with having the fact that issues in regards with the wellfare of their child had been settled just between the both of them without involving the court room. If people can just admit to their mistakes, say sorry for the sake of family and love.. many families could be in a more harmonious relationship and environment. Especially when we get older, the more realization hits us on how important the value of family and love ones are in our lives.

[@cartooony]

Judy was right. You can tell when the grandmother misspoke and said "my daughter".

[@ronsbrat525]

She kept saying she wasn't a pot stirrer. But the more she argued with JJ about it the more she was providing JJ right. You don't have to see or be around someone to stir the pot. I know from experience with my 1st ex my daughter and his mother. She was the one who made all the decisions in the house. She was the one that actually raised her ever though we had joint custody. She's the one that moved them around the US to try and keep her away from me. Against court order. She got Alzheimer's about 10 years ago. 5 years ago she passed away. Took until 1½ years ago for his brainwashing to go away and accept me as her mother. We are now friends. Wheres before I couldn't even step in their driveway. Growing up she wasn't allowed any contact with me in their eyes even though it was court order. I have been to his house 5 times and fixing to go see Gabriel Iglesias together with his wife and our daughter on Feb 19th 2022. He found out I'm not the bad horrid person his mother made him believe. She even brainwashed my daughter into thinking I killed her 19 month old brother when she was 10. So for 34 years she believed it. Even though we have always been close. Last week she and I got into a huge fight (I live with her do to being disabled). And the accusations started flying. I tried to defend myself but she wouldn't listen. Later that night she called me from work and I was able to then tell her exactly happened that day he died. And the day in question about telling her I was responsible. After listening it finally clicked that her grandmother lied to her all her life. When she got home she was in tears and apologized to me for everything. Of course I accepted. She's my daughter and I love her with all of my heart. She is now 44 and we are closer than we were before the fight. Didn't think that was possible. Sorry this is so long. Sometimes I get to making a comment about something and then I remember something that happened close to me that was related and so I shared. Thank you for understanding.

[@tilabryant5591]

Who cares 🙄😒

[@ek2137]

I'm so happy you and your daughter fought for the love you have for one another♥️

[@queajy3952]

I hope that evil grandma never rests in her grave. I hate people who stir controversy between people especially families.

[@alexarias5717]

@@tilabryant5591 you cared enough to comment 🙄🙄

[@alexarias5717]

Family members that turn children against their own family and put toxicity in their heads are truly scum of the Earth. There's nothing more important than family and these people seek to tarnish it.

[@boworkshk1556]

so horrible to say her daughter talks to me rather than her mom. she's 8 ffs. she shouldnt be around her grand daughter. as a parent i wouldn't allow someone like that around my daughter.

[@badstate]

Judy, once again, read that old lady like a book.

[@sandyhartman2310]

The fact that this Grandmother kept trying to talk over Judge Judy, says it all!

[@justinstewart4889]

her: your honor, I'm out $2,500 in lawyer fees Judge Judy: *GOOD, GOOD-ABSOLUTELY PERFECT*

[@Lifeonrandom2]

Mom is someone who plays victim frequently and makes her son feel guilty/obligated to care for them. He needs to give them a a time frame to get out of his house and stand by it.

[@itdoesntmatterintheend7496]

Dude needs to throw his mother away!! 😡 she is ruining the love and peace that little girl could have! 🥺😩 makes me so mad! 🤬

[@TiffWaffles]

The amount of times the grandmother slipped up and referred to her granddaughter as her daughter is very telling. She wants bio mum out of the way so that she can play mum.

[@kiis0]

The way she gave that little smile before she annihilated this grandma lmao 🤣

[@priscillarobertson6574]

You go Judge!!! She's too involved in her son's business!!! 👌👌👏👏👏👏👏

[@ezlypist]

feel sorry for the son; but, he's gonna have to be firm w/mom...she'll always be in denial as those 'pot stirrers' usually are.

[@dawnw4911]

Sad to say it but he probably won't change either... He's gonna always be a weak little bih and even let his mommy mentally abuse his daughter. I Bet she's the reason for their Divorce!

[@josdamillio]

Grandmother: “I’m not a pot-stirrer but I went somewhere where I knew I wasn’t supposed to be because of the restraining order but I did it anyway”

[@cesaruy247]

It's sad, i feel like both of them (the parents) can still rekindle what feelings they have for each other but his mother keeps on getting in the way for that to happen. The kid could have been raised with a complete family, a mother and a father

[@ochrechap]

One line that sums up this case perfectly: "TAKE YOUR MOTHER HOME"! GoodBYE!!

[@Jgarcia68]

DAMN !!! JJ got fierce, she read the plaintiff to filth

[@christopherthorkon3997]

She insists she is not stirring the pot and tries to prove it by continuously stirring the pot right there in court.

[@jenn1916]

So, if you never threatened her, then why did you agree to a restraining order? Why was one granted, if it never happened? Whatever, Potstirrer. 🙄

[@uts4448]

Lol at the end at 4:38, the grandmother says "they actually don't get along" and her son mumbles "we all get along" lol. Judge Judy is right. She is the problem.

[@Meela234]

I didn't notice that until your comment. I played that part back and he sure did say that! I can tell his ex wife would be willing to give him a chance if it wasn't for his mother.

[@chatoyante2732]

I think he might repeat “we don’t get along” actually :/

[@harleyb7880]

​@@chatoyante2732 It's hard to tell

[@NayaCuisine]

We don't get along. And it all has to do with his mom, that's why they do not get along.

[@jamsaidemelo1367]

Me and my mil had a difficult relationship but she has never made it difficult when the kids were involved. Kids grow up amd realise who's responsible for their stress.

[@zeospark9715]

I feel bad for the dude he looks SO embarrassed by his out-of-control mother

[@cleogirl82]

Also its reasonable if the ex wife doesn't want to be around the grand mother because of the restraining order. Its like she wants to bait the ex-wife by making sure she is there wherever the ex wife is fully knowing she has a restraining order against her. It has nothing to do with the grand child. The grandmother sees her grand daughter on the regular if she lives with the dad. She is being a bit pushy by insisting to be in the same space with the ex wife on account of the grand daughter and you have other occasions to do that.

[@bec6384]

It's so sad. I think that marriage failed entirely or at least partially because of the son not being able to put a stop to his mom.

[@manouzz8088]

They were both, the actual parents and ex couple, not talking, and she, the grandparent running her mouth!

[@horsegirl07]

Living for JJ calling out this grandma 😂😂 she is WAY too involved… if I had a PO on me and it prevented my son from seeing his daughter if I was there I would figure out how to be gone, I wouldn’t intervene with his visits with his daughter. What a trip!

[@kiis0]

“GOOD!” 🤣 Then she kept talking and the son was grabbing his ear and turning away from her in shame 🤣 💀

[@adrianprime]

I keep screaming when JJ says "POT STIRRER" 😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@MrUppertorso]

"Take your mother home." Savage. I hope I have 10% of Judy's no nonsense class act.

[@Annmarierock-f7b]

I like how the mother eyes froze when JJ says to the son you’re gonna have a problem long as she lives with you 🤣🤣😂

[@Destinyirus278]

“She’s a pot stirrer” 1:48 im dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheAyurvedic]

The arm movement got me rolling.

[@msreen269]

I fell out when she said that with the gesture included 😂😂😂

[@55hivealive3]

0:11 Judge Judy's Cheshire cat smile tells me one thing, the plaintiff is plant food

[@TheSarah730]

JJ’s smile is epic at 0:11 😂

[@RoughJustice2k18]

The commentary after the case went like this: • Patricia: _"all I want to do is see my granddaughter perform at her school, perform at the church"_ • Jowenne: [about Patricia] _"she's way too much into our business"_ • Cory: _"I just want everybody to get along and my daughter loves her gamma"_ • Jowenne: [about her daughter] _"spend time with her as a grandmother and leave me out of it"_ • Patricia: [about Jowenne] _"I can put on my big girl panties and be an adult. I'm just hoping she can put on her big girl panties"_ • Jowenne: _"only one mother, that's me"_ Very true ... take your mother home!

[@vibesandstuff76]

This lady reminds me of some of the parents I work with. I'm an adolescent therapist and I"m constantly telling parents to step back and stop rescuing/making decisions/protecting their kids. That their job as a parent isn't to keep their kids happy, but to help them learn boundaries and how to make their own informed decisions. This lady's trouble and you can tell because she spends the entire time playing the victim with no accountability at all.

[@Skywalker29]

He needs to have a damn voice she didn’t need to show up to the police station the judge is right she’s overstepping and she’s insane I can see it

[@blujaebird]

I love coming back this case it's so funny to see someone embody the stereotype of a mother in law perfectly.

[@augustsmith9553]

This woman saw the hairbrush in the hair isle at her local store and said "naw"

[@MonicaRamirez-lb8mc]

🤣😂🤣😆👍🏽

[@briquellerich7840]

Emotional Incest is a THING! Please be aware of these situations and know limits. Set boundaries and stick to them, or steer clear all together. Become aware of the signs and what to do in these family settings, because it is a generational issue that needs to be talked about more.

[@LadieBjj]

Nothing worse than a man without a back bone against their intrusive mother! He’ll never be happy as long as she is all up his business!

[@kalishadee8925]

At the end when the plaintiff's son scratches his ear in embarrassment, plus the faces on the audience - cracked me up 😂😂

[@2002altima]

I love how honest and straight to the point judge Judy is... No cut cards, "Pot Stirrer"

[@alziedownes1955]

🤭

[@VJ4rawr2]

I literally spat my drink out at Judge Judy’s final words…. 😂