Women in the epiphany stage which normally happens around 28-32 are the ones that realize what a good man can be.
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@tarshagreene4661 Жыл бұрын
I am 47 years old widow. I agree with her 100% on the everything she said. My late husband wasn’t perfect but he was a good father and a good husband and a good provider.
@Mankind-ik4ie Жыл бұрын
These crazy h*es ain't gonna listen until it's too late 😂😂😂😂
@reneechristopher21215 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss.😢😢😮😮
@SinzuSage Жыл бұрын
A woman usually doesn’t mature until she isn’t as pretty as she used to be.
@sakibc1787 Жыл бұрын
Dam that makes perfect sense
@TheOneTrueNoName Жыл бұрын
Tbh I don't even want nobody to warn them because now they'll only act right still out of selfishness
@Cr1ngeK1ngs Жыл бұрын
If u solid and on ur purpose u will smell her inconsistencies
@ozmalee7114 Жыл бұрын
I was just talking to my mother and sister this same thing. I don't want anyone warning them. Or giving them heads up. I like it when they get blind sided and start crying wanting their "Jesus" to make a way out of no way.
@Butterfly22593 Жыл бұрын
@@ozmalee7114 So you want to see the women in your life miserable. Feel sorry for the woman desperate enough to date you
@ozmalee7114 Жыл бұрын
@@Butterfly22593 IF the women in my life is blinded by stupidity. Read my comment again. If that's what you got out of my comment then maybe you can help them out if you think they need help from being blinded by society nonsense. Your more than Welcome to do it. I rather YOU deal with headache and stress than me. Don't let me get in your way trust me. Lol.
@RoblEsquire Жыл бұрын
I felt this right here...
@Taran532 Жыл бұрын
I’m happy my husband comes home every night and enjoys his PlayStation time. Better than him being out in the streets!
@KennethLane90 Жыл бұрын
PlayStations keep us sane!
@Taran532 Жыл бұрын
@@KennethLane90 ugh me too! Husband just bought me the Nintendo Switch. It’s so fun 😆
@KennethLane90 Жыл бұрын
@@Taran532 Stay feminine, many blessings to you and yours!🙏🏾
@Mankind-ik4ie Жыл бұрын
FACTS! He's playing his Play Station and not playing with multiple women in the streets
@DWMusic435 Жыл бұрын
I’m 22, and I’m grateful for my boyfriend. He’s been there for me as I’m wrapping up college and we’re growing together. Why party, get drunk, and sleep around when you can build a life? I have a good and faithful man. I’d be an idiot to let that go smh.
@beverlywhite5438 Жыл бұрын
Your very wise. 😀
@baruch12dta-xt2gp Жыл бұрын
You better be real about this..
@DWMusic435 Жыл бұрын
@@baruch12dta-xt2gp I definitely am. He’s a very good man, and I want to add to him.
@fz1118 Жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best!
@DWMusic435 Жыл бұрын
@@fz1118 You too.
@M.J.TheGr8 Жыл бұрын
That’s not epiphany talking Phil. That’s the wall and a lifetime of regret for her dating choices.
@bri_b2505 Жыл бұрын
yeah, I can tell masculinity from her voice tone - you can tell she had some rough necks
@carlosserrano3985 Жыл бұрын
Agree, that's a 100% the Wall effect.
@sammiesmith6690 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@sammiesmith6690 Жыл бұрын
@@bri_b2505Oh yeah.
@coreysmalls4259 Жыл бұрын
That's what the wall is..the wake up call stage aka an epiphany
@dwood78part23 Жыл бұрын
The late KS warned females- esp BW that if keep taking good BM for granted- non-Black females esp Latinas & even Asian females will come & take em from them.
@enohp660 Жыл бұрын
I know a woman who’s going through an awful situation right now because of decisions she made. I’m 100% sure that if I would’ve warned her about this guy she got herself involved with, she wouldn’t have listened to me. People have to experience things for themselves before they get it because everyone thinks they’re special and that what happened to you won’t ever happen to them.
@whiteranger79 Жыл бұрын
Facts told a friend to stay protected while fwb. Sad thing she noticed that he kept getting tested. Of course her ticket came. Then mind adjusted that majority of people have/had that ticket! 🤦🏾♂️ if course still interested…… although supposed to be looking fir a husband
@eugenedantzler4485 Жыл бұрын
Oh this shall be good.... Many women will come after her over this one.... The strong and independent crowd will be front and center! They all will end up buying a dog or a cat........
@Malcolmmillsknows Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, women usually dont get the epiphany until they have hit the wall or have left or been left by a good man and get out here with the Dog Pound and get done real dirty.
@daneparker28 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯 👏👏👏👏👏👍
@blackhawk6615 Жыл бұрын
The dog 🐕 pound 😅😂
@mimi-rk2qu Жыл бұрын
If you’re single, you don’t have a man!!! 😳
@johnson2191cj Жыл бұрын
But you can still get sex whenever you want
@jasonterrell1979 Жыл бұрын
Word
@christopherbrubaker2070 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@petejones331 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that didn't make sense
@LordGXK Жыл бұрын
She definitely knows from experience.
@hareemobduljawon Жыл бұрын
I also work but when I do have free time I play video games too. It's a stress relief.
@AccentBwoy Жыл бұрын
Same
@mostunclean6619 Жыл бұрын
Beware any woman who complains about anything that brings you joy or relief.
@knephsabir3245 Жыл бұрын
Same sir
@taofeeksaka17 Жыл бұрын
You're not the only one.
@hareemobduljawon Жыл бұрын
@@mostunclean6619 they can kick rocks. I choose video games over women anyway.
@floydheavyweather3811 Жыл бұрын
Stay Focused on yourself KINGS
@joeyken7791 Жыл бұрын
Ding! Ding! Ding! It looks like we have a winner!
@DeSeannMaye Жыл бұрын
All the way. Dating is horrible lmao
@kingjamesmayo8232 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@kingjamesmayo8232 Жыл бұрын
@@DeSeannMaye Facts 💯
@dareo25 Жыл бұрын
...yes, stay on your grind ...take care of yourselves.
@Cr1ngeK1ngs Жыл бұрын
Been following and supporting Phil 4 years.. advice show days.. I don’t comment much.. this video solid.. more of our women need this epiphany
@dukeversewalker8962 Жыл бұрын
It's not that men don't want to keep a housewife, it's that they can't afford it. You may be able to but that doesn't mean that others don't.
@Demsky83 Жыл бұрын
Yeah this economy makes that notion nearly unobtainable except for a select few.
@Erv704 Жыл бұрын
Great advice from Phil “ladies when you get a good man cash out!!” 😂
@deentheking1057 Жыл бұрын
Nah but they want it all
@kenneycooper6199 Жыл бұрын
Grass might be greener on the other side, but it still has to be cut. 😉
@eugenedantzler4485 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!
@cocoblessings Жыл бұрын
True!
@lovelymusicnow4404 Жыл бұрын
Simp Chronicles
@tpatt513 Жыл бұрын
Video games in the household is very peaceful.
@edwardlandersonlll9096 Жыл бұрын
I think a lot of these women fuss and fight as a means of empowerment, in their mind!
@rangerwalker5369 Жыл бұрын
Lori Harvey is a great example of how black American women could have a man who they can be more and everything to, and still never be enough for them to sit down and be grateful to have.
@Rene-cn4jc Жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how people speak on these celebrities as though we really know more than what we see in the media.
@johnlawful2272 Жыл бұрын
@@Rene-cn4jc yeah lori is rich too if she wasn't then she would have stayed
@thegamingchef3304 Жыл бұрын
Black American women hate good black men. I know beautiful black women that have had babies with crackheads and turn around and treat good black men like garbage. In fact America hates good black men.
@dezcuts5319 Жыл бұрын
@@Rene-cn4jc that’s not the point. Whether true or not what she represents image wise is indicative of the majority of y’all. Don’t sit there acting like your brain is too slow to understand that. Y’all aren’t going to be able to gaslight your way out of this.
@cinnamon3220 Жыл бұрын
Everybody attacks Lori Harvey. But nobody attacks Nick Cannon. Smh!
@framework333 Жыл бұрын
We must stay focus brothers, we MUST stay focused lol
@lisa196409 Жыл бұрын
Same here for the sisters You must stay focused you are what you attract
@jordanglasper1064 Жыл бұрын
Lol that was funny, I got that lol
@MontUHURU_Mimia777 Жыл бұрын
*👉🏿SYSBM👈🏿*
@SVGIN Жыл бұрын
All they want is jail birds
@robertmonroejr1315 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like someone’s been listening to Betty Wright’s “Clean Up Woman”.
@allenbarrow4904 Жыл бұрын
Facts be told...hahaha
@danielanderson8322 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad Lori left Michael. Less chance of her Will Smith-ing him down the line
@acethefloridianforever Жыл бұрын
Lori Harvey is going to hit the 🧱 so fast man it will be like a car crash during a during a crash test. She even once said that "Ladies you are the prize!". A womans beauty doesn't last forever.😂🤦🏽♂️
@Mankind-ik4ie Жыл бұрын
FACTS!
@willmallory9085 Жыл бұрын
Shots fired! No lie detected! We also fix stuff!😊
@willierobertson3383 Жыл бұрын
She's speaking a lot of good wisdom
@samuelmahmud1909 Жыл бұрын
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 she spoke the truth!
@nastybiscuittv1001 Жыл бұрын
I wanna pay for it all but at the moment I can do 60 40 .....
@johnlawful2272 Жыл бұрын
Not bad America is a 2 income place anyway
@baruch12dta-xt2gp Жыл бұрын
Sinse fartquisha is sooo scrong,, independent and all that,, she can pay her own bills in her own residence.. I will pay my bills were I reside in comfort,, BIBLE,, think & relax without the MAYHEM she may unfold..... A true relationship is 100/100,, not 50/50..
@mannied6395 Жыл бұрын
They won't get the picture till the movies over
@SomeBlackDude26 Жыл бұрын
There is no epiphany. They know what is right and wrong the whole time. They purposely act trifiling for their own entertainment. Once their carousel time is over women want to pretend like they've learned something. Don't save these heauxs.
@Mankind-ik4ie Жыл бұрын
😂FACTS!
@beverlywhite5438 Жыл бұрын
You young ladies think you have all the time in the world. After age thirty, time starts to fly. You don't want to be alone in your fifties and beyond.
@Butterfly22593 Жыл бұрын
Same advice goes to men
@troywest1724 Жыл бұрын
@@Butterfly22593 Only weak and dependent men would say what you said.
@dezcuts5319 Жыл бұрын
@@Butterfly22593 actually men are better suited to be without a spouse. We don’t need y’all for protection or for provisioning…but y’all do. The cast majority of you are one rug pull away from total starvation. If chaos erupts y’all are toast. Personally I hope to see this come to fruition. I want to see how quickly women humble themselves. I want to see how quickly women discard their feminist ideologies… my guess is immediately. I’m also curious how the men will treat the women. It’ll be very interesting. If they ever figure out how to sustain life outer space let the hunger games begin. I’m guessing that’s why they’re working diligently to develop AI. They want AI to create the concepts, the missing pieces they’ve been unable to figure out. Once that happens it’s gonna get real spooky for y’all. Men are built for this environment though, but I doubt most of you will benefit from chivalry this time around when mass chaos breaks out.
@mannysabir1339 Жыл бұрын
Men need an outlet. And like what was just said, at least he's home and not out in the streets.
@wood4902 Жыл бұрын
Shiid, modern women ain't gunna listen to her. In fact modern women refer to her type as a Pick-Me
@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997 Жыл бұрын
Translation::: They turning up on the titanic and finally see the Iceberg ..meh🛟🏳️💨✈️🌍✌🏾
@mateaukalua4426 Жыл бұрын
It takes them a long time to learn these things.
@10_door_tycoon Жыл бұрын
They will try to cancel her for saying this.
@Dusttnuts304 Жыл бұрын
Independent means “ by yourself “ so That is exactly where you should leave her. Get your passport fellas!
@tpatt513 Жыл бұрын
What book and chapter is that on Deacon Dust T Nuts?
@tmac3549 Жыл бұрын
They get rid of good men but never get rid of bad female friends.
@Mankind-ik4ie Жыл бұрын
😂Preach
@wesleyhillard4491 Жыл бұрын
Great content. By the way the Lori Harvey thing is; she is no doubt like her mama.
@sbolden123 Жыл бұрын
Was she saying this 10 years ago?😮🔫👍
@benaciodippedout Жыл бұрын
TOO LATE! ZOOM!
@BillyEdward-sj8pz Жыл бұрын
As a 55 yo Blk man this young lady is telling the truth I just back from phillipines I seen so many blk man with some beautiful Filipino woman on their arms men are tired of BS in these toxic relationships. Get your passports guys I'm juggling 2 beautiful Filipino woman just got back from phillipines 4-24-23 will be going back in November I had that much fun good luck
@WendallScott8414 Жыл бұрын
Women can be sinister, in their serial celebrity predation.."With a ferociously extensive, sexual appetite."
@robsawyer8034 Жыл бұрын
Pro Tip: Never feel sorry for them. Why? Women start out with 100 coins. Men start with zero. As they go through life frivolously tossing coins here and there. Then poof (epiphany, Jesus), they'll look for a man whose worked hard and gathered his coins to foot the bill and clean up.
@sammiesmith6690 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@laquitaj182 Жыл бұрын
Best show yet. I appreciate my King.
@russh7914 Жыл бұрын
Listen to this wise woman .
@sammiesmith6690 Жыл бұрын
The Ancestor Betty Wright had a song , “The Cleanup Woman”.
@SDC1003 Жыл бұрын
When ya stepdad is rich n u get to play in a Rich world Free of charge u act like Lorry shell tell everything on Everyone once she's been passed around n Nobody wants to keep her anymore
@ah2552 Жыл бұрын
Not committing DV isn't a seeking point. You shouldn't be doing it.
@Alyisha6 Жыл бұрын
Tell them Phil, the grass is not greener, why you think Beyoncé, Cardi B, Rhianna are sticking to their men like super glue.
@kevmarcol780 Жыл бұрын
She’s speaking wisely.
@cgtcoolguytvcollection3569 Жыл бұрын
Amen I'm glad you did this I've ran into this problem because I was told I took her for granted I'm not in the street work everyday come home at night etc......keep being compared to others....so thank you for doing this amen
@sionrouge1697 Жыл бұрын
I told you Phil they LOVE 50/50
@nickelz256 Жыл бұрын
It’s too late now. Passports taking over. Good men are fed up.
@BillyEdward-sj8pz Жыл бұрын
Facts
@williamblockson8013 Жыл бұрын
Well said and well done . Old school never dies , because nothing is new under the sun and it’s always cheaper (in the end) to keep her (or him) . Need she / her say more ? B1 . Amin and Shalom .
@undergroundfamous264 Жыл бұрын
A women staying single is screwed over time.
@telayajackson1.0 Жыл бұрын
She sounds like a 90's rapper.
@Drell-en7yo Жыл бұрын
If I’m paying all the bills I’m having side chicks 😂
@TN-ie8kd Жыл бұрын
You have spoken the truth. That's why I don't agree with the generalization about a man paying bills and returning home from work is necessarily a good or faithful man.
@symonelewis1690 Жыл бұрын
Why does paying all the bills make you entitled to having side chicks? Having side chicks usually leads to having side babies, which leads to extra bills when it comes to taking care of those babies. A faithful woman deserves a faithful man. Your woman will eventually find out that you have side chicks because side chicks tend to brag and run their mouths.
@deebrown4877 Жыл бұрын
Preach it, Uncle Phil!!💯💯🎯🎯
@paulbarnett3578 Жыл бұрын
If a woman is able to work. She she do so. She is also an adult. She also has to be responsible. It's just that simple.
@Deshawn1313 Жыл бұрын
You want your woman to work for another man, or your family? Who does she listen to when you want her to do something... And her boss wants something else at the same time?
@paulbarnett3578 Жыл бұрын
@@Deshawn1313 it's the way things work.
@Deshawn1313 Жыл бұрын
@@paulbarnett3578 you never answered the question
@paulbarnett3578 Жыл бұрын
@@Deshawn1313 me bro.
@Deshawn1313 Жыл бұрын
@@paulbarnett3578 Facts... now i get your point that this world is expensive and she should work bc a house is like 500k to 1 mill.. but that is why the family structure is broken in the USA and divorces are so high. Women are easily swayed, she cant have another boss other than her husband. Its not a place for families, its a work machine for workaholics and materialistic people... society responded with passport bros.
@lerhondajones-bates3324 Жыл бұрын
Who says she sleeping with allll these men? 🤷🏾♀️ maybe that’s why it’s so many cause they get tired of waiting for the goods🤔🤔🤷🏾♀️🥴so they leave…Michael stayed a good while so they might’ve done the deed but who REALLY knows
@30tannika Жыл бұрын
The research department states that 80% of these single women,,,,are looking for help/not love,,,so fellaz stay focused!!!
@ubongjuddy4345 Жыл бұрын
Only the spirit has revealeth this to this woman!
@reggiemillz7533 Жыл бұрын
Sorry Phillip Scott, but it is old school for both men and women to work and pay out 50/50 just the men pay more frfr. We do live in a society that requires two incomes. Also in majority of Caribbean households two people work and maintain the children sorry bro your dead wrong on that one
@jamesross1798 Жыл бұрын
Godly principles is the only real value📈
@r.p.2249 Жыл бұрын
The wall is undefeated.
@Will_Bx_NYC_718 Жыл бұрын
Lori Harvey is gonna end up like Black Chyna soon enough.
@thispersonrighthere9024 Жыл бұрын
"that's epiphany talking!"😂
@jasongrady2752 Жыл бұрын
Hey uncle phil.. The problem with this is it's too damn late Are ability to get a much younger woman than that with no kids and no baggage it's a whole lot better than the are chances of getting a decent man after letting all these other men run through thevent.. Now if she doesn't have any kids with multiple BD..her chance to higher than those women.. But the reality is when women really find this out they got too much baggage for one man to want.. And when I see a man that takes home the responsibility of something like this I can't help but laugh at him I'm so sorry
@crownlandking Жыл бұрын
I literally just got home from work put on my madden while my body rest, then about to start cooking😂😂😂
@bootneyleefarnsworth1788 Жыл бұрын
That ship has sailed…
@user-wp6zp2dd5n4 ай бұрын
FINALLY THE TRUTH
@bmorecareful1014 Жыл бұрын
Cash out😂😂 my grandmother is 90 years old and said the same exact thing.
@AlexTheLi0n Жыл бұрын
She’s actually speaking straight facts though.
@ruachpneuma5638 Жыл бұрын
Winter is going to hit them hard....
@jayhotep2559 Жыл бұрын
Again Phil, modern women don’t get their bills paid at the most they get is 50%. They want to be strong and independent so they’re going to get this work.
@prentissholloway421 Жыл бұрын
On this southern end , the average epiphany age for women is around 38 to 40.
@sphere3861 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like this woman is talking about the average man, so to all the women out there I have a Question. If you are a single woman with kids, Looking for a single man with no kids who is a high value man, is it settling if the man is just a average earning man? My next question, How can you say you are settling for an average man, when you don't have a high value man, but have kids? So who is settling for who?
@ryandeffley76528 ай бұрын
My ex blew off a pre planned date on the day of for "me time." When I asked her to define it, she said she had chores to do. Now I'm not unreasonable. If it had been a work emergency, friend in need, etc, so be it. But chores? That would be like me blowing her off to watch movies/nap instead. I found this to be insulting and such disrespect of my time/effort that I was done after that. Of course, she tried to play victim and say I have too much ego and no empathy. But she took me for granted with her behavior, and I was done. If a woman prefers chores to you, she has no excitement left. 😂
@AphrooneRichardson Жыл бұрын
AMEN-RA! Thanks Uncle Phil for another great and informative episode! AMEN-RA!
@raymealesmiley_theeunderes8033 Жыл бұрын
She was preaching! Golden! 💯🔥 Solid vid!🔥🔥🔥
@decemberwhite3219 Жыл бұрын
Coming home to his film & video game every night is better than the every weekend turn up man or the gambling man or the down low man I can go on and on..Value your men ladies please
@uriandropov8039 Жыл бұрын
It's too late for western black women.😅
@DONNYPESO Жыл бұрын
I work pays my bills 💵 but I also like to play Xbox I'm glad you didn't call us a Dusty
@victorgrays6708 Жыл бұрын
Times have changed and bills are way more I live in California it takes 2 in my city unless u making two hundred thousand a year
@komsanenondumiso9896 Жыл бұрын
"A side baby" That's a new one for me🤣... Great video Uncle Phil,I really enjoy your videos❤🇿🇦
@TtheguyfromZA Жыл бұрын
🇿🇦❤
@komsanenondumiso9896 Жыл бұрын
@@TtheguyfromZA ntwana yami♥️🙂🌸🇿🇦
@TtheguyfromZA Жыл бұрын
@@komsanenondumiso9896 standwa 😁❤️
@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 Жыл бұрын
*Appreciate a GOOD Man* and not take a GOOD MAN for Granted. *Wish more Men would do the Same about a Good Woman and Realize the same thing* rather than dogging good women out.
@cocoblessings Жыл бұрын
Yep! This problem is a people issue, not a gender issue.
@erasureerasure Жыл бұрын
Phill Scott talk about the men's who refuse to take their women's out we will still complain idc if they work, come home. They just come home after work always I'm tired of it period. We not old women for is not getting our husband or partner taking us by surprising us somewhere etc.
@jaywood4508 Жыл бұрын
Speak the truth brother.
@cedricdawon5332 Жыл бұрын
That’s the wall Uncle Phil
@stoneloc8979 Жыл бұрын
People love to ignore the elephant in the room when it comes to women and relationship. Circling the wagon around trifling women and not addressing the problem will never solve or go forward with the issues. There's a pandemic of women who love drama and love to sleep with each other's men and until that's addressed this so-called theory of settling down for whatever or whoever is best is for the birds.
@KevinDixon Жыл бұрын
Baaaaaa! Preach!
@oakridge2213 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, in many black households we didn't start out with the black father paying all the bills which is not the most important part. The important thing is that we work together as a family to establish that foundation so that the next generation can do that.
@JamaicanToast Жыл бұрын
Section 8?
@steelesharpensteele6252 Жыл бұрын
Yall cant keep the fathers from jump
@oakridge2213 Жыл бұрын
@@steelesharpensteele6252 I'm a man.
@oakridge2213 Жыл бұрын
@@JamaicanToast nope.
@reeshedagilbert5937 Жыл бұрын
In my family all the men paid the bills. I never saw a woman in my family working two jobs worried about bills. The men in my family both maternal and paternal set a standard. That 50/50 is something I am not fond of. My stepdad been taking full care of my mom for over 20 years.
@bassplaya4196 Жыл бұрын
I was looking at Lori's neck and I said the same thing
@CMOS357 Жыл бұрын
She has seen the light -
@shaynanichelle8621 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad she saying this because some of these women today idk I watched a video yesterday where the man cooked for his girl and she was stuck on the fact that they weren’t going out to eat, he supposedly lied to her about them going out saying he didn’t keep his word or that she needs him too and it was just disgusting. This man is doing an act of service for you and you dog him and talk down to him? Like what’s wrong with some of you women? Y’all be focused on the little things which be the wrong thing.