Sista Says She Understands Why People Don't Want To See Black Men Happy

[@logicalman1172]

A black man has a thousand rules that other men never have to deal with.

[@DC-cz2sr]

Facts so I don't obey to society norms I don't mind being a anomaly 😊😊😊😊😊

[@RodNubianKing]

I really see, feel, and believe this statement. I have seen it in my own life! We have to put on the whole armor of God!

[@RodNubianKing]

​@@DC-cz2srSame here sir. I refuse to be a statistic and will gladly pass from this earth on my own terms.

[@rsync9490]

Yep, you can't get angry or you will be seen as 'having an attitude' or 'getting angry'. People assume you will lash out at them and talk to you like your a child. You learn to distrust everyone because it's better that way. The love you receive is only based on what you can provide or what value you can show, man do I wish that would stop and end with only my employment/side hustles. Everyone distrusts you and assumes you are like the worst of your community. Etc. There is a reason black men seek peace as a requirement for their love. The world refuses to be peaceful with them.

[@Facedamusic]

@@RodNubianKingYou don’t think God is responsible for BM suffering? (Genuine question)

[@marqueldeaneee]

Nothing better to see then black men happy and healthy

[@jean-pierrekey2301]

*black men and women, happy and healthy.

[@kiddoutlaw600]

I swear

[@marqueldeaneee]

@@jean-pierrekey2301FACTS ❤🎉

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly 💯 no stress keep doing your thing fellas unfortunately it's only going to get worse with these women focus on yourself

[@high-noon7898]

​@@jean-pierrekey2301 Ur right

[@primeva7579]

There are people who are jealous of bm. Unfortunately, some of those people are bw.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

💯🔥

[@adeenbenyasharal5412]

Eve.

[@TfyallLookingAt]

Don’t downplay it,Its way more than “some”

[@Thatdudekay2]

Why would anybody be jealous of y’all ?

[@primeva7579]

@@Thatdudekay2 idk...ask bw and wm. They hate on everything bm do. Especially dating and marrying other races of women

[@kareem3919]

Breh….. Do you know how good it feels to be a single Black Man with no kids and no baby mommas making 6 figures? Shiiiii, I feel damn near invincible…..People really think you’re crazy when you walk around smiling from ear to ear 90%+ of the time. 🤣

[@sbwlearning1372]

I bet a lot of women hate you, call you gay call you weirdo etc Women despise seeing a single man alone and happy. ALL women!!

[@GameN3rdz]

🤣🤣

[@kareem3919]

@@sbwlearning1372 You’re absolutely right! I’ve been called anything/everything bad you could possibly think of 🤣

[@mercermercepanama6334]

Same here, Brother!!! I am 46 years old, unmarried and childless and people look at me like I'm crazy when they discover that about me. I sometimes even get looked at with suspicion or looked at like there is something wrong with me. I don't have to deal with baby mama drama, child custody battles, or paying child support. It feels wonderful!!!

[@awon_9385]

I got no kids and no baby mommas single educated and make just shy of 90k and I feel the same way still got things I want to accomplish but avoiding every statistic was number 1

[@canadianbrotv1303]

These people hate yet they in the club listening and dancing to black music every weekend

[@10_door_tycoon]

And watching sports dominated by black athletes.

[@rogerblewett5595]

They are hypocrites 💯. They hate us but can't live without us.. damn near every invention that ever was, was created by black man including the cell phone that you are probably typing on now 📱

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

It’s weird indeed..

[@rastahill748]

😂🎯

[@GMAG416]

Everyone wants to be a n***a but don't want to be a n***a. - Tupac

[@rogerblewett5595]

This is the TRUTH 💯 People act like a black man is not supposed to be happy.. I've even found myself at times felling guilty for just smiling because so many hate it.. even our own people smh

[@Keepskatin]

@Roger Phuck that, I ride, walk and drive around randomly happy. When I see random people frowning, I make eye contact and tell them smile you look miserable. Some smile, some get offended, man or woman. Sometimes I am nice with the words, sometimes I get confrontational and ready for whatever they want.

[@kimberlyscott2033]

Keep on smiling brother! forget them folks!!!!!!!!!!

[@tajdyer2803]

You are not the only one that's notice this. I thought I was tripping. I work in the Healthcare field and our women will do EVERYTHING to make a brotha miserable. This is why I stick to myself amd buy things that make me happy or go to the gym.

[@bigboy3454]

Black love leads to Black unity. Black unity leads to Black power. Black power leads to Freedom ✊🏿🔥

[@mysterium_99]

I agree! 💯

[@deejay7060]

What destroyed this was “The Great Society Act” of 1965

[@jediced.7786]

You are a part of the program, or you haven't realized it yet. That Black power couple was a meth.

[@automatic_systematic]

The problem is, ain't no black love

[@mysterium_99]

@@automatic_systematic not even in the "churches"

[@mostunclean6619]

This is why I spend the majority of my time by myself. It’s so peaceful and positive in my lair. I can completely take the mask and the armor off and just relax.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

It’s great, no one to impress you stay true to yourself. Enjoy whatever you want, do whatever you want. I enjoy silence and peace and unnecessary stress. It’s great. It would be nice to have some brothers to chill with from time to time and get a beer a two with but it’s cool, I been a lone wolf and I’m Gucci ✌🏾👍🏾

[@spacesandplacesoutthere]

Yup👊🏿💯

[@adirayasharahla984]

We want black men happy and stress free

[@mommateewhatsgoodtaylor6709]

Yes. 💯Not all black women want the black man to fail. There’s still a lot of us out there on their side.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Only way that happens when the kingdom comes.. until then nahh

[@jediced.7786]

Cap. And You know it. 😊 better yet, We men know it.

[@joebruce2180]

I honestly don't believe that.

[@joebruce2180]

Most black women don't even speak to black men. Stop playing.

[@Nightrain349]

I've noticed just as many BW don't want us to be happy neither.

[@kikio-rq9kx]

I do

[@creolepie]

Not that many of us fill that way. every time I came across the black men frolicking through the park, I was just as happy watching them

[@UNKLP66]

Exactly, Many BW do try to compete with us

[@KhemMagnus]

That part smh

[@jakeblank311]

well females are another issue. they can be a problem anyway it goes.

[@RodNubianKing]

It is like the world doesn't want us to fully know ourselves in ALL CAPACITIES!

[@UncleRoams]

Well said!

[@Demrks]

As a black man living in America I realize every group of people think every negative way about us. I learn to love myself and stay away from everyone including family and bw.

[@V00d00-Child]

Amen. I had to do the same thing. Only then did my sanity start to improve.

[@jaybrick8973]

Facts man

[@Makakahanap]

Cosigned

[@bfer95]

Signed Sealed Delivered Facts 💯

[@GMANN83]

👊🏿

[@enigmathegrayman2953]

I’m a black man living in a world that despises me and I hate it! Up and down the street twenty four hours a day!

[@jamalreed361]

Seek God brother

[@10_door_tycoon]

It’s your world boss they just here for that show. Can’t let other people affect you that much. It will literally kill you.

[@beyallluv]

Don't let them steal you're joy. Power through it. Don't let the demons win.

[@infozone9601]

Hate them back dummy

[@YangUnchained]

No one cares about us. You have to learn, accept and then embrace that. Once you reach the stage of embrace, you will be like the young lady said in the video... unstoppable!

[@saonedixon5476]

Us brothers or the worlds most hated on planet Earth, but yet we still shine, salute to all my fellow brothers striving in a world that's against us all. 💪💯

[@brotherkareem181]

Facts 👍🏾

[@tajdyer2803]

Man! For years, I have said this. Thank you!!!

[@industryexposedofficial]

Yes

[@momodoubah432]

This is more than a 1000% correct the envy and jealousy is more than disgusting but don't get weak cos you are bound to conquer if you just keep pushing.

[@destinydivine8465]

No one is jealous or envious of black men..

[@mikenagol69]

destinydivine84 Exact reason you’re here trying to prevent BM happiness…

[@destinydivine8465]

@mikenagol69 who is trying to prevent black men from being happy? Yall are always screaming accountability. Be accountable for your happiness. Black men blame everyone for their problems.

[@dwf6431]

@@destinydivine8465 This is projection at its finest😂 Black women are notorious for thinking nothing is their fault.

[@Angel05433]

​@@destinydivine8465 bitter bw in the chat

[@2008mastif]

The world has always feared a man that knows who & whose he is. Because there's an aura about Hebrew men that's very powerful that other men revere. The energy that we possess has an altering effect to the positive that can't be duplicated by others. Sadly, far too many black women have joined forces with the established order in attempts to suppress our flow/effectiveness. However, the Most High has our back to the end of the age. All praises to the Most High!!!

[@Derek_Yasharal]

Shalom Shalom Shalom ahk for this comment!!!!!

[@2008mastif]

@@Derek_Yasharal Shalom Derek!

[@soldierofjudah9356]

Shalom

[@blackhawk6615]

Truth!!!!

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Yeah it’s that God Ki, that God energy that flow through us and the nations hate it 😅😂

[@fbakay4700]

Of course she knows that. Many of *THEM* are the cause of the lack of happiness, especially when it comes to relationships. Everyone, even our own is taught be it thru media or just customary to disrespect/disregard Black men. One of the reasons why many of us become extremely violent is because of this constant wave of disrespect that seems to come from all angles...

[@ryancarmichael5812]

You texted truth

[@michaelaka6842]

Facts and not to take away from the message but Men in general have become violent bc we have to keep our emotions and check but what happens when u over fill a cup of juice? Its spills over...so how long does society expect men to hold in that much emotion cuz the world can't handle it

[@Deviljho5]

I have noticed this type of behavior in people I work with! They would make the work place toxic and harder if there were too many happy blacks! Therefore, if black workers we’re walking around looking depressed then all of a sudden the tasks would get a lot easier! It’s sad but as a black worker you have better not smile too much is the slogan! Now, once I stepped out of America and started working Overseas, this rule didn’t apply!😊

[@Keepskatin]

Fortunately I work with Germans in the Rebuild Master shop and my supervisor is a 420 blaze it man. I can work lit all day, as long as I get the job done properly.

[@Cynicalbastard22]

Facts! They start making up the rules as they go or they keep moving the goalposts smh This why brother’s have to start planning on their retirement or starting their own businesses.

[@Deviljho5]

@@Cynicalbastard22 Yo! You definitely hit the nail on the head! I wasn’t exactly able to articulate the statement above due to the extreme circumstances we were put through! Thank you for the clarity sir!

[@brotherkareem181]

@@b1chronixx688Facts 👍🏾

[@tajdyer2803]

I work in the Healthcare field. You speak nothing but facts. If you are a black man with morals, dignity and have a backbone to stand against the BS that happens in the workplace, everyone including our women will try to break your peace.

[@80sGenX]

Facts it sometimes makes black men ashamed to be happy, I went through my healing process and began to smile more and appreciate things so many people hated it and black women don’t like to see black men happy unless it has something to do with them they are very selfish

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

That’s woman nature though

[@sandiwalker8007]

You should never use Malcolm X to hide behind. He did it right in the later part of his life. You probably will never do it right.

[@curtismajors2315]

The system don’t want you to be happy with peace. You can’t grow while you are mentally unstable. That why a loyal supportive woman is key to your health.

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

No wmn is key to a mans health dude knock it off

[@morablaze486]

nah a healthy mind and body is the key to peace and happiness hence why these elites will never ever release cures out to the public and want you to keep on buying treatments for your diseases. they see healthy people as a threat

[@Keepskatin]

​@@steelesharpensteele6252 Men need women and women need us men.

[@jediced.7786]

​@steele sharpen steele I also had to ponder this, but as a solid guy. " I would say if there were two or three women that I have to deal with under the same roof. " I would have no choice, But to stay on my purpose. So even with one solid Woman, I could stay focus on my purpose also.

[@renzo7503]

@@steelesharpensteele6252 Actually, I understand the brother's point. Of course a man's health is in his own hands but a straight man is going to be with a woman at some point, no doubt about it. If she is loyal and supportive, our mental and spiritual health as men will benefit greatly from her presence. She wouldn't be "key" but she'd be a good asset.

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

My mother's start was told me when you're worried about what's going on in your own life you ain't got no time to be worried about what somebody doing in their personal life 🎉 this is why I told my daughter when she told me but somebody else was doing I told her you just don't do it🎉

[@yo3rdtier128]

Good advice, Abdul-ly. You have to stay focused out here and not worry about what folk think. Word’em up, Allah-ha

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

@@yo3rdtier128 almighty God says what will make people realize the real reality. The song by the police wrapped around your finger. Has a deep and profound message.

[@nickelz256]

Passports solve so many modern problems black men have to deal with within this country.

[@db7234]

@ Nickelz finally saved enough to get a passport? Brad & Chad been going overseas for years, lol. Catch up buddy

[@nickelz256]

@@db7234 nice try but you’re late very very late. What Brad and Chad does has nothing to do with me neither do I care. So get out of your feelings

[@DONNYPESO]

​@@nickelz256 move to Guyana you can build you a house for cheap trust me my family lives there and we speak English and patois sum Spanish too

[@Keepskatin]

@Nickels Passports are for quitters, race traders, immigrants who flee their homeland problems, and men who want cheap sex in foreigners lands.

[@nickelz256]

@@DONNYPESO actually I plan on retiring overseas when my son graduates and I pay my home off. I will be leasing it out through a realtor. I had it built 5 years ago. Building one overseas was always the future plan while leasing one here in the states. My sons the focus now though

[@BushidoBrownGod]

Is not the blk woman a part of the blk man's unhappiness?! Let's just be honest here.

[@darrellmahan8404]

Facts'

[@DONNYPESO]

Is not the black women I was a little confused but nevermind

[@Keepskatin]

@Legebdary Bushido Blade. If you're going that route, the same can be said vice versa. Most black women are just hurt and disappointed by black men. Black men have dropped the ball for decades, financially, education wise, and spiritually. Black men aren't leading black women righteously, just turning them into thots, single mothers, or race trading.

[@bigjohnny1047]

What does a black women have to do with this?

[@suziepickes702]

Everything is black women fault. No wonder black men are so powerless.

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

I remember one time my daughter was telling me what somebody else had did and I told her you just don't do it🎉

[@ChocolateAfterDark]

This is something I’ve known for years. Especially as a large BM, people are scared of you and when you got yourself together you are unstoppable!!

[@kadeemjoseph8138]

As kodak said " They don't wanna see a ninja prosper"

[@LordShockwave9]

She's right: nobody, and i mean nobody, wants a Black man, to be happy, at all. At one point, and even now out of habit, i finds myself hiding the moments of happiness from others in order to preserve them and make them last longer because they're so rare in my life. It took a long time, and a lot of work, to get to that point.

[@Tesmoofficial-ps6nl]

The best revenge is success.

[@dragonbloodtv]

I love making beats it keeps me happy. F the haters

[@RodNubianKing]

Please keep doing your hobbies and let no one take this away from you.

[@dragonbloodtv]

@@RodNubianKing oh most definitely brotha ‼️ greatly appreciate it

[@arushanioshaka5600]

Hobbies bring the best outa of us keep it up bro.

[@thejamericanexperience2757]

This is why I dont broadcast my success or plans and leep a straight face. Too many routing for our downfall.

[@RomanHill-j1w]

Amen I Will BE Happy Forever

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

Welcome to this matrix system 🎉

[@Thatdudekay2]

Are you still alive bro ?

[@SifuFreeGamer1417]

Just minding our business is alot for people to handle .

[@EM-hn1db]

LITERALLY.

[@lordbison]

I Was @ A Coffee Shop In Seattle,WA Some Years Back Reading A Book & Enjoying My Coffee! I Was Sitting Way In The Back Away From Everyone Else! I Was Wearing Dark Prescription Shades , It Was Early In The Afternoon! Every Couple Of Minutes, People ( Mostly Non Black ) Kept Coming Around Me, Talking Loud On Their Mobile Phones! Instead of Going Outside Or Being Amongst Themselves, They Kept Coming Around Me, Trying To Peep What I Was Reading! Why? Who Knows! But, It Is What It Is! ⚔️

[@lupavo1738]

Because them folks are nosey like that, especially WP, they can't stay in their own business.

[@ayodelebadmus6822]

strange!

[@sbwlearning1372]

Could it be that in this post literate generation of blipverts and low attention span shouty videos people thought you were strange because you were reading and engrossed in an actual book ???

[@RodNubianKing]

​@@sbwlearning1372Yeah I love reading books. My brain loves it too!

[@lordbison]

​@@RodNubianKing - Yes! Nothing Like A Great Book 📖! 🤙💯🇨🇦

[@phillipphillips8064]

No. Black women don't wanna see black men happy

[@Iknowyoumadnow]

And be mad as hell when we move on

[@TfyallLookingAt]

Daddy Issues

[@Djd271]

Women don’t want me happy 😂

[@industryexposedofficial]

Amen other race women treat us amazing bw h8 bm I stay far away from bw in my family and in real life they only out to use you run from these BW y'all your life and safety depends upon it

[@paulyoung1505]

Common knowledge .... The Code for black men especially in my family is to succeed anyway, love anyway, grow any way , and fight always whether you have or you don't you and who you are and what you stand for is all you have and the only guarantee you'll ever have in this life

[@bruceleeroy8302]

I see this but you can't play a victim too much and you have to drown out the noise. Look for your happiness no matter where it is. Trust me, the people closest to you will be the worst ones, they will try to destroy your dreams, tell you you're crazy of find something negative to say. These people are toxic so keep them at a distance or cut them off completely.

[@telayajackson1.0]

This is sad. Everyone should be happy.

[@jediced.7786]

After everyone has built their happiness off the backs of BM. This is now sad. 😅

[@telayajackson1.0]

@Jedi Ced. I knew I was gonna get a comment like this. Smh

[@jediced.7786]

@Telaya Jackson 1.0 Well you should be prepared with some facts and a come-back, rather than shaming tactics.

[@telayajackson1.0]

@@jediced.7786 I don't understand. How am I shaming? I just want everyone to be happy, including me.

[@Thatdudekay2]

@@jediced.7786oh really !

[@malama_ka_aina]

Non black friends at times would ask me why black men usually give me a head nod or some type of welcoming gesture. It's because we know how hard it is just getting through the day being us. Sometimes feels like BW, because of their bad choices, are just as vindictive and ravenous as "them folks" as you say.

[@rastahill748]

I fuckin hate em. They are two faced as hell

[@tayonius]

They never wanna see black men happy…

[@industryexposedofficial]

BW don't

[@tayonius]

@@industryexposedofficial yup

[@PhdMusic03]

Interesting. BM don’t ever succumb to selfishness. Too many in our community are selfish as is. Stay righteous. The righteous always win. Even when it feels like we aren’t. We are victorious!

[@captpy2891]

I feel ya on the comment💯🎯💯 But being righteous hasn't paid off as expected. But, I will remain on the up & up!

[@pontiac00]

Are you man or woman PhdMusic03?

[@PhdMusic03]

@@pontiac00 I’m a man. A thankful God fearing Black man.

[@rayj.9568]

​@Capt PY2 , Brother, don't get weary in well doing (don't get tired of doing what is right). For in due season you shall reap a harvest ( one day, you will be overwhelmed with blessings from God.

[@captpy2891]

@Ray J. Yes sir, Brotha 👍🏾👍🏾 That is the mindset I work hard to maintain. Appreciate your feedback 🙏🏾 💯🎯👌🏾

[@cnote2times]

It’s because America Society is Scared of us Black Men taking over the word…..

[@antares3097]

You don't need a women to be healed , healthy or whole. It start from within; start by visualizing a positive mental image of yourself and fuel that image with positive emotions...✌️

[@LeonardSkinnard]

Yup. Doesn’t really matter how you present yourself. There’s always gonna be someone making passive-aggressive remarks trying to bring you down. A lot of times it’s from other blacks which makes it even more embarrassing.

[@clarencejones9098]

@ogchocolate: not really embarrassing when you realize the matrix in which we live. If you weaken the men of a society(the protectors)then you can conquer the people as a whole.

[@Keepskatin]

True, but if the majority of people you encounter are black, that's going to be the majority of your experience.... Negative or positive. Just remember you get what you give. You respond with negative energy, most times you will receive negative responses, especially if you don't look intimidating to the other person. It's really mind over matter, words are powerful. Even the Bible says kind words turns away wrath, but our egos get us in trouble.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

This is why I keep myself solo, I realize if you don’t come down to the level of retardation people will look down on you. If you want to live good, create a peaceful environment people will try their best to change that because misery enjoys company which is exactly why I stay solo, all I need is the heavenly host by my side and I’m good. I’ve been let down too many times by so called friends, family and kin and once you get burn so many times you get tired lol.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

@@Keepskatin ego and pride the need to be right lives in many lol

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

I don't care what we do to self medicate when it's all over with we still got to deal with that problem and the real reality 🎉

[@blackhawk6615]

Truth!!!!!

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

@@blackhawk6615 👍🙏👌💯🤔

[@TfyallLookingAt]

Unfortunately yes

[@kellykell8439]

There are so many black men today (especially here in the USA) focused and moving forward in life that many people are noticing that right now. A lot of black men right now are also learning to love and value themselves properly in such a way that is both healthy and powerful too.

[@Thatdudekay2]

Oh really ?

[@BowserStrange]

Yet others and our counterparts gets free passes and forgiveness for their actions while we get nothing but scorn upon ridicule for our past transgressions…oh how difficult it is for the blk man to be so…

[@MakinAli-rh4bq]

That's why a lot, of productive brothers left, the community.

[@williamcarter9066]

Uncle Phil said it best which is block out the noise and live your best life !! Those who don’t like it BROTHERS that ain’t your problem it always be a them problem and they can KICK ROCKS ya dig ✊🏿✊🏿✌🏿✌🏿

[@Ismail-cf6xu]

So true Uncle Phil with us walking around depressed. I have some training in this area and a lot of my clients are BM who really don’t feel seen, respected, actualized and this reeks havoc on their perception of life and their place in it. Brothers, let’s come together and support one another.

[@femininevibes2213]

I love seeing black men happy and healthy

[@KennyPeeples]

BM need and deserve to be happy and get good women from abroad overseas

[@williegohard1368]

Us black man we gonna make it

[@kevonedon6872]

I believe we believe

[@keepdafaithinyou2429]

When we're happy they don't like it if we're miserable they still don't like it

[@touchgemini1372]

Despite all the racism I experienced growing up. NO 1 MADE ME FEEL MORE WORTHLESS THEN ABW (IN AND OUTSIDE OF MY FAMILY). I AM NOT THE ONLY 1💯

[@jeffreyhamilton2407]

Brothers please battle for every ounce of happiness you can get from this life (so long as it doesn’t come at the expense of other people).

[@universalsuccess3776]

This is a very Important topic brother. Because we are the head. Our community starts with us. If we all focused more on our men everything else will fall into place. Society glamorizes "sex" so much we get overlooked, blamed, and ignored. Our youth are slowly deteriorating, young men especially, and everyone feuding about bs on the internet. We as a people are the result of 400 years in the house of our enemy

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Truth in this message, we been with our oppressors too long. I was watching a podcast about africa and that’s one of the things they were talking about. When we migrate to Africa we bring the west mentality with us aka our captives mentality. We been in America far too long.

[@jazzberrylane2348]

Y'all know we been the boogyman and if anything bad happens it's Jermaine's Fault

[@derellsplace]

Just be pleasant, polite and courteous.

[@Kinglioncrown]

I want our black Brothers out here to be happy.

[@momodoubah432]

Genuine Black kings will surely be happy and free. And all these leeches and parasites can't do nothing about it.let them know that for us all this hate and fight only makes us get the best out of the rest 😊

[@tankcoatpink]

I always find this so weird to me, we supposed to loving each other. Btw it’s my birthday, I’m 21 yayyy 😒😂

[@kareem3919]

Happy Birthday! 🥳🎂

[@lupavo1738]

The problem is that is naive talking and you're very young to the world as a 21 year old. This is 2023, there's no love in this world, in fact things are worst off for the BC. Best thing to do is love yourself, while helping people along the way. The more you get out and see the world you'll understand this very fast.

[@celestialbronzewarrior4937]

Happy Birthday 🎉🎉

[@kimberlyowens5496]

Happy Birthday 😂❤

[@arushanioshaka5600]

Happy birthday

[@dwaynelewis6185]

It’s even worse, when SOME black women don’t see their own black men happy and hate them for finding and feeling happy with healthy relationships with good women!

[@TheOracle4444]

I spread love ❤️ to black men & youth everyday. I smile, wave and compliment them in passing. I use my healing energy to those i come across throughout my day. "Be the change you wish to see in the world 🌎 " Plus, of course, my husband and children get this everyday too ❤ Heal yourself then heal others, one by one.

[@UNKLP66]

This is Great Content, thanks Phil..A State of FACTS 🙏🏾

[@ikejackson8676]

Talk about it good sister and brother that's so correct

[@jr2no160]

👍🏾💯 so many people hate on us attaining happiness. Including some family members.

[@hxycdsa576]

I agree with you phil.

[@brandonpotter4915]

Listen, if you like yourself, love what you are doing, love the one you're with and just happy all around general keep doing you. Now if you have to go to therapy to get your issues worked out, then go to therapy. As long as you are happy & love and value yourself, then you ain't go nothing to worry about. Like me, I happy with where I am at. I'm 39, no kids, no baby mama(s) and free to do whatever I want. That's the best feeling in the world 🌎🌎🌎🌎🌎. I love my life!!!!

[@alonzoneloms5651]

True Validation and Vindication comes from God! I continue daily seeking and enjoy the Kingdom of God. God says he will add things to us! Even a Queen 👑 by God's divine connections! God gives us what we need. Not what I want. God sees and knows all thing! Take All your Cares and Concerns to God. In prayer and leave all negativity at his feet! I promise you. God wants to get involved in our lives! And the way God handles and bring things! To that expectant end. God gets the Glory! When we learn how to wait on the Lord! Trust the Process and Development of God ways! Creating a Solid Faith and a Essence of God. On the inside.....! We are never alone ...

[@lloydhudson9032]

It's interesting because I've had people question my happiness, especially in the morning. They act as if I should wake up hating the world and that's just not me. That doesn't mean I don't see what's going on, however, I choose to put a smile on my face and make the most out of the day. It's so crazy to me how people respond to a brotha being cheerful, what a strange world.

[@TfyallLookingAt]

Strange indeed

[@jakeblank311]

I think brothers need to realize they are and have been in a war. cold and hot we don't need to heal we need to focus and mobilize and keep fighting harder and smarter . but I think she ment well.

[@muradshawar]

His message is for all men of all races in us in my opinion.

[@davidsejjombwe2313]

I have lived in California for a while but i have had a taste of the disrespect as a black man. Immigrant or citizen, there is no difference. On the other hand, i strongly believe that our women (bw) should be a black man's peace. It is sad to have a day of the Babylon treatment and come home to a masculine, independent, i don't need a man modern black woman poisoned by society and corrupt social media

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue]

A black man should be his own peace, his black woman is only supposed to add onto that peace

[@rogerblewett5595]

@@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue His point exactly 💯

[@darrellmahan8404]

Straight up' sista's are sellouts

[@akendon7260]

@@rogerblewett5595 LOL

[@Keepskatin]

I'm just very arrogant, confident, dominant, but truthful with butter black women, and most of them open up when I am this way. I walked past a frowning black young woman and smiled whiled saying Hello Queen. She smiled. I see a woman at the stop light. I yell hey woman I like your dress or hairstyle, or damn you look good in that dress. Women love compliments, be assertive, be dominant, be handsome, don't call profane words, unless they earn it. I like my women young and middle aged.

[@Underratedcommentator]

Had to learn to find my own happiness. That’s all there is.

[@banks615]

Mane you was talking real ish here💯

[@jahkarl7376]

God bless you in the name of Jesus. It's not just in America in England. We have the same problems.

[@10_door_tycoon]

What country are you in?

[@jahkarl7376]

@@10_door_tycoon London England.

[@darrellmahan8404]

Y'all got European white problem too

[@leroygreen5263]

You have one life brothers. Make it your best life. F what other people think

[@ItsBrokenPen]

dominance comes with a heavy price.

[@gloriavalencia9072]

Loudness lashes and wigs. Natural is beautiful

[@CMOS357]

The plain truth- nothing but the real💯

[@pontiac00]

Good video and on point👍💯%

[@eugeneallen30]

Black men in America must perfect their “HEART” at times true happiness comes from within.

[@walteranderson2507]

You brought 💯 brother! This video is sold gold 🥇🥇

[@Rajah-ty5ml]

I FULLY AGREE BROTHER!!

[@DavidShackelfordJr]

The book of exodus, deuteronomy, these people are trying to keep us under the curses that the most high said we'd be delivered from. Head to the heavens my brethren, you deserve grace!

[@jaycshaw3rd]

Our trauma, is directly connected to calling ourselves Black. We are the true American Indian, in bondage on our own homeland

[@danielcrowley6518]

Ive noticed that.... especially among our own women

[@militantsloth9765]

Keep blaming black women for all your problems, it's not getting y'all anywhere .

[@matthewthompson1653]

Everything she is saying she 💯 right.also you too Mr.Phil.

[@peacegod44]

Black men are the Jesus of the Bible.

[@militantsloth9765]

No you are not.

[@peacegod44]

@@militantsloth9765 yes we are. We're the scapegoat.

[@criticalthinker907]

She's absolutely right 👍🏾🔥🚒🔥▶️

[@thelionscamp5479]

She ain't lying.. I'm not prejudice I hate everybody equally..there all haters 😤

[@charleshicks2710]

Truth to Power !!!...Peace...

[@Mz_era]

Omg that’s me!

[@Dmack5ive]

Thank you for speaking truth to power and riding for US‼️

[@Mz_era]

Always 🖤

[@logicalman1172]

Thanks for having the courage to speak on the uncomfortable truths.

[@aarongray1981]

Thank you sista!!!!!!!!!

[@alwaysblack2436]

Thank you gorgeous and I love you!❤

[@jerrywalls3402]

You're right. I know, because I speak from experience. Whenever things started going well for me and I was happy, there was always someone around trying to convince me that I wasn't.

[@osenseithompson1346]

It's true they have much trouble if you are happy so stay happy! it health

[@nickreyes8366]

I was just thinking about this. I have a good friendship with a new male co worker at my job. And the female co workers are always so disgusted how happy we are to talk to each other without a care in the world

[@tajdyer2803]

Same here man. I work in the medical field and it disgust the nurses that we men(in particular black men) are bonding in the workplace.

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh]

I don't care what we do to self medicate what is all over with we still got to deal with that problem and the real reality 🎉

[@AirSupp0rtMusic]

They don't want any man happy.

[@p9a9r21]

Yes, black men in particular experience a significant amount of "trauma". But has it ever been any different for the black men before us? I have come to believe black men experience more trauma, contempt, violence etc because we are more able to overcome it with the grace of God. No race of human beings attained peace and greatness without being refined in the crucible of this world. Many black men have sought "healing" through drugs, women, violence anything to express and distract us from the one thing that leads to lasting growth... suffering. It is missing the inescapable connection between growth greatness and suffering which perpetuates the slavery of black men's minds and souls. But their is One who gave us the way out of suffering into peace.

[@sphere3861]

It's not black men being happy, it's about black men having pride about themselves.

[@rastahill748]

There ya go 🎯