TEN SIGNS that show YOU DON'T HAVE CLASS! | Stop these Classless Behaviours Immediately!

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

My mother told me this as a younger, single lady..."a man that will cheat WITH YOU, will cheat ON YOU!"

[@wannaduckfin]

So true

[@CatHarlem]

No one ever told me this but I always felt this way.

[@vic576]

Not true know that each person has a reason for why they do what they do before jumping to conclusions.

[@RTA6226]

AMEN!

[@rucianapollard7098]

@@vic576 you must be a cheater...🤔🤔🤔

[@irenecaboni5677]

As a married woman, I would certainly not blame another woman if my husband was cheating on me. The only person to blame is him, as he was the married one.

[@camellia8625]

Exactly

[@SAGITTARIUS312]

TRUE! It’s never the mistresses fault! It is the husbands CHOICE!

[@chiamandasspace6572]

That’s like saying an assasin should not be blamed as he’s being paid to do his job

[@nicolesprocess]

It's not about blame. The statement is that a 'woman who chases married men has no class'. Doesn't mean the man has class.

[@amnotfightingalone8462]

I have always said this to friends but none has ever agreed with me. You have hit the nail right on the head, POINT BLANK PE- RI- OD.🧐🧐🧐🧐

[@TK_the_Teacher]

I have dated a married guy myself. I am healing all the trauma, shame and aura I acquired in that relationship. In as much I have done a lot of healing, I still find myself in deep regret. Ladies whatever happens donnot date a married man.

[@sharonnjeri3581]

I used to think I cannot date a married then I did. That was the lowest I have ever been in my life. Over two years later, I am healed and have learned to forgive myself. It gets better with time. I have also cut off all the people who endorsed that affair. I cannot even relate with the version of myself that dated him. I am better than that mistake.

[@robbieb.garlandm.ed.6729]

❤ Amen… do not feel bad…I totally understand… Continue to heal and don’t look back…

[@carolynbarkley8997]

Ask God for forgiveness, forgive yourself and vow not to ever do that again which is repentance then start to love yourself to wholeness. It's a process so do the work on yourself.

[@joyokafor5887]

Keep your head up and move on. Now you know better, do better, don't Keep blaming yourself. You've made peace with God and yourself, so forgive yourself, don't dwell on your pass mistakes and regrets. I'm proud of you for removing yourself from that situation, it takes courage and loving yourself

[@alissagonzales735]

I always had a rule. Never date a friends boyfriend or a married man. I always wanted to meet the parents or the siblings. I just got lucky I never dated a married man.

[@susanspianostudio7057]

What I find amazing is that these tips are all biblical principles. If people read the Bible and applied it they'd be a woman of elegance. 🎉 Thank you for this video. Well done! 💖

[@nirmalaramjit1267]

I agree with you!😊

[@Nicolee7764]

@Susan's Piano Studio, Exactly, l said the same thing.

[@genevievehoskins6829]

I noticed that too!

[@anais457]

I said the same thing. God wants his daughters to be modest or elegant. It is in the Bible.

[@neoraisrael8403]

I was thinking the same exact thing. Proverbs 7:10-11 popped into my mind when she spoke about being loud

[@carolpowell2199]

My mother was the definition of ‘class’, she was my role model. Very blessed to have been her daughter.

[@emerald8795]

There is nothing more beautiful than a woman with class and upstanding mannerism.

[@christianaezema6573]

I love u so so much for this

[@Chahlie]

While my mother was the worst possible role model.... It took me many years to learn what was right. We should all be very tolerant of those who have low self esteem and who did not have the opportunity to learn better behaviours. It really can be a handicap. But that is where the tip to always treat others with respect comes in, no matter their class it is never wrong to be respectful to everyone, and who knows, someone may learn from your own example!

[@genetabate45]

My mom too.

[@OceanicPearlz1]

Carol my mother too

[@patmarveli8789]

1. don’t date a married man 2. dirty, rude and junk words/remark 3. disrespecting/mocking others 4.loud mouth 5. boasting of achievements , status and connections 6 don’t dress well . Be modest and elegant 7. lack manner and good basic social etiquette 8. desperation can lead to cheap and Poor options. 9. betraying your friends because of attention seeking 10. good body, mouth, skin etc hygiene

[@Portia620]

I need to work on dirty jokes and cuss words and some of my outfits are half tops

[@snowshadow11]

Morality, dignity, descency, self respect, respect for others, love for one another , manners. The greatest of these is love.

[@sarahsalter678]

This comment is wonderful!! 🫶🏽💕🤲🏽

[@Touchedmymouthministriesint]

Wouldn't it have been more classy to approach from a positive perspective... 1. Respect other's boundaries i.e. have your own husband and not another's 2. Speak gracefully - 3. Be humble-don't put down others... 4. Speak gently - Speak less and moderately 5. Be discreet re: high income status, position, status, etc., er, don't be a show off 6. Dress decently and modestly - first impression counts - no breast/leg and thighs😊 7. Have etiquette-good mnners 8. Don't be motivated by desperation - maintain standards 9. Respect yourself - don't do any and anything for attention 10. Attend to proper hygiene - mind bad breath etc, love yourself - Attend to your health

[@GABRIELADAWSON]

Don’t Forget Keep your hands to yourself except when Greeting Others and Or Defending Oneself or Someone else Weaker than you Etc.

[@augustaluch7354]

The way you stated them is awesome. However, I think how she stated them resonates with what she tagged the video.

[@Touchedmymouthministriesint]

@@augustaluch7354 Then I'm sorry, the tagging might have been, classily: 'ten signs of classiness'😊; Happy New Year🎉

[@augustaluch7354]

@@Touchedmymouthministriesint I wish you the very best of it😊

[@Touchedmymouthministriesint]

@Augusta Luch Yeah man, it is so😊

[@prophetchrist1994]

We dress like we’d like to be addressed. We need three billion more women like her.

[@suzygirl1843]

Go to Africa then

[@prophetchrist1994]

@@suzygirl1843 I believe she resides in England. Such eloquence is found in the Queen's Province. I am a king myself, so I would know.

[@sakuraesther6309]

@@prophetchrist1994 King of where exactly?? I am curious btw

[@prophetchrist1994]

@@suzygirl1843 God bless you. You’re perfect 🥰

[@prophetchrist1994]

@@sakuraesther6309🙂 I am an heir to the kingdom of God. I’m a partaker of God’s divine grace, and I am seated in heavenly places.

[@estherokpo2564]

She’s the elder sister we all wished we had 😢❤

[@Lov3A11Rac3s]

As a 26-year-old young professional this video was SOLID GOLD. Sometimes we need a shaking of the tables, this video was confirmation that being classy takes intention, AND isn’t common anymore

[@Portia620]

Class is lacking in today’s society! 😢🤦‍♀️

[@rosahacketts1668]

I find it interesting that people on here are blown away by this upload; but to me it's natural just to be the points shes made.

[@wannaduckfin]

Wonderful wisdom! I'm a 72 year old grandmother, married 50 years, and still elegant. New sub!❤

[@kriszma1212]

Amen Mama' keep on keeping on! I'm a little younger than You' and still classy.. looking good, feeling good too!

[@rochellethompson9854]

God Bless You! You are from the "Great School"--not the Old School! So very proud of you!👑🦚🎁💄👠💅💖💝💜💞❤️‍🔥

[@cynthiabubbles1047]

I started following you today I have not stop scrolling down 😸 thank you u got a new fan

[@pappysheart6710]

Dear all women here, I'm a guy and I say with honesty that if you carry yourself with dignity, you suddenly become more respectable and attractive. In my opinion, selling one's looks on onlyfans to lonely men is not "liberation" nor "empowerment". Wish y'all the best and I'll see you out in the real world.

[@craziebarbietalks692]

It isn’t empowering because they’re letting men overstep their boundaries for money. True empowerment as a woman is knowing your worth and boundaries

[@yuki._loves]

@@craziebarbietalks692 Exactly!!

[@mikab2375]

@@craziebarbietalks692 but they aren't letting the men overstep their boundaries. Many of them have poor or no boundaries therefore they'd have to be an existing boundary beforehand for men/ others to overstep.

[@craziebarbietalks692]

@@mikab2375 true

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Being attractive gives you respect. Do I have respect after my reproductive rights have been taken away?

[@dollhouseq1530]

Ladies keep in mind to learn etiquette and femininity for your own self growth. Not for the approval of a man or to one up your fellow sisters. Learning to be feminine brings us back to the core of who we were before being damged by those we may have trusted. Im on the journey as well. Stay positive and be forgiving of yourself always! Much love sisters❤

[@buenaventuraferrerafeliz2376]

🥺

[@aishwarya2016]

Yes Sister ✨♥💯

[@wanjikunaomi157]

Good luck on ur journey dea

[@nav_1050]

You really called me classless in such a classy way 😂😂❤

[@itsinesantonio]

Hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@amarairene1760]

😂😂😂😂

[@Wonderwoman79G]

😆 🤣

[@mishyrawanzo9191]

😂😂😂😂

[@freenow5484]

That’s what we’re all thinking😂😂😂 I think the most important thing is to be a good person! Be yourself and Love infinitely. Class is a social construct designed to control and separate humanity! It’s something colonizers used to strip the cultural identity from so many people.

[@babygirltdi]

I'm glad I stumbled across this. My mother was the epitome of class. It didn't matter the situation she was always poised, graceful, and classy. She taught all eight of her daughters and her granddaughters.

[@BlackCoffeeee]

Well, this needs to be a public service announcement. You really covered it all. Excellent.

[@bernicewise8313]

Exactly!

[@itsinesantonio]

Million yes !

[@Mkym365]

💯

[@donnaalexander6133]

😆 🤣 😂

[@chiarac3833]

Truly classy people are as kind and respectful of the lowest level employees as they are to high level employees. I worked at a company where certain people wouldn't even say good morning because I was a temporary employee. I almost pitied them, even as a young woman.

[@christineparker7534]

My grandmother always told me ,a well bread person is not a snob.

[@CF-yr1dm]

This.

[@Chahlie]

I remember as a child reading an old etiquette book and there was an example in it of how to introduce your friend to your gardener, something you MUST do if you are speaking with your gardener when your friend arrives. You don't expect them to strike up a friendship, but it shows respect.

[@rosahacketts1668]

I hear you. I could never understand why people ignore or look down on lower grade/educated or temporary workers; I have never done.

[@royalgoddess3284]

Yes 🙌🏾 let’s put class and grace back in our place 💪🏾✨

[@rokhayaleye7465]

I’m 19years and all my friends leave me because I behave like the way you explaining but I feel like classy is being around people who are classy too❤ thanks you so much I just follow you ❤

[@dotlee]

Their loss! Keep being you and stay classy young lady.

[@Chahlie]

I'm older and believe me, if people are uncomfortable with you having class it's due to their own insecurities. I worked in the garden centre of a farm store for a time, and dressed appropriately for the job. Some time after I had left, I dropped in to see my old co-workers. One said "wow, you look like a lady", and one said "you dress like THAT to go shopping?". Short sleeved sweater, knee length skirt and loafers, but it hit her insecurity. Just be who you know is right :)

[@NatalieTheRican]

You are ahead of the game at 19 years old. Be proud, and keep being the classy young lady you are ❤

[@ashleyg.2064]

Had a rough day. Thank you for reminding me I'm classy 😌🥰

[@itsinesantonio]

👏❤️

[@sherules5005]

No profanities, bad manners etc moving forward ⏩. I keep learning, I don't stop

[@bridgettewilson2075]

I truly enjoy and try to speak on these issues as much as I can delicately to the younger women and girls. I’m 64 and I know that what you teach is the absolute best advice for women. Keep shining your light and teaching these valuable lessons. Vivian you are true elegance. Thank you.

[@bella57644]

You spkke truth

[@spaceted3977]

I'm a 68 yr old male and have never got married or had children !!! I have my own place with 2 Dogs !!!! I thought morality died in the 1960s. I've had a Wonderful Life on my own !!!!!

[@rochellethompson9854]

So beautiful sentiment!💝💜💞❤️‍🔥💖❤️👑🦚

[@Portia620]

@@spaceted3977agreed!!! I’m far from classy. I have my flaws like too short shorts or dresses but to me I wear a swim suit and it shows just as much. 🤦‍♀️😂. I became really sick and was married to a very try abusive man. Haven’t dated and really would love to do that but most people sleeps around and it’s just sickening to me! I’m sad by the mess of the world and my words for an educated woman have ..let’s just say my filter is gone and I cuss often now. Trying to be more refined but serious sick of vultures and not sure I can turn the ship around. Trying

[@florence848]

I hope Camilla can really watch this very informative piece of GOLDEN ADVICE on being a HOME - WRECKER !!!

[@winniejohnson5559]

👏👏👏👏 indeed

[@helenp5649]

Thank you for making these videos, I'm 25 and look up to you quite a bit. You have single-handedly taught me more about being elegant than my own mom!

[@sulusu4812]

My mom used to put down for my attempts to be elegant.

[@bernicewise8313]

@@sulusu4812 WOW!

[@soleighaku6690]

@@sulusu4812 mine as well or just simply being comfortable in my femininity. She’d call me fast for doing my hair everyday and always looking my best and make me feel bad about myself. It wasn’t until I became an adult that I realized a parent can be jealous just as anyone else

[@G_Galore]

I definitely get made fun of in my family by my mom and sisters for desiring to be classy, dressing f feminine, and going to church of all things

[@juanitahardy8583]

I was taught very young that a rich person may not have class but that a poor person can have class. I had a very classy father who taught me to always value quality over quantity in all things in life. You are a very very classy lady.

[@belindacrisp7078]

It really does come down to self esteem doesn't it. And it's a vicious circle. Most of the 'bad' behaviours were mine in my late teens and early twenties. I thought I was worthless. Time, experience and work taught me otherwise. :) Thank you for a really good video.

[@swiftkarma4436]

Same here. Never wanted an attached man tho. I don't like to share.

[@dellk8198]

I'm very proud and happy for you !:)

[@rucianapollard7098]

@@swiftkarma4436 girl, you better keep it 💯!! Ain't nobody sharing in 2023!!!

[@johnniepegues305]

It's nice to point out the 10 points or so that women who don't have class but let's also call out the men who don't have any self control because they go after women who are allowed in the cheat web with them as well

[@justinamusyoka4986]

Women brought up with absent father's got relationship issues.

[@1488life]

Sadly my mother in law fits ALL of these. My poor husband has tried talking her about but she just keeps telling him “I am who I am, if people don’t like it they can “f” off”. Then she wonders why none of her sons want to be around her or why none of us want our children around her…🤦‍♀️

[@cathynykolaishyn8926]

Something else to consider is being rude to waitresses or cashiers or public workers. Not communicating, just being rude. That is having no class.

[@alissagonzales735]

My mother used to say how you dress and act is how a guy sees you and will treat you accordingly. I always got treated with respect on dates.

[@mariakatsande704]

This lady is genuine and beautiful and one can see she truly loves to help

[@janisnewman1832]

I accidentally found your channel and i have been blown away! You have such sound advice but not just for class, but for the correct way to behave in public, according to the rules of your host or hostes, or traditions of the area. The old saying “class cant be bought” is inherently true and exhibited currently in many venues of wealthy and powerful people. Your video is also about likability no one likes men nor women who behave in the negative manner in which you are speaking. I have subscribed and im so grateful you are addressing this in this current world. Thank you

[@thinkmagHQ]

17:50 I’m can’t tell you how refreshing it is to hear a young woman speak about this topic. 🙌🏽

[@juliatripp2010]

Yes, rather than hair, nails, fashion, BBL, etc!!! I enjoyed listening to her! Despite the fact that I have raised myself well. I must work on my spicy use of language, however. Thanks young lady. You are lovely and a pleasure to listen to

[@jarkachalmovianska7812]

Its not about class, but selflove, selfesteem, intelligence. If you have these 3, you are cool classy and on top

[@josephineakah9089]

Mum I am grateful for your teaching on elegance. More grace.

[@Ever_Winning]

I always learn rich English vocabulary in addition to how to be more refined... Thank you for the extra lessons, madam Vivian.

[@Beautyonitsown]

Nice. Like which?

[@nkatekomshwane3872]

Yes ladies sooo true..another one is talking badly about your fellow women..it can make you look inferior, like you lack confidence/class.Great video Vivienne God 🙌 bless

[@realpristine]

Self esteem is soo important 🤎🙌🏾

[@mariannefidel]

I couldn't agree more. It's the foundation of everything isn't it.

[@safiyyahmuhammad3185]

I wished we had enough money to bring you to high schools in the district where I work so you can talk to these young girls!! My goodness!!! We need you!

[@chiarac3833]

Those young girls would benefit from a mentoring program. Self esteem is a learned behaviour.

[@serahloeffelroberts9901]

My friend worked for awhile at a school for at risk teenage girls. She would bring in ladies who in effect taught an old fashioned charm school teaching proper dress, etiquette and grammar. She also brought in ladies who talked about various careers. These classes were very popular.

[@h.o.6037]

I Remarkable lessons👍God will enlarge your coast beyond your wildest dream for the difference you are making 🙏🏼

[@arlenelovelace18]

I greatly appreciate this episode. My husband of 34 yrs left me for his best friends wife (she was also a friend of mine). And your word’s describing such a woman was actually healing for me 💕

[@portiahlatshwayo7675]

Thank you so much for showing up on my search bar😊 Recovering from a year long toxic relationship and in my case, I had betrayed myself; standards beliefs and all. I now remember who I am🙂

[@deborah9384]

there are no mistakes in life. we all learn what makes us stronger ❤️

[@ladyaonthemove]

Videos like this are not for everyone, you don't expect everyone to coddle your emotions and pamper simple truths just because you don't want to be judged for your "lifestyle". She isn't forcing anyone to take her advice. I am pretty sure her content is for women who actually want to turn their lives around and not for those are simply searching for validation from strangers on the internet.

[@mongalix8]

Well said. So many people here wounded by her advice instead of listening to learn and adjust.

[@bernicewise8313]

@@mongalix8 Exactly!

[@aesinam]

I wonder why they even watch her videos. Some of them always have negative comments

[@flo-dd5sw]

Very well stated

[@denisebranchcomb7811]

I enjoyed this video it was very informative and very true on everything in this video still working on improving Self-esteem

[@rocshellsonjon1828]

This is much needed for this generation.

[@stephanieharper6047]

I like her, I will do better to be a lady of elegance in every way. I am not perfect but some of her examples made me see myself

[@monicavelazquez3652]

i love your rawness. We all need a friend like you. Thank you

[@torichill7294]

In short not beating around the bush but straight direct to the point

[@preciousbwembya3852]

I lost it at 'deranged hyena' and immediately laughed like one 😂

[@niese8928]

Me too 😅

[@jewelwanjiru2353]

🤣🤣🤣

[@obiageriakueligwe1996]

Hahaha 😂

[@jalikatujalloh1145]

Me too 😂

[@gratefulgrace8023]

Same reaction here. I'm right there with you, sis! Not a very classy sentence but I'm a work in progress.

[@nashonharris7805]

I must tell you, I love this video, seen watching you approximately five months ago, and I used to use profanity, it made me empty and I dislike myself. Now, I don't allow anyone to speak to me in such manner like that, and I do not talk to anyone like that.I read more to gain knowledge.Thank you, sweetie❤

[@alcudiababe1]

It is one thing to discover you've been seeing a married man rather than chasing a married man. Let me explain, before you got to understand he was with someone in a committed husband and wife relationship he had you believing that you were the one for him. I do believe that's an honest mistake on your part because men do lie or not telling you the full truth but what you do next determines your value.

[@aesinam]

Yes definitely. Doing it knowingly is definitely different from unknowingly

[@chiarac3833]

True, but as soon as you discover he's married, it's over. Otherwise you're a doormat.

[@Shosho-s4f]

You covered all the points, i wish these videos is mandatory in all girls schools around the world so we can stop muscline behaviour and bad manners.

[@Ariel_lionof_God]

This.

[@jolly7728]

Yes, she covered them all; yet, many high value guys would never approach a girl dressed like a fashion model at 10:45. That's because women you look like that appear to be self-centered and focused on appearance and they are intellectually weak -- unable to have an intelligent conversation and most of all incapable of building a life together with a man because doing chores around the house, raising children, and solving problems in a constructive way would be boring to her compared to shopping for new outfits and more and better makeup.

[@ForbsieLaLa]

They used to be. We were taught how to conduct ourselves. To this day I just can't do certain things in public. I hate hearing women just casually swearing like nothing. I have often asked my male friends to go easy on the swearing as what is the point. I know sometimes you need to just emphasize but otherwise

[@Shosho-s4f]

@@jolly7728 value guys would also never approach loud , noisy and crass women plus she mention in the video alot of good points like being nice to people regardless of their social background i don't know why you choose only the fashion point 😀.

[@jolly7728]

@@Shosho-s4f I picked fashion because it's the first thing a man sees when he looks at a girl, and women spend so much time, energy, and money on their appearance to attract men, usually. Any man who likes such stunningly dressed women will likely never be faithful; he'll always be looking for the next "even more stunning fashion model," younger and skinnier, walking down 5th Avenue. And I don’t give guys a pass; they have lots of “issues," too.

[@joanofarcxxi]

We need this. And this should be taught in elementary school. Thank you for being classy.

[@irenefunn4261]

No. This should be taught at home first, then backed up at school.

[@joanofarcxxi]

@@irenefunn4261 I agree with you.

[@flo-dd5sw]

No. At home

[@joanofarcxxi]

@@flo-dd5sw At home is obvious, but realistically, many parents don't teach their children much these days. Do you?

[@wendysimpson134]

I adore your videos and approach to life. The need to develop self-respect and carry oneself appropriately in society can NOT be understated.

[@Solowise1]

As a man, I must say that this is one of the most INSPIRING PIECE I've come across this year. I already forwarded it to a lot of ladies including my woman. Thanks a lot, ma'am for being so explicit on these attributes. Continue to soar high in your career.

[@BrassyBrunette]

I'm 57 yrs old. Married 39 yrs. I decided recently that what is lacking in society right now is INTEGRITY. I try to carry myself the way this lady outlines. I can tell when I encounter older men in public they look my way. Not in a lustful way. But respect and admiration. I can tell they appreciate seeing a woman attempt to model dignity.

[@acajudi100]

Get vasectomies boys, and do not murder your pregnantgirls, stupid enough to get pregnant by you.

[@DJNelson-ky4qd]

I imagine your wife and other ladies were thrilled by your kind gesture.

[@staceymcgowan2238]

Thank you, having teenaged daughters is a challenge, and I can’t emphasize enough the importance of parents, particularly mothers, teaching and modelling to their daughters self respect. Self respect is not limited to the way we speak, but in all the topics you tactfully covered. Also I heartedly agree a man can only wander so far, and quite probably in circles , if there are no women willing to take the bait.

[@tinaf600]

I remember when I was younger and I used to get teased for being classy. It's so sad seeing those same girls all grown up and they're so classless. The way they act, what they post on social media, the men that they date, Etc. I'm so happy I kept my class and I didn't try to be like them. I have a good life where I am respected. One of the reasons my husband said he married me was because I'm classy. He didn't want a disgusting, in all areas of her life, woman. He wanted a classy, traditional godly woman.

[@yuki._loves]

I really look up to you Mrs. C.A.M!! Im still young and dont have a lot of experience but when I read stpries like yours it gives me hope May God bless your and your husband 💓💓

[@tinaf600]

@@yuki._loves aww 💖 thank you. God bless you too and keep Christ at the center of your life.

[@yuki._loves]

@@tinaf600 Amen!! I will do 💓🙏🏾

[@I.DONT.read.notifs.hatefuljerk]

the *boys they date

[@I.DONT.read.notifs.hatefuljerk]

Never mind those kids or immature people. More people, classy and average, traditional and untraditional, will respect that kind of character.

[@christinepadua593]

Thank you for highlighting these points! I’ve been surrounded by some women who believe they have class; yet, display many of these characteristics. This is good Food for Thought.

[@sarahsalter678]

Right!!!!

[@cathypurnell9331]

This is perfect for the young ladies who need guidance in the worst way today. Great job. Please keep this information coming to help people who just don’t have a clue. 🌸

[@danilaroche1156]

The young women today are clueless about elegance, class & modesty.

[@summergirl0480]

Well done classy lady, 👏 we need more ladies like you to teach the young ones!

[@monataz5056]

I feel god has showed me your video To concentrate on myself & selfworth. Thank you darling May god bless you and me Ameen

[@alannathompson2587]

The number of times I had to check my dictionary for some of the words you mentioned 😂😂...+10 to my vocabulary inventory!

[@janetmiller2980]

I would also say dress for the environment you inhabit. I work a job with exposure to potential hazards and one that keeps me on my feet 17:54 quite a bit. Professional dress, for example a skirt, blouse and high heels may not only get ruined, but be uncomfortable, whereas jeans/t shirt or scrubs and sneakers are ideally comfortable. IMO leggings on most jobs look pretty crass, but that changes if the job is something like personal fitness trainer, coaching or teaching something like ballet. Adapting oneself to the particular situation works best.

[@ladyislovely]

I love her content! ❤️ My mother always raised me to be classy. 🎀

[@reenabyroo7757]

Thank you for being a classy elegent lady. Sometimes we need to be reminded what's required of us. Along the way we could lose our beautiful selves. So thank you so much for refreshing our minds & thought.

[@gemmabriggs8139]

You have completely describe a very classy woman . A classy woman don’t chase but attracts attention ..

[@margaretohara7250]

Class shines thriugh no matter what. I have seen many men and women down on their luck because of circumstances beyond control and yet class oozed from every pore. Sometimes young men and women behave in undesirable ways in order to fit in. Just listen to the way many in leadership positions behave.. Basic manners are non-existent. We truly live in different times and need great strength to not go with the flow so to speak. Children are so involved with technology now - how do they learn how to communicate properly. I don't have answers - only hope respect, etc for each other survive. We need civility in all walks of life. Thank you for reminding society.

[@fswfromthegroundup1848]

I'm following as I truly want to see AA women rising in this area. I'm glad to see you are starting this needed revolution.

[@lidiadegouveia7677]

This is an amazing video, thanks for your input on a very important way of living, all the best.

[@margaretohara7250]

Just came upon your video and it is very interesting and educational. From my experience in life, you either have or don't have class. I have met many people in life who were shabily dressed, not groomed very well, etc and many people were the "essence of class". Many such people were homeless on the street and because of illness or some misfortune, they ended up homeless but his(her) class remained intact. Yes, appearance is important in society but scammers and con artists know how to present themselves also. I only comment when I feel it is necessary. My message is "don't be fooled by a cover". Treating all people with respect is class. Blessings.

[@successbassey6675]

Thank you ma'am for this amazing video. I will definitely apply these things. Keep it coming!

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

What a great video! Full of TRUTH. Thank you for telling it JUST LIKE IT IS!

[@itsinesantonio]

Yes!

[@Vicky-lv8xb]

This is such wonderful advice for women who care about how they are perceived. This video should be shown in all schools.

[@patriciaking4605]

Love! I would say this important lecture for we women!! from this exquisite woman. I applaud you.Sadly the trend are changing where some women of today are concerned .learn from this!!! ladies.Well delivered ,thumbs 👍 👍and I salute 👏you

[@StayAtHomeMeme]

This is beautiful. I wish I had had someone like you in my life when I was young. I was far too old before I learned some of these lessons because I had no good role models to teach me some of these things. I’m very lucky to have found a wonderful man and have grown a lovely family in spite of those flaws. But I love that people have platforms these days to provide young woman with this guidance. Very needed and Truly beautiful.

[@victoriaodili-akpom4019]

💯 % well done, I am sending this to my young daughters ❤️

[@tomikamedearis6641]

This message was a true treasure. Thank you very much for your time, knowledge and love.

[@Daisy_518]

I respect you for your views on the first point. You've been very straightforward in describing all the aspects of that scenario. I'm glad that I follow your advice.

[@johnangel5041]

You're the first sensible woman after my mom that I have come across all my life, this isn't a joke, I am saying the truth! Thank you so much for being bold to say this.

[@debrawilhelm773]

This is a great video! I liked how firm you are throughout this video especially the very first aspect about married men.

[@rikdupthma3208]

Awesome 👍👏👏👏I really appreciated your opinions on this issues. You have done a wonderful job sharing such views and ideas which are absolutely helpful to upgrade and uplift women. Thanks dear😍

[@Dean56Bell]

Thanks for this video! This should be taught in high school!

[@blessedchildforever206]

From kindergarden

[@orchidtreasure1484]

Seven seconds in, and this lady exudes more class than most people I know

[@californiasgauld9442]

Thank you so much for this...lots to think about and apply. God bless you!

[@deborahpacheco2799]

Young lady, all you have stated here is so refreshing. Thank you so much.

[@shaunahill516]

D best thing is too b yourself.... It obvious when we can see a false one... B yourself and hv a good ❤️ is more important.....

[@gertrudemensah2607]

This is a very good video very educative. You know most of the young ladies are out there on the social network platform thinking body exposure to the masses actually makes them classy which is not. If any of us is being truthful here they often don’t get men to settle down with and it’s very disheartening. And for the boasting on media platforms most of them don’t even have what they display and resort therefore to renting the items stressing themselves for nothing. You are really a genius thanks 😊.

[@roseberlinejuste8368]

I’m grateful for you my dear, great n very informative video.

[@gladysebaye4106]

Being classy First begins in your mind. You have to beLIeVE it then LIVE it.

[@gabrielledesouter2804]

WoW 🤩 thank you 🙏🏾 my princess l just discovered your blog and I’m in ! You are a true princess 👸 your mom raised you well and thank you again for sharing your wisdom! I’m a 60 years old glam - mom and l approve everything you said! God bless love ❤️ and peace from California!

[@Chelafemme]

It's sad these obvious principles need a video. But, I hope it helps those who need the guidance.

[@ange6alexandra527]

My aunt once told me that first impression is very indelible, so you dress the way you want to be addressed, totally agree with that.

[@marylynvictoriamackay1206]

Ooo Viv Thank you so much I am happy I met you through the channel, People usually make these things like it's normal, listening to your videos I feel we still have truthful and classy women around 🥰

[@jeanniejones8777]

This is excellent! I have a passion to teach and remind women of what makes us special. Behaving in a manner that diminishes your value is what creates a atmosphere of self disrespect. A majority of those in power tempt women into low self esteem mindsets inorder to manipulate us into a cycle that routinely adds to their financial bottom line. Being reminded of the basics of what having class means and making this a priority creates a game changing shift in respect for self and others. Thank you again for this informative and powerful post✨

[@judynorris8239]

I want my granddaughters to see this. They are wonderful girls and I want them to stay that way.

[@barbaraboom5377]

Merry Christmas!. May there be lots good things and love in your life next year. Thanks very much for your inspiration on youtube ❤

[@albertinachikonde2802]

Thank you 🤗 no addition and no substraction 💯

[@aniettetanwee2112]

Thank you for this video Vivianne...It is so fruitful

[@bros7502]

Thank you very much, Vivienne! I learned a lot from your video and you spoke so well about the importance of self presentation. I totally agree with everything you shared. I am a new subscriber watching from California, USA.

[@dr_estee]

Lately your posts are themed in very critical ways and always trying to point out what’s wrong. A little more of “this is how” would be encouraging. Positive energy. Sending light and love your way

[@sunshinem.3094]

I concur.

[@opalbeach9626]

This sounds a bit condescending. If the world was full of well dress classy ladies, who would clean my house

[@flo-dd5sw]

Truth always sounds negative to those who LACK positive behavior. You may just feel that way because a Higher Power is convicting you. It doesn't matter. Wrong is wrong. Stop watching if you feel that way. Lately, she's showing growth, not negativity.

[@dr_estee]

@@flo-dd5sw You know nothing about me to assume that dear. It’s NOT positive behavior to jump into conclusions about someone you know nothing about. Wrong is wrong, I agree, but you don’t influence people positively by constantly calling out every wrong they do. Simply teach “how to”. That’s a more positive approach. Also, next time, I suggest you read comments with less emotions and more logic before you reply. Bless your heart.

[@gentlenessandkindness2160]

@@opalbeach9626 A classy Amish young lady. I was impressed.

[@curli-lettey4319]

I truly appreciate this video its is a very good reminder of traditional & primary examples of class instead of the disturbing stuff being displayed (social media, public, and music videos, tick-tock) as the way of having class.

[@jamedee4146]

Bravo 👏🏿👏🏾👏🏿👏🏾 Wonderful video. Thank you for taking the time to review this subject matter. Many women in various age groups will benefit from your words. Viewers please share this video with a note to watch and share with everyone - male and female. It's a duty to teach others that don't have anyone who can teach them these valuable principles. Please remember to lead by example and help the generations of parents that did not have parents themselves.