"Women Are Finally Waking Up" - Brett Cooper

Chris and Brett Cooper discuss the opinion on Motherhood among Gen Z. Do Gen Z women still believe motherhood is important according to Brett Cooper? What does Brett Cooper believe is the saving grace for Gen Z women? What is the issue with criticizing culture war issues online according to Brett Cooper?
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[@ChrisWillx]

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[@edgar9651]

Thanks for the info. I like to see it all in one go, and not in little parts. And I can wait a few days for that.

[@jacksparrow9227]

But freezing your eggs very rarely works

[@bennie5983]

i have seen a change in woman, some are no longer girl bosses but they aren't trad woman. They just want the man to fund their lifestyle of shopping and nails so they don't work.

[@My1es]

It's almost like capitalism is the problem

[@whosthathun]

And similarly men expect women to work full time whilst looking after the children, cooking the meals, cleaning the house, making themselves presentable and keeping themselves healthy whilst they literally do nothing outside of work to contribute to the family....

[@bennie5983]

@@whosthathun who are these men? most men I know, not only want to help but do help. These men not only help cook and clean but do traditionally male jobs like mowing the lawn and fixing house problems. Also, these guys help raise the kids because a positive, masculine role model is essential for the development of upstanding men and women. If you are basing men off what you see on the internet to have some real problems.

[@jongreen9171]

A Gen Z girl i know always quotes "gaslight, gatekeep, girl boss" I don't know if she believes it or not. To me is that not a good idea. P.s. 10 years ago gaslighting was how you started the barbecue.

[@CHKarl]

Women given everything they ever wanted at the expense of men, women most affected.

[@Piotrek9222]

"Oh no, I was clubbing for 10 years straight and swiped more on tinder than all other apps combined and now when matches and my ovaries dried down I came to conclusion that I was lied to! Why our culture lied to me?!" All privileges no accountability as usual. Maybe woman finaly need to woman up?

[@anthonylodico8449]

It’s not just women. Politicians took all of us out

[@liquidsnakex]

@@anthonylodico8449 And who tends to vote for politicians to have control over everything in the first place...

[@anthonylodico8449]

@@liquidsnakex I’m sorry, I don’t even remember what I said in comments.

[@rezasoltani2877]

Yup! “We been lied to” as if you are a victim again.. lies get told everyday, they took the bait. At some point need to take accountability.

[@TimBitts649]

So, feminism says traditional gender roles are obsolete? So if war comes against Russia, can we draft women?

[@shannon6876]

Russia already has women (convicts) going to the front lines. They just used up most of the men first.

[@julietteshakesman7637]

Sure, if men start giving birth as well. Can you give birth?

[@BIGPIPIN228]

Конечно если женщины начнут оплодотворять. Можно ли оплодотворить?​@@julietteshakesman7637

[@BIGPIPIN228]

​@@julietteshakesman7637Конечно, если женщины начнут оплодотворять. Можно ли оплодотворить?

[@TimBitts649]

@@julietteshakesman7637 That would be nice. If women had enuf kids. To keep our way of life going. But they're not. So no reason for men to do their role.

[@AccidentlyHero]

I recommend reading the book, ‘The Manipulated Man’ by Esther Vilar before championing women who are suddenly becoming outspoken about traditionalism and nuclear families, especially now that boys and men are checking out of the broader society, the economy is in decline and the benefits of feminist ideology are waning.

[@MrMark595]

This is nonsense. You need to grow up.

[@AccidentlyHero]

@@MrMark595 If you’re not a scholar or an academic of any kind, I wouldn’t expect you to know what’s been occurring since the 40’s, let alone be all that interested anyway. Run along and read a Dr. Seuss book and stay out of intellectual’s business.

[@thehousewifehomelife5519]

I know so many other millennial women who, despite the stats, entered our 30s with a husband and kids and a home. I’m a very proud homemaker and mother of 3. I got a B.s. from a top 10 school and had a promising “career” ahead of me had I not woken up and met my husband at 22 and realized that what I truly wanted was NOT something to repress or be ashamed of. I had to shake off the sunk cost fallacy that just because I had a degree didn’t mean I had to pursue a life I didn’t want. I wish other women would realize that their natural urge to fall in love and nurture a family was not wrong or regressive - it’s primal 🥰

[@milo_thatch_incarnate]

Completely agree! I'm another young woman who isn't afraid to say that having a family and making my husband happy _makes me happier_ than a career would. AND I believe it's a far more important mission than any career I can think of. The world needs to be repopulated by free-thinking, healthy, securely attached people from women like us!

[@woodsghost9088]

You sound like my wife, another wonderful woman! And children are not in the home forever. Women can sell their labor at that time. Or if my wife wants to continue being awesome in the house, I'll support that too.

[@frankrizzo5262]

So are we asking the bottom 95 % of men to give a shit.

[@brianz7861]

Lol Everything is viewed through the lens of, how is this affecting women and what can men do to be more malleable to women. As usual.

[@LumenMichaelOne]

Who is it that grades the species of human male gender, that determines which among them sinks to "the bottom 95 % of men?" The top 5%? And who is it that determines who the top 5%? ... please ... 😺

[@benb6527]

Imagine saying the same about the “bottom 95% of women.” Maybe they should treat men like they are minimally worthy.

[@MeatVessel]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@benb6527 I don’t agree with the random percentages but most men are treated like they are minimally worthy by women. There are a lot of guys that have been treated like absolute dog 💩 which is why there is a pushback.

[@TheEgyptian99]

@@LumenMichaelOne your genes and the circle around you that is why they are only the top 10% anybody else just everyday regular guy replaceable

[@jimoconnor4766]

We’ve been shitting on men for a generation, why are they mean to women when they realize that friendzoning hasn’t been a good plan? That isn’t helpful!

[@jimoconnor4766]

Mind you, I’m almost 60 and just celebrated my 39th anniversary. I’m just sad for the younger generations.

[@TerMitesMatter]

As if high quality, responsible, successful men care at all. Those men have grinded for almost two decades and they will not settle for a ran through, post wall girl boss. There's a vast majority of average women that also aims for the top 1% of men and end up alone in their late 30's and 40's.

[@SamusErin]

I hope in the full interview, there's a distinction made between the "girl boss" and a woman with a career/job because we exist in a financial reality. They're not the same and often in these culture discussions, the stereotypes are blurred.

[@GJones247]

Agreed. But there is a caveat, you should be looking for a mate appropriately not just swiping and fun. There are pros and cons to every situation. Working is definitely a way of life, but marriage and children taking actual real effort.

[@UnofficialLesTwins]

@@GJones247 You said a whole bunch of nothing.

[@jonsnowight9510]

​@UnofficialLesTwins And yet you still managed to say even less. Bravo.

[@sthubbins4038]

No, there isn’t. The Right is very clear that they feel that women should not be working (or voting). It’s about control, and a woman with a job is much harder to control.

[@MeatVessel]

Girl Boss: I want to be a CEO Woman with a career: I want a family

[@joao-joao]

Egg freezing doesn't guarantee anything! Some woman have already come out cautioning other women to the fact that when you really want to use the eggs all the suddenly things are more complicated than when they sell the service initially and in many cases it doesn't work. And is usually very expensive.

[@jimluebke3869]

I think that egg freezing is more often a way of eugenicists to move forward with some pretty dark plans.

[@jimluebke3869]

Ha, KZbin (and Google) don't like the fact that the women they employ who freeze their eggs have a higher chance to have contributed to future eugenics experiments, than to ever become mothers.

[@krumbergify]

Agree. @Cleo Abram made a great video about this.

[@savioblanc]

Yeah, there was the story of the woman who was the face of the egg freezing movement, who ended up with zero eggs and zero kids, after all her eggs either were too crap to be used and the few that did survive, the embryos ended up with miscarriages.

[@whenpigsfly8178]

The seeds decline faster than the field, but the field also declines. The real solution is to focus on family in your youth, then when children are closer to adulthood, start up a woman's career, but the current way of things is to act like a man and sow your wild oats and think that your career is a selling point to your future partner. You can have most things, just not all at once or in the wrong order.

[@tone3560]

I still don't understand the fetish of labeling people based off one of their views as being on the left, right or conservative. Its disingenuous of the authenticity of their individualism and everyone has slightly different viewpoints even within the same political party. Its just ignorant to me.

[@edelkebap]

Categorizing people, traits or things was and is an essential trait for human thriving. You do it, I do it, everyone does it. Yes every person has a slightly different viewpoint, nevertheless, you can and actually have to categorize people. Otherwise politics in itself won't work. Politicians cannot make different laws for every individual. They have to group millions of people together and try to make the law as individual without being practical. I hope this makes sense.

[@augustoliver2779]

Businesses find it easier to operate when individuals and entities clearly identify and label themselves.

[@Valejandrom]

If you want to discuss a demographic, you have to label it. What is this obsession lately of "don't label me!" That's how our minds operate. It's a function to help us think. Get over it already.

[@Anexoticadventure]

@@edelkebap Not everyone does it - those considered "neurodivergent", in particular, commonly do the opposite. [I'm expecting misunderstanding here, so to be clear, I'm using the term as a descriptor to facilitate understanding of my point, not as a way to judge a group of people based on a narrowly-defined set of traits.]

[@daniel_brqlo]

That's how most people are though unfortunately. Usually you can tell a person's opinions on various subjects based on a single other subject.

[@brianz7861]

It’s great that some women are waking up and changing course, good on them. But for the majority of men who have been rejected like this, their entire lives, they’re flat out not interested anymore that ship is sailed. All of these girl bosses are gonna have to sleep in the beds they made by themselves.

[@mshaman86]

Who cares? Life moves on.

[@EwelinaRobaczek]

lol, as a girl boss I love my bed with amazing partner by my side.

[@rajpatel8988]

@@EwelinaRobaczek exception dont make the rule. he wasnt talking about you. ffs everychick ever

[@EwelinaRobaczek]

@@tomcoop9750 combative and controlling? Since when was ‘girl boss’ about that?

[@EwelinaRobaczek]

@@rajpatel8988 no, the person in this podcast is. This is why I think the title of this episode is dumb: it generalizes 4b people based on the opinion of one.

[@user-tz9io1ll8p]

The only reason they are having second thoughts, is they are looking around the room and realizing its getting empty the party is almost over. Most still have no sympathy or empathy for all guys they treated like dirt on there shoe while they were living it up. Now that thier fun is coming to end, the bottom 80/90% of men are supposed to just welcome them back with open arms. Women can be a great gift in life or a nightmare. For most guys especially now, the lader is the case so dont be surprised when most men say "NAH IM GOOD"

[@Christopher-Ali-Abdul-Mutalibt]

Yeah, they're getting booted out of the harems one by one now...."it's time to find a provider man now!"😂😂😂😂😂

[@philipwhitcomb5358]

But that's the exact problem there, girl bosses suddenly realizing it's not all it's cracked up to be only to run crying back to society and looking for sympathy after deliberately ignoring and downsizing men's roles in women's lives. The better question is, why wouldn't people immediately laugh at them; otherwise, where is the accountability for their actions? Do we just accept that they've 'changed' all of a sudden after a single breakdown video at the realization they'll likely fulfill the future role of the dreaded cat lady in their eyes? It seems to me to be more of a cliffhanger situation where they nearly fell off the deep end into the girl boss realm but are desperately holding by a few fingers onto the cliff's edge where on it lies the hope they could have a nuclear family except there is one big problem with this too. It sounds like they're unwilling to enter into the traditional housewife role so I believe it presents less incentive to the men they're interested in since the former girl bosses likely only have their jobs as their main appeal for dating, which these guys don't care about since these men already make enough money on their own and have qualities of their own that makes them attractive, outside of their workplace. It, ironically, is part of what makes the woman interested in the man too, stability.

[@beetalius]

The women who are 31 and single have ignored everything. The men in their life have told them. Because they are right and either men don’t think the way they think or they are wrong if they think the way they think. So what you’re seeing is women who have their entire lives, ignored the input thoughts, perceptions, and feelings of men because their girl bosses running up against the reality that as it turns out men’s opinions, thoughts and feelings matter. That’s why you see the reaction that you see. They were not simply mistaken or uninformed. They were actively rejectinginput from men. And now they’re getting the consequences.

[@Al-xq4ec]

Plus who wants to ride a village bicycle.

[@bubandit06]

Oh the fierce rejection of anything which can be considered "advice" from men is wild. Some unfortunate married men now have wives who will do anything but listen to their husbands. And those same husbands are expected to pick up the emotional support and sometimes the financial fallout of being ignored.

[@domferretti]

lol no, they are not. They are doubling down if anything.

[@algorithmcore]

I'm tired of this woman talking about "women working for the man" when she WORKS for DAILY WIRE.

[@swedishpagan2150]

Triggered much?

[@notloki3377]

mmm leftist tears

[@chrisdavis8399]

So who is this young lady and what are her qualifications?

[@meds888ful]

@@chrisdavis8399 Jewish

[@bettedavis45]

No Chris, freezing your egfs is a terrible gift. It is a painful procedure that can cause future infertility and has a higher rate of female cancers

[@charlieweaver6322]

Yeah, I don't see why a 21 year old woman would freeze her eggs. She has plenty of time to find a mate and have babies at that age.

[@davidr9589]

​@charlieweaver6322 not when she's told to work a career until 40, then worry about marriage and kids..at that point it's a bit too late.

[@charlieweaver6322]

@@davidr9589 She still has plenty of time when she's told that. She just needs to ignore the stupid advice.

[@simfimpim]

Some women choose to freeze their eggs because they had cancer and had to have their ovaries removed.

[@BringBackClassAndMaturity]

@@simfimpimThat's not the context of this thread. We didn't need this comment. We know there are exceptions.

[@MilaDiamond]

I don’t believe it’s either left or right. I also don’t believe in policing women’s choices. It’s not “one fits all”. I believe that everyone should have a choice to live life according to their individual preferences. I love my business and I love my child, who’s grown up now. To each his/her own ✌️

[@nether-winter1814]

To preface, I am a married woman with a loving husband. This lady described a job as working for “the man”. Seems she uses girlboss and misandrist language when it suits her argument. Some people need a paycheck, or they are lucky enough to pursue their passion through their job. Some women want to be able to keep their careers either because they need it for money or they love it. And that’s a valid concern for anyone. Some women don’t want to be mothers and that’s fine. Don’t let these influencers villainise people they simply don’t agree with or understand. They don’t represent most people. In societies where women are discouraged from pursuing their careers, and encouraged to pursue being wives and mothers, there is a lack of education for girls that follows after that. because it’s not a priority and because of that women grow up to having little to no autonomy. There is physical, sexual, emotional and financial abuse in these marriages. And because it’s so tough being a single mother or a divorced woman, most women just power through the torment. Don’t believe me? visit any country outside of the West in the present day that does not have feminism. These influencers paint a fantasy of traditional gender norms that rarely exists in the world. They act like this is a new idea, but it has been done before and it’s still happening in most of the globe. From my experience, and I’ve also lived in these countries, these ideas that western influencers are pushing are failing a lot of women right now.

[@pixotass]

You're also Painting a fantasy!

[@TheAbnormalAverage-nz3fh]

Dunno what county you lived in but I'm from Nigeria. We have women who have successful careers and prioritize motherhood. All the women I know have a job. One of my female friends is an engineer. We also don't have a massive and growing wave of depression and mental health issues. Apart from the islamic North, our women aren't chained up, or stopped from working in any family I know

[@user-it3yf1et4p]

finally thank u madam for raising these influencers hypocracy, i see in most of comment section men and women are supporting her and the host, but i believ they cant see through their hypocracy, if not for feminism which she really like to bash everyday, would she ba able to get a job , would she emancipated herself from the relationship of both her parents and would she be talking here with a guy all smiling and crackling jokes, by traditional rules of patriarchy she wouldn't be allowed to even gaze at other men

[@Charlotte_Martel]

Have rates of depression increased or decreased with the adoption of feminism by the general public in the US/UK? Yep, that's really all that we need to know.

[@user-it3yf1et4p]

@@Charlotte_Martel what do u think then? have rates increased or decreased?

[@julianblake8385]

Gen Z women believe whatever instagram or tik tok tell them to believe. If it is hype and popular, it is true for them. They have no spine, nor criteria. Just selfies and trends.

[@My1es]

And people here will believe any article discussing a flawed Evo science "discovery" about women / men that suits their narrative.

[@patraic5241]

It turns out that freezing ova has a shelf life. The longer it's frozen the less likely it is to be viable. My sister and her husband had serious trouble conceiving normally. They had to go the in vetro fertilization route. Out of more than twenty attempts one, Just One, was viable and implanted. And this wasn't even a case of years in storage. It was Months. I don't have much hope for ova stored a decade or more.

[@Charlotte_Martel]

Thank you for sharing that. The media, academia, and corporations are desperately trying to sell this to young women as the solution to all of their problems, but from most accounts, it seems like a cruel joke. Glad that it worked out for your sister.

[@moano3271]

no, they are not.

[@Nickofriar]

The genesis root cause to most of these issues more specifically single childless women nowadays... is the lack of a strong father figures in many women's lives growing up. Mix that in with social media, school academia indoctrination, and other anti men movements over the past 50 years. Many societal issues start with the absence of strong men and strong fathers. Until then... we'll continue to see the decay of society, especially single/childless women making the wrong choices for themselves biologically speaking

[@car_convos]

Women SAY that marriage and kids are important. It is often not what happens today, and if it does, it ends in a divorce.

[@SJ-ru4ej]

Men do the same and then run out on their responsibilities/have affairs. Both sides make bad choices.

[@car_convos]

@@SJ-ru4ej I agree, BUT there is more of a societal incentive for women to run out on their responsibilities. Anecdotal evidence shows that most women end relationships and not the other way around. I am NOT saying men do not end relationships, just that women do more.

[@user-it3yf1et4p]

@@car_convos would u be willing to be in a relationship with a cheater? or a person who emotionally abuses u? see men have the larger choices because they have the both physical and finacial power , thats why in most cases some go unreported because ther is a stake in wmen;s survival more than the marriage herslef, and even if a man divorces he can marry again and earn money, by the i am not at all support women who uses these laws advantages to explot men , i am tellingthe other side of the coin as well, just go to middle eastern countries and see the women condition there and the suffocating rules they are forced to follow, and by the way the are suffocating for men as well

[@paulofurtado4925]

Girlboss its too much work, now they are trying to make men their servants again.

[@rexstevenson3239]

Economy kicking their ass

[@etoineschrdlu9382]

Having witnessed the changes from 1950's trad wife culture to today's woke culture, I have to say that there's no going back. The events that caused these societal changes cannot be undone. The advent of Feminism, the civil rights movement, birth control, and the economic changes due to a global economy have put us in a position where it is now a luxury for women to stay home and raise children. (Please note that I'm not making a value judgement about this: they are what they are) In far too many cases the wife has to work in order to economically sustain their family; unless a husband is making that 6-figure salary he'll barely be able to support their family if they make the stay-at-home-mom choice. I keep thinking that there must be some middle ground between the "Trad Wife" and "Boss Woman" that allows everyone at least an equitable chance at a fulfilling life. As it stands now, women seem to be more often than not, miserable even when nominally 'getting what they want" and men only seem to approach happiness when they avoid women and the problems associated with them.

[@cellshaded]

You are wrong but only because you need to add something to your first sentence. "... there's no going back right now.". We won't see the turn around, it will be a generational change, a story of cautionary tale. The effects of the current mistakes need to materialise fully, for them to be curbed afterwards. There is no such thing as real-time change. It's slow and over time. Population will decline as per the forecasts, then the world will become better gain, before another boom. This is a 100 year prognosis.

[@sterlingdennett]

One possible solution is to go back to extended families living together, where several of them can work, and bring in income, and you can have multiple family members to help watch the kids, clean the house, etc. In order to make this work, we will have to work MUCH HARDER than we currently do, on interpersonal skills like communication, and conflict resolution.

[@sad_wrangler8515]

@@cellshaded There is no going back and it will never be better. That's what Žižek and Yuri Bezmenov foresaw perfectly. Research shows that by 2030, at least 50% of the population will be alone and childless, according to Pew Research. This means a drop in birth rates. We live in most Western states in a system where the entire tax system relies on labor, consumption, and a growing population. The entire pension system depends on it, which means infrastructure, healthcare, and benefits will crumble to zero. Artificial intelligence will eventually make human labor worthless, which means we face either widespread poverty or a classless society, translating to a Darwinian dead end. All of the former Soviet states are demographic dead ends even faster than other states. Ukraine, Eastern Germany (German Democratic Republic), Romania, and Bulgaria were/are already economically and demographically dead; they have lost millions of natives.

[@savioblanc]

The mistake a lot of men make is they think the trad wife of the 50s was always the norm throughout history. It absolutely was not. The 1950s were an anomaly in human history. America was the sole global superpower standing after the horrific WW2 had devastated every economy, except it's own. One man's income could support an entire family, which allowed his wife to stay home and raise the children. But if you look at history, men and women were always working outside the home for most of history to support their families. Women were merely working in smaller roles but they were working. Even in the 1950s, the "trad wife" that stayed home and tended to the kids only did so for around a 10-15 yr period. Once the kids were grown up, most went back into the workforce or tried to get back in. Other women, who weren't middle class or upper middle class, were working women even in the 1950s. Those middle class women who stayed home had maids. Those maids came from poorer white families or black families seeking employment.

[@RobotTanuki]

​​@@savioblancI want to add too that before the 1950s "trad wife", women work but in the homes, making their own economic value. Textiles, crafts, food, etc. Those all disappeared with the industrial revolution, so the only choice for the women are to work for factories outside of home. 1950s "trad wife" was indeed the minority of the global population for a very short time. "Real" trad wifes are the ones going out putting all the cabbages onto the carts and dragging them to the market. Listen to another interview video in this channel whose name escapes me. Edit: It's Mary Harrington.

[@beetalius]

women making those self-serving videos haven’t woken up to the truth, they still believe the lie but it’s not working for them. That’s why they are criticized. Not because they have recognized the error of their ways.

[@kickinghorse2405]

In the first sentence, "W" in "women" should be capitalized (as with any first letter of the first word beginning a new sentence). There should be a period at the end of a sentence ending in the word "truth," with the word "They" beginning a newly-formed, subsequent sentence. There might best be a comma preceeding the word "but" (e.g., "... the lie, but...") It can be easy to avoid a run-on sentence (as exemplified by the run-on sentence beginning with the word "Not"). In this case, one may simply replace the preceding period with a semicolon (and then change the "N" to a lower-case "n" to begin the word "not." Or, add a coordinating conjuction (for example, "but," or "and"). However, in this instance, one might make the case that to employ a semicolon would arguably make for the most coherent sentence. Cheers!

[@paulwilson3057]

Christ almighty, you found the grammar super-trooper.

[@Interdacted]

Being a leader is better than being a boss. Bosses let their team take the losses, leaders push their team to success.

[@AlexanderHL1919]

4:20 nah. They played stupid games. Now they can enjoy the stupid prizes. You dont get sympathy after decades of vitriol. People who keep getting unearned second chances never reform, never change. You gotta do more than just "whoopsie, this didnt work out the way I thought it would. Someone come rescue me now. I'm ready to settle". You cant spend decades dismissing the men who want you only to then turn around and ask for second chances from the very same men you never gave a chance to. Why should men pay for your mistakes? Why should men lose twice in this equation? They lose the first time around when they're not given a chance and then lose again when they're expected to pick up the pieces for disillusioned feminists in their 30s. How is that fair? How is that supposed to make sense? So men have to be better twice? Is that the feminist argument in the end?

[@Christopher-Ali-Abdul-Mutalibt]

This was their strategy all along. To 'settle don't once they got tired of chads harems. But, of course, it's always Chad that boots em out at the wall and not the other way around.

[@KentoLeoDragon]

Anyone else think Brett Cooper and Ben Shapiro are twins?

[@brianz7861]

Brett Cooper is the male equivalent of Ben Shapiro. This is why he hired her. Very weird. But these Jouz, well you know.

[@brianz7861]

@@kamkilo they probably go to Shabbat together they’re cousins

[@stax8778]

Everyone is thinking this 😂

[@TheStoneyJackson]

Literally been a meme for years bud

[@pp-bb6jj]

No.

[@jeffsmith2283]

Don't fall for it men. It's not the women that need to change it's the family courts. Alimony is ridicules 60 years after the equalities acts. Un-audited child support that she doesn't have to prove is being spent on the child is criminal, lack of 50/50 custody and false DV claims to get block you from your kids is obscene.

[@user-ug1eo4xb7z]

I've a suspicion the the whole "your career is the most important thing in your life" thing, is corporate world hijacking the women's rights movement. Sure it's great to have career that pays well, but above life in general, I don't think so.

[@eugenefleming1614]

I dated a beautiful strong woman and it didn't work because she couldn't turn off being hyper competitive with everyone, she wanted an placeholder not a Man

[@Joelconway34]

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[@KuramaUchiha-id1ow]

Hello, how do you achieve such weekly returns? As a single parent i haven’t been able to get my own house due to financial struggles, but my faith in God remains strong.

[@Joelconway34]

Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.

[@Joelconway34]

I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

[@amalmberg13]

This is a definition of God's unending provisions for his people. God remains faithful to his words. I receive this for my household.🙏

[@McCarthy8]

Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.

[@dovakeen1179]

I disagree with egg freezing. It's a false security. Watch women reactions when they find that all thier frozen eggs are unusable. Its heartbreaking. Find someone when your young and invest in them. Or you will end up the spinster.

[@Workingman22]

In my experience especially my most recent relationship that I've ended due to her girl boss bullshit I'd say it's actually getting worse and the ones you see online "pushing back" are full of shit and are only doing so to try to finally get a man. 😂

[@JasonBrown-zp8tx]

agreed sir. it's ONLY 30+ women who can't make tender hookups anymore trying to have a last minute child

[@JasonBrown-zp8tx]

@ChrissWiIIx that's fine sir. Your show's great. I'm a lot more jaded and angry than you and your guests. Thank you for being patient with me. I'll save my comments for the angry men shows, that's really where i belong anyway. But, I'll keep watching and sincerely good luck :)

[@cantonold7014]

no. they are hitting the wall.

[@jimluebke3869]

A little of column A, a little of column B. This will only get solved when enough women who have hit the wall, express regret instead of doubling down.

[@cantonold7014]

@@jimluebke3869 no. They are hitting the wall, and thus realizing that 30-80 is a long time alone.

[@SJ-ru4ej]

Go outside more. People get married over 30 all the time.

[@cantonold7014]

@@SJ-ru4ej grow up child.

[@TimBitts649]

Life is a series of choices..said Thomas Sowell, in great wisdom. With the good, may come bad. Feminism teaches there are no tradeoffs in life, women can have it all....no tradeoffs required. That's a very harmful lie we tell women. Men can't have it all, either.

[@mljrotag6343]

100% correct.

[@georgiekeanpt]

I don’t think I see or hear many people feeling comfortable talking about the “Girl Boss” movement being partly because they don’t trust men’s ability to provide for the whole family and to stay around so they feel they need to be able to do it alone.

[@Rootz2000]

Ben really been working on himself. Keep it up champ.

[@Rootz2000]

@ChrisWilIx1 I feel like you're having a stroke.

[@tony-silver]

WHAT A SPECIAL GUEST! 👏

[@jamesbobbski2269]

Ben Shapiro cleans up good.

[@blueboytv9191]

Chris what you dont realise is that if you told those thirty year old women back in their twenties that they should focus on motherhood, they would call you a misogynist and sexist. Not to mention who in their right mind cries in their car and records it for tiktok? If you want to help women, stop pandering to them because your feel uncomfortable with their discomfort.

[@user-it3yf1et4p]

if some one is preaching traditional values he should be part of it first, he is 36 he says he is unbearable thats why he didnt marry , does he not want to enjoy fatherhood with children then ? why forcing it out on opposite gender .

[@charcW8850]

I’m 36, only ever slept with one man, never traveled the world, I’m literally pregnant with my 6th child haha the world makes so much fun of women like me and I don’t care, I love my life I love my husband, i am so happy, and my kids are incredible. I love that I can stay home with them right now. I have a degree that I haven’t used yet but I have no regrets on missing out on anything. No matter what you choose you sacrifice EVERYTHING else. You can only do so much and this is what I wanted to do. Not to say there’s only one right way or that life works out for everyone but I can definitely I have no regrets and at the end of my life I will not wish I did it different.

[@akichler]

The problem is that women have been sold the Idea that having a career and a good job is a way to a great life. And nothing can be further from the truth, the way to a good life is a good mental attitude and being happy with what you have. I am 60 years old now, worked all my life building a career trying to get rich. I probably will live another 20 years and for the last 10 to 15 years nobody has cared what kind of job I have had and for the next 20 years absolutely nobody is going to care what I did for a living. So that's 45 years of working and 20 years of retirement and There will be no At-a-boy, no reward, no accolades of any kind and I never had a family. I worked hard and I put it off and put it off and now it is to late. So I will go the distance by myself with no family and it turns out that family is the only thing that really matters not your job.

[@v9b23j]

Empathy to you... 🥺many successful people say they aren't happy because they regret not spending enough time with their family.

[@Charlotte_Martel]

You seem to have such a good heart and good priorities. Don't give up on having a family! You could easily meet a younger woman and still have children if you focus on that.

[@xrtxrsm05]

Bro, there is a human on the other side of it, yes, but vast majority of them if you ask “ are you willing to lower your unrealistic standards” they will say no. So they will continue being stubborn.

[@Espressokid]

The part when Chris mentions the frozen eggs topic, anyone else having the explanatory part of Idiocracy coming to their mind where the intelligent couple says, "oh, we decided to wait 'cause it's not the right moment now for kids"? ^^ And to me it's funny how Brett tries to avoid to admit that this is just her interpretation based on what is articulated mainly within her US-conservative bubble after Chris said that he's fed up with this "Lagerdenken". I like her bc she's in comparison to her leftist liberals counterparts smart not to act clumsy while trying to make her points.

[@ryan_454]

Chris has some genuinely important and wise insights after all these conversations.

[@Aimee1591]

Can we get Chris & Brett to host the conservative version of Love Island where they do old school dating showing young women and men that old school love/dating 😅

[@v9b23j]

Feminism benefits the economy, but potentially at the expense of women. Some argue it's a smokescreen encouraging women to prioritize career advancement over marriage and motherhood. A 2019 Morgan Stanley study called The Rise of the SHEconomy found that women contribute about $7 trillion annually to the U.S. GDP and are the main shoppers in 72% of households. They also earn bachelor’s degrees at higher rates than men and represent nearly 30% of primary breadwinners in married households. Retail Analyst Lauren Cassel notes that women's growing financial influence has changed spending habits, particularly as SINGLE WOMEN TEND TO OUTSPEND THE AVERAGE HOUSEHOLD. Also, some corporations provide female employees financial support for freezing their eggs, allowing them to preserve their reproductive options at their own risk while contributing to the bottom line and company growth.

[@annab3184]

EXACTLY, and the same conservative politicians that yammer on about a women's place benefit greatly from women being in the workforce!

[@JasonBrown-zp8tx]

@v9b23j that looks like GDP, corporate, and GOV numbers but that's an accurate picture of the USA dating market it is what it is. infrastructure growth without children to replace us. Fortunately western countries have been very good at enticing foreign replacements. And non-western women are still family oriented. Maybe that can continue? The women focused USA workforce and consumer market does allow women the opportunity for independence from marriage and family. So, a lot of women probably love it and feel empowered. Men need to just do what's best for them. Seek opportunity wherever they can

[@RichardTavilla]

@@annab3184 you should look up the beginning of a feminism CIA Rockefeller connection

[@RichardTavilla]

Someday when you get time, Google CIA Rockefeller feminism and see how it all started. After World War II, they wanted to find a way to keep women in the workplace to tax them. One out of four American women are on antidepressants and peer studies and reports have shown them to be the unhappiest of all times since they’ve been doing reports. Women are in their prime from 18 to 24 now they get ran through to their 30 and are unable to pair bond with a man because they compare him to all the other men they’ve been with

[@v9b23j]

@@JasonBrown-zp8tx Not all non-Western women are family oriented even if they want to be. South Korea has the lowest birthrate in the world. While South Korean women are the most highly educated of those in OECD countries, the country has the worst gender pay gap. There is also an implicit pressure from companies that if women have children, they have to leave their jobs. Despite both men and women in South Korea are entitled to one year's leave during the first eight years of a child's life, in 2022, only 7% of new fathers took any of their leave, compared to 70% of new mothers. Many South Korean wives complain that their husbands don't share the housework or raise the children with them, despite both of them are working. According to the OECD, Japan has the highest proportion of childless 50-year-old women among developed countries. The government estimates that up to 42% of Japanese women born in 2005 and 50% of Japanese men born in the same year may not have children in their lifetime. In the US and Europe, the number of people not having children is increasing. This has been attributed to a shift in values as more people focus on self-fulfillment rather than having children.

[@matt4887]

Some leaders feel prepared, others feel entitled, I don't care your gender, be the best in the position

[@Kellyfox98]

Brett occupies an echo chamber which is driven by the online monetisation of right wing views. There is no data in the real world to suggest a significant portion of women are moving towards traditionalism or the right. In fact all data suggests it’s the complete opposite. Having said that I don’t believe most women aspire to be ‘boss chicks working for a man’ (like her) but they do aspire for financial independence, and a personal sense of self. Framing it as a choice between that, and having a family is what creates this inner turmoil and disappointment we are seeing. These right wing talking points are always ignoring reality and just about ‘going back’. There is no going back only forward. As a young woman who values working, I wish there were more discussions about finding a balanced approach that allows women to pursue personal goals and a family life, without having to choose one over the other.

[@ddanielsmc]

Hi Kelly, I agree with you. Things won't go back as the economy has developed based on women entering the workplace. The move from largely industrial to a mainly service sector for many countries means women's roles could not be replaced. Policy makers need to really think how families can be supported when two parents, or just one remaining parent has to work. The current situation is not helping raise the next generation.

[@Nickers19]

Balanced approach is not something that gathers views for the DW and also probably wouldn't be liked by most of them as they live in a binary reality

[@My1es]

Hi Kelly I recommend the video "I debunked evolutionary psychology" which goes partly about how most of the stats about people (especially women) is pseudoscience/made up. And this guy lovessss talking about women through stats.

[@aaronlandis7929]

​@@My1es Stats... Often poorly gathered, often misrepresented, often outright wrong. And yet statistics remain superior to feels and anecdotes to understand the world.

[@Kellyfox98]

@@ddanielsmc Yes to all your points. It’s so disconcerting always hearing this framed as a personal choice for either men or women. For my generation especially we had no choice in the matter, but now we’re being blamed for not adulting properly lol

[@nichi8404]

ben Shapiro with a wig is kinda hot

[@SharpAsRavenClaws]

0:50 I have a feeling that I'm the only one who can't see myself as a mother, it doesn't exist in my worldview, I don't know why

[@A_rock-vf9ly]

It is great that some women are wanting to spend time raising the family. Brett has set herself up with a career that will allow her to still make a living and have a career but also be a devoted mother. The ideals of feminism was to make women equal under the LAW. Thanks to our fighting mothers we can have credit cards, mortgages, businesses' and the freedoms to speak our conservative opinions on podcasts! Men can be legal caretakers of their ailing parents... I think honoring biological instincts is honorable. So is your equal protection under the law. Don't forget the women who raised kids, fought to get educated, fought to get jobs and shrugged off shame so men and women alike can view Brett Cooper as a smart and confident success story of her own.

[@Andre_Louis_Moreau]

Lost all respect for her after she unapologetically smeared a fantastic father, Ben Hart. (Breakdancin dad) She really hasn't woken up. Another feminist shilling off of conservativism.

[@pieterrossouw8596]

Madi Hart and Brett Cooper are two different people though..?

[@pieterrossouw8596]

@@Andre_Louis_Moreau oh I misunderstood this comment. Yeah L take on this topic, did she ever do a follow-up? Misjudged the situation with incomplete information, it happens but a retraction/update from Brett would be the right thing.

[@dmr6390]

I don’t understand how there is a conflict between focusing on both your career and your dating life. It’s such a false narrative. Just because you have a solid career (most likely working just 40 hours a week) does not prohibit you from fully exploring potential mates.

[@jimluebke3869]

Add on a commute and it certainly does. Any woman who works more than 40 hours a week is a side piece, and will never be more than a side piece.

[@dmr6390]

@@jimluebke3869 tell me you can’t get a girlfriend without telling me you can’t get a girlfriend 😂😂😂

[@jonsnowight9510]

It does, though.

[@dmr6390]

@@jonsnowight9510 that a really good and well thought argument. Never thought of it that way!

[@jonsnowight9510]

@@dmr6390 If someone said something so obviously ridiculously wrong as, "the sky is green," would you take the time to explain to them that it's actually blue because of nitrogen and light refraction, etc or would you simply say, "No it isnt?"

[@scottydoesntknow6901]

This is going to be a record breaker on views.

[@theshotgundog]

Chris I have loved every episode I watch that you've put out. I also am a watcher and enjoyer of Brett Cooper. Very cool to see her here. Good call

[@TheEgyptian99]

its just conservative dreams most of women love the girl boss even if they can't be a one

[@Анжеликакискова]

Effinizm lowers population. Patriarchy increases population. Authority has been taken from men by mercenary class, thus men no longer take responsibility. Neither do the merks.

[@indiaandrews6996]

There are a lot of hateful people online on both sides. There also are a lot of woman haters. I’m not religious but I was raised Christian. There is a passage from the Bible that sticks in my mind whenever I read or hear about harsh unfair criticism online. Jesus tells a man to pull the post out of his eye before criticizing the splinter in someone else’s eye. A lot of these critics should ponder this bit of wisdom. Basically, it says examine the larger problems in your life before you focus on the small problems in the life of someone else.

[@steveburke7675]

...you can be hated in the US for a myriad of sins. Your sex, politics, race, religion (lack of religion), generation, economic status....hell....even if you drive a Prius.

[@proddreamatnight]

Shoutout that one basketball shot video this girl got cakeeeee

[@theinfamous4231]

The production quality ( camera quality, voice) are soo good. What's the camera???

[@nicholasmesa3588]

Even Brett, as of late, has been pushing ideology over just having a conversation about things. I've found myself diverting from her videos lately, because they usually end up just bashing some other ideology. E PLURIBUS UNUM

[@zenon3021]

she's a vessel or tool for right-wing propaganda (as if voting for trump is going to solve anyone's problems)

[@josephfarris8149]

The only thing that can rival this upcoming pod with Brett would be one with Lex

[@MatthewReid-ww6qt]

This birth control thing is crazy. 2 girls I dated seemed like they were really into me. Once we got out of the "honeymoon phase" they went on birth control "just to be safe" when pulling out is good enough in my opinion. Their feelings towards me rapidly changed and we grew apart. It's almost like our bodies were saying, what is the point of being together when birth control is literally preventing something/someone that you both could be proud of.

[@showingpig01]

@8:15 what am I waiting for? Uhhh.. maybe for the episode to actually come out 🙄😂

[@G-MONEY1996]

pushing back against girl bosses, I highly doubt that.

[@carly.taylor42]

This was a really lovely reminder of the humanity within each other we cannot forget to keep looking for amidst all these culture wars. Looking forward to listening to the rest of this convo ⚡

[@Mike-rt2vp]

"... It totally doesn't make sense", yes, women don't make sense. Congratulations.

[@almaguapa-sailboatliveaboa440]

Women (together) talk left, by themselves they’ll go right. So guys, maintain ur heading and stay hard! 😂

[@MikeDKelley]

Love this but I have to ask - what mics are used here? Sound is fantastic and I want to record my wife speaking.

[@lenniegodber7805]

No Next

[@user-gz2vs2oh7b]

I really like that you pointed out the human side of the self-own. I'm unashamedly conservative and idolize Sowell....but the right/redpill world got obsessed with dunking on people's misery. Detransitioners, aged-out girlbosses, cheating spouses that ended up alone, whatever.. it's sad. The results are good to know but schadenfreude ain't a good look.

[@jimluebke3869]

The Narrative wanted us to believe that our culture, values, and outlook had been completely eliminated beyond recall -- this is why every time we show that it's not, it feels like a victory. We have a LONG way to go before the rest of our society has been brought back to the light, but we are not defeated and will never be defeated. The truth will always be there, to overturn evil and lies.

[@tonyshine89]

What is this crazy attention on this girl boss fenomena. Some women, probably a small part are naturally designed or nurtured in a way to be proactive and create businesses, hire people, etc. This is also true for a small portion of the men. I dont see any difference. The rest of the people, both men and women, have regular jobs, sometimes advanced careeers or science achievements, etc, bur are not business owners. I dont understand the hype and then the anti hype.

[@BruceJC75]

It’s too late for men and women in their 30s. There may be hope for younger generations, but still not much.

[@BruceJC75]

@@tomcoop9750 I am older. I’m 36. I got nothin.

[@mathius_dragoon532]

​@@BruceJC75Seconded

[@Charlotte_Martel]

​@@tomcoop9750So true. I married my husband when I was almost 20 and he was 36. Men just get better with age.

[@ajones8008]

Is Brett Cooper a girl boss?

[@SJ-ru4ej]

lol yes she is.

[@vitosantangelo1]

Ahhhhh, the female version of Ben Shapiro 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@MasterMalrubius]

@vitosantangelo8459 You attracted to Ben?

[@yew921]

you two have chemistry.

[@vanni9]

People chose their own poison.

[@9in3G]

The modern feminist movement, I believe is driven by the same mindset as the man child. Doing everything possible to avoid responsibility or taking accountability 🫄for their behavior. Running 🏃‍♀️ from motherhood 👩‍🍼

[@giuliam2531]

2024 and we couldn't have gone more backwards.

[@keegan_7606]

Chris williamson I would love to see the statistics with all the guests.

[@namelessking9068]

the problem is, that women over 30 realize, that its harder to find someone. but dont want to change anything about them self and somehow women over 30 thing that they deserve something special because they have a good job or raise a kid alone. great for you. but why should a man care

[@BradWetherby]

With where the US is headed in the world we’re gonna need eachother more than ever. But it won’t be fun and lala as much anymore

[@papapigeon7589]

Life is getting harder trying to make it on your own and now women will want to go back to male support and leadership....i hope Freezing eggs at a young age is insane, that is the same mentality that has brought us to where we are now in the relationship sphere (sex outside of marriage). Freezing eggs is to reproduction as premarital sex is to marriage

[@chrislivingstone1843]

Nailed it!

[@TheGreySage0]

4:24 Its a response Men get , is that dehumanising ?

[@GJones247]

Do you believe that these messages are having an effect on the boss girls? By effect I mean, does it supplement the cash rewards that these companies are deliberately paying women to put them in boss positions, even though they may be unqualified, due to some economic/political agenda?

[@shughy1]

Most people i know who didnt have kids end up miserable

[@khalidadam1497]

Hi firecracker 🧨 ❤

[@cirquemedia]

That backpack changed my life!

[@OneStepBeyondu]

For better or worse? Richer or poorer?

[@szymonmikoajczyk252]

LOL I have literally just written comment about that here ;]

[@alexanderlugani9246]

You’re lying, where is it? Can’t find it.

[@Triaxx2]

In the future, because it doesn't release until Monday?

[@Kgkgkg54]

Imagine it's been Ben in drag the whole time! Greatest troll ever!

[@desertcountryliving2357]

The link at the end doesn't go to the full podcast with brett...