Women Don't Understand The Needs Of High Value Men

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This week on the podcast Eric Harrison and Joseph Hines share the expectations that high value men have for women and how competition exist. Comment below with your thoughts and be sure to check out the full episode and get the manhood course via the link below.
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[@nigell.8705]

Everybody is sharp. Hafeez that red jacket is 🔥. Great video.

[@raisingkings8767]

Keep staying sharp Hafeez.

[@lakeandfranks6055]

That last quote.... “I shouldn’t have to feel bad about my expectations bc they might not be congruent with what you’re offering”

[@tupactargaryen]

Another great convo. 👍

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

Feez stay dressing like a pimp whats next a lime green or yellow sports coat??? 😂😂👊🏾 great talk btw

[@elijahporter4558]

This high value male definition is lacking some core components - masculinity, discernment, leadership, spiritual reverence of the Most High. If a woman cannot learn from you as a teacher, feel protected by you as a protector, and believe in you based on your actions and discipline then none of this other stuff matters. Money can get a woman but it doesn’t keep her there. You gotta build yourself and edify her soul. Your vibe, energy and masculinity is what she will not be able to find anywhere else. That’s how you express value. We gotta get deeper than the surface.

[@faded_mbs593]

I'm with you minus the most high part.

[@fitnessbyfe]

Are u single 🤣😍😂🎯🎯🔥🔥

[@jennyp32]

@@fitnessbyfe 😂

[@synamin1]

What women are you listening to?

[@jolly7728]

A man starts losing a woman as soon as he gets her. Remember, familiarity breeds contempt (English writer Geoffrey Chaucer).

[@gentilimusic3804]

Ppl need to Stop with high value men need to have lots of money bs. You can have money and be low value cuz your attitude,personality and morals suck. Str8 up.

[@bryanadunn4919]

Exactly

[@alexag7686]

Facts. I feel like one can have it all but that takes self-control, self-awareness, accountability, high value morals, etc. All non-tangible qualities.

[@missez5931]

Finally

[@FeelingFitFabFun]

Exactly ❤️

[@dimplez1ish]

My definition of a high value man includes his character. If he's mean, he's automatically ugly in my eyes.

[@breannajoseph2018]

this sounds like a conversation about “high-earning” opposed to “high VALUE men”. morals, values, character, beliefs, etc have not been discussed

[@631knm]

Amen👏👏👏👏

[@iyanulawal2849]

High earning and high value go hand in hand more often than not, the steps a man has to take to become a high earner usually makes him high value.

[@631knm]

@@iyanulawal2849 I’m sorry but I disagree. Most high earning men tend to be selfish and feel entitled.

[@iyanulawal2849]

@@631knm selfish? Doubt it, entitled? Absolutely, I would feel entitled too if I’ve worked my way to being amongst the top 10% of men 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@631knm]

@@iyanulawal2849 Thank you for proving my point. That’s what’s wrong with this country, they equate wealth with worth.

[@jasminejones8558]

My sister married a very very wealthy man and he’s one if the few who has a nice disposition and discernment about himself. He’s a oil tycoon. It was surprisingly refreshing to see actually he has a good heart and compassion. To be be honest my sister was in Whole Foods shopping looking crazy and he slid a piece of paper in her cart while she went to the bathroom. She Went on a date and he had on jeans and a sweater looking 😜 driving a Honda. My sister called me on the phone and said I think he’s a drug dealer 😂😂😂😂😂. I told her we’ll just observe his disposition and you can tell. Around the third date he tells my sister he just a retail manager. She’s say ok cool. In the first year he take my sister to pick out some land she’s confused. Eventually he tells her the truth about his occupation. Three years later he proposed with my father blessing. He’s the first guy I have met that is wealthy and nice in heart plus monogamous. He’s a rare man.

[@blahjdjdkndbc]

Lord, I see what you have done for others...

[@DarkandlovelyB]

@@blahjdjdkndbc AMENNNNN lmao

[@jasminejones8558]

@@blahjdjdkndbc other’s? I don’t know what you’re referring to. Hopefully it’s not race because my sister is African American but what does that matter..

[@alessandradasilva3290]

@@jasminejones8558 No, u misunderstood the phrase . When they said others, they are referencing other people , not other race . It's actually a common phrase people use nowadays when they want God to bless them the same way another person or just people in general have been blessed . I hope that clears that up .

[@jasminejones8558]

@@alessandradasilva3290 Oh ok got it..Make sense now I haven’t heard that phrase

[@RootedVines]

My husband makes 6 figures and he definitely makes time for me. I had no idea what he did for a living when we met. He still makes time for me. He considers marriage a priority and that his duty is taking care of me on every level. I'm truly blessed.

[@tchaney3777]

Exactly

[@akerevic7676]

He is not the one making time for you. His job gave him those free times so he is using it to spend with you so don't confuse that. If his job requires him there, he won't turn it down cus he wants to spend it with you. Never.

[@carojames6776]

It's nice to see just how much he loves and respects you to want to make you his priority. Congratulations to you both and ignore those who would be jealous of what you have, I do so hate the colour GREEN.....

[@QCRSK8]

What if he had to work 2-3 jobs to make that 100k? What would you say to him?

[@crazedadventurer5717]

What do u do for him tho just asking

[@LadyAngela678]

Lookin like a GQ model doesn’t make you a high value man. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@chrisjones2254]

How you carry and take care of yourself does 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@ilyssawootton3987]

🤣🤣🤣

[@droosyg252]

@@chrisjones2254 how you carry and take care of yourself can certainly ADD to your value, but those surface things alone don’t make you high-value. Those things are very superficial. Values, character, the way you relate to and treat other people are of high-value. At the end of the day, though, value is relative to the individual.

[@hotjupiter3395]

At all.

[@SchindaWilliams]

Just like your individual accomplishments don't make you a high value woman. You can be an accomplished piece of crap

[@brandonf.8360]

Let's not get it confused. I'm sure every adult wants to make 100k if not more a year, hell 6 months. It's not the money STRICTLY that makes you high value, it's your actions and mindset.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Sting LikeABee There are 4 types 1) high value man has $$$ 2) high quality man has intellect, character and morals 3) highly spiritual man has spiritual growth 4) broke man has no money or low income

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

True....you can make 6 figures an still be a simp

[@biblethumper8088]

It's the Money, don't get it twisted.

[@brandonf.8360]

@@biblethumper8088 I said it's not money strictly. Never said money had nothing to do with it

[@brandonf.8360]

@@mariobalotelli2410 exactly, which why I said it's not just the paper.

[@wondersofcrim]

"He sees his kids on Saturdays"!!! It's a NO for me. Being involved in your children's life holds more VALUE than money.

[@komplxity]

Exactly the greatest value is building strong relationships and strong families. It is the foundation of society and this is part of the reason society is suffering ...ppl are putting their priorities and values in the wrong place.

[@wondersofcrim]

@@komplxity And I 💯 agree with you. We need healthy families .

[@AmberAshli]

OK!

[@rachelthompson9345]

@@wondersofcrim as a mom who has pay child support BC my ex husband had better lawyer I only see my kids on weekend BC I have to pay support and insurance not BC I don't want see them he keeps them from me and i have keep revisiting court to address it...hes in it for the money doesn't spend time with them....dont judge

[@wondersofcrim]

@@rachelthompson9345 And your case is very different from what these gentleman are saying. That man is choosing money over his children. Not your case. So if you feel judged that's all YOU!! BYE

[@isisagood]

No one should every label themselves average. It's your mindset. 6 figure income doesn't mean High Value...

[@DrJackiethePA]

That part

[@sacredserpent9667]

Average looking, yeah alot of people are that. Its reality...

[@frankr2584]

How would you define it?

[@candyxox]

Well if u make 6 figures that's definitely not average.

[@Thomaskingsss]

Preach to these women

[@shogune]

Their définition of high value men are so empty and shallow.

[@cloudycloud4171]

Yes they Are so empty lmao

[@carleylester9691]

So empty. But, this is just an excerpt of the video. I'll watch more of it, but this conversation about "High Value" seems to be strictly about money. There's so much more than money. Mental Health, Character, Lifestyle (physical health diet), other relationships (with parent,siblings), etc.

[@kaybee1025]

So many high earners without personality. If one is such a 'high value' why one has so many problems. Anyway, I am a mountaineer from the Caribbean, give me a farmer with great sense of humor please...😔

[@RaffineDebauche]

So is a lot of women’s definition of a good woman. A lot of y’all have no clue what makes a woman a good woman to a man.

[@kaybee1025]

@@RaffineDebauche a good woman will speak the same language of a good man; usually coming from the heart and mind A self proclaimed high value female will talk just like these two and all about the material gain🙄 You got it now?😑

[@beatricebliss9379]

When you die, God will not ask you how much you earned, but how much you loved. Set your priorities, guys. Nobody says you sbould not be successful, but set a balance and do not neglect your soul and your beloved's.

[@corneilusmcgillicuddy]

But muthafuckas aren't trying to date God.

[@godlovescouture8605]

What does it profit a man, if he gains the world and loses his soul... 😬. I want a high value character

[@Anak-ie2pn]

Exactly. Being successful in this life is good, but let's not neglect the values of the soul.

[@MrQuestiel]

This makes no sense when the WOMEN are looking for 6 figure guys. So maybe talk to the sisters. As long as ya'll keep using that phrase, men will continue to look at money. Ymmv

[@beatricebliss9379]

@@MrQuestiel I am sorry you've had this kind of experience. I m in Eastern Europe and money is not a criterion for me.

[@youngwisdom681]

I don’t want wealth if takes me away from my wife and children. I will make a substantial amount of money while staying involved with my family, friends, and community. This is the reason why praying to the Lord is KEY! Because, He will guide you to do the right thing and have the wisest balance.

[@tlw32]

🗣Listen you in a whole different league sir!!! Comment was better than this whole video U blessed!!

[@ChinadollcocoCaramel]

Well said.

[@joyfulpraisefitness]

Truth!!

[@tchaney3777]

That is a great mindset to have, sir. That balance is intrinsic. You can still have ambition but you both know what makes life feel whole at the end of the day and ensure you are taken care of... on the flip side of that... so many couple become stagnant.

[@crystalfrancis7052]

When you make money your God, you have a hard time seeing past it and seeing the bigger picture. When you take the spirit out of it everything becomes an object.

[@sweetbrutaljwilliams226]

I wish this men vs women thing would come to an end.

[@ZoraSearch]

Agreed. It's so not about gender but about maturity and personal accountability for both men and women.

[@jmorefit1]

Feminism has taught women they don’t need men, and that men should respect you regardless of your baggage...these feminist wake up at 30, 20 dicks deep single and bitter...misery loves company so let me promote an “empowered” lifestyle that has resulted in me being lonely and depressed

[@ZoraSearch]

@@jmorefit1 You're not a woman so you don't know what Feminism taught women. I'm being absolutely serious. SOME women may have learned that they need to fend for themselves and that had little to do with Feminism and more to do with a failed society that depends on a shotty version of Capitalism that underpays its citizens. Different woman group have different experiences in a society especially dependant on their level of access and protection. - essentially safety. Claiming underprivileged women, especially, are willingly turning their backs on their men based on their subscribing to a mainstream ideology is just wrong. Absolutely wrong. The more impoverished, the more likely they are to find a way to survive based on the circumstances of their daily lives, not because some chick from FACEBOOK is talking about "Leaning In". The behavior you are discussing is a reaction to a LOSS OF TRUST in those around them that these girls and women had to overcome by realizing that they cannot dependent on anyone around them but themselves, especially in underresourced communities. It's not Feminism...it's a loss of trust.

[@norapeace6526]

@@ZoraSearch PREACH!!!! If you want to eat, you really can’t depend on anybody for that. And women have come to the conclusion that they have to look out for themselves at the end of the day. It’s a cherry on top to find a man in that process

[@jmorefit1]

@@ZoraSearch You added a lot info that I did not say so I’ll reiterate more thoroughly and I ask that you respond again... The OP referenced this men vs women narrative that has been promoted in society...this narrative has been pushed mainly through feminism “oppression of women”, “patriarchal society”, “you don’t need a man, be independent”, “use your 20s to sleep around have fun and climb the corporate ladder like a man can”...most of the women in their 30s 40s who embraced these ideologies are single and depressed, and/or divorced 3-5 times by 40...misery loves company so these women are still promoting this lifestyle despite the emptiness it’s created within them...happy people are not complaining on social media about how bad the opposite sex is only bitter people who refuse to take personal responsibility for their bad decisions

[@ddeast8877]

This topic is so played. Just find someone you’re compatible with. No man is valuable unless he bestows that value on to you.

[@jessicabarlow7412]

This💯🙌The most realistic advice!

[@_ladiosanegra]

amen. you having money and not sharing makes you broke to me

[@feliciallemons9878]

Very mature comment.

[@wut2heck]

I was just thinking that as I clicked on this video. I 100% agree!

[@naimreed8247]

Now that MEN have something to say, erbody tired, let's move on ..... NOPE!!! lmao

[@traciesplace]

Very good- I agree, women most times do not like when the tables are turned and men express their wants and desires. That shows the immature nature of a LOT of “available” women now adays. Both sides should be able to accept constructive criticism, step back to see what they need to change and step up to the plate. Unfortunately also, people are no longer “raised” for marriage and child rearing, most parents are NOT raising kids correctly in these days and times.

[@sebastienc.2257]

100%

[@Sp1n1985]

@Nubia Ivory single fathers stats are pretty impressive if you look up their success with raising their kids alone.

[@jajajaja266]

Right . Just me

[@rozzey1321]

I love a women who can admit the wrongs and rights of other women because women dont like to critique or criticize each other

[@ajahmed72]

@Nubia Ivory very true

[@tjandcj123]

I’m an average girl. Not even looking for a high value man. What’s up with this high value man stuff in the black community. Most of us are average and are looking for an average person we are compatible with. I guess I will go back to listening to Dave Ramsey and crew.

[@newnewyorkcity7180]

Exactly...one of the greatest of ommentd that I have seen. This high-value trend is another agenda pushed on our people in America to destroy our connection, unity, and bond!

[@douganderson6285]

There a lot of average women who talk down to average men as if they aren’t on the same level lol

[@AK46supr]

Thats a beautiful & humble mindset. Anyone can be wealthy but less people are healthy. Ppl need to have priority on the right thing

[@frankr2584]

It is well, Respectfully, I think its more about the traits typically associated with a high value man. Ambition, intelligence, discipline, work ethic. Are these qualities not appealing to what you want in a future husband?

[@tjandcj123]

@@frankr2584 those are very appealing traits and most average men have that mindset. There are more average men out here providing for their family, being active in their children’s life than the so called high value black men. What I’ve seen as far as the definition of high value man in the black community is men who make 6 figures. No one has discussed character, values, etc., just the fact that they make a lot of money and they want a pretty girl to match the amount of money they make.

[@jolly7728]

If a guy or gal even thinks they are high value then that's already a red flag. It means they have a whole set of attitudes about how great they are and you'll end up constantly bumping heads with them. You stand a much better chance with folks who are high value but don't know it. Trust me...

[@sechabatheletsane9784]

Word

[@SafBash23]

Real high value people probably don't actually need to say they're high value. I think there's no harm in someone knowing they are high value (if they genuinely are)...but actual high value people likely won't feel the need to prove/convince others that they are.

[@nakiawright3870]

💯💯💝

[@datingdiaries1681]

Facts the hidden gems; the pretty boys aren't where it's at

[@mscharleeann]

I totally get this. Listening to these recent talks, I find I check boxes that I never even thought were a thing. How’d I not know I was so marketable?!! And now I’m old. 😂

[@FinancialHealth-ku1ry]

All these KZbinrs with this 'High Value' talk is becoming the new hustle.

[@talkingtiaras]

High earning does not equal high value. There’s much more to being a high value person (respect, leadership, morals, etc)

[@ShelleyTeller]

the definition is based on market.

[@spiritualbarbie4312]

But let’s not forget high value does not equal a good man Ladies!!

[@tanyav123]

Not all great men are good men. 💯

[@kd1675]

Agreed

[@abanfrancis6400]

Yall don't care about that 😂

[@mandalaqueen828]

High value = having good morals, taking care of oneself physically/spiritually/mentally/emotionally/financially, having self respect and being focused on self improvement. Rich does not necessarily equate to high value

[@fishingdude8393]

Your priorities are whack if you only see your kids for one day of week.

[@christineawuor1835]

Basically an absent parent.

[@geminilife756]

How many high value people you know?🤔

[@SealztheMan]

This is the truth. Priorities are everything

[@Ms.AshleyHoney]

BIG FACTS💯💯

[@Micheal93k]

Custody court would disagree.

[@tipsy09]

no wonder marriages and relationships fail at a high clip, they've become superficial beyond repair

[@AMAR-ym7sz]

The average person doesn't know how business really works. When most people pull up to a RR or Bentley at the light, they think of how easy that person must have it. But those of us who have created some success look at that person and think how extremely hard they must be working.

[@danivip5701]

Oh boy. In America it’s ALWAYS all about money... give me a break

[@seanj5126]

America is a business, not a country, if you haven’t noticed by now lol

[@carojames6776]

Because it can MAKE or BREAK you and it's saught after because of the power it yields.

[@mandyads]

As a woman who has dated high-earning men (not interchangeable with high-value), I find that I've dealt with three different types of personalities (this is a generalization - note, there are good men everywhere from every tax bracket). I've dealt with the insecure high-earning man who utilizes his material value to attract women and fulfill his desire to be important or powerful, but will turn around and be depressed or accusatory of being unappreciated or used for financial gain. Then there's the inconsiderate or uncompromising high-earning man who believes that they've worked harder than anyone else in the world and that their vision is always a good-enough reason to excuse self-centered behavior. Finally, there's the seasoned high-earning man who can either take on a sugar daddy vibe or who is genuinely ready to settle down and wants to start a family with someone younger. These men usually have the kinks and ego worked out and are in a much better place for life balance, but there are also a lot of these men who end up being low-key creeps or who are controlling.

[@jmorefit1]

If a man is paying for 100% of everything why shouldn’t he control 99% of decisions? Men are insecure about gold diggers because most attractive women will call him broke or cheap if he doesn’t ball out for her from day 1...your first thought may be find a woman on your level who won’t require his money, but women who make 6 figures+ are typically masculine boss lady’s and 6 figures+ men want feminine house wives

[@norapeace6526]

I believe it all. You pay a Price with dealing with a high earning man as well

[@aleafe5069]

I Agree with ur last statement about seasoned high earning men. 😊

[@levibondjr4650]

Well said.

[@librateen632]

Wow I’ve had similar experiences so true. There’s a price you have to pay for high earning men as well and often times it deals with the ego.

[@missbola1997]

Can we talk about the average man. Lol the ones that most of us we will actually marry

[@Shes_Sew_Amusing]

Agreed

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

Fair point, not everyone is shallow and wants a wealthy guy

[@aidan9656]

@@SWIFTzTrigger It’s not really shallow to want a partner that’s financially stable. I don’t think most women care whether you’re a millionaire, they generally are just looking for a man who can provide.

[@ricorogers9319]

Not many women these days want average men..🤷🏽‍♂️

[@missbola1997]

@@ricorogers9319 that is true. We all have a idea’s of our ideal spouse is. We have to drop back down to Reality, see what we actually need in a spouse, and expects I’m Nigerian, my parents raised me in a non- western culture. The things I want in a partner can be found in the average man. Of course I don’t want to date a broke dusty, but i’m not asking for WizKid either lol. We have to learn how to manage expectations

[@bwalk9338]

What's more important is that our government is currently destroying our economic system. High value is about your mindset not money. The lord gives and he takes away.

[@jonkenny593]

The realest statement on here man.....

[@jessicaa92215]

Amen.

[@frankr2584]

True. Be humble and confident. Money is only the result of high value habits. Its one piece of the puzzle. Dont get drunk off materialism.

[@Frankoshack]

@@CPT_Pepper if the financial system falls, where is the value then?

[@truth_is_strongest]

The high valued men will be those that are lead by the most high through this fall of babylon. FAITH IS THE CURRENCY believe that. Everyone else gonna bow to the beast and be taken by Satan

[@jllsdoe]

You lost me at the father who sees his kids once a week...

[@god-given-child6040]

Lol 😂 I'm right there with you! My brain checked out after that. Because if I'm raising little Timmy by myself in a mansion and going on trips as a single mom, what's the point? Thats unbalanced.

[@nadianorman2274]

It's reality. If the father is the sole provider he won't be able to spend as much time with his kids. I know a man who had to work 16 hr 5 days/week work days to provide for his family.

[@tks9367]

Absolutely.

[@jllsdoe]

@Robert Mitchell & @Nadia Norman I'm not lost at all. No child asks to be born. To intentionally bring them in and neglect them is selfish. Of course if the father is the sole provider he won't be attending to household maintenance and the like, but he is still a FATHER. His kids will respect his work ethic but resent him if he doesn't check in. That might be sitting with them for a 5 minute check in on their day before bath time and then disappearing into the office to work the night away. That might be waking them up when you get in at a late hour to give them a kiss and say hello before they drift back to sleep. Those small moments will let them know that they aren't weekend children, and it isn't even a drop in the bucket for the hours in a day. That intent matters. If that's something that you view as impossible, then high value men shouldn't have kids until they reach the level spoken about in the video. And if you live in the same house as your kids and don't set eyes on them for 5 days in a row regularly, you are trifling and don't deserve the honor of being their parent. Even athletes facetime. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@annettebailey274]

Ok but he's high value 😂😂😂 It's all BS

[@ba8501]

Something said at the beginning was very important. Women want ambitious men but also have to deal with the reality of how much he works. I have found that as a woman, having your own interests and ambitions makes you less dependent on always needing him there. You don't really notice all the hours he is working because you have your own thing going on too.

[@ayanime_edem]

Exactly!

[@biblethumper8088]

I watched this whole video and they still haven't defined what a high value man needs.

[@lueyes22]

🤣🤣

[@chilloften]

Just always bitching about women...obsessed with it.

[@biblethumper8088]

@@chilloften that's what it sounded like to me. I don't even care what bm want. None of these men are builders or protectors and they seem like they are stingy with providing since they came from struggle.

[@dmlamar90]

Peace, pussy, and appreciate little time he spends with you

[@jasonwolfe3252]

@@biblethumper8088 yet you watched the whole video.

[@monah203]

Money isn’t the only thing that determines high value. I have met both men and women who have money without any mental/spiritual value. Ultimately they have this “high value person” and are still unhappy.

[@MrPlazmaWalker]

Money is required for high value, high value has always had the same connotation no matter the era. And money is a major part of it!

[@_VISION.]

@@MrPlazmaWalker depends on what value means. The value we should be talking about is character (context: courtship). Unfortunately, being an ethical human being is not a requirement for making a lot of money. In fact it is easier to make money while being an asshole. A person is no longer high value if their only value is monetary. In that case it's important to explicitly mention that.

[@danielmuriithi8486]

High value is an economic standard. It's not about happiness or dating it's about the top 3 hierarchy in society. Money, influence and power

[@danielmuriithi8486]

@@_VISION. true but high value is based on the societal market. Like who gets the perks in society. Morals are great, but let's not pretend society values morals over money

[@_VISION.]

@@danielmuriithi8486 Yes; if you're speaking from an economic perspective. Other than that; your statement is false.

[@NotReadyPlayerOne]

Women: “I require a man to...” Men: “Alright. Ok!” Men: “I require a woman to...” Women: *SHOCKED PIKACHU FACE*

[@NotReadyPlayerOne]

@@sdab06 thanks!

[@tengigeorge-ikoli3688]

Hahaha this had me rolling because this was me so many years ago

[@sylvesterhurt447]

Baby yoda face!

[@SilentWintersKnight]

Pika pika!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

They don't want to work to get men

[@sunshinejewel2952]

The key ingredient missing is God. That’s why everyone is confused and running circles and chasing their tails because no one follows God’s principals anymore. He will lead you and guide you. Especially the men.

[@hannahdewinter5515]

Being religious does not make someone a good person.

[@AF-uc2bd]

If u r extra intelligent u don't need religion otherwise religion guides us to do ryt things that were developed through centuties in my op

[@cassandrapye4809]

You hit the nail on the head!!! My husband puts God first!!! He is the type of man that most women could only dream of having.

[@mimiwilliams8918]

I agree! Thank you sunshine’

[@godlovescouture8605]

👏🏾

[@sunvirgo2020]

SAD, THEY DONT TALK. ABOUT FAMILY or COMMUNITY ......ME,ME, ME....The FAMILY is High VALUE........CLUELESS

[@dmlamar90]

It starts with marriage and black ppl don't get to family because most black children are born outta wedlock

[@dmlamar90]

@Peter Biosah I know... I mentioned African family structure to an African American sister who got mad because I simply ask why isn't a man in the family photo post for AFRICA then I got jumped into feminism 😐

[@nursetothecore295]

Every time I click on one of these videos I’m like why did I click on this.🙄 I’m a woman that makes 6 figures and I have for the last 15 years. So is the only thing required to be a “high valued man” a 6 figure income? Insane. Because of my income and lifestyle I’m around a lot of 6 and 7 figure income men that are actually a$$holes. Disrespectful, cheaters, entitled and so much more. There are some good guys in this bracket as well that usually come from humble beginnings and guess what, have remained humble. Clearly they are ambitious and Alpha males. But Alpha Male doesn’t translate to jerk or give permission to be one. I’m thankful for the brothers that I know of ALL INCOME BRACKETS. That are the real HIGH VALUE MEN. That put God first, their self care second, wife/lady third, then family. Ambition is healthy but doesn’t have to yield a 6 figure income for a man to be a provider and protector of those he loves, and have the emotional availability of professing his love and nurturing its growth.

[@lextherapy8208]

My dad is a lawyer and my family definitely went through the experience of missing him, wondering if he cared about spending time with us. He definitely expresses his love through providing us with the best he possibly can give us. So I understand the whole time thing. I think my father’s relationship with me got better when I became an adult and realized that he’s only gonna be in my life if I make sure to keep him in my life. So even if he can only see me once a month, when we see each other it’s QUALITY time. I check in with him and his life and his mental and emotional health. If I ever meet the right guy I feel like our relationship should be like that. We don’t need to spend every minute together but when we are able to spend time together it’s authentic, genuine, quality time where we actually connect with each other. Rich or poor we all just want connection at the end of the day. It’s great to know that someone isn’t going to leave you for following your passion or providing love in the form of financial security rather than through spending all your time together.

[@eviozyra6300]

you have to make sure to keep your father inyour your life? Shouldnt it be the other way around?

[@badassbiggirl]

STOP LISTENING TO PPL TELL YOU HOW TO BE FOR THEM. BE YOURSELF AND LET THEM LIKE YOU FOR YOU.

[@eddiekruggerr4972]

You I'm not the type of woman that successful men of any race would get with. Why should women listen to you?

[@eddiekruggerr4972]

You are not the type of woman that successful men would get with. Why should women listen to you? Nobody is going to like you just because you are alive and breathing. You have to provide some type of value. Stop the with the lazy defeatist talk.

[@badassbiggirl]

@@eddiekruggerr4972 I love you too.

[@mrmanq9517]

That is LAZY talk...take ur chunky self to the gym Only average men will date chubby women😂

[@islandboyjay1914]

You should tell men that cause women like y’all telling men to be men when y’all are not even men or a male spieces

[@trinap.8904]

People aren't checklists. These guys act like they are ordering mail order brides? The arrogance hints of narcissism. You should want a woman with great internal traits: good character, grounded, spiritual discernment, kindness, emotionally secure and life purpose. You can't gauge that from an IG page.

[@ibrahimtall6209]

Stop telling men what we SHOULD want. We want a sexy girl w/ a phat ass. And IF the day ever comes where we want to settle down, things like character actually start to matter in ADDITION to being sexy. That's one of the motivations for becoming a high value male, so you can have your pick of the lot. Why shouldn't they be arrogant (although that's not the vibe i get)? They are the creme of the crop and they EARNED it. You are making a lot of claims but the conversation never even veered into territory that would provide evidence for your claims. Mail-order brides? What? Their conversation consisted of the unreasonable expectations of the women w/ the highest value men. Everything they said was true. Stop muddling the conversation w/ your own insecurities.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Very shallow.

[@AJweathersby]

Women: I want a man that makes 6 figures, is at least 6 ft tall, and has 6 pack abs. And I won’t settle for less! I know what God has in store for me! Men: Okay well we got standards to. Women: But what about character!? And morals!? You don’t know what God has in store for you! You should settle for just a good woman! Stuff like this is why most women, black women in particular, will never marry in their lifetime.

[@trinap.8904]

@Ibraham Tall just remember your "standards" appear to be external, no mention of good heart or character. God can take away the external stuff anytime. And I don't have near as many insecurities as you do. I can pull you and any other man for some temporal fun, but I serve God now and am spiritually enlightened. So I don't buy into the lie a big ass and small waist keep a "high value" man, anymore than an avg woman of good heart and character.

[@AJweathersby]

@@trinap.8904 Women have no problem saying “I can’t be with a man under 6 feet” or “I need a man making 6 figures”. So if women aren’t trying to tell those women to settle for character, why should a man

[@bw_locked_in_arms_globally5732]

“Women don’t understand the needs of high value men” “Is that why you turn to other men?” 😏

[@user-mq7vb9zy4o]

Okay so date a man ⚰💀

[@lavellelee5734]

Where is your pfp from? What does it symbolize?

[@epicgoddess920]

Having money doesn't make you a high value man or woman.

[@shhhperry9852]

It’s so funny how brothers walking around here thinking they’re “high value “ because they have a little money and are wearing a suit.... ummm high value is a man with high morals, or else Future would fall into the “high value” category. You can be trash in a suit just like Kevin S, or trash with money like 80 percent of the American rappers.

[@jojoc326]

👏🏼👏🏼 agreed. A suit says nothing about you - it's your actions, words. Compassion, care, love and understanding (values +morals) that matter.

[@shhhperry9852]

@@chanelwilliams3412 value and worth are words that mean the same thing, and can be used interchangeably. Just because a man makes money does not make him high value, or high worth, because value and worth are two words with the same exact meaning. If you’re a scrub who happens to stumble your way to a big bank account or rip people off selling fake image consultations, then you’re just a scrub with money, but still a scrub none the less.

[@razishah9379]

Kevin Samuel's is trash? Stay mad

[@howso5079]

Women do not understand the blessing of being able to stay at home and take care of the home (husband/children). If a man can give you that lifestyle, why would you not be submissive and respect his time? Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@s.o.k2271]

That may be a blessing for some women, but other women have a vocation for things outside the home and it's stronger than been a housewife. For some women it could be to help masses of people out of poverty or provide care for a group of people etc. Women aren't called to be the same thing just as men aren't called to be the same thing. You can still be submissive, as you termed, without having to be a housewife just because a man can "give you that lifestyle."

[@howso5079]

@@s.o.k2271 SIGH!!!! I Should’ve have known a woman would come trying to be combative. Ok, let me start by saying NOT ALL...... Urgh 🙄

[@howso5079]

@@s.o.k2271 God gives women a purpose, gifts, talents... BUT, the priority is your husband and children (if you have them). If not, then..... do you boo.

[@jusgoonin]

The diffeeenc is the women who are “working” are miserable they don’t get satisfaction off working hard MEN DO! It’s engrained in our dna women were gatherers and men were the hunters

[@howso5079]

@@jusgoonin FACTS!

[@crossbydessalines4668]

The purpose of working so long and often is to eventually create a system where you make good amount of money with little time invested into it working 50 hour weeks but no time to enjoy what you have is not living.

[@joshuam4049]

That’s why your purpose needs to be your passion. If we spend 40-80 hours a week working for 30-50 years, we better be doing something we love

[@eviozyra6300]

@@joshuam4049 not everybody can do what they love...such bullshit thinking, somebody has to clean and work at a supermarket etc, those are not dream jobs Im sure. And working 80 hours a week is sick! Even when you "Love" what you do. You should still have time for family, friends, relaxing etc

[@draesynesofficial]

“Women like the idea of an ambition man but don’t like the absence that comes with it” if that ain’t straight facts idk what is 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@Crgb777]

You call this High Value but this really should be called unbalanced. An insanely heavy work life with no time to be present in your child's or wife's life, and absolutely no sensitivity about it either... No thanks. Balance is key.

[@mrknarf4438]

Value for a man is what he provides. High value means unbalanced, yes, because it means he works on providing all the time. Is it desirable? Probably not, as explained in the video. Do many girls want that because they don't get it? Yes.

[@trevorarmstrong6641]

Its really more subjective and nuanced. To just say it is "unbalanced"it's an oversimplification. No man is superman no woman is superwoman so you must prioritize what you want from the people in your life. Off the bat for him to be considered hardworking he has to be putting in at least 14 hours a day you want him to be fit 2 hours everyday in the gym he has 8 hours left 6 of them are sleep so... You don't have to choose that type of man just have a realistic expectations with an informed opinion.

[@coachcjwhigham7500]

If you truly understand what's going on, the men that recieve all these things are just a result of WHO THEY BECOME. Ir you have understand, the same principle applies when an Olympic runner wins a gold medal. They aren't a high value track start the moment they got the medal. It was when they made the Decision to become high value and the best daily, for years, this is when then became GREAT that very moment. Everything else comes

[@Rob-fp3xq]

I expect my woman to be in shape because I’m fit and financially thriving. No shaming language will change my expectation.

[@cherienikole2588]

Agreed!!

[@naalynmusic]

Ok we see lol

[@jelemil]

If she gets fat after kids will you trade her in for a younger model?

[@samkelomsimango8662]

@@jelemil go back to gym

[@stopthelightskinguilt.3775]

@@samkelomsimango8662 lol

[@SealztheMan]

Let me say it again for the people in the back... NOTHING IS FREE! The Ying Yang concept is so real, if you want something...be prepared for the other side of it. Every action has a consequence. If you want the riches of life, be prepared for the sacrifice and time it takes to get it. BALANCE

[@deandrearichmond1623]

Omg! I have always said this. Everything comes with a price.

[@SealztheMan]

@@deandrearichmond1623 most definitely Deandrea!

[@KtotheG]

It's women who have this problem. They feel entitled to everything with little to no effort.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Facts

[@diamondgoddess2534]

F A C T S. !!!

[@gabrielamartinyuk9894]

I have noticed something with dating coaches . They say a man that has $ or is a go getter as a high value man. High value is , yes a man that is financially set , but he’s also emotionally intelligent . I have met plenty of wealthy men who are not capable of supporting a woman emotionally in a real relationship. I have no issue with men who work a lot because I work more than him. My last bf who was pretty financially set was off work at 4 pm and off on weekends and I was off a few hours after him. He is 12 years older than me so he really worked for that ability to be able to have that schedule. I work a lot and I have my own hobbies and aspirations so if anything, he’s anticipating for ME to get off work. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@KeyaReneeMonroe]

YEEEEEESSSS THANK YOU!

[@Waters..]

Thank youuuuu! They be working so much that they don’t even put energy into themselves to become emotionally intelligent, self aware, etc. Their characters be out of whack.

[@levibondjr4650]

Preach.

[@datingdiaries1681]

I'm not into men who look and talk like this so I'll have to pass if this is what is supposedly high value

[@eddiekruggerr4972]

Nobody is going to miss you or lose sleep over you.

[@b-mec-him796]

@@eddiekruggerr4972 dang

[@theolynncarpenter4613]

LMFAO....👌👌🙌🙌🤷🤷😄😄

[@b-mec-him796]

@@kandycid100 dang lol

[@bblove6667]

At least someone said it 🥴

[@tajthegreatone9326]

The more panels and videos I watch the more grateful that I am single. ✌️

[@Cstar7]

I'd like to see a panel of single young men like those in the video with married men who are a little older. I'm curious how married men view the thoughts and perspectives of the single men.

[@InspiredUno]

Married men who are also on this financial level though. Because being just married won’t be enough. Everyone doesn’t value the same things. So, older married men who aren’t entrepreneurs or business moguls won’t have the same values and viewpoint as married men who are. Their choices in mates will also be different.

[@dappergents3743]

@@InspiredUno your overthinking this just saying

[@BenevolentDictator13]

@@dappergents3743 He’s right. There’s more nuance to this. Think deeper bruh.

[@dappergents3743]

@@BenevolentDictator13 real simple bro say what you mean and mean what you say and keep it moving

[@featuremarkstudios]

The married men are jealous of the single men

[@DivinelyMadeCece]

You cannot be a high value person if you lack morals, character, and substance. The financial aspect doesn't make you automatically a high value man or woman. You can't ask for someone to be this or that when you aren't there yourself or better yet if you have unresolved issues you have yet to address.

[@goodmen2973]

Wrong, character is a bonus.

[@DivinelyMadeCece]

@@goodmen2973 if you have zero character all you have is nothing but a dead empty soul. Character in who you are plays a giant role in everything

[@DivinelyMadeCece]

@Afropatriarch SYSBM Im going by what I know being that I have personally been around high value men and women

[@goodmen2973]

@@DivinelyMadeCece lol men who run stuff have “asshole” characters But ok, tell me what I don’t know as I’m a man myself. Steve Jobs, Trump, Hell Biden, Obama...go on

[@DivinelyMadeCece]

@@goodmen2973 There are those who don't have that " asshole" persona just because you're a man doesn't mean you know everything. Those without character happen to be the ones that will do anything to benefit themselves

[@KtotheG]

40 hours is for employees... availability is for entrepreneurs.

[@callidus5586]

Nicely said.

[@dchawk81]

Entrepreneurs tend to have less free time than employees unless they hired people to take over.

[@frankr2584]

Successful entrepreneurs that I know put in crazy hours. And not all entrepreneurs are living a glorious rich lifestyle

[@b.d7058]

Omg facts. Smart, smart.

[@bblove6667]

I was wondering why they were entrepreneurs if they didn’t have time??? That’s why most people go into entrepreneurship 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@user-sl7ki4ip7v]

Life is too short to work 80+ a week just to maintain a lifestyle that he can’t even enjoy because of work. All you have in life is family and those you love and that’s a lot of time waisted not invested in what matters most. I’ll leave it.

[@ERoss338]

Well the goal is to do that when you are young so that when you are older you can relax

[@Leleeve]

Those men work that much so when they’re older they can relax and retire by 30 or 40

[@bruiseleeroy7010]

I agree, you gotta balance the work you need to do to survive but also enjoy whats in front of you

[@balerikirmu.11]

Tell these delusional broads that. If they don't pressure men for unnecessary garbage, these guys can dial it back.

[@leomac1986]

Somebody got to pay the Bills

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

High-value men value their time and use it wisely. If their woman doesn't understand that, they go find the one who does

[@nausheencharni9033]

They should value their partner and her emotional needs too.

[@dammee]

Can someone define what a high value man is? Because all I am hearing about is money. This must be a very American perspective on what people look for in a partner. Never in my life have I heard anyone in my life speak about potential partners in terms of having to earn over six figures. What are you going to do with someone you only see once a week and sees you as a diminishing asset because they’re rich. Also, finding someone to love is not a competition, your soulmate is pre destined by your maker. You can’t win what’s not yours already.

[@Sp1n1985]

Kevin Samuel's already answered this. Search for it

[@froyokid]

DO NOT listen to Kevin Samuel. In this ignorant community, they define high value as any man making over 100k 😂 who wears fancy clothes, drives fancy cars, and wants a submissive trophy wife less than 25 years old. It’s pretty one dimensional. This is what they imagine every high value man is. They don’t care about his character or morals.

[@SAPPHIREBLUE4712]

You are totally correct in your assessment of the men in our community. And please, excuse the vicarious living followers who think otherwise. Money don’t equate to manhood. It’s like they think money replace morality that very few have in the first place. And besides, until these men learn how to come together and build in their own community, they will always remain at the bottom of society.

[@U4ia28]

The reason why HVM is often defined based on money is because that’s usually what most women here look at primarily when determining the value of a man. Or more specifically what he’s wearing, what kind of car does he drive, how much is he willing to spend etc. All of which breaks down to his cash flow. Our character and personality are also being assessed simultaneously but the main priority is our money situation. It’s what ends up being the most important thing just above character. This is especially true the more attractive the woman is

[@mariobalotelli2410]

tigerstripes 1) high value man has $$$ (Floyd Mayweather, Drake, fifty, future, NBA youngboy, etc are high value men. This is why these types of men are high in demand ? Most women would rather be in a relationship with future, Drake and NBA youngboy than a loyal Doctor.. 2) high quality man has intellect, character and morals.. Women would still take Diddy over a loyal lawyer that has morals, character and intellect because his value (bank numbers) is higher 3) highly spiritual man. A lot of deeply religious man are broke and boring. 😂

[@sweetbrutaljwilliams226]

Nobody wants to take accountability for their actions or how they behave. Maturity plays a big part in all of this, with both women and men. You all are making it very miserable and stressful for adulthood, and you're doing it to yourselves. You all are thinking way too much. Smh....this generation.

[@SelfimproventandDevelopment]

I love just love when women are being examined it turns too “ both” “women and men “ it’s called humility and y’all got none

[@sweetbrutaljwilliams226]

@@SelfimproventandDevelopment See what I mean? I started not to even respond to you at all. But I guess...Smh. Hope you enjoy cause this is all you're getting sir. Not cool that you took what I said and turned into what you wanted it to mean, Smh. I will remain the mediator bro. because I am a peaceful person. That's just who I am. I'm not bothered in that manner at all my brother. See, you don't even know me, and automatically assume the worse about me. I have a man and am VERY happy sir, and so is he. I'm just tired of this back and forth between women and men I keep seeing on social media. Yall need to stop being so mean, negative and hateful to one another... A relationship is not as hard as you all are making it. Okay I'm done, blessings to you!

[@levibondjr4650]

@@sweetbrutaljwilliams226 Beautiful comment. It’s the truth. There’s a lot of entitlement with both genders.

[@janiemaebeauty]

Seeing this vid made me think geez I don't wanna get to the point of earning six figures if everything is gonna be made so complicated. I don't want it that much.....

[@levibondjr4650]

@@janiemaebeauty Nah. Shoot for it. You got this! Keep your feminine energy and solid mentors/married couples in your network.

[@querenm3303]

If a woman is already busy doing her thing ,she won't be upset that a guy is busy too...

[@LovinCosmetics]

Agreed!

[@CleverTactics]

he loves that word congruent.

[@PeterBagjuice]

One of my favourite words

[@nellynel6141]

@Raul Santiago 💯💯👏🏽

[@aaroncoles2433]

@Raul Santiago God Bless you for the expounding. You sound like a priest to this generation.

[@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves]

My problem with men and women now is that everything is one-sided it's not true love it's like everybody is just out there to get whatever they can out of a person you can't expect to have a healthy relationship if you're only in it for all the wrong reasons

[@Waters..]

Exactly. And lowkey a lot of these channels are the problem. That goes for both the men and womens channels.

[@mac1bc]

Agreed. It's like people nowadays don't know how to compromise on things anymore.

[@sechabatheletsane9784]

@@mac1bc yeah. It's like it's my way or the highway. They don't teach about the grey areas and compromise which are parts that 90% of couples struggle with because no one is perfect. That would be my only criticism of channels like this.

[@mac1bc]

@@sechabatheletsane9784 yeah, and that part of relationships isn't as glamorous to talk about lol. It takes effort from both people to make these things last..

[@jojoc326]

Thank you👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 tell that to my crappy X. Cheater, liar yet accused me of things that he himself was already committing === hypocrite. A grown woman doesn't have time for that ✌🏼

[@Allergic2broke]

“Women don’t care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winner.” Work a lot you’ll get cheated on. Don’t work you’ll be a bum. Gotta find balance

[@unlimited971]

find the balance for you. you will never find one from a woman. they don't care about the needs of HV men or any man. only what they can get from it.

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

Damn I missed that sermon with my husband. We built together! I was younger so it was ok. Nowadays, um NO!

[@bigmoney2674]

Nah no balance. Man by default has to work until the job is done.

[@Allergic2broke]

@@bigmoney2674 life itself is balance. Duality. Yin and yang. Expand your consciousness

[@paulkofa3238]

@Glizzy God let’s be honest who want to build with 40 year old man? I’m 25 by the time I’m 40 I BETTER HAVE MY COMPLETE SHIT TOGETHER

[@seshatsia]

Why is it that women on that level don't struggle as much with balancing time like men do? I get to be understanding of time but some ppl will use that as an excuse. You make time for what you want.

[@lmuhoja]

So a HVM should sacrifice time for his woman? And therefore make less than he could have? It’s easier to replace the woman and get a new one who’s okay with his unavailability.

[@seshatsia]

@@lmuhoja you didn't comprehend my statement.

[@mrknarf4438]

Oh, women at that level do struggle with time management. Which is among the reasons why there are less women among the top earners: on average a woman would rather have a more fulfilling life and sacrifice work than dedicate her whole life to her career. But men don't care much about their women's earnings, which is why men don't complain about this issue: we want hot girls who are fun to be around, if you don't have time for us because you're all about your career we're likely to leave very soon.

[@redeemthetime9990]

Heavy sigh......... The Kevin Samuels MIndset is becoming a virus worst than Corona.

[@AJweathersby]

Kevin simply put a term and definition to what women have been saying they wanted since the 80s. A man making 6 figures, and capable of enabling a stay at home housewife. And now those guys have the floor to speak their own mind.

[@nadianorman2274]

Do you see how Samuels completely TRASHES those women?!! Wow!

[@AJweathersby]

@@nadianorman2274 Do you not listen to what these women are saying when they call in? From high school dropouts to PHDs, minimum wage to half a million dollar annual income, every woman calls in saying that they want a top 10% earning man and the other 90% aren’t good enough or worthy of submission. If they were married, most of them left the husband for little to no reason, like “I was young and dumb” or “I fell out of love.” Most of these women have kids, and most of them admit that the baby dad tried to marry them, and they refused because being a wife was “too serious” (but being a baby momma wasn’t). We need 10x more Kevin Samuels shows. Damn those women’s feelings, their mentality is what’s really destroying the community.

[@kenniseelder5460]

Yeah who sent him!!?

[@sharleenmike7373]

We first need to get high value man/woman definition straight.

[@laqueshah]

Isn’t it reasonable to expect the lack of free time to eventually come to an end. Also, relationships have to be nurtured. It’s simply one of those things. You have to make time. It may not be all the time but it has to fit somewhere.. and can we normalize healthy communication. A woman expressing how she feels or simply wanting to have a discussion is not automatically complaining.

[@rmercedes971]

To me is all about having a balance and being with the person who is willing to find that balance with you... Every relationship will be different. Clear boundaries and expectations have to be established from the beginning, you BOTH have to be willing to compromise.

[@mrknarf4438]

If the lack of free time comes to an end, so does the money income. At least it gets a drastic reduction, because no one gets paid to just lay on the couch and do nothing for long. You want a man with free time? He's going to have less money, it's simple as that. Don't expect a man's lifestyle to change, especially if he's that committed to his job. Yes, relationships have to be nurtured, but don't expect to get into one with a high achiever and be his top priority: he's a high achiever for a reason, the moment you force him to put more work into the relationship he'll leave because his job is the priority. It won't be a problem for him: countless girls all go for the high achievers, and some of them are willing to have a suboptimal relationship to enjoy the money.

[@SixHundredAndSixtySix]

Think about this... I'm a man who will be working in Biglaw where the average person puts in 70-90 hours a week. I'll be on call all throughout the the day. I'll have to live that life for 6 years. After 6 years, I can do 1 of 3 things. I can leave biglaw where, after 6 years, I'd be making 400k a year for a 40-50 hour-a-week job that gives 160k (door for that job is not likely open without doing those first 6 years of biglaw), I can leave biglaw for a 35-40 hour-a-week job for 80-100k, or I can stay in biglaw and work my way up to partner where I'll be making over 500k, if not eventually near a million dollars a year (while still working 70-90 hour a week, if not more). As a lawyer, I really don't have any other feasible offers. Although, I'm taking a 4th, secret option. I am going to start a business somehwere in my 6th year of Biglaw based on my passions. This business, however, will up my 70-90 hour work week to 90-110 hours. Then there will be a slow transition out of biglaw to my business where, once it can support me, I can invest all my time into the business and reach the point where I don't have to work more than 40 hours a week. To get to that point, look at the average amount of time for a person to form a successful enterprise. It would likely take me 10 years at least. If you add that to my 6 years of biglaw, I won't be living that ideal life until at least 41 years old. So, should I not date a woman until I'm 41 years old? Well, I guess that's my plan. How's that for making time for a woman?

[@UnderConstruction1017]

I don't necessarily agree with the part about seeing your kids once a week. Another component or attribute of being a complete (man) is knowing how to sacrifice across the board that means seeing your kids as often as they need to be tented too. Let's not forget we are black men where father's weren't in the household regardless of the reasonings. If we strive to break the financial barriers within the black community let's also strive to break the consistency barrier as far as presence as well. ✊🏿🙏🏿

[@thadonjuan2339]

What do you mean you don't agree with it? Thats reality. A lot of high wealthy competitive men have limited time because their careers come first. Michael Jordan put basketball before everyone and everything. That's why he was the best. Women want men who are rich and wealthy, well they are gonna be second do that man's career. That's reality bruh.

[@KtotheG]

Nurturing men have less testosterone and are less aggressive, which normally means less successful. You can't have it both ways. You can't be Mr. Mom at home AND a high achiever amongst sharks out in the world.. You gotta pick one...

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you for sharing

[@19brittani]

@@thadonjuan2339 mike worked hard on and off the court. He partied and chased ass too. He kept his dirt undercover but he was a big gambler at casinos in Vegas and AC when he played. That is why his wife divorced him. It cost him about 150million and a mansion but he moved on from her and got a younger babe with no kids...

[@UnderConstruction1017]

@@thadonjuan2339 and look how much respect he gets from his offspring. Ask yourself what's more important my brother

[@faye_bulous]

Can we please redefine a High Value Man here? 🙄Being a HVM is not all about a man’s worth, as in how much money his making. A HVM worth is based on his personality traits. He’s a man who understood his purpose and the positive impact others around him can experience. That is a High Value Man! 😚

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Only unattractive women spill this “personality” matters bullshit. They settle for what they can get. If they had the options, their wouldn’t give a shit about personality.

[@faye_bulous]

@01blacmoney do for self 1st clearly it seems like I like pancake is one of those who only care about the outside package not caring about what’s on the inside. So sad and so poor!

[@faye_bulous]

@@ilikepancakes2368 hmmm so you don’t mind being cheated on, lied to, cursed at, disrespected and you name it you wouldn’t mind? Sure beauty is a factor but If beauty counts over personality you’ll bang your head over and over

[@faye_bulous]

@01blacmoney do for self 1st 🙌🏾💯 agree!

[@lavellelee5734]

Love the pfp

[@howapower]

Like attracts like. Going on a date & asking those real questions. Setting relationship goals . 💎

[@joyfulpraisefitness]

That’s why it’s so important to know your love language and mine is spending time! I learned that early on 😍

[@seangarvey3875]

As an older successful man you guys are rocking it. You need to let these ladies know that it takes time. I have not met many men who were millionaires before 40 so keep grinding kings 👑

[@alexag7686]

This is sad. Hopefully this age of Aquarius will help the collective conscious shift the perspective to an actual mindset and ideas of high value.

[@bipolard00d17]

Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.

[@pwrhitterp]

The things that women value in men aren’t the same things men value in women ... so just because you earn 100k doesn’t mean a man doing the same see you as his equal

[@olaakande5581]

Bc women don’t spend money on men. At all lmao

[@caleb6590]

That’s the big key that ladies don’t understand.

[@Msalike]

we were made to balance each other out. We are different species and will never be the equal/same..I love being a woman!

[@Msalike]

@@olaakande5581 it’s not in our nature to provide for a man. Yeah it sounds good but it strips the mans masculine energy and takes the woman’s feminine energy away. A man doesn’t want to be in a woman’s shadow. Nothing is wrong with spending money on food, clothes or even for a woman to pay a cable bill but do not provide for a man.

[@unluckyobserver6532]

@@Msalike he mean if both parties are making 100k why not spend on each other equally, but you know how the old saying goes “what’s mine is mine, what’s yours is mine”

[@Sareytrini98]

This was a short video but packed with so much great content, I love this channel 🥺

[@Cunashi009]

If women don't understand the needs of an average man. What hope do they have to get and maintain a high quality man?

[@essentialoilsme]

Great question

[@pwrhitterp]

Women expect more from a man then men expect from women

[@Ms.AshleyHoney]

Not for me I don’t !

[@Sp1n1985]

True Men aren't allowed to have standards

[@aidan9656]

Shouldn’t it be that way if men are supposed to be leaders? Shouldn’t we expect more from the person who is the head of the household? Too many fatherless men nowadays expecting women to baby them the same way their mothers did.

[@aidan9656]

@Rudy O'Brien If you’re a man who leads and provides, sure, why not? I think the disconnect nowadays is that a lot of men no longer take pride in or ever learned how to be strong men who can lead. If you want your woman to be a “traditional” housewife, that means you have to work hard and pay all the bills. Be the one to defend and take the bullet if necessary. A lot of guys don’t want this, but still want the benefits of being a traditional man. Being a man isn’t easy. But trust me, if you’re a truly masculine man and you want a “feminine” wife, who will submit and allow you to lead, you don’t have to ask lol. Women naturally gravitate towards these types. The problem is this generation has so many lazy, porn-addicted, and misguided men who read one Rollo Tomassi book and go 30 days on NoFap and suddenly think they’re “high value men”. Our grandfathers’ generation would laugh.

[@nellynel6141]

@@Sp1n1985 A lot of men on KZbin keep saying that which makes men look like weak helpless victims. Instead I say “women show their insecurities when MEN have standards”. There’s more strength and TRUTH in that. I understand where you’re coming from though.

[@schaneldrake6458]

This is a very good conversation, and puts a High Value Mans needs into perspective. Men have the right to express what they want and they should have it just like us women. As a married woman I knew what I wanted in a mate. When my now husband were getting to know each other he shared his requirements as well, we agreed, and boom I was married within a year! With communication you will stop wasting time and heartbreak. Our marriage is thriving 5 years later. Every woman won't marry a high value man, but they can definitely be a cooperative help mate. Women can help their man/husband build a legacy that they, and their, children will get the residual benefits from!!!❤❤❤

[@scherardlindsay2906]

Teamwork make the dream work!

[@cristinam3234]

I love this! Men and women both need to set their own standards for eachother. That’s the only way we can be truly happy and successful in a relationship. I can tell you and your mans will have a very successful marriage! ❤️

[@Lolallaa]

I wish I had friends like you. It’s hard when you live in a small town . I want a man of substance, morals and integrity . Very hard to find but I’m sure it can happen. Also want someone who can afford to do fun things. He doesn’t have to make 6 or 7 figures but knows how to manage and save.

[@LifeWithCandis]

Love this guys! Thanks for your perspectives! ✨

[@m.b.6974]

Great convo, guys! Keep up the good work :)

[@wildfreya6269]

🧚🏽‍♀️I'd rather be with a guy who works for the city and has a loyal heart than any "high value" guy. To me the highest value man is a man who appreciates being fed and cared for. I had that man for over a decade until he passed. Been single for 5 years. Many opportunities, but the warmth isn't there. Still holding out for that real gold. Real connection.

[@chrismog286]

I'm gonna echo what others in the comments section already touched on, "High value" should have nothing to do with money. I just bought a million dollar house in a country club gated community in Atlanta last month, but it wasn't done overnight. I ve been married to my lovely wife for 23yrs, 3 wonderful teenagers (MIT & GT bound kids). Our success comes from me having a father in the home that thought me how to love a woman, my wife came from a mother who thought her how to be submissive to her husband. I knew the type of woman I wanted to marry after playing the field was a humble, smart but not necessarily educated, and spiritually rich spirit. I waited for that woman, then found her at a wedding reception of a mutual friend . The rest is history! 🤷‍♂️

[@brucew.willett8196]

Great conversation. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and thoughts.

[@ladylightvybe4138]

Too much emphasis on material value guys. Not all women are this superficial & look for a good soul. Personally, this does not impress me as I look deeper. Feed your soul, not your bank account.

These people be acting like the women meant on a daily basis aren't regular women. Like really. Stop hanging out with rappers and models and talk to everyday women. Geez.

[@goddesseccentric8245]

I had a friend complain to me about a man who she dealt with who made her the side chick all because she didn't want to wait on the man she had already established something with. I asked her, you want a busy man or a broke man? It takes a STRONG mindset to be with an entrepreneur and stay.

[@jalilgrier9284]

Absolutely

[@superstarstrong8490]

Sigh! Only 1% of single black men make 6 figures. Black women are the most educated. Instead of telling your girlfriend to deal with a busy man, tell her to find some business courses and create her own wealth. These men on this video are laughing about how competitive it is to get “men like them.” They never mentioned anything to do with character or what makes a relationship last. They talk about money and how hard it is for a women to catch a man like them. Bullshit! A real man with some fucking morals isn’t looking for a woman that looks likes a social media star with the baddest body. Nope, he is looking for who he find beautiful in his eye and if she can stimulate him mentally. Who said she can’t be fat and out of shape. If that is who he likes then he will fall in love with her. She may make more than him or less than him. He will find her to be the prize and pursue her diligently. These men looking suspect as hell, think they the prize. A real man is with money wouldn’t sit around needing to shoot a video to make women feel like it’s impossible to meet a man with money. They never even mention the competition and they just talk about relationships in general but not this bullshit brainwash topic about brothas with money and how how a women suppose to not have expectations because he so fucking busy and she needs to understand. A man who is too busy for his family and don’t carve out time for her is an asshole. Life is too short to put profit over people/family. Get the fuck out of here. Black women and black men need to find better ways to uplift each other. We all know black women go to college at a much higher rate then black men and now days are dating outside of race just to get a man on her level. How about we envoy our black male youth to start a business or go to college so our black little girls will not have to fucking compete. This whole video pissed me off. No substance and no solution to a bigger problem in our community!

[@goddesseccentric8245]

@@superstarstrong8490 that's a long ass comment. She makes her own money. I'm not talking about a sensible woman who a high value man will actually WANT. She has a case rn for stalking, breaking and entering, etc. Still has an old warrant from her baby dad. Ur goin in without context lol. She is one of those that is incredibly needy and thinks a man is suppose to be available at the drop of a dime. I know how demanding she can be because she does it to her friends and we're all telling her the same thing. They aren't TALKING about character so this video isn't for you. I know broke men and 6 figure men who are equally complete assholes, same as I know 6 figure men with a heart of gold. Stop taking offense to things on the internet that have nothing to do with you.

[@rosamoreno4794]

Some of us do understand HVM and some of us don’t want it. They’re demanding yet average looking at best, most not even average. Some of us are NOT attracted to that and there money won’t do it for us either.🤷🏻‍♀️ They can be as delusional as the baddies, the vixens. I still choose love and sexual attraction. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@cookie-sn5ex]

Period

[@bblove6667]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@BBSurf37]

So you kinda missed the point. Money is a factor yes but what was being referred is character mostly and other traits not mentioned here. HVM that you were with weren’t HVM what you had were rich punks.

[@rosamoreno4794]

@@BBSurf37 so you kind of don’t get most men are below average looking in the face and body 💯. 🤮 Sir you are delusional and unmarried like the rest of us.

[@bbbbbbbbbb94]

Hey I'm single & very attractive hmu I'm broke but i can cook

[@shortyw74]

Great honest and open conversation!! We should be having more conversations like this

[@msessenceofreality]

I love discussion videos, rather than one man talking at a viewers and belittling some. This was superb. New Sub!

[@JamieModelvsDirector]

Eloquently Spoken!!!! Very Well Dressed Fellas 👍🏾

[@JSustain]

That term, "high-value." It implies there are men, human beings, with low value or even no value. Sounds snobbish to me and does it even consider the value of a person's heart. What about men who have low income and high morals. The messaging is off, IMHO.

[@devin4613]

Because that term is being used in a dating sense. A homeless man with high morals is nice but in a dating marketplace they have little to no chance in getting a suitor i.e. low value.

[@yokahudivine4746]

@@devin4613 Exactly. Men and women who cannot accept that their are hierarchies in regards to choosing a mate are delusional.

[@U4ia28]

These value rankings were birthed from women’s expectations. A high value man is the man that a large percentage of women are shown to want.

[@rodgerelledge4151]

What are they chances of a descent man with good heart have with a woman if he doesnt have good finances ?

[@monicacobbs4247]

Well said !

[@masmodiba]

Listen!! Why called us out!! Love to see it 🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥🤞🏼

[@colorfulcodes]

Ugh, still on this HVM subject. Feels like Reddit now. Also, lot of men in tech and finance are high earning and work 9-5. Absence? Depends on the person.

[@koreylr]

nobody making 6 figures is working 40 hours a week. any high earner is pushing 60 or better.

[@joshuanunoo5866]

@@koreylr A lot of workers in the tech industry work 40 hours and make 6 figures🤨 In Finance, 60 to 80 hours is expected though

[@koreylr]

@@joshuanunoo5866 tech workers are NOT working 40 hours bro. i can assure u that... anyone that makes money is working atleast 55 a week.

[@joshuanunoo5866]

@@koreylr Software Engineers work 8-5 or 9-6 Monday- Friday bro

[@wesleydaniels40]

You are right, I’m in IT and make $70k. It’s not all about money. Men and women fail to realize that... social media will corrupt your mind. I do consider myself red pill but not to the point where I bash every woman. I stay on my purpose and if the right women comes along then so be it, if not.. God has me

[@bully_maguire69]

Looking sharp fella's

[@Swest1]

They really do👌🏾

[@ashurastorm5841]

Fax💪🏿

[@ramseyjohnson5682]

I love your acc name lol

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank You

[@LoveAshleyCash1]

Women think having a 6 figure man just washes away all the stress in their life when high value man wife’s are getting cheated on every other week and they have to take care of the house ... always think about the full experience you are dreaming about

[@froyokid]

Y’all say this to scare women into settling. Poor men cheat too!

[@LoveAshleyCash1]

@@froyokid Nah it’s know what you are signing up for

[@justinwinfree7843]

If you working 16 hours plus you don't have time to cheat. And you too tired to cheat you just want to go home at least that's my case.

[@drea0523]

@ BLCK CEO A high value man would not cheat on his wife because he understands the importance of relationship management. Making six figures does not automatically make someone a high valued person. There are other important measures such as their emotional intelligence, self awareness, fulfilling their purpose, emotional management, and having a positive relationship with others. If people are attracting low vibrational people into their lives, they need to self reflect instead of blaming a specific gender and/or race for them participating in a broken partnership.

[@AK46supr]

@@LoveAshleyCash1 a lot of them really missed the point. The point is the most valuable people have alot of options. If their mindset isnt healthy they have the most chances to cheat. And anyone can become wealthy, but its harder to keep a healthy mind. That's why just wanting a man that makes way over 6 figures is shallow and usually does come with problems. The money isnt valuable the mind is, for both men and women. Just because a dude is "poor" doesn't make him worthless & just because a dude is "wealthy" doesn't make him the best partner. This isnt to scare women into "settling" its to wake up and realize is it worth only wanting the guy making 6 figures the end all be all for the relationship work?

[@binkbreezy4910]

Man! I love this guys channel!!!!

[@lifeofsharazandkiran]

I appreciate you guys so much. Keep up the good work.

[@DrClarenceLeeJr]

The answer is to have a plan where you can address the time disparities - and follow through on the changes needed to address her concerns.

[@ruthiethomas8196]

And here he is...a ”high-value man.” Empathic, critical thinker, compromised. Finally.

[@harpazoseason]

I am on a Roommates Binge. This is such compelling content. I'm married with a daughter. It's promising to see these issues discussed. God bless anyone who reads this comment 💗

[@MartinGarden]

This is really good btw!

[@princerahming261]

YO...THESE GUYS ARW GOOD!! IM A NEW SUBSCRIBER💪✊✊✊💥