Women In Their 30s Are Sharing What Life Feels Like Without Kids

[@Iasia.M]

46, No kids, no man, no drama.. Just peace..

[@Exoticbarbie.]

Ammennnn

[@AutumnAprodithe]

And you look beautiful. No wrinkle or stress because of a man and his crotch drop.

[@TrueMiThompson]

46,2 children, divorced, a lot of drama,stress gummies and peace after 10pm 😂😂

[@TheMichelex20]

Same

[@yashyashwanth5888]

Drama are created by women in relationahip.

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

54 no kids, no husband, no boyfriend...just a doggo mom...peaceful af and starting a herb garden on my back patio this weekend

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🧖🏾‍♀️💇🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

[@txspacemom765]

Oh watcha growing! Sounds lovely!

[@kimberly8695]

Girl, what we growing?!!!??

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

@@kimberly8695 LOL...dill, thyme, garlic chives, chives and basil...NO sticky icky...LOLOLOL

[@shaypope4732]

Nice they grow back during spring is the best part

[@NovaPrincess]

I'm 31, happily single, childfree homeowner. My house is clean and quiet. I feel relaxed and can take care of myself. I can play xbox, watch movies, work out, do yoga, sleep, read, go to show, live abroad, or do whatever I want whenever I want.

[@cherryivana1129]

Congrats!

[@sheilamiller8390]

U GO GURL🎉🎉🎉🎉 LOVE THAT 4 U😂😊❤ #CHILDFREE4LIFE

[@vegasvalor6591]

I remember when I could get up and do whatever I wanted. Sweet freedom. 😂

[@jaslyn5501]

Bliss 🤍

[@basha8313]

yessss👏👏👏

[@peachesandpoets]

37 and I love it. Just me and my dog. I didn't even want a dog, I got "trapped" by an ex trying to slow me down because he couldn't trap me with a kid. Jokes on him, I'm the best dog mommy. Lol.

[@jinijinxer97]

Nahh they trapping fur childs too?!

[@attitudeproblem6462]

I’m sure that must burn his _ass!_ 😂😂😂 The dog survived in the relationship but he didn’t!🤣😂🤣🤪

[@jazzygirl4140]

It's funny you say you got dog trapped because so did I. I'm 35 and childfree. I'm also an only child and my mom had a shih tzu and she dropped this dog off on me 3 years ago and hasn't picked her up since. She's been traveling nonstop and apparently, can't handle the demands of having a dog. 😂 But she's a sweet dog and doesn't require much so I don't mind lol

[@AminahMight]

I love that you flipped it on his ass 😂😂

[@ruen13]

If he could abandon the dog he tried to "baby trap" you with, he could have also abandoned you with a child.

[@DeborahEvans-r2v]

65. No kids, husband, or problems. Going back to college, starting a business, won 1'st in martial arts sparring over 50 division two weeks ago. NEVER regretted staying single. It's your life, and you can make it beautiful. Keep strong and take no crap, everyone! 😊

[@colinmavrich7131]

Congrats boo!

[@adrienne7642]

Loooove that! Congratulations 💕

[@FindingMeFindingMyTribe]

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@semerahpadi4484]

I am just worried in future if feels sick, like needs hospitalization. I hope not.

[@gammayin3245]

@@semerahpadi4484 That's what insurance is for.

[@amazinggrace313]

44 no kids, no spouse , make over 6 figures , do what I want with my money and time , my nervous system is at peace and I’m not being taken for granted . Life is good and I always naturally do good when single.

[@barringtonedwards7008]

BLAH BLAH BLAH. YOU DEMONS WILL SOON SEE HOW YOU PAVED THE ROAD TO YOUR OWN DESTRUCTION AND IN MOST CASES YOU WOMEN ARE THE BIGGER PROBLEM

[@itzz.loreal]

Sounds like paradise🙌🏾

[@purpleluma4715]

"Not being take for granted" I'm married, and I've been taken for granted, it's what's made me regret getting married. Being single and free is so underrated.

[@Jazzmynnnn]

I just know you’re the rich fun aunty! 🥂

[@91F810]

33 female, no kids, get to play my PS5 ANYTIME, I can sleep till dawn, wake if I want to, I do not have to rush home to cook and I am at so much peace and happiness.

[@ladybre888]

This will be me fasho next year imma be playing gta 6 no problems 😂

[@RoxxiWalker]

You work?

[@91F810]

@@RoxxiWalker Yes

[@yashyashwanth5888]

Why you need PlayStation

[@91F810]

Why not? ​@@yashyashwanth5888

[@briannadickson2884]

39. No kids, no dog, no man, no cat, not even a goldfish. I have a luxury 2 bedroom apartment to have an extra spiritual/yoga room. Pretty crystals and spiritual doodads all over that are not being touched or swallowed by a now limp choking child to add hospital debt to my expenses. Only people I want to talk to are my clients. Peace

[@Childfree334]

Sounds fabulous 👌🏾 ❤

[@sharenahartley649]

I’m child free and I am 35 I’m stress free yeah

[@shamanoftruth4699]

😂😂

[@user-blob]

So jealous 😁 Good for you 👏

[@fortyshorty2459]

Sounds like a spa day everyday 💎 🥰 love to hear it!

[@Randomobserverhere]

How does it feel to have no kids at 34? I have more money to spend on myself, I am not burdened by the stress of being a parent, I have my freedom, I have time to myself, my house is always clean, my body looks amazing, and so much more wonderful benefits. This is why I will never have kids. I am more than happy to be the kind, beautiful, sexy, brilliant, and rich aunt.

[@pabloescobarschanclas]

this.

[@lynx70123]

50+. Childfree by choice. One of the best decisions I've ever made.

[@pynklady11]

The first clip is meeeeeee silence is BLISS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Exactly!💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

Yep 👍🏽

[@jltdqw]

Just because, you have the equipment to make a baby doesn’t mean you should have one. Is a lot people out there, that shouldn’t have kids. Most people wanted babies (toys), not independent small human beings. You shouldn’t have children, to take care of you when you’re old, save money for a care giver. Im a care giver/massage therapist and it’s hard work. Also school volunteered, many of the children that misbehaved is because the parents aren’t present. The commitment of having a child is for life, not until they are 18.

[@LilLadyAy]

Main issue comes from outside, people feeling entitled to your time because they think you can't possibly be busy or tired. Don't let yourselves get taken advantage of, enjoy your freedom.

[@separateifyoucantrelate.]

I stopped answering my phone for everyone on March 30 , 2024… I’ll answer again beginning May 1,2024 honey, those days are over! 😁

[@LilLadyAy]

@@separateifyoucantrelate. I hope it's been peaceful. I logged out of social media and a few years ago and let people believe I started full time work when I changed jobs.

[@SweetEssie]

​@@separateifyoucantrelate. I might start doing this. I have been returning calls the next day bc they always want something. I give others time only twice a week

[@Prototype1598]

Exactly

[@nashad9349]

This 💯💯

[@mashona518]

In my 30s, quit my job after working for years, went back to school full time, loving it, and still have no desire for children. People keep telling me don’t wait too long, but I am fine being an Auntie!

[@foxylady6901]

35 single, childfree and its very quiet and peaceful. I work as a lawyer, im into community service and have a great group of friends. Im about to travel to Thailand this summer ❤

[@Kotifilosofi]

Building a strong group of lifelong friends is my dream. I think it's a lot more realistic dream without a family life.

[@foxylady6901]

@Kotifilosofi yes! Building my wonderful friend group has definitely made me feel more confident about growing older without a husband and children.

[@salsasoul4112]

I'm 48, it is 1:21 pm EST, and I woke up at noon. It's wonderful. Not having major stress and responsibility is a gift. I'm very happy. Children are a huge responsibility and not meant for everyone. Not having kids was not a plan for me. Life just worked out that way for me, and im super grateful. My skin is flawless, and I look younger than my age. Childfree life is awesome! Wouldn't trade it for the world ❤

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

same🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🧖🏾‍♀️💇🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

[@thesilentdiva]

I wake up "late" too and ppl I know get so jealous of me. I can tell by their slick comments

[@cd1452]

I'm jealous 😢

[@JJ-qt8hh]

Awesome! Same here, Sis. The freedom I have is incredible. I would rather not have children than to have them and regret it.

[@fortyshorty2459]

It’s a gift to NOT have kids tbh 🥰💯 truth be told 🎯💯💯

[@kalasatwater2224]

Love knowing women with no kids exist

[@luvajenoel4248]

Amen to that ❤

[@Elecia23]

Most of my girlfriends are child free lol

[@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke]

​@@Elecia23 Are you from USA?

[@novastarburst3939]

We exist, but unlike many families, we're not noisy and don't make a mess everywhere we go, and lot of entitled guys pretend that we don't exist, so we're kinda invisible. And to be honest, I love being invisible, less dramas, more peace.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

It's so relaxing. No matter how many other problems I may have, none of them involving a man or a child means pretty much everything is fixable.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Peace in Mind, Spirit, and Life 🥰

[@AminahMight]

Lol yes, you can always bounce back from ALMOST any choice.

[@fortyshorty2459]

Exactly 🥰👏👏👏

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

I’m 31 with no kids I’m going to costa rica this month for a whole week alone

[@SasaSasa-wy9wu]

37, Puerto Rico this month for a whole week. Have a wonderful trip

[@livethatlife1830]

Im 48 I have 3 daughters 27,23 and 12 and 3 cats. Its like im single all over again. None of my daughters have children. We all live together ❤️ ❤❤. Ladies live your best life and don't let nobody tell you how to live your life.

[@Armelleee]

girls are the best if have any kids yes agree same

[@t.f.6297]

Im 44 people think Im in in my early 30's, fit, single, no kids, celibate and my manager just asked me if I want to go to London or New York for our team meeting. I said I dont care because I'm always traveling anyway. Plus own my own business💅🧚🏽‍♀️👸🏽

[@Its_like_the_T-Rex]

I'm 39 so my 10 years of experience of being in my 30's in vast. I celebrated my 30th by backpacking through Thailand for a month. I traveled throughout western Canada and the USA several times. I took a year off to backpack throughout Europe and Africa in 2018. I just got back from my sister's house to watch the solar eclipse and she's got a 5 year old and a 7 year old and a husband who has perfected weaponized incompetence. The average speaking volume in her house is screaming. My home is quiet. My cats are chill AF. Being childfree is it's own lifestyle. I'm certainly not lonely or bored. I usually am running ragged gardening and doing my many hobbies lol. But at the end of the day I can take a long bubble bath, smoke some weed and sleep well.

[@Philosophicalpaperti]

54, no kids, no regrets. ✌️Had a rich life filled with travel, living overseas, changing my career. Life is good!

[@aaunyea4799]

I'm tired of having a pet after 12yrs, i definitely wouldn't be able to handle life long children

[@refikhums]

Me too.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

same💯

[@violet18]

Is it a dog?

[@queensavage9896]

Same. Watching them get old is hard as well. 😢

[@imdatchickk]

you must have a dog? get a cat . they are very independent and you don’t have to take them on walks .

[@TheLovelySolitary]

I'm 35 and childless, life is not easy cause you still gotta work & pay bills etc... But when work is over it's my time it's wonderful to do what you want, when you want, where you want. Save and put lotz of money in your savings account.You can be mobile move when you want, there's nobody and nothing holding you back except you. I'll be childfree forever, it's wonderful!

[@Its_like_the_T-Rex]

My sister is a sahm so they have the only one income and her life revolves between chaos and crisis. With just my income I can at least live peacefully.

[@Sheyshel]

49, no kids, no husband/boyfriend. I look 20 years younger and I just moved to Mexico. I wake up grateful almost every morning, I love the life I built for myself.

[@Neesha242]

I overheard a women with two kids say how’s she’s jealous of her friend with no kids. She’s travels whenever and tells her about it and all she can tell her about is her wild kids.

[@I_dont_read_replies_555]

A lot of my mom friends said they live vicariously through me. Some even stopped being my friend.

[@shawntaviap]

But she can still do that with kids I got 3 planning my next trip the beginning of July once I finish school is all about how u want to spend ur time

[@AngelicaEstherxo]

Lol I have two kids and I can travel with them, take them everywhere and they are like having 2 best friends. Some women(who already have kids) just make a lot of excuses 😊 I play video games with them, we go on nature, and whenever I need alone moments they just go play with each other. They make their own popcorn and have their own ”chill out/ movie day” while I do yoga. It’s about teaching them, sometimes you need your alone times and they will understand and have their own thing to do. It’s about teaching them to be independent (it’s easier when it’s more than one actually cause they keep each other’s company). Of course, that is after they are 7 and above. My kids are very mature which is they are like my two best friends.

[@shawntaviap]

​@AngelicaEstherxo gurl I love having independent kids my youngest is 10 my oldest is 14 and I got a 13 year old when they here I don't hear anything from them they go In they room mind they own business it's almost like I don't have kids until they want/need something

[@Neesha242]

@@AngelicaEstherxo Well that is good. I’m happy that you’re having a good experience as a mom. You sound like a good mom. Happy Mother’s Day.

[@Ladyle4ever]

I can't imagine my life without my kids and I thank God every day for the gift of being a mom.

[@Izzy-dw5jv]

❤

[@Izzy-dw5jv]

❤

[@sarinsarit9034]

Amen 🙌🙌🙌

[@cela9852]

​​@@kfr8902come on now mothers say good things about being a parent ALL THE TIME. I can barely escape it in my real life. You just can't see it in this comment section because of the context of the video.

[@tashariecskb4354]

❤❤❤❤

[@Bluehearte07]

It's peaceful, quiet and liberating.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Im No ones Slave Im FREE🥰🧖🏾‍♀️💇🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

[@cosmicbrownie333]

34 and life is significantly less stressful. Clean & quiet home. A thriving garden. Being able to invest in my continuing education without “neglecting” anyone. Coming home to 2 cats who like to chill & eat gourmet snacks (who are also 30 something in cat years) as much as I do. Investing in hobbies that are strictly for my happiness/entertainment like cosplaying, going to anime conventions, building my beauty room since I love fashion, and learning new recipes. All in all I’m having a second childhood pretty much 🤷🏾‍♀️. I was a paretified child and learned early how overrated and unrewarding raising & taking care of people is. My life is now all about me and I’m thriving 🤎

[@smokyquartz5817]

Parentified and abused. Living it up now. Same same.

[@meganrenee5581]

The silence took me out! I love it here 😂

[@dsanders401]

I heart the auntie with no kids. That's what community is supposed to be like

[@maam-yj8ph]

I agree. Child-free women are not a monolith. Some of us are fine with being part-time parents or godparents. Some of us want absolutely nothing to do with kids and yeah, please do not have kids if you do not want kids.

[@uqox]

This is a hard question. Having children in the 20s is hard because you don't know yourself and, in my opinion, you have less life experience to guide another human being. I think 30s is a good time for children; you have a clearer sense of yourself. There is a high level of agency without children, so feedback will be pretty consistent from women without children unless they are responsible for an elderly parent. The amount of self-care you can give yourself is quite high. You can concentrate on goals and self-growth either professionally or privately. The assumption is that women should just be serving either as mothers, wives, girlfriends, or "aunties." No. That time is over. Women are allowed to choose themselves now. Society routinely admires men who adventure, open businesses, gain skills, create art, and create music, often while a woman takes care of them and their children. It is now acceptable for women to take care of themselves, go adventure, open businesses, gain skills, create art, create music, and just live in peace *without any assistance or support of a man", and do this without the added load of a child, and be happy AF.

[@Ravenboppityzoppity]

This wins the comments section imo 🎉

[@alexiscox2766]

This is a fantastic comment. And yes you're so right. I hate the assumption that women should be mothers, wives, gfs or aunties.

[@deeporter7369]

69, no kids, husband ( but he's a gem )....Retired and life is heavenly. Comfortable, content, lots of interests & hobbies. I have never in my life felt lonely or that I was missing anything. Be happy with your choice and live life fully.

[@j.c8727]

40, married for 18 years, 1 fur baby kitten and childfree by choice. Even on my worst days I say out loud least I don’t have to come home to a loud needy child. Yall parents stay blessed.

[@LYYD.]

31, no kids, no man. I went through a heartbreaking breakup last yr, but never again. I was a dummy who put this jerk on a pedestal. After picking myself up, life has been peaceful af! 🙌🏾 Skin is tight and glowing, stress free, more money, going wherever and whenever i please, more room on my bed, I cook for myself and I'm my sole responsibility. Overall happiness ×1million. Haha! I'm thinking I want to take a trip to Europe soon, then Ghana later in the year. Oh and did I mention working on my garden this Spring? 😊 I'm so happy, I could cry.

[@yngfrvr806]

Yaaaaay Ghana is waiting for you 😊 Akwaaba(welcome) ❤

[@LYYD.]

@yngfrvr806 Thank you!

[@ZendreGlymph]

48, No kids, no man, no drama…Peace and quiet. No pets either because I travel way too much 😊. Life is Good.

[@bm5_5_5]

Peace is addictive 🥰 I’ve been living alone for almost 8 years and I love life

[@thisishowitallends9321]

No kids means you don’t lose your personality and have actual hobbies and interests you’re passionate about

[@AngelicaEstherxo]

Lmao we still have personalities and live just like you guys, who told you all that lie? It’s not like kids dont ever go to school and are always tied to the mom 😂 you people are funny, I can travel anywhere with my kids and they are like my best friends. I do yoga, do my hair, my nails EVERYTHING like when I didn’t have kids 💀 now I just have two best friends. Remember, we have already lived both worlds, while you guys just speculate out of fear 😂

[@luvajenoel4248]

​@@AngelicaEstherxo It's much harder to do all those things with kids we not saying It's impossible but not all of us can have hobbies, travel an do other things with kids life is much easier without kids

[@omnib.135]

Yay and Nay! What women need to learn first is to love themselves first! So, they then can attract a man that is on the same vibration of love and creation. Secondly women need to stop complaining about having children when it was their choice to have them. Children are a blessing and yes life changes, but it doesn't stop! Just make sure you have a supportive network prior to and after you have a child. So, you and your spouse can still partake in the joys of a child free life. I think if every woman could create that scenario for themselves then they would have children. Children are the living legacies of all your ancestors dreams. Just like you were. Just raise them up to be that way and so it shall be ❤​ @@luvajenoel4248

[@Raebanz223]

@@luvajenoel4248how would you know of you don’t have any ? Worry about yourself !

[@babydii3487]

When you have a solid foundation and love, children are a piece of cake 💯

[@CatDubASMR]

I'm 34 and had my 1st baby last summer❤🥹. She's my joy. I still do EVERYTHING I want to do for me, cause I make ME a priority. I'm forever on my self care and love journey.IMO, that's where women get it wrong....Thinking your life has to end cause you have a baby. If you can PLAN and stay organized you can do motherhood and not feel you're losing yourself. I have SO much to say on this, but I digress lol. Good video 💜🙌

[@CatDubASMR]

@AlbertNewton-bf6cr No, I'm married and a stay at home mom by choice. I'm the primary hands-on parent throughout the week... I have help if I need it, but I mostly plan things out for myself accordingly.

[@misselle1430]

Lol 😅 somebody wanted you to be single so bad 😅​@@CatDubASMR

[@cela9852]

See I think you are not accounting for so many factors that lead women to feeling like their life has ended after the have kids and the main is you have help. There are many mothers out there that don't have help. Be it due family drama, moving out of state or country, cultural pressure to do everything by themsleves in order to be viewed as a good mother, having partners that could care less about providing assistance, lack of trustworthy people who they could leave their kid/kids with and the list could go on. All the planning in the world comes to nothing when you don't have help.

[@CatDubASMR]

@cela9852 I appreciate your comment and you're 💯 RIGHT. Having help with a child vs not having help is the difference with most women...That's why I didn't care for the comments on this video or the original post on Tiktok. It's levels to this that are totally not mentioned by half these women commenting. That's why I said I digress without going into my personal story, but I know all sides of being a female and having a child that you weren't prepared for vs CHOOSING to have a child n doing what's necessary to care for that child regardless of help coming from blood or hired. Like I said, it's levels to all of this that aren't being mentioned.

[@JennyferPepin]

It feels peaceful and stress-free.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🧖🏾‍♀️💇🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

[@thandompm5ex]

Secured. Balanced. Joyful. Peaceful.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🧖🏾‍♀️💇🏾‍♀️💆🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

34, Childfree, homeowner, wonderful fiancé...👌🏾Chef's kiss!!!❤

[@js43168]

No kids? Just your job, your pets, your hobbies, and the ppl you socialize with. Just like how it was before you had your 1st child.

[@videofan1010]

I don't have children, I'm in my mid-30's and I love my life. Idk, lol.

[@karenmassey8354]

Let’s just put it this way - my biggest worry in life is getting to yoga class on time…Which means I have to be out of bed by 10 am. That struggle is real.

[@separateifyoucantrelate.]

Omg 🤦🏽‍♀️ you literally just proved to me how entitled we are😩 😂 I love it here!

[@TheOracle11111]

I should be on here. I would love to talk about how great life is . 🤗 I’m pushing myself to embark on solo travel. I’m tired of the hooplah when it comes to trying to plan with friends. They have kids and their men don’t like their “single friend” so it’s always BS around travel time, and I opt not to even ask them out anymore. That’s your man sis, not our man.

[@lynx70123]

Do it! The world has become a scarier place lately, but it isn't going to stop me from traveling or traveling solo.

[@user-ip5fm3ck4p]

I wish I knew you guys. I want to travel more internationally but I would rather not go solo. I will if I must though because I'm tired of holding myself back.

[@TrueMiThompson]

I’ve traveled solo with a husband and children at home. It is my 12 days to regroup and find myself again. No freak off or nothing just me, enjoying ME!!.

[@ms.rivera7898]

Girl do the solo travel! That’s all I did when I traveled abroad. You will meet awesome people there.

[@user-ip5fm3ck4p]

@@ms.rivera7898 where did you go? What location is best to start? What kind of things did you do alone?

[@childfreechick2980]

30, no kids, it’s wonderful. ❤

[@Minass848]

Same 32❤

[@astromangomix4613]

To every person who shared their experience-thank you I’ve never heard the perspective of people who are childfree in their older years, so the stories make me feel secure in my own decision to not have children 😊🙏

[@yque4733]

44 in two months. Child, pet and man free by choice. It's absolute heaven. No regrets.

[@marissa._]

• 29, • no kids, • never needed them, • never wanted them, • no boyfriend, • no husband, • asexual, • disabled (*and even if I wasn't disabled, I still wouldn't want, nor need them!*), • LOVES being alone, • silence, • clean home, • can wake up in the afternoon, • only have to shop and cook for myself, • no added extra unnecessary work, • no extra stress, • no added drama, • no added extra expenses, • no having to answer to anyone else, • peace-of-mind, the list goes on. And yes, there is a wrong age to have a kids: teens. Otherwise, if the person is at least 25+, there's no "right" age to have a kid IF that's what the person wants. I mean look at Halle Berry, JLO, Janet Jackson, Naomi Campbell, etc. As long as you have the money, time, bandwidth and wherewithal to care for kids, knock yourself out. 🤷

[@Carla-hq6yp]

Wow

[@rocketchico.2149]

2 small dogs no kids 33 y/o registered nurse, bank account and savings is fat and healthy. My hair is shiny and healthy. I don’t worry about having kids or a husband. My biggest worry today was to carefully pick new makeup and hair products in my Sephora cart. Not sure what’s for dinner tonight….might be spicy ramen or homemade Chinese food.

[@HHCF713]

Your dogs are adorable 😊

[@Carameldamour]

The freedom hits different. The thought of a quiet house and apartment every night. Knowing that I can get up and go. You did it in the time appropriate for you! Have kids when you are ready and not because society tells you what to do.

[@summersultra]

"Knowing that I can get up and go."

[@MaxinetheLoLGamerGirlUSA]

@@summersultrayes!!

[@jackiestringer361]

At 63 ,never had children, life is amazing. No regrets ❣️. Much love to all. No matter the path you go.

[@aliceghans5659]

I understand and respect that not everyone is going to want kids.. However i don't understand how *some* people make it seem like kids are a nuisance. They're such a blessing and there's nothing like having an extension of you in the world

[@frozenrose2305]

Definitely....to each his own....but when i first laid eyes on my son and realized i made another human being, it was and still is surreal. But its not for everyone.

[@hellokitti07]

As a single mom it brings me real joy to know there are women living like this. Even though this wont be reality at least for a long time im just happy to know it exists. And next lifetime ill do things differently.❤

[@KompassOhneNadel]

Can i tell too? 36 woman in germany, single and childfree. 1) my place has my stuff only. my smell, my food, my cosmetic, my books, my plants and my pets. Noone else is thought the things and i dont wake up to kids crying, or snuggling up to me. 2) if i feel like it i can be outside in 5 minutes and stay outside for as long as i want. I dont need to make plans fpr kids. 3) i have time for my job and relex after my job. I can study for myself because i m not tired from caring for small humans. I m learning gardening this year! 3) i can spend my money of what makes me happy. buying gifts for kids in my family, spending money on my pets. Horses basicly eat money lol. 4) staying healthy and look young is more easy if you have no kids that keep you to busy. And you ll get all the dates you want. Guys cant tell if a women is 40 or 14 anyway.... 5) i feel very calm and i have a deeper connection with my friends as i get older. We all childfree and we will be golden girls living together in old age. life is good.

[@Erintii]

Wow. Greetings from Switzerland.

[@dakotamabry1645]

30 , and my son broke my coffee pot because i walked away to take a shower .. meanwhile seeing a woman quietly reading a book , drinking a cup of coffie in her own space .. trying to ignore the instant reflex to not hurt my child every time hes inclined to bite me and my room is completely Trashed , im also live with my father in law . -.- its cool guys dont get married or have children , especially woman , good or bad men dont take the same amount of the work load and im dependent on my husband because no one will hire me and have to ask permission to work or go out again .

[@lajefasbm777_tv8]

I appreciate your honesty sis keep searching Something will reveal itself & guide you 2 be your best version of yourself Don’t give up Sending healing & loving energy 2 you 💜💜💜

[@mariee3658]

I’m sorry to hear that I hope things get better in the future. Don’t give up you have one life if you want the freedom you have to make it happen don’t be dependent on anyone else to create your life because they’ll also have the power to destroy it. God bless

[@ss-ds2dn]

Sending love your way❤

[@dakotamabry1645]

@mariee3658 wasn't my plan to be honest, it's just I got badly injured in my pregnancy and child care is extremely expensive

[@magnarcreed3801]

I’d Yeee thé kid to him and leave.

[@helgapataki4156]

Its fulfilling & free. We don't have to be concerned w/ anyone else unless we want too. No we don't feel guilty or left out. We're not missing anything❤

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

I have a kid, but its incredubly satisfying seeing women unstressed and unbothered and feeling happy 😊😊😊 I had my child at 35. Im 42 I love it. My kid still needs attention, but not as much and can fix simple foods on her own. Ill take her to the park, but i usually walk around the playground with my headphones to get my steps in, then try to set up play dates so she is occupied with friends. You do have medical bills though, and a 7k deductible is rough. Im a happy mom, but its still cool seeing happy childfree women. It tickles me 😂

[@Nasha-y9i]

Same….I am so glad to see more and more women choosing a lifestyle that’s better for them instead of being forced into something. I will absolutely encourage my own daughter to do the same. I adore her to bits… my heart feels like it’s going to bust some days just looking at her, but Motherhood is for SURE a huge responsibility.

[@HarmlessComment]

I'm so happy to see all the aunties in these clips! I feel like people always think childfree women have no children in their lives, that is not the case. I have 6 nieces and nephews, I'm the cool aunt 😎

[@lisameeks4964]

61 no kids, no husband. Live in a custom built log home on 2 acres that's all paid for. I do still work full-time but in my spare time I watch my baby chicks, ducks and geese hatch.

[@Tyshwan]

Sounds Amazing! ❤

[@lisameeks4964]

@@Tyshwan Thanks ! It really is ! When I was a child, my dream was to live somewhere with lots of animals because I loved them so much. It took me many years and 2 failed marriages to get here, but I am now living the life of my childhood dreams.

[@Tyshwan]

@@lisameeks4964 I love it! I've been saying for years, that's the life I want, "Debt Free, Beautiful Scenery, Fresh Organic Food and PEACE." 🤗🥰🙏🏽 After a hard life of constantly STARTING Over, after my oldest daughter passed away, RESTARTED, after leaving a long-term DV relationship, RESTARTED, then caring for ill relatives until they've passed, RESTARTED, losing everything all over again in Hurricane Harvey, RESTARTED, Covid, RESTARTED, raising my other 2 girls by myself 🥺 Now they're Grown! I'm Exhausted 😩 I want to sell EVERYTHING and live a peaceful life from here on out. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I Hope that doesn't sound selfish 🙏🏽 but I feel like I've earned PEACE! 🙌🏽😌

[@Armelleee]

nice love it

[@mythoughts1763]

YALL WOMEN IN THE COMMENT SECTION ROCK!!!!!

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

I’m the First Lady , wrapped in my blanket , sipping hot coffee, and reading a book 📕

[@IClockedTfOuttaYou927]

Girl I just took care of some puppies for 3 days (babysitting). I am fucking exhausted. It made me realize I never want to have kids. I’m so happy I never did and I never will. 💁🏽‍♀️

[@cali-ji5hd]

I think... this is an exercise in dissappointment. Don't think about the what if. Enjoy what you have. There is beauty and ugliness in every life, happy moments and feelings of lonliness and despair. Don't compare your life with someone else's. Don't think you can really evaluate how happy you would have been had you just... etc.

[@ctgal9698]

I never had kids but married later in life and now have 2 young adult stepchildren. I have not a single regret.

[@giovannanicolas8299]

How is it with step children? I don’t think I can do that.

[@bukolalawrence]

​@giovannanicolas8299 I mean, if they are adults and don't live at home, it's cool. My dad married a younger woman when my mom passed. My siblings and I don't live at home. Heck, 2 of us are outside the country, and my 3rd sister lives in a different state.

[@ctgal9698]

@@giovannanicolas8299 I dated my husband when they were teenagers now they're both in college. I've never had issues we all get along very well. I have neices and nephews similar in age with them they all hangout whenever we have get togethers, we all blended well.

[@I_dont_read_replies_555]

This will be me…

[@nicorriesanders]

Just turned 30 last year and I wanted kids but the older I get I realized I like my space and my peace.

[@Brijustmeh]

I’m 32 with no kids, I tried dating and every time the guy wanted to be controlling. So glad to be alone, going to the gym when I want and working. Also I love to just focus on things that make me happy and I have time for.

[@Childfree334]

Life, at least for me, is definitely easier. Not having to go through pregnancy and childbirth, not having the added stress of working to support extra people, having more freedom, making decisions that only affect my life, not being tied to an awful man through a child, being able to save so much more money for retirement, the uninterrupted sleep, the spontaneity. For me, the cons of motherhood far outweigh the pros, but that is just me. I know a few women who thrive on being mothers (but the majority are miserable), and those are the ones that SHOULD have kids. This world would be such a better place if people were not socialized and programmed to be parents, but instead did it because it was their actual desire and choice. For those of you who had kids because of programming (and are now living the reality), you have my sympathy. 😢

[@kaytiwae]

its low key a flex having a clean house all the time and eating snacks for dinner... and waking up whenever you want.

[@ghettomelody]

I’m 39 years old. No kids and working. Took care of one parent who was dying. Now I am taking care of the other one. I do think about “what if I had kids” but I never did press that button.

[@empowered3206]

My daughter is 31 with no kids idk how she feels but me as her mother can tell you I feel great that she doesn't have any, I don't want to be a grandma it's a money saver, my house stays clean, no stress I love my peace, I don't have to worry about if I would be able to see the grandkids or not, it's a great feeling.

[@kellymills8779]

Late 40s, childless, life is good. And I love children. ❤️🙂

[@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke]

You can adopt

[@kellymills8779]

@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke I will in a few more years. 👍🏿

[@happygolightly]

36 no kids. I am enjoying a peaceful life. I have many hobbies, lots of friends. I love it. My time is my own.

[@wmarch88]

35, single, no man, childfree, no job, I lost my job on March and I'm looking for a new one, no pets, a lot of plants, no worry about how can I feed my children when I move with my mom and I don't have money, waiting for my last job money (on my country if you fire someone who was a good employee you have to pay money) so while I wait I don't have to worry about baby food, when I get a job I'm going to save money for a baby dog, and more plants.

[@alwaysfabulous9965]

Their lives are GOALS, as a childfree woman in my 20's I'm excited for my childfree future!

[@miyagriffin9673]

Me too.

[@natl8164]

My life is peaceful AF. My body is amazing. I've traveled the world. I can buy overpriced unnecessary shxt without thinking twice. Oh, and the only butt I wipe is my own.

[@Earthangel11179]

I'm 33, no kids. Life is quiet and i live alone. Thank you God. I worked my whole life to get here. Probably going to get a cat soon.

[@chadguindon6909]

I’m 40 and I have no children. I love how it feels because I have no responsibilities but for myself. Here is what I love about being childfree. 1. Not spending my money on children. 2. Not changing diapers. 3. Not being woken up at 2am by a crying baby. 4. Not cleaning vomit, urine and feces. 5. Not helping with homework. 6. Not going to leisure activities. 7. Not having toys cluttered everywhere. 9. Not dealing with crying, yelling, screaming and temper tantrums. 10. Not being asked too many questions. 11. Not teaching manners. 12. Not relying on a babysitter. 13. Not having children’s shows on my TV, tablet or phone. 14. Not dealing with teenage drama. 15. Not coming home and finding empty pizza boxes and alcoholic bottles and cans. 16. Not making sure that restaurants have child-friendly items on the menu.

[@miyagriffin9673]

You just listed half of the reasons why I don't want kids and I agree with you 💯 %.

[@chadguindon6909]

@@miyagriffin9673 Thank you so much. Let us childfree people unite for once.

[@Minass848]

❤❤❤ same here❤❤❤

[@R0291-l1l]

I’m in my 30’s with no kids and it’s pretty good. I don’t make a ton of money, so no I’m not going on big international trips back to back (I plan to visit France but I’m going to have to save for months to do it.) But what money I do have after bills, I get to spend on myself how I want to. I have time and space to devote to working on my mental health, keeping my house beautiful and clean, cooking delicious and nutritious fresh food for myself, going to the gym, reading, writing, starting a vegetable garden, and visiting friends in the area. If I were rich, my life might seem more glamorous to the world but it is full of simple joy and relative freedom. If I were a mother, I would be in desperate poverty, likely would have to live with my parents, and I would have no money or time to spend healing and self-actualizing. So no, I would not trade it. And with how the world is going, I would not feel right bringing a child into it, even if I wanted one.

[@PrincessPowerranger]

To be honest being an aunt who is always there for the nieces and nephews that's honestly one of the most unselfish things you could possibly do❤ having an amazing aunt who's there for you is a 🙌 blessing ❤

[@denesejamerson2356]

Wanna hear from someone in their 60's? It's peaceful, serene, calm, unrushed, unpressured, unbothered, unhurried. I've got money in my purse, every four years I buy a "brand new car, house is paid off. Having renovations done on the paid off home. Cook when I WANT, clean when I want cause I don't make messes! I've gone to SEVERAL comedy and music concerts including (2) Beyonce' concerts. I'm ALWAYS making charitable contributions cause I have extra money to do so. I come, go, leave, went; at will!

[@mayajones3759]

I’m 32 and I’m sad I can’t/won’t have a daughter. I’m happy I know better than to bring my child into this hot mess of a world. I’d resent me if I was born right now and inherited this trash heap.

[@jaslyn5501]

29. Single w/ no children. Bliss is an understatement. My days mostly consist of dancing around the house, listening to music, lighting candles/incense, preparing/ordering my favorite foods, being in nature, and being wrapped in a blanket.I feel so much freedom and I’m thankful that I am able to focus solely on my well being. I travel and try new things often. I love slow mornings and lazy weekends. My home is peaceful, clean, and quiet. I love getting off work and only worrying about what I want to eat and not having to help with homework lol. I am healthy in my mind, body, and spirit. I truly could not see my life any other way. Co parenting and all this other stuff people have to deal with seems like it would suck the joy right out of life.

[@medusaslocoasisathome9142]

Having children is not the only way to live y’all I promise as a 44-year-old empty Nester.

[@alltheravens1873]

The best part of my 30’s beside the peace was to be able to make mistakes and not have them impact anyone else. In my early 30’s I was scammed out of a lot of money but was able to make it back and it didn’t affect any little ones.

[@chelsaebriana]

33. No children and I’m so at peace with my decision. My husband and I are extremely happy. We truly enjoy our lives and prioritize each other. Scaled back from my career to get back in shape and take care of myself. Packing up to move to Europe in a week!

[@ladyindaroom]

I respect these women’s decision to be childless. By 26 I had to. Had my self esteem been very high back then like it is now. It would have been a whole no. Especially due to me being a single mom, baby daddies were low self esteem choices. Real talk 💯💯💯💯💯 I love mine done get me wrong. I mothered them until adulthood. They 19 and 20. Life would have been better for all of us. Ladies don’t let Society try to limit your womanhood to motherhood. Every woman does not want to be a mom, and that’s their prerogative♥️

[@roxycauldwell544]

27 with no kids. I'm still a big kid myself, I love it. If I want to go on a united states theme park tour, I can do that. Personally if I WANTED kids, I think maybe 24/25 is a good time ONLY because I'd want them to have their aunts and uncles/grandmother in their lives as long as possible. Sometimes I wish I popped out sooner so I could have my grandmother longer.

[@maam-yj8ph]

I would love to do a girlfriend tour of all the state parks in the United States.

[@tatattaylor]

I always wanted to have kids but now at 35, I can't see it happening. I have nieces and nephews so that is good enough for me.

[@blondebeaker938]

Soon to be 31, no kids and unmarried...single af I do not regret anything I need this time for myself..

[@maam-yj8ph]

As an almost 40 yr old child- free woman who lives with family, I wake up grateful knowing I did not pass on my autoimmune diseases to my hypothetical progeny. I work both days and nights. I can afford the expensive foods and supplements that I need to be healthy. I fully expect to be mainly in charge of taking care of my aging parents with my siblings helping out part-time.

[@lovekingdom5581]

People just complain too much. Just live and appreciate life.

[@thems.harrisshow2160]

I absolutely love not having kids. I've thought about it in the past because it was something everyone else was doing, but honey, I'm happy I'm not a follower. I love my life. I actually just relocated from Miami, Florida, to Chicago, as I had moved from Chicago to Miami two years ago just because I wanted the experience. I spent two weeks in Vietnam last April too. I just turned 36 this past March, and I love my life. Once you start seeing your life as your own, outside of men, you'll live wonderfully. GIRL, GO LIVE YOUR LIFE.

[@krissynyc]

31 no kids. 2 doggos. Married since 27. I like my peace. ❤🎉

[@I_dont_read_replies_555]

43 years young with no children. I drive a white Mercedes coupe with tan leather interior leather and wood grain frame (that stays clean ASF), I have a 6 figure + job that I absolutely love, looking to buy a Condo before the year is over. I travel whenever I want, I eat wagyu steaks about once a month, etc… If I keep going people will think I am bragging. I have over 10 nieces, nephews, and godchildren that love me to death. I don’t need any children. 😅 I am good. I give #middleclass Aunties Vibes all day. 😂 By the way… I lost most of my unmarried mom friends as I started to progress in life and took a different path. I wish them well!

[@annecadet3769]

I love this. This brings me so much joy. There is so much to life other than having kids. I’m only in 20. Hearing these things helps understand that it’s OK to be selfish and wanting peace.

[@beepbopboop7727]

31, spent all day naked and napping. Gonna do some academic work at 2am and will order out for dinner ✌🏾

[@Whyh8]

35 year old mom here with a mature 10 year old daughter. My life isn’t much different from the childless women in the video. It wasn’t always like this of course. My daughter likes to draw and stay to herself. So no noise just giggles from time to time. Her room is the only kinda messy area, and I shop when I want. I do have to plan to go on trips for a sitter.

[@corimoon3360]

Glad you said Mature because a lot of people’s kids aren’t like this and some people simply birth kids who are severely disabled, have mental issues, and some even have kids that become killers and/or seem to have a knack for trouble no matter what the parents do. You never know what you’re gonna get and some people who already don’t want to be parents know this and aren’t willing to risk their peace for it.