Women Love Nice Guys But They Lust Hot Guys

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[@rmac8012]

Most women don't KNOW the difference between love and lust. Lust normally wins out.

[@rmac8012]

Basically if you have to break a sweat for her to the basics, she don't want you like that.

[@RomWills]

Unfortunately this is the case.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

I repented from being nice years ago. When I became a confident asshole, she keeps coming..but u gotta get that body right tho

[@RomWills]

The body is the game.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Rom Wills Yes Sir sad but true. preciate another great vid Bro. Rom

[@kj3887]

Never be a nice guy, always be a good guy!

[@MasterBoris86XGaming]

all you gotta do is be indifferent with women and assertive.. they'll fall in line.

[@mikeprat1]

"tornado...!?" 😂😂😂

[@RomWills]

Yeah...

[@doncalypso]

Guess being a "nice guy" is the ultimate most foolish thing a man can do...

[@RomWills]

Realistically men need a balance of both to truly satisfy women. They'll pet the puppy but get wet for the Wolf.

[@xskalibur]

doncalypso Yep.

[@slimboyd]

There's a time and a place for everything. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a nice guy. However it is detrimental to your dating life if you are too much of a nice guy. Women view overly nice guys as pushovers, yes men who'll do anything she wants or says. That is honestly too boring for a majority of women. So you have to find that fine line between between playful nice and being an asshole.

[@slimboyd]

But when he cleaned up and turned into Stephon look at all the love he got! That's the thing Steve just didn't have sex appeal and that's what women love. Don't believe me pick up a female magazine and see how much sexual references are in there.

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

Deneko Brown he actually had a girl (Myra) who was crazy for him and loved him for who he was. instead he still pined for Laura even though myra was smarter and badder than she ever was lol.

[@The_Equalizer23]

The original meaning of nice is village idiot. Be kind but don't be nice! If a woman isn't meeting your qualifications and isn't reciprocating on par with your effort. Call her out on ALL her bs. And NEVER compromise your masculinity! And always be willing to walk out on her, respectively. Seriously, a woman has to bring more than vagina to the table. Treat a woman like a dog and she'll runaway or cheat. Treat a woman like a cat and she'll always come back.

[@RomWills]

As always a powerful comment.

[@slomotionproductions8005]

The etymology of nice is foolish. So in essence "nice" guys are foolish guys.

[@TheThinkingMansTemplar]

Don't settle for any women who uses you as nice guy back up plan .. after 30 do not fuck w these women their done.. date younger women.. be the alpha for them..

[@RomWills]

I can agree with that.

[@dlp3rdlegend]

right

[@kennard87]

lust is selfish, love is giving considerate patience sharing love seeks understanding of the other.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@joefromdc]

Uncle Rom, when a woman says she want a commitment, I ask this question, why¿ at this point in ur life what do u really want a man for. after an hr of the company line, she finally give an honest answer. i need help fixing my life, supporting me and my kids, material wealth., since they dnt touch on sex, i make it known that if u dnt satisfy me i will cheat on u, to make them be honest about their stance. thanks for helping me to know my place.

[@RomWills]

One thing I respect about you is that you're not afraid to ask women real questions. This day and age men need to know where they stand with a woman.

[@joefromdc]

Rom Wills ive always been a nice asswhole. now i just dnt tell comfortable lies anymore. for me personally i treat all woman respect, i dnt let their bad behavior or messed up values change me. i check their ass quick.

[@RomWills]

That's the way to be.

[@joefromdc]

I Am Ron i agree

[@CaliforniaTribalChief]

Rom Wills you are spot on once again. The title of this video couldn't be more true. Most men have been knowing this for quite some time now, but its always good for the "nice guys" to get a reminder of how women really are so they can protect their hearts. Between 4:40 - 5:07 yes thank you for telling men this because I feel like to many men on social media waste their time wagging their finger in women's face trying to shame them for choosing some bad boy or lusting after a hot guy versus choosing the "nice guy" or the "good guy" when realistically this is just what it is with women and they ain't gonna change so men must learn how to adapt to this. I've had some women use that phrase on me before. "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." Lol. Smh. If a woman ever tells me she loves me now I take it with a grain of salt because most women ain't as loyal to men these days as they should be. I know to much about women now at the age of 30 to take them as seriously as I did in my 20s so I just go with the flow now. If they wanna be with me cool. If not then whatever...

[@RomWills]

Yeah most men know what I'm talking about.

[@lsporter88]

You speak the truth Big Bro. And, you've been doing the best thing any Man can do, helping other Brothas improve their, "It", factor with your books and teachings. I salute you.

[@RomWills]

Thank you Bro. Leslie.

[@Bossman88]

I love watching your old work unc! This is very therapeutic for me I promise since I been applying body game last year I see how i get treated in different settings. Women are so easy now I just go with the flow and stay on my purpose.

[@jamminwithjam]

Ma’ man looking like Idris Elba on the thumbnail.... keep bringing the heat!🔥🔥🔥

[@anwardunbar3491]

"I love you but I'm not in love with you." I hate that shit:-) Especially after I've gone hard for a female.

[@RomWills]

People confuse love for lust.

[@THEUNDERATEDDARKNESS]

ain't no such thing no more being nice especially you a man woman wants a bad man that's how certain parts of society structure now a man can still be strong and nice peace my brother keep on doing your thing

[@RomWills]

Ultimately there must be a balance which is what I teach in my books.

[@THEUNDERATEDDARKNESS]

I agree my brother good morning what's the name of the book

[@blackurustrikes2328]

I don't know if I agree women love the nice guy. I tend to subscribe to the Red Pill philosophy that women are only capable of truly loving men who are close blood relations. Women love what the nice guy DOES for and/or GIVES to them. Otherwise, I concur with everything you say here, Rom.

[@RomWills]

Yes they love just not the same way we love them.

[@kennard87]

so many positive things you can from a woman's love. for men real men know.

[@mrj9224]

I had that expirience she wouldn't wear lingerie for me

[@RomWills]

She really wasn't your woman then.

[@mrj9224]

Rom Wills lol yea cause some are stubborn hehe

[@ricardosepulveda9804]

You explain this the right way

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Man you Struck a CHORD with this one! I think men have a very hard time accepting even under the best of Circumstances, the woman or woman they involve themselves will still have a lust or Attraction for other men on some level and we are trying to cope with that issue in multiple ways , like becoming a Willful Cuckhold (so horrible) , an Unaware Cuckhold (even more horrible) , a Tyrant who uses psychological or physical means to control the woman (many of us out here on this) , and still not getting her to cooperate, or that man that just want to live at peace and understanding and fulfillment with the woman or women he's involved with, committed or non committed, yet still catching some Bullshit. Truth is , all positions have their Risks , as long as you are dealing with free will individuals. This is the Culture that has been cultivated, and has always been , at some level. Side dudes mess with committed woman because they have low trust for woman anyway and only want them sexually or for ego gratification or to prove all they have seen out of women's carnal side. Its a cycle of dysfunction and the people worth a damn , are missing each other because they are not attracted to each other , or are so jaded from these cycles of disappointment and deception, that either they check out from the mating scene completely or try to find ways to cope with Chaos, where alot of shit is happening , but alot of shit is not really getting done. I guess I say all of this to say, the best thing a man can do is be his best self, be aware of the environment , and be at peace with either managing the frustrations of stepping completely away from women and finding other ways to have a complete life without them , or taking on the possibility of involving yourself with a woman or set of women while establishing a contingency of handling issues when they arise by either checking her on her bullshit or cutting her off. We all seem to pay a Price either way, we just need to know how much of a price we are willing to pay.

[@RomWills]

Very well said. It's interesting that you mentioned a "cycle of dysfunction." I plan to do a book or video, maybe both on the vicious cycle of rejection in Black relationships.

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

That's exactly why I have written off women altogether.

[@easyyeye]

Ngl Uncle Rom u on that shaft steez with that leather n’ black😂.

[@reginaldking9906]

I am a nice guy and I will be nice to everyone except women😉.

[@kennard87]

men, question do we really respect women we lust after? if the answer is no then its better to be loved in the long run. you get more out a women with love.

[@Bronxguyanese]

Here is my take on this rom. My thing is this. For much of women most formative reproductive years. They want someone that can provide them with good genetics for an offspring. This is where lust comes in. If not lust. Than the man must have good security. One thing women forget is value system and the importance of working together in a unit. This is why in America we have a high rate of single parent births. Any how I have experienced what you experienced. I used to date this Dominican woman up here in nyc. After a year of one and off again dating. She finally revealed that she is not sexually attracted to me. I was happy and I laughed because she is fat piggy, but she can doll herself up. She is not the only one. Other women also told me I was not sexually attractive to them. I understand and I respect women choices in sexual mating preferences. But don't come back to me when shit hits the fan when you have to reevaluate your sexual choices and market place. Try and make it work with the good looking bad boy.

[@RomWills]

Yeah I prefer honest women. I respect them more.

[@johneta7665]

Stammering Benny you shouldn't have any issues with women choosing in NYC! Right ?

[@sniper11n.d.34]

What if you are both? Being nice to here but a bad boy when she's not there. She will notice that when she sees you at your job doing your thing regardless. I love a good lady outside but a bad girl in the bedroom. Silent waters run deep. Those kind a woman are introvert on the outside but when they are alone with you they are your partner in crime at the bedroom. She's a princess they know what's up.

[@RomWills]

Being both is what I teach in my books. A man has to satisfy a woman's carnal and spiritual needs.

[@staffmuzik]

Sniper 11 N.D. those are the type of women I usually have deep connections with. the sexual energy is normally high from the beginning. but I'll usually let it build up a lil more to see how long it takes her to crack under the pressure

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Of course.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

I understand.

[@DonnnationTV]

Excellent game per usual!

[@davidgrier403]

Happened to me with a very special woman. All I did was became the Beta wimp. I finally walked away. Miss her, but, women need to face reality and stop their BS. She could not see ME as the whole man that I was. So sad.

[@RomWills]

That's where many women fail.

[@BGSIBMOR]

Bring dat heat Rom...LoL

[@RomWills]

Doing what I do.

[@11JonPaul]

this audio is profound uncle rom.

[@kennard87]

sorry fella had a simp moment will not happen again

[@RomWills]

You're good. We all have a little simp in us. We just have to make sure it doesn't get us in trouble.

[@kahlimdenmark2424]

Hey Rom Wills, here's a video that I think is also related to some of the things you mentioned in this video. I would appreciate it if you would watch and possibly do a follow up video. Video Link: m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/qnPJcpZ5i5abpa8

[@kennard87]

excuse my writing early in the morning

[@RomWills]

You're good bruh.

[@peimei22]

Another great video Mr. Wills! This should dovetail with your other video about how you sometimes just have to "take" your woman sexually. Definitely if you're married or simply just sleeping together, good men should push the envelope every once in a while. Not the first time you have sex, but definitely after y'all are a little "comfortable" then BAM! Ask her out to lunch and work her out on her break. Just be prepared though, there are a few KZbin videos that talk about the perils of slinging good D.

[@RomWills]

I'm going to do a video on the perils of giving her that good good.

[@MackeyDeez]

Rom you should change your name to Rom the Sage.

[@RomWills]

I'm honored you would say that.

[@MrHarriskl18]

basically they want a drill instructor a man who took care of us was nice evey blue moon and mix the sexual element in as an archtype for a long term relatoonship?

[@RomWills]

That's fairly accurate/

[@anthonyrashadmd]

Do you think that "nice guys" are too judgmental therefore the woman can't truly exhibit her true sexual nature with them so she finds someone who doesn't?

[@RomWills]

Too many are. Also being non-judgmental will allow a man to see who a woman really is.

[@anthonyrashadmd]

@@RomWills has there ever been an experience that you knew of where the "nice guy" became non judgmental with a woman and she took the mask on that she used to put on with him?

[@RomWills]

I haven't seen that.

[@kennard87]

if women love good guys then its better to be loved instead of lust after.

[@joefromdc]

Ken Nard u want the lust first, seems to make the other stuff u require easier to attain. been my experience. give them comfortable lies.

[@aveidasimms3649]

At this point I rather lust than love but ultimately want both

[@Rick-ll3jz]

If you’re the “hot guy” can you get a good woman?

[@deborahyisrael5258]

What is the male version of this problem? What do men do when their wives/ girlfriends do not or cannot "back that thing up" in the bedroom? What happens when they find a "good girl" that they can trust to (cook, raise the kids properly, not cheat, etc) but she is too "good" of a girl to do certain things... Don't they go elsewhere for fun, while still expecting "all to be well" on the homefront?

[@RomWills]

If they can.

[@deborahyisrael5258]

You alluded to this in your video, "All men need 4 women". You raised the premise that some men need a "domestic" woman, plus another woman just to satisfy his sexual needs, etc. (Of course, it is best if a man can find all of these attributes in one woman). Just to play "devil's advocate", maybe some women need a "nice" guy to take care of things, and a "goodbar" just for sex... A lot of what happens to "nice" guys in relationships is precisely what happens to many women in relationships with "select" men. It appears that if either gender is unsatisfied sexually, there exists the possibility that either party will cheat to get their needs met. For example, (as you have stated), some women like the fact that the "nice" guy is building and paying the bills AND on the flip side, a smart "select" man will recognize when he has a "gem" of a woman who is raising the children properly, taking care of the home, (but unfortunately she may not be the "best sex" he's ever had). In both scenarios, each party wants to be sexually satisfied, but sadly everything that we "need" does not come in the same package. It is just as difficult for women to find good looking men, who are great in bed, but who also have good character and are monogamous. I am beginning to think that nobody is "winning" in all of this, except for the "few" select men who are getting most of the women. The women are frustrated because they are having to share (whether knowingly or unknowingly, and this is whether they are the wife or one of the girlfriends), while the "non-select" men can barely get women and when they do, it appears that many are getting cheated on.

[@anon5091]

​@@deborahyisrael5258 Just by your name I am guessing that you believe in the Scriptures and know who black people (at least certain ones) are according to the Bible. A men can only commit adultery aka cheat with another man's wife according to the Bible. It is okay for a man to have multiple women if he can take care of them.

[@imzak3563]

Balance is key

[@Iamomolara]

True

[@RomWills]

Respect.

[@The3rdTurd]

annnd this is why no man in his right mind should aspire to remain "Mr. Nice Guy"....at least if you want to have fun RIGHT NOW in life. Be the inconsiderate, selfish bastard....be that dog she's complaining about to her Nice Guy friend later. A lot of women will swear up and down all day long various aspects of this are not the case, but any reasonable person knows the truth.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@forblianonym9642]

as a woman - no i am turned off by hot/ bad guys. its a maturity thing. i lust for the man i have an emotional connection with.

[@RomWills]

I feel you.

[@automaticuzoy]

No we do not. Women like a man with confidence and who is sure within himself. These characteristics are more available in a "bad guy" than a nice guy. But any woman with sense avoids a bad guy like the plague.

[@RomWills]

I'm going to address that "confidence" thing in a video.

[@automaticuzoy]

Dave Wade When I speak of confidence, I'm also speaking of being assertive as well. These are things that are attractive to women. I'm not saying no women like bad boys but I'm trying to extract what women are really seeing in those bad boys. Think about it like this, why do they always try to change him after they get him? If they like him because he's bad, why would they want to change him from being bad? It's because they don't necessarily like that he's bad but the things that have come with it. They like his confidence, his demeanor and assertiveness.

[@wakeup6778]

Fuck your confidence im extremely hot and i am extremely insecure. I use datingssites such as tinder and i manage to score dates and bang Girls more often then al my other male friends. Also the reason why it is so easy for me is that i wear a mask and i portray myself as a confident guy wich helps me to seduce these women to have sex with me. Deep down im extremely insecure. The reason why women cant see me through in the beginning is that i became an expert in it. Some will eventually see me through from the start but allot of them will only found out later in life that i was weak and miserable as hell in the inside. Trauma caused it im not gonna lie about it. But hey who can blame me for this kind of behaviour. I meen what should i do, just sitting home and jerk off all day? Unfortunately i think i will never be a able to find the right women for a long time relationsship because of my mental illness will appear soon or later with all the mental breakdowns included wich leads them to leave me anyway. I get upset but i will upload my tinder account again to get the next as soon as possible

[@banderas2000]

@@automaticuzoy u make a good point. i never really been mr "nice" guy. i have been timid with women when i was younger due to lack of expierence. but later on i learned to balance everything more. take me for example. i am friendly. kind. because thats' who i am. but i speak my mind if i need to. decisive. and let a girl know if she's out of line. or if there is something needing attention. it's a balance. kind / assertive. i think mufusa. brave when he needs to be. being brave doesn't mean u go lOOKING for trouble.

[@mrj9224]

But the nice guy isn't the "animal" in bed

[@mrj9224]

***** lol yea