I just wanted to tell every single person, who has turned his life towards Allah and trying to be better - Allah is with you ❤️
@abubaker83503 жыл бұрын
Che yalie
@venus73383 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu Khayran
@anassXsara3 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah!
@assanaali70023 жыл бұрын
Thank you🌹
@LoveCisse3 жыл бұрын
Ameen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@mariamo51763 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with a wife assisting her husband in a respectful manner where she sees he will make a mistake to help him before he does so. He will respect her and trust her judgment more if he sees she is caring enough to guide him as he guides her as well. Ego should never be a part of a relationship between husband and wife. The way you convey your message and try to help is very important. Like our Nabi PBUH taught us, we need to treat our spouse with kindness and respect and gentleness but we should be able to laugh and joke or tease eachother in playfulness as well. We are companions not master and servant.
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
I don't think the video said anything about teasing playfully but teasing publicly about their capabilities that might harm he other's heart... and about ego... it's part of human creation.. Allah created everyone with some of it.... we can't deny it
@mariamo51763 жыл бұрын
@@samidislam8867 100% correct. The video also encourages boosting the ego. Maybe confidence is what they meant but having an ego & pride with your wife is wrong. It's literally a barrier man places between him & his wife, but having an ego to protect your wife (courage) is a good thing. There's a good saying that when it comes to love, you have to swallow your pride. Making fun of someone, anyone in public is wrong, especially your husband or wife, I agree. The man's & woman's ego should only be to protect the dignity of their spouse, themselves & others, not to take offense, thinking everything is meant negatively or the next person should grow their ego. If your partner has a stinking attitude of belittling you then confront it because that is wrong. You are partners & should treat eachother with respect. I think the main thing is just to know when it's really not meant as an insult because we all need to be comfortable with our wife & husband as though we are family & I'm sure everyone jokes & laughs & tease with their family. I'll make an example. When I see my husband(to be) do something adorable, I won't tell him, instead I tease him about it first, then thank him & because I told him some of my behaviors when we met, he knows that is my way of showing him that what he did was so adorable I didn't know how to react at the time. He doesn't think I'm trying to hurt his ego because he knows my intentions. Communication is key, trust is key, honesty is key.
@DAbdullah73 жыл бұрын
@@mariamo5176 communication is key true, also reflects your comments. 👍
@mansoormajeed50413 жыл бұрын
Most of our men are not men enough to respect, forgive and protect his wife. Always their priority is their respect, their job, their parents, their kids and at last comes wife. Our sisters are taken for granted. This isn’t the man what Islam teaches. May Allah make it easy for all of us. Ameen.
@thegreatbeast50563 жыл бұрын
You forget the fact, that this applies to the opposite gender too. Both men and women. Not every problem people face is a man's fault. jazakallah khair.
@Beauty-zc9nq3 жыл бұрын
100%... the in-laws are the big problems
@seekingjannah97093 жыл бұрын
Well said brother...Ameen
@IconicDecoInteriors3 жыл бұрын
You couldn't have said it any better. 😞
@yarnyhookerMyra3 жыл бұрын
Ameen sister
@seekingjannah97093 жыл бұрын
The Prophet Muhammad pbuh said, the best of you are those who are best to their wives. Thank you.
@seekingjannah97093 жыл бұрын
There is a saying that, if it's not meant for you, it will always miss you... I have uploaded a video on the luckiest people caught on camera (saved by Allah). ..check out these mysterious videos and met me know what you think in the comments.
@zamanali21373 жыл бұрын
Yes wife takes that context out and forgets the rest...you need to give to recive...that's how it works..like it or not...I see some sisters just narrate snippets of how they should be treated...and forget how to treat the husband.. alot of sisters can't come near a fraction of how the prophets pbuh wives treated him.. nowadays husband's don't even get a whiff of that treatment..bare in mind he had more than just one wife, yet the prophets wife were so loving towards him..sisters are lucky their husbands aren't been shared yet they treated like crap!
@chaeun-woon84053 жыл бұрын
@@zamanali2137 They were soooo living because of his character and deen. Prophet Mohamed was so prophet so why wouldn’t anyone be respectful to him. You need to earn the respect just like the prophet. Your supposed to follow his teachings and the way he acted towards women so stop trying to blame us for nothing
@zamanali21373 жыл бұрын
@@chaeun-woon8405 there you go..another one...going on always about give give give...
@chaeun-woon84053 жыл бұрын
@@zamanali2137 both sides need to do their roles in islam
@missgtr3 жыл бұрын
If the husband knows the wife knew he missed the exit im sure some men would get angry at that as well! Works both ways in my view!
@nishatchougule46603 жыл бұрын
It's true. I have seen this.
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
lol that was just an example.... ofcourse when a massacre like disaster can happen, u should tell him (not correcting him) with regards of course...
@Hhhh22222-w3 жыл бұрын
Lol you just tell him "I think you missed the exit" in a normal tone, if he gets upset at you then find another man
@seekingjannah97093 жыл бұрын
If Only we would follow the teachings of our beloved prophet Muhammad pbuh, and swallow our egos, the world would be a better place!
@stonezzrollerr54453 жыл бұрын
And no one will be granted such goodness except those who excercise patience and self-restraint ,none but persons of the greatest fortune. (QS Al Fussilat: 35)
@calligraphyculture72573 жыл бұрын
Please make dua for my brother he passed away in the blessed month of Ramadan. May Allah grant him jannatul firdous, forgive and pardon him Ameen. Jzk.
@user-yt2mo8ze7y3 жыл бұрын
Ameen. May Allah swt make your brother’s grave illuminated and spacious and may his final abode be that of eternal beauty. May Allah grant your family ease in your grief, for indeed He can make the difficult easy.
@calligraphyculture72573 жыл бұрын
@@user-yt2mo8ze7y Ameen 🤲🏻
@islamtube26723 жыл бұрын
Whoever says سُبْحَانَاللّهِوَبِحَمْدِهِ SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168, Sahih Muslim; #4:2071] Abu Dharr reported that the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, "Shall I tell you the words that Allah loves the most?" I said: "Yes, tell me, O Messenger of Allah." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The words dearest to Allah are: subhanAllah wa bihamdihi”. [ Muslim and at-Tirmidhi.]
@mahnoorkhawaja71093 жыл бұрын
Wht men wants.. 1.respect men's knowledge and judgment 2. Allow husband to make his mistake and let him learn from it, dont treat him like a child dnt try to be his mother 3. Trust his capability dont be scarcastic and deminshing( bez men has MALE PRIDE/ EGO ISSUES) 4. when u bring something negative watch ur words and tone( dont disrespect ur husband) 5.if u ever complain never use the word YOU, use the word I.( i got worried i was waiting for u, i felt hurt/worried) 6. To crack a joke on ur husbands capability will create big issues, PRAISE HIM IN PUBLIC.
@Khayran3 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU! These are some very good points. I believe I am blessed to understand men 🤗
@SoulVlogs7443 жыл бұрын
You also need to make a video about what men need to know these important fact about women please.
@mohamedzolfekar67403 жыл бұрын
The respect of a wives will depend on how the husbands treat them…we’re created with equality and justice!
@yarnyhookerMyra3 жыл бұрын
I've tried this it doesnt work that way somtimes mens biggest mistake is not know or caring how to treat his wife that's so sad 😪I am a revert I looked for a good muslim husband because I thought treating me lovingly would be natural but on my way to find a good husband I didnt find any man even close to our prophet ..😪😪😪 of even trying to improve himself ....alot of it comes from mothers spoiling their sons not preparing them to be good husbands just to expect his wife to be like his mom ...so I'm sorry shiehk you need to listen to wives complaints too and women try what he states in this video if it doesnt work let this shriek know and what is his advise ....hint probably same as my mother in law I love her but she spoiled him and she admits that she did and now he wont listen to her when she tells him to treat me better ..
@d4tas423 жыл бұрын
simp
@thetaniart3 жыл бұрын
@@yarnyhookerMyra you are saying you married wrong then. There are still very good men. I am one and I can say cos I was brought up properly. Women should look out for character and not just his family or handsomeness or money. Many women look for the wrong things in men and end up complaining to the world. Marry right.
@yarnyhookerMyra3 жыл бұрын
@@thetaniart believe me u married for piety but after nikah it's when you really know ..but I'll have patience I'm just saying what shook is saying is not always true and he is giving men power and excuses to complain and blame the wife .. I think with time my husband will get more experience he is you still ...and I love him but I just sharing my idea of what was said in the video ..
@MonicaSĪGÑofJõñãhYUNIS3 жыл бұрын
@@yarnyhookerMyra Sound's like an entitled narcissist! They're EVERYWHERE in every country... In every faith!
@islamtube26723 жыл бұрын
Please try and recite once a day for huge reward سُبْحَانَاللّهِوَبِحَمْدِهِ،سُبْحَانَاللّهِالْعَظِيم- SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme) Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One." [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67, Sahih Muslim, #4:2071]
@fitstar48733 жыл бұрын
I can't stop laughing whenever he says "Do this the husband will become your prince and knight in shining armor".....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
Just curious, what's so funny about that?
@AsiaBlueDragon53213 жыл бұрын
I think the inner me gets the joke, but the real me doesn't get the joke.
@fitstar48733 жыл бұрын
@@jacksoncoots2060 IDK I just find it funny when Dr. Yasir Qadhi says it
@aytenayman50183 жыл бұрын
May Allah grant everyone with a loving husband/wife that treats you with respect and love preys with you helps you around and fulfills your needs
@MonicaSĪGÑofJõñãhYUNIS3 жыл бұрын
"Dude... You just missed the exit... Oh...well... We can just take the next exit and make a U-Turn... No big deal." No one likes to be micro-managed... These technique's backfire when used with a Narcissist...
@euterpie3 жыл бұрын
Respect should be earned. Not just handed over because they are your father/husband. If they are repeatedly making wrong decisions they can’t be respected. This is how the previous generations have given birth to toxic masculinity. And now my generation is suffering from it. Men need to be open minded. Be open to learn from their mistakes. If I know He’s driving the wrong way and taking longer route and it’ll cause me to be late to an exam or an appointment, I shouldn’t just sit there and give him respect. The fact that he can’t handle constructive criticism makes me think of him as a child and lose my respect. As the saying goes “be a man and own up”. My Dad doesn’t pay zakat. If my Mom tries to talk to him he get angry. So what type of a Muslim is he then? What type of a man is he then?
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
Is it ur job to determine what type of Muslim he is? If he wasn't deeny to begin with... was there really a need to marry him? How are the people who get divorced by choosing wrong partners are respected then? And about ur Exam... remember, he is protecting u and givingg u shelter.. .he had paid u Iddah before marriage... doesn't hee deserve to be treated respectfully after considering so much for u? May Allah show us teh right path... And may Allah guide ur father and make his soul submissive to Allah.... Peace be upon you my sister
@euterpie3 жыл бұрын
No it’s not up to me to decide what type of a Muslim he is. Absolutely not. It was just one of many examples. A father is supposed to set examples for his kids. And if my mom knew he would turn into this person then she would never married him. Unfortunately many men deceive their potential spouses by pretending something they are not.
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
For God's sake he just gave an example. See this is the problem with women, you always think in extremes. When he gave the "going the wrong way" example, what he was trying to say is that men don't like be talked down to. There is a respectful way to go about letting him know that he is going the wrong way. I bet you that your mom when she talks to your dad about Zakat she probably blasts about it. Of course if he's not a strong muslim, he's gona close himself off. This goes for any weak muslim. The same goes for you Women. Respect should be earned and not handed over right? What do you do that earns your father or husband's love? What do you bring to the table? Are you loving, caring, and polite? Or do you just talk any kind of way because you feel angry today and he can't do anything to you because you are a "lady"?
@euterpie3 жыл бұрын
@@jacksoncoots2060 the assumptions you made about my mom in your comments without knowing anything about the family dynamics says it all.
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
@@euterpie What about the assumptions you pushed onto men? Literally painting all men with a single brush. Accountability. That's woman's kryptonite.
@firdosshaikh80233 жыл бұрын
These days it can seem the world is crumbling with news headlines of war, terrorism, gun violence, hate crimes, murder etc. There can be times in life when everything around you is grim and depressing. Life is tough. Even at home, nothing good may seem to happen for you. Financial crisis, job loss, death in the family, sickness-the list goes on. It can be easy to lash out all this negativity and stress to people around you. But life would get more miserable and you will not be happy. It is your choice on how to deal with this turbulent situation. Do you want to see the glass half empty or half full? 1. Be Steadfast in the Deen Hardships and calamities are experienced by everyone and it can sometimes be very hard to respond to these calamities when they strike. It may be common for many to lose hope. Reconnecting with the Deen can help in many ways to instill positivity and hope. Take this adversity as an opportunity to get closer to Allah. Allah even says in the Quran, “And We have sundered them in the earth as [separate] nations. Some of them are righteous, and some far from that. And We have tried them with prosperity and adversity in order that they might return” [7:168]. Whatever state and level our faith is in, use this time to improve and turn towards Allah, the only one who can turn things around for the better. This is the number one thing to peace of mind as Allah also states, “Verily in the remembrance of Allah, hearts find rest” [13: 28]. 2. Express gratitude Even in times of struggle, it is important to stop and take an opportunity to express gratitude for the positive things happening in your world today. Practice gratitude. Remind yourself of all the blessings you have and talk about these things with the ones who are closest to you. Acknowledging the positive things in your life will actually make you calmer, even when bad things happen. Expressing gratitude isn’t about ignoring your current problems. Rather it is about accepting life’s trials and becoming more humble, knowing that it is not us who created our successes and accomplishments, rather it is Allah who brings both hardship and happiness. In Islam, times of hardship and tribulations are seen as a test from Allah and can be a means to gain reward. As stated in the hadith, which is narrated by Anas (may Allah have mercy upon him), the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Great reward comes with great trials. When Allah loves a people, He tests them, and whoever accepts it attains His pleasure, whereas whoever shows discontent with it incurs His wrath.” [Tirmidhi] In this hadith, we learn that those who practice patience in times of difficulties will gain reward for their endurance while those who show ingratitude and displeasure with Allah’s decree end up in a situation where not only will they have to go through their current hardship but will also suffer the consequences of being discontent with Allah’s decree. Knowing there are rewards to benefit from in the end should be a motivation to be positive during turbulent times. 3. Have a Positive Support Group The Prophet Muhammad greatly emphasized the importance of having good companions. He mentioned the metaphor of the blacksmith and perfume seller to explain this point. “The example of a good companion (friend) in comparison with a bad one is like that of one who sells musk and the blacksmith. From the first, you would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell, while from the blacksmith you would either get burned or smell a bad scent.” [Saheeh Hadith by Bukhari]. That being said just goes to show how important it is to surround yourself with the right people. The people who you spend time with the most are most likely the ones who will influence you. Surrounding yourself with positive people will not only help in negative situations, but also inspire you to have a more optimistic approach in life. Nobody wants negativity in their life and a negative person is like a bad apple in the group-try to avoiding them at all costs! 4. Take Care of Yourself Going through distress and calamity should not mean sleepless nights and being miserable. A great deal of negativity can occur when not taking care of yourself properly. Keep some time out for yourself just to reflect back and have a peace of mind: Be Active Whether it's a full blown game of basketball or a quick walk in the park, being active is one of the greatest stress relievers. Exercise can help clear your mind and allow you to deal with your problems more calmly and effectively. Try different physical activities and challenge yourself. Changing your daily routine can bring a breath of fresh air and take your mind off all the things that are going around you. Sleep Better Lack of sleep can make people crabby and be very negative. Many studies show that sleep and mood are closely connected. University of Pennsylvania researchers found that subjects who were limited to only 4.5 hours of sleep a night for one week reported feeling more stressed, angry, sad, and mentally exhausted. When the subjects resumed normal sleep, they reported a dramatic improvement in mood. It is a bad idea to skimp on sleep when you are already going through hard times in your life. Try going to bed on time. Of course, avoid all sorts of caffeine. Eating healthy is also another way to improve sleep. Studies have shown eating Magnesium and Calcium rich foods help relax body muscles and prepare it for sleep. When it’s time to sleep, putting away all electronics such as cell phones, tablets, and computers away is very vital for better sleep. According to WebMD, melatonin is a naturally occurring hormone that helps regulate the sleep/wake cycle. Melatonin production is affected by light exposure, particularly the blue light that emits from the glow of electronics. Put these away from your bed and turn the lights off. Find a hobby Find an activity that interests and you want to continue learning or doing whether it is reading a good book, cooking, art etc. A hobby can be one of the best means to release the stress and negativity going on. Do good for others Helping others is one of the best ways to bring positivity into your life. Volunteering in a local center or aiding a family member can bring a smile that may just wipe away all the despair and negativity you were experiencing during your tough time. 5. Know Things Will Get Better Understand that there is light shining through that dark hole and things will get better. Allah the Almighty promises us in the Quran, “Verily, with every hardship comes ease” [94:5]. All of that patience and remembrance of Allah will pay off, one just needs to have Tawakkul or trust in Allah. Any promise made by Allah is a guarantee. We can have peace of mind in the knowledge that most hardships are temporary, and relief is soon to follow. And when things do finally get better, one must remember to thank Allah and never forget him, for he is the grantor of all happiness and all success.
@mohamedmumin94183 жыл бұрын
@Firdos Shaikh I just wanna say thank you for taking the time out of your day to type such inspiring and positive words it really has given me hope May Allah (SWT) reward you Ameen 🤲🏾🕌🙂❤️
@firdosshaikh80233 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedmumin9418 ameen please pray for me I need prayers I'm going through tough times.
@sadia49323 жыл бұрын
I just can't thank you enough for writing such beautiful inspirational words 🌸.. Jazak Allahu Khayran ❤️
@effthe2ndborn8273 жыл бұрын
Thank You so Much for this beautiful message. it really did help me. I'm going through tough ( trying) times. I'm glad I came across smth like this. thank you. may Allah Subhanahou Wa Ta'Aala reward you and guide you always.
@firdosshaikh80233 жыл бұрын
@@effthe2ndborn827 ameen please pray for me
@Nevebrownie3 жыл бұрын
It’s rare to find a Muslim man in the world who are understanding, loyal and trustworthy
@sallylemon58353 жыл бұрын
Because most men today either grown in lack of complete nurturing from their mother (modern, career oriented mothers) or those who got it complete from their traditional mothers ended up being controlled by the mother instead to the point the wife's feelings are disregarded.
@htmoh81153 жыл бұрын
It's not rare. One thing I noticed. Women are extremely picky. The one who is loyal, an trustworthy gets kick to the side, an the one who treats you bad tend to get the pick.
@JahannamHellfire3 жыл бұрын
I don't trust men nomore
@evenfortheblinkofaneye62433 жыл бұрын
Ibn Al Qayyim: Allah has made so that a woman is tranquillity for the man, where his heart finds rest and peace with her. Allah placed sincere love between the husband and wife, which is (al-Muwada) love and friendship linked with mercy.’ [ Daa’ wa Da’wa ]
@evenfortheblinkofaneye62433 жыл бұрын
.. . . ** ٨
@yarnyhookerMyra3 жыл бұрын
This comes to those that follow sunnah or at least try to...those being men and women ....
@evenfortheblinkofaneye62433 жыл бұрын
@@yarnyhookerMyra yes that is the guide to achieve success.. Alhmdulillah for Islam.
@Is_It_3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/faXVn4uCntV9qKM ..
@Boot_143 жыл бұрын
As a man this is exactly and I mean exactly how we feel just like how woman want to be loved the man doesn't ask for much other then respect= love towards his wife💯
@Donotcare63 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shiekh, I hope people to listen you
@annachan51293 жыл бұрын
So men shouldn’t be corrected ? When are we women going to be considered as persons with emotions too!! Not to be disrespectful, but I feel women aren’t as regarded as they should ... so sad
@abdulkhaliqal-majeed77923 жыл бұрын
Women can correct men fine. But when it goes beyond correcting and rises to trying to put down his pride to build your own, it becomes poisonous.
@mrkarifox3 жыл бұрын
Tip: Look at the name of the video.
@euterpie3 жыл бұрын
This is toxic masculinity.
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
The right to correct person has not been bestowed upon a spouse.. so sorry to say, ur understanding of women rights needs to be corrected.
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
There's a proper way to correct people. When a woman gets angry at a man, she tends to go off on him because she knows that men can't hit women. When you do this to your husband day in and day out, don't expect to get good treatment from him. The way only make it about yourself with you comments is unbelievable. Honestly, you'd be lucky if some guy decided to wife you up. Because you seem to be very self-centered. Good luck.
@firdosshaikh80233 жыл бұрын
Below is a short list of some dhikr/remembrances that you can incorporate into your day. The goal is to make these beautiful praises of the Creator come up from your heart and roll off of your tongue with ease. 1. Quran: Ultimately, the best dhikr is reading the Quran. Reward: You will be rewarded 10 rewards for each letter read. This prize basically illustrates the weight of the Quran in terms of where it should be in your life and the importance you should give it. Seeking Barakah of the Qur’an is worth more than hustling to increase our social status or profit margins - these things will die with us in this life and will add to nothing to us in the next if they weren’t mindful, done with the right intentions and aligned with our purpose in life. 2. SubhanAllah or SubhanAllah wa bihamdihi (“I praise Allah (or All praise if to Allah) above all attributes that do not suit His Majesty.”) Reward: A tree will be planted for you in Paradise. Nice! Start growing your own forest right now! Another hadith relates that whoever says this 100 times a day, his/her sins will be forgiven even if they were as much as the foam of the sea [Bukhari]. 3. Alhamdulillah (“All praise is for Allah”) Reward: Your scales will be tipped on the Day of Judgment, full of rewards! Abu Malik Al-Ash’ari (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Purity is half of iman (faith). ‘Al-hamdu lillah (all praise and gratitude belong to Allah)’ fills the scales, and ‘subhan-Allah (how far is Allah from every imperfection) and ‘Al-hamdulillah (all praise and gratitude belong to Allah)’ fill that which is between heaven and earth.” [Related by Muslim] 4. SubhanAllah wal hamdulillah, wa la ilahaillAllah wa Allahu akbar “I praise Allah (or All Praise if to Allah) above all attributes that do not suit His Majesty. All praise is for Allah. There is no deity worthy of worship besides Allah. Allah is Great.” Reward: This combination of dhikr is the one most beloved by Allah, subhana wa ta’ala. When you say them, sins fall off of you like leaves off of trees. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The uttering of the words: “Subhan-Allah (Allah is free from imperfection), Al-hamdu lillah (all praise is due to Allah), La ilaha illallah (there is no true god except Allah) and Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest)’ is dearer to me than anything over which the sun rises.” [Muslim]. Also Anas bin Malik narrated that the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) passed by a tree with dry leaves, so he struck it with his staff, making the leaves fall. Then he said: “Indeed, ‘all praise is due to Allah, (Al-Ḥamdulillāhh)’ ‘glory to Allah, (Subḥān Allāh)’ ‘none has the right to be worshipped by Allah, (Lā Ilāha Illallāh)’ and ‘Allah is the greatest (Allāhu Akbar)’ cause the sins to fall from the worshipper, just as the leaves of this tree fall.” [Jami` at-Tirmidhi] 5. La hawla wa la quwwata illa billah (“There is no power or might except (by) Allah.”) Reward: You will enter through a special door in Paradise for those who oft use this remembrance. Qais bin Sa`d bin `Ubadah narrated that his father offered him to the Prophet (ﷺ) to serve him. He said: “So the Prophet (ﷺ) passed by me, and I had just performed Salat, so he poked me with his foot and said: ‘Should I not direct you to a gate from the gates of Paradise?’ I said: ‘Of course.’ He (ﷺ) said: ‘There is no might or power except with Allah (Lā ḥawla wa lā quwwata illā billāh).’” [Jami` at-Tirmidhi] 6. SubhanAllah (x33), Alhamdulillah (x33), Allahu akbar (x34) Can be recited after salat and before you go to bed/sleep. (“I praise Allah (or All praise if to Allah) above all attributes that do not suit His Majesty. All praise is to Allah. Allah is Great.”) Reward: We know that this dhikr is said after each salah, but when Fatima raḍyAllāhu 'anha (may Allāh be pleased with her) the daughter of the Prophet came to her father requesting a servant to help with the household, the Messenger of Allah ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) told her to repeat the dhikr before her sleep and the results would be better than having a servant. Abu Huraira reported that Fatima came to Allah’s Apostle (ﷺ) and asked for a servant and told him of the hardship of household work. He said: You would not be able to get a servant from us. May I direct you to what is better than the servant for you? Recite Subhaana Allah thirty-three times, al- Hamdu li-Allah thirty-three times and Allah-o-Akbar thirty-four times as you go to bed. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Suhail with the same chain of transmitters. [Sahih Mulsim] 7. Astaghfirullah (“I seek Allah’s forgiveness”) Reward: You will get protection from Allah’s punishment. In Surah Nuh, ayah 10-12, Allah relates the story of Prophet Nuh 'alayhi'l-salām (peace be upon him) and how he instructed his people to seek Allah’s subḥānahu wa ta'āla (glorified and exalted be He) forgiveness. If they would just say “astagfirullah,” Allah would send them rain in abundance, and increase their wealth and children, and give them gardens and rivers in Paradise. “And said, ‘Ask forgiveness of your Lord. Indeed, He is ever a Perpetual Forgiver. He will send [rain from] the sky upon you in [continuing] showers. And give you increase in wealth and children and provide for you gardens and provide for you rivers. [Qur’an 71: 10-12] 8. Ayahtul-Kursi [2:255] “Allah - there is no deity except Him, the Ever-Living, the Sustainer of [all] existence. Neither drowsiness overtakes Him nor sleep. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. Who is it that can intercede with Him except by His permission? He knows what is [presently] before them and what will be after them, and they encompass not a thing of His knowledge except for what He wills. His Kursi extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation tires Him not. And He is the Most High, the Most Great.” ‘Allahu laaa ‘ilaaha ‘illaa Huu. ‘Al-Hayyul-Qayyuum. Laa ta’-khuzuhuu sinatunw-wa laa nawm. Lahuu maa fissamaawaati wa ma fil-‘arz. Man-zallazii yashfa-‘u’indahuuu ‘illaa bi-‘iznih? Ya’-lamu maa bayna ‘aydiihim wa maa khalfahum. Wa laa yuhiituuna bi-shay-‘im-min ‘ilmihiii ‘illaa bimaa shaaa’. Wasi-‘a Kursiyyu-hus-Samaawaati wal-‘arz; wa laa ya-‘uuduhuu hifzu-humaa wa Huwal-‘Aliyyul-‘Aziim. Reward: When you recite this verse before you go to sleep, Allah sends a guardian to you and no shaytan will come to you until morning. Those who read this after each salah shall enter Paradise. Narrated Muhammad bin Sirin: Abu Huraira said, “Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) put me in charge of the Zakat of Ramadan (i.e. Zakat-ul-Fitr). Someone came to me and started scooping some of the foodstuff of (Zakat) with both hands. I caught him and told him that I would take him to Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ).” Then Abu Huraira told the whole narration and added “He (i.e. the thief) said, ‘Whenever you go to your bed, recite the Verse of “Al-Kursi” (2.255) for then a guardian from Allah will be guarding you, and Satan will not approach you till dawn.’ ” On that the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “He told you the truth, though he is a liar, and he (the thief) himself was the Satan.” [Sahih Al Bukhari] Use these adhkar (supplications) often and mindfully as a way of seeking Barakah and being in Allah’s presence. Say them as you draw close to your Creator and He will always remain by your side.
@ahmedsellami91963 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha in just the first few seconds he solved all maritial problems by clearly stating men’s and women’s needs. Mashallah. Clever man.
@hello_worLd61043 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah this is so true little words make such diffrence
@user-yt2mo8ze7y3 жыл бұрын
What to do if your husband told you he doesn’t respect you (and SHOWED you he doesn’t) multiple times but you cannot leave him as you have young child and literally nowhere to go?
@Imranskoo3 жыл бұрын
On Point, When A Woman Respects Her Husband, Then Her Husband Would Make Her Feel Loved, How Many Women Out There Do That? To be Fair, Not All Women R The Same, To BE Honest Both Have Critical Roles To Play In Marriage For It To Work!!!
@firdosshaikh80233 жыл бұрын
Seven good deeds that have the same reward as Hajj: 1. Remembering Allah from Fajr to sunrise. Anas ibn Maalik (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: “Whoever prays Fajr in congregation then sits remembering Allah until the sun rises, then prays two rak’ahs, will have a reward like that of Hajj and Umrah.” He said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: “In full, in full, in full.” (Tirmidhi) Some scholars have also mentioned that a woman may pray in her home and do the same thing mentioned in the hadith to get the same or a similar reward. It’s tempting to pray Fajr and then jump back into bed, but staying a few moments longer to do dhikr while waiting for salatul Ishraq (sunrise prayer) will earn us the incredible reward of Hajj and Umrah. 2. Going to the masjid for congregational prayer. The Prophet (PBUH) said: “Whoever performs ablution in his house and then goes out to perform the obligatory prayer in the mosque has a reward similar to the reward of a Hajj pilgrim. Whoever goes out to perform the [non-obligatory] mid-morning prayer (Duha) has a reward similar to the reward of the one performing Umrah.” (Abu Dawud) In another hadith, Abu Dharr (RA) narrated that a group of the Companions came to the Prophet (PBUH) and said, “O Messenger of Allah, the wealthy people will have higher grades and will have permanent enjoyment and they pray like us and fast as we do. They have more money, which they give in charity.” The Prophet (PBUH) replied: “Has Allah not rendered for you the ‘Isha prayer in congregation equal to Hajj, and the Fajr prayer in congregation equal to ‘Umrah?” (Muslim) SubhanAllah, no matter our means, Allah has provided us with ways to easily seek his mercy. 3. Performing Friday prayer. A Sahabi by the name of Sa`id bin al-Musayyib reported that performing the Friday Prayer is “more beloved to me than a Nafl (supererogatory) Hajj.” Only Allah knows the exact reward for Friday prayer, but the fact that it was more beloved to a companion of the Prophet (PBUH) than performing an extra Hajj speaks volumes about its importance. 4. Performing Eid prayer. The Companion Mikhnaf ibn Sulaym (RA) said, “The reward for attending Eid Al-Fitr prayer is equal to the reward of performing ‘Umrah and the reward for attending Eid Al-Adha Prayer is equal to that of performing Hajj.” (Lata’if al-Ma’arif) Eid Al-Adha is around the corner! Make sure that you attend Eid prayer safely, and set your intention to reap the reward of Hajj. Tell your whole family too! 5. Learning and teaching in the masjid Abu Umamah (RA) reported that the Prophet (PBUH) said: “Whoever goes to the mosque not desiring except to learn or teach what is good has the reward of a pilgrim who completed his Hajj.” (Tabarani) Sometimes when we hear of a class taking place in our local masjid, we may feel like it’s not necessary, or that we don’t need the lesson. But the reward for seeking knowledge doesn’t depend on what you already know, but the desire to learn. Make the most of any opportunity to learn at the mosque, and, inshaAllah, you’ll gain the reward of Hajj. 6. Being good to your parents The Messenger (PBUH) commanded one of the Companions to be good to his mother. If you do so, he said: “You are a Hajj pilgrim, a person performing `Umrah and someone striving for the sake of Allah (mujahid).” Parents - and especially mothers - undoubtedly have a very high rank in Islam. To serve them and be good to them can earn one the reward of Hajj. How generous is Allah (SWT) who has placed opportunities for us everywhere to earn His forgiveness! 7. Fulfilling the needs of your Muslim brother or sister The 7th Century scholar, Hasan al-Basri, (Allah have mercy on him) said, “Going to fulfil the need of your brother is better for you than performing Hajj after Hajj.” What an underestimated act of goodness! We often think of worship as something strictly between us and Allah, but worship is also the things we do for Allah’s creation for the sake of Allah. This Dhul Hijjah, there are so many people who are struggling to access food, healthcare, and safety. Give your Qurbani and help us to fight malnutrition, and support our long-term transformative that empower local communities with education, healthcare, and clean water.
@DeadliciousCookingStudio3 жыл бұрын
Whoever is reading this, may Allah bless you with long and righteous life and make you an obedient servant of Him.
@ghanizadran55583 жыл бұрын
Ameen, you too
@mehrishmehmood3 жыл бұрын
Ameen. same to you 😊
@honestyfirst25753 жыл бұрын
Ameen and may Allah bless you with better than what you ask Him for us, ameen. Jazakallah kheir.
@Is_It_3 жыл бұрын
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@JahannamHellfire3 жыл бұрын
As Muslims, we believe in the punishment of the grave. There are many narrations which verify its authenticity. One such narration is: The Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Seek Allaah's protection from the Punishment of the Grave, since the Punishment of the Grave is a fact/true." (Saheeh: At-Tabraanee in 'al-Kabeer' from Umm Khaalid bint Khaalid ibn Sa'eed ibn al-'Aas.) Our righteous predecessors have mentioned many stories in this regard, some of which are as follows: Ibn Abi'd Dunya (rahimahullah) mentioned that one of his companions said, “My brother died and I saw him in a dream. I said, "How was it when you were placed in your grave?" He replied, "Someone brought me a fiery flame and if it had not been that someone else made supplication for me, I think he would have hit me with it.” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) Bashar b. Ghalib (rahimahullah) said, “I saw Rabia, on whose behalf I make frequent supplication, in a dream. She said to me, "Bashar b. Ghalib! Your gifts have been brought to me on plates of light, covered in silken cloths." I asked, "How can that be?" She replied, "That is what the supplication of living believers is like. When they make supplication for a dead person, that supplication is answered for them on plates of light, veiled in silken cloths. Then they are brought to the dead person for whom the supplication was said and they are told, 'This is the gift of so-and-so to you.'” ” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) Amr bin Dinar (rahimahullah) said “The sister of one of the men of Medina died and he buried her. When he came back from the burial, he remembered that he had left something in the grave. He asked one of his companions to help him. His companion related that they had dug up the grave and found what they were looking for. Then the man said, "Let us dig further and find out what has happened to my sister." He lifted up one of the stones covering the burial cavity and found the grave filled with fire. He replaced it and filled in the grave again. Then he returned to his mother and asked, "What was my sister really like?" She replied, "Why do you ask about her when she is dead?" He said, "Tell me." She said, "She used to delay the prayer and she also used to go to our neighbours' doors, put her ear to them, and then tell other people what they said." ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) One of the early Muslims said, "We passed by a watering-place on the way to Basra. We heard the braying of a donkey and asked the people there what the braying was. They replied that it was one of the men who used to be with them whose mother had asked him for something and he had told her to bray like a donkey. Since his death, this braying had been heard every night from his grave.” ("The Soul journey after death" an abridgement of Ibn al-Qayyim's kitabar-ruh.) The torment in the grave will vary according to the sins committed by the person in this world, whether he was a disbeliever or a disobedient Muslim. There are authentic narrations which describe this torment for the people who commit these sins. For example: 1 - Being struck with an iron hammer. It was narrated from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:  “When a person is placed in his grave and his companions leave him, and he can no longer hear the sound of their sandals (footsteps), two angels come to him and make him sit up, and they ask him, ‘What did you say about this man Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)?’ He says, ‘I bear witness that he is the slave of Allaah and His Messenger.’ It is said, ‘Look at your place in Hell which Allaah has replaced for you with a place in Paradise.’” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “And he sees them both. But as for the kaafir or hypocrite, he says, ‘I do not know, I used to say what the people said.’ It is said, ‘You did not know and you did not follow those who knew.’ Then he is struck a blow with an iron hammer between his ears and he screams a scream which everything around him can hear apart from the two races (of mankind and the jinn).” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1222.) 2 -7: Furnishings from Hell are prepared for him; he is clothed with fire; a door to Hell is opened for him; his grave is made narrow for him; he is struck with a great hammer which, if a mountain were to be struck with it, it would turn to dust; and he is given the tidings of torment in the Hereafter. Hence he will wish that the hour would never come. Ahmad (17803) and Abu Dawood (4753) narrated that al-Baraa’ ibn ‘Aazib said: "We went out with the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) for the funeral of a man from among the Ansaar. We came to the grave and when (the deceased) was placed in the lahd, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sat down and we sat around him, as if there were birds on our heads (i.e. quiet and still). In his hand he had a stick with which he was scratching the ground. Then he raised his head and said, “Seek refuge with Allaah from the torment of the grave,” two or three times. Then he mentioned the soul of the believer and how he is blessed in his grave. Then he said: “But when the disbelieving slave is about to depart this world and enter the Hereafter, there come down to him from heaven angels with black faces, bringing sackcloth, and they sit around him as far as the eye can see. Then the Angel of Death comes and sits by his head, and he says, ‘O evil soul, come forth to the wrath of Allaah and His anger.’ Then his soul disperses inside his body, then comes out cutting the veins and nerves, like a skewer passing through wet wool. When he seizes it, they do not leave it in his hand for an instant before they take it and put it in that sackcloth, and there comes from it a stench like the foulest stench of a dead body on the face of the earth. Then they ascend and they do not pass by any group of angels but they say, ‘Who is this evil soul?’ and they say, ‘It is so and so, the son of so and so, calling him by the worst names by which he was known in this world, until they reach the lowest heaven. They ask for it to be opened to them and it is not opened.” Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) recited (interpretation of the meaning): “For them the gates of heaven will not be opened, and they will not enter Paradise until the camel goes through the eye of the needle.” [al-A’raaf, 7:40] He said: “Then Allaah says, ‘Record the book of My slave in Sijjeen in the lowest earth, and return him to the earth, for from it I created them, to it I will return them and from it I will bring them forth once again.’ So his soul is cast down.” Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) recited the verse (interpretation of the meaning): “And whoever assigns partners to Allaah, it is as if he had fallen from the sky, and the birds had snatched him, or the wind had thrown him to a far off place.” [al-Hajj, 22:31] He said: “Then his soul is returned to his body, and there come to him two angels who make him sit up and they say to him, ‘Who is your Lord?’ He says, ‘Oh, oh, I don’t know.’ They say, ‘What is your religion?’ He says, ‘Oh, oh, I don’t know.’ Then a voice calls out from heaven, ‘Prepare for him a bed from Hell and clothe him from Hell, and open for him a gate to Hell.’ Then there comes to him some of its heat and hot winds, and his grave is constricted and compresses him until his ribs interlock. Then there comes to him a man with an ugly face and ugly clothes, and a foul stench, who says, ‘Receive the bad news, this is the day that you were promised.’ He says, ‘Who are you? Your face is a face which forebodes evil.’ He says, ‘I am your evil deeds.’ He says, ‘O Lord, do not let the Hour come, do not let the Hour come.’” (This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in Ahkaam al-Janaa’iz, p. 156) 8 - Being swallowed up by the earth. It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whilst a man was dragging his lower garment out of pride, the earth swallowed him up and he will continue sinking into the earth until the Day of Resurrection.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5345; Muslim, 3894) 9- The edge of the mouth being torn to the back of the head. 10- The head being smashed with a rock. 11- Being burnt in a tannoor oven 12- Swimming in a river of blood whilst being pelted with stones.
@youreworthit81463 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video of daughter need to know these facts abt her dad? Tbh it's kinda hard... Im a girl with big dreams... And with alot of interests... But never asked for them to save my dad's money and also we had many different probs as my mom passed away n my dad got to marry more twice as I have very small 5 siblings.... I have done everything till the end and never cared abt me nor did I know abt loving myself... But now that I started loving myself, focusing on my dreams and talents... I get alot of problems Bcz I don't get supported... And myself I respect him so I don't want to fight Bcz what he is doing is mistake(there r many other things happening tbh) he never admits his mistakes.... All he wants is me to get married and live like normal girls... But I'm already too sick of serving family n need sometime to create another family otherwise it won't be in peace.... I'm not so good in English... But i hope u understand...
@thetaniart3 жыл бұрын
Instead of most women here to learn , they are still complaining and making silly excuses. Go ahead then and let's see whether your complaints or negative mindsets change anything. Many women marry wrong and complain that there are no good men remaining. Wrong, I'm a good man who was brought up properly. Whether you believe or not, not my business , the lady in my life is what matters and she's very happy.
@taurusking_19973 жыл бұрын
@Muslima A you are being the same kind of person that hes warning about
@sweetsoul31693 жыл бұрын
@Wajeeh Daouk 💯
@mrkarifox3 жыл бұрын
Just, people, read the name of the video and understand why it seems like you're just all complaining about mens.
@Is_It_3 жыл бұрын
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@Nevebrownie3 жыл бұрын
As a women that hurts me, I mean women are also human so how come they should be submissive and not not correct the man. If the man is trying to do something that cause problems women can’t just sit there if she knows what he’s doing is wrong
@lebbarmohamed763 жыл бұрын
Here are some motivating tips from Allah and the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) to help you raise your degrees in Jannah as well as increase your property in Shaa Allah. I) Raise your degrees 1) Memorising the Quran Abd-Allah Ibn 'Amr narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"It will be said to the companion of the Quran : Recite and rise in status, recite as you used to recite in the world, for your status will be at the last verse that you recite." [ Tirmidhi and Abu Dawood ] 2) Doing a lot of dhikr Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"Shall I not inform you the best and the purest of your deed in the sight of your Master, which is the highest in your degrees, is superior to your spending gold and silver in charity, and is better than confronting and fighting against your enemy, cutting one another's necks?". The companions submitted :"Yes, indeed!". He (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"It is remembering Allah." [ Sahih Tirmidhi ] 3) Doing good deeds(at least compulsory good deeds) and staying away from bad deeds Allah said :" And whoever comes to Him (Allah) as a believer, and has done righteous good deeds, for such are the high ranks (in the Hereafter)." (Quran 20:75) 4) Doing a lot of nawafil (non compulsory deeds) According to Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :" Allah said :" Whosoever shows enmity to someone devoted to Me, I shall be at war with him. My servant draws near to Me with anything more loved by Me than the religious duties I have enjoined upon him, and My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I shall love him. When I love him I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him, and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it. I do not hesitate about anything as much as I hesitate about [seizing] the soul of My faithful servant : he hates death and I hate hurting him." [ Bukhari ] 5) How to earn Jannat ul-Firdaws (highest degree in Jannah) Allah said :"1) Certainly the believers have succeeded : 2) They who are during their prayer humbly submissive, 3) And they who turn away from ill speech, 4) And they who are observant of Zakah, 5) And they who guard their private parts, 6) Except from their wives or those their right hands possess, for indeed, they will not be blamed, 7) But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors, 8) And they who are to their trusts and their promises attentive, 9) And they who carefully maintain their prayers, 10) Those are the inheritors, 11) Who will inherit Al-Firdaws. They will abide theirein eternally." (Quran 23 : 1-11) 6) Making a sincere du'aa that you desire Jannat ul-Firdaws It was recorded in the Two Sahihs that the Messenger of Allah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"If you ask Allah for Paradise, then ask Him for Al-Firdaws for it is the highest part of Paradise, in the middle of Paradise, and from it spring the rivers of Paradise, and above it is the Throne of the Most Merciful." [ Bukhari and Muslim ] II) Increase your property II-1) How to earn a palace 1) Reciting 10 times surah 'Ikhlas' The Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said:"Whoever recites Qul huwallaahu aHad (Surah Ikhlaas) ten times, Allah will build for him a house in Paradise." [Saheeh al-Jaami’ al-Sagheer, 6472)] PS : It is a very easy way to earn a palace and it only takes about one minute. So you can earn 10 palaces in 10 minutes. Don't waste this great opportunity and try to make this a motivating habit and earn as many palaces as you can. 2) Praying 12 rak'aat in a day Narrated by Umm Habibah (RA) that the Messenger of Allah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"A house will be built in Heaven for one who prays 12 Sunnat Rak'aat in a day and evening as follows : 4 rak'aat before and 2 after the Dhur Prayer, 2 after the Maghrib Prayer, 2 after the 'Ishaa' Prayer and 2 before the Fajr Prayer." [ Tirmidhi ] PS : According to the scholars, the 4 rak'aat should be performed by 2 prayers of 2 rak'aat 3) Building a masjid The Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"Whoever builds a masjid (mosque) for Allah, Allah will build for him likewise in Paradise." [ Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim ] 4) Abandoning arguments and lies and improving your behaviour Abu Umamah (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"I am a guarantor for a house on the outskirts of Paradise for whosoever leaves off arguing, even if he is in the right; and a house in the center of Paradise for whosoever abandons falsehood, even when joking; and a house in the upper-most part of Paradise for whosoever makes his character good." [ Abu Dawud ] II-2) How to earn other great things in your property 1) A tree in Jannah Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud (RA) reported that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"I met Nabi Ibrahim (AS) when I was taken on Mi'aj (ascension to the heavens) and he told me :"O Muhammad, convey my salam (greetings) to your ummat and tell them that Jannah has good soil and sweet water, but it is barren. The plantation of Jannah is (the recital of) Subhan'Allah, Alhamdulill'AH? La ilaha illa Allah and Allahu Akbar." [ Sunan Tirmidhi, hadith: 3462. Imam Tirmidhi has classified his hadith as sound (hasan) ] 2) A palm tree in Jannah Hadhrat Jaa'bir (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"For the person who recites 'SUBHAN'ALLAH HIL AZEEM WA BIHAMDIHI' (Pure and Perfect is Allah in his glory and praise], - A date palm will be planted for him in Paradise". [ Tirmidhi ] 3) Treasures of Jannah Hadhrat Abu Dharr (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :" Should I not tell you of one treasure of the unlimited treasures of Paradise?" I replied spontaneously "Oh Rasulallah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) that would be an honor indeed!" Rasulallah (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"That rare is 'LA HAWLA WA LA QUWWATA ILLA BILLAH."(There is no power and no strength except with Allah) [ Ibn Majah ] 4) A particular amazing room Abdallah Ibn 'Amr (RA) narrated that the Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"There is a room in Paradise whose outside is seen from its inside and whose inside is visible from its outside." So Abou Malk Al Ach'ari (RA) asked :"For whom is it, O Messenger of Allah?". He (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"These rooms will belong to the ones who speak good words, feed the poor, they fast and pray at night when people are at sleep." [ Reported by Tabarani and authenticated bu Shaykh Albani in Sahih Targhib No. 617) PS : These 4 conditions can be done during Ramadan. So let's all strive for this amazing room. 5) Hoor Al Ain (women of Paradise) The Prophet (Sallalahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said :"Whoever suppresses anger and he is able to act upon it, then Allah (SWT) will call him on the day of judgement in front of everyone and make him choose whichever one of the women of Paradise he wants (of Al hoor Al Ayn)". [ Sahih Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud ] 6) An honorable place in Jannah Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever goes to the mosque in the morning and evening, Allah will prepare for him a place in Paradise for every morning and evening.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 631, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 669 PS : Let's not let go of all of these wonderful rewards. Because remember, the bigger your property, the greater the pleasure. It's time for us to wake up. Share this with others so that you gain as much rewards as them practising. If you want to copy this comment and you use a smartphone, go to Google Chrome then to KZbin, and then find this video and this comment and you'll be able to copy it in Shaa Allah. May Allah grant all of us Jannat ul-Firdaws.
@annachan51293 жыл бұрын
It’s always about what men will get, what men have , how men should be treated, what men will get in heaven !! What about us?
@wiggle12833 жыл бұрын
we will get something better than men ;) i mean...not better than them but...equal to them
@dark_samurai3203 жыл бұрын
Sis you also have rights!!
@dark_samurai3203 жыл бұрын
"women are gonna get that no eyes has seen,no ears has heard and no hands has touched"
@Is_It_3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/faXVn4uCntV9qKM ....
@SMH_3 жыл бұрын
Shut up. There are videos about what women want too.
@bintharunah12523 жыл бұрын
Barakallah fikum wajazakallah khaira sheikh
@thehealingpowerofthequran34613 жыл бұрын
I publish the Qur’an, so is there a fan? May God reward you with good
@sallylemon58353 жыл бұрын
But in cases of abusive marriage, doesn't matter major or minor abuse and psychological abuse is just as bad as physical abuse plus the scar remain permanent, no matter how wife respects the husband, the husband will not nourish her the way she had given to him and this is where it gets toxic.
@parvejsharif71243 жыл бұрын
In The Day of Judgement i badly wants to see those people Who always ' Dislike this Video'
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
dont worry, they wont be disliking this video after seeing mah comments mash'Allah!
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
Modern feminism dude
@DAbdullah73 жыл бұрын
Correction is a good deed, men should never take it in ego If it's coming from younger ones, wife or sister.
@Shamnadkhalid3 жыл бұрын
Good reminder Baarakkallahu feek
@najahariffin88923 жыл бұрын
It's not that we don't want respect our husbands fully..but some husbands are so insensitive, uncaring, taking their wives feelings for granted...they would rather listen to their friend's advice than the wife when what was said was the very same thing....and some husbands are so stupid....it's impossible not to correct him or he wil cause harm to himself and to others..and to the wife as well..... God forbid..
@belloabdul21573 жыл бұрын
Sincerity in action and intention is the basic,u don't want have a wife(s) that is/are deceptive.
@lethalbullet42933 жыл бұрын
Some men do have a EGO bigger than a elephant and just like to be told Allah has given men a higher status and authority but some men muse use it may Allah give all HADAYAT Ameen
@JahannamHellfire3 жыл бұрын
Men dont have higher status in Islam
@lethalbullet42933 жыл бұрын
@@JahannamHellfire men do have a higher position in decree don’t be deluded for married women there is certain things they can’t do until the husband doesn’t give her permission so get over it
@JahannamHellfire3 жыл бұрын
No they don't, go and read Quran!
@lethalbullet42933 жыл бұрын
@@JahannamHellfire not everything is specified in the Quran that’s why we have a second source of knowledge called SUNNAH HADITH teachings from our holy prophet Muhammad (SAW) he said he saw many women dwelling in hell companions asked why was that his answer was they are ungrateful to their husbands now that isn’t in the Quran but is in Hadith sunnah to understand you need a brain cell yours isn’t working to understand there is equality in the Quran but it’s different when your married the mr has authority and you have to oblige to him wake up
@Nevebrownie3 жыл бұрын
@@lethalbullet4293 stop giving a bad name to islam to make women lose their faith
@mizzyuk86973 жыл бұрын
Beautiful advice mashaAllah
@robleluuqlev72033 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom
@rockstarcraby3 жыл бұрын
My husband stop calling me like he use to do often but he be online most of the time now if I complaint to him about this he is becoming irritated we stays in different countries because of his work and I want him to be in touch with me like before which he isn't now what should I do wallahi I love him n respect him so much whenever he need me I be there for him but why he isn't doing so.
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
He might be too busy? Or u shud try staying with him... that might help... if not then remember... Allah is watching
@blueflame35313 жыл бұрын
It's not even allowed for him to stay that long away from you. You rights are intimacy, time, Clothing, he can't consume that for you?
@muhammedq91093 жыл бұрын
May Allah forgive us and bless us and grant us all the highest ranks of jannah Amen 🤲🏽
@blushiikitti9883 жыл бұрын
Actually women do have priorities, but otherwise cool video
@ninjaslayer74623 жыл бұрын
Here are some sunnah of the prophet(SAW) #...When ever the prophet is mentioned say (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) #...Dikir after every prayer/you can also add (wa bihamdi) and reciting *Alatul Kursi after every fard salah *SubahanAllah 33 times *AllahuAkbar 34 times *Amhamdulillah 33time #...While entering home syaing this supplication (Allahumma inni as'aluka khairal mawliji wa khairul makhraji bismillahi wajlana wa bismillahi kjarajna waaalla rabbina tawakkalna) #... While going outside of home saying this supplication (Bismillah tawakkaltu aaalallah wala hawla wala quwwata illa billah) #...When entering your home give salam even if there is no one give salam to your self #...Entering the bathroom with left foot and exiting with right *and covering the head and while relieving yourself sitting is wajib *and when relieving yourself don't face the qibla or your back behind it #...Entering the masjid with right foot and exiting with left and performing wudu at home #...Every muslim you cross by give salam #...Using meswak #...Using fragrence #...Reading Surah Khaf every Friday #...Dusting the bed with an edge of an cloth or bromm #...Eat with your right hand and share your food with the nearest person #... if any food drops of the plate pick it up remove the dust and eat it *after finish eating lick the plate with your fingers and lick your fingers #...Before eating and drinking saying bismillah and after finishing eating and drinking saying Allhamdulillah *if one forgots to say bismillah before eating or drinking say this (bismillahi fi awwalihi wa akhirihi) #... After finish eating sya this supplication (Allhamdulillah hil ladhi at amani hadha wa razaqanihi min ghayri hawlin minnee wa la quwwatin) #...Before staring any work or going to do something saying bismillah #...After doing wudu saying (La illah illallah wadahu la sarikala) #...While drinking or eating sitting is recommended and it is an sunnah #...Sleeping on the right shoulder #...Not sleeping on your stomach or chest #...Before going to sleep *sleep in the state of wudu *Surah ikhlas 3 times *Surah Nas 3 times *Surah Falak 3 times *Ayatul Kursi 3 times *And saying (Lailahaillallah MuhammadaRrasulullah) *And reciting Surah Mulk #...When going to sleep saying this supplication (Bismika rabbi wada tu janbi wa bika arfahu in amskata nafsi fagfir laha wa in arsaltaha fahfazha bima tahfaz bihi ibadaka-s-salihin)or (Allahuma bismika amutoo wa ahyaa) #...After waking up saying this supplication (Allhamdulillah hil-lathee ahyana baaada ma amatana wa ilayhin nushoor) #...After waking up doing wudu and put water inside the nose and blow it #... when wering cloths syaing this supplication (Allhamdulillah hil lathee kasanee hatha aththawab warazaqaneehi min ghayri hawlin minnee wala quwwah) *While wearing entire the right hand first and when taking of start with left hand same with the shoes Reference Sahih Al Bukhari: 12.28.153.168.183.216.217.245.568.3295.5010.5623.5628.5630.5631. 6293.6294.6295.6296.6311.6314. 6322.7393.7394 Sahih Muslim: 265.267(c).304.2018(a).2020.2024. 2025.2032.2034.2626 Jami Al Tirmidi: 14.1857.1858.1885.2048.2678.2689. 3426.3458 Abu Dawood: 2.30.51.4023.4141.5094.5095.5096. 5212 Ibn Majah: 303.307.3287.3288 An nasai: 259
@Zahra-vg7zh3 жыл бұрын
This video just outlined to me that some men (not all) have very biggg egos and expect their wives to be submissive.
@kirbyak473 жыл бұрын
But today age my save our family futher only u can do oh Allah we trust in u and we are thankful what u gave use and the blessing
@Aliahmed-fv4gp3 жыл бұрын
Who is the speaker?
@muniratalukdar35203 жыл бұрын
Please do tell me once you find out
@shafeeh263 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@aidas.q.p.69883 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah beatiful video .Thanks.Respect his everything in relationship.Allah guide and forgive as🤲🏻🤲🏻Ameen
@afiaqaisar31053 жыл бұрын
Great
@tanvirmahfuz2023 жыл бұрын
He just turned all the women into good wives in just one lecture.
@moyurbird78293 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah for this
@mhdsahil35153 жыл бұрын
when he said DESI subahanallah
@themaskedmen62113 жыл бұрын
Best 💞
@youllmakeit3 жыл бұрын
Equality talks in the comments kill meeee. We all can't live without eachother. Yes Allah made one leader of the house which is the man, if he needs a little help or is fully failing at his role then help him become the person be needs to be. Your level selflessness determines your greatness in your partner's eyes, yes if they have eyes to see it, if they don't, tell them.
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
absoloutely..... the duty of aman is to provide shelter and protection while the duty of a woman is to grow the man as a deeny, not by daunting and correcting him everytime... Peace be upon you
@alptop203 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you my brother 🙏
@hazeleyez36953 жыл бұрын
I need some advice on how to handle something can someone message me please 🙏
@omarsameh50073 жыл бұрын
thats an old video you must post it ( old video )
@Snowyblazer3 жыл бұрын
Some of these comments Show that feminism has even taken over islam not even muslim woman these days are traditional unfortunatly
@jamielahadams67963 жыл бұрын
Asalaamualykoem so through shegh you rite that wot I can see algamdulielaah problem solfd🤲🙏🤔👍😃👍
@user-fv4sn8wy3s3 жыл бұрын
ALSALAM ALYKOM قال تعالى" ومن يعمل مثقال ذرة خيرا يره" I am your sister "UM AL HASSAN " from PALESTINE _GAZA STRIP The great responsibility and difficult life circumstances deprived us of the simplest necessities of life Since my husband died, may Allah have mercy on him, and I have been raising my orphan children, and we are in a state of extreme poverty that no human or even animal can tolerate I live in an old, dilapidated house with rent, I have accumulated debts, and the owner of the house may expel me at any time In order to be able to provide food for my children, he was forced to sell in the streets and intersections I desperately need your help my Muslim brothers everywhere anything you can donate will be useful for me and my children Qaal Rasul Allah (whoever removes a grief from a believer from amongest the sorrows of this life, Allah will remove a grief from him amongest the sorrows of the day of Resurrection)" Muslim
@user-fv4sn8wy3s3 жыл бұрын
@Saad Muneeb donate by Pay Pal may Allah bless you
@paponahamed96253 жыл бұрын
Cant refute to any of this..Women who are looking to make their marriage work follow these...
@JuveriyaRockzz3 жыл бұрын
Subhan'Allahi Wa bihamdihi Subhan'Allahil Azeem
@AkramBaig26893 жыл бұрын
This happens to me my wife treated me like a child
@abdulkhaliqal-majeed77923 жыл бұрын
Hopefully this will be resolved, Insha Allah.
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
She is in the wrong for doing this. However, it's female nature. If you don't take the lead and aren't an "Alpha Male", she will take the lead and treat you like crap. We are men and we understand this better than anyone else. You have to look at yourself first. Are you being man enough? Are you going to gym? Are you strong? Do you make your own decisions? Or are you weak and have to call your wife every time you have to make a decision?
@JahannamHellfire3 жыл бұрын
Yes alpha male is for animals not humans!
@ShamzKSA3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah ❤️❤️
@maldar1012 жыл бұрын
As-Salamu Alaikum Rahamatullahi-va-barakatahu: To some extent your narration appears to be right but is a bit complicated. In my opinion a wife should treat her husband as a King and automatically she will fall into the role of a Queen. Life is more or less based on the concept of give and take policy in accordance to the GOD given qualities of each and every individual. ALLAH-hu Alam..
@muniratalukdar35203 жыл бұрын
Which sheikh is this?
@Deen.revival3 жыл бұрын
I invite everyone to listen the holy quran. Jazakallah.
@Karodia7863 жыл бұрын
100 %
@MuhammadFarhan.3 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah Forgive Us
@redsnowboard43913 жыл бұрын
So many people pressed in comments. It’s so simple man loves woman woman respects man. Watch the video you complainers
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
What can you expect from angry feminists?
@hopemercci72713 жыл бұрын
Foolishness
@samidislam88673 жыл бұрын
yah your word... its foolishness
@jacksoncoots20603 жыл бұрын
Yup. Feminism and Women power. See where that leads you.
@Sikandirt3 жыл бұрын
🤲🏻
@natashabay5613 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with this lecture at all, exceptionally unrealistic
@tarana93293 жыл бұрын
Easier if women just marry someone who has good spacial awareness and can do DIY. Not sure being loved and cherished and admired by an incompetent man with a huge ego is what many women (Western born?) aspire to anymore. Silence is not respect. Maybe that was important when women couldn't survive without a husband, so being disingenuous to protect his ego and not becoming homeless was more important than having a trusting and supportive relationship where each supported the other to be better. Men need to sustain their respectability and they'll be respected and their attentions will be meaningful.
@hamziathaibdeen72163 жыл бұрын
💘💘💘
@jesusdeity20103 жыл бұрын
What we all need to know. "I have come to give you Zoë (divine life) in abundance". Jesus. Healing all. Raising the dead. Casting out demons. Controlling nature. Brutally beaten to pulp. Dying on a cross, to pay of mankind's debt for its fall. Raised from the dead. Pouring out His Holy Spirit for you to be indwelled by and learn to walk like Him in unselfish love and divine power. Just like His first 12+72 friends, i and many experience up to this day. Healings, demons running for cover, tangible presence of God. What a love, power, grace, mercy of God. Yay!