Women REALLY Hate it When You Do These 5 Things During Sex

[@MagdaKay]

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[@jlvandat69]

One lesson I wish I would have learned much earlier in life is that it is very rare to find a woman easily pleased in bed, consistently. If you happen to find such a woman, odds are good she is marriage material unless there's serious issues around intimacy. All relationships have struggles, but if a couple truly enjoy each other in bed, 95% of their problems are easily dealt with.

[@tonymarinelli7304]

The reason for this is promiscuity. Follow The Better Bachelor

[@jamesnelson2423]

It is very rare to find a woman who has enough ìntimacy experience to know what she prefers. In fact, the same presumptive conclusion can be made about a majority of people of all sexual orientations and gender stereotypes. (Like it not, human sexuality is not merely a binary spectrum of options. Adverse bias against others, because they are perceived to be different, is primarily the inevitable consequence of a poor education wherein ideals such as tolerance and acceptance have not been appropriately examined.) When one considers the inadequacies of education as to matters of intimacy and sexuality, most of us are faced with learning by trial-and-error or an occasional book or other resources. We are denied most educational devices, by law or threats of social humiliation, until the "magic" age when it is decided overnight that we are adults.

[@jamesnelson2423]

(How can one self-edit?)

[@sambro9134]

Do you support laundering US tax dollars through Ukraine?

[@jlvandat69]

@@sambro9134 I support democracy, and I also support new policies at KZbin to block Russian Bots....there's tons of them.

[@brooksroth345]

I noticed my fiance was no bring satisfied. Sat her down and said name one thing I'm doing you like and one thing you don't like. She was honest and it helped. I did the same about her and she became offended. No man has ever had any issue with me. I said this is make or break time. If we cannot work together, especially on this, then this will never work. We broke up over this because she didn't want to communicate or work on things. She felt it was my job to fix things.

[@rogerhuggettjr.7675]

Bringing up problems is how you fix things. She blamed you for her insecurities and a demand you read her mind.

[@samuelbell3281]

You dodged a bullet. Congratulations.

[@shanaqbaimuru]

According to women, you should already know what to do and what not to do. If you ask them, they asume you are unexperienced and therefore your are low value man. My advice is be with A LOT of women so you learn.

[@bernardgibbs7308]

Leedsls17

[@khawajamazhar9188]

Good riddance 😂

[@geo_neo9]

What men want is open women, talk to us about it.

[@rickynoronha5813]

Reassure her. Be open to all she says in the bedroom. Specially the stuff she doesn't like or doesn't want to do. Make her feel safe and tell her if ever she finds you doing anything she doesn't like just say stop and i will. Sincerely Practise that and let her feel comfortable and in control and it'll work great. Trust me. Women need to be comfortable with the guy they're sleeping with and then it's magic.

[@geo_neo9]

@@rickynoronha5813 they also need to feel safe 😉

[@PeterVanDyke-10155]

Thank you, Magda! I appreciate your insight and your willingness to share this knowledge. 💟

[@ralphnoyes4366]

This is so direct and so informative. WONDERFUL VIDEO !!

[@bobthecpaontheloose4141]

Fortunately for me, at 79, I have only one woman to please so after 14 years or so, we've figured out those things that bring the most mutual pleasure, which for me usually starts out giving my partner a full body massage and it's like we take our time and see where this takes us, which is usually different each time but always ends with a pleasurable experience - sometimes the empasis on her, sometimes the emphasis on me... In either of these situations, I am left totally spent and spend the rest of the night in a dream state having fallen asleep holding her close to me. We limit the times we get together to once a week which helps keep the anticipation and intensity high and always enjoyable. I love the touch, smell and taste of my partner and never fail to get turned on... I've got to stop talking now as our appointed time isn't for a couple of more days yet. 🌷🌺🥀

[@BPantherPink]

My sentiments exactly at 68 Sir !!

[@JOHNSMITH-vx5yz]

Yeahhh keep dreaming your wild fantasies,,,, Errol Flynn

[@likearollingstone007]

I am 104 and I am living the same dream

[@edwardmylnychuk5774]

at 77 i used to do the same thing when i was with my ex but because of her narcistic nature, when the opportunity to leave came i walked, the squeeze is not worth the pain you suffer through the rest of the time. i told a young guy that i worked with to try this on his girls and he came back two weeks later and just went WOW, what a difference in bed. foreplay reeeeeeeeeeeeely makes a difference with a lot of women, trouble is most guys or females dont appreciate this or tell you, communication with a female is like talking to your neighbour when there is hurricane blowing

[@acquiesce100]

Great plan once or twice a week only. I share the same opinion. I couldn't do it for 7 nights a week. Love my own space to.

[@billyakin3301]

That is because we are not mind readers. Women are not satisfied no matter what we do most of the time. A woman's orgasm is not the man's responsibility. It is true that not all women are the same, and every woman should speak up and tell a man what she wants.

[@curtismartin2866]

Oh yes it is.

[@billyakin3301]

@@curtismartin2866 You're wrong.

[@melkerner]

Don't read her mind and give her what she wants, she isn't happy - give her what she SAYS she wants and she loses attraction for your because you become less... either way - men lose and Women change what they want depending on the moment.

[@Snarge22]

You are so very correct. They won't communicate, yet expect you to know what she wants. And women refuse to recognize the disconnect. I'm an older fella and have only discovered these s3x advice channels in the last few years. If only this information was so readily available years ago. I've now learned to have s3x discussions away from the bedroom and tease out what women like by asking about their fantasies and experiences they liked the most.

[@csmith9699]

When she communicates, listen. Be teachable, relaxed, knowing you can be a good lover and please her as long as you are willing to listen (verbal and nonverbal) to your woman. If you aren't interested in listening and being teachable no way to be a good lover. Depends on what your intention is

[@rerite2]

"Sex is a poor substitute for masturbation." -- Oscar Wilde

[@davidho2977]

LOL!

[@franmcnamara4191]

Check if Oscar Said that. !!!.......40 year Wilde expert ...never heard that.....he was never ever rude with an epigram ...people want him to have said that ...paper will not refuse ink.

[@oldalaskan4097]

I sure wish I would have learned these things before it was too late. It kind of makes me resentful that my wife wasn't willing to help me understand her like this. We aren't mind readers, and it's cruel to expect us to be. Thanks Magda. Good video.

[@Smoovindecat]

The fact you are willing to learn by watching this is great. Good for you! even with knowledge on these issues we can always learn more. Guys with egos think they cannot learn anything new… so well done .

[@elita2cents]

That was surprisingly insightful. Most of those videos that claim they wanna tell you something, are just clickbait. Here, however, I learned something of value. Thank you!

[@MagdaKay]

glad to hear that

[@jackwayneroberts8190]

No two women are the same !😂🤣😂🔥❤️‍🔥🔥

[@BQ900]

Yep best to ask before things get too far along. Talking with my friends I find I have very different tastes. But most of them grew up in the states and my Dad had me with him working in islands.

[@stevennovakovich2525]

Exactly.

[@mckannan2029]

Same way men are different.

[@mangojulie123]

Yes,they are. They are all complicated!

[@basantidevi2305]

I agree with everything she says.

[@edkolly7147]

Everything is focused on women however you expect him to last as long and wait for you when does it matter to women that they satisfy men ! 😮

[@GCOUNDOU]

excellent content thank you so much!

[@osirian8025]

All of you guys know fom experience, Magda is spot on specially the first 2.

[@deaf19830]

I find that sensually loving each other’s soul you know like captivating each other through eye contact occasionally and admiring each other, and usually one takes the lead for a moment then the other and eventually you find yourself physically and emotionally dancing in rhythm to each other’s vibration.

[@fox5411]

Another group of tips that may be essential to women but most men don’t even realize is important !

[@steveretiredandcranky]

All of this goes away when Chad shows up.

[@CornbreadJenkins34]

Chad thundersmock....when he puts on his smock he creates art that drive all women crazy!!

[@kareemsha5788]

Great information regarding sexual relationships and the steps for satisfying each other

[@smarajitbanerjee6887]

Ma'am - Many Many Thanks for this video. I wish you upload such nice videos in days to come.

[@janschoice3855]

I am 62 and in the middle of life. I totally agree with you, but as a man, I also want to do everything with love! Without love I don't need sex. And I find coercion absolutely horrible! but I am happily married but have about sexless marriage! But I do need it but will never force it. Nice to see your videos and receive good tips! ❤️

[@drproton85]

Wait... You don't have much sex in your marriage?

[@waltgreen8759]

excellent segment. love the channel!!!

[@mkerwin1]

Great info! Respect and communication with her is key! Trust can follow, if she's comfortable with you.

[@leslierodricks2701]

Magda you are really great!

[@davesaidy1900]

Love Your Accent and Your Vibe!

[@seenauthrai4763]

I am guilty of some things that you mentioned. Thank you.

[@MrTopgun21]

Great video, some really good tips. Makes me wonder why I rarely see videos for women to improve with men in bed? I'm sure there are some out there, but not in the quantity of "How to be a better lover to your female partner" videos.

[@barbarak2836]

Really? All all I ever see is how women should please men.

[@MrTopgun21]

@barbarak2836 you can thank Cosmo for that, it's how they guilt women and then provide "the solution" for their inadequacy

[@davidvanwinkle5033]

​@@barbarak2836that's either a lie, or your algorithm is responding to what you CHOOSE to focus on.

[@iqbalazad6433]

Wonderful video. Want to see more of your videos.

[@cosmodoc]

There are quite a few women who like a quicky, without any foreplay or anything. Also, sex should come naturally between two people, without a lot of fuss and complications and hard work. If it doesn’t, you are just unsuited to each other.

[@LifeofHum]

Thank you so much 🙌❤️

[@dennisschwartzentruber3204]

Well done with good advice !

[@dragi2163]

To complicated... take the Robot please!

[@dwdwone]

I think thinking of yourself in her position is the key.

[@worldview730]

And vice versa

[@BinsarHutabarat-gf9yu]

Thank you so much for your suggestions.

[@ishworparajuli116]

Tysm magda for your best suggestion for all people.

[@michaelsylvester7272]

Taking care of the women is most important, Thanks for sharing.

[@08172001]

I read your profile, Magda. I love your approach to life.

[@helenakrizek1675]

All your comments make sense! This is truly how it works.

[@Mikael.formermilitary]

It's important for both men and women. If one is doing all the work then sex becomes a chore. Talking about it is crucial. Thank you for the advice.

[@armandoneri3607]

Is a week OK for foreplay?

[@THEFORT89.]

It’s communication and connecting with each other

[@vinodtripathi9724]

Informative as always 👌

[@gregvoight8616]

Man have to be an experts on women needs. Can we ask for vice-versa. No !

[@robertdillon9989]

I think we can ask for some level of expertise or some level of interest in becoming expert in your body, absent that move on there’s plenty of fish in the sea

[@jackman6256]

Even if its over for me sooner than i wanted it to i still stay in for long run to make sure she comes back for more But on other hand when youre with the lady an she says are you going To com or what ? Or something like hurry up its killing my back She can stop the man from ever coming back for more Or she says i really dont like sex Like i used too End of story Men arent the only ones who dont have a clue what to do in bed Lots of ladys think good he got off Its over blah blah ect ect No man wants a dead fish

[@akadirnilavane2861]

Useful information!

[@Daoistify]

Guys, do what you want and don’t worry about her. If women want equality then they need to communicate what they desire. It’s not your responsibility just go ahead and enjoy. She needs to tell you if it’s good,bad, yes or no. Don’t worry, be happy 😎

[@jasoncampbell4723]

I think I could listen to you explain how to fix the dishwasher?

[@sergneo]

First of all if men want to have intimacy in a situation where the one being made love to doesn’t speak well use our hands .. yes you are correct things have changed and the women are working now they have successful businesses and have IG and Facebook and Twitter and OnlyFans etc .. now what you are saying is we still need to read your mind .. you still can’t express what you need from sex .. we can’t have a nice conversation while relaxing out in the patio or on vacation etc about what we like and don’t like from sex.. we can’t brainstorm on ideas as we walk in the park and have a conversation about these things.. ?? It doesn’t have to be talked about only during sex .. so I would like to ask that instead of making a video about men reading your mind .. make one encouraging woman to express themselves to their man .. yes you brought up some very valid points but it’s more important to encourage women to talk to their man about these things.. why be unhappy and unsatisfied..?? Women are more expressive now and should understand it’s okay to speak with their partner about these things.. if a woman can’t express herself to her partner they have bigger issues other than sex that need attention.. but I like that you are bringing this up it’s important to talk about..

[@BQ900]

He needs to make sure she’s satisfied first then see what’s good for him. I would always want to be with my husband because He makes sure that I’m happy

[@ab-jc8nv]

Hii how r u

[@SakurMiah-tx4mm]

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[@info88w11]

1. Breath 2. exist 3, fart 4. burp 5. sneeze 6. hiccup 7. vomit 8. dutch oven 9. hogging the blanket

[@wspmjw]

How do we as men encourage or open a safe place for her to talk about what she doesn't like and what she likes? Could be an entire video.

[@gregglockhart9551]

Thank you!

[@κονσταντινοςρωμανος]

very good item from you 🥀Teacher⚘❤ and very very useful to me, thank you 🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹

[@dh.maitrijit4462]

Thnak you so much Magda !

[@PoobalanNaicker-my2po]

Magda you're are great and I wish that you were in life

[@IHOPROB]

Awesome!

[@toni-ci2di]

Thank you Madame ,for the useful information provided

[@ThomasPlummer-iv3me]

Great I learned a lot I'm going to do all 5 things to my girl tonight

[@SampathKumar-nx5xh]

Wonderfully explained.

[@bobcooper1055]

Thank you, you're awesome..

[@BPantherPink]

GOLDEN WORDS Magda 👋👋👋👍❤️

[@alwayspete]

Couples should be open, communicate freely, experiment (maybe something new will blow your mind and surprise you) and work together on what they like and don’t like or solve in-bed issues. A woman being silent or secretive doesn’t help the man with her, in bed. Thanks for your tips. But these tips are just your views and what you like as a woman. It’ll be something else for another woman. Pete :”)

[@steveengland8240]

The beginning of the download addresses about threesomes. Editorial error?

[@MagdaKay]

yes, it was an error, and thank you so much for alerting us. its now fixed!

[@1970wind]

According to our Polish sex guru Michalin Wisłocka foreplay starts 24 hours before sex (book "The art of love")

[@mythoughtsaswords]

Dear Ms.Kay- If a woman wants some things really she must be able to train her man for that n that is for 2 reasons- first she wants it n during sex times with some training she can make him fully under her control-in most cases she takes only a passive role giving out the notion that she expects nothing n 2nd, by nature's way man wants to finish it urgently n he is not to be blamed for that. It is as if somebody can take away a thing from a shop without paying most will be prompted to do so

[@davidwagner4927]

Hi Magda-nice video , I agree with a lot of what you say, one thing though -a woman needs to also understand (that as you yourself say ) that a man usually gets physically and mentally tired after ejaculation, and a man who is generally a giving person will often be very into pleasing his woman more, if she can give him a bit of time to ‘recover’ , as just like in sports, when you’ve just expended a lot of energy , it helps to get a blow ( No pun intended-lol!); obviously the man is best off not waiting too long, or the moment is gone, but I’ve been able to please a woman better after coming, when she understood my needs just a bit , and the ‘recharged’ version of me was able to give my all to helping her feel her best , orgasm or not-take care, David

[@rafigladboy]

I'm glad. Because I enjoy it.

[@peterraab3411]

Men don't care what woman think.........Never have, never will....

[@martincarlos3759]

Wish you beauty could teach me. Only from a real teacher in real life one can really learn.

[@bryceluu9350]

What about woman side what they are should not to say?

[@winx4930]

Are the earrings same width as your 😂

[@rickmorgan952]

I’m going to sleep now 😅

[@michaelciarla3836]

I love how honest you are! 👍👍🎉 Awesome video!! ❤

[@davidbetteridge5956]

Bought i found that person 35 years ago but t was wrong, as it has been sexless marriage entire time

[@bojenghosh3084]

VERY NICE

[@mcplutt]

You need some sound deadening material on your walls to reduce the echoing effect of your voice 😄

[@MagdaKay]

agree. Unfortunately sometimes our set up wasnt the best. my apologies for this

[@stevewalker4638]

Communication is most important..

[@lugopena4438]

I'm surprised farting is not there in the top 5? Maybe they do enjoy it?

[@MagdaKay]

hahaha, yes, that should go under "honorary mention" :)

[@GeorgeMinton-jb8ky]

I can hear it now. We stay so silent and don't tell you the things we hate. You may be quiet about it but then you just cut us off. Then you wonder why there are so many cheaters in the world and yes, women cheat too. So, tell us what we are doing wrong. It is too late for me but some of the young bucks could sure use your help. I love the world of KZbin. I can get trained on anything just for wasting my time watching 10,000 videos until I find the right one. I think I am here now so lay it on me. Thank you for helping me avoid 1960's re-runs on cable. Well 4 out of 5 isn't bad. I have them down.

[@firstnamelastname6717]

So, what she’s saying in other words, that most women are very difficult, emotional, sensitive to satisfy, so you gotta go slow and be patient to make it more intense for her.

[@markclark9239]

Hi sunshine so charming 💛 doing great always bless you ❤️ 💖 🎉🎉

[@williamkuettner-vk6tq]

I haven't seen you in a while.

[@acquiesce100]

I'm so glad I get to spend the night in my bed all by myself. I can fidget, wriggle, do what I want, watch what I want and I can relax more. I used to love being with my girlfriend in bed 7 night a week for a couple of years when we got together but then I started to want my own space, which I adore now and wouldn't trade unless it was someone VERY, VERY special and even then I don't think I'd like to share a bed with them for 7 nights a week. Funny how your habits and desires change.

[@MrMarkguth]

I have no time when she gets to bed 11 o’clock, I have to get up at 4:30 and be the meal ticket

[@FamiliadeJesusCristo7]

Penso que isto é narcisismo da mulher e egoísmo- homem não tem leitor de mente de mulher, e uma mulher de verdade sabe exercer o dom mais belo e atraente; FEMINILIDADE 😍

[@zlatkoloznjak4054]

Greetings,,from croejša,,,,,Magda.

[@kjc1878]

There never happy no what they want. Even in bed never ending story

[@stanspb763]

When I met my current long time GF she was vivacous, sexy, outgoing and had a killed figure. But no boyfriend. We started dating and it was obvious wherever we went, men were focused on her and she enjoyed it to a point, the compliments but if it was anything more she got uncomfortable. It was natural that we would begin having sex being exclusive as we were. She would act sexy, enjoy making out and talking about it but when the opportunity seemed right I increased my attempt to introduce sex into our relationship. She was 35 and had a short marriage and a 16yo daughter living in another city with grandmother for a specialty school of journalism since grandmother was a famous reporter and author. My girl enjoyed the making out and was very affectionate until clothes started to come off and suddenly she seemed to be scared. She never told me of trauma or bad experiences, her ex was an American and although I am an American also, older, and we both live in her country where men and women get a long very well, unlike the US in the last 20 years. Just on a hunch since she would not talk about it, I planned a romantic evening and next day that would involve complete focus on her and I would play the role of facilitator. I got her a gift certificate for a makeup studio and while she was out, I changed the light bulbs to small wattage and used red gels over the bulbs, prepared the bathroom with cented candles, lined up a path from the front down to the bath with candles and quiet music on the hi-fi, prepared the master bedroom with an array of lingerie ranging from mild to hot. prepared a blindfold and wine. When she got home to her house I met her at the door with a glass of wine. She was confused by it first but after I gave her a card that gave instructions to go to the bedroom to change into mild lingerie with the number matching the card. The next card outlined to activity, she was to thinking only of herself, that I would be there only to enhance her experience and will remained clothed.. I assumption was she was scared due to some past experience and to assure her that her comfort and pleasure was the the only thing for her to think about nothing is expected by me. No one was on a timetable, and anything I did was receiving pleasure from seeing her become focused only on her senses and not to worry about me. It was protested at first but gradually it became apparent she had never been pampered before. The long bath with scents, mood lighting from candles alone, scented water, massage. There was no time schedule but she ended up changing into more revealing lingerie. I had to explain a few times she did not have to anything to or for me, it was her time. She said she felt guilty for receiving and not giving. I simply told her becoming more relaxed around me and seeing her react to my massage was my reward. Eventually we ended up in bed but my focus was on her and did not let her do anything to me. When it came to oral, kissing all of her, and sometimes she would start feeling guilty for not doing anything. It was an exciting experience for me and it took 3-4 times of her stopping me because she felt guilty, she finally accepted that her having her own time and experience is all that mattered to me. She was nervous about the oral sex I was focused on, "it could not be good for me, maybe I do not smell good" She had what she said later it was her first orgasm. Actually 1st and 2nd ever. That changed everything. She was no longer afraid of sex, in fact has become far more open, in fact more than I am. It was as if getting pleasure was reason for guilt before all of her life. Since that time 10 years ago she has loved her body, us together, and has experimented with a girlfriend. She far more open and happy than when I met her. My conclusion is women are sexual beings even more than men but only when they feel secure and connected and she never had connected with a male enough to relax and accept pleasure. When we go dancing younger guys try to hit on her thinking I might be her father. She thinks it is funny, at 45 still in fantastic shape, who looks a lot taller than her 5-5 because she is slim with long legs and large firm breasts and tiny waist. She is a long distance open ocean swimmer swimming every day in the summer 15km straight out from the beach and back. She had done bikini photo sessions for Vogue, twice with the first one on Bali. Her daughter is a very successful super model now. They have appeared together in several international fashion magazines because they look so much a like with identical sexy figures, long blonde hair. So All I can say is this woman, might be similar to most women, really afraid of receiving pleasure or afraid of men due to past experiences. Don't be patient, be proactive and help your partner discover her sensuous nature that is so easily hidden by fear or trauma. TAKE YOUR TIME, focus on her pleasure, you will receive back many times over. My goal is not to even move to intercourse before she has not had at least one orgasm. I am very well rewarded for my wait. I focus on oral sex because I find that she responds most to that, and I love it. She has invited girls she met to come to the house for play and end up in the hottub with clothes flying off. She never would have considered that, or any sort of sex when we met. To her, it was an unpleasant duty to her ex. You gain more by focusing less on yourself, your partner will be more experimental and daring if it is her idea based on a comfortable experience with intimacy

[@aaronstone8147]

Everyone is different. I've had woman tell me if it was good or not. They're not shy when it gets to that point! Don't lie.

[@stephencolligan]

Another thing I’ve noticed is that women hate it if you’re eating pizza,whilst making love . What’s wrong with combining two great hobbies ?

[@Chuncy566]

You get the pizza all over your hands!

[@danherrmann8755]

Thanks for the information. I have never had a woman say anything. To me like this. I just like to have her orgasm first. The big problem. Is her doing the opioids for 30 years. Abusing this drug. It killed her ability to orgasm. Now she is gone. No where to be found. 3 years and nothing. Drugs kill. Sexual relationship .. maybe I can find a partner. Later now I know what to ask.

[@pablitozamudio208]

❤❤ beautiful!!!

[@hartomotidartoputro8751]

Nice

[@veekay9977]

So its all about women's sex? If women are like water & they cant be fire like men so why shouls men be forces to become water for women?

[@Bearskimethod]

My love = Kochanie Here is a way to really make someone sick of hearing it..

[@mhill88ify]

Most of these misunderstandings are because women are scared to be direct. I get that we need to understand our partner, and try to do the best we can....but let's accept this is bullshit off rip. That said, men have been putting up with bullshit for years to get some ass.

[@marybeeler501]

If she tells you know where acts like she doesn't like it pushing her is basically taking advantage of her and you can get in trouble for that

[@beyondappalachian8218]

Thank you sweetie 🥰

[@chrisquedenbaum3972]

You're welcome sweetie

[@beyondappalachian8218]

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[@chrisquedenbaum3972]

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[@stevesmith1493]

That’s on her. She needs to communicate