Women's unreallistic expectations. Beauty not the bait it was! Reaction to 2 ​⁠

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[@crappyfellow]

Until someone stops the free reign of Family Court, good men will avoid marriage and women in general. Nowadays, only 6.5 men in a thousand get married due to the following scenario: (1) man gets married, (2) wife refuses to have sex, (3) wife racks up huge credit card debt, (4) wife stops contributing financially, (5) wife stops cooking & cleaning, (6) wife cheats on husband, (7) wife files for divorce and takes the house, cars, savings, and kids, (8) wife falsely accuses husband of abuse and he no longer can see his kids, (9) wife poisons kids against the father. What man in his right mind will sign up for this?

[@daelkolwitz3509]

A masochist or an idiot. The good ones are hard to find because there are so few out there.

[@Michael-ft9pm]

Been single 12 years post divorce. No dates, sex, flirting etc. I saw the writing on the wall a long time ago.

[@doncarlodivargas5497]

Same here, divorced 14 years ago, not dating in 8 years, far too much drama and hazzle, princesses getting higher and higher expectations the older they got, women not participating with anything but expect the princess treatment, women expecting me to be another girlfriend etc, women expecting me to become her handyman right away etc etc, it was simply too much

[@kev1734]

It does suck for us young guys that never will experience marriage/long term relationship. The body and heart wants it so bad and fighting against that is extremely hard, depressing and lonely sometimes. But overall I know I'm FAR better off. Being 33; I'm seeing heaps of friends go down in flames now. So much dramas. The costs are huge, emotionally and financially. I'm SO grateful to all the older men that have spoken up and spoken the truth. Sharing your pain and trying to warn us younger guys.

[@doncarlodivargas5497]

@@kev1734 - I also wanted to have another family after my divorce, but not now anymore, remember you will have a very solid economy, and you can do whatever you like, most marriages are sexless and miserable anyhow, and you never have any money

[@PracticalKnow]

In The state of the world today the only truth is the truth uttered in the movie" War Games": _"The only winning move is not to play.."._

[@martinkoklingacik6624]

I wasn t married. But I figured out this stuff 20 yrs ago. Its not ggo to be in future and I was right. Of course nobody believe me in this and societz told me if wnat something you must to acclimatize yourself. So I decide to be Free, single independent for my own stuff. Thank you society for the confirmation the Women in this age don t have any value for me anymore.

[@barrymantei7795]

The black woman who demands a 600,000 income is going to look like aunt Jemima in 10 years😂

[@WheresWaldo05]

Comparing a black to another black is racist.

[@joemachine4714]

At least Aunt Jemimah can cook and keep a home

[@barrymantei7795]

@joemachine4714 good point 👉

[@notsure1783]

@@joemachine4714 what you mean? Aunt Jemimah got fired because of racism remember?? They removed her face from the label for something something..

[@BillLaBrie]

Well in her defense, she likely has no clue what $600k means and would settle for a guy with a flashy car and a working credit card.

[@jkbrown5496]

“What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness.” ― Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

[@cosmictreason2242]

The reason why is cognitive dissonance: we don't want to see ourselves as shallow, so we willingly believe that we like someone because they're virtuous rather than that they're beautiful. We lie to ourselves

[@zerosaber257]

Looks Blackpill has covered this, it's called the Halo effect and for men height is also a huge factor

[@nerychristian]

@@cosmictreason2242 Beautiful women used to also practice being feminine. Mothers would ensure that their daughters were presentable, so that they could attract a good husband. But now, women don't even bother working on themselves to become better people. They think that if they just show tits and ass, men will be knocking at their doors, wanting to put a ring on their fingers.

[@thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010]

Yes

[@luvr381]

Feminism gave women the desire to display what they truly are, and social media gave them the platform to do it. The curtain has been pulled on 'feminine mystique', the idea that not all women are like that and a man can hope to find a good one, and men are paying attention.

[@SpectralAI]

Men are born romantic, and each man discovers that at a different age. Women are not romantic, and that kills. Men are attracted to beauty which triggers romance but men learn to ignore it through failed relationships. I knew some really nice women a long time ago. Long time ago.

[@SCOTT77100]

Stop, Men are known conquerors, women were lovers. Men put woman in this spot (zex industry) going way, way back. They fund it, watch it, participate in it yet I don't see them fighting to destroy it, only complain how evil woman is.

[@timgibney5590]

Women like romance. From atop dude. But if you are courting and you are not all that and have not proven yourself you appear weak and she will be repulsed by it! Women do the chasing. Then they demand romance if they are ignored while their man is out getting $$ all the time

[@oopsdidItypethatoutloud]

When these same women say 'I want to settle down' They think the men they have fed to the dogs all these years will magically pop up in front of them, as though they've been in a permanent state of waiting, waiting for the woman to decide... Oh OK I'll settle for you 😂 ❤ from Northeast England ❤️

[@johnnyappleseed6960]

The problem is that today's Women want to be totally modern, but expect prospective Men to be completely Traditional... The two ideals aren't Compatible!

[@karolmetal4256]

Let the Chads have all modern women.There is no value there 😊

[@BalakeHart-nh4xh]

STDs on the rise big time

[@billstarr9396]

Hi Erin! I cannot speak about PTSD from combat, but physiological abuse PTSD from the ex-wife along with the biased divorce and 'me too' laws is definitely quite real. Yes, womens' behavior must change, although I don't see that happening. Especially when divorce and 'me too' laws continue to reward womens' poor behavior.

[@tomyoung8563]

I have a lot of time down range, tip of the spear blah blah blah…. Mostly to avoid my wife…. my ex wife did more emotional etc damage hajjis were supposed to hate me etc but not the chick I put through dental school and what not

[@WheresWaldo05]

*womens'

[@billstarr9396]

@@WheresWaldo05 thank you.

[@shans1986]

They're not changing. They're just gone.

[@JagodelaRosa]

I've been through it before. I found out my wife of seven years had been cheating on me with who-knows-how-many-men, and had been making preparations to kick me out of my own home, and all of this while unscrupulously lying to my face every single day. That was a long time ago, and I've managed to put it all behind me, but I've never been able "bond" or even seriously consider "opening up" to a woman ever since.

[@GOLDKW-bl4gp]

I was going to get married two different times. I walked away from both of them. Best decisions of my life. I saw friends get destroyed and loss more than everything. Children hated them because of the poison pill the mother fed them throughout. Now I am 61 retired at 59 and very content and happy. You cannot build wealth and be married at the same time unless your wife is on board.

[@duckyh9712]

As a 28 year old all of a sudden all the single mamas from my high school just started adding me on Instagram.What I noticed is single moms add a bunch of random men and start posting thirst traps trying to bait men.

[@dennisgauck7526]

The sad thing is beauty these days comes with a 1/2 lb. of makeup and a color palette that rivals a paint shops color selections. That's false advertising.

[@skytrip5273]

Women have created a persona of what they think is beauty. Slathering on makeup, false eyelashes etc... My ex wife had to at least wear eyeliner to bed. I'm looking for plain Jane.

[@thetruthrenegade]

I appreciate what you are saying, The whole world is living in this fake delusion. Confusion and chaos reigns, without wisdom.

[@gorillabang79]

Men are learning to see the hook to which that beautiful bait is attached. It is as simple as men asking themselves " If she were in my life how much better would my life be? " And a majority of the times the answer is his life would be better if she were not in it. Men are beginning to arrive at this realization and thus they avoid that which has a high likelihood of ruining their lives.

[@shans1986]

Talk onky ti those deemed ugly. That will work.

[@gorillabang79]

Once you get to know them, even the beautiful ones, you quickly realize that they are all ugly. Gargoyles and goblins are gargoyles and goblins, no matter how beautiful they present.

[@WatchfulHunter]

I avoid women who: 1. Try to get attention. 2. Talk a lot. Refuse to shut up. 3. Have tats, nose, lip, belly or tongue rings. 4. Are arrogant, not humble. 5. Are loud, not quiet. 6. Are rude, mean, disrespectful. 7. Are emotionally unstable. 8. Think they are entitled. I notice the quiet, kind, polite woman.

[@NoahLinden]

1, 4, 6, 7 and 8 are indeed awful, but 2, 3 and 5 are actually ok.

[@FahrenDef451]

9. Truly believe they are a victim

[@zuanzett2692]

What’s wrong with having tattoos? i hear this a lot. And I dont get it. A woman can be submissive regardless of the tattoos 😆

[@NoahLinden]

@@zuanzett2692 Dude, women don't have to be submissive to be worthwhile. They just shouldn't ever try to dominate others.

[@filrabat1965]

My additions: #9. Women who look great in party pics, carrying the airs "Action, excitement, and an amazing life with photogenic 'stage presence' and 'telegenic lifestyles (i.e. looks good on social media or Hollywood productions! That's what we're all about!" - which usually mean 10, but 10 certainly doesn't depend on 9. #10. Has no philosophical depth (i.e. doesn't ask follow-up questions about ethical issues, what it means to treat people kindly, what "a good person" really means, what it means to have a good society, be a good friend or lover or husband or mother, and so forth). For who are both 9 and 10, these types dominate the "fabulous night on the town" and the bar and party scenes.

[@starguy2718]

"A pretty face can hide an evil mind." -- *Secret Agent Man* (Johnny Rivers)

[@jeremycole3008]

"Slow-Dancin" is such a beautiful song. Johnny Rivers is another concert I wanna attend in the after-life festivities

[@marcalampi5036]

Yeah he was great liked him myself

[@cosmictreason2242]

I was kind, and they called me nice.

[@starguy2718]

"Nice" = they have put you in the friend zone

[@cosmictreason2242]

@@starguy2718 of course. Point I'm making is they're mistaking kindness (generosity, attentiveness, etc) with niceness (agreeableness, obsequiousness)

[@user-hp2sr2ug3e]

@@cosmictreason2242 and weakness

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

I have been single and have had no dates since my divorce finding out that she was a multiple man woman !!! Like many after 20 years I like many men before me have already done !!! I am done with American and Western Women Western Culture Women !!! And getting my Passport within the next 3 to 4 weeks !!!

[@THX5000]

The technical term is "guttersloot"

[@thystaff742]

They became that way in highschool. When biologically, they should be getting married. Instead they get pumped and dumped by the Chad's and lose their pair bonding ability.

[@barryj3266]

Travel to where you are appreciated and valued. I found mine in Philippines, but there are other options. Good luck to you.

[@GBU61]

Latín America is great too. Spanish is required, but if you want to stay in the same hemisphere, it is great.

[@user-jx2iv1rm9f]

Very true. I saw plenty of friends and family getting divorced once and twice. Divorce keeps men and women broke. Stay away. Few years of fun isn't worth it.

[@hardasnails64]

Having played in rock bands most of my life. I have had way more than my fair share of beautiful women in my life. It don't even matter anymore. I look for what they have within and what kind of person they are. A man has to be very careful about what type of woman and energy he adds to his life. Facts!

[@dave23024]

Women for 50 years: "We must change things!!!" Women today: "It is what it is. No sense in trying to change things."

[@joemachine4714]

I have experienced war both as a civilian and as an enlistee... yet my PTSD is totally from marriage/divorce and fatherhood 😐

[@edgreen8140]

Thank you for calling attention to gynocentricism!

[@anielyantra1]

I dream of owning a company that discriminates against beauty.

[@thystaff742]

Make it a club. The BHC Beauty Haters Club.

[@cosmictreason2242]

You dream of owning Disney huh

[@nerychristian]

So basically any government agency that employs fat, lazy women

[@wiktorwektor123]

@@cosmictreason2242 Disney is also very racist

[@metoo7557]

It's a TV show, it's called the view.

[@tedfranks1186]

If I meet a chick that's 25 and had 10 to 30 relationships all I see is someone who failed 30 times or makes bad decisions, even worse if they say I've never had a boyfriend or relationship this is someone I cannot trust at all

[@williamholden4312]

Feminism works fine for women unless heavy lifting is required, the dinner check comes or if the lights go out.

[@daviddrew3372]

Beauty isn’t an external visible trait. That is just prettiness and is fleeting. Beauty is in the actions . Show me a woman who talks with her parents weekly, writes to a sibling who is in the military or in prison. Cares for the elderly, infirm, or does volunteer work. Show me the woman who runs a small or large business and dedicates part of her personal proceeds toward some public good and doesn’t make a big deal out of it. Show me the woman who seeks the good of others. And I’ll show you a stunningly beautiful woman .

[@hanzbrixx6672]

0:40 i think most men have "figured it out".

[@mikaeltsimbidakis6980]

LOL yes!

[@VaronPlateando]

let‘s hope for that but not put too much into bets relatedly. eg as for chumps 1.5 blowjobs away from plantation (it‘s a quote but I forgot by whom).

[@marcalampi5036]

I was married 10 years of hell, got divorced in 1992. Been single since. I've been proposed to a lot of time's. A Haitian girl, filipina, Slovenian, American black, Dutch, etc. just can't jump the broom. I thought they were All nice in the beginning. Down the road They change on you. Got to give them time. Each and All failed. My nightmare of a marriage taught me the very hard way.

[@geography_guy335]

I miss Rebecca Barret. Her response to the Man who wrote a spreadsheet about when his wife deprived him was epic. She hasn't done a video in months. I guess she got busy being a mom. Good for her.

[@olafweyer859]

I was an outsider and used to getting bullied so I was always awkward around my peers. Girls weren't attracted to me. I remember going to a random party and I remember how a girl that didn't know me pulled me towards her, asking "what's up with you?" and then she kissed me. She was very pretty and it was a long kiss, lol. I cried with relief because of years of rejection, ridicule and the sudden approval, this meant something to me... "I'm just so fucking lonely" I told her. That's when she pushed me away and walked away, my words were an instant turn off. I didn't start actively working on my confidence after that night or going to the gym or hiding my feelings and becoming a poser etc. etc. Turn myself into someone I was not just for the sake of belonging, connection... what kind of belonging and connection and love is that? I understood this intuitively. Or perhaps it's just narcicissm wanting to be loved for who you really are, not who you pretend to be. Because that means your still alone, just not the surface. All of this rejection throughout the years and later on at university etc. etc. I just learned that most woman are cruel, like to ridicule you, like to shame you. Woman are just people. And most people suck. In either case I gave up chasing woman in my mid thirtees. I had sex with one woman over two weeks who was much older and I think being together with someone so much younger boosted her self esteem. Once she told me to invited her ex over and asked to be there, I knew she wanted to make him jealous. It was selfish, I felt used. I think most people aren't capable of love. ACTUAL selfless, giving love. Attraction is only the first stumbling block among many others. I'm not saying I'm any better. But any stray dog you find e.g. during a holiday trip and halt to comfort and give some attention, it will love you more purely than any human ever could. It wants and gives what love really is supposed to be about. Womans beauty... of cause it's in our own attraction towards beauty that makes this happen so you can't really blame them... but a womans beauty, that is just an empty promise.

[@cosmictreason2242]

Love and marriage is for ✝️s

[@olafweyer859]

@@cosmictreason2242 For whom?

[@bennydave4160]

She loved him not you. You were just to get his attention because jealousy works on wahmyn. So they assume it works the same way on us

[@olafweyer859]

@@bennydave4160 Well, we weren't in love, this was a fling. Still, I was used. The human race, despicable, duh!

[@FinntegrationSociety]

7:39 "The fact that they can't see them . . . proves they don't DESERVE them." This is why I watch the channel. ^^^

[@dominickcordova4831]

They ALL THINK THEY ARE TEN,'S??? I DON'T THINK THEY KNOW WHAT A SCALE FROM 1-10 MEANS?

[@cosmictreason2242]

Watch "who is a 10, status games" by h03math

[@TRUTHandLIGHT4809]

Woman confuse positive mindset with beauty scale. Confidence is a mindset with a portion of reality. Beauty cares not what one thinks

[@crazycrazy7710]

@@TRUTHandLIGHT4809 They don't confuse. They create an inclusion group and to put it mildly, exclude people who do not conform. Ostracism is a very vicious way to deal with people of different opinions, and yet very effective ( how cancel culture proliferated on social media ). HO3M@TH can explain it much better on "who is a 10, status games". Gist of it is that it is not done in good faith.

[@CARPETMAN-zj9iv]

You're just insecure

[@brianjanderson6361]

What a great channel that is. That guy is super smart and insightful.

[@tabletalk33]

Pro 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman. Why would any man want to have a woman around who thinks like this? "Men should be like Kleenex. Soft, strong, and disposable." -Cher

[@cosmiccontrarian3949]

For every beautiful single women you see there is a man somewhere that is happy she's not his problem any longer.

[@VaronPlateando]

or rather 10 of these gents. and she‘s a zombie, rel.ship(wreckage)-wise.

[@alkirk-ws4co]

All the physical beauty in the world, turns down right ugly, once a woman reveals the ugliness inside. A single red flag for me turns a 10 to a -10.

[@PracticalKnow]

"It is amazing how complete is *the delusion that beauty is goodness."* ~ Leo Tolstoy

[@cptcosmo]

This is why I always detested the Greek Fraternity/Sorority system - they were all a bunch of corrupt "pretty" boys and girls. At my University, the Greek houses all had C grade averages. I lived in the Graduate dorm - we had the highest GPAs on campus.

[@nickkorkodylas5005]

Lol, no. Abandoning the conflation of goodness and beauty is what got us in this mess.

[@nomaam-br549]

We've been living in a gynocentric society since August 1920, when the 19th amendment was passed that allowed women to vote. Men entirely lost the Head of Household title, and they did it to themselves by allowing women the vote. It's been downhill ever since.

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

Self-accountability is important to me and women !!!

[@user-hp2sr2ug3e]

It has always been made very clear to me that I wasn't one of the wanted ones. I went on and lived my life, build myself and my little world and went on my adventures. I'm in my 50s now. I'm the guy at work that gets it done. I was MGTOW before it was a thing. Now, EVERY woman that gets to know me asks how I am not married. I have NO intention of getting attached and I don't believe anything will change until a generation of cat ladies dies off alone. This IS the men's fault. The doting fathers/husbands(parents), simping chumps, detached employers throwing $$ around, go along to get along, are just a few of the things that helped build this fire.

[@GBU61]

I followed that path till my late 30s when I got the idea marriage was something I was “ready” for. That was in the 90s. I did get married but she was not American. It still was a disaster. I had no one that could take me under his wing at that time. We didn’t have KZbin to get the message out. Now I try to help younger guys avoid the mistakes I made.

[@andrewmackenzie325]

When these women tell you who they are, believe them.

[@slartibartfast2452]

Aaron did a further breakdown after the book came out. Said it might end up in a 2nd edition. The final number aaron ended up at for marragable women is 1.3%

[@cosmictreason2242]

Coulda told you that just from Barna 2021

[@slartibartfast2452]

@@cosmictreason2242 oh its not a recent thing. It's been that low for about 40 years.

[@pe2point0]

Are you referring to Aaron Clarey here?

[@slartibartfast2452]

@@pe2point0 Yaya. As she had mentioned him in this video

[@VaronPlateando]

I was ending up with about same % from a totally different, primarily theoretical reflection.

[@jorgealicea2088]

I'll be darned if i am going to allow her to run my household to destroy my kids. Absolutely not.

[@ModelJames13]

I still remember compliments and I definitely remember when I got sexually harassed at work years ago. At the time it was embarrassing, but in comparison to how women are today I look back at it as a mildly fond memory. 😎

[@orangeandslinky]

I don't know if your old enough Erin but when I was out of high school, ugly people married ugly people. Average people married Average people. Pretty people married pretty people. We thought that was a GOOD thing! You know why? We thought there was someone for everyone. We celebrated everyone finding someone. We would say, "hey, I think I know somebody perfect for you." Most of the time, we were right. Of course this was way way before computers. We had CB's and landline phones.

[@Mike-zw7fq]

It is called the process of natural selection.

[@cosmictreason2242]

I definitely find that people tend to marry their looksmatch

[@orangeandslinky]

@@Mike-zw7fq Well back in the 70's, we kind of helped people find people. The girls might have been more active in this more than us guys but we just figured everyone wanted someone. You got a girl? You got a guy? You just didn't wanna say no. It was going to be in your town for sure. We all met in parks, and strip malls, roller rinks, hippy church's, stuff like that. Malls didn't come out till the mid 70's. When they did, we all went there all day on Saturday's and Sundays. It was great. Everyone was looken at each other.

[@orangeandslinky]

@@cosmictreason2242 Well, it was for sure that way back then. We actually WANTED to match up with someone in our own class so to speak. It seemed normal. If someone was real different than someone else, we would lovingly say, " man, she's not in your league at all. Men would actually listen to each others assessments and take it to heart.

[@jeremycole3008]

That kinda describes the local Wal-Mart crowd. Just find a partner you like, and they like you. Quit assigning an imaginary number to another. In the group's of guys I've been around, no one called each other a simp. "Phagget", sure. "Simp", never happened.

[@MrTimetravellers]

I had a friendship with somebody who would be considered in the high body count zone. She had a lot of personal trauma, and on top of that was your typical modern woman. Wanted to be in control, had a tenacity to manipulate, and was unwilling to settle for less than perfection with a man. We had a strong connection and a bond, but she was incapable of pair bonding due to her history and trust issues. We tried being more than friends, but she expected some instant growth in developing a closer bond and that can take time. I gave up even being her friend because you can never win with types of people (Male or female) Just constant drama and unconscious and subconscious tests. I am a lot happier being on my own. I realize more and more that the percentage of women worth getting involved with is so small that you would stand more than being run over by a ten-tone chicken than meeting your soul mate or anybody worth spending the rest of your life with.

[@davedsilva]

Beauty=Short term fun or Expensive divorce. Character=Keeper.

[@ojonasar]

Gave up before I even started; this was around the age of 7, thanks to the actions of a girl I was friends with. Without trust, there is no relationship. I’m only a few years from retirement now.

[@jjoo6229]

Thankfully men are responding making themselves better and stronger.

[@DrizzleDrizzleNeverDies]

I've had beautiful girlfriends, and less beautiful girlfriends. They act the same. The last three women who've approached me are all gorgeous, and all three have been turned away. It's not worth it. It's truly not, anymore. I really am honestly happier with just my cat and hobbies at home, and my bros when we go out. I don't need to invite all that chaos and evil into my life... Think I'm even good without a passport these days

[@SilverinWolvesScarletForestSno]

Ten years ago now I decided to just be single and I've never had a better time in my life. Women are too much stress these days and I just want to live my own life without being bossed around and manipulated. I see it with all my friends as they've all got kids and got married..... You never see them again and they're scared of their partners. Seriously they start asking for permission to be able to come out like a child, they have to let the women tell them no because otherwise they get angry at them. Then if they demand anything off of them, suddenly it's abusive manipulation and they're a control freak :S Wtf? I've had that in all my relationships too, I want to do something with my friends and it leads to an argument and they always use sex as a weapon. However I'm just like "ok F you then bye", where as my friends give in, probably because they have kids. However since I've been single I've been so happy and stress free, I do not jump any more when my phone rings because I know an argument is coming. I do not have to pretend I'm going away for work just as an excuse to have time to myself. I do not have to worry that just because I walked away from an argument that I do not want to have, that she's going to go out and sleep with someone.... That's happened to be twice before. Had an argument, so I've just gone "bye" and then they've straight away slept with someone and bragged about it :S Then they come crawling back expecting you to be hurt by their actions and take them back :S Like no, on your bike! People always ask me what I do for sex? See a prostitute once in a while, much easier and cheaper. However the longer you go without sex, the less you care about it and you fill your time with other things. So you it becomes less important to you than if you're expecting it every day.

[@jeremycole3008]

From time to time I kinda admire these 21st century kid's ability to be "uni-sexual introverts" . No way in he'll would they spend a Sunday watching a blonde lady on the internet reading fairy tales from the Roman times

[@SilverinWolvesScarletForestSno]

@@jeremycole3008 I'm in my 40s dude, and I'm laying by my pool with a beer enjoying the nice 25c heat that we've finally got in the UK. I can do that now because I haven't got a woman telling me I always have to be doing something on a Sunday :/ I randomly came across this video, the joy of KZbin.... I tell ya, more men need to just grow a pair and stop being a slave to a woman. For the first time in my life I have savings!!! Why I think Andrew Tate is great for young men, don't waste your time being a simp like we all did.

[@jeremycole3008]

@@SilverinWolvesScarletForestSno I definitely can feel your vibes from across the pond. The clarity and delivery andrew tate verbage is heartwarming to hear. i wish i had his communication skills.

[@Nanohamage]

@@jeremycole3008 you can , if you ever find yourself lacking argument just ask them what colour is your bugatti tho? 🤣

[@ICFUBAR]

True enough about Fathers advising their boys. My Father in the occasional asides warned me of women's false tears, to be aware of a gal cooing in my ear etc. He also said that I would have great times with a woman but that my best times in life would be doing men's things with other men. Thanks Dad you left me wiser and not totally blind.

[@filrabat1965]

Another problem is that men (especially young men, but older men to a lesser extent) tend to confuse love with admiration of beauty. Question: what purpose does admiration of beauty serve? Partly it's to lift the spirits and be inspiring, but MAINLY it's to lead the mind into procreation. So...what purpose does procreation serve? Of course to perpetuate the species, yet stopping there and saying "That's it" is FAR too hasty. Now the question is "What's the Quality of our offspring going to be?" , and "Are we/our hormones *really* defining "quality" correctly?". No. Quality has to do, 1st of all with *refusing to non-defensively hurt, harm, or demean others".* Unfortunately beauty and strength are piss poor indicators of this.

[@Chris-hp2gg]

Women- cant live with them; cant live without them.😂

[@OrcCorp]

Hyper Gamy 😂 that AI voiceover is quite funny at times.

[@schumannresonanceswithverte]

Thank you for your message, for providing a rational balance to the rising of Divine Feminine. We're in the Aquarian Age, which is Female orientation. Women have to be leaders of their own happiness, and not depend upon a man to provide that, does not mean you do not need a man across the board for every and anything. Beauty, physical looks only opens the door for an individual. After that, there needs to be some personality carrying the exchange. If all she has is looks, that's not a good thing at all.

[@stevenjohns1322]

Keep at it girl, you are getting the message across to women I hope, great video and I liked and subscribed, and remember beauty is only skin deep it’s what is in the heart that counts

[@DavidGarcia-kw4sf]

The point about perception and value is a good one. If you can't see what is right in front of you then you're not deserving of it.

[@homonoia78]

Thank you FFE, I just love watching your videos, thank you and kindest regards

[@seth101-hv4st]

Proverbs 31:30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

[@butlercn]

I have begun to ask beautiful women, "Are you as kind as you are beautiful?"

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

I have done a long time of Self-control leading to many self - improvements !!!

[@ACIIIL_extracts-zr5wz]

"Wtf is pretty I can buy pretty" -AD

[@user-kg2ez1eg2y]

They consider themselves princesses, only earlier manners, upbringing and half a kingdom were attached to the princess. Now a man is not dating a woman, he is facing the scariest dragon in his life. It is impossible to defeat a dragon, the kingdom and society are on the side of the dragon. It's best not to meet a dragon. To bypass the dragon by another way. They got what they wanted, independence from everything. Work girls, the sun is still high. Be happy and pay your bills yourself. Do you feel lonely, just call the bear. Bears are a great option for women with their high standards and boundaries. Hundreds of lonely bears are waiting to meet women. Grizzle Grizzle. Relationships like in Blade Runner 2049 will soon become a reality.

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

You’re doing very good !!! Life is a lifetime learning experience !!!

[@SCOTT77100]

Beauty means nothing when there is no trust, "Trust over looks" any day and every day. Beauty will fade with everyone but trust is a broken thing deliberatley whether by the woman or the man.

[@shans1986]

A man is responsible for his own actions in any given situation.

[@matthewsilva8617]

Surprised you didn’t get censored for the Stefan Molyneux clip..dude was one of the OG red pullers and first to be cancelled. Keep up the great work!

[@EricMoore790]

Men who are not as good looking could be the most kind people but treated like criminals.

[@drlarrymitchell]

“It's a very Greek idea, and a very profound one. Beauty is terror. Whatever we call beautiful, we quiver before it. And what could be more terrifying and beautiful, to souls like the Greeks or our own, than to lose control completely? To throw off the chains of being for an instant, to shatter the accident of our mortal selves? Euripides speaks of the Maenads: head thrown back, throat to the stars, "more like deer than human being." To be absolutely free! One is quite capable, of course, of working out these destructive passions in more vulgar and less efficient ways. But how glorious to release them in a single burst! To sing, to scream, to dance barefoot in the woods in the dead of night, with no more awareness of mortality than an animal! These are powerful mysteries. The bellowing of bulls. Springs of honey bubbling from the ground. If we are strong enough in our souls we can rip away the veil and look that naked, terrible beauty right in the face; let God consume us, devour us, unstring our bones. Then spit us out reborn.” -Donna Tartt, The Secret History

[@nadie2795]

'Wait till your father gets home' used to be a great threat and teaching moment... not anymore

[@stevenjohns1322]

Yep the words I use to dread but I have to say it kept me in line and I’m forever grateful for that

[@niallcurran7894]

Erin, your technology handling skills have improved immensely. The Navy Seals moto, "Slow is smooth, smooth is fast".

[@southwind73]

I was 37 and got my passport, I wanted a wife and children. Now I am 59 and been ,arrived 12 years with 2 beautiful children.

[@Noahcrusade99]

Congratulations

[@austntexan]

Before Book of Numbers came out, RPers were already calculating the numbers. I remember 3% as the final number.

[@chadbennett7873]

I laugh when women talk about emotional intelligence - it's an oxymoron. So many women are emotional infants these days. Intelligence is not rooted in emotions, it's rooted in logic. I challenge women to name a single advancement created for society based on emotions. There wasn't a single emotional consideration that led to the moon landing, unless you consider the grief of Apollo One. Can women contribute to these accomplishments? Of course, I'll recognize Katherine Johnson, Dorothy Vaughn, Mary Jackson, and a whole host of female contributors, but I serious doubt that there emotional intelligence was a facror. Do children react with logic or emotions?

[@Mike-zw7fq]

Erin, That Lola/ Like thing is Brilliant. I enjoy it. Heart back at you ❤. Best Wishes from Montana! M.H.

[@bennydave4160]

Do not symp for her. She will never meet you. She will never love you.

[@Mike-zw7fq]

@@bennydave4160 I appreciate your comment. Though you misunderstand my intent. She is also not in a position to be my enemy. Best Wishes! M.H

[@HateDietPepsi]

The ole bait and switch is most women's total playbook.

[@Dennis_Heaton]

A lot of women seem to think caking on the makeup = beauty. I'm going to invest in Sherman Williams and get them to consider selling makeup by the gallon.

[@joejones4296]

Men have always only figured it out after they had been burned.

[@trojanthedog]

Did anyone ever hear the phrase ' a beautiful mind' ever think it was about a female.

[@daynasmum529]

Yet another very truthful sermon from Erin.

[@TRINITY-ks6nw]

Kindness et sincerity wins every time

[@jessecain1646]

True love takes sacrifice and dedication. My ex wife and I raised our son together we sacrificed a lot for him and we are both glad we did he is a fine young man . I been on my own now since 2012 it's not so bad being a lone.

[@JasonAdank]

I saw the evils of feminism in my late teens / early 20's..... It really made me cautious.... seeing many of my friends getting roasted in divorce, false accusations, parental alienation, etc ..... and this was back in the 90s.... its only gotten exponentially worse ever since. Im in my 50s now .... single, no kids.... and while I wont say this is what I wanted, Im sure glad I dodged the bullets. This society is going down the drain.

[@MsGeoffh]

It's logical for men to think their girl is the most beautiful ever! As their daughters are the love of their lives forever...we simply adore them.

[@richardjohnson4052]

I was married three times. #2 & 3 cheated.. a lot. #1 did not because she was so fat every man she approached told her no. I am still not certain who the father of 2 of my four kids are but they did not look like me. And the divorce court STILL screwed me over. Why should I become involved with a woman after that?

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

Great video, Erin...👍

[@GaryBentlage]

Hi Erin great content thank u

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

Very good psychology and men and women different thinking !!! 🤔 !!!

[@aquariumlife2929]

Cause people are growing spiritually, ( not only men, women just as well ) as a whole...Thank Lord was about time...

[@pirateracingnz9846]

Racheal Wilson’s book is fantastic. Choc full of researched facts which posts a very dark picture of efinism.

[@JasonAdank]

And her husband, Andrew (The Crucible), is a GOAT at debating the feminists and secular liberals in general. Dude's a friggin living legend.

[@SG-js2qn]

Good character has always been essential for relationships of any kind. A pushup bra and lipstick has never been essential.

[@atropiaveteran]

I still remember the compliment that my beard got in December 2023.... LOL

[@planlosubertroffen2282]

lemme express is that way. From the eyes of a Man there is beauty in Sun, Heaven and Moon also the Wonders of Nature. But a Beautiful Natural Woman is all that combined. It takes good reasoning and dicipline and sometimes experience to stay away

[@dennisdemars9939]

Musashi and Buddha Both warned that the more Beautiful the Flower, The more DEADLY and POISONOUS the FLOWER IS and NATURE HAS PROVEN THIS FOR CENTURIES

[@behindthespotlight7983]

11:43 I am a Producer in American truth media. Out of 1800 shows dating back to late 2015 and across 7 platforms (4 of them considered “large” platforms) THE subject that consistently garnered me the most interest, vitriol, engagement and hate are the shows I’ve built re: post-divorce dads, the forgotten man.

[@chrisschultz6129]

BTW the movie clip being shown at the 11:00 minute mark is called SISU and is amazing. It’s not in English so you will have to read subtitles but totally worth it for this movie.

[@smiles7631]

Yeah, the female beauty can mess a guy up. Especially if the guy is a normie. It takes some steel to say no unless she is a complete disaster. I almost messed up the other day, I seen a pretty girl holding a homeless sign. It was so weird to see that it threw my captain save a H mind off. The damsel in distress didn't work for me this time. I am starting to learn. Starting to see the light LOL. Hi Lola! Have a good day. Take care, love you too.

[@bennydave4160]

Do not symp. The are almost always lying to manipulate you into helping in exchange for nothing

[@VaronPlateando]

I‘d suggest to regularly watch AI graphics (non.corn) on deviantart etc. of supernatural beauty for desensitisation against xx.ine enchantment IRL. we know what is behind their bait, just the upper brain may wind down proper operations, and breathing | hearthbeat may fall out of regularity. cheers, gents.