Women vs Men POV in Dating in NYC

[@sophiayuna]

Here's the part 1 where I share my thoughts: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rWbUo4Orl7JseZosi=ZR2ovtJB30W3629F

[@lreevesnyc21]

I live in Manhattan 20 years. This guy actually gave a very good assessment of women’s behavior and expectations vs men and how each has to engage differently. Pretty good his talk.

[@78percent34]

I think most dating issues women face are self inflicted usually because of high standards

[@seeyditti]

Facts

[@andrewg.t9714]

I think it’s their unrealistic, bring nothing to the table, I’m a princess do everything for me pompous backside fake attitude. They think Instagram is their mother and father.

[@imaginableAudio]

Easier for woman for sure. Just post one picture on any dating app and you will get hundreds of options. After that, it just depends on how picky a girl is because there are PLENTY of good guys, just the girls dont want them.

[@agentfaffy]

yikes this comment gives incel vibes...

[@imaginableAudio]

@agentfaffy If speaking the facts gives you incel vibes, you have a lot to learn, kid.

[@agentfaffy]

@@imaginableAudio LOL are you one of those "nice guys" who girls ignore? Men who have no problem dating don't talk like you do. "speaking the truth" loool.

[@imaginableAudio]

@agentfaffy And you can't make assumptions without knowing the facts. To answer your question, I'm a genuine guy who has no problem speaking my mind whether the truth hurts or not. You keep laughing, showing your maturity level. It's fine, though, I'm not one to waste time. Good luck with your life

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

yep.. they have the online stats. women reject 95% of men and only date 1-2 percent. basically women would rather be in fantasy relationships with celebrities on social media than a real relationship with an 'average' guy from an online dating site. a lot of them will move onto a matchmaking service once online dating 'doesn't work' for them and the matchmakers essentially have to treat them like children who don't want to go to school and force them to date someone. if you can't escape your childhood fairy tale you're not going to be able to live a normal life.

[@Someonne_dot_com]

I dont believe people are so busy because we all make time for coffee or lunch or we have time when we are walking to the subway or bus or getting off work.

[@aNaturalist]

On your video about posing as a man on Hinge, you chose above average height and socio-economic status (can travel to other countries). So, that was notva fair comparison. Average male height in the US is 5' 9", and some of us are shorter than that. Using an app in a city is a better experience than using one in a small town simply because the numbers and possibilities increase.

[@bonfist7277]

She also didn’t show a single account, I’m quite certain they were just bots.

[@PhilNEvo]

On top of that, dating apps also boosts your account when you're a fresh user to get you hooked, and slowly adjust it down, unless you're hyper successful. So a 24hour test would yield a flawed result. And talking about "quality" seems a little weird to judge within a couple of hours. And the video didn't even really demonstrate that there was actually "quality" in those matches.

[@luxraider5384]

"just be good looking, athletic, have free time, and be rich" , and she didn't even pick her male equivalent, which is the "never give up" youtuber.

[@rcking911]

what do u think u are ?? i know im a 4 ??

[@aquious953]

Yah, women only swipe right 5% of the time, lol.

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

i believe it was on hinge that the most swiped guys were 6'4".. so much for women being 'thoughtful'. obviously women want height and men want youth. short guys should focus on going overseas and women need to realize that men don't care one iota about their degrees or careers - stop wasting your relationship and reproductive years at school and on work.

[@georgecrumb8442]

@@_xBrokenxDreamsx_ Ewww... no. If you want to date/marry someone in the East, then you must accept that Western civilization is inferior. You can't whine about western women and western dating culture and then continue to believe west is great.

[@HkFinn83]

Tinder is the best. I haven’t spoken to a woman in the real world for ten years😂

[@Someonne_dot_com]

People in new york are just too picky

[@georgecrumb8442]

So, when you're applying for a job and send out a bunch of resumes, you think that employers are the one's who have a disadvantage because they have to spend so much time carefully filtering all the poor candidates?

[@SilverSurfar]

That is a great way to frame how messed up women see dating. A woman can download and app and have 100 matches that day, but its a disadvantage that she needs to vet them? And she has the nerve to say "women think really deeply about a mans personality"...... Meanwhile a man gets zero matches and......thats his dating life. I keep telling women, if they had the dating life of most men. They would literally kill themselves. Like imagine opening an app and you have 10 matches everyday? As a man your going FUUUUUUUCK YEAAAAH! Thats 70 matches per week, if I cant find one woman that I click with in 70 matches a week.....maybe its time to look inward and say....is it me? NAAAAAAAH I TINK VERY DEEPLY ABOUT MY MATCHES HURRR DUURRR.....wait why are 99% sugar daddies and fuck boys(as she herself claims) The lack of introspection is UNBELIEVABLE