“They’ll never respect you if you keep giving them chances to disrespect you. Know your worth.” 👑
@alvarojneto3 жыл бұрын
And corollarily, if you do not allow them to disrespect you, they will either leave or respect you, both being better options than a union based on disrespect.
@bentleedeacon61233 жыл бұрын
instaBlaster...
@LivingALifeOfAbundance3 жыл бұрын
Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s 1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset 2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention. 3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone 4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date. 5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you. 6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life 7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating 8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel 9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun 10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.
@bradvincent25863 жыл бұрын
8. A woman can never love you? So you’re saying unconditional love isn’t actually real? Nah. Jesus can makes it so we can really love
@vb28063 жыл бұрын
@@bradvincent2586 No it doesn't exist, when you are finding your "right" match you are putting conditions on how they should be. When a mother loves her child it's because it's her child, that's the condition.
@amicusn90313 жыл бұрын
Honestly reading these points makes me so happy I dont live in the USA. Men at 18-25 have a hard time dating? This is when you are supposed to get married and women 18-25 dont want to settle down but have "fun". Sorry but that is a broken culture. The whole concept about being in a "friendzone" is also just so weird, this expression dont even exist other languagses as far as i know. The whole problem in the USA is that they go and have sex outside of wedlock and with multiple partners which is not natural. Without plastic condoms, pills, medicine, sex with multiple partners would kill and make people sick and it does in many countries who doesnt have the same amount of contraception and medicine. It also breaks down the bonds of the family. Sexual immorality destroyed the culture in the USA
@panokostouros76093 жыл бұрын
@@bradvincent2586 You are correct, however what OP is hinting at is women in their carnal and unhealed state. They're useful flaws to keep in mind when you're young, but the goal of marriage is for both parties to transcend these worldly, fallen and carnal states of being in Christ. By the Grace given through the sacrificial Christlike life in the Orthodox Church. Acknowledge the fallen state of women in the same way you expect them to acknowledge you in your fallen state, but don't hold it against her. You and she have inherited the propensity towards dysfunction. You both crave God's Infinity in His Creation, so you'll both be highly tempted in various ways.
@chrisjohnson66213 жыл бұрын
i agree that’s not what they’re looking for, but if you lead, woman 18 to 25 will settle down, but only if you can be better than what ALL of society and social media tells them. you can do it but you have to be crushing. you have to create your own culture and the happiness from that has to supersede the crooked pleasures from the modern world. women still naturally want one man but you have to really be on your shit to topple Babylonian programming
@Bodyknowledge773 жыл бұрын
Not being negative, but being honest. This likely isn't going to be a healthy maintained relationship (barring a miraculous epiphany) unless he deludes himself more than he has. Commitments are good but not when they are on a foundation of pudding..
@iriselba30273 жыл бұрын
Yes, he and this young lady need real counseling not a KZbin video.
@l_unchtime3 жыл бұрын
Or, he steps into his power and takes the reigns. You know, what this whole message is about. Doing the same old, sure it will fail. But man takes the lead and takes his authority in hand, and she'll fall in line and it could develop into something healthy. If the man doesn't hold a vision for his family, of course it'll be a disaster. It's simple.
@l_unchtime3 жыл бұрын
@@iriselba3027 tbh, I'm not in this situation by any stretch, but I found this vid to be of value if I were to find myself in it in the future.
@Michael_Kelsey3 жыл бұрын
I’m with you on this one. He either has to say he will not accept disrespect anymore and if she does it again he’s out or she keeps disrespecting him.
@alvarojneto3 жыл бұрын
From experience, he can nurture it if he is willing to fall on the sword of a principled life.
@Anxta1173 жыл бұрын
This dude is in for a world of hurt, ignoring red flags with a disobedient woman whose older than him AND got her pregnant.
@Z4rgabad3 жыл бұрын
and daddy issues, her dad left her
@shiskeyoffles3 жыл бұрын
@@Z4rgabad icing on top I guess 😆
@weeearthlings3 жыл бұрын
'disobedient'. let me guess. you are incredibly single :D
@Anxta1173 жыл бұрын
@@weeearthlings yes by choice, I got 4 girls on a rotation and much happier with that.
@weeearthlings3 жыл бұрын
@@Anxta117 sure bro. sure :) the inflatable kind on rotation to the washing machine.
@GenericHandle013 жыл бұрын
Considering all the red flags, I would say it is worth getting a paternity test to make SURE this is his kid. As Elliot says, "...this degenerate age". If is his kid, then push forward. If not, let her know she needs to find the father and get him involved in the kids life. And walk away from that, if the latter is the case.
@loading57383 жыл бұрын
lololol im dead. degenerationx.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@loveself6396 Жыл бұрын
lol she’ll just put him on child support & become a girl boss.
@powermadeflesh11463 жыл бұрын
paternity test immediately - get joint custody day one, move out live on your own so you see clearly -- still date if you like but dont rush and get married. women dont accidentally get pregnant she had a plan maybe trap you to marry or baby and ditch u - nonethless its all out of order you need to to direct it all even when you have a baby which cant change now - but you need to get out of the emotional position. because as it stands she has all the power now . the child needs you to be a man so stand back so you can think right. A girl with a dance degree she had plans and will regret and needs attention - you have big challenege - wish you well - nothing i told you is evil its just protecting and balancing the power
@akumous3 жыл бұрын
Dude if you are reading this. Run! I was in your situation and I ended up coparenting regardless of my efforts to make a broken relationship work. If a woman you are in a relationship with does not taking responsibility for their actions and is not willing to compromise or find a balance. Just run! Take your losses and move on.
@hoshiko1233 жыл бұрын
OK, this is incredibly one sided and this guy really said absolutely nothing. Instead of taking the easy way out, he needs to sit down and talk to her, about how he feels. She'll have the opportunity to open up to him to; its a partnership not a war.
@blakemeans462 Жыл бұрын
@@hoshiko123 I disagree I'm also currently dealing with the same thing and expressing your feelings doesn't help. It makes you realize just how unheard you really are... And it's always a war for her. It's mental mind games... The struggle is real. I have to watch my own back.
@hoshiko123 Жыл бұрын
@blakemeans462 Then leave? If its a struggle it's not worth it, you deserve to be happy.
@blakemeans462 Жыл бұрын
@@hoshiko123 I know it's just hard... We have a kid otw and she's just so prideful and stubborn it's gotten out of control... I can't be at fault for everything and also be the only one trying to fix the relationship. It's like I'm in the matrix. It's affecting my success in life and also my well-being.
@hoshiko123 Жыл бұрын
@blakemeans462 Is there any way you can sit down and have a real talk with her? I wish you the best in getting through this, both of you. Congratulations on the baby btw
@LivingALifeOfAbundance3 жыл бұрын
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
@bloodnivel703 жыл бұрын
Good point
@tswagg5043 жыл бұрын
“We’re better than you!” Patrice Oneal
@AmberAyres3 жыл бұрын
Idk about being attracted to a man bc he is better, women and men have different roles and one isn't more important or better than the other. A leader is a leader, but that doesn't make them better than the rest. There has to be a balance. I think womens' attraction grows when they see certain qualities within you that makes her feel like you would be/are a great leading man and lover. Just my thoughts. Also varies person to person
@shiskeyoffles3 жыл бұрын
@@AmberAyres "a leader is a leader" It's not merely roles where anyone can fit dear... Somethings has to be earned and that's what makes them better...
@theacneclearchef29523 жыл бұрын
@@shiskeyoffles Bit condescending bro. Cool it rofl. 😂😂😂😂
@nickstoliaroff3243 жыл бұрын
Girl at my work just graduated with dance and she is the exact same way as he described his girl Working 60-100 hours a week with three jobs. Fast talking crazy eyes miss Independent. Only difference is her man just dumped her...
@waterpoloboy243 жыл бұрын
Those type of girls will find a man but that man will be a beta. Who she doesn’t respect. The man that left her has respect for himself.
@Riptor19983 жыл бұрын
How the hell is it possible to work 100 hours a week
@waterpoloboy243 жыл бұрын
@@roleat false.
@shayemoore3 жыл бұрын
Good for her. There's other 🐟 in the sea.
@adriangriffiths47503 жыл бұрын
@@Riptor1998 15-18 hour daily shifts
@tmoney02123 жыл бұрын
"Thought this was an AMS video by the Title lol
@RaSTATiC-3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kantrellebradford12843 жыл бұрын
AMS and Elliot has some similar ideas regarding women
@CDG6393 жыл бұрын
@@kantrellebradford1284 yes but applied in completely opposite ways!
@davidthestudent81103 жыл бұрын
what does the acronym AMS stand for?
@kantrellebradford12843 жыл бұрын
@@davidthestudent8110 Alpha Male Strategies
@Cashalfstory3 жыл бұрын
How is a woman to show her trust in a man if because of how she has been raised she has low self esteem, does not truly believe in her lovability due to never getting love, and then she attracts guys who have the same insecurities and so of course he takes advantage of her love as if it’s weakness and then dumps her or cheats on her? Like attracts like... do not go blaming the woman all the time, men also take responsibility
@eldruidacosmico3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Elliott! if I may add to your video, having an unsubmissive wife was my main marital problem for 10 years, the game changer for me was getting baptized and putting GOD in the center of the family, not her, you need to become the pastor of your house, God will then give you all the authority you'll need to help her convert and to withstand her initial resistance, don't get emotional if she tries to mock your conversion, when she sees you are for real, and that her manipulations won't work, she will respect you.
@reubensearle82003 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@theacneclearchef29523 жыл бұрын
wtf. Sounds so culty rofl. Just be free. Bruh.
@eldruidacosmico3 жыл бұрын
@@theacneclearchef2952 do you mean free as letring my passions loose and then enslave me? No thanks
@BrazucaShredder3 жыл бұрын
Freedom isn’t doing what you want when you feel like it (effeminacy)... Freedom is choosing to sacrifice yourself for something bigger
@lmcg....3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ImBritoEric3 жыл бұрын
Never let a women disrespect you period
@flowstateentertainment83953 жыл бұрын
Facts. I including things like girls calling me "bro" or "bruh". You got me messed up if you think I'm going to let a woman I'm dating call me that or anything else I don't approve of.
@ThingsILikke3 жыл бұрын
What are you going to do, beat her up? This “let” word ruins so much potentially good advice- unless you are telepathic or some kind of wizard you have no control over what other people do.
@ThingsILikke3 жыл бұрын
@@_.-_Crimpy-_..-. that’s my entire point- what the hell are you going to do about it? People ask your permission before they speak? “Let” is just nonsense and a lot of people that think that way end up in prison.
@ThingsILikke3 жыл бұрын
@@_.-_Crimpy-_..-. exactly- you get away from that person. That has everything to do with you, not what you “allow” other people to do around you - like by you’re the sultan or Brunei with armed guards ready to arrest who ever shows you disrespect. This is the stupidest vernacular and I hear it all the time- mostly to assign blame to the innocent party in a situation. “My boss is being horrible” “well you let him disrespect you” you’d think the people giving this advice were like freakin word magicians but so few people are even assertive.
@flowstateentertainment83953 жыл бұрын
@@ThingsILikke It's called boundaries. Someone does something you dont like, you check it (verbally) right then and there. If they do it again, they're out. That simple.
@HonkyTonkManYeah3 жыл бұрын
I live in urban Denmark, Scandinavia, and i got 3 sisters and a brother. My little sister and 2 older sisters are all so clearly affected by the political ideas theyve been fed its almost like the truman show is playing out in real life. Ive seen how their behaviour has changed so much in the past 10 years and i see how they have a switch that can flip if some potentially political comment is made, and they can go from normal to hostile. I really dislike it, it hurts to see them be so superficial. But i also see that they didnt really choose this for themselves. It really is like a hypnosis, like a “switch” that gets built into these women of our times.
@prod.cruzomg17822 жыл бұрын
its a reprogramming accuring in the western world, sadly. the feminization of men and masculinization of women, with the goal to depopulate the world. Fat-shaming/body positivity, Abortions, lgbt agenda, Feminist movements, the war on "Toxic" masculinity are all sub-agendas for a bigger goal. WEAK men cant fight back over the oppressers. we cant leave it to the women, right? it hurts to see as someone who wishes to see men as who they truly are, MEN and women as WOMEN. I truly believe it all has to do with the fact that Men have separated themselves from God. The bible is there to teach men to be men and women to be women. 1 Timothy 2:12 "I allow no woman to teach or to have authority over men. Let them be quiet" Adam fell because he listened to Eve, the serpent seduced Eve because she was easier to manipulate. That explains why your sisters fell so easy to the satanic propaganda. But as a man, your JOB is to not make the same mistake Adam made and steer Eve to the righteous path of God. Remember, you are a man, they are women. I also have a younger sister, and man, you cant really say anything to girls without getting deathgazed, so i know how you feel.
@toscadonna3 жыл бұрын
The WIFE is to submit to her HUSBAND who is supposed to love her as Christ loved the Church. They’re not married, and she doesn’t trust him, and there’s obviously something he’s not doing to be the leader in this situation. He was very vague about what she was doing besides not submitting. What does that mean? Is he even gonna stick around with her and raise his child?
@melyssa85853 жыл бұрын
A person should compliment you and your life. Not submit or dominate. Boundaries and staying within them is how relationships work.
@shiskeyoffles3 жыл бұрын
Ah! Good to see comments from ladies perspective Also isn't submit/dominate complimentary ?
@Riptor19983 жыл бұрын
Having boundaries you hold your partner to and they comply with is a form of domination..
@vb28063 жыл бұрын
You can't explain that to Elliott, he thinks everyone is as insecure as him. He literally says he works from home and that is the only reason he has no fear of his wife cheating on him.
@iceman473 жыл бұрын
Well she doesnt seem to be respecting boundaries is she? what do you suggest?
@amandab35873 жыл бұрын
@@shiskeyoffles no lmao women don't want to be with someone who will make them feel inferior. Relationships need to be about working together rather than one having authority over the other. This isn't the 50's and women aren't required to kneel down to someone.
@roadtothevictoryguy59293 жыл бұрын
What i like about the book The Rational Male is the idea - before you are in relationship, you need to be grinding already. Women are complimentary, not the main dish. I learned the hard way, now struggling with sustaining family which from the outside perspective dont look as family, because of the foundation. The foundation is man made, the vision and hard work. I lost that while dating and now im paying for it, because, when there is blank page, life fills it and overwriting is ereasing the written plus writing yourself. P.s. as one said in commentary. When you got your vision back, its two way street, will she agree or not, but thats her problem. My problem is to continue grinding and believe in God, the only way.
@EsotericHighway3 жыл бұрын
This poor bastard is in trouble...
@adfohukafoju57593 жыл бұрын
Don't abuse nonsense
@Brian6263 жыл бұрын
"True empowerment is to the degree of responsibility, and these women have no responsibility."
@tuaylahten22953 жыл бұрын
I've witnessed some crazy karen bishes in my day...but some of what is going on might be all the thoughts. feelings, hormones that kick in when a woman wants to know you will be there for her and the baby. The imprinting of being abandoned by a father is a strong thing to overcome. Bums me out to see so many people telling him to walk away when he is about to move into the most important role of his life. Not saying he should put up with abuse, but it might be wise to test the water a bit longer. That baby is going to need him and as secure of a family as possible. I agree with you Elliott, things could change for the better, I saw that happen in my own daughters life.
@davidbanda7593 жыл бұрын
✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼
@purelyme54883 жыл бұрын
I would say to him... get in a good place with yourself first then her... ask her to marry you and if she’s not happy or if she’s not sure then get ready to co-parent. I hope it works for y’all too.
@shiskeyoffles3 жыл бұрын
Sane comment 😂
@alvarojneto3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Once a child is involved, you have to step up and considered what is best for him/her.
@danielb27893 жыл бұрын
WORK IT OUT 😤, society made things so comfortable for man and woman "cooparenting" Always the easy way out. We all saw movies where 2 ppl don't like each other but for survivle reason they choose to adapt, And ended up get along. After mariage both sex think they reach evrest and There's no more work, no more romance from man and woman let themselves Go like 300 pounds and kids suffer from it.
@esejames19923 жыл бұрын
A woman will submit to a man that's worthy of it. Don't worry about her, work on yourself 🏆
@tarus04302 жыл бұрын
🚩🚩🚩🚩 Submission should not be literally on your mind. It’s an act, an energy that comes natural to the couples that have that right connection . Y’all have to submit in ways too. Not just women . That’s why many men are single or bounce from relationship to relationship.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
...sigh
@joannamonique707 Жыл бұрын
Facts. It comes naturally with the right person‼️
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends20273 жыл бұрын
Paternity Test 100%
@AgeofMachines3 жыл бұрын
She's too manipulative to stay. She will not learn until it burns. Degree in Dance = I'm more educated than you so I don't have to listen to you. Bargaining with reality will rip you off as a man EVERY TIME.
@declanh23143 жыл бұрын
😂 What exactly is a degree in dance ? I thought he was joking
@waterpoloboy243 жыл бұрын
A degree in dancing.... cmon man.
@jakepokemonman12273 жыл бұрын
Do you shave your eyebrows
@ratatat123563 жыл бұрын
Elliot is such a better speaker now christ changed him
@PeterMortensen19783 жыл бұрын
Elliot: women play victim. Elliot: plays victim of the new world.
@klekawelo3 жыл бұрын
Just tell her…”look here, woman! We goin be together forever and we ARE going to accomplish that by becoming ONE! In other words it’s US. We ONE PERSON now. Now, you betta deal with that mess inside your heart and mind and imma deal with my mess and we are gonna grow up! We are gonna exercise humility and patience and grow in our responsibilities but we’re going to do it together without breaking US down (because I am you and you are me). We’re going to do it together. Forever. Period!”!! You may have to remind her of this and yourself over and over and over throughout the weeks and months and years. It will give you the stepping stone by default as the lead without necessarily saying “I’M THE BOSS”. You won’t need to say your the boss if you’re leading like a boss making the best decisions for THE WHOLE.
@klekawelo3 жыл бұрын
Oh and tell her that you love her after that. It always eases the blow to the “masculine egoistic brain fog” we women can struggle with now a days. It works…because at the end of the day she’s a woman and she needs that tenderness but she also needs the guidance of a strong man.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
@@klekawelo W comment!
@eastafrika7283 жыл бұрын
Women are not animals that they should submit. Clare Huxtable never submitted but respected her husband.
@AmberAyres3 жыл бұрын
It is the culture. Relationships take work and if there isn't a mutual respect and consistent healthy compromises and resolutions without there being pride and ego in the way, it just won't work. Definitely takes 2 people. I am a woman but 100% agree that the newer generations are just very arrogant. I am a little torn bc I don't believe in the man being the shotcaller and what he says goes, I think it should be an equal connection. You're a team and if you aren't a team player you are gonna get kicked. Hard to find people worth investing in. I am 25 and boyfriend is a year younger. We have been together for going on 4 years. No one knows everything. I can be hard headed and can get contrary, but we always keep the respect and take time to try to understand each other's emotions, perspectives. 100% agree with you Elliot
@declanh23143 жыл бұрын
Are you married ? How many kids do ye have ?
@dansharov68283 жыл бұрын
I think it's important for the man to lead. With my ex and current girl, even when they would be stubborn and say we're a team and stuff, they were always more happy when I push through with my idea. My ex is my ex because I let her take responsibility for 50% and she got really wild.
@AmberAyres3 жыл бұрын
@@declanh2314 no kids and not married yet
@AmberAyres3 жыл бұрын
@@dansharov6828 I think the man should be the leader for sure, just not full on dictator.
@Dzillarable3 жыл бұрын
your asking a man to forfeit his ego and pride? hello? the man and woman people will abase themselves and settle for anything at that point.
@bullymaguire20613 жыл бұрын
Damn you triggering those feminists as crazy af
@amandab35873 жыл бұрын
Feminists fight for the equality of men and women. Clearly, this man doesn't believe in equality so obviously, opinions will clash :)
@noblegamer87403 жыл бұрын
as a man, YOU define the reality for your family. YOU have dominion. She will either submit to her reality or she will rebel, much like people do with God. This is why it’s important to ask for and perform marriage before knocking her up, cuz now she has no choice, which in a way is not fair for her. However, you have to acknowledge that you screwed up and move forward correctly. Assume your role and implement your vision. She will submit or rebel, but God will take care of the rest.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes with the rebellious nature it feels like Adam was better off alone. Continue to pray for the sons of Adam in the Messiah's name
@Jamie-oc8ds3 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOOOO IS HE SERIOUS.
@coreydavis28943 жыл бұрын
“Graduated from college” already screwed bro, aaanndd you knocked her up. Yikes
@pian14413 жыл бұрын
people only behave as good as they need to be.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
😐 The comment section is divided between the righteous that accepts obedience/submission in relationships and the wicked that desire freedom from all order/duty in relationships. Men of the Faith, protect yourselves at all in times.
@joannamonique707 Жыл бұрын
Stop using religion to justify your bullshit. Preach all the bullshit you want. It's not gonna make women wanna sleep with you. We know yall don't believe in God like that. You're just a bunch of incels who are mad and want to threaten women with the idea of eternal damnati9n so they'll have sex with you.
@malikinvictus26473 жыл бұрын
If a woman doesn't submit either you're not being a man or she's trying to be a man.
@BeardedKingface3 жыл бұрын
1:10: "I know she had red flags before dating her" BRUH
@SomeGuy-xf9bc3 жыл бұрын
The Jezebel spirit is real. This man is doomed.
@m.9353 жыл бұрын
Pray for him tonight with me, instead of dooming him. God is powerful than Jezebel.
@SomeGuy-xf9bc3 жыл бұрын
@@m.935 I'm not dooming him. He's dooming himself. Unfortunately lessons like this often need to be learned the hard way.
@m.9353 жыл бұрын
@@SomeGuy-xf9bc True.
@sinisterjogger3 жыл бұрын
Elliott bro how’s Tampa I’m tryna leave this city for good. I need a rari in the hills
@isaiahdryg50103 жыл бұрын
Just gotta have options. If your wife thinks that if she leaves you’ll be perfectly fine, she won’t take a DAMN step. It gets trickier with kids, but the underlying message is the same. She just wants to look at you with those big, blinking eyes and think “that’s my fucking MAN” they won’t admit it, but that’s what they all want. All you gotta do is be a fuckin man
@TheDipset12333 жыл бұрын
Cope
@isaiahdryg50103 жыл бұрын
@@TheDipset1233 with what? Work well for me and my girl
@AmberAyres3 жыл бұрын
I don't get women like that. Like ok you can survive on your own, but you sure as hell won't have a partner worth having if you can't compromise and have mutual respect. Grew up watching the men in families being presented as bafoons.. now women treat men like that.
@jayceeleon3 жыл бұрын
I have an independent female friend like this she complains and cries about not finding a man worthy of her but wants every man to kneel for her, I just don’t know if she will ever find someone who will put up with that maybe for a while but will not last, I feel sorry for her
@artarak4973 жыл бұрын
@@jayceeleon cats, depression, addiction and toys at 30 until death, that’s my prediction But of course « she’s empowered and independent » that way
@jayceeleon3 жыл бұрын
@@artarak497 yeah I feel like the independence gives her that power and it’s good she has a good home and good job but she has to develop a good mutual mindset in order to find a man
@AmberAyres3 жыл бұрын
@@artarak497 and before I say this, just want to say I am 100% supportive for lgbtq+ and whatever makes people happy.. but honestly women being like that makes me think maybe that's why so many people our generation are gay lol like specifically women who think they don't need a man so just being with a woman is better, feminism to the max lol
@amandab35873 жыл бұрын
@@AmberAyres except being gay isn't a choice genius so you can't blame the lgbtq+ when it comes to women not needing/wanting a man
@شَريفمُحَمَّد-م7ر3 жыл бұрын
I hope this guy gets a DNA test!!!!!!!!
@samoneill42863 жыл бұрын
Where is the best place to ask Elliot a question? Is it here? Email? Anyone know
@shiskeyoffles3 жыл бұрын
Insta I think
@CoachClaytonMurray3 жыл бұрын
Love the message another great mentor who gives specific actions and the reasoning why is coach Corey Wayne these men are must have mentors. Her values aren’t aligned and chasing someone who is being disrespectful is demeaning. It takes two to make a relationship work and at the end of the day relationships are the women’s department. Focus on your mission and purpose she has the power give her the space to freely choose you and check out Corey Wayne’s material it’s all free and no bs. Thanks Eliot like the yin and yang aspect!
@famvoyage3 жыл бұрын
Great video Elliot you are hitting the spot with these videos!
@metalband2 жыл бұрын
Lmao the thumbnail punching your hand... make her SUMBITTTTT!!!!!
@finishembird3 жыл бұрын
I think the problem is that we have less men while empowering women at the same time
@danielb27893 жыл бұрын
If I did you wrong and things have been misunderstood, I apologies and If you have somthing in your Heart let it out I'm listening. But check that attitude do not act unwisely nor raise your voice at me. It that simple... now go ahead
@spikedeagle67953 жыл бұрын
SPEAK THOSE FACTS MY BROTHER
@dvl9733 жыл бұрын
Gee the title and the thumbnail 😂 I'd change one or the other 😂😂
@yharnamiyhill7873 жыл бұрын
This is not just modern women... I experience arrogant and conceded Boomers. Hags that are perverted and spoiled. It is quite gross really, it is like they never grew up.
@m_jay58 ай бұрын
Genesis 2:24 "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." - The feminist women absolutely hate that verse especially the becoming one flesh part
@maxwillson3 жыл бұрын
That's funny you say a family is like a corporation because my family always got together in the hot tub, it was like a family meeting ahahaha! It worked though, we solved a ton of issues in that hot tub LOL
@tonntonns16 Жыл бұрын
While I don't disagree that the majority of my generation is definitely getting out of hand on both sides, but I have to disagree with your definition an independent woman that provides a little more context and sometimes empathy.. An independent woman as mostly agreed amongst other women my age is not one that relies on government assistance for a false sense of empowerment, an independent woman is a woman that is taking care of herself, getting herself together, and setting herself up for the successful life she's in-visioned for herself, she either HAD to do for herself, or learned to do for herself because everyone that offered or were meant to help, didn't. For me in particular, I have the second and I have swallowed my pride to let people help me while not realizing their malicious intent for pay back or blackmail until I've already accepted. The relationship I'm in now is a lack of consistency in doing what he says he'll do, not holding himself to the same standards of respect he holds me to, and tells me I shouldn't focus on my needs to feel whole if he is willing to provide the other securities as a man (which is not dwelling with me in understanding,) but not securities beyond tangible that the majority of women need, but don't get from men. I want to try and learn where it is I'm doing wrong because as much as I will stand up for myself against anyone, I want to submit, I want to be soft and malleable, but I don't feel comfortable with the differences in what all he did to get me and telling me I'm the wife he wants to work for, versus where we are and how he carries himself, and what he's not willing to adjust about himself when it's extremely necessary, even though he knew it was a problem in his relationships, not just romantic, before he met me and wants me to submit to his chaos and confusion, that he also denies is an issue when he gets into the feelings he denies as frustration, shame, guilt, you name, he doesn't want to admit he felt it until he is calm, but no apology for what was done... I'll be patient even though I'm 100% not the type of person to allow a "them" issue, become MY issue, I'll take my deep breathes and even apologize for my reaction to his mistake/choice, encourage him and implement what HE says will help break the cycle... but not submit to him again until I see consistency and know he's actually willing to love me the way I need since he and I already agreed that was the proper way to show love.
@Pink_isnt_augest3 жыл бұрын
I see stuff about children, and how women should like submit to guys and it’s like. hEhA I fucking hate kids and never want to get married. I’m like the opposite of what this guy is talking about. But like that’s why I am the best
@spierdavid3 жыл бұрын
Sound pretty damaged
@Pink_isnt_augest3 жыл бұрын
Nah, it’s pretty normal actually
@vb28063 жыл бұрын
Well this guy just wanted to have kids and make a woman submit, that's all he has known I guess.
@Pink_isnt_augest3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but sometimes people take it like that kid there and it’s like n o ~
@spierdavid3 жыл бұрын
@@Pink_isnt_augest a relationship with a dominant woman is a bad relationship for both parties.
@emcovlogs_1363 жыл бұрын
hey elliot how do i send you messages to read and help bro? thanks! long time follower
@alyaaearth4755 Жыл бұрын
The answer be a normal person and accept a different opinion ,a man worrying abt his ago is the worst 🤦
@MistyDW413 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind the bible tells women to submit to their husband, not to their boyfriend, etc. Just a thought.
@bernthalbabe3133 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind not all of us a religious, just a thought
@joannamonique707 Жыл бұрын
@@bernthalbabe313 and for the ones who ain't religious yall can REALLY kiss our asses with this submission shit.
@Michael_Kelsey3 жыл бұрын
To keep modern women around you need to make sure they know you’ll leave. She disrespects you because she know you won’t hold her accountable. Why change if it’s not necessary. Humans only change when it’s necessary.
@shayemoore3 жыл бұрын
You must mean girls cause women don't give a damn if a man leaves. She will gladly escort him to the door.
@40stryder033 жыл бұрын
@@shayemoore you are lying.. if a woman is interested in a man the thought of him leaving will bother her deeply..
@shayemoore3 жыл бұрын
@@40stryder03 No. You are lying and obviously inexperienced. Women leave men that they LOVE all the time. Get offline and go live in the real world and you might learn a thing or two.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
@@40stryder03 Humanity is still sane and righteous! W comment
@bronktug24463 жыл бұрын
What Alan watts video was that?
@sadesmith6663 Жыл бұрын
The bible said a woman must submit to her husband not her boyfriend. This is the reason why I'm single cause I'm not doing wifey duties for no boyfriend. That's ridiculous for real!
@marksavoia36873 жыл бұрын
Christ Heart Consciousness
@willusmaximus69853 жыл бұрын
I say stay free in your business and busy in your freedom. Mind your own business. Stay in your lane. The hater system slaves will be jealous/envious of you, but let it be more fuel to your fire. Know when to speak up and when to keep silence. Don't cast your pearls before swine.
@NESDUB3 жыл бұрын
Step one: become a millionaire. That’s the easy way for most women to want to enroll. Women primarily want security.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
Nah. A fool and his money is soon to part ways and women destroy kings
@gmoney10893 жыл бұрын
"There's something in here that's tender" yeah, tender, moist and warm 🤣
@mr.potatohead61383 жыл бұрын
Should not have gotten pregnant in the first place, there's a reason why doing things in certain order is better. Hopefully other young people will learn from these mistakes.
@jacklang3632 жыл бұрын
I love how elliotte breaks it to a science instead of complaining about human nature like the red pill frauds.
@asdfgoogle3 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting for you to say "she has you by the balls." Don't disappoint me, Elliott 😂
@AraOG-o7w3 жыл бұрын
I sincerely like this guy
@livkim-fj7is Жыл бұрын
All I have to say is if I wanted to be enrolled in some thing I’d go take a college course or a yoga class Never submitting to anyone but God
@FoereaperGaming3 жыл бұрын
Lol ive been doing too much Jiu Jitsu. The first thing I thought when I read the title was well just squeeze harder!
@nikolabralic70463 жыл бұрын
Last 2 days felt a little empty without your upload Elliot
@maverikotonashi3 жыл бұрын
Listening to this video I realize the difference between a lot of different girls I've bedded and dated over the years. Love the perspective
@Dmgolfer223 жыл бұрын
This guy needs to read Coach Corey Wayne’s book!!!!!
@TGP109 Жыл бұрын
Why is the word submission even used? I swear it's just gaslighting women to use it. If she wants the same things out of life that you do, you can work it out, otherwise find someone else.
@WilliamsWrestlin3 жыл бұрын
Read Arthur Schopenhauer's work on women
@sampsonlittle73682 жыл бұрын
You will never get me to submit to you without marriage. After the first day of marriage then we’ll discuss what kind of love you’re going to give me and I’ll let you know what kind of submission I’ll give to you. The nerve of men thinking they are due submission in the dating scene.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
Can a man say to woman, you will never get me to be masculine to you without marriage? Until then I shall focus on beauty wearing dresses and make up without any plans or vision. Only after the first day of marital sex shall we discuss what kind of obedience your going to give me?? The delusion and arrogance of this generation! The nerve of women thinking they are due love, food and masculinity in the dating scene #ConditionalFeminityisTrash
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
@@summerbreeze5360 🤷♀️
@emmanuelvasquez56213 жыл бұрын
This is cap Elliot. Why didn’t you give this guy the red pill. He gotta leave her.
@layeththesmackdown693 жыл бұрын
true, but what about the baby? He already fucked up there. Too late!
@briobrio60473 жыл бұрын
This man doing Amazing work ❤️🔥💪
@roleat3 жыл бұрын
Set healthy boundaries and respect her wishes, whether you believe they are for the best or not.
@sjdstorm23 жыл бұрын
What’s your opinions on flight reacts 🤦🏽 don’t want to give that attention but sheesh, plenty of lessons to be learned there
@adamtheathlete3 жыл бұрын
If you want to understand the truth then start looking at nature.
@deoverbuurman3 жыл бұрын
Quite negative to call this the "degenerative" age while there has never been a larger % of the world educated enough to read, have plenty of food and options to improve their life and choose their own life path instead of following those of their parents. I think we live in an amazing age!
@artarak4973 жыл бұрын
What’s the point of having knowledge without wisdom. You’re like a donkey with a tons of books on its back.
@BdDaBOMB2 жыл бұрын
The point is that Spiritually no but materialistically yes. If you are materialistic then you shall thrive, if you are a spiritual attempting to obey the Sabbath Commandment then it's tough.
@glitchyjoe643 жыл бұрын
A marriage that is between 2 people and the government, instead of god, is not a marriage.
@vanessasingenstrew92333 жыл бұрын
Hear me out broski, what if the vision isn’t worth submitting to? What if this so-called vision is not of value or benefit of some sort to the female, then what? ( I’m not saying that the point is for the female to only benefit from this, relationships really should benefit all the parties involved and add value to everyone’s life).
@weeearthlings3 жыл бұрын
So you just got someone pregnant with no plan and little commitment to your partner or child… tell me again how worthy you are of respect bro? How about you learn some communication and negotiation skills. Do therapy. Become an awesome inspiring knowledgeable human being. Earn some real authority rather than expecting it based on your genitals. What a concept.
@formeitwastuesday.15153 жыл бұрын
I didnt put my foot down with the girl of my dreams but I don't think its was supposed to be that hard. She later said she made a big mistake. Keep looking for the right one and stop giving these Hohos attention.
@YesitisDex3 жыл бұрын
...wrist-lock them 🤓
@enyaliuslll39543 жыл бұрын
I REALLY don't envy this guy
@AZ_TONY3 жыл бұрын
It's over for this guy, get ready for child support bruh.......
@theodorelaurence17902 жыл бұрын
Why don’t you guys just practice abstinence until marriage and work on yourselves in order to be worthy of marriage? Most women follow the lead of a guy that is worth following. If she doesn’t follow your lead, don’t try to pressure her. Get yourself together. Why do guys these days think they don’t have to improve themselves or prove themselves. It’s not the case that all men are worth following. There are types of men and not all men are leaders. Women are smart enough not to follow just any man’s lead. What are you doing with a woman whose judgement you don’t respect?
@itzvirt3 жыл бұрын
Elliot please make a video about your thoughts on "theybies"
@henrystjuste3 жыл бұрын
Why has KZbin shadow banned you? 800k subs should be getting way more views
@hoshiko1233 жыл бұрын
It's misinformation that's why
@Zix.n3 жыл бұрын
@@hoshiko123 what is?
@hoshiko1233 жыл бұрын
@@Zix.n All of the stuff that comes out his mouth...
@Zix.n3 жыл бұрын
@@hoshiko123 honestly, and looking at your feedback/comments on this channel, your own perception to the hard truth in life in some males eyes as I assume you're a female from whatever sources, you really dont belong on this channel at all, as I say, go find Female content creators who don't confuse your brain with words Elliott uses as 'Alpha' and 'Werewolf'... Sheesh, and the other shit too... you take everything from this channel as misleading because your own brain can't hardly function but misguide everything😂🙏.
@hoshiko1233 жыл бұрын
@UCsAg9xJWLnuq9bAdBvYiNIQ Who is Jordan Peterson?
@antoniogo69313 жыл бұрын
I have faith in God, but i think you can not fix someone who is moraly bankrupt.
@travisscott54223 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this ain't gonna work out. Shouldn't of made a baby in the first place. Should of got the heck out of dodge when you saw the red flags. She's a dance major. In the long run, Her MO is going to me more important than you or your kid. She is eventually going to use the kid against you if she isn't doing that already.
@crow6393 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the vid,.. and for the guys out there,.. there can be a perfect relationship, but there aint no perfect people or in this case women.
@hoshiko1233 жыл бұрын
If people are imperfect then a relationship can't be perfect; you work together and compromise. If you feel like you have dominion over the other person, you're not going to do that.
@justanameonyourscreen59543 жыл бұрын
You think her hormones are all messed up now...just wait until after...postpartum depression