Women Who Won't Submit

[@ICEcoldJT]

“They’ll never respect you if you keep giving them chances to disrespect you. Know your worth.” 👑

[@alvarojneto]

And corollarily, if you do not allow them to disrespect you, they will either leave or respect you, both being better options than a union based on disrespect.

[@bentleedeacon6123]

instaBlaster...

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s 1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset 2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention. 3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone 4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date. 5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you. 6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life 7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating 8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel 9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun 10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.

[@bradvincent2586]

8. A woman can never love you? So you’re saying unconditional love isn’t actually real? Nah. Jesus can makes it so we can really love

[@vb2806]

@@bradvincent2586 No it doesn't exist, when you are finding your "right" match you are putting conditions on how they should be. When a mother loves her child it's because it's her child, that's the condition.

[@amicusn9031]

Honestly reading these points makes me so happy I dont live in the USA. Men at 18-25 have a hard time dating? This is when you are supposed to get married and women 18-25 dont want to settle down but have "fun". Sorry but that is a broken culture. The whole concept about being in a "friendzone" is also just so weird, this expression dont even exist other languagses as far as i know. The whole problem in the USA is that they go and have sex outside of wedlock and with multiple partners which is not natural. Without plastic condoms, pills, medicine, sex with multiple partners would kill and make people sick and it does in many countries who doesnt have the same amount of contraception and medicine. It also breaks down the bonds of the family. Sexual immorality destroyed the culture in the USA

[@panokostouros7609]

@@bradvincent2586 You are correct, however what OP is hinting at is women in their carnal and unhealed state. They're useful flaws to keep in mind when you're young, but the goal of marriage is for both parties to transcend these worldly, fallen and carnal states of being in Christ. By the Grace given through the sacrificial Christlike life in the Orthodox Church. Acknowledge the fallen state of women in the same way you expect them to acknowledge you in your fallen state, but don't hold it against her. You and she have inherited the propensity towards dysfunction. You both crave God's Infinity in His Creation, so you'll both be highly tempted in various ways.

[@chrisjohnson6621]

i agree that’s not what they’re looking for, but if you lead, woman 18 to 25 will settle down, but only if you can be better than what ALL of society and social media tells them. you can do it but you have to be crushing. you have to create your own culture and the happiness from that has to supersede the crooked pleasures from the modern world. women still naturally want one man but you have to really be on your shit to topple Babylonian programming

[@Bodyknowledge77]

Not being negative, but being honest. This likely isn't going to be a healthy maintained relationship (barring a miraculous epiphany) unless he deludes himself more than he has. Commitments are good but not when they are on a foundation of pudding..

[@iriselba3027]

Yes, he and this young lady need real counseling not a KZbin video.

[@l_unchtime]

Or, he steps into his power and takes the reigns. You know, what this whole message is about. Doing the same old, sure it will fail. But man takes the lead and takes his authority in hand, and she'll fall in line and it could develop into something healthy. If the man doesn't hold a vision for his family, of course it'll be a disaster. It's simple.

[@l_unchtime]

@@iriselba3027 tbh, I'm not in this situation by any stretch, but I found this vid to be of value if I were to find myself in it in the future.

[@Michael_Kelsey]

I’m with you on this one. He either has to say he will not accept disrespect anymore and if she does it again he’s out or she keeps disrespecting him.

[@alvarojneto]

From experience, he can nurture it if he is willing to fall on the sword of a principled life.

[@Anxta117]

This dude is in for a world of hurt, ignoring red flags with a disobedient woman whose older than him AND got her pregnant.

[@Z4rgabad]

and daddy issues, her dad left her

[@shiskeyoffles]

@@Z4rgabad icing on top I guess 😆

[@weeearthlings]

'disobedient'. let me guess. you are incredibly single :D

[@Anxta117]

@@weeearthlings yes by choice, I got 4 girls on a rotation and much happier with that.

[@weeearthlings]

@@Anxta117 sure bro. sure :) the inflatable kind on rotation to the washing machine.

[@GenericHandle01]

Considering all the red flags, I would say it is worth getting a paternity test to make SURE this is his kid. As Elliot says, "...this degenerate age". If is his kid, then push forward. If not, let her know she needs to find the father and get him involved in the kids life. And walk away from that, if the latter is the case.

[@loading5738]

lololol im dead. degenerationx.

[@BdDaBOMB]

I agree

[@loveself6396]

lol she’ll just put him on child support & become a girl boss.

[@powermadeflesh1146]

paternity test immediately - get joint custody day one, move out live on your own so you see clearly -- still date if you like but dont rush and get married. women dont accidentally get pregnant she had a plan maybe trap you to marry or baby and ditch u - nonethless its all out of order you need to to direct it all even when you have a baby which cant change now - but you need to get out of the emotional position. because as it stands she has all the power now . the child needs you to be a man so stand back so you can think right. A girl with a dance degree she had plans and will regret and needs attention - you have big challenege - wish you well - nothing i told you is evil its just protecting and balancing the power

[@akumous]

Dude if you are reading this. Run! I was in your situation and I ended up coparenting regardless of my efforts to make a broken relationship work. If a woman you are in a relationship with does not taking responsibility for their actions and is not willing to compromise or find a balance. Just run! Take your losses and move on.

[@hoshiko123]

OK, this is incredibly one sided and this guy really said absolutely nothing. Instead of taking the easy way out, he needs to sit down and talk to her, about how he feels. She'll have the opportunity to open up to him to; its a partnership not a war.

[@blakemeans462]

@@hoshiko123 I disagree I'm also currently dealing with the same thing and expressing your feelings doesn't help. It makes you realize just how unheard you really are... And it's always a war for her. It's mental mind games... The struggle is real. I have to watch my own back.

[@hoshiko123]

@blakemeans462 Then leave? If its a struggle it's not worth it, you deserve to be happy.

[@blakemeans462]

@@hoshiko123 I know it's just hard... We have a kid otw and she's just so prideful and stubborn it's gotten out of control... I can't be at fault for everything and also be the only one trying to fix the relationship. It's like I'm in the matrix. It's affecting my success in life and also my well-being.

[@hoshiko123]

@blakemeans462 Is there any way you can sit down and have a real talk with her? I wish you the best in getting through this, both of you. Congratulations on the baby btw

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow

[@bloodnivel70]

Good point

[@tswagg504]

“We’re better than you!” Patrice Oneal

[@AmberAyres]

Idk about being attracted to a man bc he is better, women and men have different roles and one isn't more important or better than the other. A leader is a leader, but that doesn't make them better than the rest. There has to be a balance. I think womens' attraction grows when they see certain qualities within you that makes her feel like you would be/are a great leading man and lover. Just my thoughts. Also varies person to person

[@shiskeyoffles]

@@AmberAyres "a leader is a leader" It's not merely roles where anyone can fit dear... Somethings has to be earned and that's what makes them better...

[@theacneclearchef2952]

@@shiskeyoffles Bit condescending bro. Cool it rofl. 😂😂😂😂

[@nickstoliaroff324]

Girl at my work just graduated with dance and she is the exact same way as he described his girl Working 60-100 hours a week with three jobs. Fast talking crazy eyes miss Independent. Only difference is her man just dumped her...

[@waterpoloboy24]

Those type of girls will find a man but that man will be a beta. Who she doesn’t respect. The man that left her has respect for himself.

[@Riptor1998]

How the hell is it possible to work 100 hours a week

[@waterpoloboy24]

@@roleat false.

[@shayemoore]

Good for her. There's other 🐟 in the sea.

[@adriangriffiths4750]

@@Riptor1998 15-18 hour daily shifts

[@tmoney0212]

"Thought this was an AMS video by the Title lol

[@RaSTATiC-]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kantrellebradford1284]

AMS and Elliot has some similar ideas regarding women

[@CDG639]

@@kantrellebradford1284 yes but applied in completely opposite ways!

[@davidthestudent8110]

what does the acronym AMS stand for?

[@kantrellebradford1284]

@@davidthestudent8110 Alpha Male Strategies

[@Cashalfstory]

How is a woman to show her trust in a man if because of how she has been raised she has low self esteem, does not truly believe in her lovability due to never getting love, and then she attracts guys who have the same insecurities and so of course he takes advantage of her love as if it’s weakness and then dumps her or cheats on her? Like attracts like... do not go blaming the woman all the time, men also take responsibility

[@eldruidacosmico]

Thanks Elliott! if I may add to your video, having an unsubmissive wife was my main marital problem for 10 years, the game changer for me was getting baptized and putting GOD in the center of the family, not her, you need to become the pastor of your house, God will then give you all the authority you'll need to help her convert and to withstand her initial resistance, don't get emotional if she tries to mock your conversion, when she sees you are for real, and that her manipulations won't work, she will respect you.

[@reubensearle8200]

Amen!

[@theacneclearchef2952]

wtf. Sounds so culty rofl. Just be free. Bruh.

[@eldruidacosmico]

@@theacneclearchef2952 do you mean free as letring my passions loose and then enslave me? No thanks

[@BrazucaShredder]

Freedom isn’t doing what you want when you feel like it (effeminacy)... Freedom is choosing to sacrifice yourself for something bigger

[@lmcg....]

Amen

[@ImBritoEric]

Never let a women disrespect you period

[@flowstateentertainment8395]

Facts. I including things like girls calling me "bro" or "bruh". You got me messed up if you think I'm going to let a woman I'm dating call me that or anything else I don't approve of.

[@ThingsILikke]

What are you going to do, beat her up? This “let” word ruins so much potentially good advice- unless you are telepathic or some kind of wizard you have no control over what other people do.

[@ThingsILikke]

@@_.-_Crimpy-_..-. that’s my entire point- what the hell are you going to do about it? People ask your permission before they speak? “Let” is just nonsense and a lot of people that think that way end up in prison.

[@ThingsILikke]

@@_.-_Crimpy-_..-. exactly- you get away from that person. That has everything to do with you, not what you “allow” other people to do around you - like by you’re the sultan or Brunei with armed guards ready to arrest who ever shows you disrespect. This is the stupidest vernacular and I hear it all the time- mostly to assign blame to the innocent party in a situation. “My boss is being horrible” “well you let him disrespect you” you’d think the people giving this advice were like freakin word magicians but so few people are even assertive.

[@flowstateentertainment8395]

@@ThingsILikke It's called boundaries. Someone does something you dont like, you check it (verbally) right then and there. If they do it again, they're out. That simple.

[@HonkyTonkManYeah]

I live in urban Denmark, Scandinavia, and i got 3 sisters and a brother. My little sister and 2 older sisters are all so clearly affected by the political ideas theyve been fed its almost like the truman show is playing out in real life. Ive seen how their behaviour has changed so much in the past 10 years and i see how they have a switch that can flip if some potentially political comment is made, and they can go from normal to hostile. I really dislike it, it hurts to see them be so superficial. But i also see that they didnt really choose this for themselves. It really is like a hypnosis, like a “switch” that gets built into these women of our times.

[@prod.cruzomg1782]

its a reprogramming accuring in the western world, sadly. the feminization of men and masculinization of women, with the goal to depopulate the world. Fat-shaming/body positivity, Abortions, lgbt agenda, Feminist movements, the war on "Toxic" masculinity are all sub-agendas for a bigger goal. WEAK men cant fight back over the oppressers. we cant leave it to the women, right? it hurts to see as someone who wishes to see men as who they truly are, MEN and women as WOMEN. I truly believe it all has to do with the fact that Men have separated themselves from God. The bible is there to teach men to be men and women to be women. 1 Timothy 2:12 "I allow no woman to teach or to have authority over men. Let them be quiet" Adam fell because he listened to Eve, the serpent seduced Eve because she was easier to manipulate. That explains why your sisters fell so easy to the satanic propaganda. But as a man, your JOB is to not make the same mistake Adam made and steer Eve to the righteous path of God. Remember, you are a man, they are women. I also have a younger sister, and man, you cant really say anything to girls without getting deathgazed, so i know how you feel.

[@toscadonna]

The WIFE is to submit to her HUSBAND who is supposed to love her as Christ loved the Church. They’re not married, and she doesn’t trust him, and there’s obviously something he’s not doing to be the leader in this situation. He was very vague about what she was doing besides not submitting. What does that mean? Is he even gonna stick around with her and raise his child?

[@melyssa8585]

A person should compliment you and your life. Not submit or dominate. Boundaries and staying within them is how relationships work.

[@shiskeyoffles]

Ah! Good to see comments from ladies perspective Also isn't submit/dominate complimentary ?

[@Riptor1998]

Having boundaries you hold your partner to and they comply with is a form of domination..

[@vb2806]

You can't explain that to Elliott, he thinks everyone is as insecure as him. He literally says he works from home and that is the only reason he has no fear of his wife cheating on him.

[@iceman47]

Well she doesnt seem to be respecting boundaries is she? what do you suggest?

[@amandab3587]

@@shiskeyoffles no lmao women don't want to be with someone who will make them feel inferior. Relationships need to be about working together rather than one having authority over the other. This isn't the 50's and women aren't required to kneel down to someone.

[@roadtothevictoryguy5929]

What i like about the book The Rational Male is the idea - before you are in relationship, you need to be grinding already. Women are complimentary, not the main dish. I learned the hard way, now struggling with sustaining family which from the outside perspective dont look as family, because of the foundation. The foundation is man made, the vision and hard work. I lost that while dating and now im paying for it, because, when there is blank page, life fills it and overwriting is ereasing the written plus writing yourself. P.s. as one said in commentary. When you got your vision back, its two way street, will she agree or not, but thats her problem. My problem is to continue grinding and believe in God, the only way.

[@EsotericHighway]

This poor bastard is in trouble...

[@adfohukafoju5759]

Don't abuse nonsense

[@Brian626]

"True empowerment is to the degree of responsibility, and these women have no responsibility."

[@tuaylahten2295]

I've witnessed some crazy karen bishes in my day...but some of what is going on might be all the thoughts. feelings, hormones that kick in when a woman wants to know you will be there for her and the baby. The imprinting of being abandoned by a father is a strong thing to overcome. Bums me out to see so many people telling him to walk away when he is about to move into the most important role of his life. Not saying he should put up with abuse, but it might be wise to test the water a bit longer. That baby is going to need him and as secure of a family as possible. I agree with you Elliott, things could change for the better, I saw that happen in my own daughters life.

[@davidbanda759]

✊🏼✊🏼✊🏼

[@purelyme5488]

I would say to him... get in a good place with yourself first then her... ask her to marry you and if she’s not happy or if she’s not sure then get ready to co-parent. I hope it works for y’all too.

[@shiskeyoffles]

Sane comment 😂

[@alvarojneto]

I agree. Once a child is involved, you have to step up and considered what is best for him/her.

[@danielb2789]

WORK IT OUT 😤, society made things so comfortable for man and woman "cooparenting" Always the easy way out. We all saw movies where 2 ppl don't like each other but for survivle reason they choose to adapt, And ended up get along. After mariage both sex think they reach evrest and There's no more work, no more romance from man and woman let themselves Go like 300 pounds and kids suffer from it.

[@esejames1992]

A woman will submit to a man that's worthy of it. Don't worry about her, work on yourself 🏆

[@tarus0430]

🚩🚩🚩🚩 Submission should not be literally on your mind. It’s an act, an energy that comes natural to the couples that have that right connection . Y’all have to submit in ways too. Not just women . That’s why many men are single or bounce from relationship to relationship.

[@BdDaBOMB]

...sigh

[@joannamonique707]

Facts. It comes naturally with the right person‼️

[@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027]

Paternity Test 100%

[@AgeofMachines]

She's too manipulative to stay. She will not learn until it burns. Degree in Dance = I'm more educated than you so I don't have to listen to you. Bargaining with reality will rip you off as a man EVERY TIME.

[@declanh2314]

😂 What exactly is a degree in dance ? I thought he was joking

[@waterpoloboy24]

A degree in dancing.... cmon man.

[@jakepokemonman1227]

Do you shave your eyebrows

[@ratatat12356]

Elliot is such a better speaker now christ changed him

[@PeterMortensen1978]

Elliot: women play victim. Elliot: plays victim of the new world.

[@klekawelo]

Just tell her…”look here, woman! We goin be together forever and we ARE going to accomplish that by becoming ONE! In other words it’s US. We ONE PERSON now. Now, you betta deal with that mess inside your heart and mind and imma deal with my mess and we are gonna grow up! We are gonna exercise humility and patience and grow in our responsibilities but we’re going to do it together without breaking US down (because I am you and you are me). We’re going to do it together. Forever. Period!”!! You may have to remind her of this and yourself over and over and over throughout the weeks and months and years. It will give you the stepping stone by default as the lead without necessarily saying “I’M THE BOSS”. You won’t need to say your the boss if you’re leading like a boss making the best decisions for THE WHOLE.

[@klekawelo]

Oh and tell her that you love her after that. It always eases the blow to the “masculine egoistic brain fog” we women can struggle with now a days. It works…because at the end of the day she’s a woman and she needs that tenderness but she also needs the guidance of a strong man.

[@BdDaBOMB]

@@klekawelo W comment!

[@eastafrika728]

Women are not animals that they should submit. Clare Huxtable never submitted but respected her husband.

[@AmberAyres]

It is the culture. Relationships take work and if there isn't a mutual respect and consistent healthy compromises and resolutions without there being pride and ego in the way, it just won't work. Definitely takes 2 people. I am a woman but 100% agree that the newer generations are just very arrogant. I am a little torn bc I don't believe in the man being the shotcaller and what he says goes, I think it should be an equal connection. You're a team and if you aren't a team player you are gonna get kicked. Hard to find people worth investing in. I am 25 and boyfriend is a year younger. We have been together for going on 4 years. No one knows everything. I can be hard headed and can get contrary, but we always keep the respect and take time to try to understand each other's emotions, perspectives. 100% agree with you Elliot

[@declanh2314]

Are you married ? How many kids do ye have ?

[@dansharov6828]

I think it's important for the man to lead. With my ex and current girl, even when they would be stubborn and say we're a team and stuff, they were always more happy when I push through with my idea. My ex is my ex because I let her take responsibility for 50% and she got really wild.

[@AmberAyres]

@@declanh2314 no kids and not married yet

[@AmberAyres]

@@dansharov6828 I think the man should be the leader for sure, just not full on dictator.

[@Dzillarable]

your asking a man to forfeit his ego and pride? hello? the man and woman people will abase themselves and settle for anything at that point.

[@bullymaguire2061]

Damn you triggering those feminists as crazy af

[@amandab3587]

Feminists fight for the equality of men and women. Clearly, this man doesn't believe in equality so obviously, opinions will clash :)

[@noblegamer8740]

as a man, YOU define the reality for your family. YOU have dominion. She will either submit to her reality or she will rebel, much like people do with God. This is why it’s important to ask for and perform marriage before knocking her up, cuz now she has no choice, which in a way is not fair for her. However, you have to acknowledge that you screwed up and move forward correctly. Assume your role and implement your vision. She will submit or rebel, but God will take care of the rest.

[@BdDaBOMB]

Sometimes with the rebellious nature it feels like Adam was better off alone. Continue to pray for the sons of Adam in the Messiah's name

[@Jamie-oc8ds]

LMAOOOOOOOO IS HE SERIOUS.

[@coreydavis2894]

“Graduated from college” already screwed bro, aaanndd you knocked her up. Yikes

[@pian1441]

people only behave as good as they need to be.

[@BdDaBOMB]

😐 The comment section is divided between the righteous that accepts obedience/submission in relationships and the wicked that desire freedom from all order/duty in relationships. Men of the Faith, protect yourselves at all in times.

[@joannamonique707]

Stop using religion to justify your bullshit. Preach all the bullshit you want. It's not gonna make women wanna sleep with you. We know yall don't believe in God like that. You're just a bunch of incels who are mad and want to threaten women with the idea of eternal damnati9n so they'll have sex with you.

[@malikinvictus2647]

If a woman doesn't submit either you're not being a man or she's trying to be a man.

[@BeardedKingface]

1:10: "I know she had red flags before dating her" BRUH

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

The Jezebel spirit is real. This man is doomed.

[@m.935]

Pray for him tonight with me, instead of dooming him. God is powerful than Jezebel.

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

@@m.935 I'm not dooming him. He's dooming himself. Unfortunately lessons like this often need to be learned the hard way.

[@m.935]

@@SomeGuy-xf9bc True.

[@sinisterjogger]

Elliott bro how’s Tampa I’m tryna leave this city for good. I need a rari in the hills

[@isaiahdryg5010]

Just gotta have options. If your wife thinks that if she leaves you’ll be perfectly fine, she won’t take a DAMN step. It gets trickier with kids, but the underlying message is the same. She just wants to look at you with those big, blinking eyes and think “that’s my fucking MAN” they won’t admit it, but that’s what they all want. All you gotta do is be a fuckin man

[@TheDipset1233]

Cope

[@isaiahdryg5010]

@@TheDipset1233 with what? Work well for me and my girl

[@AmberAyres]

I don't get women like that. Like ok you can survive on your own, but you sure as hell won't have a partner worth having if you can't compromise and have mutual respect. Grew up watching the men in families being presented as bafoons.. now women treat men like that.

[@jayceeleon]

I have an independent female friend like this she complains and cries about not finding a man worthy of her but wants every man to kneel for her, I just don’t know if she will ever find someone who will put up with that maybe for a while but will not last, I feel sorry for her

[@artarak497]

@@jayceeleon cats, depression, addiction and toys at 30 until death, that’s my prediction But of course « she’s empowered and independent » that way

[@jayceeleon]

@@artarak497 yeah I feel like the independence gives her that power and it’s good she has a good home and good job but she has to develop a good mutual mindset in order to find a man

[@AmberAyres]

@@artarak497 and before I say this, just want to say I am 100% supportive for lgbtq+ and whatever makes people happy.. but honestly women being like that makes me think maybe that's why so many people our generation are gay lol like specifically women who think they don't need a man so just being with a woman is better, feminism to the max lol

[@amandab3587]

@@AmberAyres except being gay isn't a choice genius so you can't blame the lgbtq+ when it comes to women not needing/wanting a man

[@شَريفمُحَمَّد-م7ر]

I hope this guy gets a DNA test!!!!!!!!

[@samoneill4286]

Where is the best place to ask Elliot a question? Is it here? Email? Anyone know

[@shiskeyoffles]

Insta I think

[@CoachClaytonMurray]

Love the message another great mentor who gives specific actions and the reasoning why is coach Corey Wayne these men are must have mentors. Her values aren’t aligned and chasing someone who is being disrespectful is demeaning. It takes two to make a relationship work and at the end of the day relationships are the women’s department. Focus on your mission and purpose she has the power give her the space to freely choose you and check out Corey Wayne’s material it’s all free and no bs. Thanks Eliot like the yin and yang aspect!

[@famvoyage]

Great video Elliot you are hitting the spot with these videos!

[@metalband]

Lmao the thumbnail punching your hand... make her SUMBITTTTT!!!!!

[@finishembird]

I think the problem is that we have less men while empowering women at the same time

[@danielb2789]

If I did you wrong and things have been misunderstood, I apologies and If you have somthing in your Heart let it out I'm listening. But check that attitude do not act unwisely nor raise your voice at me. It that simple... now go ahead

[@spikedeagle6795]

SPEAK THOSE FACTS MY BROTHER

[@dvl973]

Gee the title and the thumbnail 😂 I'd change one or the other 😂😂

[@yharnamiyhill787]

This is not just modern women... I experience arrogant and conceded Boomers. Hags that are perverted and spoiled. It is quite gross really, it is like they never grew up.

[@m_jay5]

Genesis 2:24 "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." - The feminist women absolutely hate that verse especially the becoming one flesh part

[@maxwillson]

That's funny you say a family is like a corporation because my family always got together in the hot tub, it was like a family meeting ahahaha! It worked though, we solved a ton of issues in that hot tub LOL

[@tonntonns16]

While I don't disagree that the majority of my generation is definitely getting out of hand on both sides, but I have to disagree with your definition an independent woman that provides a little more context and sometimes empathy.. An independent woman as mostly agreed amongst other women my age is not one that relies on government assistance for a false sense of empowerment, an independent woman is a woman that is taking care of herself, getting herself together, and setting herself up for the successful life she's in-visioned for herself, she either HAD to do for herself, or learned to do for herself because everyone that offered or were meant to help, didn't. For me in particular, I have the second and I have swallowed my pride to let people help me while not realizing their malicious intent for pay back or blackmail until I've already accepted. The relationship I'm in now is a lack of consistency in doing what he says he'll do, not holding himself to the same standards of respect he holds me to, and tells me I shouldn't focus on my needs to feel whole if he is willing to provide the other securities as a man (which is not dwelling with me in understanding,) but not securities beyond tangible that the majority of women need, but don't get from men. I want to try and learn where it is I'm doing wrong because as much as I will stand up for myself against anyone, I want to submit, I want to be soft and malleable, but I don't feel comfortable with the differences in what all he did to get me and telling me I'm the wife he wants to work for, versus where we are and how he carries himself, and what he's not willing to adjust about himself when it's extremely necessary, even though he knew it was a problem in his relationships, not just romantic, before he met me and wants me to submit to his chaos and confusion, that he also denies is an issue when he gets into the feelings he denies as frustration, shame, guilt, you name, he doesn't want to admit he felt it until he is calm, but no apology for what was done... I'll be patient even though I'm 100% not the type of person to allow a "them" issue, become MY issue, I'll take my deep breathes and even apologize for my reaction to his mistake/choice, encourage him and implement what HE says will help break the cycle... but not submit to him again until I see consistency and know he's actually willing to love me the way I need since he and I already agreed that was the proper way to show love.

[@Pink_isnt_augest]

I see stuff about children, and how women should like submit to guys and it’s like. hEhA I fucking hate kids and never want to get married. I’m like the opposite of what this guy is talking about. But like that’s why I am the best

[@spierdavid]

Sound pretty damaged

[@Pink_isnt_augest]

Nah, it’s pretty normal actually

[@vb2806]

Well this guy just wanted to have kids and make a woman submit, that's all he has known I guess.

[@Pink_isnt_augest]

Yeah, but sometimes people take it like that kid there and it’s like n o ~

[@spierdavid]

@@Pink_isnt_augest a relationship with a dominant woman is a bad relationship for both parties.

[@emcovlogs_136]

hey elliot how do i send you messages to read and help bro? thanks! long time follower

[@alyaaearth4755]

The answer be a normal person and accept a different opinion ,a man worrying abt his ago is the worst 🤦

[@MistyDW41]

Keep in mind the bible tells women to submit to their husband, not to their boyfriend, etc. Just a thought.

[@bernthalbabe313]

Keep in mind not all of us a religious, just a thought

[@joannamonique707]

@@bernthalbabe313 and for the ones who ain't religious yall can REALLY kiss our asses with this submission shit.

[@Michael_Kelsey]

To keep modern women around you need to make sure they know you’ll leave. She disrespects you because she know you won’t hold her accountable. Why change if it’s not necessary. Humans only change when it’s necessary.

[@shayemoore]

You must mean girls cause women don't give a damn if a man leaves. She will gladly escort him to the door.

[@40stryder03]

@@shayemoore you are lying.. if a woman is interested in a man the thought of him leaving will bother her deeply..

[@shayemoore]

@@40stryder03 No. You are lying and obviously inexperienced. Women leave men that they LOVE all the time. Get offline and go live in the real world and you might learn a thing or two.

[@BdDaBOMB]

@@40stryder03 Humanity is still sane and righteous! W comment

[@bronktug2446]

What Alan watts video was that?

[@sadesmith6663]

The bible said a woman must submit to her husband not her boyfriend. This is the reason why I'm single cause I'm not doing wifey duties for no boyfriend. That's ridiculous for real!

[@marksavoia3687]

Christ Heart Consciousness

[@willusmaximus6985]

I say stay free in your business and busy in your freedom. Mind your own business. Stay in your lane. The hater system slaves will be jealous/envious of you, but let it be more fuel to your fire. Know when to speak up and when to keep silence. Don't cast your pearls before swine.

[@NESDUB]

Step one: become a millionaire. That’s the easy way for most women to want to enroll. Women primarily want security.

[@BdDaBOMB]

Nah. A fool and his money is soon to part ways and women destroy kings

[@gmoney1089]

"There's something in here that's tender" yeah, tender, moist and warm 🤣

[@mr.potatohead6138]

Should not have gotten pregnant in the first place, there's a reason why doing things in certain order is better. Hopefully other young people will learn from these mistakes.

[@jacklang363]

I love how elliotte breaks it to a science instead of complaining about human nature like the red pill frauds.

[@asdfgoogle]

I'm waiting for you to say "she has you by the balls." Don't disappoint me, Elliott 😂

[@AraOG-o7w]

I sincerely like this guy

[@livkim-fj7is]

All I have to say is if I wanted to be enrolled in some thing I’d go take a college course or a yoga class Never submitting to anyone but God

[@FoereaperGaming]

Lol ive been doing too much Jiu Jitsu. The first thing I thought when I read the title was well just squeeze harder!

[@nikolabralic7046]

Last 2 days felt a little empty without your upload Elliot

[@maverikotonashi]

Listening to this video I realize the difference between a lot of different girls I've bedded and dated over the years. Love the perspective

[@Dmgolfer22]

This guy needs to read Coach Corey Wayne’s book!!!!!

[@TGP109]

Why is the word submission even used? I swear it's just gaslighting women to use it. If she wants the same things out of life that you do, you can work it out, otherwise find someone else.

[@WilliamsWrestlin]

Read Arthur Schopenhauer's work on women

[@sampsonlittle7368]

You will never get me to submit to you without marriage. After the first day of marriage then we’ll discuss what kind of love you’re going to give me and I’ll let you know what kind of submission I’ll give to you. The nerve of men thinking they are due submission in the dating scene.

[@BdDaBOMB]

Can a man say to woman, you will never get me to be masculine to you without marriage? Until then I shall focus on beauty wearing dresses and make up without any plans or vision. Only after the first day of marital sex shall we discuss what kind of obedience your going to give me?? The delusion and arrogance of this generation! The nerve of women thinking they are due love, food and masculinity in the dating scene #ConditionalFeminityisTrash

[@BdDaBOMB]

@@summerbreeze5360 🤷‍♀️

[@emmanuelvasquez5621]

This is cap Elliot. Why didn’t you give this guy the red pill. He gotta leave her.

[@layeththesmackdown69]

true, but what about the baby? He already fucked up there. Too late!

[@briobrio6047]

This man doing Amazing work ❤️🔥💪

[@roleat]

Set healthy boundaries and respect her wishes, whether you believe they are for the best or not.

[@sjdstorm2]

What’s your opinions on flight reacts 🤦🏽 don’t want to give that attention but sheesh, plenty of lessons to be learned there

[@adamtheathlete]

If you want to understand the truth then start looking at nature.

[@deoverbuurman]

Quite negative to call this the "degenerative" age while there has never been a larger % of the world educated enough to read, have plenty of food and options to improve their life and choose their own life path instead of following those of their parents. I think we live in an amazing age!

[@artarak497]

What’s the point of having knowledge without wisdom. You’re like a donkey with a tons of books on its back.

[@BdDaBOMB]

The point is that Spiritually no but materialistically yes. If you are materialistic then you shall thrive, if you are a spiritual attempting to obey the Sabbath Commandment then it's tough.

[@glitchyjoe64]

A marriage that is between 2 people and the government, instead of god, is not a marriage.

[@vanessasingenstrew9233]

Hear me out broski, what if the vision isn’t worth submitting to? What if this so-called vision is not of value or benefit of some sort to the female, then what? ( I’m not saying that the point is for the female to only benefit from this, relationships really should benefit all the parties involved and add value to everyone’s life).

[@weeearthlings]

So you just got someone pregnant with no plan and little commitment to your partner or child… tell me again how worthy you are of respect bro? How about you learn some communication and negotiation skills. Do therapy. Become an awesome inspiring knowledgeable human being. Earn some real authority rather than expecting it based on your genitals. What a concept.

[@formeitwastuesday.1515]

I didnt put my foot down with the girl of my dreams but I don't think its was supposed to be that hard. She later said she made a big mistake. Keep looking for the right one and stop giving these Hohos attention.

[@YesitisDex]

...wrist-lock them 🤓

[@enyaliuslll3954]

I REALLY don't envy this guy

[@AZ_TONY]

It's over for this guy, get ready for child support bruh.......

[@theodorelaurence1790]

Why don’t you guys just practice abstinence until marriage and work on yourselves in order to be worthy of marriage? Most women follow the lead of a guy that is worth following. If she doesn’t follow your lead, don’t try to pressure her. Get yourself together. Why do guys these days think they don’t have to improve themselves or prove themselves. It’s not the case that all men are worth following. There are types of men and not all men are leaders. Women are smart enough not to follow just any man’s lead. What are you doing with a woman whose judgement you don’t respect?

[@itzvirt]

Elliot please make a video about your thoughts on "theybies"

[@henrystjuste]

Why has KZbin shadow banned you? 800k subs should be getting way more views

[@hoshiko123]

It's misinformation that's why

[@Zix.n]

@@hoshiko123 what is?

[@hoshiko123]

@@Zix.n All of the stuff that comes out his mouth...

[@Zix.n]

@@hoshiko123 honestly, and looking at your feedback/comments on this channel, your own perception to the hard truth in life in some males eyes as I assume you're a female from whatever sources, you really dont belong on this channel at all, as I say, go find Female content creators who don't confuse your brain with words Elliott uses as 'Alpha' and 'Werewolf'... Sheesh, and the other shit too... you take everything from this channel as misleading because your own brain can't hardly function but misguide everything😂🙏.

[@hoshiko123]

@UCsAg9xJWLnuq9bAdBvYiNIQ Who is Jordan Peterson?

[@antoniogo6931]

I have faith in God, but i think you can not fix someone who is moraly bankrupt.

[@travisscott5422]

Yeah, this ain't gonna work out. Shouldn't of made a baby in the first place. Should of got the heck out of dodge when you saw the red flags. She's a dance major. In the long run, Her MO is going to me more important than you or your kid. She is eventually going to use the kid against you if she isn't doing that already.

[@crow639]

Thanks for the vid,.. and for the guys out there,.. there can be a perfect relationship, but there aint no perfect people or in this case women.

[@hoshiko123]

If people are imperfect then a relationship can't be perfect; you work together and compromise. If you feel like you have dominion over the other person, you're not going to do that.

[@justanameonyourscreen5954]

You think her hormones are all messed up now...just wait until after...postpartum depression

[@holyslob]

Same exact situation for me