Women will cancel me for saying this

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@cheyennec5546 2 ай бұрын

I get your point, you dont have to like or agree with a damn thing other women do… HOWEVER COMMA policing them, saying they have no real self-respect/ sl*t shaming them based off outfits you don’t agree with & telling them they need to do XYZ in order to receive basic human decency & respect (especially from men because it’s always about men) is *never* the vibe. I’m modest myself & there’s many modern things I don’t agree with, but being upset at women who aren’t is a waste of time & energy. Let them be, if they want to change they will. The more content & focused you are on yourself and your journey towards a modest (Godly) life, the less you’re concerned if other women do so or not. I wouldn’t cancel you for this, but I would definitely say it’s not your best take.

@Credit-card-simp 2 ай бұрын

I mean the issue is about men because it is about how men treat them, that’s simply how they think. It’s like seeing a crackhead for example in the streets and expecting people not to ignore them, like people will judge you BASED on your actions and appearance, either subconsciously or consciously. I do agree on the fact of letting others just be, HEAVILY, but I think it’s also important to understand and tell others that you will be judged based on what I said, and to accept this and CONTINUE doing what they love. Because it’s not about changing others, it’s about changing how women react to things.

@cheyennec5546 2 ай бұрын

@@Credit-card-simp and I understand people will be judged as such, especially if you don’t sit down and get to know the person. But outright deciding someone you don’t even know is not worth value or basic human respect and decency because they act differently or look a certain way you don’t agree with is definitely worth some self-reflection & questioning. And for the record I work at my city court in a department that deals with a lot of homeless drug addicts. They aren’t often treated as people & have their own behavioral issues but once you view them as human beings, you come to realize that a lot of them are folks like you and me who lived a life of terrible circumstance. If I treated them the way others did, outright deciding they’re not worth my kindness because they’re peddling addicts who are unstable and smell awful, I would be the only disgusting one there.

@Credit-card-simp 2 ай бұрын

@@cheyennec5546oh yeah I agree! I don’t think people should decide the value of someone based on their appearance, I’m just saying people will be JUDGED based on their appearance. That’s just how humans are. And when people are JUDGED based on their appearance some not all, will treat them differently. Maybe not you, or me, but others will. And women should be ok with it, like not let that bring us down.

@cheyennec5546 2 ай бұрын

@@Credit-card-simp EXACTLY & we as women understand this more than men to an extent. Which is why regardless of how a woman chooses to dress, she does so with confidence and care to herself FIRST as not all of us exist for the approval of men. Many folks WILL judge, yes, that is inevitable, but it really is an admirable superpower when a person understands this, realizes it’s not a reflection on them & does whatever makes them happy anyways! 💕

@ramzie8680 2 ай бұрын

amen sister🙏🏾