how could her dad see this guy treat her this way and just be "dumbfounded" and not get her out of there
@cazpk68404 жыл бұрын
Dad should have brought her home immediately.
@celeste36694 жыл бұрын
My dad would have leveled that POS.
@bluedaughter4 жыл бұрын
@@celeste3669 mine would have also.
@bluedaughter4 жыл бұрын
That part was the thing that I found unbelievable in the entire video.
@susiebear33164 жыл бұрын
@@bluedaughter that's probably part of the reason why she was there in the first place she was unprotected unloved and uncared for by her spineless dad
@nickkaraminas85862 жыл бұрын
WOW!!!!!! So touched how many people watched this.Thank you all. Im the man who played Fethi. 13 years ago...
@hyena2802 жыл бұрын
I want to upvote ... but, it's Fethi :p You did a great job.
@nickkaraminas85862 жыл бұрын
@@hyena280 Thank you
@abrahampatrick84534 ай бұрын
❤
@joannehorsfall83064 ай бұрын
This is Joanne. Know that lots of info was inaccurate in this rather poor documentary... In current time, neither Oliver or I have got over it. I have some contact & have visited Kemer (spoilt now by over development) & Fethi! I spoke Turkish, fluently. The British Court system massively failed us. & I failed my only child now 35 & troubled but bilingual, as did his dad, more. I was & am insulin dependent diabetic. There's still a story to be told. Should write a book... But we're survivors! Hoşcakalın.
@margarita84423 ай бұрын
@@joannehorsfall8306 r u retardes ?
@jonslg2404 жыл бұрын
If you're pregnant in a foreign country, and it's at all possible, fly back to your home country to give birth.
@JaiShreeKanha4 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly and the fact that she stayed even after he hit her, I dnt know I hv NVR bn able to wrap my head around it as to why do women stay. If th husband hits u that's it it's th last straw. Jst leave to ur country and file for ur son custody frm their cs ur nt going to gt ur son if u stay in Turkey ur going end up dead trust me.
@mossattacks91914 жыл бұрын
Hunny Sharma because people who are physically abused are usually mentally/emotionally abused too. It distorts your perception
@JaiShreeKanha4 жыл бұрын
@@mossattacks9191 yeah I guess I kind of see where u coming from. I hv had a similar experience.99% is actually happening mentally that u can't really explain to anybdy, physical is just tip of the iceberg.But u know the first thing I did I left everything, all my so called precious belongings and I came back straight home. 😃
@call999itsalice4 жыл бұрын
She could of been afraid of losing this baby due to altitude
@denzilite3 жыл бұрын
@@call999itsalice she lost it anyway.
@WTFVIDSok4 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable that she didn't contact the British Embassy!
@nasreddinetouaibia6334 жыл бұрын
There are so many missing pieces in this story. I believe that there is more to what she narrates...
@serenitysky234 жыл бұрын
@@nasreddinetouaibia633 she was just naive
@luciac91234 жыл бұрын
You all it naive...I call it desperate and foolish.
@simonkarlsson66924 жыл бұрын
I think that would be considered pretty Islamophobic by British authorities, cf. what has been going on in Rotherham and other places. The UK is a shithole.
@CritterHouseUSA4 жыл бұрын
ejnvids What for? They already failed her by not giving her son some kind of protection when she actually had him in the. UK. They didn’t consider the fact that the father / husband was violent was a problem. She was an idiot to get into this situation in the first place, but the UK / EU system failed her....twice by not stepping in even after she was kidnapped. They should have been able to extradite him for his role in the kidnapping or something, and tried him in the UK.
@FreedomWriter34 жыл бұрын
You have to be careful when you "fall in love" with people in countries that are culturally different. Him becoming abusive and controlling out of nowhere is not an accident. And the biggest mistake she made was not having her son in England.
@elizabethgrogan85533 жыл бұрын
@FreedomWriter3 I totally agree with you. I've visited many countries. In some, I was pestered by men who wanted a relationship. I always claimed to have a boyfriend. I knew that these men wanted a passport to leave their own country. During an overland trip through Africa, I visited a beach with 2 fellow travellers. We were constantly pestered by men saying "you are so beautiful" etc. I saw older women falling into their traps. I'm not some gorgeous model type. I'm perfectly average. However, I'm confident. I'm divorced but have a friendship with my ex. Marriage is not for me right now. I don't know what the future holds, especially with the pandemic. However, I'm a mother to a wonderful daughter. My life is fulfilling. I'm not waiting for love because that's not a healthy way to live. Much better to live in the moment.
@sandygrogg12033 жыл бұрын
Well said...and do true.
@Chelbasaur3 жыл бұрын
Way too many people are afraid to say that some cultures are objectively better than others. Some cultures are objectively shameful and terrible. It's nearly impossible to change someone's fundamental beliefs and views on "the way things should be".
@stephanlarsen81693 жыл бұрын
Not without. My daughter. Sally Fields
@untube97153 жыл бұрын
Cross cultural relationships can work but both the parties need to be careful and think about the future of the relationship in practical terms and should be ready accordingly just like any other relationships....concept of love ,marriage differ from culture to culture...Western women shouldnt think that marriage is just a tool to enjoy a different lifestyle in other world which appears exciting or to escape from their current monotonous existence...because when initial fever is over she finds herself stuck..
@terronhastick97073 жыл бұрын
Her story is a perfect example of why its extremely important to get to truly know a person before being in and relationship with or worse a child with them. Her problem was she moved way to fast with him by being intimate, staying in Turkey, married and having a child way that mad man way to fast. Very important lesson to take from this story.
@aref1112 жыл бұрын
more importantly to get to know about the regulations and culture in that country before doing any serious relationship or even traveling.. specially middle eastern countries are way different than what you have seen in Europe ..
@ayandamatomela89054 жыл бұрын
The problem started when the dad watched her daughter get dragged of by another man
@abhinavsrivastava86153 жыл бұрын
The girl didn't like her own people and friends, she probably fought with her father too for her abusive but rich husband.
@hilaryc32033 жыл бұрын
@@abhinavsrivastava8615 She never said she didn't like her own family, she said she was independent. By the looks of it, and how they talk she and her family, are dimwitted idiots - she was okay to leave her child. Moron. Her husband was NOT rich. He gave tourists tours in a little motorboat FFS, that's NOT rich.
@heatherstewart93003 жыл бұрын
Obviously, it started LONG before that, with her dad not standing up for her or protecting her.
@teddipear3 жыл бұрын
Yup! He should have manhandled him for handling his daughter like that. Put the fear of God in him.
@timookello38223 жыл бұрын
He was in a foreign country...and didn't know the lay of the land.
@km43364 жыл бұрын
Can we please do some research before we go falling in love in a whole different country with a completely different culture 😒
@brera24344 жыл бұрын
It was the eighties. No internet, Turkey was a world away, before the information age. The world was very, very different then.
@overworked10844 жыл бұрын
Bre Ra I new about turkey in the 80s. Ever hear of the Armenian genocide. Books excised in the 80s.
@brera24344 жыл бұрын
@@overworked1084 what did you know about Turkey? And yes, books existed, I am a bookworm myself, and I would probably have read about the place I was going to as much as I could, but that's my curious self, this can't be applied to everybody. I remember researching in indexes which books might contain information I was looking for, then having to wait many days for books that had to be ordered from other libraries, that needed much more effort than today. Information wasn't as readily available as it is now. It was there, but you needed to make an effort to find it.
@Sunshinespeck4 жыл бұрын
K M amen! 🙌🏻
@Ty-fc7ml4 жыл бұрын
Its never been a secret the way Islamic Countries treat women. Why get involved with anybody over thr? Even in Western countries getting married in a traditional Muslim family is a huge culture change. Romance, love, lust aside --its at best avoidable
@debbiew.77164 жыл бұрын
A very similar case happened in Michigan, USA. The father took the mother and daughter to Iran to visit relatives for 2 weeks, but then refused to let them leave. After 18 months the mother escaped with the child back to the USA. A movie was made called, "Not Without My Daughter."
@elizabethgrogan85533 жыл бұрын
@Debbie W. I've seen that film. It was sooo moving. That mother took her chances, in dangerous circumstances, for love of her child. I cried when she got her child out.
@yr21803 жыл бұрын
I saw the movie. It was so scary
@lianania3 жыл бұрын
Too many measure others as if we were all the same
@91clarie3 жыл бұрын
I read a book about a German-Pakistani girl who went to Pakistan with her father on vacation and then he never let her return to Germany. The mother who stayed behind in Germany tried everything to get her daughter back but couldn't do anything until the daughter was almost 20 years old, because in countries like that, the father and the father alone has legal custody over his children. The German embassy couldn't do sht. When the daughter was 19 she escaped with the help of her mother from Germany and friends from Pakistan. She had been kept in Pakistan against her will for about 10 years at that time...
@missywilliams25383 жыл бұрын
Good movie
@nienkehollands11094 жыл бұрын
How is her dad not reacting? If someone even looked at me the wrong way, my dad would have knocked his teeth out lmao
@SeriousSchitt4 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I was wondering. Even if the guy was to flatten me outright, I'd still have a go at him.
@javiackerman70764 жыл бұрын
It was somebody He was her husband. Many boys and girls leave their parents within a moment for their boyfriend / girlfriend
@JuliaN-fi9zw4 жыл бұрын
Same my dad would kill a man if someone hit me
@alicesonfrelix11334 жыл бұрын
I can relate my dad will have him 6ft under lmao
@illumindonnaughty4 жыл бұрын
My Dad would have had me on that plane with him going home!
@benlaw64844 жыл бұрын
She calls him telling him i wont be back.. Dumb move. Just stay hidden and shut up.
@mllex20184 жыл бұрын
The husband is supposed to come in 2 weeks time
@bbwvelvet4 жыл бұрын
TOTALLY!!!
@paul69254 жыл бұрын
He might already have known where she lived but yea it would have been better to disappear
@tikmik17894 жыл бұрын
How did he get her phone number and address when she moved to a new town? I think we didn't hear the whole story
@dmlausen4 жыл бұрын
She's very lucky he didn't press charges for kidnapping
@reemslim67904 жыл бұрын
once an abuser, always an abuser, i cant believe this man is free.
@suzannaandrea43063 жыл бұрын
some are worse a man in our building edwin has been to prison for double murders jail.16yrs..then out now here...works as security guard...in our building has threatened us bragged about murders. he got away with it. yeah america
@suzannaandrea43063 жыл бұрын
oh you can
@reemslim67903 жыл бұрын
@@suzannaandrea4306 Ik it’s terrible
@stefanieleavitt52243 жыл бұрын
I felt she still should have pressed charges.
@ohh27523 жыл бұрын
yeah but honestly when i hear this woman talk, i actually think he was pretty nice to her
@mistyblue35424 жыл бұрын
Well I'm sorry but I love my life. I'm not going to go somewhere on vacay & fall in love with somebody who I don't know, stay just because he tell me stay. No sah. Too much evil lurking around the world
@getrudeobbayi4 жыл бұрын
Especially in an Islamic country.
@mistyblue35424 жыл бұрын
@@getrudeobbayi Exactly
@thomaspayne68664 жыл бұрын
She lacks all self responsibility. She has victim mentality.
@janedoe72294 жыл бұрын
Misty Blue yes, what could possibly go wrong 🙄
@evelynmiranda90724 жыл бұрын
You can' t even trust people of your own race wow 2 weeks hell to the no.
@melanierose39093 жыл бұрын
I remember when my ex locked me in the house after we broke up. He didn't beat me. Just got angery and told me I was not leaving and foced me to stay. I called a womens shelter for help one day when he was at work and in less the two months I had safety left. It wasnt easy to leave. He had all my money and my stuff and my dog. He still stocks me to this day and its been over six years. But I have since rebuilt my life in many ways. I was blessed with a random stray dog that no one wanted right after leaving him. She is a German Shepard. Truns out she is fearsly protective of me and I am of her. She gave me a reason to live, get up in the morning, and she made me feel safe. Since leaving him every thing fell into place. I found love and now I am happy married. Just graduated school and have career! Ladies or Gentlemen you can leave them, you are worthy, and your do fine with out them !!!
@yr21803 жыл бұрын
My ex kept telling me he will shoot me if I leave (he used to beat me). Until death sounded better than staying...I left him, telling him to kill me if he would like. I did not care anymore.
@beatricefaria-clendinning89432 жыл бұрын
You are a Survivor… Celebrate your Bravery and Freedom…👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️🇨🇦
@soookimbo65712 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes by staying it enables these sadists. The sooner the better.
@ninachr3 жыл бұрын
I looked Oliver up on Facebook, he now lives in London, so he went over to live with his mum❤️ pretty sure it’s him because it says that he used to live in Kemer.
@MissQueeennn2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!! Hope your comment gets highlighted or pinned to top!!! 🙏❤❤
@aaabbb-py5xd2 жыл бұрын
Boy aren't u guys creepy
@MissQueeennn2 жыл бұрын
@@aaabbb-py5xd Positive energy and outcomes honey. 😉 Change your mindset, level up. ❤
@o-super27442 жыл бұрын
Please share the page with us. I'm wondering how you find this information. There is no Interpol page or documents with Fati or Johann that I could find related to this story. Also I'm pretty sure that Wonder change the names to avoid this creepy "look ups".
@ninachr2 жыл бұрын
@@o-super2744 I just wrote Oliver Alpasar in the search, he popped up and it has to be him. His profile says he used to live in Kemer and that he now lives in London.
@mallymakings28534 жыл бұрын
So many UK women go on holiday and “fall in love” with the “handsome” man, they fall under his “spell” and as soon as they’re “hooked” the controlling and abuse happens. Then, it’s down to Interpol/government and other officials to “save” them and it’s worse if children are involved. This woman, whilst I appreciate her being young and naive, I cannot understand her leaving her son behind. There’s no way on this Earth I would leave my son. Moral of the story, don’t do a “Shirley Valentine.” It never works because each country has their own customs and beliefs.
@JosannaMonik4 жыл бұрын
She didn't have a choice at that point, the son "belongs" to the husband's family in that culture and he was well taken care of, he was okay. She on the other hand, lived a life of constant abuse, she had to get out. As we see at the end, she remained in contact with him. She would not have stood a chance in court as a foreign woman.
@johnwilson22844 жыл бұрын
What does she care if she's a s l u t
@naceraher96324 жыл бұрын
We listen to one side of the storie, it will be nice to know the other side of the storie innitt
@theoblivioustourist10154 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@zrazzak98274 жыл бұрын
Nacera her agreed!
@annabelgrace12674 жыл бұрын
To all those judging her, you are not in her shoes. She did try to keep him. She did not just hand her son over and go, "Toodloo, have a nice life, Oliver." She took it all the way to the High Court. She also explained that she did not want to put Oliver through more than what he had gone through and understood that he was not going to be treated badly by his father and family.
@annabelgrace12674 жыл бұрын
smokey kool-aid Maybe now, but her son appears to have grown. This, then happened when we did not have as much of an understanding of their culture. These days, it would be stupid
@katara66714 жыл бұрын
Annabel Grace she had a second chance when he was on that wanted list but she decided to still be as dumb as she is and let him walk away with her son there is no excuse for her point blank period. And also she doesnt seem to have any emotional connection to her son since when she first abandoned him she just lived 2 years of her life like nothing ever happened got a bf and lived happily ever after.
@annabelgrace12674 жыл бұрын
Scorpiona She does not mention him bring a criminal.
@annabelgrace12674 жыл бұрын
Scorpiona Again, she is in touch with her son.
@Liverpoolboy014 жыл бұрын
smokey kool-aid American?
@okcoil18804 жыл бұрын
I stayed in Turkey for 3 years. My sister was married to a man from Ankara, who at first seems to be broad minded gentlemen, two and half years passed and he became a typical rural Muslim husband. I am not going to generalize and say your boyfriends will become the same, but ladies out there with different cultures, take sometime and don't rush. I used to hang out with lots of man while i was there, and i realized why my sister thought it was fine to go ahead. They are aware that other cultures around the world don't like their way of treating women, and so they will never show you that part of them.
@hassunibassunibassuni32723 жыл бұрын
@@eddymichaels5486 u are cheap and u never had real money in ur hands and u never dated a woman because u look ugly and then u come here and say that u are a great human being
@danayager3 жыл бұрын
@@hassunibassunibassuni3272 lol your English sucks
@hassunibassunibassuni32723 жыл бұрын
@@danayager I only speak German and Iraqi because I'm half German half Iraqi and I don't care about English I think I speak good and enough English and everyone understand me
@mariannaoselsky71043 жыл бұрын
@@eddymichaels5486 LOL 😂
@dariomartinez4592 жыл бұрын
Turkey is the most dangerous because it looks like a modern nation but one wrong turn and you are in the 7th century. Muslim men are allowed Christian and Jewish women but Muslim women cannot marry Christians or Jews so they see Christian and Jewish women as a conquest/convert.
@aldorraman4 жыл бұрын
After being beaten by her "husband" then she pulled a knife on him..."I still thought this was normal family life".......seriously??
@i.r.63974 жыл бұрын
Lol she was just DUMB!
@shadowbanned41494 жыл бұрын
2 sides to every story we only get 1 /
@johnwilson22844 жыл бұрын
Yeah some people don't have pretty painted pictures of a lifestyle like you
@googleuser40534 жыл бұрын
And leaving her child with such a sick man as she clams . I dont believed her .
@JadedBelle4 жыл бұрын
@@shadowbanned4149 indeed
@missh22144 жыл бұрын
If that was my son I would fight to the end
@leili20074 жыл бұрын
Miss H & the son would get traumatised during the fight to the end!
@jessicataylor71744 жыл бұрын
She got him back to the UK and fought for his right to stay right up to the High Court (no easy feat!). When their laws didn't back her, she held on until she could escape and once back on home turf she fought for his rights until there was nowhere left to appeal. What more could she do in an international custody battle in the 80's?
@missh22144 жыл бұрын
You all give up to easy. 🙈 Shame on you. The boy wouldn't of even known it was happening. 🤣🤣🤣
@PeacefulVibesReiki4 жыл бұрын
same.
@timoglock074 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done. Wait until you are in her shoes
@artflair52484 жыл бұрын
She says "I was pretty fearless in those days" - which translates to "I was an absolute idiot" LOL
@Shyguyexplores4 жыл бұрын
Yep that's what everyone says when they see this video. Most everyone is wondering, what the heck is wrong with this woman? She's in this video here blaming her husband for everything like it's 100% his fault, and for the violence it is his fault, but for her being in that whole situation, that's entirely her fault for choosing to go with him. She should know that that culture is completely different than the British culture. Didn't she ever see documentaries or news broadcasts about How women have almost no rights in Muslim countries? Men can beat their wives willy-nilly and not get in any trouble, ever. She never heard of this?
@saharathedollface67864 жыл бұрын
Rockguitarnow i am Turkish, men cannot beat their wives willy nilly but it is very common and people really don’t get involved with others business over there in turkey. They are going through a tough time right now with their new “president” aka dictator. Times are changing in turkey but they were progressing on the right path.
@rod_triplxvi7394 жыл бұрын
@@saharathedollface6786 they can not beat women and yet it is very common??? So it's happening and it's a common thing and it's in their culture that a man should be dominant in the Turkish society.
@lay-dee4 жыл бұрын
@@rod_triplxvi739 he said men couldn't beat their wives "willy nilly" (as in whever they want to, at random, when ever it suits him). It's common but they don't do it for any rhyme or reason under the sun.
@saharathedollface67864 жыл бұрын
Rodelius Ruther Marcelo yes men are dominant in turkey no argument there.
@queendom87584 жыл бұрын
Wow that was easy to convince her "" don't go back just stay here " ..... OKAY THAN !
@andreamahogany42524 жыл бұрын
Purple M LMAO😂😂😂
@maddogtannen69844 жыл бұрын
Then*
@Devicecorner4 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@nooraqueen27164 жыл бұрын
She was 19 and naive
@jacubtscorpio50844 жыл бұрын
Noora Queen I’m 19 and that’s dumb as hell.. going to turkey and not knowing basic Turkish language is Naive.. this lady is an idiot
@livelife-ge1eg4 жыл бұрын
Wtf, she still told him her second address after knowing what he was like..
@normalopez34763 жыл бұрын
Never marry someone in another country so fast. Then have a child, you're doomed!😢
@amirmurray99164 жыл бұрын
Lol wat kind of father stands there while her daughter is being dragged away by a man 😂😂
@beastman.3304 жыл бұрын
What kind of a person would write LOL when EVIL is taking place.
@jexi1954 жыл бұрын
U should read scarlet keeling story in goa.. western parenting is a joke bro..
@amirmurray99164 жыл бұрын
@@beastman.330 ...your not a father r u?😕
@markuse34724 жыл бұрын
Likely he's a small, weak-looking man, while her husband is likely more manly. 2, the father was in TURKEY and he could have been targeted at that moment with mass beatings. If you THOUGHT for a moment, you would see the dynamics as to why he couldn't really have done anything. Idiot.
@lissam9564 жыл бұрын
Markus E: I thought a father would die defending their daughter, but I guess I was wrong. I mean a father should treasure his life more than his kid, right?
@adielstephenson29294 жыл бұрын
The actress playing her is gorgeous.
@user_abcxyzz4 жыл бұрын
Are you blind, sir?!
@g5apocalypse7304 жыл бұрын
flippin eck this vid will scare u 2 bits dont watch it kzbin.info/www/bejne/f2jMmq2gfb-jgc0
@antonburkhardt33184 жыл бұрын
Sure, and somebody' s opinion could be that she is not all that gorgeous.
@susanna86124 жыл бұрын
@@user_abcxyzz put your own picture out here sinse you are obviously so gorgeous yourself, most probably not. She is beautiful unlike you.
@davemwangi054 жыл бұрын
@@susanna8612 You're cute. Your heart too.
@susanhitchler18813 жыл бұрын
As a mother I’m totally shocked that she gave up so easily! At least try to press charges at least she’ll know she tried!!
@חכצצצ3 жыл бұрын
She can do anything because the low there protecting for his husband she don't have choice
@blizardbill3 жыл бұрын
I think she has no deep emotions .... fell in love and easy get out of it (happens to people like that) . She did tried to get her son in england so to have them all, but not more.
@syedanidaalirizvi78923 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% it was like she wanted to get rid of her son as well.
@MissQueeennn2 жыл бұрын
An immigrant wife pressing charges against her citizen husband in a developing country???? They still trying to get thier situation for human rights together. Highly doubt they'd prioritize protecting women's rights. They are just not there yet. I pray they do get there one day though. 🙏💙
@kelseyw5272 жыл бұрын
Seriously? the fact that they put her and her child in the same jail cell as him when they are arrested at the border, should show you how screwed up their justice system is. She didn't stand a chance. It would have cost her a lot of money and stress for no reason. Would have probably caused a lot of distress for her kid too. This isn't Hollywood.
@TheJapanChannelDcom4 жыл бұрын
" I was pretty fearless in those days" = "I was pretty ignorant" :-D
@mikeskidmore67544 жыл бұрын
I was very Liberal ..
@tiarnan764 жыл бұрын
brainwashed with feminism....
@anonymousperson30234 жыл бұрын
@@tiarnan76 nope. That's what being a teens does to your brain
@tiarnan764 жыл бұрын
@@anonymousperson3023 nope. Like those 2 girls who were beheaded in Morocco recently - they were big advocates of "girl power" etc...and went to a land they had no business in...even locals were telling them not to hike in those areas...but the disease of feminism was too strong and off they marched to their demise....
@brera24344 жыл бұрын
Inexperienced
@leilamb19784 жыл бұрын
So sad, so weak. But look at her example. Her own father didn't stand up for her when her husband abused her at the bar in front of him. That should've been enough reason for any parent to risk their life for the survival of their offspring.
@joannehorsfall83064 ай бұрын
I was fostered by my maternal aunt & uncle (dad) together with my sister aged 6. I grew up troubled & system failed us aswell as mother (no fathers for me & my sister). No wonder I was so gullible.
@elizabethgean93864 жыл бұрын
Y’all are all attacking this women who’s been through such a traumatic experience and put in to a situation probably none of you could ever understand. Yes she told her story, but there’s always details you will never know that made her make the decisions she did. And I’ll leave it at that.
@Indusxstan4 жыл бұрын
elizabeth gean shame on you for thinking a child is dispensable. Make all the mistakes you want but don’t make a baby you leave behind like an object.
@JadeC3 жыл бұрын
@@Indusxstan she was in love with him and that was before he was abusive towards her. You should re watch the thing before assuming stuff
@Nosferopathy3 жыл бұрын
@@Indusxstan she never mentioned that she thinks children are disposable. Re-read it.
@bakagou-simp22163 жыл бұрын
actually some people did who is replying to you
@deborahmeyers78393 жыл бұрын
@@Indusxstan exactly right
@litlifewlena7344 жыл бұрын
She’s brave for sharing her story. People always saying what they would and wouldn’t do 🙄 like well it isn’t you!
@eclecticcerebro82874 жыл бұрын
Everybody is an "expert", when they have seen a million survival videos...
@snurod4 жыл бұрын
Right lol everyone knows everything in the KZbin comments section hahaha and yea she is brave.
@coolstoryari85384 жыл бұрын
Keepinitlit_216 facts. There’s risk everywhere and people don’t ask for pain and abuse, it happens to all of us
@stephenc24814 жыл бұрын
Western women, looking for romance in a Muslim country, are asking for trouble.
@dricasantana2ify4 жыл бұрын
Talking about Turkey like everything was roses in UK. The problem is no the country, it's leaving everything behind when you know a guy for 2 weeks. Maybe she didn't have anything to hold on to.
@lauralascher70124 жыл бұрын
4:25, the point where the friend realizes she's the third wheel
@jermrodriguez62604 жыл бұрын
Laura Lascher yeah but the friend is laughing in the end cuz she gets to live a normal great life potentially with a better man 👨
@patrikkrisztian75843 жыл бұрын
She made this to herself... I can’t believe she left the boy with that monster
@overworked10844 жыл бұрын
She picked an abusive guy over her friend. I bet her friend tried to warn her but she wanted an exotic man.
@Jay-vr9ir4 жыл бұрын
It happened to a few ladies looking for men in Cuba , they brought them home and then they walked out on the ladies , that took them off of that disgusting island.
@rachelmartin36314 жыл бұрын
It's the romance, him making her feel special.
@maryahkay36594 жыл бұрын
Actually he wasn't abusive when she "picked" him. and she was happy and in love and wanted a fresh start, you would've done the same
@Anonymous-zx3do4 жыл бұрын
I doubt it was that simple. Your doing alot of assuming
@Eddie_the_Husky4 жыл бұрын
You forgot the quotes around exotic She wanted an “exotic” man 😆
@carpediem87524 жыл бұрын
I feel for her but I would never ever ever leave my child behind
@cestdommage77714 жыл бұрын
Me too
@mikeskidmore67544 жыл бұрын
Good Point , but the Husband was just too abusive.. Women are supposed to be Subservient.. in their Culture.. Men from a certain religion I can't name beat their wives.. I see a Female Kurdish Politicians was just stoned to death .. Woman like Ilmar Ohmar would be stoned to death in her home Country for cheating on her Husband like she has been doing..
@jessicataylor71744 жыл бұрын
I feel the same, but some countries consider children (and women) as belonging to the man. When the law of the land is against you it is difficult to assert yourself. She got him back to the UK, took it all the way to the High Court, and still got right royally shafted. Her battle for her child was very underplayed in this tbh, getting a case to High Court is no easy ride!
@nslavulj4 жыл бұрын
Yes..
@rishirishiroopnarine50674 жыл бұрын
Hakuna Matata Feel for some sex
@Fonzi794 жыл бұрын
It still amazes me how ppl STILL dont lock their doors when they are home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@sandygrogg12033 жыл бұрын
She wasn’t naive, she was self centered, and irresponsible..
@silkbuttons4 жыл бұрын
Why the hell would you ring up and say you weren't coming back?? Just go no contact. What a fool
@foxledbyheart77524 жыл бұрын
When are they going to understand that these guys aren’t for them?!
@simonkarlsson66924 жыл бұрын
but many women find bad boys very exciting and sexy.
@Special_Tactics_Force_Unit3 жыл бұрын
Never. It gets them off
@rainbird92044 жыл бұрын
Even in the chat rooms you can get a sense that middle eastern men have an entitled attitude when speaking to women . Her friend wasn't happy about her relationship with this man . Maybe she should have taken more notice of her friend.
@djamilamelodesouza89664 жыл бұрын
She met him in the 80s. There were no chatrooms then.
@leewest99774 жыл бұрын
@Blue Max AOL lmao
@phoenixdavida89874 жыл бұрын
@@leewest9977 no. all wasn't around til about 95.
@phoenixdavida89874 жыл бұрын
@Blue Max nope.
@hrumi48113 жыл бұрын
Not at all.not all of us are like that man!😔 why u western people judge all of us like that!
@TheOneNOnlyNeptuneRose4 жыл бұрын
If she really wanted to have her son in his child years then she would have fought for him by pressing charges.
@1111freespirit4 жыл бұрын
Exactly shes did not care
@Nosferopathy3 жыл бұрын
Bruh theyre in a different country. Its not the uk
@kippokappa91503 жыл бұрын
@@Nosferopathy yeah but charges against women are taken really seriously in Turkey
@danayager3 жыл бұрын
They probably intimidated her into thinking that if she pressed charges she’d have to stay in turkey to do so and she was afraid of what he’d do to her
@JosannaMonik4 жыл бұрын
It confuses me that a man can be nice and romantic for over a year and then just turn weird like that; feels like you never know if or when you know a man, it's scary.
@AB-tm2yx4 жыл бұрын
Moneca Savoie or you never know his side of the storey ?
@Yussirah_4 жыл бұрын
@@AB-tm2yx no matter what, beating up a woman is ABSOLUTELY WRONG. And there should be NO excuse of such a horrible behaviour!
@Lola-uf2ks4 жыл бұрын
She said yes to everything actually..
@zariballard4 жыл бұрын
Men from that country. It's very strange. Always the same type of story.
@annabelgrace12674 жыл бұрын
It is what happens when they get married. They start off charming and sweet, but then, they show their true nature afterwards.
@countsmyth4 жыл бұрын
Most surprising thing was her dads lack of a reaction when his daughter was being abused!
@MajorMatt014 жыл бұрын
Where do you think the son learned that behaviour?
@MackemdownsouthF.T.M Жыл бұрын
Her dad was probably doing same thing
@aditeachinz79475 ай бұрын
@@MajorMatt01 your confused my friend that’s her dad there not his wdym we’re do you thing the son learned it? Read before you type
@colapinklink81204 жыл бұрын
I really hope that the dad took good care of his son. And that he didnt learned the habits of the father...
@FemaleObserver4 жыл бұрын
oh yes, Muslims who favor the male gender will take care of him very well, only the women will be tightly controlled in their culture
@wayneandrews92984 жыл бұрын
I do ..
@vishnukamal_46154 жыл бұрын
When you can walk outside without covering your face but you enforce the women to wear a veil explains who is controlled more. No need for personal experience.
@amberrose11084 жыл бұрын
Let's hope he doesn't become a controlling, abusive person like his dad.
@anonymousperson30234 жыл бұрын
You do realize that you just contradicted what you just said roght?
@loliwemoyo56804 жыл бұрын
I can't stand Joanne. She abandoned her son and allowed his father to shape him. Respect for women and their free choice will be foreign to a young man raised by such a father.
@amberrose11084 жыл бұрын
yes but she had no choice! He was an abusive man, and abusive usually gets worse not better.
@luciatat40844 жыл бұрын
It’s easy to say that when you aren’t the one being abused every day. Of course, mothers are capable of sacrifice for their children but it did not help anyone if she stayed there. You must understand that in such situations it is better to just escape and try to save the child as well. He would have been raised with his father even if she stayed there. I think she made the right decision. And even if she didn’t, unless you have been in her situation, don’t judge.
@terriesmith82194 жыл бұрын
@mia morales TRIGGERED. Lmao🤣😆😂
@terriesmith82194 жыл бұрын
@mia morales Yea, I did it because I can. You don't like it, too bad. Deal with it.
@terriesmith82194 жыл бұрын
@mia morales Yet you keep coming back for more so what does that say about you??
@magnam68074 жыл бұрын
She's so naive. It's so painful 😩
@sandygrogg12033 жыл бұрын
No, she was irresponsible>
@ellaw3564 жыл бұрын
My Dad would have beat the s#*& out of that guy! Wow! And always ask for a lawyer! No matter what!
@shimmerelle4 жыл бұрын
Most people in the comments section are being HIGHLY critical of a victim of domestic abuse.
@naceraher96324 жыл бұрын
They things it happened to a certain culture or religion . Ignorance is the worst form of poverty.
@jermrodriguez62604 жыл бұрын
Ok internet saints it’s called freedom of speech and fyi that lady is as dumb as a rock and sacrificed her son for her freedom yes she did get abused and that is wrong but it’s the internet you act like people are all gonna see it like that she could of avoided half of the abuse if she just avoided her husband when she got to uk and notified authorities of abuse don’t feel sorry for her she can be as pretty and innocent as she wants but there comes a point when you actually have to do something and she did nothing but take abuse and justify it as normal when she clearly knew better
@creneemugo944 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@SignedOff4023 жыл бұрын
She walked into it, bathed in it and then brought in a child. She obviously didn’t ask anyone for advice, just marched into a complicated situation like she was in a movie. Foreign men in this region have a low regard for women in the west but also in Turkey. The girl was dumbfounded, because she failed to consider the possibility of it not working out.
@TURQUOISEEYES3 жыл бұрын
LOOK at how her dad reacted to her being taken, most fathers fight for their daughters, he didnt,her self worth was probably lacking from that. She had a bad example of men from the start. I think she just wasnt taught right!
@daitsy24763 жыл бұрын
I've been in a lot of really bad relationships and after many years the greatest lesson I've learned is always be skeptical, step back and don't let love blind you from what's real and seeing who someone really is. Red flags will fly right over your head and you'll brush off anything cause you don't wanna believe what you're seeing or feeling. If something is wrong, don't ignore it regardless of how much you like them.
@evangelinegilbero82114 жыл бұрын
Omg.i cant leave my son anywhere.over my dead body
@Nick-1992-SRB4 жыл бұрын
Very sad story in every way I only hope Oliver is having a nice life of his own.
@ohh27523 жыл бұрын
I was sad at first but hearing this woman talk the way she does more and more im like actually this was ok
@nadiablack47973 жыл бұрын
He is being raised to be exactly like his father just as Islam prescribes
@redavout40813 жыл бұрын
@@nadiablack4797 Islam ?😂 Really Leave Islam alone it has nothing to do with these animals
@nadiablack47973 жыл бұрын
@@redavout4081 islam has everything to do with it and the fact you think it doesn't makes you as dumb as her
@dinglbarry12753 жыл бұрын
This chick is the best kidnap victim of all time. You don't have to worry about her outing you at any of the checkpoints or anything.
@deebest4202 Жыл бұрын
Lol.😂😂😂😂he picked her because he wanted a fool and he got one.
@loveridden20024 жыл бұрын
Wait.. let me get this straight: she let her husband take her son back to Turkey, and then started an new life on her own? She didn’t consider calling authorities in the U.K. to report kidnapping?
@davemwangi054 жыл бұрын
They already knew about the kidnapping. And the High court had ruled that the father had custody of the son because he was born in TUrkey.
@Ty-fc7ml4 жыл бұрын
Living in Turkey for 3+ years she was totally ignorant of the culture & laws of the land. Didnt she ever think of reading knowing something abt Turkey or even associate with some locals to know more? Its obvious to any relatively educated person that her son being born in Turkey will be a Turkish citizen & will grow up as a Muslim. Only as an adult he can change that status.
@davemwangi054 жыл бұрын
@@Ty-fc7ml Let's be friends, and then more than friends, then go to Turkey and eat turkeys during our wedding.
@_doobie15384 жыл бұрын
loveridden2002 he legally could take him back because she lost the court case. She didn’t have custody while in England ig
@shadowbanned41494 жыл бұрын
Its FAKE / Kidnapping is 1 heavy crime crossing borders is another 100% Fake
@Mojosfire4 жыл бұрын
The woman was very young and naive. She didn't know this man very long, and he showed her his representative at first, not the kind of guy he really was. He ran a tourist hotel, so charming the ladies was part of his business, and he knew how to do it very well. Actually it's a known fact that many abusive men can appear confident and quite charming when people are meeting them the first time. That's why it pays to really get to know someone over time before hooking up with them. It can happen in any country. There are abusive men and women all over the world, but sure the numbers are higher when it comes to abusive men, although part of that may be because men are going to be too humiliated to say if they have an abusive wife, but even if they did come forward the number of abused women will be higher no matter what simply because most men are quite physically stronger, and know they can overpower most women. It's extremely important though to study up first about a country before you go there, even for holiday, and mandatory really if you don't speak the language. There are very strict laws in Islamic countries regarding women. Public displays of affection I know are not acceptable in these type of strict countries, and even if it's a country that doesn't forbid you to dress in clothes that show a little more skin, it's also not something they actually encourage either, and can put you more at risk of being targeted by locals living there as it's often seen as a disrespect. When you travel you are on their grounds not your own. That applies to anywhere in the world.
@Mojosfire3 жыл бұрын
@Yowie Bait well that's why I said there is abusive women, although I have my doubts that it's more than men, because many men are raised to be authoritarians.
@Mojosfire3 жыл бұрын
@Yowie Bait I simply answered you and because you don't like my answer you call me a liberal feminist. I love how that word is so loosely used for anytime a woman has an opinion. A lot of men are raised throughout their lives to be the authoritarians, and even mothers will reinforce that which is not good in my opinion, instead of realizing that a women is just as much as a human being with feelings and having an identity as a man. No one should be superior, not a man or a woman, but treated with respect as a human being. Have the day you deserve. Bye right back to you.
@Mojosfire3 жыл бұрын
@Yowie Bait I said both are guilty of it, such a threatened male you are.
@dianeshannon7988 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@emmamartin14484 жыл бұрын
Watching this makes my blood boils how a person can be so naive, to the point of stupidity.
@mattkaustickomments4 жыл бұрын
What the hell did she expect marrying that guy?!
@Jay-vr9ir4 жыл бұрын
It happened to my sister , with an Italian in Italy , so it can be bad , anywhere abroad and The Italian Police took his side of course .There are so many smooth talking con men in this world , men I would not have the time for , women fall in love with .
@aweinfinitebliss4 жыл бұрын
Being honest, the relationship was perfect until he became controlling and insecure.
@edilalewis6544 жыл бұрын
If you fall in love with a man with a different culture remember you must face the culture too
@amemeli48424 жыл бұрын
Exactly right. When it comes to marriage WISDOMS, PATIENT, LONG SUFFERING, LOVE is much needed. The reason why He was controlling her because she wasn't SUBMITTING to Him. When you married those people in other cultures they expect submission Their wives if the wife doesn't obey, listen to their will things can get really bad.
@zfelix74 жыл бұрын
true & she was in lust so didnt see what was coming!
@abhinavsrivastava86154 жыл бұрын
In Islam, women are never considered equal, they are treated like toys who can just have owners. First father is owner and after wedding husband is owner. Husband can have 4 such toys, but toy can't have more owners. So girls, research before you marry someone.
@dojojo48154 жыл бұрын
@@abhinavsrivastava8615 are you an Indian? Well before making up lies about other countries and religions you should look into your country's culture and the inequality against women in almost everything such as education...work...especially marriage and gender discrimination is mostly in favor of men it has nothing to do with religion but because of their ego and selfishness and love of control that exists even before Islam in case you don't know go educate yourself before advising others about things you don't know and that's for sure doesn't mean all Indians are bad ...wherever you go there's inequality its made up by men and not god nor religion so stop covering things up we ain't no fools.
@dojojo48154 жыл бұрын
@Morpheus xyou sound so obsessed with "Jihad" if you don't quit you might kill someone 🤔.
@u.k.realone67783 жыл бұрын
What kind of man sits there and watches someone treat there daughter like that
@TheCrazyNinjaChick4 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for her, I do...but as a mum I would never leave my son TWICE!
@luciatat40844 жыл бұрын
LibbyToTheBee yes, there is always someone who knows better then the one that actually has been in the situation and suffered! If you never walked in her shoes, don’t say you would do better. It is not wise to judge someone you don’t truly understand. It is one thing to watch her story on a comfortable sofa and a totally different thing to live what she lived.
@Rachel-oc7jm4 жыл бұрын
@@luciatat4084 you're absolutely right!
@TheCrazyNinjaChick4 жыл бұрын
@@luciatat4084 I agree to a point. No matter what the circumstances I would never ever leave my son. My life would not be worth living.
@jazzcatt4 жыл бұрын
You have no idea what you would do until you are put in that position.
@jodiescookin14 жыл бұрын
100%
@ditarivera80874 жыл бұрын
She didn’t came from normal and loving family for sure
@User-puser5553 жыл бұрын
Agree!!!
@zohashahid309843 жыл бұрын
How did I miss this comment
@africacarey3 жыл бұрын
Most definitely and how could a father watch another man treat her like that why wouldn't she just leave back home with her family. I really can't stand weak naive woman
@Anonymous-zx3do4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with the last post. These countries are drenched in patriarchal culture, values, etc.... The people in some of these middle eastern and African countries are dependent on families, neighbors, and co-workers for their personal self-esteem. Their definition of 'shame' needs its own dictionary. It's draconian.
@cassieneal95924 жыл бұрын
There is no way in hell I would be leaving my son!!!!!
@underestimatedsmilin24294 жыл бұрын
What if your son left you??
@Anonymous-zx3do4 жыл бұрын
Good for you!!! We're so happy for you!!!
@cassieneal95924 жыл бұрын
Damn all of ya'll got really defensive 😂😂😂 I would stay in the relationship before ever leaving my son!
@madelineanabella64004 жыл бұрын
I agree. The people that I would bring to get my son back would leave no witnesses.
@bienerbina45554 жыл бұрын
Then you would be controlled & beaten & ignored & insulted & your son would grow up like his father & treat you the same because that is what he would see & believe because males are dominant in that culture. He would not know any better. The women would not be your friend either. At least the son would be safe there.
@rosalinddances28903 жыл бұрын
Middle Eastern values are in stark contrast to western, where the freedom of women are concerned. Abuse and control of women is totally normal in their culture
@mik55tv223 жыл бұрын
No its not ...not at all actually stop saying things about a culture u never been to ....we treat our women much better than in the west our women choose to live a pious life because its their religion ...i been married to an American woman for 13 years and treat her like a queen but all cultures have good and bad ive seen many men in the west who beat their women and even kill them so stop pretending the west is just full of angels when its the absolute opposite
@andreabrava68993 жыл бұрын
@@mik55tv22 stop pretending you don't understand what people are saying. You know very well that the islamic culture does not give women the same rights as man... 🙄 People like you are the problem, appearantly progressive and pretending like all the real shady human rights violations towards women do not exists.
@mariannaoselsky71043 жыл бұрын
@@mik55tv22 🧐🤨
@c_p_a_r3 жыл бұрын
I'm western woman, married to eastern arab and muslim man. He never have imposed me clothing, faith or specific behavior. I have many arab, muslim friends, women very outspoken, happy and content in their marriages and life. There are evil men in every place and cultures, and there are in the eastern culture, that's true. But to say ALL muslim, arab, or western women married to eastern men are being abused by them is only reflection of a blatant misinformation and prejudice. Try to open your mind, please.
@wajihaali18923 жыл бұрын
@@andreabrava6899 my dear Islam is the first religion that gave women rights many centuries ago Muslim women were allowed to vote and inherit property when european women were not given these rights it's our culture that is super strict towards women so please don't mix culture with religion
@eveFlower1013 жыл бұрын
She valued her freedom more than her son. I’ve seen parents fight for custody for years, yet this woman seems pretty content with her choices.
@brooke30813 жыл бұрын
Are you forgetting the fact she took the custody battle all the way to high court?? What more is she supposed to do?
@Spills51 Жыл бұрын
I get it, but your thinking she actually had any chance...she didnt. There is zero chance a western culture woman gets the judgement in her favor down there. ZERO.
@user-dr5jv1wk4j4 жыл бұрын
Lol don't make grandmas in scarfs look scary cmon thats rude
@Ilmksmxo4 жыл бұрын
Haha
@samirajbailou15494 жыл бұрын
Yes thank u
@Kzjene4 жыл бұрын
R😂😂🤣🤣
@RohitChouhan-dj7se4 жыл бұрын
SUICIDE 💣💥 BOMBER
@qalbihodon7214 жыл бұрын
This people are masters of propaganda!.
@kristianamarie67624 жыл бұрын
I’m so confused. Why wouldn’t they have been extradited back to the UK. He should have had to answer for his crimes there. That makes no freaking sense!
@jking57723 жыл бұрын
The boy continues to chose the dad over the mom and the dad is also awarded custody 🤔. most kids never want to leave moms side and feel safe with the mom.
@nazarenabeanz3553 жыл бұрын
She had very little rapport with the son, especially after the 2 years apart
@mspiper28524 жыл бұрын
Clearly either she’s still clueless or too scared to understand why this played out the way it did.
@jaykaira1444 жыл бұрын
What kind of person are you? Leaving your little boy just to move on with your life. Pure selfish.
@amberrose11084 жыл бұрын
No, she had to. She wouldn't have been safe with that maniac. It's all his fault.
@mistymorgan80684 жыл бұрын
The kind of person that doesn't want to get murdered.
@MeltingHeartsWaxMelts4 жыл бұрын
My dad will stop giving a damn about husband, culture and tradition, immediately after seeing a dude do any one of those things, just one. But he wouldn’t have to because I use my common sense. Won’t even date til both kids are grown.
@flow37804 жыл бұрын
That ending was sad and unfulfilling
@badbia56484 жыл бұрын
she brought it on herself
@FreedomWriter34 жыл бұрын
Everybody doesn't get a happy ending.
@sbk77734 жыл бұрын
He offered his hand to every other girl too, how can you fall for this trick
@victoriousangel89114 жыл бұрын
She threw her happy life away to live with an extremist. What a horrible nightmare.
@alembuysa824 жыл бұрын
thanks for showing Turkey as a forgotten sahara country..
@brera24344 жыл бұрын
I think the eighties were a very different time. That's one thing. Also, in every country, there is a big difference between city and village life, also in Europe...it is one story and one aspect being told. I for my part am able to see beyond that. If that helps.
@kayaalpturk15094 жыл бұрын
This is even not antalya or kemer, also the music isn’t even turkish
@AF3NI4 жыл бұрын
Lmfao they always do this
@Nosferopathy3 жыл бұрын
If people in turkey treat woman like this then it IS an awful country
@yespls41843 жыл бұрын
@@Nosferopathy you're completely clueless about Turkey and should probably stop making yourself look dumb and xenophobic.
@rselby37974 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't leave the US for nobody ever....staying right here where life is good.
@SkyyPiano4 жыл бұрын
Millions of people travel all over the world and are just fine, including myself. Don't let it scare you from enjoying other cultures and cuisines around the world. Just don't get involved with questionable men with backwards views about women. That is all.
@jnscrews4 жыл бұрын
Yea bc America is such a swell place right now huh?
@akashalicinia49424 жыл бұрын
Facts 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@mattkaustickomments4 жыл бұрын
S Piano, right so stick with Northwestern Europe and Commonwealth countries. The rest are off the table.
@Fuck_Anime4 жыл бұрын
Live in america get shot has to spend lifes savings on health care "staying right here where life is good."
@Taylorunicorn2 жыл бұрын
This should be made into a movie. Imagine being thrown in jail after getting violently kidnapped and to top it all off be placed in a cell with your kidnapper then asked if your son would prefer staying with him over you😱.. I honestly couldn't. this is the stuff of night mares... OMG she didn't press charges?! that is CRAZY but I know truma, abuse and relationships cloud ones judgement and mindset but my heart breaks for her and this family I'm just glad everyone is alive and well grateful her and Oliver have a relationship. 🙏
@leeorshimhoni89494 жыл бұрын
when a person suffers a crisis in his life, there is a tendency to break the status que and search for alternative. people make the worst decisions at such time.
@linanina59644 жыл бұрын
She NOT a good mother for leaving her son and forget all about it, starting to date again - short time after...
@shadowbanned41494 жыл бұрын
Bit of a stray Dog /
@whitebelugawhale...4 жыл бұрын
So it is better to stay and get beaten every day infront of her son, she had no help there, she hade probebly not loved her husbend in a long time
@aslmad14 жыл бұрын
A boy that age doesn’t need a mom
@jodiescookin14 жыл бұрын
I agree- you take your child!!!! Wth kind of mother is she?
@hannahmeow23994 жыл бұрын
If any man treated my daughter like that? Enjoy being six feet under. Dad failed her. Big time.
@Jeannelawes4 жыл бұрын
what a cold woman (mother) and her family, she could'nt hide in another town with her family's help?
@hannakemaw82994 жыл бұрын
I once almost gotten kidnapped by a Turkish guy myself. I think it’s their culture, the men are really controlling and possessive. He saw me at the gym and was obsessed literally. I was so scared because he was talking about getting married on the first day he met me and he kept tryna take me out on a date. I was so ready to leave the gym, but he won’t stop harassing me so the police has to get involved smh
@lucious8904 жыл бұрын
Hanna Kemaw I get stalked and harassed a lot by them a lot mainly Indian people and Muslims . I have to carry mace and all.
@mokhan94364 жыл бұрын
I don't blame him your stunning
@MrPickledede4 жыл бұрын
@@mokhan9436 lol the actress not the real woman
@lucious8903 жыл бұрын
@Hugh Jones lol 😂
@Beckaboo33973 жыл бұрын
See if that was my dad they would’ve found Fheti floating in the river.
@DoubleDogsBFF3 жыл бұрын
😄 you should be happy to have such a dad that protects you.
@Yeshuaprincess2474 жыл бұрын
How in the world do you start afresh without your child???? And then just go ahead and find a new man🤔 I would commit a criminal offense before I let someone take my son.
@AF3NI3 жыл бұрын
Exactly... He would have been death
@yolandacleare67093 жыл бұрын
Nothing's better then sitting on you couch sipping on a coffee and watching some wonder survivor
@DeeDee-xu8yf4 жыл бұрын
Men from middle East are wired differently, their level of chauvinism is in another league...two minutes into this I felt happy for our queen Rihana breaking up with Hassan
@JadedBelle4 жыл бұрын
Rihanna a queen? Pfffft.... and she is oh so classy.
@liliannyhamad94484 жыл бұрын
There's no abuse in western countries right?!
@hrumi48113 жыл бұрын
We are not all like him! Bad men are every where in every culture.you should nt judge all of us like that
@marlboromatt56564 жыл бұрын
These have the best actors.Amazing talent
@FemaleObserver4 жыл бұрын
they're not as good as others really but WONDER always has great ones, you should see the rest!
@nickkaraminas85862 жыл бұрын
thank you...
@sophia4christ4 жыл бұрын
Now, why would she think it would be easy to have a relationship with a man from a totally different culture and religion? She was too careless and a little too carefree! Smh
@May-zl8bf4 жыл бұрын
Not even the cultural religious thing. He was beyond narcastistic and controlling.
@mycharmedunicorn87154 жыл бұрын
VeeTee Islam. This is the true face
@nazliefayker4604 жыл бұрын
@@mycharmedunicorn8715 What has Islam got to do with it. There are evil controlling people in all faiths. The world is the way it is because of hatred and people like you who spew it.
@Flatleava4 жыл бұрын
He was just an animal
@orls90684 жыл бұрын
@@nazliefayker460 Read the Quran and educate yourself.
@DUNESTITCH3 жыл бұрын
This happened to my mother with her first child, minus the abuse from what I’m aware. Almost 35 years later, it still affects her.
@michaelgates67404 жыл бұрын
What a naive, stupid woman!!! How many chances did she have to press charges????
@vegasjill214 жыл бұрын
She should have listened to her FRIEND and gone back home in the first place!!! There aint no fairy tale ending here.
@eleanapshock90164 жыл бұрын
Exactly !
@scottyknowsurf4 жыл бұрын
Ya press charges... Then go to Turkish court Winn your son back and put that man behind bars.
@sandrapadua26324 жыл бұрын
When she is already dead i guess uhmp
@veronikailovepuppies94893 жыл бұрын
She is a complete idiot, infuriating, only feel sorry for the kid.
@inspiredbynatureinspiredby55864 жыл бұрын
Ladies, Choose well❤ I am so glad she saved herself!
@dianeblack61414 жыл бұрын
I'm just so sorry for this woman! Nobody deserves to go through such a thing! What I want everybody to remember is that men CAN'T HIT women and women CAN'T HIT men. That's never ok and it shouldn't be justified under any circumstances. PERIOD.
@somethingbright42684 жыл бұрын
I'd have fought tooth and nail to be in my sons life. I'd never have managed to walk away so easily. If push came to shove I'd stay in Turkey as long as my son was by my side and I knew he was safe.
@amberrose11084 жыл бұрын
I would too, but don't assume it was so easy for her. She could have been killed by that abusive man, so she didn't have much choice.
@AviationNut4 жыл бұрын
He would probably have her killed if she took his son also.
@babbzkash4 жыл бұрын
Me toi
@Sunshinespeck4 жыл бұрын
I agree, but this man was abusive and if she stayed he would end up killing her and then turning her son against her!
@Kelstar774 жыл бұрын
Husbands get all the children in a Muslim / Sharia Divorce
@nafisamohammed67324 жыл бұрын
Brave lady ,no man has the right to treat a women like this. Well done
@mariadelmarcintron16543 жыл бұрын
When your on vacation anywhere everything feels and sounds perfect.
@fifieuskadi4 жыл бұрын
Reminds me a bit of the movie “Not Without My Daughter”.
@lynnkesh2544 жыл бұрын
I remember that old movie...a few yrs ago I saw a documentary about it here apparently it was a true story
@FemaleObserver4 жыл бұрын
Yes, seen that back in the 70's but she had the passion to get her daughter, this lady had to think whether it's her life or mesiry for life or even death
@cici23694 жыл бұрын
iPhilGood l read the book
@TheCrazyNinjaChick4 жыл бұрын
Except she actually left her child, twice. She didn't go back to get him.
@marycrawley32934 жыл бұрын
Yes it does remind me of that movie. Sad is was based on a true story but she got her in the end . Sally Field played the mother, I believe
@nazarethdominguez53294 жыл бұрын
Is frightening how she is disconnected from her son and gave up on him 😵
@mycharmedunicorn87154 жыл бұрын
Nazareth Dominguez she had no choice. The American embassy is smarter than that. Is,a is very keen on keeping male children
@Flatleava4 жыл бұрын
She could have petitioned her kid to become citizen and also teach kid her language not just bye
@luciatat40844 жыл бұрын
No, what is actually frightening is how no one imagines and understands what she went through!
@Flatleava4 жыл бұрын
Lucia Tat you right, I think no chance she had
@johnwilson22844 жыл бұрын
How is that frightening? It's called self-preservation nobody else I'd of you makes any bit of difference. That's what happens when you experience trauma maybe you should try to experience some trauma then you could probably relate
@heidimedel3 жыл бұрын
I don't know why anyone is saying this is a cultural thing. I've had a similar incident in the US by an American "man". Maybe just don't be an abusive pos and treat your so called loved ones with kindness and they don't need to flee from you. We need to be very careful regardless of country of origin.
@benedicamusdomino85464 жыл бұрын
What the h*** is wrong with this woman! She didn't even try to get her son! She gave up at every opportunity to get the guy that kidnapped her and beat her thrown in jail. I feel so sorry for that kid who has a horrible father and a horrible mother.
@CuriousConnoisseurs4 жыл бұрын
Why turkish men so insecure? I hear such storys daily.
@brookekay98244 жыл бұрын
Why does this kind of give me "not without my daughter" vibes 😂
@shumob49014 жыл бұрын
What is that maybe I'm to young but everyone keeps talking abt it in the comments.
@mjones44584 жыл бұрын
Okay people Jesus Christ! She was 19 .... no none of us have ever done anything stupid in our teen years! Everyone is so damn critical
@queent28154 жыл бұрын
Oh wow abandoning your own son.... and your the victim? Do you know what real women go through for THEIR KIDS