Strangers, again

[@2mynextlife725]

One of the saddest things is when two people really get to know each other: their secrets, their fears, their favourite things, what they love, what they hate, literally everything, and then they go back to being strangers. It's like you have to walk past them and pretend like you never knew them, never ever talked to them before, when really, you know everything about them.

[@claytonmatthews3436]

I know this pain

[@ezmoize]

i want to change this

[@infinitymixtapes9562]

Ouch

[@fcosta94]

Nevertheless, people change so much overtime that the person that was originally your closest friend and significant other is someone you can't even recognize or even believe you shared a segment of life together. 🙁🙁🙁

[@davidlencha2042]

what in gods name would cause you to do something like that?

[@SplySteph]

The worst thing you could ever do is watch this video after a breakup.... And that's exactly what I did and now I'm crying in the club rn.

[@mohimuddin3770]

I just found this channel yesterday after I had a breakup yesterday. And I wasn't even trying to find anything like that

[@lory4305]

me too

[@jakeniemiec8559]

Did you bring headphones in there or something?

[@MrSkytops]

It must be fun to party with you.

[@LLLadySSS]

Oof

[@jade6957]

When you watched this video while you were young and innocent without a broken heart but now you rewatch it and you can understand the emotion coming from the video.

[@mieomieo92]

Same here. Never know it's gonna hurt that much.

[@KhangNghi]

this comment

[@ashleyyjoelle]

yea. it really hits home.

[@alexkg1]

I didn't fully get this video either when it first came out. Now, it is totally relatable and I appreciate it so much more.

[@alexbollinger4007]

Oof so true

[@pwangs]

It brings me so much joy that this short film is still resonating in 2020. Our world is completely different now, but emotions are timeless. Some return here for nostalgia because it makes them think about someone special (who might be a stranger now). Some watched this as young naive kids/teens and now understand the story differently because they're older. And some are here for the first time. It's a really incredible feeling as a creator to see this project live on and evolve with time. Thank you all. - philip

[@yoitsalan]

This is the video that got me hooked onto wongfu

[@niduroy3495]

Thank you so much phil

[@kingandrewdong4232]

I’m 16 almost 17 and I just went through my first break up literally yesterday. We were each others first love but I’m in my senior year of high school and she’s a freshman in college she said she doesn’t feel as happy anymore and that we are at different points in our lives. As much as I didn’t want to accept it she was right. I thought we should’ve broken up too but I didn’t have the strength to do so. My heart hurts so much right now the day after we broke up. I would also like to mention that we never met, we met on line and have been FaceTime for 6 months (waiting till we can meet) but Ig the universe didn’t have that in store for us. I will always love her and the moments we had

[@hosiutsi]

i love u phil

[@Nightmare1019]

You’re a king who helps others process feelings even we don’t understand and thank you so much for being here :) i hope you stay happy and you stay safe my guy

[@mostfrozenburrito]

I can’t believe that I was 12 when I first watched this. Now I’m 19 and I can relate just a bit more closely now

[@jf433]

Here with you man, 18 years old, crazy how life used to be so simple, now its not, miss it.

[@ballislife9924]

19 as well here

[@davidnguyen4032]

yea watched this wayyyy back when i was stupid and single. now that i just went through a break up and its getting hard, i can relate to this video so much.

[@saranz9218]

David Nguyen wow!

[@naagwalan8867]

wow I was 13 yrs old when I first watched...I remember watching a teaser or something on facebook.. wow now I'm 20 (even more confused at life)

[@hush3781]

"This stranger was the most important person in my life"

[@antonetarezendefonseca5342]

This person is no longer a person in my life.

[@farahwilliams4592]

It really is the saddest thing

[@jokerglimmering779]

i can relate

[@Lalalalandrawr]

hit like a fucking brick

[@jinkyamosco4859]

Shit.

[@wongfupro]

On this day, "Strangers, again" is 3 years old. It's incredible to see how viewers are still responding to it, and how it's affected peoples' lives over this time. Watching it now, compared to back then, many of you have a new understanding of the same video. Our work evolves as you do, and that's really amazing to us.

[@willieshen]

It sucks how a guy is friends with this girl and then in the end he's strangers with her when he likes her

[@chrisbacuita5055]

i want to thank you guys. i watch this from time to time. it really helps me. thanks Wong Fu.

[@FranticFriendsFans]

Happy Easter Day to you(Wong Fu Production) and your family...if..you know, you celebrate this day. Thank you for your hilarious, inspiring and heart-wrecking videos. I hope I have enough money to go and watch your movie! Congratulations! You guys(Chris and Christine included) and the rest of members of Wong Fu Productions, greatly deserves it!

[@boredcow]

Wong Fu you're right... I have a new understanding of this video after this year when I went through my first relationship. Back then I didn't quite understand why this was so popular, but now I see it. It's so realistic...and it's comforting to know that many people feel the same way. It feels good to not be alone sometimes.

[@chattybatty5]

Thank you for re-sharing this video on Facebook. I remember watching this a few years ago. After the past year, I have a completely new outlook on this video. It's so real, so honest, and so accurate. I'm glad I saw it again, it reminds me to appreciate the positives.

[@itsjustmelissa]

13 years together and we’re back to being strangers. From talking everyday, cuddling everyday, and seeing each other everyday to absolutely nothing. My heart is broken. Some days I’m okay and some days all I do is cry. Maybe one day I’ll understand.

[@sistersundays5717]

Hang in there, I’m right there with ya. We’ll find love again some day, believe that everything happens for a reason no matter how hard it is💜

[@WafflesandCiderXD]

Make sure to watch After Us

[@itsjustmelissa]

@@sistersundays5717 yeah, I know this needed to happen. I wasn’t able to grow when I was with him. I look and feel like a completely different person now. Even though I know this needed to happen, it still hurts that we couldn’t grow together.

[@itsjustmelissa]

@@WafflesandCiderXDis that a movie?

[@sistersundays5717]

@@itsjustmelissa omg I feel the same! I definitely feel like I outgrew him but even though I knew that, I was willing to do anything for him and wait for him to become the man he wanted to be. But then he gave up on us and it was over 😭 it’s really sad but yeah, we will get through it

[@Mickey27_]

Friendships are like this too sometimes

[@storybookasmr3147]

True dat 👏👏

[@chloeteo377]

So true

[@kadenwong7299]

A B S O L U T E L Y and unlike relationships, being "frienddumped" isn't talked about at large even though friendships form our rudimentary knowledge and expections about love. Friends are the folks who you rely on to help you during the aftermath of a messy breakup. What happens when those supports are missing? Or never there to begin with?

[@dvbgnn4379]

That's what I was exactly thinking at the moment and I just saw your comment.So weird.

[@paulcaldo3550]

U chasing your friend? Thats f up man

[@HiHeyItsBethany]

what she says about "we either break up or get married" has stayed in my head since this came out

[@michaelsaenz380]

It's pure truth. I think it's good to keep in mind.

[@krystalschuh2833]

Sammeeee

[@kaiz1845]

lol my mom and dad took the marry route but they still argue like this like every other day. It's nuts how they're in their late 40s/early fifties now and they still use the exact same arguments as angry teens.

[@anonymous-404]

@I Need You but that's how life is ! Just hope they're always together for their best and worst phases!

[@TheMissnum1]

broked my heart

[@sammycrystaliser362]

Six months since he dumped me, and I still miss him even though he didn't treat me right. It's the memories you miss, not the person. You miss the old version, not the real person who dumped you.

[@Chirlgurl]

I was surprised to come back to this video after a long time, get hit in the heart by the last exchange in this video, and then scroll down to find someone in the exact position as me. About 6 months since he dumped me as well. I agree with you on the memories part. I hope you've been healing.

[@sammycrystaliser362]

@@Chirlgurl I'm gonna slip into your DMs so we can cry together or something 😂 I have been healing, but I still love him so much... Idk, but what I do know is that I'll get over this-- I always do. I hope you're doing better than you were when it first happened, and I'm always here for you if you need someone to talk to ❤

[@sammycrystaliser362]

@@Chirlgurl hangouts/Instagram?

[@applebabie720]

What u said is so true.

[@looeesj]

Being on the other side is also not easy. Breaking up with someone, even if the relationship was toxic, will always leave you with the though "Did i do the right thing?". You forget everything bad and your mind only focus on the good memories and this hurts. But eventually you'll heal. Some days are better than the others, but with time everything will be fine. Even if the person is with someone else, nothing can change the moments you had together.

[@pwangs]

Happy 10 year anniversary!!! Thank you for a decade of support, enjoying this video year after year. It makes me so happy knowing people are finding new meaning as the years pass. That is seriously so special! In case y’all didn’t know, we’re working on a sequel!! 🥳🥳🥳

[@kawaiiafangirl]

Thank you for this amazing short film- both for introducing me to Wong Fu Productions and for giving a greater understanding of romantic relationships.

[@noealeman6519]

2023 and still on my favorites list!!!

[@Cruz-jg1jn]

When is rje sequal coming, I've gone back to this video over a thousand times and watched it in its entirety idek how many times. I need a sequel

[@josephlegend4498]

When your life used to revolve around a person it's so depressing that, after some time, they'll mean nothing to you. And you'll barley even know each other

[@dng604]

"if life separates us, and we end up in totally different places, i'll always remember when our paths aligned for this period of time, and ill be thankful for that. and i hope that, wherever we are, you'll be thankful too." [15:01] i rewatch this short, just to hear this quote :'(

[@aiendii]

:(

[@MysterioTheNinja]

It's the perfect quote to remember when reflecting on the past

[@TheYuh2]

When “our” paths aligned.

[@Nano-vc5vf]

I wonder the background music here, someone please help me out!

[@louiefab10]

@@Nano-vc5vf it’s Cambridge by Kina Grannis

[@masterspud777]

For what it's worth, I went through all these stages with a few girls until the last girl- it didn't end in a break-up, but rather a break... some re-evaluation... and a commitment to get back together, fix the bad and try again. That girl and I are now happily married. Don't lose heart, every story is different, your story is different, but somehow love always finds a way with the right person.

[@musiccrazysinger1010]

how long was the break/re-evaluation?

[@Masonubia]

A U R O R A a question needs answers

[@freddiex4342]

@@Masonubia seriously lol

[@DVMotions]

2011 Me - Junior in High School, watched this after a break up. Thinking what went wrong. 2021 Me - 27, Married, USAF Veteran. Wishing I could go back and tell myself it all worked out in the end.

[@user-11528]

your comment is in Wong Fu video

[@Psychetwo]

same girl? or ended up with someone else?

[@DVMotions]

@@Psychetwo someone else ☺️

[@DVMotions]

@@user-11528 oh my god I just watched the video!!

[@ethanlay3600]

@@DVMotions congrats

[@superveggito2000]

When I first saw this video years ago, I was in a good relationship that started to go south ... eventually leading to a terrible breakup. I cried my eyes out over her for months, started drinking a lot and she wanted to get back together at some point and I said no, because I know it was just not going to end up working out. About 6 months afterward I met a girl while I wasn't even looking and we hit it off. It's now been 6 years and we just got married in February. Our life is great, we never fought or argued until just a few days ago and I could have prevented it if I did what I promised. Now watching this video as a newly-wed man I remember the pain I went through years ago and I'm reminded that I need to never stop trying! If I stop trying, she will stop trying, and we will eventually go downhill. I love her with all my heart and this video reminds me of the consequences that can happen if I take her for granted. Anyone reading this please remember, don't take your partner for granted. There is always somebody out there looking to take what you have. Try hard and let your partner know that YOU are the BEST option for them and nobody will love them the way that you do! Love is a terrible thing to lose.

[@altopatraogee6630]

Thank you so much for sharing man. Hope its all working out i feel some hope too now.

[@angeliquepanganiban]

Plus one with the love is a terrible thing to lose.

[@vailethaminbeka7469]

I'm going through the same thing right now hope one day I will forget about the pain and move on

[@makhosazana7384]

Only if God would give me a chance to right my wrongs towards fiance . I had the perfect guy who even asked me to be his wife.. I said yes. 5 months later. I dunno the monsters we became.

[@Zlockj349]

Hi my gongzhu

[@PrideInIndividuality]

I really like that you didn't do the typical audience-pleasing happy ending everyone wants/expects, where the guy makes some big, romantic gesture to show that he still loves her and suddenly everything is better and people assume they're together forever after the video. I mean, he did try to fix things after their fight, but it didn't magically fix everything and make them perfectly happy again. This is so raw, and real, and uncensored. The emotions you portray are real emotions that people feel, and understand in real relationships. The ending was not a "they'll be together" or "they'll break up" guarantee. Just the 2 talking about the possibilities, and facing the reality of where they are as a couple now. So, awesome job on this video, it's amazing :)

[@ryanyu980]

Infernoofdoom555 isn't it couldn't have said it better not Couldn't of said it better

[@ellemorera]

Watched this 6 years ago, still hits home.

[@mitchydabeast1233]

Denny & Michelle same😭😭

[@harrydelapiedra1830]

First home

[@laurenpagan642]

Same, I watched it about 5 ago and it’s still great

[@oscardallas16]

I watched this my first year of college with my high school sweetheart. I can't believe it's been 7 years since that moment...

[@katcovn]

Funny girl

[@BlackCatCards]

I just come out of a 5 year relationship, fuck this hits different. You really do become "strangers, again." Phil was so spot on with describing the stages and everything. Shoutout to all my heartbroken people out there. We'll find our own happiness soon.

[@freddiex4342]

How old are u

[@pwangs]

wow, 15 million views. Never would've thought this video would reach this far, and represent so much to some. In retrospect, it seems like this video is means the most not when you first watched it... but when you look back on it much later. Thank you all!

[@Shermaine29]

Yeap that's right! I really love it! It was great to meet you and Wes at the bowling session that day :D

[@thinkingrobot5686]

It is really an amazing video. Sure, it wasn't like that in every situation, but this is just a cool story. NICE!

[@Pumpkinpumpkin24]

i like u

[@islamtimberlake]

sory man but fuck u u maked me feel so fucking sad

[@yusei_desu]

I remember watching this video 4 years ago. Shortly after this same exact thing happened with my ex and I. I just remember watching this telling myself, "why? Why couldn't I have changed that comfortable stage into a positive instead of dreading the inevitable". I have never been so moved by a short like this did. I mean it has so many real and deep lessons we can all learn about human connection. Needless to say I first saw this and cried for what seemed like was going to be an eternity. I remember even showing this to my ex and telling her that I'm sorry I didn't do better at certain points in our relationship. This video depicts such a common plague of young healthy relationships, complacency. It is an amazing cautionary tale. The frozen yogurt and piggy back rides dwindling down to dessert for one, the 4am late night talks end with 10pm good nights without an "I love you", not picking your phone up right away putting everything else before her. The writing and concept is absolutely brilliant. I want to thank you guys for making this and for this lesson being etched into my brain. I'm a fan of all your work and this will always have a special place in my heart. I watched it again today , 4 years after the lowest point of my life, and I was surprised to feel that same emotion. It wasn't sadness about my ex but it was acceptance. This video helped me accept the things happening to me that I couldn't control or rather no longer fix to make better. Today I'm so happy to be with there person I love dearly and I can honestly say that I wouldn't mentally be here at this point without such an amazing video to teach me this perspective of love. I know I'm one of 15 million views but if it means anything at all to you guys, I just want to convey how grateful I am to you for connecting such a positive message through this brilliant artwork of the human condition to some 18 year old kid who didn't know any better. Thank you wongfu

[@dikshaappi6115]

Makes me realise that being single is far away the best option..

[@yvetteharvie]

I remember watching this video five years ago when myself and my current partner were still in the honeymoon stage. I could never have imagined us moving past that stage, but watching this video again now, five years later, it hits too close to home. I truly hope we can rebuild our relationship. Thank you so much for this video, it's devastatingly beautiful.

[@Dripx-]

Yvette Harvie-Salter ain't even gonna lie, same exact thing here but more like three years ago. Looking back at it now shows you how you can take each other for granted. Myself, I feel like I'm a terrible person for trying to argue a lot and honestly, it has a lot to do with the type of person I am and I want to change that so I can be better for her.

[@zephonyx6204]

Yvette Harvie-Salter hows it going now?

[@GABZodIna]

Still watch this video from time to time. You guys should be proud for creating an internet classic.

[@kittykat248100]

s/o to my homies at stage 0

[@kitbracadabra]

nochu heyyyy Also hey kpopper

[@stephanieandrike4901]

the friendzone

[@danielw7457]

Army yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

[@lindseywheldon2790]

Ayeeeeeeeeee

[@Mithrilking]

gang gang

[@Daniel-ld7xs]

Watching this after a break up 😪

[@jasmiineriva]

Sameeeee😭

[@kervak3]

+Jasmine Riva DeGuzman me too :(

[@Daniel-ld7xs]

:(( sigh

[@jasmiineriva]

+Daniel Kam are you feeling better?.. I hope everything fine now.

[@jasmiineriva]

+Daniel Kam are you feeling better?.. I hope everything fine now.

[@jaypocaigue3997]

"Normally I'd let that go, but I'm having a bad day too, so WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY?" 7:40

[@bencrosbie]

Quonlei me 😂😂😂

[@kyleefeist1324]

ME sometimes. The only thing to do is to call out what exactly is happening "look I am having a bad day as well! Let's breathe and take some space. " and then you're both gonna have to go off and have to find a way to release that pent up emotion probably :'(

[@clairec5830]

I’ll just.. continue coming back to this every time this happens... like a tradition lol.. sadly

[@natashajumari]

Hope you’re in a happier place

[@carolynchen317]

HAHAHA omg literally same it’s like oh funny seeing me here again

[@noexceptions8438]

Oh no

[@christinanguyen3703]

same

[@sabrinathaiii]

ok ive watched this SOOO many times but i never noticed that @ 5:26 and more after the scene where they're both just watching tv, in the background the scenes that are playing are barney from how i met your mother introducing the playbook and how he gets women and then right after is the scene from friends when ross and rachel break up after getting back together and rachel made ross read that super long letter she wrote; i seriously cannot emphasize how much i respect wong fu's artistry because those two tv scenes add so much meaning when you notice them in line with this short the level of commitment they have to their craft is amazing bravo guys bravo

[@AnkitSharma-fr1iu]

you've got an amazing observation!!

[@lucastouma5800]

wtf you're right

[@abstractdiscovery]

Wongfu productions makes me miss my next ex girlfriend

[@justchill6652]

abstractdiscovery 😂😂😂😂

[@MarvinBevts]

Sad Dude Hours😂😂😂😂

[@altopatraogee6630]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@majdalkaed]

😂😂😂😂

[@jakobhlous]

the best comment I've seen in a long time

[@angelofastora3480]

Goddamnit this hit hard. But, in the end, this is the outcome for most relationships. People change, feelings erode, love fades away. It's only a matter of how much you enjoyed yourself while you were with your couple.

[@cautiouscoconut2327]

Angel Of Astora fuck off and don’t ruin people’s hope just because you’re lonely

[@blubbfisch98]

@@cautiouscoconut2327 His comment isn't even negative. Just think about it: Say, you find the love of your life with 23. Before that, you already had a relationship of half a year and one relationship of 2 years. It would still count as 2 failed relationships in contrast to one relationship that lasted over 60 years.

[@ashleyelizabeth4176]

I remember watching this as a 14 year old completely inexperienced in relationships. 9 years later I come back to this video and reflect on how accurate this is! Some relationships last forever. And some relationships end for the best. Sometimes the person that meant so much to you isn’t the right person for you. You grow apart and you realize it’s best for you two to go separate ways. You accept the break up and move forward. Rekindling is never guaranteed and you will eventually become strangers again.

[@akadhing129]

I saw this when it first came out.. Told myself it would never happen to me if once I meet her. The first love. The first girlfriend. It's been almost a year since we started talking, which led to a relationship. Anyway. It's sad because it's happening to me right now. I'm right here sitting next to her. Just quiet. We are both quiet. She's doing her work. And I'm here on my phone with headphones on.

[@ivanmabini88]

i feel you.. same thing happening to me

[@saifnasseragha4233]

I know you posted this last month but the next time you see your girlfriend tell her "I love you"

[@akadhing129]

+Saif Nasser Agha I wish I could. I mean, I want to tell her that. She's my ex now. She did something stupid, so I guess that's where I'm leaving things off with her. As exes.

[@alekzanderschleswig-lager6973]

+Adrien Salvador Holy fuck this is a sad thread.

[@kaeserinuma3025]

...... this is a sad thread....

[@analisa3416]

I come back to this every year. I don't know; something just...compells me to come back to this and watch it again. And -- surprise, surprise -- I end up sitting in a pool of my own tears, being an emotional wreck. I'm single, and nobody I've dated has ever really liked me for who I was, so, to be honest, I have no idea of what it's like to be in the later stages. But, I think that it's nice to just come back to this every so often and grin because this is one of my favourite Wong Fu shorts. Thanks, Wong Fu, for making this.

[@analisa3416]

Here's an update that no-one asked for. Six months ago, my crush asked me out. Tomorrow marks our six-month anniversary, and I couldn't be happier! He likes me for who I am and when I'm around him, I smile a little wider and laugh a little louder. Tl;dr: it gets better, no matter what.

[@analisa3416]

Like everyone who's emotionally attached to Strangers Again, I'm coming back here in the middle of watching Strangers Never Again... and I honestly forgot I left a comment here in the first place. I think about Strangers Again a lot, and I truly do think it was one of the first short films that ever really resonated with me when I was younger. Truth be told, when I left my first comment here, I was so young and so naive. That boyfriend and I lasted for a year and a half, and it took me another year and a half to let go when he broke up with me. I'm now dating a woman and soon, it will be OUR year and a half anniversary. I am older, wiser, and a little more cynical about the world, and it's crazy to think I've been here since 2012 (even though I didn't leave a comment the first time I watched this). I guess, for me, life got better and then it got worse. Up, down, then up and down again. Somehow, I now know less about myself than I thought I did, but I'm managing to find pockets of time in my life to step back and marvel at how far I've come. And even if I'm not happy all the time, I sure am proud of how much I've learned and changed.

[@felicityshotter3640]

"We are no longer born into an era where, if something is broken, you fix it. Instead, now, you throw it out because you can afford to get a new one" Love is work. Even when its going well you should still be working on it and yourself and your relationship, bettering it. Because if you only start doing that when it's falling apart... you have nothing to fall back on. there is no reason though to give up on it. Even if it's hard. you felt those feelings once. you can feel them again. For those people regretting. You could have tried harder. Admit it. But you didn't. You could have done better. But you didn't. And maybe at the time you didn't realize it. Maybe at the time you didn't see what you could have done, maybe you should have been more forgiving, more loving, more supportive, less angry, tried harder to talk, tried harder to be with them. To make your feelings known. Don't make the same mistakes. Learn. better yourself. you don't find your future, you need to make it. Go out there, be bold. Winning an argument isn't as important as loving your partner, and making sure they're okay. sometimes it helps to swallow mean words and just let things go. Sometimes admitting your wrong is really really important. Sometimes taking the time to really be with them hundred percent to just love them is really important. Sometimes just telling them plainly your feelings for them is what's needed even if you feel vulnerable and unloved yourself, make an effort even if they don't, someone's got to lead, and if you do, it could just be the saving grace for your relationship. Be the difference even when your shot down, or hurt, or feel unloved. It's hard, it really really is, and you may not want to, you may be waiting on them to first, but your pride and short-lived pain aren't worth the love of your life. Ever. Nothing is. I would know. Just because its broken, doesn't mean it can't be fixed. Just because pieces are missing, doesn't mean you love them any less. It's not worth losing that special person in your life. Sometimes all it takes is a loving word when you feel like been mean. BE the Change.

[@annatian]

😭

[@felicityshotter3640]

you will. it's just a matter of fighting for them.

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[@felicityshotter3640]

Aprikosen Klang I think the answer to your question is better answered with a question. Are you BOTH trying to improve the situation? Are you both trying to better yourselves for each other and sitting down to talk openly about why you keep hurting each other and how to prevent that? If the answer is no to any or all of these then i suggest you do that. The point to give up and walk away would be the point in which the other person has given up already and there is no improvement been done on their end even though you have talked about it and you are trying to improve the situation and yourself for them. It is when the other person has stopped trying even when you still are that you need to take a step back and say. Have i talked about this with them? are they working to improve this? have they proved they care enough to keep fighting for this? If the answer is no. Then maybe it is time to let go. But in all honesty even if you hurt each other constantly, If you are both working toward making that better and trying to fix it so it doesnt happen and bettering yourselves so it doesnt keep happening then there is no logical reason to give up just because your going through a rough patch where your both hurting each other. My boyfriend and i have been there numerous times and when we realize this is getting unbearable and something needs to change we sit down and talk very openly about what keeps happening and what hurts each other and then come up with compremises and decide to change things together so that it doesnt keep happening. If anyone has ever told you that your love should just accept you for who you are because you are good enough, lied. YOU should constantly be bettering yourself and learning and growing with your significant other. CONSTANTLY. I mean the whole reason we go from been really good together to been in hell is because we naturally change and we change because we learn new things everyday, and in order for us to both adapt to that change within us and each other we need to be honest and open about that. Things that might not have hurt us a month ago now hurts us. Things that didnt get on our nerves now get on our nerves. Things that seemed harmless last time dont seem so harmless now. See? So if you find your hurting each other constantly and your relationship just seems to be spiraling downward. Try sitting down with them, been kind, and open, letting them see you vulnerable, and tell them what hurts you and why, talk with them not out of anger or pain but out of love and patients. Ask if there is anything you can change so that you dont hurt them as much or to make them feel more loved or important to you. Ect. Don't make it just about you but each other as a couple. Express your love or care for them and tell them you dont want to hurt them and that you need them to help you learn to better care for them so that doesn't happen. Expressing change with love and kindness can help the both of you tremendously. In my own opinion though, the only point when you give up is when the other person stops trying for you. when they stop caring, when the relationship and you. are no longer important to them. And then it is not you giving up but rather getting rid of a toxic relationship in which you have tried to bring about change and asked them to help and they did not. hope that helps! If you would like to message me privetly and talk about this further, or have any other questions. i am available to listen whenever.

[@AprikosenKlang]

I think I would like to do that. But I'm not sure how to write you a privat message here on KZbin to be honest ^^" And thanks for the long answer already!

[@lilacs6lolita]

We watched this together when it came out. We were still that newly couple. Now 11 years later, we never stopped trying. We are still going strong. The secret is you NEVER EVER stop dating each other like u did in the first stages. Love is constant hard work. If you dont keep watering your own grass, ull always think the other side is greener.

[@noexceptions8438]

Any advice

[@LeopardPrintZebras]

This doesn't just happen to couples, it happens to friends, too. And it's just as heartbreaking.

[@RichFam2023]

Agree

[@bachnguyen7411]

5 years later and this is still relevant.

[@ThomasLinrabbitpenguin]

this will never not be relevant

[@anyo_mations]

7! Let's keep the show on the road

[@terellslaughter6567]

Nevirrelevant 😁

[@yejin2491]

10 years…

[@Un0rdinaryy]

12 years...

[@teamewgf]

Im at stage 0 ; never find one LOLOLOL ...

[@Bob-np9no]

Me... But then again I never try

[@teamewgf]

+Lino Fragoso it'll fall in place in the future b

[@hikatie4457]

same here....

[@teamewgf]

+Hi Katie soon you will find someone, keep your head up (:

[@teamewgf]

+Ally Chen everyone does like you, it just depends on who you're around :D

[@saratabita7233]

Who’s here after seeing the sequel announcement?!?🥰🥰

[@joshuakevinserdan9331]

meeeeeeeeeee

[@leomian84]

THEY'RE MAKING A SEQUEL . . . . . . ngl im just here cause I know I'm in the honeymoon stage and I'm scared of what will happen when it ends

[@natallietutanes5472]

YESSSSSS

[@YovaniBinuelo]

Never saw it comin lol

[@Vuongiam]

😭😭

[@dogwithtwobones_]

This made me miss somebody that doesn’t even exist

[@ghilessaidani3929]

VK same feeling lmao 😂

[@blackcat-mp7kh]

Lil

[@karasay__01]

Maybe that's me and btw I'm good in bed 😌

[@boskosawkmie2425]

Me too 😂

[@powerfullgoddess5797]

😂😂

[@cr7y44]

Dear ex, If you are watching this 7 years later, just wanna let you know you hold a very special place in my memory. #ripus Farewell stranger!

[@leaaza6417]

Chris ,The first time we met 1st , October I missed you so much until now...

[@quackack7145]

@@user-qd7pc7th7z 😂😂

[@SHINeeLizzy]

My ex's name is Chris, we just broke up 😭

[@MELANIEroseJ]

I remember watching this video when it came out. At the time my boyfriend and I were together 3 years going on 4, and we talked about his we'd never get to tolerable, how we've always worked on our relationship and we would keep working at it. Well somehow this past year we started tolerating eachother. And before I knew it we reached the last two stages almost all at once. Last night, after 5 years and 3 months, he decided it was too routine, and he didn't want to continue on, or even try fixing it. And it ended. And all I could think about was this video. I don't know what's in store for us now, but rewatching this has both caused me to sob uncontrollably, and give me some type of reassurance that things will be alright eventually. ;)

[@pwangs]

things definitely will, Melanie.

[@WhatChhun]

Have you met @RichardChhun?

[@jonathanjuarez1860]

pwangs

[@cthlnspnz]

Same thing happened to me. After 2 years and a half of being in a relationship everything became so routine till we both decided that its for the better but I still couldn't imagine him with someone else. It's breaking my heart that someone has his heart now and he's happy with her. Sometimes, I wonder, maybe if I rewatched this when we were in stage 6 maybe i could've saved everything but I guess that's the way it should be. I cannot stop crying while watching this too. It.hurts.so.much.

[@pchenester]

Tac Espinoza Its ok gurl. I got your back..same boat as well. 2 days ago and after going on for 2 years he decided to call it quits. There's a whole world out there that will support you and your move. As time moves on, we will look back and say, "wow, I was so lucky to experience the love." Forgive yourself, be someone that makes you happy. :)

[@thaivue7076]

Still the best wong fu video ever made, brings me so much memories. Sad to see how fast time flies, but at the same time, happy that I've started my own family, have a home, cars, and a stable job. Regardless, of horrible past experience or memorable experience, I've come to appreciate what occurred. Which made me the person I am today.

[@morphfitness2355]

I remember watching this after my break up with my gf I was with for 5 years at the time. It's highly relatable. 3years has passed since then. It was really rough for me at first, but I would clearly remember the last words of this film. Now looking back I truly am grateful for what my past life with her created and I can truly say Im thankful for that. Thanks for being that support and putting things in perspective for me. WONG FU 4 LIFE!!!

[@janinediaz1321]

Pasangarang I wish I can say the same. It took us seven years and another woman before we reached the final stage. It's been seven months and it gets easier. But I can't say that I'm thankful for our time together..

[@c.golden5796]

Just got out of a six year relationship... the steps in the video are spot-on. You can't help but wonder where everything started to go wrong. I don't ever want to go through that pain again.

[@freddiex4342]

How are you feeling now?

[@angramainyu267]

this short film is timeless..... transcends time.... watched this 6 yrs ago.... then pass forward is already 2018 and still its the best one out there.... thanks wongfu.... :)

[@saizchi]

It's crazy how much channels like Communitychannel and Wong Fu influenced my life in 2011. Just a couple months after this aired, I finally found the courage to leave a dead end relationship and get help for my depression.

[@justinkarumathy688]

Im at stage error 404

[@icedoutelite]

should go see a doctor if that's the case man.

[@ImDaRealBoi]

800 likes, congrats

[@shook198]

Stage error 404 when you're online dating someone, lmao.

[@2pasadena8finest1]

I'm from the hood, I've seen a lot of horrible stuff, i've done a lot of horrible stuff. I fell so different and outcast at times. However... When I see these videos with thousands of people relating to them... I feel like least of an outcast and more like a human being. I wish I can share these feelings I feel with my friends, but they're the typical hood stereotype, tough, mean, and strong. I like to take solace in the internet... because on here, they're so many people who understand me; event if they don't speak to me. Thank you wong fu productions, u understand, and thank you wong fu fans, you understand as well.

[@justinquan9963]

"Noramlly, I'll let that slide, but I'm having a bad day too; SO WHAT'D YOU SAY?!?!"

[@willful9387]

I remember watching this in middle school when I proclaimed myself as some sort of hopeless romantic or something along those lines. I told myself I'd always run after the girl after a fight when I grew up and had a relationship because I thought that's what should be done. Well, the unfortunate part is that middle school me never thought about how hard it is to have a relationship, how after so long together with someone creates a certain level of resentment that - if left unaddressed - will destroy the relationship over time; like water eroding the earth. So many fights later and now I'm here. One hundred miles away from home (not too far in the grand scheme of things) and realizing that I'm no longer happy in my relationship. Every visit led to a fight. Doesn't matter who started it, only that damage has been done and I don't think either of us is willing to repair it. I suppose finding this video again made me realize that it's time to let go. I don't know. It's three in the morning here and it's just sad boy hours but I think getting this off my chest helps my swallow the reality of the situation I guess?

[@madisonlor7756]

I'm crying. I hope I'm not the only one.

[@NinaDreamer21]

Madison Lor i think me and my bf are in downhill stage

[@melodyc5834]

im sure u r not thr only one

[@noimoovy]

Madison Lor you're not trust me I looked like this at the end of the video😭

[@datfatninja8876]

I'm crying too

[@Psychetwo]

Saw this video long ago before I got into any relationships and didn't cry. Recently went through a very painful break up. Saw this video pop up in my recommendations. Decided to watch it, this time I cried like crazy! But it's still good to know that this is part of life and not all relationship will work no matter how much you like each other. Just gotta try your best to stay positive and move forward with life.

[@Tragiczna510]

And here i am, after a break up, sitting here, looking at this video without any feeling. The break up killed all my feeling already :))

[@rollyeballe9634]

Tragiczna510 i feel you! 😂

[@elenarosi5184]

Me too man... I feel you

[@unque7nana]

watched this the first time when I was single and thought it was a neat video. 6 months later I got into my first serious relationship and went through the same thing. 5 years into the relationship we're now strangers again, except it shouldn't be this painful to miss a stranger the way I miss him. Now I fully understand the video, 5 years too late

[@beanvan99]

Eva Nguyen right?!

[@alexkg1]

I can relate to this. Despite all of us wanting to be in a relationship when we're single, the fact is that relationships are hard and you have to continuously work at it. If it ever stops feeling like you're trying, then you're not.

[@kikiw7907]

this is one of the most well written scripts on youtube

[@kr_friedchicken]

You know you’re strangers again when your ex girlfriend/boyfriend says, “Let’s catch up some time!”

[@amayaanime08]

I'm in a public place, and I think there were three times that I wanted to let out some tears during this video. Not gonna lie, it was hard mentally holding them back. Thank you for writing such a realistic situation.

[@IuanColeYoung]

watched this 8 years ago. didn't quite get it. And now unfortunately, I do.

[@remaong4023]

Welcome to adult world 😌👍🏻

[@Dittozkul]

Pretty much the biggest thing is to NEVER take someone you care about for granted. No one is an exception to that

[@lkyangyang]

5 years ago, this video was like a guidebook, a reminder. 5 years later, I'm shedding tears over this video alone, again. Now that she's chosen to leave for another guy.

[@vajmango]

Did you see the ending of their relationship? No, not stage 7 break up, but the part where the guy ran after her while she was in her car just to be the bigger person by letting go of his pride and apologizing because the relationship is much more valuable than trying to be the one who's always right. Its actually about not giving up just because things are at stage 6, Downhill. You DON'T have to be strangers again but you gotta be strong enough to keep trying just as Phil apologized and Kathy forgave. Never forget that stage 7 could be getting married, not breaking up.

[@icelleclemen5671]

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[@here2thrive]

I’ve watched this 4 times, once as a little kid only thinking about how wong fu productions was one of the coolest KZbin channel ideas. Second while I was in a relationship thinking, it’s sad how people grow apart, that’ll never happen to us. Third, a short amount of time after breakup, thinking, if only I prevented it from going bad just like how he showed us he could have done. And once many years later when we both probably haven’t thought about each other for a while, yet this brings up the good and the bad, the challenging and the best parts. It’s not easy being just grateful and nothing else, but I’m not in denial anymore. Life may seem unfair at times, but it’s comforting that we have these experiences in common to connect and grow.

[@austinwallace5993]

Oh my god. I remember this so vividly. I watched this when I was 13 years old and I'm now 18.

[@bravadious1]

this video is amazing, I've seen all 7 stages happen in a time span as little as 4 months... everything about it is so true. somewhere along the line someone stops trying... and just like a quote i seen in a movie "the power of the relationship lies with the one who cares the least "

[@JegoMyEgg0]

5 years later, and tears are still being shed. good stuff.

[@blurbmusic1507]

"I think if life seperates us and we end up in totally different placess we'll always remember when our paths aligned for this period of time and I'll thankful for that and hope wherever you are you'll be thankful too and that's the best we can do." ----- this line brings so much tears and let us all felt so hollow

[@huntershields8962]

I hope Wong fu knows how much they have meant to me threw the years, 7 YEARS LATER and still one of my favorite videos on the internet

[@mayurahire8081]

I never been in a relationship yet still i this story touches my heart. WHY?

[@masonjones954]

+Mayur Ahire I havent been in a relationship either but this still gets me too. I think its cause people like us just understand the feelings of others

[@Alter2786]

+Mason Jones true maybe we feel what they feel after a break up love is so complex it's even harder if you are married if you are truly in love it's best to love one each other, let's say you are married right and you had a baby but the relationship is well not doing fine the reason they stay together is because they try to keep there love for the baby and to be honest it's hard I haven't been there yet but I am not sure if I want to. Sometimes you just have to accept what life gives you either it's good or bad they is always a way to get back together even thou you broken up love is complex sometimes it's a journey of mystery for others but the journey has began when you meant that person it's hard but you will figure it out when you single not all love begun with a happy ending some are darker then this but sometimes you have to give up for the both of you ❤️💔

[@joegee7731]

Ikr

[@felicityfoo6240]

same here

[@InspiredManiac]

There are many ways of experience. Sometimes, watching something happen has a greater impact than actually living through it. A simple example of that is watching a friend fighting with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend. You will remember it, perhaps out of worry for the friend. They will probably forget all about it the same evening.

[@itsmeelise]

This is so accurate, and still relevant in 2018

[@tulips_7]

Elise Ever After exactly..!!

[@jessicazager28]

:'(

[@PrakharPi]

holy '19

[@localstr1ker]

It's Me, Elise 2019!

[@honesttruth817]

It's Me, Elise Relevant in 2028

[@Arturian.music.official]

Great production. I learned two secrets along the way. True love begins after the fire. And Love is a verb.

[@Sturtma]

Stunning and powerful piece of work! It made more of a connection with the average person in 16 minutes than any feature length film has in years. Everyone involved with this is a true artist.

[@itsayes6954]

Just had a break up and the scene where the girl ask the guy about marriage and break up is spot on. It's really hard for girls to directly ask the guy if he wants to marry her so we girls often ask indirectly. And when the guy didn't answer the way the girl wants I think that's the time she starts to give up. Totally like my story. I just hope I'll find the guy who would love me enough to think of marrying me.

[@Vladimir5024]

I do not really understand people who start relationship with someone they are not planning on marrying at some point and growing old with. I mean, if it was all about sex then....what does it say about the person, or both of them. Nothing good if you ask me. Pointless relationship. I know people make mistakes and that you can not really know if things will work out or not, but what happened to respect? What happened to loyalty? Is it really that hard to just say sorry I was wrong lets try to better ourselves, I want to grow old with you? In a relationship you let yourself be vulnerable. You let that other person be your other half, they literally have the power (that you gave them) to ruin you. And how can you just pretend it never happened. It just does not hit me.... What is the point of relationships then? Is it not better to just be "friends with benefits" and be just like every other basic guy or basic girl out there? I do not know. P.S. Sorry that I replied to your comment It is nothing personal I just had the urge to comment and now that I realize I replied to your comment it seems like to much effort to actually ctrl+c and ctrl+v up there.

[@iamjoycemac]

So true.

[@LT808HI]

Vladimir Roganovic I have a friend that keeps saying maybe I should stay with this guy. Maybe I’ll learn to love him. She started seeing a guy she didn’t really like but because she had no one she was telling herself maybe on day I’ll grow feelings. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. Basically she was just lonely and using this guy thinking she will grow feelings. Ugh

[@Vladimir5024]

L T That is just insane. People do not even know what they live for anymore...

[@captaingenius-o1c]

@@Vladimir5024 yep...today's relationships, for the most part are--in order---1. SEX, 2. Sex, 3. SEx, 4. and sex.....Girls FEEL something, so they keep dropping their pants for the SAME type of guy....Then 10 or 12 guys later, they still can't figure out why NONE of them LASTED...Then they approach their mid 30's, and FINALLY, they want a NICE guy, because their BIOLOGICAL clock is going off, and he will PAY THE BILLS...........smh

[@angelal2961]

This absolutely broke my heart. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and if we go down this path, I don't know what I'd do with myself.

[@shervana6572]

Everything happens for a reason, It'll all turn out ok I promise❤️

[@lilypad9335]

My name is also Angela and hi I'm very much single. Mostly because I tend to sabotage relationships because this is exactly what i'm afraid of. Afraid of getting too close, for too long, and losing them and not being able to handle the pain. I can tell you i'm not happy because of it, so whatever you've got going that's good-cherish it

[@shervana6572]

Lily Pad Same here 😔

[@lilypad9335]

aweee

[@adriant.7457]

All you gotta do is not put pressure on him marrying you. As simple as that. Just live the moment. :-D

[@i5C0R3Pi0N]

I watched and saved this video 11 years before, that's when I was seeing this girl. Fast forward, we've been together for ten years before she broke up with me. Everything that happenend in that video happenend to me. That's literally insane. I hope she's happy where ever she might be. I still gotta heal and process everything since I lost the love of my life. Thanks for everything, Ally.

[@JaysonHoang14]

You’re a great dude. Hope you’re doing well 11 months later, may you have a great day and many more.

[@MsDueces01]

Literally bawling my eyes out... Better love story than Twilight

[@VangTime1111]

Yezmam'am the feelz and wayy better

[@Mystereevan]

What isn't a better love story than twilight? lol

[@RockDavid]

lol

[@captnmorgan7410]

The birds and the bees is a better love story than twilight.

[@noodlenchen6240]

And here am I at the honeymoon stage hoping that my relationship will be different.

[@emilyelizabeth7340]

noodlenchen ; how is it now

[@shark_llama]

I remember watching this before I’d even dated someone. Now, it’s been six months since I broke up with my first boyfriend. It’s so different watching it now. I really do sometimes question if we ever really even had anything. But I have my box.

[@mickeyj4996]

Same but for me it applies to a friendship

[@gamessdean3751]

I love coming back to this Chanel after 11 years. Beautiful. Always.

[@joshuachin964]

Just breakup with my girl about a month ago, still cannot get over her. She was my first love, and we had been together for 4.75 years. I was a selfish person, she was such a caring, innocent, and cute girl who had sacrificed a lot for me. How I wish I proposed to her earlier, or made changes for her when she still believed in me. I let her down too many times until a point that no matter what I do, she just can't trust me anymore. I regret and hate myself. Never take your loved one for granted, she's human too..when she's had enough, you are the one who will regret the rest of your life. I love you, Summer.

[@joshuachin964]

Kim Okhuysen thanks for sharing your story. Indeed, what you said is very true. I'm feeling better now, though I still think about her everyday especially at night when I'm alone, and sometimes I just couldn't control myself but to text her. Though I didn't get what I hope for every single time. I still hate myself for letting her go, there is just too much memory between us. I'm trying hard to stay positive and improve myself, picking up new hobbies, doing things that I was afraid or reluctant to do. Hopefully one day when I bump into her, we will at least say hi to each other. Anyway, I hope you will be fine, all the best! =D

[@rickoy.z6066]

hits too close to home brother.. you have just written the last 3 years of my life. It's hard to look at people after she leaves you for someone better.

[@gerardogutierrez9591]

I feel you brother, sometimes you have to pull the trigger no matter where you point that gun.

[@jayquintero4463]

I'm experiencing that currently..except I was engaged yet I couldn't be enough.

[@jayquintero4463]

Alex Wong M H I feel your pain

[@doninicanspirit]

THIS CHANNEL IS EITHER REALLY FUNNY OR REALLY DEEP I LOVE IT

[@st_shai]

I have a love hate going on for this film. I love it because it gives me a coping mechanism. It tells me that through it all I'm alright in the end. I hate it because it somehow dictates how my relationship would be like. It tells me that it's either this or that. I've based my relationship on this film and right now I'm regretting it. It's not either or. There's always a middle ground where you find yourself happy despite the arguments and despite the fear. If you love each other then it shouldn’t be about the stages. It's about the journey. It's about what you two are able to go through given the circumstances. Don't worry about the stages. Don't worry about what the future holds. Enjoy the present and live life. I hate that I have used this film to dictate my love life. I wish I didn't. And maybe, just maybe I would be in a different circumstance.

[@amazinc754]

So true!

[@Hfsm33]

This video remains one of the best representations of what it is like to be in a relationship and fall out of love... it's so well done.

[@ClaireFulmerAnyaHeirkoya]

Gah my feels...had tears down my face...That feeling...strangers again...oh man. It's so hard. It's been over a year now, but someday...I hope it will be easier. I'm just glad I can be thankful for the time we had, and not resent it.

[@ClaireFulmerAnyaHeirkoya]

Thank you. :)

[@PlanetToasti]

I think some of us had that relationship in our mind as he was going through the stages and that really makes you feel terrible, plus you realize how true it is o_o

[@ericka7341]

The fact that my ex introduced me to this video and now were strangers again

[@edithcaceres4392]

Ericka same... 😔

[@FuelledByKanin]

Ericka and she looks like cathy nguyen 😭

[@codemelo9150]

Anybody watching this in 2019? Im having similar problems with my relationship and this video made me realize what I have been doing wrong and why we're going downhill. This video made me motivated so much that I finally found the solution to fix it to keep my relationship longer and healthier. Thanks wongfu production for making this video. Really helps me a lot.

[@yerangmukja]

This is too real.

[@mehdiSupp]

Wow your picture fits your comment... this is making me sad :(

[@TarzansDad]

A friend of mine recommended this to me after I told him I broke up with my girlfriend of four years. It was an amazing four years. I only wish it lasted a lifetime. This short film was great!

[@cautiouscoconut2327]

TarzansDad why did you break up with her then lmao

[@jonothandoeser]

You cried.

[@Dancediva240]

Why did u break up if it was so amazing? You are just saying amazing in hindsight right? When you were together u may have thought it was just getting in your way.

[@loveislove2359]

^ People do things they regret all the time

[@zephonyx6204]

Cautious Coconut just because it was amazing doesn’t mean it was right.

[@mrssweetcupcake]

4years later but the feels stay the same every time I watch this

[@cherii20075]

Somehow this showed up back on my feed.. I don't think I've watched it again since it first came out. Definitely hits different after having been in relationships and experiencing real heartbreak. Seeing and feeling the progression of your own relationship, in hindsight, it's easy to feel regret or remorse, longing for what was so good at the beginning. I really enjoyed the message at the end and it's something I've held onto over the years. It's very hard to have that mindset in the throes of heartbreak as your whole life is rearranged. Trying to fill that hole that's left when that once special person in your life leaves is never easy.. Even though I'm in a happy relationship now and it's been more than 2 years since we said goodbye for the last time (he broke up with me and then we had a year of keeping in touch / leaving it open.. it ended badly).. but watching this again it placed me right back in that phase of my life. It's crazy how strong and powerful memories, videos, can be. Wong Fu is such a gift & it's carried me over the years. This one hits hard & will continue to do so, thank you!!

[@squirreljester2]

I love how it was the guy who had to make the compromises, who had to come back and try to salvage things from the fight, who was the only one trying to make it work, and how the girl was the first to move on, seemingly very quickly, never giving the relationship a second thought, and showing it in their meetings after the breakup.

[@MsGodluvsme]

I think that's what he meant by when one person stops making an effort in stage 5 I think. So in this case it was him, in some other cases it could be her. But yes you are right!

[@MsGodluvsme]

No arguments here, agreed!

[@smeliscave]

and i'm just sitting here, watching this and feeling feels

[@RJandPAULA]

I miss old youtube videos like this... what ever happened to youtube now a days!? 😢 Bring back the oldies please 😊

[@RJTroncoso]

RJ and PAULA I think you have to sign up for KZbin Red. They still make mini episodes there.

[@paulinejade8019]

RJTroncoso really!? Is it free?

[@alicianicole299]

RJ and PAULA free for the first month

[@rosannadomingo5225]

This was the very first video I ever seen from WongFu. Like many I at the time was going through the hardest break up . I cried like a baby while watching it. I'm glad I came across you guys because you have grown so much in making videos. Thanks WongFu!

[@JAN2MARS]

I feel like the stages discussed in this video can be applied to friendships and relationships in general and not just romances. Kinda crazy how relevant this all is.

[@ngocgialam8867]

This video is so realistic and I really liked the acting between the two leads. They were great and Cathy is really cute and pretty! I was in a relationship for 6 years and that's basically exactly what had happened lol Once it gets to the tolerance stage, it's pretty much done. Some couples can fix it and pull through, but that takes so much energy and effort, not saying it won't work, I just don't think it's worth it sometimes. Once you know it's over, just leave...don't drag it out and have it linger...you'll just be lonelier that way. I wish I had ended it earlier instead of dragging out the tolerance stage but I guess you live and you learn.

[@AndyAngelZ]

Jia Yu Lin wow 6 years, i could probably break that record with you if you'd like :) lol jk

[@jacquelingonzales4860]

I agree with you. Its difficult when it comes to having tolerance. But if two people truly love each other they'll find a way but if they can't letting go is for the best.

[@ngocgialam8867]

Jacquelin Gonzales Yeah honestly, you'll know when it's time to leave or to hold on. Your heart will let you know when it's the right time to leave. I am really glad I left. So much happier now but yeah...break ups at first are really hard but you'll get over it, move on and learn how to be happy and live again.

[@jacquelingonzales4860]

Jia Yu Lin​ That's really good that you are much happier. It's best to leave than stay.

[@tylertalksproduction]

Jia Yu Lin You know, your comment really helped me. Had my first break up today, was together for a little over a year. What you said is true, it feels much better after it's over rather than dragging it on. Thank you so much for the words!

[@Venomien]

You stole a few of my tears i want them back. Seriously though this is amazing.

[@kingfischurrr]

I showed this to the love of my life many years ago. Now, we're just strangers again. Such is life.