elyse's description of the struggle to figure out the right way to relax so you don't waste the time set aside for relaxing, thus ruining the time that was set aside for relaxing b/c you spent all of it worrying about how to properly relax...is the most relatable thing i've heard all week. :)
@sfr2107 Жыл бұрын
Disappointingly relatable lol. I'm experiencing it as I watch
@christinearianna2424 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Im always trying to do this ❤
@breblizz4321 Жыл бұрын
It was oddly comforting to hear someone else explain the way I feel on the daily when my friends don’t really understand
@Reesispiecis Жыл бұрын
I have ruined years of weekends and days off with this exact anxiety.
@nicolesaintdenis Жыл бұрын
It's not stupid it's REAL. The need to be and feel productive all the time is some deep rooted childhood trauma and self worth work needs to be done. Healing is hard and you're amazing for sharing honest life
@cherylfielitz4265 Жыл бұрын
"Good things come from breathing room." This. So much this.
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
does anyone else find elyse to be like the best anxiety blanket? I come here to feel like I've got a warm fuzzy blanket around me. I laugh, I smile, i find joy through her content. just the best.
@eviesabo4871 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!
@lisakukla459 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@Amandcr Жыл бұрын
I just don't feel alone in my struggles
@pennythomas2016 Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@breblizz4321 Жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@Em-wanderlust2 жыл бұрын
I could watch Elyse fold laundry and still be enthralled. Your videos bring me so much joy.
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
This is so nice! Thank you so much for being here!!
@crystalcorley2182 жыл бұрын
I completely agree!!
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
lol SAME! it doesnt even matter what it is, but i know for sure it will be comforting.
@megmagruder7124 Жыл бұрын
Comfort
@TheEllen9948 ай бұрын
I watch Elyse while doing laundry and she brings me so much joy
@ItsFreshItsAnne10 ай бұрын
Holy smokes I needed to hear and see the real time feels of certain things. Ive never watched another person ACTUALLY going through exactly what i do withcertain things. Elyse, what youve done and created is so pure and beautiful and tremendously helpful to someone like me, trying to learn and understand my "stuff"
@elyse_myers9 ай бұрын
This is so kind 🥹 thank you for your encouragement! It’s scary putting myself out there on the internet like this and comments like this make it all worth it!
@melliecrow1091 Жыл бұрын
I hold my hair in my mouth when styling it. I've never seen anyone else do that. It made me so happy to see that I'm not the only one.
@thaliawhisperwind40132 жыл бұрын
Your videos are such a safe place for me. As someone else who deals with a lot of those trauma responses it isn’t easy, and watching you be gentle with yourself really helps me to do the same! Also as a fellow artist who has a hard time believing in my music and the book I’m writing, thank you for lighting that spark again.
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
I love this so much!!!
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
It is so amazing to see comments that are the same way that I feel! You are not alone, friend!
@tracybingham7739 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh the moment Elyse said she was calm from the more chaotic shows I literally said yes!! Then when she mentioned how it’s a trauma response my heart sank and I said yes again. I’ve been putting off completing the new patient paperwork for a therapist and now I know I have to get it done today 😢
@madmommy Жыл бұрын
There is so much to process in this video, but can I just say that your death by excitement at the end was epic? As was that song.
@matilde-roseandre15342 жыл бұрын
Saying goodbye house (and hello house) is a quintessential part of going on holiday and staying at an Airbnb IMO.
@merbear7112 жыл бұрын
Elyse, I cannot begin to tell you how much of a shining gem you are in a world full of so many boring grey rocks. You remind me so much of myself-and in the best way possible. Parts of myself I forgot about, or thought I needed to stop/lose because I'm a wife and mom now, or that got lost in the shuffle of everyday life as a mom and as a professional patient (I am disabled/chronically ill/chronically in pain /etc. when my sons at school I take care of me and am forever in a damn doctors office... And when he's not, I take care of him, my husband and if there's time... myself). I forget that that me is the me that my husband wanted to be his wife. Not this dulled down boring version of myself I've let myself turn into. Since I got tiktok 6 months ago and found you and been listening and trying to live the words you've inspired me with.... I decided it's time to love myself again. My husband has also been inspired to do such. I mean, hell, just those 3 simple words "go find less" helped me out of what was the worst depression I've ever been through in my 35 years. And now.... We're finally actively trying for our second baby and not just talking about like we did for SIX years, we're going out doing things we love as a family on a weekly basis instead of what felt like an annual basis, we're actively looking for our dream house in our dream state.... I guess by reading all that back the takeaway is we are ACTIVELY LIVING our lives again instead of passively wishing things were different. We've stopped waiting for the right time- because how do we even know what the right time looks like anyhow?. And as cheesy as it sounds.... Youve had a big hand in that, and so... Thank you. You're changing the world Elyse Myers, and I am here for it... Front row and center, Cheering you on. ❤️
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful and I can’t thank you enough for sharing this with me!!!
@merbear7112 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers thank you for replying. ❤️ This made my day. And if by chance you are ever in Anchorage Alaska... I'd love to take you to lunch or coffee ♥️
@tracybingham7739 Жыл бұрын
@merbear711 Your comment just brought tears to my eyes. I’m so happy you have found Elyse but more importantly that you’ve decided to actually live. I totally understand your entire comment and I too have been actively participating after so long on the side lines. I’m in chronic pain myself and I know how much it takes out of me but thankfully my kids are grown now. I will be cheering you on as I cheer myself on not to lapse back into a spectator ever again!
@merbear711 Жыл бұрын
@@tracybingham7739 thank you so much for the beautiful comment. It's funny how life changes in a year. To update from my last comment - - like Elyse, I am pregnant with my second child. We're expecting a little girl in December. Our 9 year old son is thrilled. He's been asking for a baby sister since he was 3. We've all 3 started therapy to make sure we have an outlet in hopes of avoiding falling into as deep a depression as I was in prior (I hadn't realize how deeply my depression effected both my husband and son too). And while I'll always deal with chronic pain and my disabilities I find myself pushing through more than I used to so I can enjoy the little things more and not miss out on as many bigger things. Life seems to have brightened and bloomed so much in the last year. ❤️😍
@linseylouwho2 жыл бұрын
Elyse, I’m so glad you talked about the “2pm scaries!” I feel this and on the weekends it’s so hard for me to not feel anxious about time I have that isn’t already decided for me. It’s so validating to hear that you deal with this too. Love this! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
It's SUCH a real place!! I'm glad I'm not alone in that!
@mromak30862 жыл бұрын
2 pm...omg....yes. me too
@distractedcolorist2 жыл бұрын
Omg. Thank you! Yes to all of this 😭💛
@RiriR32802 жыл бұрын
I have the 24 hr scaries. Seems like it at least. I have to find a way to Manage everything all over again. I love you and thank you for sharing!
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
Yes! It is a very real thing. It's like my brain and my body knows its coming so sometimes this frozen feelin will set in and then I realize I've autopiloted for 45 minutes questioning everything about life lol, then after my mid morning red bull experience wears off and I feel a little less like that. But Elyse content always pulls me back and makes me feel human and also that we're all normal and people who DON"T feel like that are the not normal folks. lol
@drdac-ey2uu Жыл бұрын
Dude as a fellow OCD’er, thank you so much for this editing style. I love seeing you call out the struggle emotions (doubt, guilt, overwhelm blah blah) it’s pretty grounding for me because I will ruminate on those feelings forever. But seeing you give it a whole 5 second mention after you work really put into perspective for me how much time I “waste” rolling around in those feelings. Idk if that makes sense, I’ve been feeling very kindred spirit with your content from a mental health/illness perspective.
@elyse_myers9 ай бұрын
This totally makes sense!!! I would like to mention that it only makes up a small portion of this video but it takes up a lot more time in my own mind. So please don’t be hard on yourself if you feel like it takes up more of your brain space than it “should”! ♥️
@REDwuzhere Жыл бұрын
I had no idea you sing too. I'm so glad I've discovered you. Not like a pioneer discovering Alaska kind of a thing. But more like, a European colonizer who walks in and sees all these amazing different people and gorgeous things and says: "This, this is mine now." I'm assimilating all of your content into my personal self. Thank you very much.
@promisedjubileedaniels Жыл бұрын
Whispers in the break room: MY WORLDS COLLIDE!!!! MY FAVORITE PODCAST AND MY FAVORITE SHORT CREATOR?!?!! Yesssssss!!!
@maddiesmith18072 жыл бұрын
It’s SO comforting to know that other neurodivergent people struggle with anxiety over properly using free/“me time” and the 2pm scaries - it’s beyond validating to hear about that shared experience, and makes me feel less alone in that space. Thank you for your honesty and openness - the world needs more of that! Also, they should have you on the podcast or something. Just saying… ;)
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
I love this group of people that come on to channels like Elyses and share their vulnerabilities and find comfort in the shared experience!
@amyh28882 жыл бұрын
I’m just so proud of everything you do!! I’m 47 and you help me in so many ways!! First of all I NEEDED to hear someone say “Go find less.” You have given me permission to just be myself with no caveats! Thank you!!!
@jordantoronto8632 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!! And I’m 47 too! Here’s to 47 year olds being themselves with no caveats!!! 🎉👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@sfr2107 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@linontheinternet Жыл бұрын
i relate so much to your anxieties about being productive or "wasting the day" by not relaxing the "right" way
@jodyjsperling2 жыл бұрын
Really fun video! The Mill is great! Also, loved your reflections on stressing about relaxing "right".
@felicitybarron1039 Жыл бұрын
I know this is an older video but at a time where everything in life feels completely out of control and I cry uncontrollably… your videos give me a few minutes a peace and smiles and sometimes tears, yes… but always happy ones! You’re slowly helping me be kinder to myself. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
@muselover282 жыл бұрын
I love your long-form content! I'm really glad it's something you enjoy doing because I reeeeaaally enjoy watching it! You keep me sane in these emotionally difficult times. Thank you for existing!
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
I love that my content can do that for you. So so cool for me read this. Thank you!
@muselover282 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers "This is not real... What is happening?!?!?" 🤯 You're so awesome! Hope you enjoy the rest of the day with your family💙
@emiliewentworth10112 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers I love these videos!!! They are so relaxing and fun! And you are SO talented!!!! Please don't ever change! You Inspire this 35 yr old lady! Haha 🤣🤣❤️❤️
@BrookeLSmith2 жыл бұрын
I found you and your content a week after my fiancé died, which was two weeks before our wedding, and you have really pulled me through ❤️❤️
@KarinLynnBates2 жыл бұрын
My condolences for your loss- how hard and sad. I’m so glad you are finding comfort in things like Elyse’s work. Isn’t she wonderful? I hope you will feel much support and experience many kindnesses in the months ahead. Sending love your way. ❤️
@BrookeLSmith2 жыл бұрын
@@KarinLynnBates thank you so much for your kind words!! She truly is amazing!! I look forward to all the work she produces!! But thank you again so much ❤️
@brianmalone33762 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine how awful that must have been. I’m happy you’ve found Elyse and that she is a light in the darkness for all!
@elyse_myers9 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh. I’m just seeing this now, one year later, and I wish I could go back in time and give you a hug the day you left this comment. I’m so honored something like a video of mine could give you peace in such a horribly difficult season of your life. Thank you for sharing this with me. I hope, a year later, you’re finding more and more healing in your life! ❤
@BrookeLSmith9 ай бұрын
@@elyse_myers thank you so much. I can’t believe you even saw it!! To this day you bring me so many laughs and I am so appreciative. ❤
@invisiblespirit54762 жыл бұрын
I don’t usually tell people when I have dreams about them because, well, it creeps them out. But I’m going to tell you anyway. I had this dream that I left a comment on one of your videos and since you related to it, you showed up at my house unexpectedly. The doorbell rang and when I opened the door you just gave me a huge hug. Like the kind of hug I’d been waiting for my whole life. I just thought you should know that’s how you make people feel. ♥️
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful I’m actually crying 🥹🥹🥹 Thank you so much for sharing this with me!!! It means so much!!!!!
@nataliesoutlet2 жыл бұрын
This is so interesting Elyse. I definitely need to try a little creative retreat myself. Thank you for sharing your process
@sfr2107 Жыл бұрын
Same. I need a workaround until I can afford it as well 🤭
@jordantoronto8632 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh, how I know that feeling of “not wanting to waste” moments. And wow, I hear you about the “2:00pm scaries” and that “weekends are hard.” Oh my, you’re speaking to me!!!!! 😆🥰
@fairyoracle9086 Жыл бұрын
Elyse, I love how you normalize so many things. And showing that your plate was clean is so relatable for kids who were not allowed to leave the table until they ate all their food. I did content creating under a different channel name, and the bigger it got the more I doubted myself. So relatable that you question yourself through the whole process then have that horrible dread after it’s recorded. I felt that so much. As a Neuro diverse woman who was creating content on my special interest “knitting” I found myself trying to create content like the neuro typicals and that just was never a gate post I could pass! You’re videos are amazing and so inspiring. I may record again, but for now I’m stuck in the pre contemplation stage. Thank you for all you do!
@alexandrakettner2 жыл бұрын
RIP Elyse I can’t believe you died, then walked out of the air bnb and edited this video in the afterlife- we stan a talented ghost 💕
@mariezguitar50292 жыл бұрын
I was reading this comment before the end of the video and I was devastated. But I kept watching while reading other comments. Then everything became clear. Phew!
@realtalkswitharedhead2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@realtalkswitharedhead2 жыл бұрын
@@mariezguitar5029 😂😂😂😂😂
@HolisticHomemaker Жыл бұрын
I had to stop and watch the end first after reading this 😅
@breblizz4321 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving me a heart attack for a second!
@sarahmcelrea65562 жыл бұрын
I’m a mom and a business owner so it took me an entire 24 hours to finish this video but I’m so glad I did! Thank you for sharing this journey and being vulnerable about the guilt that comes when doing things like this for ourselves.
@CAbornTXraised2 жыл бұрын
I have the same problem watching longer videos myself. If you click the little gear icon you can actually change the speed of the video so that you can watch the full thing in last time. Just a little tip from a single mom who’s also running a business lol
@Ganja_bee Жыл бұрын
Omg Elyse ! I thought I was the only one that couldn't have my husband look at me when I take photos or record or whatever. 😂 they are so patient with us ❤
@cassielawyer876 ай бұрын
Holy cow, if I went on a mini vacation alone I’d have the most anxiety I’ve ever felt in my entire life. My husband and baby are my safety blankets. The fact that you even did this in the first place is an accomplishment in my mind.
@chantaldesnoyers2 жыл бұрын
It is strangely reassuring to know I'm not the only one 😌 that has moments of anxiety related to down time or using a camera/filming in public. I love your sense of humour and vulnerability in everything you post. (leaving this comment is giving me anxiety 😆)
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
Oh absolutely not!! Idk if I’ll ever get used to this but I can surely take you along for the journey as I continue to be uncomfortable but do it anyways! 😂❤️
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
I feel the same! it is reassuring to know that going through those moments are actually normal, and even though it feels isolating, we can know that we are not alone! I love Elyse and i love the community that she has established, they are just the best folks out there.
@juliana.x0x0 Жыл бұрын
It's so crazy how much you look and act like my sisters and I. The anxiety and overwhelm and avoidance and self doubt and trauma responses and humor and even the musical and artistic side. My sisters are the only family I stay in contact with, and they live over 3,000 miles away, and watching your content makes me feel like I'm with two of the dearest and most wonderful women I know. You'd fit right in with us. Thanks for sharing who you are with the world!
@Kimreynolds-t5s7 ай бұрын
That was fantastic. I don’t have a creative bone in my body. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into your world!
@sarahsomm2 жыл бұрын
While I'm not a content creator, per say, I'm a full time dance teacher and choreographer! I've played around with the idea of going on a creativity retreat for a weekend just to, well, CREATE! Thank you for sharing your experience and helping me make the decision that it's totally worth it. You're wonderful and keep doing what you're doing!
@mirandabarnes13532 жыл бұрын
I’m laughing so hard about the nose shadow. Love that you notice the little things and are able to laugh at them. 😂😂
@kimhall91712 жыл бұрын
I used to live in Lincoln and my MIL sent some cookies from Warm Cookies for my birthday. They are so good!! It is such a fun treat to have show up at your door.
@kay_tee_wilson4 ай бұрын
You’re the most comforting creator. Helps so much with my anxiety. You’re helping so many people ❤
@EricaLucasLoves2 жыл бұрын
Anxiety about relaxing the “right” way is so real. Thank you for saying that!
@chantaldesnoyers2 жыл бұрын
BTW I love that when you come back with your chocolat, you make your coffee while still having your purse on your shoulder. You are my kind of people. Coffee before comfort! 😜
@EvanLuke35 ай бұрын
I love that you show the good and the anxious moments with us. I know all too well what anxiety feels like. You are very brave to show up on the internet and reveal all that you are going through. I love you for that. I also think you are very, very talented!! You made that little song and made it so awesome!!! WOW!!! Be proud of yourself Elyse! You are a force! Don’t ever forget that!!!❤❤❤
@SweevosWife3252 жыл бұрын
Awesome Elyse!! We just love you in our house!! Never stop being you! 💜💜💜
@heidikamrath1951 Жыл бұрын
It is beautiful!
@ToWhenTFor242 жыл бұрын
This was so chill and calming and validating to watch. Been learning a bit more about my own anxieties lately and listening to someone else explain theirs in such a relatable way was really nice. And on another note, you have such a lovely voice! Angela nailed it: you are so crazy talented.
@MandyBarry Жыл бұрын
Anxiety is such an interesting thing to go through, its scary and can make you feel very outside of yourself, but its also has helped me lean into growth. It has taught me more about the mind body connection and now when anxiety comes, I'm able to talk to it, acknowledge that my body is trying to tell me something, and helps me focus on the present and to regulate.
@karentompkins63062 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed watching your thought process and you putting your ideas into content. I also love “Whispers in the Break room!”
@rchic09 Жыл бұрын
I love that you are tender to yourself. A Mother caring for your person inwardly. Love it and keep it up ❤
@ChantelleBrown-fb7gy7 ай бұрын
I've been trying to find the right word to describe you......endearing! You are so smart but not afraid to be childlike or show your insecurities and it just makes you a wonderful person to watch and aspire to be like! You are precious! ( I'm a mom! LoL!)
@BeyTobi2 жыл бұрын
All of this is brilliant. It feels just like hanging out with an old friend. Oh, and Whispers in the Break Room is fantastic 😍 Thanks for all you create, Elyse!
@HeartFilledHomemaking Жыл бұрын
Hi there! I'm new here and I just have to say that you are the VERY FIRST person to perfectly describe how I feel when it comes to filming in private,, relaxing, time crunch, pressure, and expectations, aka- 2:00 scaries. I had to give up caffeine but I EAT CHOCOLATE CHIPS. Thank you. I don't feel as weird now and seeing how you power through gives me hope and motivation to keep going.
@annettecortescains90208 ай бұрын
My favorite was watching you record the song and how excited you were when it was finished. I shared in your joy because that is a great feeling. I also know the feeling where you won’t know if a recording is actually good until you step away and come back to it the next day… Seeing you record the vocals standing, sitting, crouching… ☺️Whatever works, man! I record vocals in my children’s bedroom because it has the best sound proofing. 😊
@jamiepattison8 ай бұрын
I can't remember the last time I actually relaxed without worrying I was doing it wrong, feeling guilty for doing self-care/self-love, feeling anxious I'm forgetting something, feeling like I should be cleaning, etc... Ugh! Thank you for sharing this is normal!!! 🥰
@redbarnhomestead7384 Жыл бұрын
Watching you on your journey is healing to me. I don’t know how or why, but I am thankful.
@jenniferleathers21112 жыл бұрын
10/10 would live vicariously through your retreat day each month
@juliana.x0x0 Жыл бұрын
HOLY SMOKES, the 2 pm scaries! I had no idea other people had them too, at the same time of day even. I think you're so comforting to people with chronic and intense anxiety because hearing you talk through your feelings, and you're still able to DO THE THING, and be vulnerable. And look at you! So so so many people love your content! Personally, I like you FOR your insecurities, not in spite of them.
@kirwanqueren Жыл бұрын
14:57..... Elyse. Bless you, I remember when I was the age that I could drink coffee at dinner and still sleep. Even with ADHD.... I can't. I get the owlies. Very sad. But happy that I can live through you. Keep it up! LOL.
@saraschneider67812 жыл бұрын
"I'm gonna do my hair now, love you." Best line ever. #TheInternetsBestFriend ❤️
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha I honestly forgot I was filming a video and just thought I was talking to someone on Facetime 😂
@saraschneider67812 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers omg you are the best.❤️❤️❤️
@babyjonsmom Жыл бұрын
Elyse, you are a real treat. Thank you for being you. ❤❤❤❤
@CaroLannBond2 жыл бұрын
You're too sweet and genuine. I wish everyone was more like you. Keep- going! You're doing great. Loved the video😘
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!
@staceylanghans97702 жыл бұрын
OMG I feel you about the 2 PM scaries and not getting enough done. Also the anxiety about not relaxing the right way!!
@TXDanesGirl2 жыл бұрын
'good things come from breathing room' should be on merch... I FELT that deeply! ❤️❤️
@kengmot2 жыл бұрын
Love this so much!! Thank you for another gift… and normalizing the messy process that anxiety and creativity can be!
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
It’s my pleasure!!!!!! Thank you for enjoying it!
@laurafelberg31382 жыл бұрын
Anxious to write the perfect comment because I know Elyse *might* read it. Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us. Your perspective and talent, and humor and humility and awkward just like everyone else embarrassment… and honest sharing of anxiety and all the thingssss… gives me life. I want to be like Elyse when I grow up.
@emilybudde98028 ай бұрын
Wondering why I never knew about your YT channel before. I'm obsessed with the honesty and relatable nature of the content
@CLNSL82 жыл бұрын
You are such a compelling person to watch
@jessicasimpson40702 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe watching Elyse create and eat and just got about her life is just so enthralling but it is! You’re great Elyse! Keep it up.
@leweaver04282 жыл бұрын
I love that you stand with your foot on your knee when you cook….my mom always did and I do too!
@sylviaeneriz48087 ай бұрын
Oh my god, I loooooooove the whispers in the break room song. I love your beautiful voice!
@sharaax5355 Жыл бұрын
Your voice is phenomenal! And your depiction of your anxiety, self-doubt, guilt...well, we're soul mates. Thank you for everything you share with the world.
@daniellegivens1302 жыл бұрын
Thanks for always being true to yourself (buns and comfy clothes are the best!) and also being willing to be vulnerable! Your advice and sharing about mental health makes me feel less much less alone with my own depression/anxiety/adhd. Now when I'm anxious I now always think about how brave it is to be anxious and still do the hard things anyway. I also love the mindset of "go find less." Thanks for making me laugh and brightening my day! So glad you have a platform. You definitely make the world a better place! ♥️
@meggenabsher2412 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so calming to me. I’m in the middle of an overwhelming project and I took a break to watch this video. Thank you for being so real and relatable!!!
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
Aww I love that so much!!! KZbin is that kind of calm moment for me when I need a break from everything as well so I love that my videos can do that for you!
@EMorris531 Жыл бұрын
When you said, the more chaotic the show, the calmer I feel...you are speaking to my soul, lady! I am the EXACT same way. I struggle with pretty severe anxiety and ADHD, as well, and when I am feeling anxious and overwhelmed, I always go for some mindless, chaotic t.v. Real Housewives of (any franchise) is my #1 go-to! Hahaha! 😂❤
@tracybingham7739 Жыл бұрын
Same!! I was stunned that someone put it into words. I honestly never even thought about it nor thought it was a trauma response but holy cow!
@carmelnall11082 жыл бұрын
There's something so special about your voice, it brings me to tears in the best way possible every damn time. I wish I'd known you when you were here in Aus. Keep being exactly who you are, the world needs more people like ypu in it.
@emilywforreal Жыл бұрын
I love this behind the scenes, “real talk” kind of thing. It’s just so authentic and relatable.
@amberworthen12242 жыл бұрын
Work retreats are essential! I’m a mom of 2 little boys and have a fast growing company. I do feel the same guilt you did when I do these but learned that these are so important! I do 2 nights away once a quarter because that’s what works for me and our family. All the best!!
@ParishaDalia2 жыл бұрын
100% feel the 2pm scaries as a mom of 2 little ones. I was working a full time tech job and had to leave to give myself a break because those 2pm scaries and guilt and anxiety just built up over the years. Thank you for sharing!
@princessleia97356 ай бұрын
So happy you enjoy Lincoln! The Mill is elite ❤
@mostfrozenburrito Жыл бұрын
I’ve just barely started this video but I just want to say that it gives me whiplash every time you mention you’re from Nebraska. I lived in Lincoln for three years which definitely felt a lot longer than three years. I graduated high school from there and got my first job there and had my first love there and all of the crazy things. Those were very important and formative years of my life and it’s just wild to find someone from Omaha on KZbin. Also I love this idea and definitely need to do this for myself. Take some days to work on things I never have time for in a new location. This is genius. Okay rant over lol
@dalinacreations85902 жыл бұрын
I was smiling inside and out the entire time! It was actually very calming to watch your vlog. I love how you’re so transparent! Keep being amazing! ☺️🙌
@colombian928 Жыл бұрын
I've seen some of your reals and your humor reminds me of my oldest son. It's sarcastic yet so warm and fuzzy all at the same time ❤ This is my first time watching a full video and I AM HOOKED. I loved watching this because you are the vocal voice in my head and at the end of the day I am going to drink a white claw and just go with the flow. Just subscribed and turned on all notifications because who doesn't need a little ray of sunshine sprinkled throughout their day 🌞
@juliaelizabeth35232 жыл бұрын
I love this idea! I live in Colorado and now I want to do this with an affordable place in the mountains. A "sacred creative staycation."
@cindytdebonis2 жыл бұрын
"I get anxious that I'm gonna not relax the right way"! 😭I thought I was weird to feel that way, I do NOT know how to relax! Also "The more chaotic the show in front of me the calmer I feel" Ok I swear we're twins... where were you my whole life! Thanks for being so relatable and yourself. xo
@blue8ify2 жыл бұрын
“2pm scaries!” Augh!!! A name for those finally. Thank you.
@jennifermastin71692 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so transparent… your break room song turned out AMAZING!!!
@jenniferfisher1721 Жыл бұрын
The concern about relaxing and wasting time is so accurate and likewise I also am anxious about wasting the space in my beautiful planner or notebook. I buy them and then think I don’t have anything good enough to fill them with.
@tiffany_elise892 жыл бұрын
Breathing room is SO important ❤️ So so happy you got this time away. Thank you for pouring your heart into these videos. I genuinely adore watching them.
@samanthapereira37332 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking about being a creative and what that actually means our days (and nights) look and FEEL like.
@estherdiemer47822 жыл бұрын
I love this longer format, thanks for sharing. This video just felt magical. ❤️
@elyse_myers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being here!!
@djsgirl20092 жыл бұрын
Ms. Elyse you truly are such a remarkable human. I don't experience creativity as you do nor the inevitable anxiety your natural genius brings. your content not only delights my spirit with humor and rralism, but it really gives me insight to others around me. this life is so precious in all its both wonderfully symmetric and cattywompus forms. tootles from texas.
@richardsons06032 жыл бұрын
So good. So real. Goodness, keep doing you Elyse. The world needs MORE of you and I need a “Go find less” shirt❤️
@crystalcorley2182 жыл бұрын
I get the 4PM scaries everyday! I thought I have been losing my mind. Loved this sooooo much!!!! Please make more!
@lacie.rodriguez2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about anxiety and content creating and being productive. I’ve had all of those feelings and it makes me feel so normal 🥰🤗❤️
@angelsandoval93472 жыл бұрын
I lovedddddd EVERYTHING about secret whispers!
@kkberg2 жыл бұрын
I love that new term Sacred Creativity! That's great! Thanks for sharing your time with us!
@mageno46412 жыл бұрын
Love this! Great example of self care and getting your needs met.
@JenSmithlaurelqueen2 жыл бұрын
Elyse, you're amazing! I seriously have so much love and respect for you and your talent and your ability to understand how you spend your time wisely. I love that you even take time to deal with your anxiety and still remain cheerful with a smile on your face, I love it. :)
@nathalielyttle Жыл бұрын
Loved your whispers in the breakroom song. That's awesome!
@karas7963 Жыл бұрын
I love the fact that Lincoln seems cool to you!! I’m from Iowa and I appreciate that comment.
@jessicapolson63002 жыл бұрын
I totally hit a curb yesterday running to FedEx after work and it made me giggle thinking of you running into one too. Usually I’m immediately embarrassed and filled with anxiety thinking everyone on the world saw it, when more likely no one is even in the parking lot. Thank you for sharing what you do, and normalizing anxiety and how you cope with it. 💜
@baileyj_ahlberg2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy you took time to enjoy a staycation 😊 and I cannot believe you were staying right down the road from my house! I am a coffee roaster in Lincoln, and operate my roasting business out of my house (currently). I would love to send you a bag of coffee or a bottle of cold brew sometime!
@fictionalhuman2 жыл бұрын
Your raw honesty is so refreshing and uplifting. Thank you for that!
@ShesSoHuggable2 жыл бұрын
This was a phenomenal video. Very intimate with your viewers and your passion for your work. So beautiful!! Thank you for sharing with us!