WORKING OUT THIS NEW PHASE OF LIFE | Lily Pebbles

[@anaiscompin6017]

I had a similar experience with my son when he started school (at 3 years old in France !). We used to draw hearts with a coloring pen on our wrists (mine and his) every morning and say that if we missed each other during the day, we knew we were both connected and thinking about each other by looking at our little drawn hearts. Also, for a few weeks I would blow kisses in an enveloppe and put the enveloppe in his pocket or school bag, so that if he felt sad or hurt himself for example falling down while playing on the playground, he could use one of mummy's kisses. After a few weeks he came back from school and said he did not need my kisses any more because he was having fun and did not feel sad any more. Huge win :)

[@Leblogdeneroli]

Lily, your broadcast needs to evolve to… a podcast ! I would love to hear from you weekly, every monday for instance, chatting about your life 🫶🏼

[@jessicat9198]

Oh 100%!! Would love this

[@lilypebbles]

I loved doing a podcast, but it's not really financially viable at the moment. The costs that go into it for production, editing, the time for planning, recording etc, the podcast space is too competitive now that it's hard to generate good income for it. I have to be more picky now with what I do as I have more limited time.

[@melaniechristou833]

Lily don’t worry anout industry talk, I find it so interesting to understand the back of every job. I totally understand the difficulties of each career, dont worry we will understand. People who dont are close minded so whatever

[@yelenairwin1717]

Yes I would love to hear more as well!

[@letslurkbec]

I rarely watch KZbin anymore but when I’m doing my makeup and I want some background noise, it’s always you Lily. It’ll always be you! Just love your content so much.

[@jill954]

KZbin is by far the best. I rarely look at instagram and never bothered with TikTok.

[@shannon4180]

Thanks so much for another lovely, chatty, and honest video. I always really appreciate your candor. 🙌🏻😊

[@lilypebbles]

thank you x

[@lilypebbles]

Guys I’ve changed things up on the broadcast since filming this. I actually think they work so much better for specific topics that maybe don’t work on main grid or stories. Foggy Mornings - monthly cosy update The Snack Club - a place to chat pickles, condiments and snacks 😂 What You Watching? - A place to chat about what I’m watching on TV Just join whatever interests you and check it in your own time! No pressure to keep up.

[@MarieLifeInWords]

You do so much❤

[@emmabarnes609]

hi

[@MarieLifeInWords]

@@bethmcmullan7686 i don't understand?

[@MarieLifeInWords]

Hi Lily, I'm not sure if i have said anything to offend anyone, I was watching your vlog and how much you do, I remember when my son was little. I just meant that you do a lot. There are a lot of platforms, have I offended someone?

[@michellewaltisbuhl6958]

My son hated drop off in the morning. His teacher suggested he put a family photo in his desk and when he was feeling sad and missing us he would take a little peak of it.. worked a treat.

[@caitlindavies1672]

Love your videos Lily! I have been watching you for a decade now… started watching at 13 and now I’m 23! So lovely to see your family develop and remember all the important mile stones! ❤

[@AliceThorpe]

Yesss to industry chats! I’m in the same frame of mind about sharing it with my audience, it’s definitely tricky to navigate. Also, I loveeeee your cosy chatty life videos may fave to watch in a morning ❤

[@marbeli]

Hi Lily! Totally 👍🏼 to the apple watch. I use it exacly for what you seem to be thinking of, I get my notifications on it and I don’t need to be on the phone all the time! My old one was battery dying and I’ve got a new one recently after becoming a mum. Even more useful as I get the notifications from nursery there!

[@biankablazkow8051]

Hi, I’m fortunate to have 2 kids who love school (not sure how this happened as I hated it), but I heard this advice to draw a heart on kids hand at the drop off and tell them to always look at it if they don’t feel well. Maybe making this a routine or giving Grey a lovely sticker at this last moment of drop off would work?

[@lilypebbles]

Yes we do the heart thing, so cute. Thanks

[@katefrench6526]

Hi Lily, my son was exactly the same starting primary and it broke my heart for months. After Xmas we started him at breakfast club out of necessity but the change was NIGHT AND DAY in his behaviour. We were so shocked. He went from crying and hugging us to skipping in to have his breakfast. When I thought about it, it made sense because it's a much more relaxed environment, there's less kids and more chance for the helpers to sit with them and chat rather than rushing straight into the craziness of the classroom and register. This too shall pass 🙌 best wishes to you all, Sept is no joke xxx

[@Wanda_Wolf]

Dear Lily vest is a fun, practical and above all, cool addition to your look. I wouldn't worry what others think about it. Unfortunately, people only wear trends and don't know how to appreciate or recognize their own style. You really know how to wear every piece in such a way that when I see it on you, I immediately think, oh, that's just her style. Stay like that because there are very few real content creators with whom we can identify in real life.

[@hayleyking5631]

Love my Apple Watch. Helps motivate me with steps and exercise, and nice to have it notify me in case I don’t hear my phone. I have the larger one with a brown leather strap x

[@indiespence8538]

I love your insights on kid things! I live in NZ and over here they start school at 5. One year to go for my girl and I’m dreading it!

[@parnz187]

Im in Aotearoa too and my son turned 5 in June (Lily was my mum relief through the first years of his life) He's been at school for a term 3 and drop offs have been the tricky part. His teacher has a cuddly toy that the kids cuddle if they need to which has helped. We've done stickers and chats to give him perspective. Best thing that has helped is leaving him with a task/job like popping the chairs down or his teacher will ask him to pull something out for their day. It helps switch his "school frame of mind" on. Good luck and enjoy, they grow so quickly once at school.

[@laurenprice335]

I really enjoyed watching this, as a mum of two (youngest being five months), I struggle with the anxiety of feeling I’m going to be late with balancing tasks. Thank you for sharing

[@sallyannc3176]

The Whistles knit vest is really nice - but the damson madder gilet reminds me of a home-made top my Granny used to make, I think it's the bias binding tape edging it (takes me right back to Home Ec sewing classes at school!).

[@michellec24601]

I absolutely love my Apple Watch! I got the cheapest one with the smallest face and it’s amazing. So handy when you’re out and about, getting notifications without getting your phone out. Would 100% recommend!

[@stephaniestockwell9510]

Damn that Glossier foundation looks amazing! I wish they shipped to Australia!

[@sbrooked]

Was thinking the same.

[@simonemarrocco2676]

A great tip from one of the best therapist is make your school good bye short. If you hang around kids sense something is wrong. I’m sure I’m not doing this justice but for more on this have a look at Heidi Rogers and Dr Becky - Good Inside.

[@lajames101]

I've got a smart watch, and it's the best thing ever as a mum. I'm a teacher, and it makes me feel so calm that I can get notifications without getting my phone out so I know if my child is sick at daycare or someone needs to get in contact urgently. Do it!

[@itsokhesjamaican]

One of my favorite tricks for difficult school drop offs is working with school to assign them a very important job! This is especially good for kids who love being helpers. If there’s an adult at school that they really like and feel connected to, they can help them, or they can be morning greeters, take attendance, hand out assignments, etc. The more important the better!

[@patriciad.7309]

Our younger son (he's now 27) was so, so shy when he was little, and drop off at nursery school was really difficult ... until Halloween. He loved going into school in his costume (a furry pumpkin) and after that he was fine! I hope that Grey settles in soon, I'm sure she will.

[@bhnyc23]

My son just started preschool so I completely understand how difficult drop off is. He loves Daniel Tiger so we’ve been reading the Daniel goes to school book which seems to reassure him. Sending you a virtual hug as it’s the worst feeling leaving them in the morning if they’re upset. Also, I got an Apple Watch after having my second and find it super helpful. I only wear it when I leave the house and need access to my phone. It’s so easy to just glance down at my wrist to screen a message and or get notifications of scheduling. It’s also nice to not have to hold my phone while chasing after little ones.

[@madisonwallace4429]

I’ve taught reception for a while now and so often have little ones struggling at the beginning of the year. The book The Kissing Hand is one that is regularly used (quite heartbreaking now I’m a mum too!) She could take a toy in her bag (small figure or teddy) or work with the teacher to have one in the classroom that she has to go and check on in the morning. I usually have lots of ideas but I have mat leave brain 😂

[@PlanningNerd]

I have an AppleWatch, I resisted it for a long time because I felt like I was connected enough and it would be worse. But I love it! I have turned off notifications for all messaging apps, I only get them if my bestie messages me 😂 and I use it for reminders when it's time to take my medication, checking out my calendar, reminders when I need to leave for an appointment, and also tracking my sleep and my exercise. I'm sure you can do much more with it but for me, that's what really helps.

[@maggieturner88]

Have you read the book "the kissing hand"? It's about a small raccoon and his anxiety about school and how his mom helps him through. My kids were like G- fine going to school until it was time to walk into the classroom. We read the kissing hand and they asked for a kissing hand every day. One of my kids would hold his hand to his cheek while standing in line and 2 feet away from me❤❤

[@houtbyj]

I love my Apple Watch as I normally don’t look at phone calls or text but I do when I wear it. It’s been helpful in be aware of work calls and texts.

[@susannah2458]

Hi Lily, your make up was beautiful in this video! You mentioned the foundation was Glossier, what was the foundation brush and powder brush you used? Thank you x

[@klord5856]

I found the Apple Watch makes me use my phone less - also helps knowing if needed I can be contacted without checking the phone. I only got the se version and unless you’re using for monitoring heart rate more constantly I don’t think the others are worth the extra

[@emilysnow9351]

Ruby’s Worry is also a good book for children who get a bit anxious x

[@susandwyer5522]

My Apple Watch absolutely helps me to stay connected to texts etc without having to pull up my phone. I think you’ll find it useful! For school drop off it helps to have a mini ritual (we do a hug, kiss, and high five) and/or draw little hearts on each other’s hands at home before we leave. ❤

[@ritaamrev5959]

Really enjoyed this Lily! Found it interesting when talking about ‘school handover’ as I didn’t even know this was a thing!( I don’t have children!) Love your content, it’s so varied!

[@riamuirhead639]

Love my Apple Watch. Especially for notifications when I’m at work. If I don’t have it I really notice it. I have the basic one as mostly only use it for notifications. X

[@amiewilson3012]

School hand over!!! Don't make it a thing. Don't reward good drop offs but also don't make a fuss about bad ones. If they know they get special treatment it will go on and on and on!! At the end of the day as hard as it is we all have to do things we don't necessarily love doing. My oldest is 6 and he tried it but we soon changed the mind set of starting the day off happy and we will have a good day!

[@Ellie655]

It's better to validate their emotions than force a 'positive mindset' on children. Validating and acknowledging their feelings is not giving them special treatment! Imagine if you were finding something tricky, and your feelings were ignored, and you were told you were attention seeking and to stay positive. This kind of attitude towards children is so upsetting to read about. How will they know how to to tend to their more 'difficult' emotions when they're older, when no-one has shown them how.

[@amiewilson3012]

@Ellie655 I never said I don't acknowledge my sons feelings or that I ignore his emotions. I simply don't build school drop off up as a big deal. As adults, we don't get a round of applause for going into work without crying every morning. We don't get days off because we just don't feel like it today and as harsh and it feels children need to learn this!! Life isn't easy! We have to do this we don't always enjoy. Crying and getting upset isn't going to help! Unfortunately some things just have to be done and both my sons known I am here to talk about anything that they are struggling with once they get home and if I can help in any way they know that I will!!

[@Ellie655]

@@amiewilson3012 I'm not sure what to say in response to someone who says 'getting upset and crying isn't going to help', as a way to prove they are attuned/validating towards emotional expression! Whether you were referring to adults or children with that comment, I guess you proved the point I was trying to make!

[@francinedevidal3864]

Love my Apple Watch. I find I look at my phone less, especially when I’m actively trying to do so because I know if I get a call from daycare/ school, or family I’ll see it, read it and if reply if needed.

[@cecygarciadeleon4990]

I love my apple watch on work days, it helps me manage my calendar, urgent messages, reminds me to stand up and things like that... i take it off on weekends just so i don't feel like i have my phone ALL the time i think it's a good balance haha

[@vanessawright8604]

I did join your broadcast and I listened to one or two mornings as they were coming out and did enjoy it. However, it feels quite overwhelming to me when I look later and see that there are like 7/8 voice notes that you haven't listened to. I tend to think I'm not going to have the time to catch up on all that so I don't bother. I really like it as a feature, feels very casual and, as you say, more like listening to a voice note from a friend. I'll be interested to see how people develop their broadcast channels.

[@lilypebbles]

Yep i totally agree. It was fun to experiment but the way it’s set up means ongoing voice notes are a bit overwhelming and hard to keep on top off. I’m changing things up.

[@gigilou]

Really enjoyed this ❤❤ xxx

[@ktpdx]

hi - do you mind sharing what eye shadow product you are using in this video? thank you!

[@xjess1x]

Iv had my Apple Watch now for about 5/6 years and I rely on it so much. It’s good for quickly checking messages whilst your busy and if your phone is on Wi-Fi you will get messages on your watch even if you left your phone at home for example. I personally don’t feel like the cellular one is necessary as Wi-Fi is everywhere now days. Would recommend but be warned you will not take it off 😂

[@snapsforgeisha]

I use my watch to set timers because I start something and forget to come back to it so I need a timer lol... also at work I can't check my iPhone, so it's helpful to know if there's something I need to respond to today. I pay everything with Apple Pay on my watch. In Sydney you can tap on and off the bus with a credit card, so I just tap my watch. I measures heart rate which was very interesting when I got pneumonia! My heart rate was so fast! I got the stainless steel one, because I knew I wanted a stainless steel band (not apple).

[@debbiejohnson3723]

Loved this video, I love the chatty vlogs. Gutted you returned the damson vest I did vote on instagram that I liked it, I feel like you have a cool edge to your style to pull it off. I wondered if you would share your vinted page as I love your style for both you and kids and my girl is a year younger than Grey xx

[@bnabound]

I totally get the content overwhelm - I have zero interest in TikTok, tolerate Instagram and love KZbin. In the end, it will depend on what people are looking for. I love your lengthy, honest chats on here because I've followed you for such a long time that I genuinely care about you (even if you've no idea who I am 😂 - ah, the bizarreness of social media) and always love to hear about your life in general. Fashion content is not at all my thing but although I do not have children (nor do I want them), it's nice to hear you talk about yours because they're part of you. Hm, does this veer into creepy territory? I hope not! LOL

[@fiona2989]

Great vid Lily but I don't do Tiktok. Maybe show the jeans next week? X

[@catsinhats659]

Same!

[@katherinebittner8765]

I think the hardest part is trying to figure out if your kid is venting to get it out of their system or if something about school they really don't like. I try to be like think of one thing you like about your school day whether it's a friend, break time, or an activity which will give them something to look forward to and be thankful for.

[@treneabroughton9296]

Lily yes you need a Apple Watch they are good for exactly what you said you need it for. I wear mine everyday and then use my Cartier watch when going out for dinner or special occasions. The watch is 100% worth it !!! I wear the Apple Watch Series 8-41mm 😊

[@janahaase8701]

Go for the Watch. Iam a Mom of two and ist gives me a better feeling when i‘m at work and in general.

[@intothedermis]

My kids have always found drop off hard. We used to put little love hearts on their hands so when they missed us they could look at it or touch it, reassure, talk about being brave, find a safe person or friend to be with when we left. A big one which we realised was if we dropped off and our kid was the first there, they'd be totally fine however if they were later than everyone - nightmare. Not sure why but it worked.

[@suepickering3181]

I watched a lady on KZbin today who talked about jeans length. She said if you are going to wear trainers or loafers you should have a bit of your ankle/top of your foot showing. Which was a great tip. The jeans she showed had a raw hem so she could just chop them off at the length she wanted 👍🏻 Hope that’s helpful ❤

[@Thegelstudioedit]

Who was this lady!! ❤ ty

[@MaRia-hs9kn]

Love your videos lily!

[@4214j]

Lily, I got an Apple Watch for the exact reason you described. My daughter was starting at the childminder and I was so anxious that I couldn’t get my phone out and would miss a message. I got the smallest watch face and to be honest I only use it for messages but it does help!

[@the.estheticiancoach]

Have an apple watch and love it!!

[@emilycomerford9045]

Oh thank you Hannah for the Geoffrey Gets The Jitters recommendation! Have just ordered it for my son who keeps having a jittery tummy lately 👍

[@kirstenstephenson3341]

My Apple Watch is a life saver. It keeps me organised with reminders and messages coming through so I know if I get anything important. I like feeling like I’m aware what’s going on at all times and can reply later if it’s not urgent when I get to my phone.

[@athelaaranion7426]

Maybe you could use tupperware for the after school snack? That would be more environmentally friendly.

[@elainemcgran8828]

I still wear a normal watch, actually I know quite a few people who do.😊. They are so handy you don't have to go looking in your bag to see the time 😊. And when your job doesn't allow phones, also handy 😅

[@ellaanvari7737]

We had the exact same experience with drop off. She was very excited until it was her turn to walk in. It’s so hard when they they don’t want to go or they want you to hold them. It’s been a month now and it’s a little bit better. It is sad that they have to go for so many years. I wish we could homeschool but it’s definitely not possible for us. I’m a midwife and only work part time but I still need some hours in the week. Hopefully she settles in soon!

[@elizabethwatch454]

Regards the school drop off, I tend to try and find a couple of my little boys friends for him to go in with. That always seems to ease his anxiety about going in 😊

[@ericab.1089]

I actually use my Apple Watch when my kids are home to put my phone away. When I wear my watch I know I’m not missing calls or text. But I’m not mindless scrolling or getting easily distracted when my phone is out. I try to lock my phone up for 3 hours when they get home. I do find when I get a text on my watch it can be distracting especially if I’m talking to someone. I’ve silenced them and just use the red dot notification instead. You’re a good mama.

[@MLISSAWILSN]

My honest opinion on the industry chat: sometimes I wonder Lily if you'd be suited to a job where you get to work on the industry side and help other influencers and/or brand management? I never really hear about other influencers talking about the industry side of things and monetisation - it's obviously something that interests you! Sometimes I wonder if you're happy being on this side of things now. Don't get me wrong I still enjoy following along!

[@seeit.sewit.sorted6255]

Insta broadcast is too much. I don't understand the need for it! Being bombarded with everyone posting unnecessary info, and no interaction. I've turned them all off. You tubes enough 😅

[@lilypebbles]

Yep I def agree there is no need for just another place to promote content and affiliate links. That’s not what it should be about. I think it’s more about an intimate place for people to chat about stuff they don’t chat about on their main channels.

[@Mojangmama]

I’ve zero interest, I muted all notifications.

[@leemcauley6519]

Same it was overwhelming

[@sallylloyd6998]

And the fact you can’t reply at all, it’s awful! It’s just like being talked to!! If there was an option to reply and join in the convo it would be better x

[@marieke-2736]

@@sallylloyd6998 I totally agree! That would be so fun! Just to have a mini interactive community that way’

[@carrij2003]

Love me Apple Watch. Have had it for years and can't imaginenot having one.

[@fridahkimani7285]

Hey Lily. Which brush did you use for your concealer? 🥰😊😋

[@MsRandomjelly]

I have never been so influenced to buy something as I did that book.. instantly got it from Waterstones

[@SamiraSBD]

Hi Lily I haven’t vlogged a day in my life but my daughter loves doing it. She’s not allowed to post it but she loves it.

[@abbyh4364]

Would definitely be interested to hear your industry talk that you felt would be good for your audience to understand.

[@27yioda]

Your hair looks amazing 🎉 So comforting to hear you talk about drop off. My son is the same way when I drop him off at child care.

[@lillyoliver2056]

I found homeschooling until 6 to be helpful. Felt she was more excited and grateful for school at that age.

[@emilycomerford9045]

Oh it’s so hard, but know that so many kids seem to get overwhelmed at drop off. It’s a lot of people all at once. The Kissing Hand book seemed to help my youngest, you basically fill the palm of their hand full of kisses and then close their hand so they can keep their kisses for when they need them throughout the day. My youngest also had a little bit of silky ribbon in his pocket that he could keep with him for comfort. Ultimately like with everything with children ‘it’s just a phase’ and she will get through it. I like to explain that it’s normal to feel like that sometimes but that it will pass and she is safe and she is loved and mummy/daddy always come back. Also, rather than trying to discuss it in the moment, I find it better to discuss it with my kids another time when we’re playing together or they’re in the bath…

[@mackenzieabraham2905]

Yes to the Apple Watch! Though I feel like I saw you with one on in a story or something so maybe you’ve already gotten it?

[@jessicat9198]

You mentioned ham sandwiches and chocolate pretzels as after school snack - does Grey eat that and then still have a full dinner later? I'm feeling confused about how much to make and at what time after school.. they come out starving but then I've found if I give them a massive snack then they refuse to eat dinner later! Don't know if I should give them at early dinner/"tea" about 4 instead and then have a snack later before bed. Feeling confused!

[@geekygirl01]

I’d say early full dinner then snack later. They’re more likely to eat all of their dinner and be less fussy if they are hungry after school

[@gracedeeny4138]

What brush do you use for your bronzer? X

[@elizabethparrish8174]

Bless, it'll be ok with the dropoffs. My 4yr old had to be carried in the 1st month! And now he runs in without even wanting a kiss goodbye 😢

[@abigailsilvester7739]

I have an Apple Watch and don’t use it. I work with a guy who’s always looking at it always getting called and checking it while your talking to him. Reading the messages as they come through. Basically a phone on your wrist. It will be great for initial period. I use mine when I do exercise that’s it’s best use.

[@CandelaKlakowsky]

My son just started school and he is not even 3 (in Spain where we live, kids start school at 3). He is having such a hard time as he is extremely sensitive. My heart breaks every morning when I see his crying face saying goodbye at the door 🥺💔

[@87PageS]

Hi Lily - I’m not sure if you’ve done this before, but it would be cool to see you working with a tailor and/or a stylist to figure out your new style, now that you’re feeling more comfy in your body. Especially showcasing how the services could be affordable for moms with different budgets or even body sizes. For example. I’m the total opposite of you, short, plus-size, huge boobs, and now that I have a 2 year old, I’m wanting to feel better physically AND with what I wear. Just a content suggestion ^^

[@shell4465]

I would recommend an Apple Watch, it makes it easier to be hands free and check your messages but also things like setting a timer or picking up a call. I actually found it especially helpful when my daughter was a baby and I was holding her loads. Just curious was was that brand/type of pasta you love from M&S?

[@princesst7976]

I love watching your KZbin videos but feel like your so focused on keeping up with all the new media formats and trends and worried about missing something for tik tok etc that we end up missing out on content as loyal KZbin subscribers.

[@lilypebbles]

I’m so here for the industry chat. In what way do you feel like you’re missing out? I hope that I still cover all the things I show on other platforms in my KZbin videos, but I’m def open to hear if there’s something you feel you’re missing out on that I can make sure to feature on here too. x

[@Sophie-ms2tz]

@@lilypebblesfor me an example of “missing out” in this video is when you went to show us the H&M jeans and then decided to actually put it on TikTok (but then came back & talked about them on here anyway). I watch your videos every Sunday & LOVE them but I don’t want to have to go searching on other platforms to see the content you’ve “teased” us with. Missing out may not be the right expression with this, but KZbin feels like your OG media platform but sometimes we get told to go elsewhere to see something which feels a bit deflating.

[@dloganable]

@@Sophie-ms2tzyes, this! I love your fashion content and it has migrated away to tik Tok. As a working parent I get being stretched, that’s why I wish you could be more focused on KZbin. But I get that this is not where sponsors want to spend their money (which is of course silly because an older audience has money to spend but no time to waste on other platforms)

[@aphraell]

I agree this so much. So many youtubers divide their content to platforms but what if we do not want to use tiktok for example? I hate shorts/reels/tiktoks since they make my adhd worse and you can scroll down to eternity for hours. I miss OG youtube days, loving Lily’s sunday vlogs for just this reason. They feel like og youtube for me 🥰

[@carolyngibson7723]

Omg so funny that you used to ask if you really had to “go in to school” every day!

[@hannahbradshaw2186]

4 seems so young to start school. I was 5 about to turn 6 in Australia when I started

[@iseultcrow3915]

This was when I was a teenager but my after school snack was always a bowl of cereal

[@sanghasheena]

My boy Sorin has started Reception and he said ‘mum will school be forever’ and i replied back saying ‘youll have Saturday and Sundays off if that helps!’ 😅

[@Abyabalos]

Yes get an apple watch! I also resisted for it so long too thinking it might overwhelm me but completely opposite I feel like I have my s-t together haha I can check my goodgle calander whilst showering after the gym sorry TMI - best investment I’m a Mum and it’s been so handy just a note if you use whatsapp you can’t read messages on whatsapp on your apple watch but you can get notifications by downloading whatsapp on your iPhone , if that makes sense. I wish I did get the bigger size as I have less control with screen with small size. Snacks for after schools - the yogurt berries are great!

[@anyejansenvanrensburg]

The change of routine can be very unsettling for little ones. In South Africa they go at 6 and it is much better than when they go younger. My goodness, the drop off when they are younger and don't want to go. I would find myself crying in the car a lot afterwards.

[@monart4210]

Definitely get the LTE apple watch :)

[@SamarkandChan]

God 4 is so early! In norway it's the year you turn 6

[@nessiesmakeup6244]

Have you ever though of Montessori school? X

[@lilkidxoxo]

Apple Watch- 100 % yes. I initially got mine to track workouts but I really enjoy it for keeping on top of messages without pulling my phone out and then getting distracted by other apps. It lets me see when I really NEED to look at my phone. Of course you can also set what notifications you want on the watch so only the really important ones need to buzz your wrist. Now when I wear my ‘nice watch’ it feels like a holiday even from the important notifications. Fully recommend!! X

[@madelinelong1268]

Honest opinion..the Apple Watch doesn’t make it less rude. I would just be honest that you need to check your photo during pick ups. The watches are just another way to be distracted.

[@NSowoo]

I always tell my 6 year old daughter what we are going to do after school so she has something to look forward. Of course it needs to be something exciting 😅like going to get some ice cream, watch a film or crafting. even my 2 year old remembers those plans and gets excited for it.

[@NSowoo]

AND wednesdays we always do pizza for lunch and fridays crepes. I feel like it’s getting her through the week

[@beatrizbarral66]

Its 22 degrees. Its boiling. Oh British people... 😂😂

[@alicerabbit8]

22 degrees is boiling hot? As an Australian that is hilarious

[@snapsforgeisha]

haha... yes... 34 today in Sydney

[@hannahbradshaw2186]

As an Australian living in the UK, 22 here definitely feels closer to the high 20s. It feels much hotter than 22 in Aus. It's so weird

[@marelizewilke7204]

South African living in London - 22 definitely feels uncomfortable and much hotter in London. I also didn’t believe it until I experienced it!

[@alicerabbit8]

@@marelizewilke7204 that’s very interesting. Could it be psychosomatic because everyone around you is saying how hot it is?

[@NicoleMoore22]

I live in Ireland & it its definitely a hot day here too!

[@sallyannc3176]

I really don't like the 'reception' year at 4 in England and Wales - both our daughters started school when we lived down there and while they both coped ok I think it's too young (in Scotland we start school at 5). Our older daughter bounced in - and out - of school every day whereas our younger daughter had much more 'separation anxiety'. I haven't any tips I'm afraid - each child has their own personality and it will pass. The best thing you can be is as relaxed as possible about it as she will pick up on any anxiety you have - I'd definitely recpmmend you stop phoning the school each day - they will let you know if everything isn't ok!

[@stephaniex8776]

nice vlog:)

[@lehiheart]

Maybe draw a little heart on her and and your hand and tell her that you think of her and that she can look at the heart and know that you are there for her. Might make the transition easier ❤

[@Yessi285]

I find broadcast channels very annoying - it feels like being talked at.

[@emilycox7615]

Woah that conker could be a 6er

[@siobhan7798]

7 years ? No way, it has gone quickly

[@kendlefulton7429]

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