Worrying times while we drop the gable wall! Episode 38

[@monicateeling810]

Rebuilding yourself and rebuilding the homestead......... you are a role model for more people than you know. Thanks Sam✅✅✅✅✅

[@cv990a4]

But don't do it for anyone other than yourself! Don't do it for us, do it for you!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you. It's a lot of work but I'm enjoying it. I know though how important it is to take care of myself and not forget about my own recovery. 👍

[@theirishhomestead]

👍

[@geoffknight7322]

Kudos for you being so open and honest Sam, it can’t be easy telling your story in such a public domain.

[@theirishhomestead]

No, it's not easy, but hopefully, it helps others out there.

[@davidbevens8742]

Thank you for telling us.

[@ginnypeckham4022]

Your honesty, hard work and family values are very refreshing amongst the many KZbin grifters out there. You totally deserve the best of everything in your new Irish home.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much 😊 👍

[@paulajordan7903]

It's so refreshing for a man to be so honest and talk about something so hard. Mental health is important and you expressing yourself like you did will help so many people. Not just the person who as the addiction but the families too giving them a little hope in a dark time. This is coming from an ex wife of an addict. He is clean for 10 yrs and still my best friend ❤️ Thank you

[@theirishhomestead]

Support is everything. I wouldn't ne where I am now without it. Its so good yo hear despite the marriage not lasting your friendship did. ♥️

[@AbigailGerlach-zt1sh]

Sam, you are an amazing man! Congratulations on being determined to live sober one day at a time. You're an inspiration. I'm so happy you have chosen to be healthy. I too say the Serenity Prayer. It really keeps me grounded. Blessed Be Sam. 👍

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou, I have it on a little card next to my bed with a badge pin

[@monicateeling810]

What a beautiful humble and loving family and the most realistic honest people you’d meet. Wishing you the best of everything. Great progress on the homestead...... it’s gonna be fabulous ✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much for those lovely words. We feel very lucky to be where we are in life right now. ♥️

[@the.artist.donaldb]

Takes an incredible amount of strength to admit to one’s self that they have an addiction and / or a mental health issue(s). To admit it publicly and share your journey is truly heroic even if you don’t see that way. You got this, one day, at a time with a supportive family, a homestead journey and your AA extended family. May peace be with you Sam as your homestead and life journey unfolds. 💪

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou, my friendships formed through recovery will be till the end, im so grateful I found a way out of the circle I was on, it took me to go to absolute despair before finally saying I don't know what to do I need help

[@ChristineKelly1000]

Sam you are a strong man. You acknowledge your weakness, the need to attend meetings and the help of others. May you continue on as you are. Fair play to you. Delighted to hear Toby is improving. You are so lucky to have each other. No doubt the hard times have made you both stronger. 😊❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Yes, I'd say we are a strong family. Living together 24/7 travelling now here renovating has made us realise what is important. They kids are much happier.

[@ChristineKelly1000]

@@theirishhomestead delighted to hear the kids are happier. At the end of the day, a happy settled home is worth more than gold. ❤️

[@maryannfrazer4693]

Sam, do not stress and obsess over a wonky doorway or wall. IT AUTHENTICATES the place. You don't want to end up with a neat little storebought boxy imitation cottage. Yours is a genuine ancient renovated cottage. Its quirks give it character and personality.

[@petebartlett2229]

Talking about mental health is positive,thank you. Glad you are in a good place. House looks amazing,be proud as a family.

[@theirishhomestead]

Mental health is so important, making decisions then acting upon them

[@sherry2836]

Geez Louise, how bad was that surgery job to put Toby thru this horrible "recovery"? And speaking of recovery, those of us who are in recovery know that we are all just one drink away from a drunk. As you stated, along with the fellowship, keeping yourself physically and mentally healthy is so important in keeping that one drink at a safe distance away. At 40 years sober I can still recall the despair, degradation and destruction my drinking caused. The fact that Rebecka is still with you thru all of that is a testament to the love and strength of your marriage. Love you guys!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou, I remember asking Rebecca why the hell she didn't leave me after all the shit and dispair I put her through, she simply said its cause she loves me, still melts my heart I'm grateful for her love

[@claudeross126]

32 yrs sober, working on projects helps the thinking about what life should be lived. Appreciate sobriety and love the people in your immediate circle and not worry about what you may be missing out from. Live and let live.

[@pamsmith7369]

Exactly! Like I stated above, life is never perfect. We’re not meant to be happy all the time! Take the good with the bad!

[@duncancremin1708]

@claudeross126 Yup. 35 years myself, come September. Well done for sticking with it. It can be hard, sometimes, but most of the time it’s barely noticeable and easily ignored. Keep it up.

[@Mitch-Hendren]

30 years this june. And I've made it to 59 . 60 in july . Give yourself a pat on the back !!

[@jgg59]

Hey congratulations I’m coming up on 32 in October with everything the good the bad and indifferent. I am so lucky. I am sober and so blessed.

[@theirishhomestead]

♥️

[@BarryFitzgeraldofficial]

You are a brave, strong , honest , humble man Sam to talk about your struggles. It is an encouragement to many including myself.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you. Glad to hear it's helped a few people my being honest. 👍

[@LindaLyon-dh9mb]

AA saved my son’s life. So thankful for it. I went to the family meetings.

[@myownlittlehouse471]

When my husband kept bees, he really liked his Langstroth boxes. He also had Warre boxes that he built himself, but did not like them as well. The bees seemed to prefer the Langstroth. The amount of physical, mental, and emotional effort needed to do this huge task -- I'm so glad you both are being careful with yourselves and making sure you're not overdoing it. Good for you, Sam. Don't you think that caring for your mental health also means taking a break -- all of you -- when it's needed? I hope you do that. I hope you get a fabulous vacation, after the grant time frame is done! The time pressure has got to be a challenge. And remember -- even repetitive tasks with stone and mortar, etc., when you put it with moving clouds and nice music, makes a great video! Never hesitate to post any week, because you think it might "bore" us. It won't!

[@theirishhomestead]

Aww thank you for the thoughtful message. We took a day away today actually to the lake. We did nothing on the house or land. Just spent a great day fishing swimming & kayaking. We were very much in need of a day away from it all. I have heard a few people think langstroth are better. I guess it will be a learning curve for me. The kids are mithering for an abroad holiday but that will have to wait for now I think sadly. So glad you enjoy the videos and thanks for watching & supporting us. ♥️

[@whitedove4920]

Takes a lot of courage to face each new day and stay sober. You have sooo much to live for. Remember the solid rock you are.

[@readingroomcafeproject]

Glad to see Toby's doing ok. congrats, Sam, on your continuing recovery,

[@theirishhomestead]

One day at a time

[@jackie6582]

Happy Toby has got a wonderful home that people care for him👍

[@michaelmcdowell6792]

Thank You Sam. I just experienced a brief meeting with you, in your car. The evidence has been there; intensity, Driven, perfection, compulsive, risk taking, creative, talented, passionate and compassion. I celebrated in a new Home Group (to me) 42 years in another fellowship. "Friend of Jimmy K". He was an import from the Emerald Isle to NYC. This is such a great result of doing what we have worked for and been given so freely. Peace and Love to you, your family and the Journey.👍👍👍✌

[@frankvghn1955]

Both of you are a credit to your society and good role models for your children. What you have brought to us, your work ethic, love of animals, nature and your conservative family values are what Irish people cherish most of all. These qualities are priceless!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you for those kind words. I'm so happy you see that in us ♥️

[@frankvghn1955]

@theirishhomestead it might seem like we have dropped our standards lately. But God acts in mysterious ways, and along you come to remind us how human beings were meant to live.

[@fernly2]

💖to see healthy dogs playing chase and even the little colorful soda bottle set up on the top rocks. ❤❤😲🙏🏽

[@Bigbigjimbo]

Try Barries Teabags just as good, Your a strong man to share your story wish you all the best in the renovation.❤

[@artistikworld4058]

I think Lidl sell Yorkshire teabags!

[@theirishhomestead]

Yes we drink Barry's instead. In fact I'm sat here now with a cup lol.

[@theirishhomestead]

Do they?! I shop in Lidl and never seen.it.n

[@artistikworld4058]

Perhaps it was in Aldi.?.

[@johncollier608]

Good on you for speaking so openly about your struggles. I've known people and seen first hand how alcoholism destroys lives. The more people talk about this, the more people can recover. Thanks for sharing.

[@theirishhomestead]

Yes exactly! It's very important to talk about it, in the hopes it helps others find a way out.

[@ericwynne1560]

Amazing you guys as always….and Sam what a lucky man you are to have such a strong,hardworking and loving wife by your side! Love watching the journey!👍

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks, Rebecca is a 💎

[@kevincorbin6273]

I’ve been Sober for 2 1/2 years, you are an inspiration to be sure

[@theirishhomestead]

Thats great, life is so much better now I'm not twisted from booze

[@johndurkin6152]

I’ve been sober for 16 years it’s awesome watching you n praying for you n your family!!!

[@theirishhomestead]

Wow, thank you. Congratulations on the 16 years. 👍

[@michellelane225]

Hi Sam and Rebecca what a great team you are. I was a Nurse in a Rehab Hospital. I was always moved seeing patient’s absolutely broken to their core. Stress written all over their loved ones faces. A few weeks of Nursing and following the 12 step programme, patients would emerge from a cocoon into Butterflies. It’s a day to day process with a lot of reflection. I still do reflection on a daily basis there’s nothing wrong with that. You are an amazing hard working family with a beautiful location. Enjoy it , you deserve it ❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks Michelle. What a job you had! Thank you for doing it. It's hard seeing people at that stage in their lives but so amazing to see the changes that TLC and support can bring.

[@michellelane225]

@@theirishhomestead thank you. It was the most rewarding job, and at times the most frustrating. Thank you for motivating me to attempt wallpapering for the first time in my life (56) lol xx

[@markodonoghue2049]

Good that you are open and honest with your story. I can only imagine how difficult that must have been for yourself and your family. But being open I am sure that others that are going through the same thing could help them to be open and get the help and support and encouragement that everyone deserves. Well done fella. 😊

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks. Yes it's not always easy to put yourself out there but I always hope by doing so it helps at least one person who may be struggling. I'm lucky to have a good support network.

[@patrickcarroll960]

So glad toby on mend he is in right place with right people ,

[@theirishhomestead]

He loves it when we give him a good brush

[@annroberts5965]

May God Bless you and your family. I have been watching your videos for several weeks now and I am amazed at the commitment you and your family have in building a new and different life. It is truly impressive. Ann from Va. USA 🇺🇸

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much!

[@brackalack1]

Well done Sam, keep on keeping on! You're doing an amazing job.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou

[@OrdinaryJoe75]

Such a great video guy's, good to see all is well on the homestead! Great progress 💪 💪👌 Sam I've no doubt that your openness and honesty will help others, not easy for men in particular to open up and be truthful about our feelings. So good man...stay positive and keep up the hard graft. Thanks for another great video 😊 have a great weekend

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks Joe. May be taking you up on the offer of help at some point soon.

[@OrdinaryJoe75]

@@theirishhomestead You're welcome. Yes not a problem 👌

[@TerryJANSEN]

You’ve done so well, and you’re now anchored in your homestead..a great little family☺

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks

[@fernly2]

💖to see healthy dogs playing chase and even the little colorful soda bottle set up on the top rocks. ❤❤😲🙏🏽our little goats were good teachers and company for our ponies

[@vivienhill7934]

Learning the construction steps of sticks and bricks is one thing..learning to restore and strengthen very old crumbly stonework to conform to modern building codes and regulations is a whole something else---you're an amazing couple.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks we are doing our best. Let's hope it's good enough.

[@lisejacquelinerigault2575]

Off center ? as my late husband would have said " A blind man would be happy to see it" terrific job with the gable Sam ! Becca, on your CV you may add 'competent construction worker' as the building of the hive was amazing. Well done you two. Always a delight to watch your progress!

[@AbigailGerlach-zt1sh]

OMG! I thought my gran was the only one that said that! That is so funny. Her other favorite, when you'd ask how you looked, she'd say, "You'll pass with a shove." Lol!

[@niknoks6387]

@@AbigailGerlach-zt1shmy grandparents and my mum also say/said it. Is it just a northern thing? 😊

[@theirishhomestead]

Ha yes perfect saying! 🤣 The hive was a fun job to do while Sam was out and I got to watch a cheesy film. It was a perfect Sunday! X

[@lisejacquelinerigault2575]

@@niknoks6387 No, I am French born, but my husband was a Londoner, his family lived in Chelsea since the late seventeen hundreds. He taught me many English saying, jokes, customs.

[@DianaHughes-m4u]

Another great video .. amazing work progress ,,cant wait till next video ,love watching what you are doin ,well done sam for talking about ur alcohol , in the past very moving ,amazin progress for 8yrs ago ,what a great family you have ,great support .enjoy your life ,you are doing amazing ,rebecca is so lovley , i love toby ,what a great family you have

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you that's very kind. We feel very fortunate to be in such a beautiful place with our children and of course the animals. ♥️

[@rolandtb3]

Sometimes you have to go backwards to go forwards. Not always easy but new codes to comply with going from an animal pen to home. Offcenter gable stone adds a bit of character to the building. Toby's long extraordinary journey to recovery. A new venture - bee farming.

[@theirishhomestead]

Yes that's the case now trying to sort these wall ends. I feel like we are going backwards but those need sorting to move forwards as you say.

[@jasonmckenzie5013]

Well done on your sobriety Alcoholism is a horrible disease. loving the great work on the house and really enjoying the channel can’t wait to continue watching your progress 👍

[@theirishhomestead]

I'm grateful to be given a second chance in life

[@donnabrennan-i8g]

get better soon toby.

[@barrywood5357]

To let us know is a brave step because it shows you have a control level on your life which you manage welll done

[@theirishhomestead]

When others shared openly and honesty it gave me hope when I had none, life was black when I was drunk I'm grateful to of found others to help me go in a different direction

[@jameskyle380]

Glad Toby is getting better. The farmhouse renovation is going well. Very honest of you to tell us about your past. Take one day at a time. You seem to enjoy renovating the farmhouse and you have a great family around you, so that's good.

[@theirishhomestead]

I do enjoy it! It's a real labour of love. It doesn't feel like hard work (most days at least 😉) We feel very fortunate and happy right now.

[@vees_bees]

Sam, congratulations! That was very inspiring and it takes a strong person to share your story. So happy for you! Great hive building skills… especially those pesky frames!!! I have just shy of 60 more to put together myself! Glad Toby is on the mend! Good luck catching your first swarm!!! 🐝 🐝 ❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you. Those frames are a pain. One thing I noticed is the foundation sheets kept slipping out of the grooves of the frames. Aby idea how to stop this?

[@vees_bees]

I wish I did! I do not use a jig, and have to wonder if that may help. I have yet to perfect it! I can just say I feel your pain! Warm regards!

[@chrisdagg5117]

One of the many meanings of Sanity is to be of Sober Mind all the best Mate

[@theirishhomestead]

Very true. 👍

[@jamesduffy9946]

Great progress guy’s every day move’s you closer to the finish,Sam your honesty regarding your old life is inspiring.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks. We felt really excited this week. For the first time in a while, we could see past the endless stone and plan the room layouts, which felt amazing.

[@susanjackson1307]

I'm amazed how hard you all work. You certainly have lots going on to fill your days. So happy for the better weather. Hang in there....

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks, the weather is definitely making things much easier right now....except the lime pointing.🫣

[@jodiebelton625]

Sam you are doing a great job. It is great to see that you are taking the time to take care of your mental health. I’m enjoying watching your progress on your Irish property.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you Jodie. ♥️

[@MaryHopeBurkett-xv5vp]

Having had family members who have been down that road, I can totally relate. My Cousin said it is a life long recovery and part of that is helping others thru their recovery. It isn’t easy but the rewards are great. ❤️🙏 for continued success.

[@theirishhomestead]

Yes it's important to help others as part of the journey. Thank you ♥️

[@gavinalmeida1994]

I forwarded through your "confession" I am very please for you you that you fixed it believe me, My brother passed on with multiple organ failure due to alcoholism, so your confession Burned a bit, but it's good to get the message out. Love you more for it .

[@theirishhomestead]

Sorry for your loss, alcoholism is a tricky beast to tame, I'm grateful for each day

[@gavinalmeida1994]

Thank you, but he didn't make it the family's problem he was essentially a hermit towards the end

[@bigbadboodah]

I had to let the alcohol go 20 years ago. It is quite a journey but worth it. Glad to see Toby walking around and sleeping at night.

[@bridgwll]

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

[@theirishhomestead]

He seems much more pepped up each day

[@michelludikhuyze5762]

You don’t know us but we love you all .. ❤ , Elena and Michel , Bulgaria .

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you that's really lovely Elena & Michel. ♥️

[@brendadoherty3060]

I am so proud of you. The things you have accomplished is amazing. Please do whatever you need to stay strong. I will pray for you and your family. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@georgianasstudio]

Well done on the alcohol front. I come from a family of alcohol dependents so I know how hard it is. Not everyone is able to get through it, so well done!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou its been a crazy journey so far

[@HelenDrozdz]

Stay strong and focused, you are a lovely family

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much! We will 👍

[@AnitaMcKeown]

You are doing great Sam in providing a lovely home for your family, God bless.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much! 👍

[@shelair52]

Thanks

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much. ♥️

[@faithvansanden82]

Sam thank you for your honesty about what has happened to you, keep going you are doing really well. The house is coming on great and glad Toby is doing ok ❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Toby seems bright and happy he gets lots of brushing and treats

[@liamburns3713]

No stopping you now 👍

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks let's hope not. 🤣

[@GaleMckee-up4ks]

Happy to see you are taking care of yourself Sam, house is coming along all takes time and money of course. 👍🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺 Toby looks good ❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks. Yes a lot of time but not too much money... I hope 😁

[@marjoriewatton8546]

Well done you Sam! Your love for your beautiful family is so worth your effort. Takes guts to talk about it. Keep doing what you are doing. 👏👏

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you! Will do! 💪👍

[@hevsmithson6574]

It’s not easy talking about your illness your doing good by doing it ,it must be so hard, well done you,I’m sure I’m not just speaking for myself , we are all so proud of you well done ,know go and get your house made into a beautiful family home for you all lo😅❤

[@jenateer2518]

One breath at a time. Keep on keeping on.

[@theirishhomestead]

Will do. Thanks

[@birgittacarlson7537]

Sam great job with stay sober! ❤And great job with the house🏡You are inspiring🥰

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you! Will do! 💪

[@VMSmith]

Try Barry’s tea,Lyon’s tea or Bewley’s tea. Loving the vlog.

[@theirishhomestead]

We actually love Barry's tea too now. 👍

[@jcr_jcr]

Thanking you and your family for such lovely open and honest videos. Toby has come through, the homestead is coming along quickly and you, Sam, are a five star strong man.

[@theirishhomestead]

Yes thankfully Toby is much improved and Sam is doing an amazing job. We feel very fortunate. ♥️

[@dottiebaker6623]

Thank you for being so honest about alcoholism. You're a good man and doing a great job on the stone annex. You're right, one day at a time!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou. Just taking life one day at a time

[@Marie-yx5ie]

👏👏👏Sam to you and all your beautiful family for supporting you. Well done for recognising other people's pain as well as your own. Alcoholism is a family disease and needs to be treated as that, everyone in the family are usually emotionally sick. Many a family has suffered because their love one's . couldn't see the pain they were causing other's and themselves, it's so so sad. You sharing your story, I believe and have no doubt will wake someone up or many people up.. "As I always say dealing with the emotional pain is far easier than dealing with any addiction" that most people are running away from. .. 👍😉🇨🇮☘️Eire

[@jowilliams4362]

I love how real you both are. This week ever more so. Really enjoy watching your progress every week and no words for how hard you both work. Jo x 😊

[@theirishhomestead]

Aww thanks Jo. That's very kind. ♥️

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

Be your own hero first Sam. Love you and put your own life jacket on FIRST. You are just as magnificent as everyone else. Tell yourself that in the morning...tell your cells wonderful things. Then you have the strength and nous to love everyone else....your beautiful wife and bonny bairns are a great credit to you. Ihad a very dear and brilliant friend who drank....and drank....then managed to get things under control. Then his kidneys and liver slowly deteriorated causing great pain and anguish....we tried to reach out, but he couldn't listen and took himself 'home' in the way he knew how. It was and still is heartbreaking...and those who loved him miss him so much. Sending you all sincere love, hope, healing, strength and determination in abundance. PS. The house is looking fabulous ! 😆😜🥳💝💞💝 And love to Toby and all the critters too of course.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou for your support, alcoholism is a terrible disease, I hope to never go back to it, but from my experience and death of friends I realise how important it is to love one self, and be able to be happy in my own skin, my friends in recovery mean the world to, I'm grateful to be alive

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

@@theirishhomestead 🙏💝🙏 xxx

[@mariecurly2420]

Well done guys you are doing brilliant ❤ What no yorkshire tea 😂 sam

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks. Nope no Yorkshire Tea!

[@Erin_Wilson_Studios]

Much love to you all.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much.

[@patriciadostalek3778]

Totally hearing and listening.

[@tonyprice1526]

I think if I had mine cut off, I'd stand in a shed for six months and not make a sound. Oh just the thought!!!

[@Itsmyownmind]

I just spat my tea out 😂😂😂

[@theirishhomestead]

🤣✂️

[@DeirdreHickey-nx8nt]

Oh Sam, bless you “it’s just a matter of “ you make it sound so ordinary when in fact we all know it is monumental work. Bec a well done on the bee hives. The best of luck, it will be wonderful for all of you, keeping your own bees and having honey eventually. Sam you cheese piece looks perfect. Well done.Sam I really feel for you, I have had and continue to have family members including myself, although I don’t think I got down that dreadful spiral, but enough to say I had to stop drinking. So I know and I have seen the devastating effect alcohol has on the person, their family and their career. How I wish there was some magic pill, but there Isent. It takes bloody hard work every day. So I command you Sam for your daily success and I really hope you have a wonderful future with Becca and the children. You are a very strong person and your lives look and shine bright. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou for your support, if I wouldn't of stopped drinking I wouldn't be here to share my journey, life is so precious and short, this house will be done soon then we are hoping to go and see abit more of this world, having survived suicide several times its time to get busy living

[@gailthorpe2288]

Congratulations Sam 8 years of been strong keep up the awesome work and keep going to AA ii helpful

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you! Will do!👍

[@garytoolan397]

YORKSHIRE TEA - We travel to Enniskillen every 3 mths to stock up! Keep up the good work and the excellent videos! And, of course, welcome to Ireland!

[@heidirobinson8734]

Speaking out as you did requires a lot of courage and strength.....and the Will to want to change. Being honest about the ups n downs while Succeeding in your quest to remain sober will no doubt help and encourage others to keep trying too ( no pressure!).....and the point you made about having a network of possative people around you is so true! Please don't underestimate yourself! Sending a big hug to you n yours! Watching you tackle such a big renovation together is inspirational!

[@theirishhomestead]

Love and friendships are number one in life, its difficult trying to tackle anything alone

[@LindaCurrivan]

Bless your little heart, you are a lovely man, lovely family

[@theirishhomestead]

You are so kind. Thanks

[@colettelavery7452]

Sam you are an inspiration to all addicts by talking about how you are doing. Congratulations and very well said and done.Delighted to .hear Toby is doing well. He's the lucky Donkey and the caring family who loves him. Becky I am sure you will be able to use the hive you have put together. As always great progress being made on the stonework plus lot's of tidying as you go.Take care and mind yourselves with the stone's. God bless you all xxxx

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you. I hope my opening up helps someone else out there. Toby is lucky although he may not realise that right now. 🫣 I try to keep things tidy but it's a bit difficult at the moment. Stone and debris everywhere. 😫

[@greenb5716]

YAY. Been waiting for a Toby update. You guys are fantastic!! Well done 👍 for sharing some of your personal story. Everyone has one, very few share theirs which leads to worse problems. ❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much! Yes, it's important to share as so often it helps someone else to hear they're not alone.

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

😮"No Yorkshire Tea in Ireland" 🫣😵 .

[@theirishhomestead]

I know! Sad state of affairs. 😉🤣

[@seanshannon9910]

Hi Sam and Rebecka well done great stone work from somebody who has worked on stone many the day. Don’t forget use roof timbers to case ring beam , exelant video Fair play sharing your alcoholism addiction, this help many others, now the biggi in the farming community is drugs. Keep up the great work kind regards Sean

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks, Sean. We have heard that drugs are a big problem here, but to be fair, it's a big problem everywhere these days along with alcohol. The two often go hand in hand.

[@lieuwina]

Your honesty Sam is most appreciated and a lot of respect to you. Acknowledging your weakness, the need to attend meetings and the help of others is a big step. I wish you the very best on this epic journey of the build, your health and mental health. Well done to rebuilding your life and homestead. Glad Toby is on the mend now. Prayers for you and your family. Have a lovely week.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you. Yes nobody is without weakness buy as you say the ability to acknowledge weakness makes us stronger and more able to help.others.

[@jamesdunican1750]

Good luck ☘️ to you sam keep it up And you have a fantastic family to keep you going Top man

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you 🙌

[@johnshaw4140]

Well done all , and thanks for helping Lou and Emily , hi Toby

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks John. They are lovely people.

[@debcross2335]

If you've been to America then you know that the working class has all undergone mental challenges. It's all over the world like you saw on your travels and know that you have millions of fellowship out here. Keep your head up and keep your family and friends close. I struggle every day. GOD bless you and yours and keep you safe.❤❤❤❤👍🙏

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you for the kind support.

[@gerriobrien1208]

How lovely how you’re caring for Toby!! He found you, didn’t he? He knew you’d be good to him.

[@theirishhomestead]

I suspect so! ♥️

[@patriciathorp4911]

Wishing you everything your heart desires Sam.❤ I presume you're getting Native Irish Black Bees Rebecca. 🎉. Hugs to Toby (I'm sorry to see your reminder about content....probably idle people with nothing better to do with their time)

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks Patricia. Yes sadly some people are a bit much for us and clearly need a reminder about kindness. Yes native Irush bees only. I signed a contract on that at my class. Toby thankfully seems much improved after his antibiotics. ♥️

[@neilgilbert6798]

How do Sam you know our Mark he's been of the alcohol for a couple off years now which i never fought was possible you have got a great family that will always have your back Sam you are good bloke and I'm very proud of what you have achieved all the best cousin day at a time Sam and Rebecca thanks for the update see you on the next one 🇬🇧🇨🇮

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks cuz, the crazy effects of booze can not only wreck one self but its also like a tornado through your loved ones lives, I couldn't see that when I was still on the pop, I'll never be fixed but I can live life one day at a time, miss you dude hope all is good on your end

[@thefceUSMC]

I've been sober for 14.5 years. We do recover. It's the best thing I ever did for me. Keep going ODAAT!

[@theirishhomestead]

Friends of Bill W

[@mariegallagher4725]

Thankyou Sam for being so honest. Plus calling your past addiction an illness. I lost my beautiful daughter at 20yrs she suffered from alcohol addiction and couldn't bare life anymore. She was such a happy child but she struggled when she hit her teens. As her mum I tried so hard to help her but my sweet girl left us. Your honest and heartfelt words truly touched my soul. You are a remarkable man who chose to take control not just for yourself but also for your beautiful, loving family. I wish only the best for you and your wonderful wife Bec and children.❤❤

[@theirishhomestead]

Sorry for your loss, alcohol addiction is a terrible thing, they don't seem to highlight the dangers to young people. I know some members of recovery have been able to do a talk in local schools to be able to listen and answer questions from pupils hopefully it help abit. I'm grateful each day to be alive. I share my story with others, for them to see it is possible to live a life free of the crazy mind tennis one day at a time, Alanon is a great sister fellowship to AA its so supportive. I only realise now the pain I caused through my drinking to the loved ones around me

[@christinehowells5845]

Love your channel you guys sooo interesting to watch your progress with your lovely family so happy Toby us much better keep up the good work x

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou, more progress each day bit by bit

[@hullabaloo-hcd]

Keep up the good work Sam. You are an inspiration 🧡

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much!

[@susandelaney5905]

Kudos to you for taking care of yourself and your family. I totally understand your past struggles and your current victories. Keep your life positive and congrats for being strong. And this build is wonderful. Thanks for sharing!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much! ♥️

[@ml3510]

Great work! Keep it up. I can’t wait to see the roof on. Stay strong😅

[@theirishhomestead]

You and me both! 🤣

[@RetrnRetrn]

Thanks!

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you so much for the kind support. ♥️

[@valeriedavies5200]

Thanks family for another wonderful update of your progress, and Toby's health. Thank you Sam for sharing your personal journey, so many living with no hope and not knowing there is a way through the darkness to find the light.... a beacon of hope for all........

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks Valerie. I really hope by sharing it helps someone out there....

[@macmcdonald9347]

Glad that you’re on the correct road for your life.

[@theirishhomestead]

Thanks. ♥️

[@denisshelly1841]

I’m so impressed with your dedication and commitment to this project as well as caring for toby more importantly Sam I am sure you will remain strong in your journey as thy say one day at a time god speed you all on your adventures

[@theirishhomestead]

Thank you. I'm sure I will stay strong. This place and my family keep me on the right path. 👍♥️

[@jacksg1809]

Well done firstly Sam on the gable end 😅 and secondly for being so honest with us about ur time with alcoholism... unfortunately my husband died at 34 he couldn't find his way out of his dark demon try as we did 🥲 his problem was he couldnt admit he had a problem which is where u were brave 💪 . Any who Toby looks a bit brighter Becca he will get there just take more loving from the family .

[@theirishhomestead]

Thankyou for your openness, its so painful to see someone not reaching for help, I've had a few friends die that way, it was awful I will remember them forever

[@canesacahar]

Great video. Very touching and helpful for a lot of people. What a lovely strong family unit you all are. Big hugs and love to you all..not forgetting the furry and feather members. ❤❤❤

[@theirishhomestead]

You are so kind. Really glad you appreciated the video. Thanks. ♥️