Would You Be Straight If You Could?!! (Dating Trans, Clit Pics and more)

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One thing that I didn't say that I think is important; is the fact that we don't need to go crazy with trying to fit ourselves in a category. If a Lesbian woman and a mtf trans woman are dating...then it's two people dating. Two people that made a connection and are trying to get to know each other...THAT'S IT! We don't have to find labels for a beautiful connection....
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[@AmbersCloset]

One thing that I didn't say that I think is important, is the fact that we don't need to go crazy with trying to fit ourselves in a category. If a Lesbian woman and a mtf trans woman are dating...then it's two people dating. Two people that made a connection and are trying to get to know each other...THAT'S IT! We don't have to find labels for a beautiful connection.... But please tell me what you guys think about all these topics!! Luv you guys!!

[@chrisbedford3923]

Love u!!!

[@beautywithchristelle1373]

preach. love you 💓💓💕💕

[@marisagreen636]

that's so true like why does a relationship need a lable there just in a relationship -they have a connection - they love eachother like nothing else

[@ajeverydaylife4709]

cool video Amber, check out my videos guys i need some feedback. thank you

[@braceface15montgomery12]

amber

[@arielle]

I use gay as an umbrella term too!

[@shenekab.589]

We are all sexual beings. We are all beautiful. Drop the accessories and just be who you are. No label needed.

[@toomanyopinions8353]

+NeeNee B not everyone is sexual Hun

[@shenekab.589]

Maybe not, we all hv love to give. Which can be shown in many ways.

[@Novjuly]

As a bi person, I don't like it because it erases part of my identity. I wouldn't want to be called straight, either.

[@shenekab.589]

+Erica Bourland, I understand. Speaking for myself, I just don't prefer to be labeled. I go with pure connection. People will always say whatever they want about whom ever they choose. Unfortunately, that's the world we live in. I don't let anyone's personal opinions of me. Define who I am.

[@sylphofvoid1381]

I am a bisexual, Im not half straight half gay. Im not straight when Im with a guy and Im not gay when Im with a girl. I am bi with a separate experience from gays and straights and have seen and experienced biphobia and bi erasure from both. So no keep the B. I also know trans people who feel being trans and the trans experience is part of their identity and have their own community. Also keeps a focus on trans issues when talking about the lgbt community, if its not mentioned people will act as if it doesnt exist.

[@AmbersCloset]

Yes! I agree!!👏🏽

[@juncodelrio15]

So , the word trans is used because they need to feel part of a own group? I just asking the almost same thing , if trans people , want to the other refere to them like woman or man , no trans woman or trans man... they still want to not erasure the term trans bc they feel that they have their own comunity?

[@nunyabidness8549]

My mom got fired from her job bc she was gay. Her employer was into her and my mom wasn't into her, so she fired her. We almost lost our house, it was ridiculous. I personally find it very rude when someone says i'm "Half lesbian half straight" bc I'm bisexual. I am bisexual, not half half. I have preferences, I'm not half.

[@blacklez]

Exactly. Same. I'm bisexual, and only bisexual.

[@maybeni288]

Nunya Bidness daaaaamn

[@Novjuly]

I find strength in having a label. I'm bisexual. I don't say I'm gay because I wouldn't say I'm straight. It's not an umbrella term to me.

[@AmbersCloset]

I love that you find strength in that!🙌🏽

[@susiesays5695]

I agree with your comment, Amber. We fall in love with people. Does it matter what sex they are, what gender, what race? No labels are needed! ❤️ xo

[@AmbersCloset]

Yesss!!

[@gabrielles9196]

+Ambers Closet are u and kera still together miss her

[@ayimakrekcut7385]

+Gabrielle S no

[@Queentheresa]

Yeah there shouldn't be labels PERIOD! All that does and open people to criticize and that never fails. Just love and Be loved and love yourself.There is too much hate and competition in the world, can't we all just get along. Also for your birthday you should take a road trip to somewhere u haven't been, experience something new. I always try to do even one new thing on my birthday so, if this was my last day on Earth I wanna say that I lived. If you haven't been to Mexico, GO! Or maybe have a day of relaxation to a spa....pamper yourself. YOU DESERVE IT! Thank you for covering the topics that most people don't.

[@UneakTershai]

Amber! The advice you gave at 5:39-7:04 made me love you even more. Great advice! ❤️

[@AmbersCloset]

❤️☺️❤️

[@elisavelez3260]

This video is so good!! I feel like I need to show this to everyone around me, straight or not, because everyone needs to learn that they're worth everything good life has to give including love. Thank you so much for this Amber. ❤️

[@hollowbluesmarket7887]

I have to say I've always hated the word dyke myself simply because, like you said, some people associate it only in a negative way. And with the word queer I never have. I have friends who also identify as queer individuals. But when i hear people outside of the LGBT community use these terms, i simply enlighten them to the fact that not everyone may be okay with those terms. And i get that once you hear it so many times it can be annoying and make you angry. But one thing i have learned is that when people don't know something is wrong, your job is to educate them on the right steps to take to fix the problem. And patience is a major key in getting things done.

[@AmbersCloset]

Yes I feel the same as you; it being your job to educate others. It's weird because I say it to myself but I would go off on someone other than my friends called me that

[@hollowbluesmarket7887]

+Ambers Closet Believe me, i completely understand, i used to do the same thing. I think, honestly, what helped me was to start asking questions. That may seem weird, but questions help you get answers. I have learned that the question "what did you just say?" always gets people to stop in their tracks. No matter how you say it. And once you have their attention and, calm yourself, and proceed to educated them. It will make you feel better, and they will have learned something new. Im sure you know how hard it is to listen to someone or do what they want if they're lashing out at you and making you feel like you're terrible. But thats just my thought.

[@TrVlogs82]

Spot on.

[@veronicajade20]

Blue skin? Lmao! I love it! Amber for President, lol!

[@AmbersCloset]

Yeaaaaaaahh I have 1 vote!! Lol

[@veronicajade20]

Lol! But of course! I swear you were a pharoah in a past life, lol. You are definitely meant to be a leader in some capacity. 😉

[@shanilromero1905]

+Ambers Closet correction 2

[@desix7710]

why am i just finding out about this amazing beautiful person now ?!?!?!

[@susiesays5695]

I feel like you're lucky because now, if you have time, you can watch all her other videos! I'd love to be able to go back and watch them all again, but for the first time! 👍🏽

[@bluebutterflyofdoom]

+SusieSays that's what I was gonna say. Have fun catching up Desi. 😊

[@maybeni288]

Desi x loool

[@maybeni288]

Desi x I'm following her since 2014

[@maybeni288]

Desi x no 2015!

[@nicholasmarshall116]

So inspirational...So true...if you have no one to love you love yourself first. positive energy attracts positive energy. Looking forward to your next vid Amber!!

[@ademayorable1]

Girl, that pros list thing really got to me. I'm pretty new to the whole self-love/self-compassion thing and just thinking about the positive ways I treat other people and then turning that back on myself. Like it sounds so simple but it's hard. Idk just hearing the way you said it made it sound so simple. Love you!

[@Olivereliocorcordium1983]

I honestly think this quote sums it up perfectly. “Something unexpected seemed to clear away between us, and, for a second, it seemed there was absolutely no difference in age between us, just two men kissing, and even this seemed to dissolve, as I began to feel we were not even two men, just two beings.” - (Call Me By Your Name, Andre Aciman) I love this quote so much because it speaks to exactly what we all are if you strip away all the damn labels. At the core we are all just beings who want to be loved and trying to live our lives. I as a transguy just want to walk the world with those who are of the LGBT community and who are not. I just want to co-exist with people thats it. and I honestly think things are just getting way too out of hand on all sides of things. Everyone is so obsessed with labels and trying to force others into boxes that I just won't and NEVER fit in, and trying to force things on others. its all rediculous! like let people just live their lives and worry about your damn self! XD For example, my cousin is a very political, conservative person. (my whole family is) so when I came out as trans, he was like "well you know what birthname i'm going to call you (nickname of my birthname) because ive known as that my entire life." Now, I had two options in this situation: One, I could have reacted like most people do now and be like: "Well you HAVE to call me this or else." Or two, I can accept this opinion, honor the difference of said opinion and not let it affect me at all, and put no value in it and live my life. I went with option two, (and i already know people are going to jump all over me for saying this, but please try to understand before judging the situation.) Here is why? If you know who you are it doesn't matter how long you have known someone be it family or friend. Who you were to them back then, is not who you are now. Because no one on this planet can know who you are better than yourself, so any time I hear anything that is remotely negative when it comes to me being trans or if its a comment of "Well I think you are just a masculine lesbian." and you get misgender 24/7 like I do. I simply tell myself, "You know who you are and you know who you want to become. they don't have to like it, they don't have to agree with it and they don't have to accept it. As long as YOU know who you are then other peoples opinions of you do not matter. (Most of this stuff is coming from my own family, because of the way I came into this world which I am not going to talk about here. respectfully) this is not easy I know this, I am still fighting with myself about this very thing. And here is the funny part, I recently met a girl a straight/ bisexual girl. whose entire family is basically like my family to a T the only differences, her family does not care at all that I am trans and she is a very progressive Christian. And she has a big crush on me and is coming to visit me some time in August. She understands how my family is and she also understands that I am who I am to her, and that who I am to her is all that matters. I personally am not religious at all and our politics when it comes to each other is a little different in certain areas but we both respect one another for our differences and respect each other for the things that make us the same. In other words, what others think of you personally is not your business and what I think of them isn't their business. There is always going to be someone out there who has got some bullshit to say whether they should say so or not. That isn't going to change, you cannot make everyone happy, so you might as well just live your life how you want as along as you aren't hurting anyone and I am talking (abuse of any kind, murder.) If you are attracted to someone that you are attracted to the person as a whole not the label they are attached to. The label is just there to help you figure out your preferences which, watching porn can do that too. XD but... you get what I mean. Being LGBT is only PART of who you are not the be all end all. If that makes sense. I am trans, I am bisexual but I am also a writer, a drawer, a gamer, a person who loves dogs etc. Don't just hyper focus on the labels and just be yourself. sorry amber for this being so long! XD but i hope it makes sense.

[@LiaLia-fu1di]

Amber you're so amazing not only are you not afraid to give advice but you also keep it real

[@heydreakins]

I just downloaded the app and I can already tell I'm gonna be addicted...thanks Amber!!! No, really, thanks!

[@ajanay50]

very inspirational video when talking about loving yourself

[@Glam721]

Hi Amber; happy early birthday! I know how much you love your fans/family so I think you would have a blast hosting a costume party in honor of your birthday with decorations that are as original and beautiful as you are. And have a photo booth for everyone to take home a keepsake to always remember this special moment with such a phenomenal woman. Kind of a Sweet 16 mixed with a Meet and Greet. Thank you for being the change that we all need to see. Love ya!

[@tynniesia]

for your birthday, you should gather all of your friends and travel. visit places you haven't been and try different foods. Buy some souvenirs and go shopping. Traveling is my absolute favorite thing to do and I think you may annoy it too!

[@LiveHealthy23]

6:12 Although I disagree with this disclaimer (Even evil deserves and possibly even needs more love, they are human too born with the disposition that we consider evil and they consider normal. Everyone deserves perspective and understanding. This is how we combat evil.) I absolutely LOVE this video Amber. You truly are amazing. It's no wonder that Ari and the other KZbin friends you've made and introduced us too speak so highly of you. You most certainly are a beautiful soul and I greatly appreciate you spreading this awareness and opening up this conversation for all your viewers. It's definitely an important and relevant conversation that I am happy to be a part of with you and within my social circle. I love you.

[@AmbersCloset]

Thank you so much!! And I think it says a lot about you to want to give love to those that are evil.... Of course I love the idea of fighting evil with love, but I couldn't help think of those that are from from even being able to grasp the idea of love because hate is so deep. But if a war starts and we need to spread love to make change...I'll be right there with you!!

[@LiveHealthy23]

+Ambers Closet It must be a Virgo thing! 😜

[@tolupuplove]

For your Birthday, get your friends together and go scuba diving and jet skiing. Hit up some bomb ass restaurants throughout the day and do some go kart racing or skyzone or both and then rent out a place with a pool or go hit the club with all your friends and turn tf up. I think that'll be a dope vlog and you'll enjoy yourself :)

[@sammyg6888]

I love how positive you are, we need more people in the world like you. ❤ xxx

[@HokutoAnsatsuken]

For your birthday, take a road trip throughout the entire state of California. Post lots of pics and videos so I can live vicariously through you lol Definitely go to the Golden Gate Bridge.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Amber I am glad that you are talking about these hot topics because they need to be discuss

[@OtherStrange]

i think all labels should be decided by the person. if someone wants to refer to herself as a trans woman she can. if she feels like thats a significant part of who she is she shouldn't be ashamed to claim it as her title. same goes for two people who maybe have the same sexuality but one just calls herself gay and the other calls herself bisexual-homoromantic, if its what makes them personally feel comfortable then I don't see a problem with it. I do, however, see a problem with other people, especially non lgbt people, trying to tell us what we should and shouldn't call ourselves. no one can tell you you have to be offended by the word "queer", if you only use it towards yourself and other people who are comfortable with it who tf cares.

[@AntisocialHawty]

"Your Labels are for others; your sexuality is for yourself " ... Once, Said Jade (Foxy) in which I agree. In my opinion, Labels are for helping those outside of the LGBTQ understand what one may identify themselves as within the LGBTQ community. I personally don't get bothered by labels b/c I know who I am... im the only person that can identify me for me no one else can. What's even more important is that I am comfortable w/ who I am.... sure I sometime refer to myself as lesbian, gay or a woman who loves women b/c I am not unnerved by it but I think it Solely depends on the person. Only you can define you! Be you and be damn good at it!

[@AmbersCloset]

Exactly! I've always said that.🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@lysalouis2626]

Okay so you should 1. Paint the town Neon. Have a color powder party. That's sounds crazy fun

[@kingtoyab69]

I wudnt change from being gay to straight becus going through all those hardships made me the better and stronger person today.

[@ameenaking9669]

for ur birthday I think u should go hiking at night with ur friends eating ur favorite foods, playing fun games and singing lol

[@siarac4409]

You should create a bucket list full of spontaneous fun things with your friends and try to do everything on it before the night is over

[@vickylopez1602]

Well I've seen a bunch of your videos but I never really comment and this video really got me thinking. I think you are bomb and how you express yourself is just awesome. Smile is always poppin too.

[@DJJazyJanae]

I think for your bday you should do a rooftop party with waitress passing around drinks and food and also have like adult games going on, like drunken Jenna or uno. That would be so dope with a glow in the dark theme. 🙌🏽😁

[@tolupuplove]

That Candid app gives me so much life when I'm bored!

[@mieshahegwood2600]

I like the direction you went with this video. It's good to have a balance between the fun videos showing everyone turning up and one's like these that bring up important topics in the lgbt community. Look forward to seeing more of these Amber. Awesome job. 😉

[@ANNABFRESH1]

Maybe like a 80s themed party maybe rent out a skating ring...with everybody dressed up like their from the 80s and of course alcohol lol or like a masquerade Virgo themed party that would be dope as well. I'm glad to be apart of the Virgo season we rock

[@SkylarBrooke]

for your birthday, you should definitely have a party and invite a few of your dollface gangstaz! do whatever theme you want 💜💜💜

[@lysalouis2626]

You should have a 2. Have a water balloon extravaganza fight. Have like OD balloons and go crazy with it.

[@normekasmith8765]

For your birthday you should go to your closest friends and ask them to write down 10 things that they think that you would never in your life do and put in a hat and the first five that you picked you have to do no matter how crazy it is. (within reason, dont do herion or something like that). I did this for my last birthday and I ended up getting a nose piercing, joining a Mexican independence parade( I'm African American) playing a triangle. And other things. .. but it a fun way to create memories with the people you love and have fun too.

[@stephanieparker558]

Thank you for the inspirational words about loving yourself

[@Bnromero]

Hey Amber, for your birthday you should def surround yourself with good vibes and maybe get a beach house that way you and all your friends can just enjoy yourselves. If not that maybe a get a couple of friends and go to Disneyland or six flags?

[@davoncaldwell69]

Amber I a huge fan. For your birthday you should go out dancing with some friends and have some drinks. just let loose and go crazy. the best thing about do that is you feel so free and weight less that it becomes unreal and unimaginable. Or just stay home and sit in your house in silence and focus on you. let your mind, body, and spirit wonder to the deepest place inside you and see what you find, because the journey is wonder. I've tried it befor and it was not only one of the best birthday gift I had, but the best day because what I found I did know was even there. Love your videos and keep being beautiful and keep doing you ;)

[@lorainemerriss8835]

For your birthday, start it off right with some mamosas for bfast, then hit the spa with some friends (tipsy of course). Once you're all relaxed from the chilltivities, head over to that baller friend's house who's gonna have a day long cookout for you. Hopefully a pool would be involved, but you'll still have fun without it. Finally, as the time ticks by (I hope you'll eat some of the food from the cookout bc otherwise you're gonna be hella drunk) the clock will strike 11pm which is turn up time. You'll hit your favorite bars and clubs with your friends and hopefully someone will be responsible because you've gotta get back somehow. You'll wake up the next day with the spins, but damn that was a good birthday!

[@DreamahKilgore]

I think for your birthday you should travel to somewhere that you've been really wanting to go to, takes some friends, then find something fun to do at the place you decided to travel to. 😊

[@dykevader01]

For me the whole spectrum of terms is needed. Why force to use umbrella terms, if you can choose, find your own and best? Labels are important - they cover the comlexity of human nature. I'm proud of my labels and I love those terms. We need them for sure. Of course for trans matters what's in the end... but the term shows, how much struggles they had to go trough and it never should be forgoten, 'couse it was a lot to bare with - it's like thinking cancer isn't a necessary term 'couse all that matters is death/remison of it. People need labels to feel good and valid. They need, at least now, something to be proud of and to call themselves, name their identity. AND In my country and language "gay" means a man only. So that way I need the L. To be there. To be seen. Sex is a body. Gender is how you feel with the society roles for this bodies and how you like yourself. We really need it. It helps to show, that this gender roles just aren't good for people nowdays. It helps to be ourselves. I'm cis and I'm okey with my pronaunce as she/her, but I tend to break some "rules", since I was a child. I don't match the girly, pink object of lust. And I'm happy I don't have to. I'm happy that beein' neutral to what society tells me I have to or not and to use things that apear manly beein' a proud woman is a choice and it has a term, it has been seen and told, it is as valid as any other. We, LGBTQ+ members can call ourselves as we like, be ourselves how we like and we need it. And no word is a slur if you won't make it one. Queer is neutral nowdays. If you don't like it, tell 'em. You can choose how people can and how can't talk to you. I'm okey with queer 100%, so I don't mind. But, if I get insecure about a term, it's gay. It's used as a slur even now, a common one. Though I'm proud to be a lesbian and gay, in English understanding of the word, if someone calls me gay I'm not sure with what intencions. The dyke part - yeeeeees!!! I want to get a T-shirt which says "Save a bike, ride a dyke" and my friend was like "well... why you want an insult?". Umm... as far as I know I call myself that way. I'm not insulting myself, that's for sure. I love the word. Just like bitch. I know, it is an insult, always was, but not for me. I use it often - most of the time it's nautral or positive. So, like I've said before - w ord is not an isnult untill you make it a one.

[@healingsoundsbybel2819]

Wow you really blossomed into a KZbin role model and leader.. I was watching your old videos when you 1st made KZbin and it was great! But you can really see the growth through out your videos.. Amber for President!!! 🇺🇸

[@autumngrace7393]

Great content! 👏👏👏 Good job Amber! Proud of you! 😙❤🌈

[@hollowbluesmarket7887]

I think for your birthday you should do things you've always wanted to do or have been scared to do. Life is short, but its a journey. Always wanted a tattoo? Get that. Want to get pet monkey? Whose stopping you. Sky diving, hang gliding, cliff jumping, or even swimming with the dolphin. I like extreme stuff, so maybe its just me. But experiences aren't just for bragging rights, they're a part of life. But anything you do, make sure its with the people you love. Even if you just go play laser tag with 3 close friends and your family; showing the important people in your life that every year of life you spend is special only because of them is a prize. Not just for them, but for you as well.

[@lysalouis2626]

You should 3. Have a slip and slide party, but replace the water with chocolate and whip cream. 😉

[@shawtyisdopeb6070]

Yo this is why I love Amber 😩❤️ she deff deserves millions of flowers! 💯

[@AmbersCloset]

❤️❤️

[@shawtyisdopeb6070]

You replied!!!! 😩❤️ day is made!!!

[@Classejouvence]

I'm so happy you mentioned Candid!! I joined ur group and Ari like 2 days ago and some ppl were saying that you guys are not even on the app, you just told us to go there so you could get money. Of course that's bullshit!! But anyway thank you for being amazing!!😍 If I could chose to be straight I wouldn't, yes it has been hard being who I am and coming from a black family but again the best thing in life doesn't come easy. I have an amazing girlfriend and I'm happy, I wouldn't trait trade that for anything😘 I need to think about ur bday (I will be back😂), cuz we need to do it big!😎😎

[@yarizaleon]

The cake design as deck of cards

[@gracemary874]

amber are you ever gonna go back to your curls?? i love your dreads but i low key miss your curls

[@Theresabuginthesink]

I rock with you frfr no matter what you do I support you

[@jap_com8709]

Amber I'm a big fan and I think ur very right about this video I think u should do Wat ever u feel comfortable doing for ur birthday just like put all ur fav things to do in one big adventure and have a special birthday❣🤗

[@lesclark4706]

Okay so I have a suggestion for the giveaways that you do there is a site that people use that picks the people randomly for you so it makes it easier and fair for all the people who follow your instructions for the videos giveaway. I have seen several youtubers use them in videos. I think that for your birthday +Amberscloset you should do a secret meet up for a small intimate number of people. Then I think you should pamper yourself you are always working and it wouldn't hurt to go do something without the camera and just have a nice intimate time with great friends and good food. And do something you have never done before just enjoy your day. I love the time you give to us but it is important to take care of you aswell.

[@KristyCato]

OMG AMBER SEND HER MY BOOK THAT I SENT YOU IT WILL HELP HER .. This was the girl whose mother didnt think she would be good enough for anyone ..

[@S.Naohmie]

Honestly love your videos can't believe I only just came across you, I'm straight but this is such a mind opening video. I love your vibes amber keep spreading that energy 💜✨

[@Skygurl2012lmao]

When you a kinda thug but Amber hit such good points that you get teared up. #thugtears

[@sunnafridjonsdottir]

You are such a lightworker, love you girl, keep it up

[@bunnyleelucky]

everyone is worth to be loved!!! right!

[@cheekiereynolds]

I so love your channel. I feel so at home when I watch your videos. You're like the sister I always wished I had.

[@jacoolshay]

That's crazy and I hate labels also but I'm a Trans Guy it is hard to tell some people because people can be so mean all we want is friendship with other people in the LGBTQ community.

[@lysalouis2626]

You should 6. Celebrate by giving back, surprise a fan and let them sing to you "happy birthday live"

[@singerspurpose]

Gay covers everything for me because I don't care what a persons gender is or was. If I am attracted to and love them as a person, that is all that matters. Whatever a person identify as, I would date them, no question.

[@mochalove3797]

I think know you should get to the Bahamas for your birthday and try something new that you have always wanted to do. for example sky diving, skinny dipping or dying get your hair a crazy color lol. 💜💜💜

[@mochalove3797]

lol I meant go typo 💜

[@reinamia5550]

bruh you should go with your close friends and family to the Caribbean islands or somewhere tropical then have like a beach party with a bonfire, lounge area with hookah and music bumping. Oh and of course gotta have some bomb ass food lol

[@ayelexi]

I am a little new with following you, but I do have your app, so I feel like I don't really know you rather know more of you. You know I mean? But besides that I feel like you might like getting lit on the river!! So what you do is you start at the top and you float all the way down while drinking, stopping at shotgun island, and even smoking a bit. Then when that's over, takes about 3 hours, you hit the square at night! Obviously your gonna be hungry so you go grab yourself a dirty dog or a slice of pizza, from a small window, or both lol!!! Day completed!

[@NiyyaDoll]

if Amber ran for president I'd vote on a heartbeat and if she became president that'd be so great lol

[@michellrosillo3030]

I think you should visit Japan for your birthday. Thank you for creating this amazing video. :)

[@julissaruizvlogz]

Damn this shit was real talk 😳💯

[@Chi_Rebel89]

👏👏👏 great video! that smile at the end 😍

[@juliasmith1727]

For your birthday i think you would want to go on a nice vacation to Hawaii and go zip lining and hiking with Ava. Lol that's my guess for the giveaway XD

[@breeoldford]

For your birthday, ask your closest friends to plan your day. They will have noticed things about you you have not and will think of things you enjoy that you have not heard. If you don't like surprises than ask for a list of what's going to happen.

[@loveux0x]

Self love is the hardest kind of love

[@AmbersCloset]

Yes! But I think it's the most rewarding❤️

[@Ile..sWorld]

For your birthday u should have a neon/mascaraed kinda them when get the light bulbs for it then just have lots of fun games and just let loose

[@lostmoon7040]

I spoke to my brother a few weeks ago and he asked if I was still on the whole liking girls thing (I'm a teenager girl). I'm going to be honest even though I said yes it caught me off guard that he would ask that and I got a bit scared cause I don't want him to end up hating me. The same thing has also happened with my eldest cousin and idk it's just weird having them ask. I also want to come out to the rest of my family but I've seen some of their reactions to gay people and it's made me nervous as hell.

[@billysmith4183]

Lost Moon god hates you and so should your brother

[@turtles_are_cuties]

I know it's late but make sure that you are stable in your life befire coming out, I know you would rather tell your family so they know and it feels as though you are not hiding a part of yourself. But please, if you feel as though your family might make you feel bad about your sexuality, try to come out when you feel sure and stable in your mental health and your life in general

[@abigailr.7487]

Okayyy educate us amber 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@lacyh.316]

You have a beautiful soul, Amber. I love you. Keep doing what you're doing. ❤

[@rianna.g-c]

your skin is so pretty!

[@ronip7352]

Prank call or video call your fans with someone your friends!!

[@jaylacarter6978]

As a bi person i hate being called gay because its not who i am and i have no problem with hey people because they are amazing in there own way and i respect them a lot

[@briataylor3266]

Birthday Plans!!! You should do something that will be remembered for a long time. A day with fun and wild activites. Make sure to get a night of good sleep before you're birthDAY (12am)!! LOL I would start by maybe getting a good run in just to up my energy for the day OR have you and your friends do a breakfast in bed. Throughout the day you should find some activites around the area you live in like FoodFestivies, a concert later that night, paintball OR anything you haven't done yet!! Then later on that night grab your friends and head to the strip club if that what you prefer

[@Ali_Ana24]

Birthday idea- I'm not sure where you're staying rn but it seems to me you love Vegas and poker! So take a trip to Vegas w a group of friends. Start the day w an adventure you've never done before such as skydiving or riding a helicopter, Hit up casinos later to play some poker, then later throw a bomb ass party! . If not Vegas then plan a trip somewhere else that you've been needing to visit w the same ideas. I know you love traveling so why not w a good group of friends!

[@Violetkrazzii]

For your birthday you should do something on your bucket list or something out the usual! Go zip-lining or skydive or do something crazy wild that you'd love to do and haven't done 😊 during the day do things you've always wanted to and at night turn up with your friends 😛 just have a great birthday and don't procrastinate you got legs so do what you can 😊 have a great birthday and do somethings you haven't done before and have fun 💕

[@susiesays5695]

And vlog it for us! 😘

[@SkylarBrooke]

"BLUE-SKINNED MOFO" Amber, you are HILARIOUS AS FUUUUCCCKKKK

[@natbenard4676]

Pretty sure I'm obsessed to your channel 😽😩🙄

[@marilattimore]

Omg come to Orlando! I LOVE this!!

[@Dotty2times]

"I'm gunna turn my skin blue" I fuckin cried

[@kaitlano6443]

for your birthday go laser tagging and go karting🙌 ps. who doesnt like a girl in a lazy tag uniform😂😂

[@kortneytackett4326]

Birthday idea::: amber , go somewhere u have always wanted to go. bring a few special people or even that special woman in ur life. go on a few romantic dates so u can make great memories but as the same time make sure u do stuff, see stuff that u have never done before. u only live once. make the best of the time u have , go to beautiful places, and spend it with special people. that would be a memorable birthday. #ur beautiful

[@gracesantiago1338]

everyone does deserve love and it's always hard to think that someone like me could have that love some day but what you said means so much to me ❤ that's something I've struggles with for a really long time now. I love you so much amber. you're such a beautiful person inside and out and you have helped me be comfortable with who I am.❤❤❤

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

That app sounds fun. downloading it now. thanks Amber!

[@sugarcheeks22]

In regards to your birthday....hmm Everything birthday is special and should celebrated as such. Do something that you have never done before, like taking a trip to the Grand Canyon, rock climbing or going to Niagara Falls. Do something that will have a lasting memory because you only live once. ( Then share your experience with us, lol😉😀😛)

[@Cryssysnow]

Day 1: Have a party and invite 50 of your fans that you and your friends can randomly pick so that you can meet the people that love and support you. Day 2: Fly out to celebrate with your family and your boo doing one thing that you loved most as a kid. Day 3: Have a romantic mini vaca with your boo where she can have you all to herself.

[@sugarcheeks22]

I say love is love and label's are not needed. It's sad that some people can't come to terms with another person's choice and feel the need disrespect or degrade them in order to try and prove a point or push their beliefs onto another. If it's not you or has nothing to do with you then leave it alone.

[@semira6184]

loved the video Amber❤

[@jaylacarter6978]

i think you should have like a beach party for your birthday. You can have like different games drinks and food. Since you like sports Amber then you can have play volleyball, football stuff like that 😊😊

[@abbiegardner723]

Start your birthday with a huge relaxing breakfast in bed, then after that go do something extreme that you can remember that you did on that particular birthday, eg, skydiving! Then at night throw a mint house party with all your friends, house parties are how we always get down in New Zealand!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY XXX

[@Lunabreed]

omg I saw that conversation about whether it was you or not that commented on that post and I really wanted to know if it was😆 i love the app btw, I've already posten like 15 things in the group you created 😁