Would You Be Straight If You Could?!! (Dating Trans, Clit Pics and more)

[@AmbersCloset]

One thing that I didn't say that I think is important, is the fact that we don't need to go crazy with trying to fit ourselves in a category. If a Lesbian woman and a mtf trans woman are dating...then it's two people dating. Two people that made a connection and are trying to get to know each other...THAT'S IT! We don't have to find labels for a beautiful connection.... But please tell me what you guys think about all these topics!! Luv you guys!!

[@chrisbedford3923]

Love u!!!

[@beautywithchristelle1373]

preach. love you 💓💓💕💕

[@marisagreen636]

that's so true like why does a relationship need a lable there just in a relationship -they have a connection - they love eachother like nothing else

[@ajeverydaylife4709]

cool video Amber, check out my videos guys i need some feedback. thank you

[@braceface15montgomery12]

amber

[@arielle]

I use gay as an umbrella term too!

[@shenekab.589]

We are all sexual beings. We are all beautiful. Drop the accessories and just be who you are. No label needed.

[@toomanyopinions8353]

+NeeNee B not everyone is sexual Hun

[@shenekab.589]

Maybe not, we all hv love to give. Which can be shown in many ways.

[@Novjuly]

As a bi person, I don't like it because it erases part of my identity. I wouldn't want to be called straight, either.

[@shenekab.589]

+Erica Bourland, I understand. Speaking for myself, I just don't prefer to be labeled. I go with pure connection. People will always say whatever they want about whom ever they choose. Unfortunately, that's the world we live in. I don't let anyone's personal opinions of me. Define who I am.

[@nunyabidness8549]

My mom got fired from her job bc she was gay. Her employer was into her and my mom wasn't into her, so she fired her. We almost lost our house, it was ridiculous. I personally find it very rude when someone says i'm "Half lesbian half straight" bc I'm bisexual. I am bisexual, not half half. I have preferences, I'm not half.

[@blacklez]

Exactly. Same. I'm bisexual, and only bisexual.

[@maybeni288]

Nunya Bidness daaaaamn

[@elisavelez3260]

This video is so good!! I feel like I need to show this to everyone around me, straight or not, because everyone needs to learn that they're worth everything good life has to give including love. Thank you so much for this Amber. ❤️

[@sylphofvoid1381]

I am a bisexual, Im not half straight half gay. Im not straight when Im with a guy and Im not gay when Im with a girl. I am bi with a separate experience from gays and straights and have seen and experienced biphobia and bi erasure from both. So no keep the B. I also know trans people who feel being trans and the trans experience is part of their identity and have their own community. Also keeps a focus on trans issues when talking about the lgbt community, if its not mentioned people will act as if it doesnt exist.

[@AmbersCloset]

Yes! I agree!!👏🏽

[@juncodelrio15]

So , the word trans is used because they need to feel part of a own group? I just asking the almost same thing , if trans people , want to the other refere to them like woman or man , no trans woman or trans man... they still want to not erasure the term trans bc they feel that they have their own comunity?

[@UneakTershai]

Amber! The advice you gave at 5:39-7:04 made me love you even more. Great advice! ❤️

[@AmbersCloset]

❤️☺️❤️

[@ademayorable1]

Girl, that pros list thing really got to me. I'm pretty new to the whole self-love/self-compassion thing and just thinking about the positive ways I treat other people and then turning that back on myself. Like it sounds so simple but it's hard. Idk just hearing the way you said it made it sound so simple. Love you!

[@Queentheresa]

Yeah there shouldn't be labels PERIOD! All that does and open people to criticize and that never fails. Just love and Be loved and love yourself.There is too much hate and competition in the world, can't we all just get along. Also for your birthday you should take a road trip to somewhere u haven't been, experience something new. I always try to do even one new thing on my birthday so, if this was my last day on Earth I wanna say that I lived. If you haven't been to Mexico, GO! Or maybe have a day of relaxation to a spa....pamper yourself. YOU DESERVE IT! Thank you for covering the topics that most people don't.

[@LiaLia-fu1di]

Amber you're so amazing not only are you not afraid to give advice but you also keep it real

[@heydreakins]

I just downloaded the app and I can already tell I'm gonna be addicted...thanks Amber!!! No, really, thanks!

[@susiesays5695]

I agree with your comment, Amber. We fall in love with people. Does it matter what sex they are, what gender, what race? No labels are needed! ❤️ xo

[@AmbersCloset]

Yesss!!

[@gabrielles9196]

+Ambers Closet are u and kera still together miss her

[@ayimakrekcut7385]

+Gabrielle S no

[@nicholasmarshall116]

So inspirational...So true...if you have no one to love you love yourself first. positive energy attracts positive energy. Looking forward to your next vid Amber!!

[@ajanay50]

very inspirational video when talking about loving yourself

[@hollowbluesmarket7887]

I have to say I've always hated the word dyke myself simply because, like you said, some people associate it only in a negative way. And with the word queer I never have. I have friends who also identify as queer individuals. But when i hear people outside of the LGBT community use these terms, i simply enlighten them to the fact that not everyone may be okay with those terms. And i get that once you hear it so many times it can be annoying and make you angry. But one thing i have learned is that when people don't know something is wrong, your job is to educate them on the right steps to take to fix the problem. And patience is a major key in getting things done.

[@AmbersCloset]

Yes I feel the same as you; it being your job to educate others. It's weird because I say it to myself but I would go off on someone other than my friends called me that

[@hollowbluesmarket7887]

+Ambers Closet Believe me, i completely understand, i used to do the same thing. I think, honestly, what helped me was to start asking questions. That may seem weird, but questions help you get answers. I have learned that the question "what did you just say?" always gets people to stop in their tracks. No matter how you say it. And once you have their attention and, calm yourself, and proceed to educated them. It will make you feel better, and they will have learned something new. Im sure you know how hard it is to listen to someone or do what they want if they're lashing out at you and making you feel like you're terrible. But thats just my thought.

[@TrVlogs82]

Spot on.

[@sammyg6888]

I love how positive you are, we need more people in the world like you. ❤ xxx

[@Novjuly]

I find strength in having a label. I'm bisexual. I don't say I'm gay because I wouldn't say I'm straight. It's not an umbrella term to me.

[@AmbersCloset]

I love that you find strength in that!🙌🏽

[@LofimusicbyBel]

Wow you really blossomed into a KZbin role model and leader.. I was watching your old videos when you 1st made KZbin and it was great! But you can really see the growth through out your videos.. Amber for President!!! 🇺🇸

[@Glam721]

Hi Amber; happy early birthday! I know how much you love your fans/family so I think you would have a blast hosting a costume party in honor of your birthday with decorations that are as original and beautiful as you are. And have a photo booth for everyone to take home a keepsake to always remember this special moment with such a phenomenal woman. Kind of a Sweet 16 mixed with a Meet and Greet. Thank you for being the change that we all need to see. Love ya!

[@tolupuplove]

That Candid app gives me so much life when I'm bored!

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Amber I am glad that you are talking about these hot topics because they need to be discuss

[@Olivereliocorcordium1983]

I honestly think this quote sums it up perfectly. “Something unexpected seemed to clear away between us, and, for a second, it seemed there was absolutely no difference in age between us, just two men kissing, and even this seemed to dissolve, as I began to feel we were not even two men, just two beings.” - (Call Me By Your Name, Andre Aciman) I love this quote so much because it speaks to exactly what we all are if you strip away all the damn labels. At the core we are all just beings who want to be loved and trying to live our lives. I as a transguy just want to walk the world with those who are of the LGBT community and who are not. I just want to co-exist with people thats it. and I honestly think things are just getting way too out of hand on all sides of things. Everyone is so obsessed with labels and trying to force others into boxes that I just won't and NEVER fit in, and trying to force things on others. its all rediculous! like let people just live their lives and worry about your damn self! XD For example, my cousin is a very political, conservative person. (my whole family is) so when I came out as trans, he was like "well you know what birthname i'm going to call you (nickname of my birthname) because ive known as that my entire life." Now, I had two options in this situation: One, I could have reacted like most people do now and be like: "Well you HAVE to call me this or else." Or two, I can accept this opinion, honor the difference of said opinion and not let it affect me at all, and put no value in it and live my life. I went with option two, (and i already know people are going to jump all over me for saying this, but please try to understand before judging the situation.) Here is why? If you know who you are it doesn't matter how long you have known someone be it family or friend. Who you were to them back then, is not who you are now. Because no one on this planet can know who you are better than yourself, so any time I hear anything that is remotely negative when it comes to me being trans or if its a comment of "Well I think you are just a masculine lesbian." and you get misgender 24/7 like I do. I simply tell myself, "You know who you are and you know who you want to become. they don't have to like it, they don't have to agree with it and they don't have to accept it. As long as YOU know who you are then other peoples opinions of you do not matter. (Most of this stuff is coming from my own family, because of the way I came into this world which I am not going to talk about here. respectfully) this is not easy I know this, I am still fighting with myself about this very thing. And here is the funny part, I recently met a girl a straight/ bisexual girl. whose entire family is basically like my family to a T the only differences, her family does not care at all that I am trans and she is a very progressive Christian. And she has a big crush on me and is coming to visit me some time in August. She understands how my family is and she also understands that I am who I am to her, and that who I am to her is all that matters. I personally am not religious at all and our politics when it comes to each other is a little different in certain areas but we both respect one another for our differences and respect each other for the things that make us the same. In other words, what others think of you personally is not your business and what I think of them isn't their business. There is always going to be someone out there who has got some bullshit to say whether they should say so or not. That isn't going to change, you cannot make everyone happy, so you might as well just live your life how you want as along as you aren't hurting anyone and I am talking (abuse of any kind, murder.) If you are attracted to someone that you are attracted to the person as a whole not the label they are attached to. The label is just there to help you figure out your preferences which, watching porn can do that too. XD but... you get what I mean. Being LGBT is only PART of who you are not the be all end all. If that makes sense. I am trans, I am bisexual but I am also a writer, a drawer, a gamer, a person who loves dogs etc. Don't just hyper focus on the labels and just be yourself. sorry amber for this being so long! XD but i hope it makes sense.

[@mieshahegwood2600]

I like the direction you went with this video. It's good to have a balance between the fun videos showing everyone turning up and one's like these that bring up important topics in the lgbt community. Look forward to seeing more of these Amber. Awesome job. 😉

[@LiveHealthy23]

6:12 Although I disagree with this disclaimer (Even evil deserves and possibly even needs more love, they are human too born with the disposition that we consider evil and they consider normal. Everyone deserves perspective and understanding. This is how we combat evil.) I absolutely LOVE this video Amber. You truly are amazing. It's no wonder that Ari and the other KZbin friends you've made and introduced us too speak so highly of you. You most certainly are a beautiful soul and I greatly appreciate you spreading this awareness and opening up this conversation for all your viewers. It's definitely an important and relevant conversation that I am happy to be a part of with you and within my social circle. I love you.

[@AmbersCloset]

Thank you so much!! And I think it says a lot about you to want to give love to those that are evil.... Of course I love the idea of fighting evil with love, but I couldn't help think of those that are from from even being able to grasp the idea of love because hate is so deep. But if a war starts and we need to spread love to make change...I'll be right there with you!!

[@LiveHealthy23]

+Ambers Closet It must be a Virgo thing! 😜

[@desix7710]

why am i just finding out about this amazing beautiful person now ?!?!?!

[@susiesays5695]

I feel like you're lucky because now, if you have time, you can watch all her other videos! I'd love to be able to go back and watch them all again, but for the first time! 👍🏽

[@bluebutterflyofdoom]

+SusieSays that's what I was gonna say. Have fun catching up Desi. 😊

[@maybeni288]

Desi x loool

[@maybeni288]

Desi x I'm following her since 2014

[@maybeni288]

Desi x no 2015!

[@tynniesia]

for your birthday, you should gather all of your friends and travel. visit places you haven't been and try different foods. Buy some souvenirs and go shopping. Traveling is my absolute favorite thing to do and I think you may annoy it too!

[@HokutoAnsatsuken]

For your birthday, take a road trip throughout the entire state of California. Post lots of pics and videos so I can live vicariously through you lol Definitely go to the Golden Gate Bridge.

[@autumngrace7393]

Great content! 👏👏👏 Good job Amber! Proud of you! 😙❤🌈

[@tolupuplove]

For your Birthday, get your friends together and go scuba diving and jet skiing. Hit up some bomb ass restaurants throughout the day and do some go kart racing or skyzone or both and then rent out a place with a pool or go hit the club with all your friends and turn tf up. I think that'll be a dope vlog and you'll enjoy yourself :)

[@vickylopez1602]

Well I've seen a bunch of your videos but I never really comment and this video really got me thinking. I think you are bomb and how you express yourself is just awesome. Smile is always poppin too.

[@Galzilla]

i think all labels should be decided by the person. if someone wants to refer to herself as a trans woman she can. if she feels like thats a significant part of who she is she shouldn't be ashamed to claim it as her title. same goes for two people who maybe have the same sexuality but one just calls herself gay and the other calls herself bisexual-homoromantic, if its what makes them personally feel comfortable then I don't see a problem with it. I do, however, see a problem with other people, especially non lgbt people, trying to tell us what we should and shouldn't call ourselves. no one can tell you you have to be offended by the word "queer", if you only use it towards yourself and other people who are comfortable with it who tf cares.

[@cheekiereynolds]

I so love your channel. I feel so at home when I watch your videos. You're like the sister I always wished I had.

[@DJJazyJanae]

I think for your bday you should do a rooftop party with waitress passing around drinks and food and also have like adult games going on, like drunken Jenna or uno. That would be so dope with a glow in the dark theme. 🙌🏽😁

[@sunnafridjonsdottir]

You are such a lightworker, love you girl, keep it up

[@lysalouis2626]

Okay so you should 1. Paint the town Neon. Have a color powder party. That's sounds crazy fun

[@AntisocialHawty]

"Your Labels are for others; your sexuality is for yourself " ... Once, Said Jade (Foxy) in which I agree. In my opinion, Labels are for helping those outside of the LGBTQ understand what one may identify themselves as within the LGBTQ community. I personally don't get bothered by labels b/c I know who I am... im the only person that can identify me for me no one else can. What's even more important is that I am comfortable w/ who I am.... sure I sometime refer to myself as lesbian, gay or a woman who loves women b/c I am not unnerved by it but I think it Solely depends on the person. Only you can define you! Be you and be damn good at it!

[@AmbersCloset]

Exactly! I've always said that.🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@normekasmith8765]

For your birthday you should go to your closest friends and ask them to write down 10 things that they think that you would never in your life do and put in a hat and the first five that you picked you have to do no matter how crazy it is. (within reason, dont do herion or something like that). I did this for my last birthday and I ended up getting a nose piercing, joining a Mexican independence parade( I'm African American) playing a triangle. And other things. .. but it a fun way to create memories with the people you love and have fun too.

[@siarac4409]

You should create a bucket list full of spontaneous fun things with your friends and try to do everything on it before the night is over

[@stephanieparker558]

Thank you for the inspirational words about loving yourself

[@S.Naohmie]

Honestly love your videos can't believe I only just came across you, I'm straight but this is such a mind opening video. I love your vibes amber keep spreading that energy 💜✨

[@DreamahKilgore]

I think for your birthday you should travel to somewhere that you've been really wanting to go to, takes some friends, then find something fun to do at the place you decided to travel to. 😊

[@Theresabuginthesink]

I rock with you frfr no matter what you do I support you

[@jap_com8709]

Amber I'm a big fan and I think ur very right about this video I think u should do Wat ever u feel comfortable doing for ur birthday just like put all ur fav things to do in one big adventure and have a special birthday❣🤗

[@lorainemerriss8835]

For your birthday, start it off right with some mamosas for bfast, then hit the spa with some friends (tipsy of course). Once you're all relaxed from the chilltivities, head over to that baller friend's house who's gonna have a day long cookout for you. Hopefully a pool would be involved, but you'll still have fun without it. Finally, as the time ticks by (I hope you'll eat some of the food from the cookout bc otherwise you're gonna be hella drunk) the clock will strike 11pm which is turn up time. You'll hit your favorite bars and clubs with your friends and hopefully someone will be responsible because you've gotta get back somehow. You'll wake up the next day with the spins, but damn that was a good birthday!

[@davoncaldwell69]

Amber I a huge fan. For your birthday you should go out dancing with some friends and have some drinks. just let loose and go crazy. the best thing about do that is you feel so free and weight less that it becomes unreal and unimaginable. Or just stay home and sit in your house in silence and focus on you. let your mind, body, and spirit wonder to the deepest place inside you and see what you find, because the journey is wonder. I've tried it befor and it was not only one of the best birthday gift I had, but the best day because what I found I did know was even there. Love your videos and keep being beautiful and keep doing you ;)

[@gracemary874]

amber are you ever gonna go back to your curls?? i love your dreads but i low key miss your curls

[@veronicajade20]

Blue skin? Lmao! I love it! Amber for President, lol!

[@AmbersCloset]

Yeaaaaaaahh I have 1 vote!! Lol

[@veronicajade20]

Lol! But of course! I swear you were a pharoah in a past life, lol. You are definitely meant to be a leader in some capacity. 😉

[@shanilromero1905]

+Ambers Closet correction 2

[@Chi_Rebel89]

👏👏👏 great video! that smile at the end 😍

[@Classejouvence]

I'm so happy you mentioned Candid!! I joined ur group and Ari like 2 days ago and some ppl were saying that you guys are not even on the app, you just told us to go there so you could get money. Of course that's bullshit!! But anyway thank you for being amazing!!😍 If I could chose to be straight I wouldn't, yes it has been hard being who I am and coming from a black family but again the best thing in life doesn't come easy. I have an amazing girlfriend and I'm happy, I wouldn't trait trade that for anything😘 I need to think about ur bday (I will be back😂), cuz we need to do it big!😎😎

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

That app sounds fun. downloading it now. thanks Amber!

[@kingtoyab69]

I wudnt change from being gay to straight becus going through all those hardships made me the better and stronger person today.

[@gracesantiago1338]

everyone does deserve love and it's always hard to think that someone like me could have that love some day but what you said means so much to me ❤ that's something I've struggles with for a really long time now. I love you so much amber. you're such a beautiful person inside and out and you have helped me be comfortable with who I am.❤❤❤

[@lesclark4706]

Okay so I have a suggestion for the giveaways that you do there is a site that people use that picks the people randomly for you so it makes it easier and fair for all the people who follow your instructions for the videos giveaway. I have seen several youtubers use them in videos. I think that for your birthday +Amberscloset you should do a secret meet up for a small intimate number of people. Then I think you should pamper yourself you are always working and it wouldn't hurt to go do something without the camera and just have a nice intimate time with great friends and good food. And do something you have never done before just enjoy your day. I love the time you give to us but it is important to take care of you aswell.

[@ameenaking9669]

for ur birthday I think u should go hiking at night with ur friends eating ur favorite foods, playing fun games and singing lol

[@abigailr.7487]

Okayyy educate us amber 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@michellrosillo3030]

I think you should visit Japan for your birthday. Thank you for creating this amazing video. :)

[@Bnromero]

Hey Amber, for your birthday you should def surround yourself with good vibes and maybe get a beach house that way you and all your friends can just enjoy yourselves. If not that maybe a get a couple of friends and go to Disneyland or six flags?

[@SkylarBrooke]

for your birthday, you should definitely have a party and invite a few of your dollface gangstaz! do whatever theme you want 💜💜💜

[@rianna.g-c]

your skin is so pretty!

[@mercedessantana1085]

Ambers Closet omg it's been a while since i've watched you and omg this video is so refreshing cause i miss you 💛💛

[@semira6184]

loved the video Amber❤

[@ANNABFRESH1]

Maybe like a 80s themed party maybe rent out a skating ring...with everybody dressed up like their from the 80s and of course alcohol lol or like a masquerade Virgo themed party that would be dope as well. I'm glad to be apart of the Virgo season we rock

[@breeoldford]

For your birthday, ask your closest friends to plan your day. They will have noticed things about you you have not and will think of things you enjoy that you have not heard. If you don't like surprises than ask for a list of what's going to happen.

[@yarizaleon]

The cake design as deck of cards

[@lacyh.316]

You have a beautiful soul, Amber. I love you. Keep doing what you're doing. ❤

[@lysalouis2626]

You should have a 2. Have a water balloon extravaganza fight. Have like OD balloons and go crazy with it.

[@KristyCato]

OMG AMBER SEND HER MY BOOK THAT I SENT YOU IT WILL HELP HER .. This was the girl whose mother didnt think she would be good enough for anyone ..

[@marilattimore]

Omg come to Orlando! I LOVE this!!

[@shawtyisdopeb6070]

Yo this is why I love Amber 😩❤️ she deff deserves millions of flowers! 💯

[@AmbersCloset]

❤️❤️

[@shawtyisdopeb6070]

You replied!!!! 😩❤️ day is made!!!

[@Lettyart23]

Omg Amber your such a inspiration 😊

[@julissaruizvlogz]

Damn this shit was real talk 😳💯

[@raesiliga1676]

Amber you inspire me so much thank you. -girl who's still in the closet

[@sasha-kim5071]

Early bird. Shoutout! woop woop

[@Saichii26]

I'm a new sub in your channel and this was the video that actually convinced me to. I'm amazed on how deep a person you are. I know there Will be a small chance you would be able to reply to this but I still want to say thank you for this video. it also made me teary-eyed by your answers. and yeah. "I feel you" 👏👐❤ . may you continue to spread the love. I love you amber.

[@singerspurpose]

Gay covers everything for me because I don't care what a persons gender is or was. If I am attracted to and love them as a person, that is all that matters. Whatever a person identify as, I would date them, no question.

[@ayelexi]

I am a little new with following you, but I do have your app, so I feel like I don't really know you rather know more of you. You know I mean? But besides that I feel like you might like getting lit on the river!! So what you do is you start at the top and you float all the way down while drinking, stopping at shotgun island, and even smoking a bit. Then when that's over, takes about 3 hours, you hit the square at night! Obviously your gonna be hungry so you go grab yourself a dirty dog or a slice of pizza, from a small window, or both lol!!! Day completed!

[@natbenard4676]

Pretty sure I'm obsessed to your channel 😽😩🙄

[@hollowbluesmarket7887]

I think for your birthday you should do things you've always wanted to do or have been scared to do. Life is short, but its a journey. Always wanted a tattoo? Get that. Want to get pet monkey? Whose stopping you. Sky diving, hang gliding, cliff jumping, or even swimming with the dolphin. I like extreme stuff, so maybe its just me. But experiences aren't just for bragging rights, they're a part of life. But anything you do, make sure its with the people you love. Even if you just go play laser tag with 3 close friends and your family; showing the important people in your life that every year of life you spend is special only because of them is a prize. Not just for them, but for you as well.

[@Lunabreed]

omg I saw that conversation about whether it was you or not that commented on that post and I really wanted to know if it was😆 i love the app btw, I've already posten like 15 things in the group you created 😁

[@mixedgirlcymirah5609]

U give great advice😂😌it's awesome!!❤️

[@jaydenlatans9951]

thx that really helped and made my day thx amber 😍

[@Ali_Ana24]

Birthday idea- I'm not sure where you're staying rn but it seems to me you love Vegas and poker! So take a trip to Vegas w a group of friends. Start the day w an adventure you've never done before such as skydiving or riding a helicopter, Hit up casinos later to play some poker, then later throw a bomb ass party! . If not Vegas then plan a trip somewhere else that you've been needing to visit w the same ideas. I know you love traveling so why not w a good group of friends!

[@jaylacarter6978]

As a bi person i hate being called gay because its not who i am and i have no problem with hey people because they are amazing in there own way and i respect them a lot

[@Ile..sWorld]

For your birthday u should have a neon/mascaraed kinda them when get the light bulbs for it then just have lots of fun games and just let loose

[@kkb9605]

Amber you are so inspirational I truly thank you for being a role model for me and my famil 😍😘😆

[@nicolaclarke2581]

I downloaded candid and there are only 10 other people with the app in my province 😂

[@jacoolshay]

That's crazy and I hate labels also but I'm a Trans Guy it is hard to tell some people because people can be so mean all we want is friendship with other people in the LGBTQ community.

[@JustFollowChrist.]

Amber, I just finished watching this video and I need advice. A few months ago my grandmother and my mom found out I was dating a girl. I am a lesbian and they came out to my friends as one, but when they found out they told me the devil was taking over my body and that I'm going to burn in hell. It hurt me so much because my grandmother is a Christian and my mom doesn't support the LGBT community. I try so hard to be straight but I can't since then my grandmother never looked at me the same and my mom doesn't ever say I love you. It's hard because my grandmother and my mom fought for me to take me out of DCF. I want their love and support... Idk what to do? help.

[@Rosegolddd]

Unique Santiago seek God

[@bubbly912]

Unique Santiago im sorry to hear that...they are so not worthy of the amazingness of you...maybe some day they might come around but for now try and be the best person you can be and know that you don't have to change your true personality in order for people to like you more ☺watching lgbt you tubers like ambers closet, ari fitz, boldly video called coming out tips and there are forums and just try and surround yourself with positive people ☺ stay strong ☺💖✌✊ and maybe if u need someone to talk to more u could try moovz and the candid app that amber mentioned 💜

[@loveux0x]

Self love is the hardest kind of love

[@AmbersCloset]

Yes! But I think it's the most rewarding❤️

[@mochalove3797]

I think know you should get to the Bahamas for your birthday and try something new that you have always wanted to do. for example sky diving, skinny dipping or dying get your hair a crazy color lol. 💜💜💜

[@mochalove3797]

lol I meant go typo 💜

[@aprincetobeking]

amazing always amazing love your channel!

[@aribear1997]

for your birthday you and your squad and fam should go to somewhere where it's totally new and meet new people and get turnt up! that would be so dope. :) PS I love you! you're my inspiration! and you're beautiful. 😍😎😊

[@Skygurl2012lmao]

When you a kinda thug but Amber hit such good points that you get teared up. #thugtears

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Amber today is my first day of school so I can get a good luck on the first day of school from my favorite KZbinr?

[@susiesays5695]

I don't know about Amber, but I hope you have a great first day! Where are you from? I'm from Northern Ireland and I think I may be the only person in my country who is trying to build their own KZbin channel! Please check it out after school if you get a chance! 👍🏽

[@AmbersCloset]

Yeah Edward!! Have a great day today!!🙌🏽❤️

[@lysalouis2626]

You should 6. Celebrate by giving back, surprise a fan and let them sing to you "happy birthday live"

[@danielavilchis3128]

I love your thoughts and your videos. Amazing and beautiful person.

[@SkylarBrooke]

"BLUE-SKINNED MOFO" Amber, you are HILARIOUS AS FUUUUCCCKKKK

[@peevisairconditioner473]

ok I don't know if this makes any sense but Ive identified myself as bisexual for three years and only recently I haven't felt any attraction to any guys just women

[@ronip7352]

Prank call or video call your fans with someone your friends!!

[@victoriafontanarossa7359]

I really liked this video :)

[@abbiegardner723]

Start your birthday with a huge relaxing breakfast in bed, then after that go do something extreme that you can remember that you did on that particular birthday, eg, skydiving! Then at night throw a mint house party with all your friends, house parties are how we always get down in New Zealand!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY XXX