Would You Consider Getting Back Together? | {THE AND} Simone & Charlie

[@tvlacy]

The brown skin sister with the glasses has a beautiful spirit.

[@sundeecathey1748]

Yes, she does! Beautiful depth of openness, humility and character. I pray for her discernment.

[@shanesemathis5568]

She does! I like her.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@shanesemathis5568thank you!

[@Simonedj]

@@tvlacy She absolutely does

[@mainanawacho5322]

Body language speaks volumes.. One is leaning in,the other is leaning back..

[@CeeCeez-i1n]

wow great observation

[@loria287]

And the one leaning back shaking her head. Her no is firm. The tears she’s crying is from the pain she endured loving someone who couldn’t see her for who she truly is.

[@SebeneleDlamini-ge9ct]

I don't know if she is really remorseful and wishes she could do things better or is she feeling lost and lonely that she needs familiarity to gain comfort that she's not alone. Sometimes people fear dealing with a certain era of life alone because everything is overwhelming and they selfishly hang onto people to satisfy their own need. My own advise to the girl with braids is to just close that chapter and choose herself ❤

[@CamilleAOPDG]

Damn…this comment is powerful!

[@TheAmayaM]

I needed this comment for MYSELF! Wow!

[@texasgoddess323]

It feels as though, if a person is truly moving towards changing in the right direction, the other person would feel that and would be able to give examples of how that person is different, which would make it more possible to rebuild.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Lol it’s really crazy that you said this. There’s a lot of truth in this. I did close the chapter though.

[@smome777]

​@@CharlisaKarehn whewwww proud of youuuu

[@letsgooooooo111]

To the person in the orange scarf, congratulations on choosing yourself and on choosing self-preservation. It's difficult to be treated in the manner in which you were treated. You have made it past the hurts and the pain, and you have clearly learned to love yourself even if just a little more. Congratulations on your healing♥ God bless you and may you find the kind of love you deserve, because there aren't many like you out here in these streets.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you! She deserves the same too! We have a Q&A!

[@Simonedj]

@@letsgooooooo111 not many like her at all. She has a lot of healing to do because of everything I’ve put her through for sure and let me tell you that she has not lacked any love or grace or mercy in the process of being hurt which is so rare to come across in people. she’s different and she is choosing herself in more ways than one, even when it’s hard.

[@Simonedj]

@@CharlisaKarehn I love you man. I didn’t even read your comment before I wrote this but see what I mean my point proven lol. Thank you, Charlie and yes, tap in @letsgooooooo111

[@mysterygurrl301088]

Whew! This really resonated with me. I went through something similar with my ex-girlfriend. Once I was finally done with her, she knew all the right things to do and say. She even begged for another chance. At the time I was not fully over her. However, something in me just said, "No". That same thing in me also pointed out why I shouldn't believe her. Long story short, within 2 months of turning down her request to "try again", everything started being revealed to me and I saw that all the reasons I had given for not wanting her back, were true. She hadn't changed! What had happened was, that she went out there and realized that things were not how she thought they would be and figured, she could run back to me, the one person who loved her unconditionally and always only wanted what was best for her. Remember: "SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST COLLATERAL DAMAGE IN SOMEONE'S WAR AGAINST THEMSELF".

[@webleach]

"SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST COLLATERAL DAMAGE IN SOMEONE'S WAR AGAINST THEMSELF" - felt that with my entire being

[@aoifeeem]

Loving a sexual partner "unconditionally" is never a good idea. That love only exists in parents for their children. We need to love with conditions otherwise we allow ppl to walk all over us. Monogamy in itself is a condition.

[@shondalesstudio]

Hmmmmmmmm ❤

[@CharlisaKarehn]

This is the one! We made a Q&A for yall!

[@SchyePoetry]

I love the honesty from Charlie. It is so hard to look somebody in their eyes and tell them there is nothing they can do to reconnect with you. I hope they’re both leaning into healing 🫶🏽

[@TheSkinDeep]

Nice reflection on the video, thank you ❤️

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Faaaaaacts! Thank you for tapping in!

[@LittleQween65]

Clarity always comes after the break up...

[@devlynnikole1067]

Facts...❤❤

[@Indigenous_DNA]

It sure does!

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Facts! The Q&A is up though!

[@Simonedj]

Yes, and the hard realization afterwards is that you realize clarity could have been there the whole time. It just wasn’t intentionally being attained. :/

[@tarashanice_]

She kept talking about what she deprived herself of…what about what you deprived her of after hurting her?

[@CharlisaKarehn]

🤧 oof. She’s aware of what she deprived me of as well though, we’ve talked about it

[@sundeecathey1748]

Selfish, self centered. A taker who can only see herself. I pray she heals or she will have a long hard road ahead.

[@helloworld3943]

​@@CharlisaKarehnGod bless you.

[@Simonedj]

@@tarashanice_ I’m aware of what I’ve deprived her of and to be honest when it came to me feeling like I lost something, I became really selfish in focusing on that instead of remaining in the space of the pain I caused to her. And I agree, that wasn’t cool.

[@Simonedj]

@@sundeecathey1748 selfish and self centered for sure. It was easy to become this way when it was all I knew prior to her stemming from me having to fend for myself for so long. But I haven’t kept that as an excuse nor made staying that way okay. I’ve realized the cost and healing I will do and continue to do.

[@deannamarie113]

Let her go sis. She’s hasn’t learned anything. She just realizes you treated her the BEST.

[@Simonedj]

@@deannamarie113 learned yes, a lot actually even before this video. About my ways, about what real love is through Charlie and what love isn’t through myself. Accepted and changed my ways as a result? No, the scary thing is, you can learn everything and remain in denial for whatever reason. So here it was a matter not walking in full acceptance and making a pivot to use the information to do the opposite thing. And to the second part, yeah. I did and still do realize that and I was holding on out of fear and selfishness knowing that. That’s true. And she did let me go.

[@rafaelpheonix8956]

Don’t jump on me….while this may have been extremely emotionally energetic, the girl on the right said MULTIPLE times that regretted what she deprived herself of, sounded emphasized at one point…..and while she may have said she would “do things differently and ‘do right’ like she hadn’t before….her dialogue was prioritizing HERSELF. Not ONE time did she specifically say “I apologize for depriving you, for hurting you, for doing you wrong”……to Charlie. So Charlie saying “I have nothing to go off of….” the only thing that’s changed is what’s no longer there for the other girl FROM Charlie for herself. I’m proud of you, Charlie. And to there other young lady, no offense. But I’ve been Charlie (not saying our situations are identical) and the energy I saw between you both is what i STRONGLY see if my ex ever tried to have this conversation. The difference, she no longer has access to me and I’m not interested in “forging a friendship” and I’m at peace with it. I genuinely wish the absolute best for you both!! Thank you for your vulnerability 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@zerandrianmorris]

The love between two women. My God. Ain’t NOTHING more intense. And…It’s always the one who doesn’t fully choose the other who would be willing to try again. 🥴🥴 Let her go. Release her.

[@lonegabalebatse9356]

i literally found myself saying 'let her go please''💯

[@SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja]

She needs to let her go and find what she was looking for when she had her 😂😂😂😂😂

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thanks for watching!

[@tiadeese]

YEP, they always wanna hold on yet they're the reason you two aren't together.

[@SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja]

@@tiadeese is there a science that explains this?

[@Rory856-n6n]

I don't believe that moving straight into a friendship with someone you just broke up with is healthy. Space is needed. How do you move and navigate a new relationship with the past still lingering around you? How healthy is it to keep a friend who is pining after you?

[@Gossipchic]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@heyjavonnejay]

My thoughts exactly. It’s so common in WLW relationships and I don’t understand why. Any future potential partners will likely be put off by the closeness of the exes. You can’t compete with history.

[@Rory856-n6n]

@heyjavonnejay exactly! Worst part is that they are quicker to call the new partner "insecure" rather than look at this unhealthy pattern and realise that it serves no one but them and their ex.

[@thesweetlifeofjoy2314]

It's not, I did that and it was toxiccccc as hell. No friends with exes ❌️

[@uscitizen3252]

Same thought I had. Why do wlw relationships normalize this?

[@jarjuanhill3671]

Nah the lady with the locs has checked out and you can tell she’s not willing to deal with the pain chaos again

[@CharlisaKarehn]

And you are correct, I’m not willing!

[@violetselene244]

Sadly nothing would change if they got back together. That’s how it goes when people don’t take the time to dive deep into healing themselves before getting into a relationship. For the mental, emotional and physical health of the woman with the orange scarf. Regardless of if the friendship goes ok. Don’t get back with her.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

I know 🤗

[@devlynnikole1067]

Facts

[@Moody-mR4]

“I would’ve chosen to be everything for you instead of everything for everybody else.” 💔

[@CharlisaKarehn]

That was the one 🤧

[@Queue-20]

I do personally think she regrets whatever she did to you @CharlisaKarehn, she might just come across as one who is not showing remorse because of her personality, I think, I could be wrong but I support y’all for whatever decision you make for yourselves❤❤❤Sending love

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@Queue-20 😊 thank you for watching and engaging! There’s more on the way

[@Queue-20]

@@CharlisaKarehn Alright, will keep an eye

[@ericad5933]

Tough….. wanting to be with someone and loving them so much but knowing it’s not gonna work. Sucks so bad….

[@CharlisaKarehn]

It does suck

[@nwadi6408]

Dear One-here I’m referring to the brown skin sister-if God said no, let it be no. You will most certainly find another love.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

100%! What He says will always go for me.

[@devlynnikole1067]

Facts 💯💯💯💯

[@lucky-rebel04]

They're both brown bozo. The names in the video.

[@omnib.135]

She won't until she starts within! She likes to save people who don't want to be saved. Unless she starts seeing her worth then she will be looking for love outside of herself for a very long time.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@omnib.135 not me 🙅🏾‍♀️ you’re reading me all wrong lol

[@Ana_theeofficial]

Aww this was hard for Charlie I kinda felt her pain when she was asked “what is an experience you wish we never had ?” trying to make someone see you , understand you , feel and hear you but it never happens hurts on a deeper level . 😢

[@CharlisaKarehn]

That’s the faaaacts

[@missmo463]

“God said no”. Gonna use that one 😂🤣

[@CharlisaKarehn]

I was forreal 😂😂😂

[@immersiveexperiences4799]

@@CharlisaKarehn what did you mean by "God said no"? Would you feel comfortable explaining?

[@devlynnikole1067]

Get out My head😂😂😂😂❤❤😂😂❤

[@jazzyrivera6396]

thank you omar apollo for “god said no “

[@CAM8689]

using God to justify same sex relationships shows how fallen and confused this world has become

[@MisssGreatest]

Classic case of you never know what you have until it’s gone! Wishing them both the healing they need. Ole girl in the black issa beautiful 😍

[@CharlisaKarehn]

That’s facts! And thank you, i appreciate it!

[@JustCallMeJenn]

The energy I’m getting is Charlie is confident in her sexuality and was open to pursuing it with Simone despite her uncertainty. I don’t think Simone was ready for a same gender loving relationship.

[@vikay8]

That was my impression too. In this case, if there was no cheating or anything like that, I think Simone deserves a chance to show if she means it. I imagine it like this: when we bake a cake, we might want to take it out of the oven early because we're hungry, but we have to be patient until the cake is ready. In other words, if someone is emotionally unavailable, leave them alone. Focus on yourself and think about what lessons you could learn from this experience. Every relationship is an opportunity for healing. The stronger the feelings, the greater the fears. Until one day they eventually realize that nothing else makes sense than being with this person, as Simone beautifully said.

[@angellakeshiatisdale7929]

I get that same vibe too. And the question: What does rebuilding trust look like for you? I would start with showing up for Charlie. That’s the answer I would’ve gave.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@vikay8tap into the Q&A!

[@keichin9009]

One of the most hurtful things is giving someone your heart and they break it, you take time to move on and then they finally see the real you, it’s normally to late as the trust is gone and you can’t look at them the same ❤ bless em both

[@out-standing4320]

Seeing my baby sister on here made me super emotional

[@TheSkinDeep]

Hello older sister!!! Glad to know you liked it ❤️ love ya!

[@itssdesionna]

A part 2 is needed because a lot was said but not really. Other than that I wish nothing but blessings to these two beautiful women Great video.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you! We'll definitely try to have them on again ❤️

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Lol we did a Q&A. It’s on my page

[@mzapril012]

Whew. They love each other SO MUCH.❤ through the tears and the laughter.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We do 🤧

[@RealTalkGlossy]

​@@CharlisaKarehni love yall

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@RealTalkGlossywe dropped a Q&A for yall!

[@PuseletsoRaselloane]

The girl with glasses is so beautiful I watched this sp many times because of her❤

[@user-xm6mb9jo6w]

I really commend these two women for their level of vulnerability. We all gained something from it and there are so many people going through similar situations. Being in a committed relationship takes a lot of love, grace, humility and willingness to look at SELF. My prayer is that they find the healing they need and that this experience helps them in future relationships.❤

[@TheSkinDeep]

THIS! Thank you so much for this amazing comment, we love you and appreciate you ❤️

[@user-xm6mb9jo6w]

@@TheSkinDeep sending love right back! More content like this is needed in the world

[@devlynnikole1067]

No losses Just Lessons I hope moving foward they continue heal and remember the lessons they learn and apply what they've learned moving foward in future relationships..

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We have!

[@s.p.5213]

Redbone is a bit too callous for me... I can't see any one I care for cry in front of me, especially if I know I'm a part of their pain, and just sit there blank or not tryna comfort my friend. She's got too much baggage adn that's NOT your responsibility to even be present while she goes thru that process, IF she's even actively goin thru the process...... You got away Hunney... Go get ya healing and as much as possible, leave her alone... Do it now before you turn into the many mean, damaged MOC or studs out there.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Hmmm lol

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Our story runs deep! Couldn’t get it all out on here lol

[@GoogleAccount00]

Thanks for sharing. If it is worth it, heal and work things out. If you know that it's not for you, remain loving and friends. Wishing you both the best!

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@GoogleAccount00 thank you! And naaah, it’s over! I respect her though and always will desire the best for her r

[@queerbrunchwoclondon8696]

Thank you for sharing your Love & Your own unique Love Experience with us all. Peace & Blessings to you & to you both.

[@ACEMiller3.0]

When I tell you from the time this video started I felt your pain! I feel like we’re twins. It’s a sad hurtful feeling. I wish you the best of luck! Genuine love will find you. GOD GOT YOU!

[@dejawoods2865]

Which one is Charlie and which is Simone?

[@webleach]

and after four years I just could no longer .. this was a much needed watch .. wishing you two the best

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you!

[@SherbetLollipop]

I hope they actually let each other go so they can both find happiness. i know it really sucks to lose something good (like i really know) you have to just accept it's over and move on.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We did! The Q&A is on our page!

[@ja_marriaa]

but,you can tell Simone has a really hard time being emotional. She seems like she's operating out of defensive mode. We see you Simone, it's really hard to express such deep feelings. It's someone out here for you too

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Facts

[@HENCHMARV]

Never ever go back to a ex ...their a ex for a reason. Also with that people never really change and if they do its for the next person to deal with.

[@cltaylor8490]

I think it depends on why you broke up. If there is no abuse (physical or emotional) I say give it a try. My ex and I got back together in 2004, still together and still happily married.

[@ekeneleticia8398]

​@@cltaylor8490is WLW?

[@HENCHMARV]

@@cltaylor8490 yea l agree but unless your childish most people don’t break up unless it’s something serious. If cheating , abuse , neglect or just toxic behaviour is the reason for a breakup l don’t understand why anyone would go back. However if it’s because he/she didn’t call you enough or wash the dishes after they ate you can clearly work things out before the break up and if you do maybe if they change it can work.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Watch the Q&A

[@sibongilenjengele]

Charlie has great insight. The whole video was so emotional...😥

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you! 🥺

[@VlogsWithSG92]

They both need time to heal and maybe try again, but if God said no let it go 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Yeah it’s over!

[@ndhlovusithabiso]

If she genuinely loves her, I hope she woes her again but slowly and gentle because she broke her heart and trust. Don’t let her go if you love her

[@CharlisaKarehn]

It’s over though! We did a Q&A on it!

[@LibertyX91]

Here from TikTok, from what I've gathered it's basically about the one that got away.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Something like that! We did a Q&A though!

[@E01234]

She only wants her back because she hasn’t found “better” or she wouldn’t be able to handle seeing braids with another woman. Regret being the driving force is not a great mix. Loved the video though, great content 👍

[@HappinessTheBrand]

Not braids 🤣

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@HappinessTheBrand right dang why i gotta be braids 😂😂😂

[@PeukinsPoint]

Why is that a bad thing though? Realized in hindsight shouldn't be that big of an ego hit. Like damn, I've been out here but nobody makes me laugh/smile like my ex. I would think someone could reconsile and appreciate the relationship. We don't always get it right the first time.

[@E01234]

@@CharlisaKarehn Omggg not too much, sorry!!! I forgot y’alls names were in the caption 😂😂😂

[@E01234]

@@HappinessTheBrand 😂😂 pleaseeee, not in a bad way!! Lol

[@consistentlyfocused]

Very deep. I wish these women all the healing and love they deserve. Thanks being vulnerable and sharing ❤️

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you for watching!

[@thelaneyglobal]

It’s beautiful to see the love that so strongly still between them… Sad to see when love itself is not enough.

[@05261977]

So tell me if I'm wrong as a man but what I heard was I know you loved me but I didn't know if I was truly gay and and my family didn't agree with this relationship and after I cheated on you and was treated less than by someone who cheated on me I realized that you were the only one who truly loved me and accepted me and saw me for who I truly am. And you were prepared to fight for me and give me the world I realized that I compromised the best thing that ever happened to me. Just tell me if I'm off base here because thats what I heard.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Yeah this is off 😖 lol

[@massabranca]

Charlie is such a mature sweet soul. Simone seems nice, but in a kind of childish emotionally irresposible way. They don't seem leveled up and it breaks my heart because I've been in a similar situation (loving someone who doesn't seem equiped to handle this love).

[@CharlisaKarehn]

I appreciate that

[@lexussport300]

Pain & chaos is a powerful lesson

[@CharlisaKarehn]

It sure is! Thanks for watching!

[@jalenseward7315]

I wouldn’t even wanna be friends with Simone fr. Something about her just comes off as disingenuous/ not sincere. Charlie seems like such a well put together person with morals & etc. The best part about watching this video is knowing that Charlie dodged a bullet. 🫶🏿

[@Serendipitous444]

Yeah something is off in that ladies spirit

[@mottley5216]

I couldn’t agree more !

[@TheSkinDeep]

Hi there! We appreciate everyone's opinion and input on the videos :) Let's just remember we're trying to make this a safe space for every one of our participants, they're all being raw, vulnerable and brave, it's not easy to open up like this, especially for the world to see! Let's appreciate that ❤️

[@sundeecathey1748]

Facts! 🎯🎯

[@bscott1112]

I don't get villain vibes from her but I do think she's emotionally unavailable .

[@kissy0k8]

“When God says no, no buts.” I heard that.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@ygoodie5924]

When youre the one always saving people and relationships you got to know when youre times up. Its easier said than done, but who's gonna save you when you have nothing left in you?

[@morg.3572]

Bruh

[@julieh7432]

im in this exact situation now, hoping we can come back from the healing stronger together.

[@smome777]

Pls move on

[@blackingingerpurrin]

Move on. The more time you waste the more you’ll regret later.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Q&A is up on this!

[@kslucki]

The girl on the right says many words without saying anything at all. No substance behind those words. When God says 'no', there's a reason. To the girl on the left - you dodged a bullet. Have a happy life, as you deserve it sis.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you

[@porshp8941]

@@CharlisaKarehn you really did. Listen to God. He knows. Theres a scripture that says don't cast your pearls to swine...

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@porshp8941 I’m on it 🙏🏾

[@kiwixoxo371]

There’s alot of missing puzzles pieces here like, why did they break up? I’m not understanding the full context here because we didn’t get the main question. Hopefully they can remain good friends tho

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We are good friends indeed!

[@Natu014]

Yeah can someone explain

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@Natu014 we’re doing a q&a

[@CEEBREEZY51]

Light one was not ready for a mature relationship. Bottom line

[@shaniecesingh1181]

Self sabotage as a result of the past.

[@liftedenergy3693]

Rejection is Gods Protection 🙏 🙌 ✨️ This reminds me of my last relationship.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Yeah? How so?

[@marciasmith4812]

Dear Charlie youre such a beautiful person yuh hear, but mek goodie gwaan bout har business. At times we give our love to the WRONG person. Best of wishes to finding the ONE 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🖤💚💛

[@bscott1112]

Simone seems emotionally unavailable and disconnected from herself. Not evil but unable to access her vulnerability/being to the same degree as Charlie.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Partially true! Watch the Q&A!

[@NattyByNature-]

Jamaican in the house 😅. Glasses is a beautiful person and you can just tell with her energy

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you! Big up yuh self!

[@anony16]

Lightskin really tugging on her heart strings

[@CharlisaKarehn]

She was tugging on me 🤧

[@fanchonA]

Trying to heal from someone is hard… You can tell that one experience of the relationship was different from the other… great discussion.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

This is very much so true! We touch on more in our q&a

[@cheristokes8888]

This literally had me in tears !!! it reminded me so much of of me and my ex girlfriend its really so so sad 😢

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Aww man 😓 tap into our Q&A

[@nimo4335]

Great video!!❤❤

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you ❤️

[@daniawania]

Girl in glasses is so beautiful

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Thank you!

[@voyageswithshyeasha1398]

There's something in my eyes 🥺 Thanks for sharing ladies ❤

[@CharlisaKarehn]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching!

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Of course! Thanks for watching!

[@khf729]

I thought I had skipped to the middle or something because I was missing context. Alas we will never know what led them to break up...

[@Dionne_Sheree]

Facts! Definitely missing pertinent context. Thought the same but I’m glad they know their story and truths!

[@nevaehwilkins9330]

- I hate when you could go so good with someone and things just don’t go the way yall would like it to go I feel like everyone doesn’t know what love is but you find it between eachother even when it’s not perfect nobody should settle … and if two people are working to make it work it’s worth it but think of your sanity at all times fr …. I wish I knew if my person 4L when she was here

[@The.Sasha.Shaina]

Thank y’all for this one… hit so close 😮‍💨

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Of course, thank you for tapping in! We got a Q&A for you on the my page!

[@femmefataleracer]

wish i could hav this convo with any/everyone of my exes…including ex friends….ex cousins etc…

[@behoney00]

Teeth and Skin 💫💫

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We appreciate you!

[@preyeatari9479]

Clarity really comes after a breakup and it’s hard sometimes

[@CharlisaKarehn]

It sucks but it is what it is you know? Watch the Q&A 😅

[@Eva_H]

Sort it out ladies, there’s obviously still love there, is love enough though? On a personal note, I’m wondering if these wonderful people are still sleeping together without the label. However, everything shakes out for these two people I hope it all works out in the end.

[@oilmahura]

love is not enough. I think, history will repeat itself if they get back together. another wants the relationship back because they really love this person, and the other because they realize what they have lost, regret basically.

[@Eva_H]

@@oilmahura that’s fair

[@ajiawillis7447]

​@@oilmahura the girl with the orange scaf on loves so deeply. The other girl is not in love like that. She just feels regret that she hadn't found better.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

No, we aren’t sleeping together or doing anything like that.

[@ItzsimpleLindi]

​@@oilmahurait can still happen if both are willing to & work really hard on their love akere they say we learn from our mistakes if they put their most effort they can live happily ever they can go for therapy and start all over again my personal opinion thou they're so cute

[@rosydouge-charles]

I didn’t hear ACCOUNTABILITY and that’s my problem

[@CharlisaKarehn]

She’s learning! Watch the Q&A

[@ballershanelle]

If they allow time, be ready fir a relationship, don't break up the bad habit/bae actions, and forgiveness..they can try again. Got to nip bringing up or stop as soon,as ut comes up.and hurling it back. Try again after dating others. Time has to pass

[@simoneh.5416]

Damn I wanna know more about them and what happened to them and their relationship. Like damn .

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We dropped a Q&A on my page!

[@Akemi56Mayonaka]

My take is that Simone did not fully embrace their relationship because the poeple around her did not truly accept her or so she thought? Sounds like charlie was deeply hurt because she was all in and living her true self. Simone sounds like she found clarity after she lost the a genuine love.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

🎯🎯🎯🎯 bingo! The Q&A talks about it more too!

[@GG7GodsGrace]

I’m at 3:20 and I want to be here bff. “When God says NO it’s NO”“No buts, And”.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

You felt that?

[@GG7GodsGrace]

@ did

[@DanyielSalley]

Its called spiritual blinders.Shes starting to see her more for who she is.The feeling of it and if it was really for her

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Yeeeeeah 😅 there’s more in the Q&A

[@DanyielSalley]

@CharlisaKarehn Where?...I missed it🍵

[@charliemccullough6725]

They are still best friends. The vibrations between them. Not wanting to see someone’s soul out of fear of relationships you’ve had prior is real. It creates trauma and baggage that can be carried to the next relationship. Especially intimate relationships. These are the impacts of losing trust in people while still entertaining them. I believe it’s possible that reflection and seeing Simone handle the after math is what cast the light of “what have I done”. I couldn’t imagine meeting my person… at my most whocares stage in life… breaking her heart and never being able to fix it. Being friends til the end but loving deeper..uhg my heart They’re young, I HOPE that time this becomes a catalyst for their positive actions and communication leading them back to each other romantically…(bc that s*x comment locks made was heard 😏😝) she’s just waiting for action and discipline. Life is messy, inconsideration HURTS. it’s up to our combined will power to clean it up as best as we can. Update on them please if they unite

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We did an update on our Q&A!

[@JustCallMeJenn]

Skin deep. I’m so intrigued by Charlie. Send her to me. I’d love to know her.❤❤❤

[@Dionne_Sheree]

I hear that! 😂

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Lmao thank you! Thanks for watching!

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@Dionne_Shereelmao thank you. Watch the Q&A

[@IntoGrownWomen]

I'm confused. If they are here, it's telling "yes, we should try again". To say opposite, and still remain in one another's life as a question mark, will only create more confusion. We have heal, and deal with reality.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Naaaaaah lmao that’s not it

[@astoldbytay9605]

Wow. I got emotional af watching this

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Yeah? Why so?

[@astoldbytay9605]

@CharlisaKarehn you can feel the love and pain simultaneously..

[@dreamqueen317]

NO. Unless you’re Nelly and Ashanti. Lol

[@HENCHMARV]

Give them time 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kholekilemotloi]

Is this the only way they'd be able to have a conversation? Because this conversation wasn't progressive. They seem to know what went wrong. Why they can't be together. One party is still very angry. Apologetic part is willing. Do they know why they had this conversation?

[@smome777]

Its giving death by a 1000 cuts...........thats when you can really say "God said no"......bc the flesh may be weak but whewwwww is the soul weary 😩😭 Healing to both but especially to Charlie for the level of magnanimous GRACE . In the video and in this comment section as well.

[@morg.3572]

Bruh

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Grace is the word. God never wanted this. Watch the Q&A

[@smome777]

@CharlisaKarehn Ty luv ❤️ May you be forever blessed 🙌🏾

[@chocolategreens]

People make mistakes.. they both beautiful and got love for each other.. if not together I hope they discover what’s true for them

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We did! Thank you!

[@GG7GodsGrace]

I’ve been here and I pray God gets their attention❤

[@CharlisaKarehn]

He did 😊

[@Simonedj]

@@GG7GodsGrace he got it

[@HalfWayUp]

I wonder if they already knew what each other was gonna say

[@mahoganysoulll]

They don't know what the questions are going to be

[@HalfWayUp]

@@mahoganysoulll I mean like after the question was asked I wonder if they already knew what they would say !

[@mahoganysoulll]

@@HalfWayUp oh !

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We didn’t honestly

[@TheSkinDeep]

Exactly, thank you ❤️

[@10hooper]

Loved this

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We got a Q&A on my page!

[@thechosenmalfoy1805]

Close the chapter. Trust me.

[@Serendipitous444]

The girl on the right rubbed me the wrong way the entire video 🤔 her eyes at the end gave she laughing in that girl face still

[@CharlisaKarehn]

I could understand why you’d say that, although it wasn’t that! But tap in

[@morg.3572]

I'll never have this conversation w ol girl. Damn thanks for the honest talk, cuz shoot. Love shawty tho. 💯

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Watch the Q&A

[@kinsler18]

Should of, could of, would of.

[@belovedone8207]

Empress! Fine mi! Cause mi tiyad a dem ooman yah.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Empresssss wah gwan?

[@JamieSativa]

LOVE TO SEE IT! 👸🏾 +👸🏾

[@NattyByNature-]

Right deh suh, mi stop try.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

@@NattyByNature- mi tell she mi ago lef she if di antics nuh stop but 😅🙃

[@xheartiiz]

Lmfaoooo the tissue part.

[@blacknsassy100]

Now I'm wondering what that light-skinned girl did. She cheated didn't she?

[@StevenSsamba]

Do you think we can get back "as long as you show up....."...............................tricky question where it depends on if the other party changes....and that is wrong. I say what it is. I have changed a lot and I know that I am not where or what I used to be with you. So I know we cant get back together in a romantic way. Pure accountability and transparency. Or "there is a possibility if I work on MYSELF more". The other party thinks.....oh my, me too, I would need to work on myself.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Lol we addressed this on our Q&A!

[@mirrbaby9854]

They have the same eyes! Wow. ❤️‍🩹

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Do we?!

[@theemonique]

That’s tough

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Very much was.

[@tiarasantos5011]

I feel like the girl in the brown doesn’t care and her actions don’t strike me as genuine.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

I can see why you say that. She’s learning though. Tap into the Q&A

[@warrantykweenwithak5431]

Simone wants to be with Charlie badly but,Charlie is really over it.

[@Simonedj]

There’s only so much abuse someone can take before withdrawing completely. She took a lot from me before deciding that moving on was best for her well-being. I was completely selfish, not valuing her or giving her the love she deserved. And to be honest I was very selfishly keeping her and using her how I wanted, disguised as wanting to be with her. It took a while for me to believe that, but my actions showed it over and over. She tried more than I’ve ever seen anyone try to make it work before getting to this point. Even after in a friendship.

[@bluelightsoulmagic]

Still I can feel definitely from both of them slight blame and victimising in the Air, especially first lady, who started with first question with that orange scarf...definitely a lot of resentment and blame ..which is okay... i just admire the other lady IS so calm with it, I would be annoyed and for sure I dont know their story and what happened, I just feel it is difficult to deal with blame coming towards you

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Yeah definitely no resentment or blame honestly. Our story runs deep there’s a lot to this. I just refuse to talk down on her or make her feel like trash in front of anyone.

[@lovelife9011]

Never go back to an ex lmao learne my lesson. And so did this woman..

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Mhmm 😅 you seen the q&a?

[@lovelife9011]

@CharlisaKarehn nah lmao

[@divasamai2251]

They miss each other.

[@CharlisaKarehn]

We did back then

[@divasamai2251]

@@CharlisaKarehn ❤️

[@saturnteatree]

The one on the left crying for nothing the one on the right dont care… trust me

[@CharlisaKarehn]

Seen and understood!