Would YOU Date A Single Mother? | Single Mothers On TikTok Are PRESSED By Men Not Dating Them

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[@adamhero459]

“Do you know how hard it is to be a single mom?” Yes. And that is the first or second reason why/men don’t want to date single moms.

[@onewhitepony]

Boom. Spot on

[@brianchecketts9792]

Yes! Society knows this... that is why your mom, dad, brothers, aunts, uncles, preacher, the entire church congregation... told you: don't date that boy, marry a good man...

[@deerick3109]

I would love a video of this single mother or others like her sitting down with the baby's father having a honest discussion of why they aren't together.

[@armandoortiz9114]

It's hard to find a woman that's not a single mother or has a high body count anymore.

[@dr.stiffsock3662]

@@deerick3109 it would just be narcissistic women, blaming the men for everything and taking no accountability

[@TheMaxx009900]

If being a single mom is too hard, let the father have custody!

[@bobjohnson1633]

If being a single mom is so hard, keep your legs shut. Problem solved.

[@joepharmasst]

They don't want them.

[@juniorleslie4804]

Are you crazy!, They goes the welfare check. Lol

[@starguy2718]

If the single moms gave up custody, then they wouldn't get those monthly "child support" checks. Which they use for chasing Chad.

[@thetruth7354]

FACTS....but then they wouldn't be "Independent". Gotta keep that check coming in.

[@rjroy8143]

"A man said he would never date a single mum. Sorry honey. We would never date YOU." Well then. We're all in agreement. Problem solved.

[@numberonepun4126]

Exactly what I was going to say!

[@BloodWolf2005]

lol, right? Who asked, anyway? That girl just made the cope-o-meter needle spin 360°.

[@rmmx77]

LMAO it’s hilarious how she thinks she has a choice in the matter 🤣🤣🤣

[@inquisitivenature5186]

Being a single mum is so tough, and she's so busy and overworked, but apparently she has enough time to scroll through Tiktok and to make videos and post them on the internet.

[@TNAROHfan]

Don't forget the heavily filtered photos they post to Instagram all day. Here's little Johnny going to his favorite Disney concert, out to eat at his favorite restaurant, to the park to play, in his costume for the school play, little Johnny's first Halloween costume. Why TF is he literally always somewhere in the background and why are you making those stupid faces?

[@jamesmontana1881]

Exactly 💯😂

[@paulcarmi8130]

@@TNAROHfan oof, damn lol. Truer words man. Truer words.

[@roserevancroix2308]

Yes...in the 1800's it was - but in the west today? no not really It may seem that way to her because she's a lazy incompetent entitled piece of shit western typical modern female

[@ritafeldmann936]

They also have time to get their nails done...when you are really stressed, there is no time for all that self-care

[@myhandlehasbeenmishandled]

My mom was a single mom since early '90s. Lost my dad in a war. There is ten years difference between my brother and me. I was 11 he was 1. It was miserable. She worked 6 days a week, 12 hours a day 2 low paying jobs. She never even thought about remarrying. That was out of respect and love for our father. And because she was afraid how will other man treat my brother and me.

[@GreenDayRules92]

Smart woman, and definitely a quality example of a good woman

[@patrickpeters298]

It sounds like she was widowed. If that's the case, she is vastly different than single moms (never married to the kids' father). Widows are held in much higher regard as they were part of a family unit until they lost their husbands. I believe the vast majority of men feel genuine sympathy for widows. God bless them.

[@myhandlehasbeenmishandled]

@@patrickpeters298 my experience was different. My dad was Bosniak, his paternal ancestors were Muslims. My mom was a Serb. We were forced to leave Bosnia and the only place we could go to was to her parents in Serbia. Her brother and his wife hated us. My father was not allowed to come with us, and even if he tried he would have been killed. He is registered as civilian killed or missing in war, but his body, and bodies of those that disappeared with him were never recovered. They are still finding bodies of the dead, maybe one day. In Serbia, and to some degree in the US, everyone viewed as a potential burden. We were lucky my paternal Uncle and his family survived. They helped us get refugee visas to the US. Just to add, while in the US, over time we became Christians (although years ago I left). Few people in church told my mom I look to angry. They said, men didn't feel comfortable approaching her. I'm glad. Not that she was ever interested. She found it rude that people even concerned themselves with something that was none of their business.

[@patrickpeters298]

@@myhandlehasbeenmishandled So sorry for all that you and your family have been through. Welcome to the U.S. where I hope you can find peace. Your mom sounds like a great person. I hope that your father's remains are located and you all may give him a proper burial. Peace.

[@knockknockbusted]

I think widow situation is different but I’d still steer clear.

[@constablekennedy7705]

Avoid Single Mothers like the Plague Fellas …. 🚶🏿‍♂️

[@CIAG4PNP]

100%👍

[@georgeaswipe5031]

There is no upside to dating a single mother, only downside.

[@wolfgangkranek376]

Fact.

[@SoulforSale]

except for the government funds and the pity

[@robcubed9557]

@RustyBoysGaming "single mothers aren't looking for love, they are looking for help" - My opinion is that if single mothers would be more dateable if they successfully cared fdor their children and were only looking for a long-term boyfriend for "weekend fun".

[@robcubed9557]

@RustyBoysGaming even for long term, if a single mother wanted a long-term boyfriend without legal paperwork, she’d be much more successful at dating. Mind you, I’m a single dad (widower) so I’m sympathetic to the struggle of single-parenting. I’ve got no desire to remarry however a long-term girlfriend (which is what I currently have) fits what I’m looking for

[@michaelweston1042]

She was already out when I saw they weird tats running up her hands and arms.

[@The_Victorius_One]

Do you know how hard it is to be a single mom? Yes, that is why we don't want to date you. Do you know how hard it is to date a single mom?

[@Sketch_Sesh]

don't suffer for Their mistakes

[@Outlaw8908]

Don’t bother with them it’s a waste and far too miserable of an experience.

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

Her son will hate You like mad, and her daughter will accuse You of having been inappropriate. And SM herself will everytime take her children's side, no matter how obviously ridiculous that side is.

[@MrBmic]

@@manfredschmalbach9023 Yep yep! 100% accurate.

[@Concerned.Citizen]

"Do you know how hard it is to be a single mother?" Well if it isn't the consequences of her own actions

[@willk4031]

As a single dad, I did that every day of my children’s young lives. I was too busy doing the right thing to bitch about it on TikTok.

[@Necroverse19]

She basically pulled the "you can't fire me because I quit!" line. Men already don't want you, so you saying that you don't want them because they don't want you doesn't bother them.

[@GeraldM_inNC]

100%

[@JCTheSniper15]

It's also basically the same concept, because when you quit voluntarily you generally don't get severance, you're not eligible for unemployment, and you can't even attempt to legally pursue the company for wrongful termination. Lol. Same same, if you're a single mother with limited options you're only punishing yourself by doing such things.

[@JCTheSniper15]

I also hadn't even thought about it the way you just said it lol. It gets more hilarious the more I think about it that she's literally saying her qualification is that if you won't date her she wont date you hahaha

[@wolfgangkranek376]

I love how they are all strong independent women... until they are confronted with the consequences.

[@shaq9361]

@@wolfgangkranek376 strong and independent... with child support cheques. Just because a woman is a single mother doesn't mean the father is not in the picture paying his dues, it just means she wants to have bedroom fun with other men.

[@Eyetrauma]

I love when they use the “I’m dead tired from cleaning” as if single people don’t also clean their homes.

[@HaughsCausedit]

Everyone cleans, but cleaning after kids can be a bit more. Seen plenty of my families kids rip apart a shelf full of toys for the destruction alone. Then just leave everything on the floor as they go watch tv. That being said, maybe secure a father not a fuck buddy.

[@jasenwm]

I find people with children have this belief people without children have no responsibilites and all the time in the world. Like you have zero hobbies, full time job, overtime normal life things. Crazy to me how there entire lives revolve around there children. Children should be a part of your life not your entire life

[@bobjohnson1633]

You can raise your kids to pick up ALL of their own stuff. A 3 year old can absolutely clean their own toys up if they want ice cream. If a woman can do it, a toddler can do it

[@HaughsCausedit]

@@bobjohnson1633 you are right about teaching them to clean up, but im refering to toddlers, oldest being 2.

[@enricohagn]

@@HaughsCausedit My sons did that (or something similar) only once or twice, they had to do the clean up themselves before they could watch anything on TV. Easy lesson for the squirrels 😂

[@critique6657]

The only thing I can say to single mothers is: "Why didn't you get your child with me in the first place? If I am only good enough because you got older and you have a child, then you do not deserve me."

[@mikhailabdurrachman2443]

NEVER spend your MEAT (Money Energy Attention Time) on a feminazi who do NOT IDOLIZED / worshipp you period -greg Adams

[@terrythompson2743]

The Chad/tyrone that got her preggers has other women to impregnate! He can't be bothered with taking care of his own children! Nobody got time fo' dat! Pick up his slack like the good beta provider you are!

[@arkonazvyturis5714]

It's common among single mothers to be very picky when dating responsible single men with kids. Men must cherrish their kids but can't have own kids. Double standards...

[@Outlaw8908]

I usually just shrug and don’t even bother. Single mom’s just are not worth that kind of effort.

[@BansheeKing22]

Right cause they totally should have waited for some rando that there was no guarantee would ever appear in his or her life. Shit happens but being a dick to them just because they didnt wait for you specifically is pretty pathetic. As if you're some great catch.

[@clearlyflawed3204]

“Single moms aren’t looking for love, they are looking for help.”

[@wades623]

Looking for a replacement

[@gregoryvanikiotis3214]

They aren’t getting my help-Oh! I’m running late for my tee-off time! FORE

[@slinkiegirl2001]

they are normally looking for a provider

[@stevenharris1460]

Every time a single mom cries, an angel gets its wings!

[@starguy2718]

😄😄😄😄

[@johnboykin3128]

😂

[@babacalouche]

and somewhere, somehow, a man gets his revenge and/or a boner

[@888ssss]

i would rather have peace and wealth than be the 2nd choice of a single mother.

[@GeraldM_inNC]

10th choice

[@augustlion5105]

Absolutely expendable forever.

[@solusaldrain]

You're 2 positions behind however many kids and pets she has. Those positions are filled by her work husband and the backup man.

[@a-atheist]

I would rather get shot in the face than be a single mothers first choice.

[@captainjgorsky9376]

Facts

[@MrCombatNinja]

Tommy Sotomayor once said, single mothers aren't doing the best they can otherwise they wouldn't be single mothers.

[@simonbrown7501]

Telling us how hard it is to be a single mum. Meaning, I need you to be just as miserable as I am and take on this stress with me. These women are beyond broken

[@Souloux]

If she was having such a difficult life, how is it she can find the time to record, edit and share a video of herself complaining about having such a difficult life? Don't believe these chameleons.

[@davidshapley3469]

You nailed it.

[@donaldoehl7690]

SMs have living proof that they cannot be trusted with birth control!

[@thetruth7354]

Anyone telling you how strong they are, isn't. Anyone telling you how independent they are will getting government aid, subsidies, child support or help from anyone doesn't know the definition of independent. Woman logic is absolutely illogical.

[@TNAROHfan]

It's hard daddy. Fix my problems daddy! No thanks sweetheart.

[@petersouthernboy6327]

I married a single Mom and it was the worst decision I ever made in my life.

[@teeaymusik9811]

oh boy rip

[@petersouthernboy6327]

@@teeaymusik9811 all of the sayings are true - you’re treated like a piggy bank 🏦 and in terms of priority (like intimacy and quality time) forget about it

[@teeaymusik9811]

@@petersouthernboy6327 Yeah i dealth with a very bad one. She said "cheating is a family thing", unbelievable. She is my direct neighbor which is total insane. I already had 5 apartment tours but i didnt find the right one yet, i absoloutely want to move away here. Anyways the good thing is that im redpilled to the bone now and found a good job because of her/this experience. Nothing in life happens without an reason.

[@pokemercenary6511]

Never feel bad for a single mom, she wouldn’t have dated you before her child if you are a stable, responsible man.

[@Vikii2024]

NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOM . NEVER DO THIS MISTAKE .

[@vanceat]

I am on the side of the child who was raised by a single mother. My mother really tried to keep me away from my dad. When my mother's life went south, she did find a man stupid enough to be there for me, my sibling, and her. He actually was a second father (my father was somewhat involved), taught me computers, took me out to hang, really inspire me to pursue engineering. My mom cheated on him when I moved back with my father. I lost contact with him and my mom does not want to disclose that. My advice from the side of the child, do not date a single mom.

[@teeaymusik9811]

Great insight thanks. I'm a product of a single mother also but my dad raised us. My mum left and had many other men after my dad. Now she is 60, a drug addict and alone. It's insanely sad that families are destroyed these days.

[@daveeyes]

I'm so sorry, brother. I got involved with a single mom's son. She was going through a divorce. I spun him on a chair, we went rocketing up and down corridors, I roughhoused with him and tickled him. He LOVED it. Kids need that sort of male attention. Then I had to leave; my time there was up. I still wonder how he's doing.

[@victorcode2075]

You should reach out to your step dad as an adult and let him know what he meant to you.

[@positivelygrowing12321]

Yea I've seen that up close. I got tired of hearing from her about how my dad moved on. So did you, should I be mad at you too? Your dad this your dad that, make sure you look at me as good and look at your dad as bad. It got old, man. I just started throwing my hands up and saying "hey that's between yall, because him and me don't have beef." But it also gave me an inside look at how it works for many women. You what know the sad thing about all this is? There are women that are going to read this and the only thing they'll take away from this is "Just be sneakier than her and don't get caught." That's the fuel that keeps a lot of guys coming back to this content. Women (single mothers) see themselves as the hero of their own story and can't let that go for anything. That's the legacy of feminism that we get to be left with.

[@ritafeldmann936]

My mother decided to leave my dad because she was a "House slave" only responsible for watching over me and Sex. She was married 5 years before I was born. Why wait until the Child is there to realize you don't match with the Father? They don't put Children first.

[@PhunkBustA]

the thing a lot of these single mums dont realize, is that a lot of us were raised by....... *SINGLE MOTHERS*

[@stuartkarlson307]

I raised my daughter from day one , she’s now 26 and it was a piece of cake.

[@skyblue375]

Dating a single mother is literally like picking up from another man’s saved game.

[@starguy2718]

Chad's leftovers. No, thanks.

[@pressb]

Yes, the game saved just before his character died for the 50th time and he quit playing because it wasn't worth it.

[@20thCenturyfan1701]

A saved game that requires you to pay to play (not win) with a monthly subscription in order to continue the game, the end result will always be a costly defeat for the protagonist. (Before that it was free to play.)

[@knockknockbusted]

@@starguy2718 Little Chadrone will sh!t on you, too.

[@szczepan4737]

You miss out on the fun parts and start straight from korean mmorpg grind.

[@derfalschejunge]

„Do you know how hard it is to be a single mom?“ What does that have to do with me not wanting you in my life?

[@1984a-g9f]

The lack of awareness. Can you imagine a short broke guy telling women they should date him because it’s hard being short and broke.

[@Lucas-og1xq]

Female solipsism is hard to fathom but it's real

[@d765lt4]

🏃‍♂️......🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 love how she is saying how hard it is to be responsible for her personal choice like we should care or feel bad for them. Not a chance I'm dating a single mother. NOT. A. CHANCE. RUN men, RUN.

[@GeraldM_inNC]

I used to feel sorry for them and wanted to help them. Boy was I stupid!

[@freeman405]

That's not my problem. Be careful, one bad decision can have a lifetime of consequences.

[@asparrow9876]

I wouldn't date anyone. Mother or not. Single or taken. Monogamous or poly. Woman or trans or man. Broke or rich. I don't care. SINGLE FOR LIFEEEEEEE!!!!

[@michaelweston1042]

@@freeman405 So true! Not only is there a std epidemic a woman can wreck your life in so many ways. Not just financially. Emotionally as well. It can take years if ever for the damage they can have on your life. To be repaired.

[@teeaymusik9811]

@@GeraldM_inNC Thats exactly the trap. They play the victim role all the damn time. The one i dated said how abusive her ex was and then she returned to him lmao!

[@leroyrussell8766]

"We wouldn't date you." Thanks!! I am so relieved by that information! Imagine my relief, knowing that somebody I don't want to date, doesn't want to date me. But we all know she's getting her back blown out.

[@TheRelen222]

I've been told that before when I voice an opinion that is unpopular with women. I just tell them that I'm glad we're in agreement.

[@YoungConanGaming]

Grown women on tik tok is in itself a major red flag imo.

[@akula1055]

I am a 57 years old man and have dated 4 single mothers over some years, please follow Taylor’s advice, I had very bad moments with all of them. You don’t need to go through all that crap, they will make you to feel guilty but don’t buy their shit. Date normal women and you will be much better.

[@andypender]

"...they will make you to feel guilty" that is the punch line...they will blame you for everything...in fact she blamed me for making her cheat on me lol

[@technoDjify]

@@andypender imagine being blamed for someone else's actions? Definitely logical.

[@paugasolina5048]

@@technoDjify imagine still imagining in 2022

[@rottenanimal619]

I dated one single mother once. She was easy but, her motive was to find security for her two kids. When she wanted to marry me, I dumped her.

[@darbyohara]

I’ve dated 3 and I can say that those 3 women were the most selfish and irresponsible women I’ve dated 🤣

[@scottmatznick3140]

I married a single mom. She divorced me after wrecking me psychologically. She expected me to carry her through her custody battle while she lied and tried to annihilate the dad's relationship with his child. Luckily she lost that battle. But I lost all desire for her when I saw how evil she was towards Chris and how willing she was to manipulate reality to get what she wanted. Fast forward, she absconded with my children on new years Eve, and within a month was pregnant by a new guy. Now I'm still fighting for my parental rights and being denied them regularly while the new guy plays my old role and helps her destroy my children. Then she'll do the same to him and he will watch the next new guy destroy his son. This is the third time in a row she's done this.

[@GeraldM_inNC]

Par for the course.

[@spinmaster0]

Sorry to hear that, mate! Don't give up fighting, no matter how exhausting it gets!

[@bucktooth002]

She stole children that aren't hers but belong to your baby's mama so just off her.

[@bobjohnson1633]

There should be a 304 award show. She would get no less than a nomination.

[@mikebolton3816]

Murder would be doing a public service.

[@derwoodsdiy7710]

This is deep seated. My entire family allowed me to date a single mother. Not one said anything negative. On the contrary. They loved her and talked highly of her. Thank god I figured out I was being a simp. Thank god I researched and studied biology and human relationships. I choked hard on that pill but it finally went down.

[@BreadAndGatorade]

@@ThomQuinnHere yea mine set me up for failure, but I’m not 65 so I still got time to turn it around! So cringe thinking back female family members encouraging me to be a simp “you’re a catch” lmao

[@BreadAndGatorade]

When I was 20 my family didn't bat an eye the 29 year old woman I brought home thinking I was cool. RIP

[@onewhitepony]

Same. I made that dumb mistake young. But also I had 2 uncles marry single mothers. This really started to take root later 70s early 80s. When I graduated 20 yrs ago it was still rare but more accepted. By 2010 on coincidentally with the rise of social media its become a horror show

[@oakinwol]

There's nothing wrong with being with a single mom if you like her and she's owned up to her mistakes and gotten better. I mean there are some single moms that would make better mothers and wives than some of the non single moms who just so happened not to get pregnant or who aborted their pregnancies. It's not a hard and fast rule. Just find someone at your level

[@jonjacobjingleheimerschmid3798]

@@oakinwol it's pretty hard and fast that those bastards are involved... And they suck lots of time and resources

[@marcustulliuscicero1041]

"Do you know how hard it is to be a single mom?" No. Do I care? No. I had no part in creating the problem, and I have no interest in getting involved in it.

[@JadedBeast]

When she proceeded to explain how hard it is, all I heard was all the reasons to not date a single mom. they're gaining another income , financial support, emotional support and less responsibilities, the kids will never be yours and they will remind you evertime you have an argument with them, what do men gain from this misery?

[@Ghiaccio-x1j]

Never swim where other men have drowned.

[@patrickpowers8912]

What about single fathers? All we ever hear about is how hard it is being a single mother.

[@ludwig7974]

It's cuz unlike garden apparatuses, men are Strong and Independent, we have to be. Only morons take to shit-tok or shitstagram to complain about being an adult. roflmao

[@styxzero1675]

Single fathers are in pretty high demand from women tho. Because it is very diffrent.

[@gridtac2911]

Men don't bitch and complain about their responsibilities openly... Women are emotionally immature children.

[@AtlasRathbane4346]

It's even harder,because no one changes your tires for you. Trust me,these women would self-termin if they lived my life. Look at my profile pic,u already know

[@urzmontst.george6314]

All men are evil, unless they are paying for the castles and vacations of used up 304's

[@Taeix]

Do you know how hard it is to be alone? Do you know how hard it is to be expected to never fail? Do you know how hard it is to be rejected day in and day out in work, dating and family expectations? Nope, sorry single ladies and single moms. We men are expected to be omega alpha chad from womb to tomb and be their door mats with a built in ATM. Single and happy over here

[@jimhooligan3263]

We either are Supermen or nothing at all in their eyes... I say enough is enough. They need men more than men need them... good luck ladies you'll need it..

[@teeaymusik9811]

Very nice comment. All my experiences with girls only damaged me alot. I'm so done. There are so many other things in life who can fullfill you. It's just not worth the risk.

[@dansmith1661]

Just identify as a husband. Problem solved.

[@jimhooligan3263]

@Jesse Lee spot on and then this woman dares to tell us how difficult it's to be a single mother... her own choice... she has no idea how difficult it's to be a man and we had no choice...

[@LibraMiku271]

Amen

[@drsingingeagle]

"I'm a single mother." What do they want, a Purple Heart?

[@npcperson2158]

"Shame, Insults, Guilt and The Need to be right." - SIGN - Kevin Samuels.

[@poulpilfinger702]

Stay away from single moms ..!

[@markprice5651]

"do you know how hard it is being a single mom, do you know how hard it is to rely on yourself, do you know what it's like to bring up children on your own, to provide for them on one income?" Hey lady, do you know what it is like being an adult? Do you know that these are all choices you made? Do you understand it is not my responsibility to clean up your mistakes, and no, I do not need to accept you for who you are.

[@teeaymusik9811]

Spot on!

[@lofttm969]

Her: “how dare you say you wouldn’t date me that’s so rude” Also her: “we don’t want to date you either “ Shame works so well on them that they think it works as well in reverse 😂😂

[@donaldoehl7690]

Single Mums: Do you know how hard my life is? Me: Do you understand how little I care?

[@samsmusichub]

Men are not saying it's not hard to be a single mom. It is hard to be a single mom. We're saying that you're a single mom by choice. You choice to either be promiscuous, choose the wrong type of guy, or kick the right type of guy out of the home. All of these are things you chose to do. It's not about difficulty, it's about..... ACOUNTABILITY.

[@joshyoung9004]

Let me get this straight. If we were dating I’d be paying your bills, cleaning your bathrooms doing your laundry while you go out clubbing and I watch some other dudes kid. Sign me up

[@steveretiredandcranky]

You could even take the kids out of the equation and it would still be accurate.

[@starguy2718]

With a setup like that, what could go wrong?

[@odysseus2656]

The single most common denominator of successful mature adults all around the world is that a father was in the child's life. The father is much much more important than a mother.

[@garybentlage7225]

Both parents are important but yes father's more important I agree!

[@chadthunderkawk1650]

There was a book that warned women about the dangers of sex out of wedlock with ungodly men that didn’t want to marry them. I can’t recall the name of it… little help guys?

[@erroneous6947]

Torah, Bible, Koran?

[@wizrom3046]

50 shades of 304?

[@redtap5426]

Koran

[@moose6869]

Pick any of the 3 Abrahamic religions and each warns against this.

[@JCTheSniper15]

@Brandon Letzco you're making yourself look stupid. Those are obviously references to old testament/Torah law. I'd love to see the verses where it is established that eating shrimp, wearing mixed fabrics, disobedience, or breaking the sabbath are capital offenses. (Spoiler alert, they don't exist.) If you're gonna criticize a religion, maybe don't be dumb about it. It doesn't help your cause. There are plenty of legitimate criticisms you could levy, but when you just demonstrate that you're ignorant and probably parroting things you've heard without actually looking into it you're not gonna do well. Edit: I've just realized that you possibly mean the Saturday thing to only apply to the collecting of firewood, and simply didn't use commas to separate out the previous offenses.

[@kevincaruthers5412]

I know a guy who's ex pulled this crap "Oh it is so hard to be a single mom" etc. He told her he would be glad to take the kids and not even ask for child support. Image how surprised we all are that she didn't take him up on his offer.

[@catherinevandor9988]

Pregnancy out of wedlock was among my top 3 fears during college, and beyond. Fortunately, there were really easy ways to not get pregnant.

[@catherinevandor9988]

@ne mareći, I had one boyfriend. That was it

[@ludwig7974]

Use protection, fear is ignorant, you are trying to have a victim card in your pocket Catherine.

[@catherinevandor9988]

@@ludwig7974 to clarify;; the fear was visceral. It wasn't about me taking chances and saying OMG, what now?! I personally, knew I had to graduate with a marjetable skill, so there was no room for foolish decisions. I did see someone from my floor go home first semester, after getting pregnant at a Halloween party. I don't know how things turned out for her, but likely, not as well as they did for me.

[@AtlasRathbane4346]

@@catherinevandor9988 I honestly recommend this,why take Risk. Your at college for schooling,not jump on the local train.

[@offworlder1]

Never ever date a single mother, her mistakes, her problem, you are NOT obligated to to deal with them and it is best to leave them be.

[@philo2077]

There is no disagreement. Single moms have it hard. It would not make ones life better to associate with one.

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

She literally proved that women are children in adult clothes.You're not strong! no one's intimidated by you! tell yourself what you need to tell yourself to make yourself feel better.

[@iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii2458]

Why do you think women get "child" support in almost all cases?

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

@@josephvanname3377 True...But females get cash and prizes, not to mention social ok from big daddy government for their foolery 🤔

[@bobjohnson1633]

Women prove that they are not equal to men and should not be treated as men legally. You can treat them as children or as some other legal entity inferior to men.

[@genericscout5408]

She's weak that's why people are "intimidated" meaning not wanting to date them. If she was strong and ontop of everything she wouldn't be complaining.

[@1230mkelly]

Tell herself lies in order to keep herself from committing suicide.

[@ooberallen]

Single mothers have been getting desperate on dating apps too, a couple years ago when I was still looking to get into a relationship I'd set match filters to only include women without kids. I'd get a ton of suggested matches with women who conveniently left the fact that they had a child out of their profile but had lots of pics with them and their crotch gremlins and of course these pictures were towards the end of their profile pictures so I guess they were trying to hook a man who only looked at the first 2-3 pics which are always pics of them alone lol

[@mlord1815]

I've moderated a number of sites since the start of it, I'd say 95% of women online now are s*x workers, disabled and single mum's or all of the above. It died the second year it was a thing

[@onewhitepony]

Wow! Thank God I never dabbled in the apps. That's insane haha. So they KNOW its a problem yet want to shame men....? Lol. Make it make SENSE!

[@mck7646]

They're so dishonest and can't accept the consequences.

[@LordWyatt]

Hard to vett dishonest people. Best to cut them out as quickly as possible.

[@lowkeyscustomcars]

Ive seen females with 5 kids by 5 different guys the youngest only months old an their looking for serious relationships only no hook ups 😂😂😂😂

[@mountaintolfree6836]

I was a single father. Son moved in with me at 4 years old. He is 23 now. Being a single parent was not that hard not sure why these other people are trying to say it is.

[@VidyaBros1]

The first girl who ever liked me, a coworker who I was friends with. A year older than me, baby daddy in jail because he's a loser, she fought for months for custody over the kid, and she was way fatter than me and all about body positivity. Also tattoos, piercings, and red hair. She seemed pretty based surprisingly, but she is a lunatic who always started unnecessary drama with me whenever I tried to make her laugh and then she'd make it seem like it's my fault that she has no sense of humor. Yeah, no thanks. Besides, I'm not playing stepdaddy to another man's kid.

[@mark7s980]

Never date a single mom! You'll always come last. Kids, her, you....ALWAYS!

[@johngalt1967]

Don't forget about her mother

[@freeman405]

I always put myself first, that's why i don't date them.

[@thegoodbrother7727]

You forgot the dogs.

[@BansheeKing22]

If you expect a mother to put you above her kids than you have narcissistic issues. Kids always come first and any male or female going onto a relationship with a single parent needs to respect that.

[@mark7s980]

@@BansheeKing22 we don't expect a mother to put us first over her kids. Which is why we say not to date single mothers in the first place.

[@DaKillmonger]

Something a guy said to me made me put single moms in the fun only category where they belong. He asked me why a man would want to come second to a lesser man’s nut. Crazy but it’s been 15 years and it saved me.

[@XeonProductions]

I'd rather eat cookies made out of broken glass than date a single mother.

[@Josh-py9rq]

😂😂

[@mario7501]

My neighbour had his first girlfriend when he was 17. He is not the brightest person in the world and somewhat naive, but a very gifted craftsman and carpenter for which I admire him a lot. And a very good friend at that! His girlfriend told him she's pregnant 2 months into the relationship. When he visited the gynocologist with her, they actually found out she was already entering the fourth month of pregnancy, so there was no chance it was his kid. His parents and I were certain she knew about that and just wanted a baby daddy. She almost talked him into adopting the kid. Fortunately his parents and I talked sense into him and he broke up. Crazy how desperate some of these girls are.

[@Sema0810]

You know. I’m a father of two. Mother of my kids came up with the idea that we should go separate ways. This after several years we’re I just kept on going for the kids sake. All she did was complain and fight over random shit. Then she says let’s break up it’s time. I say yes that’s good idea. Soft separation we are taking it easy. Half year after separation (when I bought the house she got her own apartment etc. all the legal stuff and all the deals are done (I had to do the work of all of this as well btw) then she says “I want back in” “why don’t you give me another chance” I like what!?! NO

[@BluMacron]

She probably realized it's rough out there in the dating market for a divorced single mom.

[@stephendacey8761]

It's so true that kids really do want a father in their life. Back in the 90's, I worked at a recreation center and a 10-year old girl was trying so hard to have me marry her single mother, but the mother wanted nothing to do with me and seemed upset at her daughter for trying to set us up.

[@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM]

Damn dude that is heartbreaking. Poor kid.

[@Falconlibrary]

When I was a young middle school teacher (before I became a college professor), some of my girl students tried to match make me with their moms. Kids really do need and want a father or father figure in their lives. As a teacher, I can testify that 90% of my students with behavioral problems had no male authority figure in their lives. My female colleagues always envied how easy it was for me and the other male teachers to get students to behave: both boys and girls respond more positively to male authority. It's too bad our schools are not only female-centered but becoming moreso year upon year.

[@garybentlage7225]

@@Falconlibrary u remember my school years and most of the teachers were female? So there was already an agenda In place back then, early 1960s?!

[@jaydoubleli]

accountability is a single mother's kryptonite.

[@urzmontst.george6314]

Rejecting Single mums when they throw it at you is their red kryptonite- it doesn't weaken them, it drives them insane

[@jstreets1983]

Fellas, trust me on this, I know I’m a stranger on YT but I’ve done this before. Never ever date or even give attention to single mothers. Don’t be nice (don’t be mean), don’t try to be the exception to the rule. Leave me them to find the sucker they will eventually leave for you. Don’t be the sucker yourself.

[@joshuadelgado9517]

Single mothers just want help, not love! Just a friendly reminder everyone!

[@jstreets1983]

@@joshuadelgado9517 Women in general don’t want love, they want a man that operates how they wish men operated. They want slaves.

[@MrLivewire1970]

You can't fix a single mother's life. She shifts the financial and emotional baggage to the man and then he gets all the blame because she's still unhappy. This then gives her a reason to cheat on you with her ex or any Chad that walks by.

[@mattscott2664]

So many single mums complain about how much of a struggle it is. Why would a man want to join this struggle? A drain on energy, time and money.

[@tomferguson9250]

No, I don't know how hard being a single mom is. I was careful, I listened when people told me to protect myself. I paid attention to the behaviors, manipulation, narcissism & lack of accountability in every single mother. I saved my money, worked hard & live how I want - with zero restrictions or baggage. Guess they should take their own advice & keep their legs closed if they don't want kids with losers.

[@hmieklix6375]

Single mums; Recreational use only

[@GeraldM_inNC]

But for God's sake wear a jimmy-hat!

[@oklahomahank2378]

No user serviceable parts.

[@rianmacdonald9454]

''Being a single mum is so so so hard'', it is that hard you can sit scrolling tik tok, cake your face in make-up, make a video for tik tok (and we know she done it a few times, to make she looked good enough in it) - your body your choice, your shit to deal with.

[@Dies_Das_Ananas]

word.

[@RayleighCriterion]

Single mother couldn't keep her man around but expects other men to keep her around, oh the irony!!!

[@davidduff9871]

I’ve gone through what that guy did. Took in a kid and his mom and treated him as my own. Had a great bond and then they left. Yes feels like your heart was torn out. And I know the kid felt the same.

[@knockknockbusted]

LOL you poor bastard.

[@Josh-py9rq]

Sorry to hear that david

[@gus9225]

I've seen it many times. Single moms latching onto some poor dude, to take care of them and their children. Sometimes it seems to work but only for those guys that have given up finding a woman on their own. These gals "give it up" to these guys to get security and some guys don't seem to care about anything else. Personally, not for me. My own brother has heard, "You're not my real dad!", many times.

[@cheesesniper473]

Tell you brother to tell them "sorry, i dont listen to bastards"

[@Kokopilau77]

Sad thing is that they’ve probably given it up to several dudes. Unless they’re a widow, and there’s still a chance that happened. So basically the dude is getting leftovers with the joy of having to take over the restaurant

[@Kraken_Mybutt]

@@Kokopilau77 He owns the restaurant and pays the bills but can only eat the scraps left on customers plates.

[@Kokopilau77]

@@cheesesniper473 that’s pretty epic. Granted, I’ve met some guys who are royal pieces of shite and aren’t even in the picture. But someone dedicating their time and resources to take care of another man’s seed is trying to be a bette t father to that kid than their own fathers.

[@VaronPlateando]

... whoever as a gent has given up on any positive expectations with regard to current (western) xx.s is rather unlikely to revise that, reflecting on what xx.s as the one bring forth and how they do it, even before thinking through the implicit complications. no thanx. period.

[@aceventurapetdetective2356]

Lol at her talking about single mums, like it is a terrible name for them. What else would you call them!

[@teeaymusik9811]

Catastrophic woman fits more

[@dudemcaverage3903]

Accountability Allergics

[@888ssss]

risk takers.

[@notacompleteidiot...1285]

As a fella who spent around 12 years of my life raising someone else's kids during relationships... ...I highly don't recommend it.

[@bdog1323]

"do you know how hard it is to be a single mother?". Um yeah, I do. That's why I never wanted them. And my favorite quote is "don't make your problems mine "

[@mrbbkk]

It has never worked for me and I tried many times Biggest issue was not money, it was immaturity and irresponsibility.

[@GruesomePizza1992]

There's a young girl at work (22) who's all over me even though I've told her multiple times including my boss when asked, that I could not take her serious. It's not fair that I would have to afford her children before I can even think about bringing in my own. Not doing it.

[@nmc1859]

S3xual harrassment claim

[@christophpreuss3058]

ChildREN? At least 2 at the age of 22 and not married? Bad, bad choices ...

[@Iron-Bridge]

Be careful not to be trapped into compromising situations and record and document everything..

[@joemama1691]

Same here, this chick sitting on my lap at work and she’s got kids. Nah that other girl doesn’t have kids or tattoos.

[@joluvetre]

I dated, married, and got destroyed by an individual such as this over the lapse of 5 years losing my house, paying alimony and child support to a kid is not even mine after the divorce, I did not have a FATHER FIGURE to tell me that dating... let alone getting married to a single mother was basically suicide. DON'T GET NEAR THIS TYPE OF DAMAGED PERSON. I know now that I will rather be alone than share a roof with a sociopath trying to destroy everything around her while I try my hardest to keep the boat afloat. I hope to someday share my story as a precautionary tale with another man... just stay away from single mothers, they are like a cornered rabid wild animal incapable to distinguish friend from foe... and may god help you if you ever try to actually educate their children as yours... you will never hear the end of it.

[@lonewarrior8245]

Bro simps can't get a woman so they marry single moms coz they are easy lol 🤣🤣

[@thetruth7354]

Bro, I feel for you, damn near the same situation but I did have a father. There is NO upside to getting married much less getting involved with anything that has to do with a single mother. 1. You're at best 3 or 4 priority wise. 2. You will be a financial resource 3. The kids more than likely won't like you or respect you because you're not their dad 4. (My personal favorite) The dad who is given the opportunity to see his kids, the kids know the mother is the reason for their father not being around, this is more true if you have boys. Boys will eventually grow up to be men, and men generally don't gravitate to their mothers when they're older. Moral of the story, single mothers have nothing to offer a man who is childless and has kids of her own, especially now-a-days.

[@thamor4746]

How are you forced to pay child support? That should be the kids actual father and that guy should have been paying child support even when you were together.

[@thetruth7354]

@@thamor4746 our system is Evil. I listened to at least 6 stories this week where the wife cheated, the husband was faithful had proof of the infidelity and still got fucked with alimony, support and getting financially railed. Women love to speak on how strong they are but if men weren't stronger, you'd see women getting knocked of daily like the Persians in 300.

[@thamor4746]

@@thetruth7354 Yeah I am from Europe and in my country this doesn't happen or at least law little bit better protect men. It's still messed up here too how the law doesn't help man enough how it should.

[@martingrayson]

You kno what else is traumatic for a child? Having your friends in elementary school find out about your mum's gardening past or even worse, her "O-F" account.

[@Val-uj3nr]

No single moms, no divorced women and no women past 30s.

[@aalberto4961]

This woman said’ we didn’t ask to be single mom’. No accountability whatsoever!! It’s your decision therefore there’s no one else to blame but you!!!

[@obsidianogre2576]

She made a conscious choice to raise her child or children on her own. We as males are absolutely under no obligation to subsidize the choice she made by dating her, which is our choice.

[@WexMajor82]

And yet we still do by paying taxes. If a woman would TRULY be alone when she'd be a single mom, they'd be borderline nonexistent.

[@Lucas-og1xq]

We should also prevent the single moms from going around us to the government for support. That will stop a lot of this foolishness.

[@insomicraiddict]

Women don’t have to understand what it is to build yourself to be a man with options, men don’t have to understand what is is to be a single mother, but we have a good idea of how a single mother become one.

[@paul715]

I dated a single mom who was 17 at the time. Legal in my state. She left me for another guy.

[@warmonger876]

What did we learn ?

[@michael10613]

17 fam? Cmon man. Thats a 304

[@urbanwarchief]

Dating single moms is like stepping on a mine and expecting not to get ripped to shreds

[@wowerman]

"Scrolling Tik Tok".That is the problem, spending countless hours on the phone.

[@brodel20]

She wouldn't say this if she saw how good our lives are without them.

[@bobjohnson1633]

Do you have any idea how hard her life is? She has no idea how easy yours is. Lol

[@jj8898huu]

I like her salesman tactic. "No one cares if you don't want this boat, this boat does not want you." Then goes into a few things why owning a boat is terrible and so hard to manage and maintain... at least with a real boat you can go fishing with it

[@theequalizer9154]

You can always sell the boat at a profit too. With her, nobody wants her.

[@defi_ramsay]

😂😂😂

[@db1777]

Women logic

[@yogidemis8513]

Most of these females will be with a good man, even for years and have a kid but once when that kid comes, she forces the man out of the house and make it seem like everything he did why the guy is wondering "WTF just happen" she plays victim and tells everyone that he abandoned her, abusive and all the names and go after him for child support and other crap and then don't let the dad see his kid then she goes online and cries about how hard it is to be a single mother, when she had a man who was going to be there. This happens all the time.

[@baalzamon3593]

I don't think single moms are trash. I just don't want to raise another man's children.

[@spcg9796]

Just went through this, and left her. She wanted none of my influence on her son. So I was like why should I stay? A man will become involved w the woman’s kids. If she’s telling her child the opposite of what you say, if she does not allow you influence them, it’s not going to work. Especially a woman’s son.

[@lenniegodber7805]

She only has one source of income ... except for the child support, spousal support and government handouts.

[@humanengineer812]

They don’t put their kids first, they put themselves first, even when it looks like they are, really it’s for them but dressed up as for the kids

[@GeraldM_inNC]

They spend what they get from child support on THEMSELVES!!! Then they come after the baby daddy for more money, accusing him of being a deadbeat dad, when in reality she was embezzling the kids' money for herself. I recently saw one case where a woman demanded he pay for their college education -- when, in fact, he had been paying her money specifically designated to be saved for their college education. In 15 years she had never saved any of the college money that her ex had given her.

[@jai-one2691]

To single moms Did you understand that responsibility of your choices, and that any physical activities you engage in should be with a person you want to marry, and more importantly they want to marry you. Single Men, are not responsible for correcting a single moms mistake, especially if she doesn't listen.

[@kitty1256x]

Those women believed men who deceived them and used them for sex. Women get forced by sex to men, trust men and then get blamed on too....gosh...men do so many horrible things to women.

[@fabledreamor]

"Strong independent women" is the phrase that has led many women to the single-mom hood.

[@josephaaron4985]

There's ZERO reason to be involved with a single mother. They chose to have kids and leave the father out of it. It takes 2 to tango, but by 18, you know right from wrong and the consequences of your actions.

[@rocatanski]

Single father of three here. Their life is difficult because they chose to make it this way. Never been stressed, tired......or made a video to complain about it. Put your big girl pants on ladies.

[@Zharael-Z]

Preach brother, raising a child isn't as stressful as these single mothers make it out to be. It's mostly because of them, wanting to go back to their previous life (before the kids) quietly or openly.

[@decimgames2163]

Dating a single Mom is just more work for less. More of your time/resources for less of hers, obviously it varies in degrees from mom to mom, but it is ALWAYS the case.

[@nathanmajor2095]

I was talking to a single mother the other day and will never again.

[@UmamaGoblin]

"We put our children first and we're strong women" If you put your kids first then where is their father? And if you're such a strong woman then why is being a single mother so difficult for you? 🥃

[@Railgun_Punk]

No right to expect a man to resume another man's save file. That mom only cares about herself and her child, nobody else. Another man is a means to an end.