Would you support your husband getting a tattoo of his deceased wife? | Dear Future Wifey S5, E517

This beautiful conversation went into spaces that will melt your heart and elevate your mind. The goal was to curate the woman's take on "Defining A Wife" but it became so much more. We are privileged to see the effects and affect on what a good wife does for the heart of her husband and becoming the thermostat in the home as Cheyenne and Shavon Smith share their journey.
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[@theelesliejean]

I’m looking at Laterras getting emotional and I’m praying GOD PLEASE… don’t let him be a second too late or a moment too soon. Send him the desire of his heart to the last detail. God bless you for waiting, Sir. I can imagine how hard it is to watch couples tell their love story and dying to one day share yours. She’s coming sir! You have so many people praying for you. Keep standing keep praying keep preparing. ❤️

[@pksensation]

In agreement

[@thenitty-grittyhosea4875]

My sentiments exactly!

[@jayla8301]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@monicaparis03]

Amen!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@walkingministries5803]

Yes!! I believe she is closer then we think! The lord will most certainly lead him! In Jesus name

[@naomihugh]

This episode was absolutely beautiful. My husband and I watched together. We know Cheyenne and Shavon personally. God has truly mastered their marriage. From the very first time Chey told me his side of their meeting and the very first time I watched Shavon give her testimony, I KNEW God was in control! I will forever cry tears of sorrow and tears of joy when I hear their story. You see, I had to say goodbye to my friend, Ebony, in order to say hello to my new friend, Shavon. I praise God for the example of His grace, love, kindness, and restorative power that works through Pastor Chey and Prophetess Shavon. They are truly His humble servants. We love them dearly and thank God for the vehicle of this podcast to carry their story across the globe! Truly, well done! Kelvin & Naomi Hugh

[@MsLi-ef1xp]

wow! Beautiful comment. I truly believe that even marriage takes a village.

[@flo-dd5sw]

"I love being a wife. I love serving a man." THANK YOU LORD ❣ I truly thought I was the only one who felt this way. 🙌🏾

[@IAmJamieAlexander]

Definitely not the only one. I LOVE to serve and I'm excited about getting to serve my future husband.

[@flo-dd5sw]

@@IAmJamieAlexander yazzz Queen

[@juliarandall869]

Same 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@missqlalah]

The right man Sis. Yes!!

[@nanaosei1555]

@@juliarandall869 This is love!

[@ImTalithaJohnson]

She is anointed and graced for him, that’s why the tattoo wasn’t a big deal 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Joy_LaFaye]

That part!! 💯💪🏾

[@walkingministries5803]

Amen!!!!!

[@ttatum7101]

Amen. We don’t have to understand, God did it, that’s understood!

[@walkingministries5803]

@@ttatum7101 exactly! It wasn’t for everybody to understand and that’s ok ♥️

[@keepthechange1]

@@izealliaeldridge1441 I stand firm with you on this. He may as well continue to wear her ring.

[@kejuanlynette8531]

This episode was almost too much to handle but it’s an incredibly beautiful story 😢 Every episode Laterras. Every episode of DFW is 🙌🏽 This podcast is like a digital hospital. Healing is taking place weekly ❤

[@DearFutureWifey]

Messed me up

[@4LADYSWEET]

Very well said, this show is just good for the soul ❤

[@rrnn6472]

I love that - digital hospital! You need to copy right that!

[@kejuanlynette8531]

@@DearFutureWifey Laterras, may I? You remember in Job (3:25) when what he feared actually happened to him? Don't fear! Perfect love casts out fear. Just say a prayer in faith and don't make an idol of your wife. And maintain the position that even if God allows her to pass, He has the right (think Abraham/Isaac). God allowed an idol I had to be taken, and it was pretty bad. I realized that if it wasn't an idol to me, maybe He wouldn't have allowed it to be taken😒 When I can handle it, I'll get it back. . .don't want that to happen to you or anyone else🙏🏽Sorry for the long post 🤗

[@zanelemsibi8038]

This has been an inspiring episode. Man u got a strong woman there.please pray for me not to miss my partner when God sends me one. I am also a widow & wish to marry again.🙏

[@sandyaramkisson595]

I am so thrilled Whitney’s wig fell off!! (Sorry girl) Cause the blessings I have received since subscribing to this podcast have been beyond belief. Thank you for your service 🙏🏾

[@DearFutureWifey]

Look at God! I love it

[@angelgreen9945]

Yes 🙌🏾

[@romaynejavangwe9073]

Same! That’s how I came across this channel and this channel is EVERYTHING!

[@christinaadams138]

@sandyaramkisson595 that is when I started following too 😂

[@tsanders6021]

A widower of 14 years from Detroit Michigan this story touch my heart. I was looking at this in my meditation space. I smiled, I laughed, I got lost in thought and I cried that lead me start praise God. 💚💚💚

[@ninamarie3836]

Touch my Heart ❤️ Also ❤️❤️

[@lesliekenion7540]

She represents what loving & respectfully honoring your husband looks like 💚

[@8DG8]

🎉🎉lckblljjjbjbcbhcjklbvlbljlbcblvvnkvljkvv .

[@8DG8]

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[@NYCAppl3]

I'm tickled pink just seeing this bold and strong woman soften when she looks at her man and grin from ear to ear when she's talking about him. I just love it!

[@blessbeloved]

This blessed my romantic spirit😁! I am so happy for them. For me, I'm weary and leery of people's prophecies over me. Wish I had a dollar for every, "your husband will be here by _____ time". Someone even told me my husband was a well known gospel singer... deep sigh. I gave my heart to the Lord as a pregnant, single 21 year old in 1988. My "baby" is grown and married... I am still single. I have run the gamut of emotions over the years. I'm approaching 55 in a lil over a month. I am now at the if it happens it'll be a blessing, if it doesn't happen I'm already blessed. I finally have peace about the situation😁.

[@leamberwilliams6983]

Sister, God bless you. When I think of your story, I think of Sarah and Abraham. Sister hold on and trust God.

[@prisca2774]

Continue to put your eyes to Jesus sister! God is faithful and in due time he will fulfill his promises. We sometimes miss the mark because of our disobedience, as you could listen to this testimony…..she didn’t question God! She was obedient to the voice of God and never question despite of the naysayers. The prophecies always comes with conditions that involves walking in faith. Anyways, I know that God haven’t leave you or forsaken you. He is still doing something new in your life today. God bless you woman of God!

[@keepthechange1]

Not everyone is born to be a husband or wife. It also annoys me to hear so many people speaking on your life stating “God told me”. God didn’t tell you a thing about me, He speaks directly to me. As for Laterras, it pains me to witness soooooo many people speaking into his life and over him. This has caused him to recently trust the wrong woman, who broke his heart to shreds. I personally believe she did it purposely. I also believe she is a WITCH! He thought she was his wife because his Pastor friend and wife said they were aligned. All the while, the woman was turning a knife in his heart. Continue to listen to God and be ok with being single. That may be where your peace resides. Be well. 🌺🙏🏽

[@meyokon4101]

@Keep The Change According to other subscribers & comments that I've read, the womans name is Armoni & they have reconnected again. Apparently he is refusing to let her go! But I don't know!

[@nakazybamusiimenta]

This episode gave me goosebumps, I smiled. I laughed. I felt encouraged to wait for God's way. Thank you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@brittiniadams8689]

Nnnn

[@tiahill8120]

I was at the gym and I heard don't deal with no one who will take you away from your relationship with Him (God). I began to praise Him in the gym yet there was no one else there. The I get home and this video shows up and I knew I had to watch this. Thank you Latteras 😊

[@brandi_w]

Whew, as a young widow of 2yrs (15 yrs married), this is soooo DEEP!! God moves DIFFERENT yall. 💕🙏🏽

[@GinaGina1029]

My husband died 6 1/2 months after we married. That was my greatest fear and it happened. I know for a FACT that without God I would have NEVER made it. I am a wife and will be married again someday.

[@therealworldofnanni]

Same here! But with God and prayer one day we will be the proper wives 💕

[@briannaje5419]

I’m so sorry for what you two have had to go through. May God continue give you all strength and continue to cultivate you all as wives for his glory.

[@faith2faithconnections448]

One of the things that strikes me here is the importance of hearing the voice of God and the power of OBEDIENCE! Father loves us soooo much, he will go to any length to come and see about us❤❤❤ God bless you both! Thanks so much for this LIT show 🙌🏽

[@monicasoyombo3360]

I am witnessing this in real time GOD SPEAKS and his voice is clear for those who are STILL enough to listen. 🙌🏾

[@timbawangu3038]

I rolled my eyes, my mouth opened in awe, I cried, I laughed and I praised God for just being who He is in His people's lives. What a testimony 🙏 Thank you once again DFW, I have never had so many favorites on one show😊

[@QueenNeLee]

I don’t like the whole tattoo part because I believe that he could have still honored his deceased wife in a different way 😩😩😩 BUT I do believe that this is a God ordained marriage & their story is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! I also agree with what she said single women should be doing as far as traveling, starting a business, etc. God bless you both ❤

[@thessysasa]

Agreed

[@angelagibb642]

Yeah cause I’m not looking at that.

[@denisebigsbee5488]

Agreed! Was looking for this perspective.

[@HEReIAM829]

I was looking for this comment toocuz I'm like getting a tattoo of ur widow now ur remarried is disrespectful to ur current as well as still living in the past. If he already had it before they met, is another story. As long as he's healed

[@LadyV7]

Exactly. This is like idolism to me. Dead wife, child, whoever. I don't believe we should be permanently inking an ode to ANYBODY on our body. Period.

[@crystaledwards7146]

“This is Restoration Season” this episode had me smiling at what God can do and crying at the same time due to what he/they went through. They gave so many good nuggets and at this point I am standing on the words that was spoken “THIS IS RESTORATION SEASON” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@tylynn256]

Your comment is confirmation to ME! I'm so thankful for seeing it. Amen! #restorationseason

[@teachandinspire437]

Amen!!🙌🏾🙏🏽

[@keepthechange1]

Amen indeed! This is Revelation and Restoration Season. BUT GOD! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@ralphaneelove7679]

Facts! Literally now living through the trauma of losing my husband. Widow at 37. Talk about trauma staying up all night until the sun comes up to thank God for seeing another day. Standing in fear for the other shoe to drop. Horrible place to live in. Chest pain, heart pain, etc. lord heal us all!

[@tashatasha7988]

My husband died 3 years and 2 months ago. I can understand and relate about the chest pain. For 24 years My husband took the responsibility seriously of caring for my heart, mind, and spirit. He was truly a man of God. We poured into each other. My relationship with him NEVER felt like work but it indeed felt like a fairytale that I experienced each day. He was proof that I God was looking after my heart. For 24 years, I was happy. The only time that I was sad was when I watched him die right in front of me. When he died, I went immediately to my body experiencing a nervous breakdown. I was actually hospitalized because the doctor told me that I could possibly have a heart attack. My husband died the day before Valentine's Day. It was the very first time that I didn't have his physical presence but I had the memories of his heart. Each day I would ask God to just give me strength for the day.. To hold me and guide my feet adjusting to a new norm. I miss my husband in every part of life because we shared life with each other. In life we never know when it's going to be our last day with our husbands or loved ones. I am thankful to have experienced such great love. I smile because I love him and cry because I miss him. This particular story lets me know that I can be blessed with someone that will understand that I will always honor my husband's legacy while honoring the gift of loving the new person that God sends. Because truly I couldn't be who I am without all that my husband poured into me. So my future is still being blessed by him. My sincerest condolences and prayers are with you. I am living witness that God will give you everything that you need on this journey. He keeps the promise of comforting us as we mourn. This episode helped me realize that all the love that I inside of can still be poured into giving whomever God sends all they need. My deceased husband always told me that my love was the connection to his strength and I know that I still have that love within me. Even in our grief God will never forsake us. He is always a present help. Grief counseling is a blessing because it gives us healthy tools to navigate the journey.

[@jakimathews4115]

What a fabulous story. How respectful, loving, and understanding can two people be. This is the MOST incredible story I've ever heard.

[@hopemcintosh6998]

He's still in mourning. A 20yr marriage that ends abruptly in death does not just leave your heart in 2yrs. I'm not saying that this marriage is not ordained. I can't make that call. This may have needed more nurturing and time though. Memorializing his former wife in this way AFTER remarrying is definitely something that needs some attention. His grief has not truly settled in yet and once it does, she is going to have to be ready to do some serious ministering to her husband because it could make or break the marriage. His pain is deep and so is his love in reference to his former wife. This man was and is still very much in love with his former wife. My prayers are FOR them. I just hope that when they have to sit in the reality, which will happen at some point, that they'll remember the vows.❤️❤️❤️

[@shanettaforbes1788]

With all due respect we need to get to a point where we just got to understand that we do not understand the working of God. God's ways are higher than ours. Whatever god's will let it be done. It's all on him n them n their process.

[@rrnn6472]

Interesting take on this. I just heard from someone whose sister died 2 years ago, that her brother-in-law is engaged. I understand that he (and a preteen daughter) had counseling, as the wife's death was sudden. Still, everyone heals differently. I'm wondering if it's a case of men not wanting to be lonely?

[@clareathawilliams1819]

It was a True BLESSING

[@nomvulankoro2109]

I wonder what you would have said to God directly(if afforded a chance) when he asked a prophet to go after a prostitute and love her. God is just too big to can figure out. You dont have the slightest idea of what he is cooking, you are out here taking orders 🤔🤔

[@hopemcintosh6998]

@@shanettaforbes1788 I understand. I just think that too many times we fall in love with the idea of love or the euphoria of God's great miracle in bringing the pieces together. And we SHOULD celebrate that. This story was amazing to me. On the other hand, we are not honest about what it looks like when you settle into it. I knew my comment wasn't going to be popular with many (lol) but I have lived through this and I know what it can look like after you settle into the work associated in love. I don't think she isn't his wife, I just believe that God can show you and tell you but still not be prompting you to jump in. Their situation may end up totally different. I'm not against that. I wish them all the best. ❤️

[@sandrablake3679]

This blessed me so much . The husband gave me hope that there are men out there that are willing to love and cherish his wife.

[@deeb8060]

One story came to me, Ruth and Boaz. It's like the story is just being relived. May the Lord continue to bless this couple.

[@hbracero14]

God is faithful!!!❤️ This story is almost like the story of my husbae and i!!! I have goose pimples!!! My husbae also lost his wife of almost 25yrs ( has 2 sons) and i am divorced ( a son and two daughters). We started talking 3/6/2020, he proposed 6/21/2020, and got married 8/8/2020! God brought us together because we all needed each other. Thank you for showcasing this beautiful couple and their story!🙏🏽❤️

[@valoriechesney1787]

I am watching your story today 5/22/2023. My husband died 26 years after we were married. Cheyenne, I felt your pain. I was for a moment so angry at God when my husband died. I had to work through that, it was so hard. But today, God is so amazing and I am truly blessed. I had to ask God to forgive me for the anger and I'm glad He did. I am in the ministry and I won't sacrifice it for relationship! You two really blessed me! Thank you!

[@joywbrown25]

Her smiles are so authentic and the way he looks at her!!!! I can't wait for my season of restoration!!!!

[@wmenofdestiny]

This woman of God right here, Shavon Smith. The maturity and faith she had in Christ to walk with him through his season of morning is something absolutely spectacular!

[@nikcam76cn]

OMG! My girlfriend sent me this video around 5 in the morning. I was hesitant at first but I started to watch and couldn't stop watching. I never knew that God could show up like this and now I really just want to trust God and not compromise what he has in-store for me regarding a husband. I didn't even know about the Proverbs 31 women. This was such a blessing for me this morning. I cried, smiled, laugh and was just in awe of how God brought these two individuals together so perfectly.... ......but God. Thank you💓🔥

[@sscott504]

I will listen shortly but judging by the title alone the answer is no...if it isn't there already, he'd have to memorialize her some other way...just my opinion

[@TashaMBell]

I agree

[@QueenSugar72]

Same

[@commonsenseprevails1433]

👍🏽

[@susandodson1234]

Agree 👍🏽

[@quanlynn6128]

Sis strong bc everyone not built like that. I can help you grieve but we can only be friends until you have healed completely from your ex wife. God bless their marriage!

[@cleopatraingram2901]

This was by far one of the best episodes I’ve watched thus Far! Their story was amazing!!! The message within the Testimony was powerful!!❤❤❤ Thank You All!!

[@20LOL14]

LAWD!! I should NOT have watched this while at work lol I've been crying AND laughing out loud 😭 🤣 I'm soo proud of Shavon!!! I'm one of her faithful weekly Cyber Church viewers. I know this episode is going to bless sssooo many!! 🤗❤️🔥💃

[@DearFutureWifey]

It was so powerful! Thank you for watching

[@deejames7031]

Listennnn....I am at work and I had to leave and come in the restroom to get myself together. My God my God my God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️

[@mindiachieng8033]

The way Shavon looks at her husband with so much love and grace 😍😍 I stan!!!!

[@marieturner4709]

❤ Powerful and Encouraging!!! Continue to be his vessels of honor!!! He’s still working miracles ❤

[@aliahstinnett]

I love their union. Shavon is such an amazing woman. But this story is absolutely wonderful, so many emotions.

[@AlisonSpringer]

No good thing will I withhold for those who walk upright. I receive that. This episode was so inspiring. Thank you.

[@drleciaS]

I started following Shavon immediately before this relationship started and it was like SUDDENLY! The jewel of the conversation was when she said he had a vision large enough to encompass the plans God has for her ministry. Whoa! I needed that reminder. Many of us can't connect with any man or partner. They must have the capacity to steward the powerful ministries many of us have.

[@shericashanklin98]

This episode truly blessed me. I’m engaged to be married next month and I know God sent my fiancé to me. I thank God for him daily even when he gets on my nerves. Bless you and thank you for sharing your story with the world.

[@iniobongekereke4647]

Mr. Laterras, I see "Dear Future Wifey" podcast go beyond half a million subscribers before end of 2022. This ministry will grow bigger than what you thought or imagined. God bless you!

[@annettep30]

I totally agree with you!

[@sylviawinfrey4218]

Woman of God, I believe that it was no coincidence that I watched this episode. I hadn’t watched DFW in a while. When you spoke of ‘pastoring a church’ with your new husband, in a new city, my heart leaped. Thank you both for sharing & in the mean time, I don’t mind waiting. My prayer is for women to remain healthy & whole as the First Lady until God is ready to reveal our next season of love.

[@la-nekabrown6825]

I’m from Portsmouth and even watched your wedding online but I did not know this part of your testimony. The impact of anxiety and stress on your physically body… I just left the doctor and had a similar conversation. It was definitely was a confirmation about how I’m living my life. I’m still processing it all. Thank you for sharing.

[@blountsuzette31sb]

This episode was for me. I just recently started following Shavon on Facebook and saw this on KZbin. I was also married at 21 and the Lord released me from a very chaotic marriage after 19 years. When He released me he also showed me my husband. I'm in this in between stage where I am just preparing myself for the time when we come together. God is bringing His people in alignment!! It's amazing!!! God keeps bringing me confirmation and affirming me. I thank the Lord for those who are sharing their testimony.

[@monaedawson4523]

On my 4th go round watching this blessed couple. There were so many highlights to live by as a woman called to be a wife. Thank you Laterras for your platform 👑 Hallelujah...your guests have changed my life🙌🏾. Definitely sharing this blessing. God bless you Mr. and Mrs. Smith 🤗🙏🏾

[@shellasaintcyr7570]

It has been an extremely hopeless season. This right here flipped opened the lid to so much sunshine! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

[@ttatum7101]

This is my 5th or 6th time watching this episode. It literally speaks to my soul for so many different reasons. I have to tap into every word. It’s healing certain parts of me, and it is helping me so much. Thank you Laterras❤ I come back to this episode to watch it, just because I feel a sense of peace that I need right here on this episode. I wish them all that God has to offer, God bless those babies! My heart went out to his late wife as well, that last tear, it got me. She didn’t want to go nowhere, she had a husband and young children who needed her, but God had different plans. We all have to remember, we can pray the gates off of Heaven doors for a miracle, but Gods WILL will ALWAYS be done. God bless you all❤

[@racyahnadab5589]

You guys made me cry so yard, I had to share this podcast with my husband.

[@lynettesatterwhite1433]

Such a beautiful God-fearing couple. I thank God for putting the both of you together. This is the most powerful testimony I have ever heard. I think this should be in a book. God Bless!!! Hallelujah!!!

[@Sandra-ly1ss]

Laterrias, we need an 100K update on Pastors, Cheyenne and Shavon Smith! This was so good.❤

[@melaningoddessevolution4167]

Although I wouldn't want my husband to do what this man did, I must agree that God put these two people together. They're in complete unison with one another and have such a strong love that it just fits. This shows just how God works in mysterious ways and how He knows to send just the right person. Love on ❤

[@sandrabarrett7837]

No tattoo of dead wife. If he didn't get it while she was alive you don't need to now!!!

[@queenajahirving5880]

Hello, I just recently discovered this podcast and this episode was right on time for me. I am a widow, and honestly have not always handled my journey as most thought I should. I was married for only 8 months, 11 days. My husband and I were one so when he passed away I honestly had to learn how to breathe again. It has been a journey in 2 months it will be 5 years. I have not given up on love because I know that God called me to be a wife. Blessings everyone and May God bless

[@ninaoffthegrid]

Any time Laterras says “I’m trying not to get emotional” or he gets emotional you know it’s about to be a bomb episode🥰💕

[@nonikaallen2030]

This testimony was truly extraordinary and awesome. Thank you Laterras. I continue to grow as you continue to walk into your purpose.🙌🏽❤🙌🏽

[@katrinafletcher4965]

This was so impactful. Thank you to the Smiths. A timely reminder that waiting is not being stationary but it’s actively waiting. Just had a conversation with a dear friend that as we wait we are going to live; we are going to travel and develop ourselves in every area of our lives. It was so good to hear these same things expressed on the podcast. I pray God continues to lead you Laterras. You are doing a great job.

[@sfreeman417]

Such a beautiful love story! I was in tears, my heart ached but felt the blessing and message in their story. Message I received: Be able to hear the voice of God, and have faith in his instruction regardless if it doesn't make sense and take action. I was so inspired by this couple's story. God loves us so much and knows exactly what we need! You did it again Laterras..another amazing and blessed episode!

[@jadat4944]

OMG Laterras, how can each episode keep getting better and better. This was so encouraging!! Continue your obedience to our Heavenly Father! You are helping so many of us.

[@msreeree65]

I love how they look at each other with such genuine love and passion 💗

[@michelledunican5238]

This episode is encouraging me so much, God is telling me to relax because He got me and He has my ordained husband for me! Thank y’all for your transparency! 🙏🏾💗

[@tashaclark1194]

Life changing! My takeaway was when Shavon said I would not compromise my calling/ purpose for companionship.

[@lifecoachmsstarr]

This episode was so great. I could have definitely watched for another hour. The way the Smiths look at each other and are so in tune with one another is absolutely beautiful. To answer the question I absolutely would allow my future spouse to get a tattoo of their deceased spouse Absolutely God bless everyone!

[@alyana6885]

I can relate to the trauma. 😔 I was 26 and pregnant with my first child when my mother passed away talk about devastating. She passed of a heart attack, and a month after her passing I start to experience exactly what this gentleman experienced. It took me three years to fully overcome the anxiety and panic I experienced. That is when I turned my life over to Christ and allow him to guide my footsteps. I still trying to process this episode, I'm in tears with how GOD works. You are amazing Jesus 🙏🏽

[@sharbur5906]

Will watch later. Judging by the title...absolutely not. If you need to do all that then you don't need to be married. It would be different if he already had the tattoo once I met him but to get one after we are married, nope. He should have completely healed before he got married and potentially using someone else to fill emotional voids.

[@shantelwilliams2991]

To each it's own. Your opinion is very valid and I am sure many feel the same way. But see what she is ok with, others may not be ok with. Just like some things that are considered red flags to us may not be considered red flags to others. People have their own things they are ok with. If it works for them and they have an understanding then may God continue to keep a hedge over their marriage.

[@commonsenseprevails1433]

Exactly 💯

[@michiek8569]

@@commonsenseprevails1433 Very true. That period of time has ended. There needs to be a letting go and moving on. There's no need to have a third person, other than God, in a marriage. That represents to me that the husband has not truly moved on.

[@daughterofzion2146]

I agree and while I completely believe in the most high and his abilities, the story is rather interesting. Particularly the financial aspect he said was fulfilled for him. Abba brings us way more than the tangible.

[@carolynmurray6099]

You that woman some women are threatened by another. He loved his wife dearly you have to be secure that everybody's life much peace to you my sister

[@nakenyiasheree]

This message gave me chills . Tears flowed & all I could hear was the spirit of God saying “ I will not leave you uncovered 😭😭🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️ thank you both for your pour

[@takialawson705]

Back watching this again… All I can say, is this interview really is blessing me… As a single Christian woman this interview really challenged some of my perspectives about dating/ courting; even marriage perspectives. Overall, this interview is really really really good. It did something to me… I can’t explain. I thank God for my friend sending it to me.

[@titioyenusi5668]

The Azusa Street Revival was a historic series of revival meetings that took place in Los Angeles, California.[1] It was led by William J. Seymour, an African-American preacher.

[@rrnn6472]

Yes - I think it was the birth place of the Pentecostal movement.

[@tarshacrawley8649]

Correct, their was a Azusa conference given every year in late 90s in Tulsa at that time Pastor Carlton Pearson

[@idellabrown4565]

When she said Oklahoma, I was like no it was California. I use to belong to a church named New Azusa.

[@lyndashannon6662]

This was a great testimony for them. Like someone said this worked for them, doesn't mean it's for everyone else.

[@laurawallace9940]

I'm going to Dallas to visit their ministry...this is so inspiring...so many women need to see and be ministered to by women who love being a wife... a beautiful love story. #PDA ...when you are purposed for a man...those things that come with him...children, a tattoo of a deceased wife, whatever....it doesn't matter...you are called to him...so you think different...you move different...like "his" wife...I love it!!!!

[@stephaniemorriar7578]

I can't tell you how many times I've listened to this particular episode. In several months I'll be 60 yrs old. I've been divorced since I was 24yrs old. Dated and come close to marriage. In the last few yrs two of these gentlemen passed away and my heart was broken beyond words ( some days are still very difficult). Your podcast has been my saving grace since April of 2020. I've watched you grow and this has given me hope. Thank you for being transparent and allowing God to show us your growth under a microscope. Keep following the direction of the Lord. The future Mrs. Whitfield will be and is a blessed woman. GOD BLESS

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you for joining me on this journey. So sorry about your loss

[@Havilah86]

Another anointed episode! 🙌🏽 I wish we could have heard more about Shavon’s “journey of transition”. How she managed holding that information of her future husband until she actually met Cheyenne and what her spiritual preparation looked like. 🌸

[@keepthechange1]

I said the same. There is so much missing. It all sounds wonderful, but where is the rest? Is she saving it for a book? I have so many questions.

[@yolandalcheek462]

I wanted to know the same thing...ending a 17 year marriage had to be traumatic

[@mitchella5954]

This episode wrecked me and put me back together at the same time. This is truly and example of God Ordained! They way they listen to God is something to strive for!

[@kimredmond4695]

I am in Va and visited her church she had in Portsmouth. This is such a blessing to see her journey. In 😢.

[@NadiaCa3rine]

I used to judge people who don't desire or want marriage, but after this I think I understand very well and I will learn to be more understanding. And it's true that watching this video wasn't a coincidence. God bless y'll

[@racyahnadab5589]

I have been shacking up for the past 2 years and this episode makes me subscribe. So touching. Wife you remind me so much of myself. To death do you guys part🙏

[@nadinerobinson5278]

I am going through my 2nd Divorce and l do have the desires of my heart to share life with the man God has for me to serve 🙏🏼 All I need to do is to have my eye & ear gates open & be obedient to HIS directions 🙏🏼

[@jamelewalden7254]

This was AMAZING! Praying God send me a story as beautiful as this.

[@zakila2cute]

I watched this episode because of the recent episode that was posted with Megan Ashley where you touched on the misconception of men being emotional. Laterres, you listen King, keep being obedient and don’t compromise when it comes to finding a wife. God will send you the queen that He has for you whom will fit you like a glove..

[@williemaeward1564]

This episode spoke directly to me. You all confirmed a lot of things God spoke to me and what I prayed about and praying. This was so mind blowing and such and eye opener. Thank you so much for this.🙏🏾❤

[@lynettesatterwhite1433]

This is the best Wifey episode ever!!! Guess what? I watch those episodes every day after work. Thank you for obeying God & stepping out on faith. Praise God!!!

[@msandream]

This is such a POWERFUL episode. Not only did I learn more about my service, but about how I should be served. May God continue to bless this couple.

[@annmartin653]

There was a reason I came across this specific episode, a year later. Thank you for this encouraging and rearranging episode. 🙏🏾

[@herfamiller139]

This episode is on a DIFFERENT LEVEL!!! Just look at God...IS THERE ANYTHING TOO HARD FOR GOD TO DO?? My take away from this one is trust the process. God bless you bro L cant wait to see what God have got in store for you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@grayspace5638]

When she talked about jumping on him and kissing him the first time lol, so sweet! I love them both, such a genuine and purposeful marriage!

[@mercyedith1383]

This spoke to my heart so deep,don't compromise ministry for companionship. Pray and continue doing what you are called to do as you wait.

[@josetteesau]

Wow! This popped up on my TV last night when I was working out. I thought this was a new episode... I just wanted to say how much I needed this. Lately, I've been approached by men who were providers in their previous marriages, but now want a 50/50 marriage. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me, but everything I have I got on my own. It's been a complete turn-off and red flag hearing men talk about what they had or did in a previous relationship but now expecting to be the head/leader and provide less than 100%. I'm going to pray God gives me more grace and discernment moving forward. Great interview!💖

[@sylviafleming2842]

"MARRIAGE IS CUSTOM MADE"🎯💯

[@brittanymaria3708]

God is doing something monumental through your platform. I pray more young women watch these last several shows and truly listen intentionally… To hear all of these strong powerful women who can still be feminine and submissive to their husbands and don’t have to choose…that’s big. The enemy is attacking these young women into thinking they need to be strong & don’t need a man or husband. Some may be called to be single, but I pray they find the message. As always, their story is beautiful. That’s such a special woman. ❤

[@kgclark34]

I’m new to this podcast and this episode really gave me encouragement. I suddenly suffered the death of my partner and father of my son two years ago. God has truly restored my heart and I’m prayerful that He will send me my husband.

[@elliotsmith9014]

I remember you sharing this testimony Pastor Shavon you guys weren’t even married yet. I was at the services in Michigan when you preached and I too was in a season of transition. Meeting you changed my life and I’ve been following your ministry ever since.

[@denielladickenson1276]

This is another EVERYTHING episode! I am so grateful that I listened to this because I was almost feeling "abnormal" when I wasn't interested in dating. I just couldn't do it no matter how much I told myself "to go with the flow". It's official, I believe that I'm called to be a wife. In Jesus name. Amen.

[@msreeree65]

OMG Laterras this was another powerful episode. Such a BEAUTIFUL love story!😍 I know I'm a wife too....I just said I Do to the wrong man. Having the divorce paperwork prepared now....anticipating the true/real husband God has for me. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@DeidraAnn]

Me too sis...God has our Godly husband waiting for us in due time. This was truly an amazing episode.

[@walkingministries5803]

I love the way she smiles at him! This is absolutely beautiful

[@johnathanneal6146]

the way she looked at him shows real love

[@yoman53]

I want to be married; but I'm not sure if I'm "called" to be married. I've been praying a long time for companionship turn marriage and nothing for over 20 years. Maybe I need to change my prayers to finding what I'm called to. This episode really has me thinking...Is marriage for me?

[@ramonaharris8332]

I feel you on that. I’m 56, never married, no children. I never had a burning desire to marry. I wanted to grow up, get an education & get my own place. I was never passionate about being a mother, although I love kids. I just thought everybody gets married & has children. Never happened & I’m ok. Never imagined being single at this age. It’s interesting. I guess it’s time to ask God to show me my purpose.

[@tinafrazier8386]

I’ve cried and laughed. I didn’t want it to end just beautiful .

[@msbosslady1029]

This episode truly spoke to my heart as a single woman. I thank God for the Smiths and for their story. Thank you for being obedient and transparent. Also thank you for bringing couples to the forefront who love God and who are called and are living according to his purpose.

[@Jesusreignslovesandlives4eva]

This is probably one of the best interviews ever

[@januarywalton7376]

This was so good! I love her spirit. This relationship is surely God's work ❤

[@susandodson1234]

I understand you had a life before me, but to allow him to get a tattoo once we are married is a very unhealthy attachment to the past. Just my 2 cents. What would be the point? Your memories are not enough? There is support but at what point does the healing come?

[@keejackson2121]

This is by far one of my favorite Dear Future Wifey episodes. POWERFUL in too many ways. Thank you for this episode ❤️

[@sharonjames5625]

Cheyenne and Shavonne, thank you all for sharing your testimony. I've been soooo blessed, by you sharing. I've cried and I've laughed, rejoiced for this union. God's continued blessings upon you and your family! Thank you!!💜🙏🏾😀👏🏽

[@mariasolomon419]

I will not compromise my calling for a companionship. Glooorrrrrryyyyyy hallelujah 🙌🏽