Would You Tell Your Friend If You Found Out They Were Being Cheated On?

[@yonnithebeauty8022]

Of course because i would want someone to tell me. If its a real friend

[@Bella-qd6bq]

Exactly

[@rybaxter5424]

Agreed! UNLESS it’s a recurring situation… I may say something the first and second time but if they keep going back, why even do that to yourself?

[@davorianware1382]

Lots of bad friends out there. If you can't tell them the truth about everything they're not your friend

[@specialk4049]

For real!!! I don't care if you're a friend of a friend --- I want to know AND I will protect your identity. The problem is that too many people want to laugh behind your back or have something to gossip about. Sad 😔

[@michaeldunson2531]

What if you are friend with both of them? That happen to me but they both was cheating so I stayed out of it, they have been married for over 40 years now! If you are only friend with one of them then yes tell them! That also happen to me! My high school sweetheart got pregnant in the 12 grade and I though I was the father but one of my high school friend told me that his uncle was the father so I confronted her and she admitted it! So by him being a real friend he saved me from a life time of taking care of another man child!

[@Bella-qd6bq]

FACTS !!!!!!!!!

[@MsANAIT]

We can tell. But can they receive is the question. I lost a 10 year friendship. I saw him , snapped a pic, and confronted him. Even gave him the opportunity to talk to my friend first. He didn’t, so I did. She cried, I offered her kind words and support either way. A few days later I haven’t heard from her so I send a text, no response. Called her , no response. A week goes by I pull up. She was very stand off-ish. But I chopped it up to the situation. Over the next few months she fell back. Because I know she’s still with him, so why are you being weird to me and I didn’t do sh!t. So I texted her my concerns. She wanted to work on her situation with him alone…. Ok…. I gave her space. Then she hit me with this n!gga thought I was getting in her head. 😂😂😂😂bye ma’am . I admit I was hurt. But I decided never again. Just looking at our friendship, she doesn’t like confrontation, so I don’t know why I was shocked. So for me it’s case by case.

[@creepinoutdaziploc3115]

Its 2024 you can just send a picture. Aint got to tell them nothing

[@SuperMurray2009]

😂😂😂.

[@doctordl7757]

Facts no need to be troubled with the burden of proof, a pic says it all

[@yungnflashytv]

It was AI

[@gl3936]

@@yungnflashytvyou can send a video too. Not many people even know how to use AI

[@yungnflashytv]

@gl3936 shhhhh that was AI too if it was me lmao

[@EllyzGoodwill]

It’s common for relationships to hit rough patches, yet there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage faced serious obstacles, but with the right support, my wife and I overcame them and grew closer. With effort and teamwork, solutions are possible. Don’t give up-answers are attainable

[@SERIKAmrabat]

My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

[@EllyzGoodwill]

Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@SERIKAmrabat]

Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.

[@EllyzGoodwill]

I promise you will not regret it.

[@mpho87]

You not a real friend if you do not tell.

[@Moneystayswithme]

Until that man's fist land in your face or you're jumping a fence to get away from your friend's man after she tells him.

[@michaeldunson2531]

What if you are friend with both of them?

[@mpho87]

@@michaeldunson2531 why would I be friends with my boys girl? Does not make sense

[@TriggaTreDay]

If you have told them 10 times before, at some point it pointless.

[@mpho87]

@@TriggaTreDay True, I am not warning him more than once.

[@ToriChanel]

I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut, people will hate you because of truth.

[@doctordl7757]

Remember silence 🤫 makes you an accomplice!

[@anthonygreene297]

I’m minding my business, they’ll stay together and ice you out

[@roseblack6057]

This!

[@shestayready]

If that's my friend I'm telling. If he/she mad because I speak the truth, then that's a "you" problem

[@MikeThaPhilosopher]

I would absolutely want my friend to tell me if they caught my partner cheating .

[@PHlophe]

no friend , mind yo business because you don't know what kind of arrangements they could be having bts that you needn't even be privy to.

[@MikeThaPhilosopher]

@ i said for myself…. Can you read?

[@ayeciahuie414]

Just take a photo of him in action and send it. Let him explain to her what is going on.

[@TheRealCueenFoodie]

Literally what I do! 😂❤❤ the realest

[@kroxx2]

Catch me in the bed doing it.. it wasn't me.. ITS THE DEMON IN ME.. HOW CAN I DO THAT

[@newdestiny3371]

Right let them explain

[@raymondben36466]

Exactly what I said. I sent the picture(s), ask your wife.

[@AmiriHipHop]

If you have concrete proof, then 100% Yes. Any person that has proof that your partner is cheating and STILL wouldn't tell you is not truly your friend. There is no Ifs, Ands or Buts about it.

[@ssbell2011jcsu]

Unless you've told that friend before and they keep deciding to look the other way or make excuses, etc.

[@AmiriHipHop]

@@ssbell2011jcsu In that case, I wouldn't even be friends with that person to tell them the 2nd time. If I show my homie concrete proof of his girl messing around with someone else and he says anything in the realm of: "Bro that picture/video fake af. You probably made that yourself. You just want us to break up so that YOU can have her". That will be the day me and him stop being friends. I'm not being cool with no mf that reacts like that when the proof is in your face.

[@mp4455]

💯

[@ssbell2011jcsu]

@@AmiriHipHop makes sense.

[@Charlise.Evelyn]

i understand minding your business….but it’s your friend! If my friend’s man is outside with someone else, why wouldn’t I mention it? I’m not a friend if I don’t.

[@Lkmsundastood]

I still would tell her, but if we’re very close. Cause if we’re not she’ll either cut you off or won’t believe you anyway cause they think you’re being jealous of what they have.

[@Charlise.Evelyn]

@@Lkmsundastood i see what you’re saying. but my FRIEND would never think that lol now if they were asking if I saw an associate or co workers man outside cheating then i’m definitely minding my business…but a FRIEND? I’m definitely telling.

[@daweeza42]

Exactly!

[@princessbc9791]

Agreed, I’ve always told and no one has ever gotten mad at me. That be extremely weak women doing that ish!

[@bororobo3805]

Your friend will think you wants to snatch him 😂 Y'all women do that sometimes

[@DaniTheAlchemist33]

Unless you have hardcore proof, mind your business

[@InfernoHeadtv]

You definitely been cheated on

[@ShervierJ]

I’m still minding my business

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

That’s some sad stuff

[@pakananani6397]

Teaching my daughter to stay away from women like you

[@balorklub]

​@@InfernoHeadtvoh cheating herself 😂

[@Blk.Philip]

I have a rule I’ll tell you one time and you can do with that info what you will but everyone deserves at least one heads up

[@Bella-qd6bq]

Facts

[@bigboi_88]

Lauren is such a breath of fresh air ......

[@giffondhall9214]

No

[@TheMrMasterChief12]

I don't understand this? Why would you NOT tell your FRIEND?! We're not talking about a distant cousin, coworker, or friend of a friend, we're talking about YOUR FRIEND! Typa friends are y'all?!😂 It's no way you can call someone your friend and you would have them out here looking goofy like that

[@TeawthT]

Right

[@0neMoment]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@cidneymc]

You can’t be my friend if you think I should not tell you about your man cheating. That makes me think you would hide that true from me if it was in your position.

[@1320771]

Mind your business because 9 out of 10 they’re going to be right back together. They also end up taking his or her side, now they mad at you!!! I’ve seen this so many times.

[@cget]

Who cares if they get back together? Whoever is being cheated on deserves to know regardless

[@curryshotyou1538]

No but be prepared to lose a friend if you do tell them

[@beth-h1z]

Yup I will never again tell.

[@kittykatcongregation]

Yeah but why is this normal?

[@creepinoutdaziploc3115]

Not in these days and times unless a mf just ignorant

[@Myshelleallen]

💯

[@devin3955]

Tbh if that’s what ends the friendship were we ever really friends?

[@gummybear9797]

That lady in Ghana is trying to give wisdom, hope everyone was listening! Have a productive week yall!❤

[@Prismatic9008]

I would tell. I wouldn't want that being kept from me. I would say be prepared for pushback or even having to end the friendship. It happened to me after I told a friend that I saw her boyfriend in plain sight cheating. The friendship ended, and she eventually broke up with him because she was able to see it for herself that he was cheating.

[@Oso_99]

I don’t care about anyone’s feelings, if someone you know is being unfaithful to you I’m letting you know the moment I find out, it’s a lose lose so you may as well go out with a bang 💯

[@McHotti]

This happened before my homegirl man was cheating. We told her & when she talked to him, he flipped it on her & said we’re just jealous, she needs to watch us blah blah blah. The friendship was never the same after that & we seen him cheating. I vow to myself to not tell her or anyone anything from that point on & if I lose the friendship because of that then it must not have been a friendship for me no one has to tell me if someone’s cheating on me what happens in the dark will come in the light!

[@filmadcamp1512]

Women love to claim that these men are swinging or misleading them when in reality they just wanna be ignorant so they can say they have a man.

[@rosetopaz]

Should have asked CTG and Envy, would you want your friend to tell your spouse you’re cheating 👀

[@positive___soul]

Depends on the extent of our friendship. Some people don’t want to believe you because they don’t want to lose their relationship and be quick to end the friendship over their relationship.

[@lcoleman6046]

Also, some people get offended when you talk about their spouse, so there's a no-win situation.

[@brandypeay5350]

Depends on the friend. At one point in my life I would, but now I use decernment☺️I’m not getting involved in nobodies situationship and then the tables are turned on me, I’m now the enemy and he/she are still with their partner❤🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kelsblair5963]

Yall weird im telling my friend. If they don’t listen or come at me sideways then GOOD RIDDANCE! Same applies for if my friend was the one cheating I would tell the about themselves for doing that person dirty. Yall not real friends. You be honest with the person with PROOF. All that mind my business stuff is irrelevant once you send proof

[@maryfields877]

If it was my BFF, she telling the truth. I'm rockin with her; these men are something else.

[@jnjozma2012]

Nope. I don’t care how much proof I have. I helped a friend catch her husband cheat once (at her request) but when they decided to work things out, he told her that she couldn’t be friends with me anymore because I “was in their business.” She didn’t speak to me for almost two years. I will never do that again. I don’t care what I know or see.

[@sharonquinn5193]

Yes, I would because I would want someone to tell me if my man was cheating.

[@mrlondon1278]

I would and if our friendship ends it shows that it wasn’t that strong anyway. I wouldn’t if my friends partner is a serial cheater and they know.

[@teanns.7819]

💯

[@ButtahBeauty]

Calling women whores on radio for cheating as if all the men on this show haven’t cheated is ridiculous

[@patricialilly6782]

Okkk both of those men have cheated on there wives

[@Ememewhrgrvr]

If you listen closely you can hear their noses grow while they talk 🤥 😂

[@kendracosey]

Something similar happened to me. My really good friend (female) was cheating on her husband with my best friend (male). I told her how I felt about it and recommended that she stopped. But they did what grown people do and continued the affair. Her husband found out and I got blamed anyway. Luckily, she was woman enough to admit to her husband that I had nothing to do with it and that I even tried to get her to stop. He later apologized to me, and they divorced. This is the short version. All of the extras that happened in between is literally a movie. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@XShadowWolf1926]

Charlamagne was on one and I'm here for it 😂

[@TheRealCueenFoodie]

I’m Charlemagne !!! I’m too old for games 1:25 😂😂

[@latricemorris977]

Ok lol 😂😂😂

[@SakinahPalmer]

Same 😂😂😂

[@shestayready]

Now ask CTG if it's his guy friend that's cheating, would he tell his wife?

[@jeremiahking7816]

I was with Charlemagne all the way up until he said he was a messenger of God😂😂😂

[@theqs7289]

No question I am telling and I am about to be loud AF about it to, right there at the crime scene lol 😂

[@mshill2406]

That part 👍🏿

[@zjfamusbeatz]

Loren is the most educated n this show, give her the job 😂😂😂

[@JEGlobalConcepts]

Now that CTG and envy got caught they turn informants

[@1234pixy1]

The right answer is... if he's been doing it and she knows... keep your mouth SHUT.

[@mybookoflife748]

If I see the signs, my friend does too. They are just choosing to ignore them

[@LiveCuts]

9:40 GHANA 🇬🇭 All day every day. Peace and pan africanism my people

[@ntwadumela1777]

🙏

[@dwaynejordan6750]

There's a Thin Line between Love and Hate, so Act accordingly.

[@ADopeGoddess]

“Black women don’t cheat either, We just order the groceries and help our cousins!” TELL EM QUEEN👏🏾😭🤭

[@CynnamonBrown770]

It depends on the friend. 😂

[@ginabrown1686]

I believe in staying out of married folks business a boyfriend or girlfriend is different

[@mynameiszu]

« black men dont cheat » ???? What did I just hear?? 😂 Come on Charla. 😂 It literally hurts to hear that, don’t joke like that. Better try and keep all them y’all responsible. (And YES - i would ABSOLUTELY tell my friend if i saw their partner cheating. Only fake friends shallow weak ass people wouldn’t.)

[@caligirl10]

Yes I have told someone about their man cheating and it didn’t go well but I will still do it again. I have never understood women getting mad at the friend for telling them. Also, if you’re my friend you better tell me!! Don’t have me out here looking stupid. My cousin, sister, and one of my friends didn’t tell me what was going on until after I found out on my own. They didn’t want to get involved or risk me being mad at them. I’m not like these other women… telling me doesn’t piss me off but not telling me does!

[@guyedmondson-hm5nx]

Yall love yall friends that much idc we grown he or she know what there doing😂💯

[@iBryanDBrown]

Done it before, he got back with the girl and married her…we’re no longer friends. Won’t do it again!

[@newdestiny3371]

At least he found love

[@LDR411]

Same thing happened to me but I KNEW our friendship would end because it wasn’t our first conversation concerning their relationship and I was tired or their drama. I excused myself from the friendship after I had a heart to heart. It was painful but I know have PEACE. I don’t ever want to be in that position again. Some ppl you can tell. Some you can’t.

[@Scorpiovib3z]

Mind your business period‼️ what's done in the dark will come to light eventually ❤ ✌🏽️

[@KINGDOMDAUGHTER]

WE SHALL KNOW THEM BY THEIR FRUIT. Charla and Envy, when you were cheating did you tell your wife before someone told her or she found out. Have any friends addressed you both for your past indiscretions and you cut them off for being a friend. So you best be thankful to God that both your spouse stayed in that marriage and forgive you both for your cheating. But you are now on the other side of doing the upright thing, to try to save a marriage and not divide a marriage. THAT IS WICKEDNESS in your heart to quick to tell your friend to go file that irreconcilable divorced documents. WHEN YOU YOURSELVES WERE RIGHT THERE LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY, HAVING ADULTEROUS AFFAIRS ON YOUR WIFE'S. MORALS AND STANDARDS ARE SO LACKING. ONES CHARACTER, CONDUCT, COMMUNICATION AND CONVERSATION SPEAKS VOLUMES OF A PERSON FRUIT OF UPRIGHTNESS

[@keepitfunky1858]

Don’t say shxt!!! bcoz when that person decides to stay with that person regardless, your the one what becomes the bad guy.

[@sonyap8253]

A serial cheater going off like this is crazy work ..

[@jeanwesleynew]

Depends on the friend, depends on what i know.

[@dantrellswint5996]

Foreal i feel Charla lil broke ass just passing out that broke ass box 😂😂😂😂

[@patricialilly6782]

Cha telling and he Cheated on his wife and sure did not respect his vows to his wife...

[@treybikes]

Both charlamenge and envy cheated on their wife’s, so when he say black men don’t cheat is the cringiest shit on the planet

[@rybaxter5424]

Charlemagne is definitely triggered by this conversation😂all that cheating he was doing…and I personally don’t believe in cheating on my man but he’s being very judgmental since he’s wife didn’t give him a taste of his own medicine🤦🏾‍♀️

[@0neMoment]

A real friend will tell the Truth & hold your friend accountable with proof 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@617boston6]

Wrapped in a blanket like an old woman and trying to sound manly is nasty work. Envy one of those "it dont count" dudes

[@georginawilliamsriley8134]

Well if we were that good of friends hell yes

[@ErickP3768]

Get video or photo evidence then send it to them using a burner phone, or email. You let them know whats happening and you just need to pretend like you don’t know anything.

[@leebrown2368]

I’m snitchin snitchin, ain’t no mind ya business, if we locked in ima protect them anyway I can and idc how I’m judged. I’m standin on business point blank period!!

[@gjuannajenkins2107]

It's always kill the messenger 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@SmlThngz2aGIANT]

PREACH CHARLA! AYE Envy stop hanging up on ppl!

[@ChanelStar1]

*If you don't have a photo or a video just keep it to yourself.*

[@otcwavie9485]

Hell yea dafawk if it's the homie. First I gotta understand the context of the situation.

[@TheRealCueenFoodie]

I TELL EVERYTHING !!! On God and I be PRAYING MY real friends tell me

[@shaquilhoskins3078]

11:44 Charla had a lot of beef for brokies on this segment 😂😂😂

[@leahleon_]

7:25 “Acting like he ain’t no where around” ‘Fantasia - You got me waiting’ 🙌

[@Mstruebeauty25]

Everything Saucy said is facts that's why I mind my business 😂

[@joneschilufya867]

Sometimes ur friend don’t wanna know. Lost a friend after telling them this. They reconciled and felt like a fool 😂

[@mariahwhitneycelinejanetmadona]

Kentucky and Tampa? I see why you left for Ghana

[@MsBrit_]

YUP! My loyalty is to my friend, not that hussy. LOL... 🤣😂😅😆☺🤭

[@mybookoflife748]

Wasn’t Charla cheating on his wife?!!

[@HITTHEHAZARD]

12:44 When women came out with “No Scrub” we came out with “No Pigeon”😂 Just birds for the skreets

[@Theambershow_]

Yep, just let them know. They better keep their head on the swivel.

[@kimberlyjohnson651]

Lauren you are the GOAT

[@desireesimmons842]

If the answer is no, then that means you can't tell anyone else either. Because they may not have the same loyalty to your friend. If your friend finds out, you know now, you have betrayed her too and gossiping about her in the streets. It's a double-edged sword.

[@LADYDIVAful]

There’re levels to this: I will not say a word to my friend or relative, but I have confronted the cheater and the cheater got it right. All is well today!

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

You gotta tell them especially if that friend got a family. No family isn’t a big deal.

[@monilolalove9361]

I most certainly would. Having said that, if I made the decision to tell; I would be prepared to also lose that friend. It’s a hard one; if you do not tell and they found out you knew - understandably they’d be upset and you’d still lose a friend!.

[@hectors535]

Proud of you char hell yea!! 😂😂😂

[@bloodgang3537]

Shes back

[@crystalhickman2640]

Santana hit the nail on the coffin😂😂😂😂😂 I'm iced out😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@themandinkafamily]

Nope. There was a time my homegirl's boyfriend came at me. I told her and she said I was just jealous and the friendship ended for a few years. Fast forward she caught him cheating on her own and they're no longer together. Moral of the story: Don't say nothing.

[@R.Outler]

Wait. Are we talking about 'friends' or associates? My friends get the info. My associates get the gas face. 😂

[@bg_supreme]

I’ve been in this exact situation. I told my friend & they were 100% glad I did. I guess it depends on the person.

[@freyastar4399]

If I know they are being cheated on, that means I have proof. I would have had to see it with my own eyes. That’s the only way you can know… anything else is a rumor… so yes, I’m telling my friend what I saw/witnessed. If I had time to get pictures or videos, she’ll be presented with them as well. If you were walking down the street with your friend and you guys were at a crosswalk, she takes a step to go into the street. You look and see a bike coming but she doesn’t. Do you let her get hit by the bike you seen coming? Possibly getting seriously hurt. Or do you grab her and point at the bike that was on the path to collide with her? If you are my friend and you see something coming my way that can cause me harm/pain… you better speak up. Or you were never truly my friend…

[@princessbc9791]

I would if I had proof! I’ve always told and I haven’t been wrong once!

[@doctordl7757]

Hell yeah! And if they don't that's not your friend

[@phyllisjones3088]

Didn’t CTG cheat talking the most mess

[@MazterP28]

Nope. Now that’s my drama too.

[@yochacole6704]

You could lose a friend rather you tell them or not,

[@StevoCappuccino]

CHARLEMAGNE acting like Trump today, WTF?

[@Juzeejuice]

I’ve told a best friend and said girl do not tell him I told you. He was a crazy person. She definitely told him I told. Never again will I tell. Staying out of it. Had that man looking for me!

[@JayJay-v2y]

You definitely tell on the woman and let the man determine how he handles her

[@sabrinashealey3020]

I see it this way... just don't cheat.. if you out and NOT with the significant other you deserve to be told on. You didn't worry about cheating so why worry if you get told on. And for people that don't speak up you're just condoning the LIE.

[@WilliamNobleBonninActual]

I would hope my friends would too.