After drinking for about 30 years I quit on my 49th Birthday. It was slowly ruining my health. I feel better now than when I was in my teens. My only regret is that I didn't stop years ago. Thanks for sharing. If you're thinking about stopping, GO FOR IT!!
@Riobg-hq8ks3 жыл бұрын
Good job! I just stopped. Im 48
@NB-sq7ui3 жыл бұрын
Same for me quit properly at 49 after 30 plus on/off years of weekend binge drinking plus holidays etc and recreational drugs...Only drank twice this year, def not going back to it ! 2 months sober so far :-)
@soniacordeiro79413 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh!! I been the same way for about 20 plus years and for the past like 7 to 10 years I been crying out to the Lord soo much to give up and I still cant do it all because Alcohol is the only thing that puts me to sleep and if I don't drink or drink enough I am being attack by demons .. please guys pray for me :)
@aflippingg43402 жыл бұрын
You inspire others by stopping
@michaelfilippi15202 жыл бұрын
I stopped drinking when I was 20. For ten years I was on that whiskey. No. I never drank. I read the bible instead like a good Christian.
@timbuffington57174 жыл бұрын
I've got almost 6 years sober, best decision of my life. You can not argue with a transformed life 💪
@mehDOGIESRATS22222 жыл бұрын
Awesome stuff
@The_Professor262 жыл бұрын
Would love to hear about what's changed since you gave up?... I hear energy increases drastically and your brain turns into what some people call a "super brain"... Is this the case for you?
@jakemcnally48682 жыл бұрын
On day 8 of sobriety. Turning 50 next month. 30 years of drinking beer. Just one turns into 4 or 5 all too frequently. Time to put away those childish things. Thank you for sharing your encouraging words.
@fyermun Жыл бұрын
How’s your sobriety going brother?
@jakemcnally4868 Жыл бұрын
@@fyermun It is going very well. I am currently at 14 weeks and going strong. I haven't had any alcohol during this period and do not plan to. Alcohol has nothing to offer me that will improve my life. I even have had cold beers sitting in my garage refrigerator since I committed to sobriety. They were leftovers from a social gathering at our house. Have simply extinguished the urge to consume alcohol. Coming from on average 4 IPA's a day to zero is quite an accomplishment for me. I realize that it is a daily choice and am respectful of the urge. If I kept going down the path that I was on, I would eventually work up to 8 or more strong beers per day. We all know how that story ends. I am day to day happier, more productive, and less depressed. It is simply a better life for me. How is your sobriety going?
@jtooley6554 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I think about the childish things part. I'm a beer drinking fool
@jakemcnally4868 Жыл бұрын
@@jtooley6554 Me too. Well I was very fond of beer. Love the IPA's a bit too much. Too many mornings feeling like i was eaten by wolves and crapped over a cliff. 30 years of drinking mostly beer moderately was wearing on me a bit. Nothing extreme other than daily drinking for periods and an occasional over consumption event. 3 per evening was turning into 4 or 5 per evening. Time to change direction. I enjoy better sleep and waking up and feeling good every morning. I wish that I would have stopped sooner. Has been a very good choice for me at this stage of my life. I have no regrets.
@Heaven-dy9lj Жыл бұрын
@@jakemcnally4868 Well done. I'm on day 9. I can totally relate to what you say. Keep going, enjoy life, sober!
@outofthefryingpan25384 жыл бұрын
I’m done embarrassing myself. I’m ready to look and feel good again.
@SamuelGegen3 жыл бұрын
You can do it!
@JPVanderbuilt3 жыл бұрын
It's 9 months later. How are you doing?
@outofthefryingpan25383 жыл бұрын
@@JPVanderbuilt not good. It’s like I’m two different ppl. The one that wants to be happy and healthy, and the one that convince the other to do the opposite.
@theboyisnotright63122 жыл бұрын
@@outofthefryingpan2538 I know the feeling. In a big town, about 30k people. I'm well known as a big partier. At 50 I would like to be done with the BS. Hey it was fun in my 20s, not so fun the last 20 yrs, 2 DUI s, 4 trips to the tank, God only knows how many people I've angered or disgusted. Not the best thing to be on first name basis with the po po.😳. I'm quitting and I feel I need to do it where I did my debauchery. Wish me luck 🤞
@dqreps4 жыл бұрын
I have been drinking about a half gallon of vodka every day for a year. Today is day one for me. Wish me well! Best of luck to all you fellas as well! God Speed!
@deanfehr94454 жыл бұрын
I’m praying you stay strong and keep trying.
@erikunixarias4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Stay strong.
@raquel71234 жыл бұрын
Am starting today. I really want to b sober
@deanfehr94454 жыл бұрын
@@raquel7123 I’ll pray for you Raquel
@erikunixarias4 жыл бұрын
@@raquel7123 Today is a good day to start. It is going to be a bumping ride, but you will do it. Get all the help that you can get. I would recommend AA.
@timc42584 жыл бұрын
6 weeks AF for me today. Sleep is better, energy is way up, zero anxiety, less marital arguments, better example for my kids.
@leviweber13843 жыл бұрын
That's awesome buddy. I'm working on it myself
@timc42583 жыл бұрын
@@leviweber1384 It gets better. Check out the books "This naked Mind" and "Alcohol Lied to Me". Immerse yourself in it and rewire your subconscious.
@leviweber13843 жыл бұрын
@@timc4258 I just got "this naked mind" I'm with you and thank you for taking a minute out of your day to write me back. I've been lost for a long time.
@donniecatalano3 жыл бұрын
All the things you listed are clichés... until one tries and realises they are all 100% true. I am experiencing this myself in these days. Great!
@dmac74063 жыл бұрын
All opinions.
@jzjitsu4 жыл бұрын
I’m 12 days sober today. Thank you for sharing this. Needed it today, a Friday after work.
@abelvelasquezjr20514 жыл бұрын
@ JR Zav can we get an update. How are you doing 5 months later? Im starting my Sober Journey Today.
@jzjitsu4 жыл бұрын
abel velasquez jr I went just over three months without drinking but I’m drinking again. It all starts with “just one.” Good luck on your journey and thanks for asking. Seeing your question makes me want to start again.
@michaelledebrink82884 жыл бұрын
@@jzjitsu what happened that made you fall back into old habits. I'm going on nineteen months. After the first year I stopped wanting to have a drink. It's now a distant memory. If I really feel like one I take a huge wiff of a half bottle of gin I keep around. I get that tingle and it reminds me I can't drink because I like to get drunk. Never stop trying mate.
@abelvelasquezjr20514 жыл бұрын
@@jzjitsu I went 14 days and had a beer. then i drank two days ago at a poker tournament I attended. so day 1 was yesterday.
@lisas8564 жыл бұрын
@@joetv3139 have you ever tried reading This Naked Mind? It has really changed my thoughts on alcohol and makes me actually THINK when an urge comes
@christoefur55804 жыл бұрын
As a young man of 24 years old, and everyone my age drinking like no tomorrow and discovering alchohol since the age of 12. I decided to quit, and have been alchohol and drug free for 3 weeks now. Around the same time I got rid of social media and started to exercise everyday. I have never felt better than ever before. Some family and friends have been supportive, and some haven't which is okay. I know who are my true supporters. Thanks for the video. Much love, man! Hopefully I will be sober for the rest of my life.
@wranglerstar4 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best Chrisopher
@christoefur55804 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. You just got a new subscriber!
@dougiebuckets13642 жыл бұрын
How is life now?
@christoefur55802 жыл бұрын
@Dougie Buckets wow, man. I have forgotten about this comment. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for you asking how life is. I haven't been asked that in a long time. But it is great. New job, lost some weight and living life. I drink socially now but I know my limit and make sure I get home safe more than anything.
@yakoubyakoub9315 Жыл бұрын
Way to go brother! I am clean too. Natural high.
@benbradley59234 жыл бұрын
I love to watch your videos. This is the absolute best one yet for me. I'm 62 years old. My daughters watched me drink for years while they were growing up. My oldest became a severe alcoholic, living in a way that totally broke my heart in two. My sister called me one evening and asked about my daughter after talking to her. She was in bad shape. She had been brought down lower than I would have ever have imagined. We went to her apartment and called the ambulance to take her to the hospital. She had tried to quit cold turkey, and almost died. She was in a coma for a few days, almost losing her arm due to an IV that her ICU nurse had not observed during the night as it leaked into her skin and burned her badly. God answered prayers for her and our family. Sorry about the rambling, but I just want people to know that we can turn from our addiction, whatever it may be. She has been well over a year without alcohol! Thanks so much for this video. You are a great example to the rest of us guys out here. I am saving this one.
@sunburntodin9104 жыл бұрын
In 2005 my wife gave me the ultimatum, her or alchohol. I was a functioning alcoholic while on active duty Army. I was a happy drunk who quickly lost all filters, and all inhibitions which led me to make many painful and damaging choices. Through the strength of God and leaning on my strong wife I was able to give it up and reconcile my marriage. Thank you for sharing your journey, you are in my prayers.
@lowkeykeylow55264 жыл бұрын
Always thought it was old tomato opposed to ultimatum oh well learn something new everyday lmao
@tbravo97584 жыл бұрын
@Gregory Hill true yet still a good decision ive struggled with this for years. has to be personal.
@jtnoodle4 жыл бұрын
@SFG23 Kylie the nagging only makes you drink more.
@mindartmovement89564 жыл бұрын
I hope this helps! I made an affirmation video for quitting alcohol, it has helped me and I hope it can do the same for you, good luck! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWWyloymicuEfdk
@yakkineerwv29064 жыл бұрын
I thought you were going to say it as hard to watch her go.
@ktotheswiss16174 жыл бұрын
I stopped drinking when I was 26, I'm 41 now and never looked back.
@joshstaton5084 жыл бұрын
Congrats 👍
@brandeni17854 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@yungSwagg724 жыл бұрын
Keep it up !
@mrpancakedemon74544 жыл бұрын
How did it effect your life?
@ktotheswiss16174 жыл бұрын
@@mrpancakedemon7454 I look younger than my age, I've retainted my high school body and health and I've done nothing but not drink.
@stwhite51354 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm 2 years sober. Quit cold turkey. Used to drink 2 30 packs/week. Didn't go out. Too expensive. Your quote from Paul really got me. To be drunk is to be out of control. To be out of control is childish. We have put away childish things because we are men. It's OK for most people. But for us it is poison. I like your solution of a red Solo cup.
@bfrd9k4 жыл бұрын
I've been unintentionally sober for a little over two years. What I've learned is that the further you get from alcohol the less sense it makes.
@dallaswilliamson52704 жыл бұрын
You know this sounds like me, never had a problem with drinking, never said I was quitting, I just have not drank anything in a very long time.
@homesteadinresellin13744 жыл бұрын
Yep
@Yutter894 жыл бұрын
Never made sense to me much since being a kid. I mean friends drank and such, but then listening and reading (tons of journals and autobiographies) nothing good seemed to come of it in the long run. Nor ever felt like I've missed out on something as I watched fellow Marines and the like. Good on you and hope all goes well.
@alexanderdean50294 жыл бұрын
That’s why I’m going to teach my future kids to not start. Alcohol ruins families and relationships it’s not worth it
@davegordon69432 жыл бұрын
Jail?
@jeffmay13324 жыл бұрын
As the child of alcoholic parents I want to say thank you...for doing this for your kids. You, and they, will never know what a great thing this is you did for them.
@andersenjed2 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah
@tony4metallicaify4 жыл бұрын
I stopped drinking right after my 25th birthday I'm 30 now best thing I ever done
@harrymatthewsmusic4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@christiandelgado15894 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I hope I could do the same.
@jamesokeeffe32164 жыл бұрын
Good on you ☘️
@clydethevirgo53764 жыл бұрын
Ive tried and I just turned 25
@imgood83413 жыл бұрын
Yeah but you didn’t actually stop did you
@lewismoorhead18374 жыл бұрын
Mr W, my name's Lewis I am ten years old and I'm a huge fan of your channel. I lost my father at age 2 and I've been restoring his grand force Brookes camping hatchet. I am blessed to have a small workshop and some hand tools and also a cordless drill. I was wondering if you could mention some tips in your next video or comment back. If you're reading this comment thank you for your time. Also, a very happy 2020 and I think it's great that you stopped drinking. God bless L.P.M
@bdl21574 жыл бұрын
He’s ten and is better at writing a letter than I am. You deserve the best Lewis, good luck on your restoration.
@Miamifins994 жыл бұрын
I have been restoring my Grandfathers hatchets and tools for a little while now. I just finished a hatchet a few days ago (just a Stanley). I do not know what condition your hatchet is in but if there is rust or it is dirty, I would take a wire brush to it. If that is working you can buy wire wheels for your cordless drill that can speed up the process. If there is a lot of rust and oxidation on the metal then you can use files to clean up the head. As for the wood you can try to refinish it with something like tung oil after a light sanding. You could also replace the handle but this process is somewhat difficult. I do not know if Grand Force Brooks sells handles but if they do I would use theirs if you can get a direct replacement. If not you can get some handles from hardware stores. You could craft a handle from scratch; however, this is difficult to do as the right wood is hard to find (at least it has been for my projects) and the making of the handle is very a very precise process. I would not want to attempt to make a handle without power tools either. Good luck on your project and learn from it. Making things with your hands is incredibly satisfying. You will make mistakes but that is how you learn. The biggest thing is not to be afraid to make mistakes.
@tonysolar2844 жыл бұрын
@@TannerTheDean RIP
@wesd37424 жыл бұрын
I'm sure Wrangler will reach out to you, that's the kind of guy he is. You sound like a tremendous young man with a bright future, let us know how it goes. Would make a great video to boot.
@tonysolar2844 жыл бұрын
@@TannerTheDean It was a joke. Just like you telling everyone " then i will end my life" as a joke or I hope it was a joke.
@budgillett96274 жыл бұрын
A friend’s wife once told me, “There’s nothing funnier then a drunk husband until it’s your husband.”
@teymyneytor4 жыл бұрын
Cheers for the Video! Forgive me for chiming in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you researched - Saankramer Life Card System (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is a smashing exclusive product for learning how to stop drinking without the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my work colleague finally got great results with it.
@peterdarr3834 жыл бұрын
So your friend is a funny drunk ??
@gilleslabrie.royallepage4 жыл бұрын
Funny that’s only men drinks
@empresszaire23053 жыл бұрын
Good one
@hardushelm62683 жыл бұрын
This seems true
@imcook4u4 жыл бұрын
I gave it up 14 years ago. Best decision I ever made. Life has so much more depth now
@kickstand11114 жыл бұрын
I’m a little over 1 yr sober. You mentioned extremes: Early last summer I got pretty ripped at a buddy’s house. I was headed home and got lit up by a GA state trooper. I was on a Harley Sportster 48 with stage II intake etc. I ran. After about 5 miles (he was about a mile behind me) and splitting lanes of traffic and taking the shoulder around transfer trucks, I had something of a moment of clarity: “ If I don’t stop now I’m gonna end up on the news and not in a good way.” So I gave up. I maybe could’ve gotten away but it would have been very difficult to get off the interstate at 130+mph and down an off ramp and find a place to hide. Plus troopers have access to other troopers and choppers. Anyway, long story long and a felony wreakless driving and dui later, I got probation (and other things). So I had to get dry. First time since I was in my 20’s. I’d basically been drunk most of my life. Raging binge drinker since around 13 yrs old and totaled 4cars from blacking out at the wheel. No dui’s though somefuckinghow🤷♂️😳 Yeah so now my marriage and relationship with my kids is AMAZING! I became supervisor at work, got a raise, and my whole life is improved drastically overall. THANK YOU FOR SHARING MAN!👊🏻✌🏻
@bigdsson4 жыл бұрын
God bless you brother. I had my last drink almost nine years ago. Let me tell you, the honeymoon never has to end if you don't want it to. I know guys 30+ years sober, still on their honeymoon. Best thing I ever did, for me, I'm sure I would have been dead by now. Praying for you.
@boat68684 жыл бұрын
Awesome man...thanks for sharing your story.
@jcsurban11454 жыл бұрын
you could be a brother of mine...back in the day.....meaning, many years ago... something like this happened to HIM, my brother. my brother is a nice guy when sober...but, sadly an S.O.B. when under the bottle.... back then, with 2 little kids and a third in the oven---"an evening with the police" as we have come to say.... his life changed forever for the better. after all said and done--recovery-wise, he was VERY involved with his family like never before. later, he was a proud father of six busy/happy children....all who grew up quite happy/successful too. so i know first hand it is possible to turn a new leaf! (at some point he also stopped smoking, too.) good luck/GOD bless you Mitchell!! you can do it----you CAN!!
@danclas59834 жыл бұрын
Good job bro, i drank hard from 18 to 36 . Some how never got in any trouble with the law, but a few close call's. Spent a lot of time alone. Long story short, got married had a daughter and decided she wasn't going to grow up seeing me waste my life. Been completely sober 12 year's now and every time i think about drinking it pisses me off that i wasted so much of my life being drunk. Do whatever you have to do to stay sober dude, i can promise you it's worth it.
@demonsworld6664 жыл бұрын
That’s what’s up dude!!! I’m proud of you brother keep it up!!!
@wobblysauce4 жыл бұрын
Not drinking is easy.. putting up with people that do is the hard part.
@redplanet6674 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah theres nothing more annoying than drunk people when youre not drunk yourself
@Hayden7344 жыл бұрын
Hah obv not drinking isnt always easy for everyone all the time, but yes lol to the rest
@dqreps4 жыл бұрын
Maybe for some not drinking is easy but not for everyone I can tell you that much for sure LOL. Not when your whole lifestyle has revolved around it.
@firedog91134 жыл бұрын
100% the truth. Same goes with smoking, once you quit it, ppl always gonna try to get ya back smoking without you realizing it after you go back
@dqreps4 жыл бұрын
Thomas More agreed. Same with crack.
@nickjames98814 жыл бұрын
I’m on six days. This is so hard. I didn’t realize how difficult it would actually be. Thanks for the video. It’s really inspiring.
@brandonshrum65684 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, I am prayin for ya
@feelinsupersonic16063 жыл бұрын
How's life nick still off it ?
@nickjames98813 жыл бұрын
@@feelinsupersonic1606 I wish I could say I was. I made it about three months. Best I ever felt too. I need to kick it again. That first two weeks was the toughest then it got easier. I slipped few times and never stopped.
@feelinsupersonic16063 жыл бұрын
@@nickjames9881 dust yourself down and jump back on that wagon you're only a month away from feeling like you did. Keep positive you've got this 👍
@lolab97092 жыл бұрын
What keeps me going is knowing how great you'll feel come morning time. No hangovers, more alert and all around feel better. But to be honest, say around day 10 or so I got over those "urges" and it became not as hard. Stay strong, u got this
@ladev914 жыл бұрын
I've acted like a fool so many times while drinking. Stuff is a demon
@user-lq1dk6gr3p4 жыл бұрын
@@logbia7k608 oh its evil alright.
@mindartmovement89564 жыл бұрын
I hope this helps! I made an affirmation video for quitting alcohol, it has helped me and I hope it can do the same for you, good luck! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWWyloymicuEfdk
@raylang29964 жыл бұрын
There is a reason why they are called spirits.
@MSotelo5034 жыл бұрын
I think we've all have acted a fool while under the influence, we are humans. Live and learn. I went cold turkey in 2015 to 2018 now I can drink and just have 2 and be fine and relaxed.
@ludwigvonmiseswasright43804 жыл бұрын
@cobainzlady The military has a drug for vets who struggle with alcohol addition. There is a physical side to the craving. People do not process alcohol the same. Some are prone to addiction. I'm not saying all drunks are the victims of their genetics. There is a character and moral component to drinking, mainly the decision to take the first drink. However, your thread reads as if you think all the people who have ever been trapped by drunkenness are simply weak in character. You think you're strong compared to them? Careful. Perhaps its not alcohol that will trip you up, but you should not be so quick to assume that you are immune to common pitfalls because you possess uncommon self control. Rather, you should take warning, that "there but for the grace of God, go I".
@novocainesoul45294 жыл бұрын
My 50th Birthday I gave my family and me my best gift I never thought I needed. Quit drinking over 5 yrs ago now. It wasn’t easy, no it sure wasn’t, sometimes still is a temptation, but this fight is worth it. Gods strength to all who fight for a better life for themselves.
@NZ_nicky4 жыл бұрын
Stay strong mate👍
@grandaygain4 жыл бұрын
Alcohol. I grew up in a home with an alcoholic father. The change in him after a few drinks, the physical and mental abuse my mom went through, the struggle she faced to just get grocery money from him, the times utilities went unpaid and power was cut. I could go on and on. But, I still drank as a young adult, though I never had the same abusive or negligent traits of my dad. It has now been 43 years without a drink. But, I am one that now sees alcohol as an avoidable desease with no purpose. Some people claim that they can drink socially without a problem. I don't even want that in my life. Just remember, you are an example to someone. You can choose to be a positive example or a negative one. I see nothing positive about alcohol.
@grandaygain4 жыл бұрын
@cobainzlady Your reasoning is the same as mine. In moderation it may be ok. But, for some people just a little at meal time is not possible. It is best that they totally abstain. I make a choice not to drink. You misquote the Bible .
@LeanandG134 жыл бұрын
You also tend to buy a lot less cocaine when you stop drinking
@BrosMinecraft24 жыл бұрын
Ethereal Phenotype wrong...
@hp112084 жыл бұрын
Lol
@hp112084 жыл бұрын
@Premium Gamertag hahaha
@nBasterd4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@richardhurl67864 жыл бұрын
Richard Hostetler hb
@mathbrown90994 жыл бұрын
Many of us who went to extremes, lost jobs, family say this: “One drink is too many and a thousand is never enough.”
@valeriegriner56444 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Alcohol killed my brother-in-law(cirrhosis), destroyed my marriage(of 28 years), killed my grandfather...etc. My sister is an alcoholic and she turns demonic when she's drinking. I'd love to help her, but it's something an individual has to overcome. Thanks for sharing this VERY important message!
@Good_Timber4 жыл бұрын
(Sits down with a beer) “I haven’t checked out the Wranglerstar channel in a while.” “Oh”
@equinsuocha12134 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@dqreps4 жыл бұрын
Yuuuuuup!
@StrayEyeStudiosInc4 жыл бұрын
Nearly laughed outta my chair.
@Jaysa5784 жыл бұрын
Oof
@lailazaizoun95684 жыл бұрын
There are several factors in stopping drinking including eg motivation and help from friends. One resource I found which succeeds in merging these is the Adoette Drink Plan (see the website SebsMagicTactic.com) definately the most incredible plan i've heard of. Check out the site and amazing reviews.
@snuffdipper66114 жыл бұрын
17 years sober here. Don’t miss it at all best thing I ever did in life is quit drinking
@jesusshorty26604 жыл бұрын
22 weeks sober tonight at 830pm
@Dougie19694 жыл бұрын
2 years sober
@morganlogman39484 жыл бұрын
Snuff Dipper well done 24 years sober also do not miss it at all.
@morganlogman39484 жыл бұрын
Jesus Shorty well done keep it up
@mathbrown90994 жыл бұрын
15 yrs this July. God willing, I’ll make it. I agree with all ten, with a 10!
@Austin_Mitchell14 жыл бұрын
I’ll tell you the truth, this video really hit home. I love the genuine confessions you make here. My pride has kept me from admitting all of these. I work at least 80hrs a week and have a few beers a week then when the weekend come it’s full blast. This has been going on for the last 2 years, my wife has shown me videos of myself that are beyond embarrassing. Thank you for this video. This weekend was my last drink. It’s time to admit I have a problem and be a true leader of my household.
@mrbill26004 жыл бұрын
I'll keep you in my prayers.
@PlasticinaVerde4 жыл бұрын
I stoped last new year, not a single drink at the new year party, holded on for 2 months, then the coronavirus made stay on quarentena, and i have been drinking like a moron
@harshacs12 жыл бұрын
I echo Austin. My first time listening to this guy and he hit home. Humble and honest.
@brandeni17854 жыл бұрын
I stopped drinking in April. It’s the best I’ve ever felt. Thank God.
@joshstaton5084 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@stefanhoffman70524 жыл бұрын
Good timing! Alcohol has thoroughly ruined my life for about 15 years, I have quit for stretches before but been out of control for a few years again. 30 days strong, I feel like I'm actually making some spiritual progress this time. And I am crushing it at life again.
@1962cploen4 жыл бұрын
Have been sober now for a year. Best thing I have ever done for myself. I basically agree with all you said and congratulate you and all who are doing the same. God bless you all.
@miketsack4 жыл бұрын
I quit smoking cigarettes , weed, sugar, gambling, fast food, watching the news and dealing with crazy people, but I can't quit alcohol... after watching this I now have faith.
@sixstringcity39314 жыл бұрын
Mike T Sack whatever’s power got you off all those things surely can help you a day at a time to not drink. Also a likeminded group of folks and a program can really add to sober clean living! Wishing you all the best!
@ms.anonymousinformer2424 жыл бұрын
Good job on quitting the news. I think that is the best one to quite .
@malcolmbaldwin57354 жыл бұрын
when are you going to quit sucking coc ?
@malcolmbaldwin57354 жыл бұрын
@Perry M he's only blown 3 dudes this week, big impovement
@shanooby43594 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a fun life......
@artlovelife55254 жыл бұрын
18 months sober and no going back for me! After 25 years of drinking I realize now it is not necessary and actually detrimental to my mental and physical health. It really does feel good to just live with clarity.
@Vulcan_WT4 жыл бұрын
You are change so others can follow.
@mplslawnguy33894 жыл бұрын
I quit for 3 years in the past and those were the best, healthiest years of my life. I've since gotten back to drinking, of course thinking I can do it in moderation and maintain that level of health. Well needless to say, I kept it under control for a few months, then my drinking quickly increased after that. I think I have to accept that I'm just not a person that can keep it under control. No I don't go out and fight, or drink and drive, or miss work, but it negatively impacts my personality and health to the point of being a problem and I really really want to be done. I enjoy listening to other peoples thoughts on their alcohol use and how and why they quit.
@stewartmcmanus39914 жыл бұрын
Very much my problem. I cannot drink in moderation. I'm 73 and quit in March 23 2020 on our wedding anniversary and went cold turkey. Only way for me.
@mplslawnguy33894 жыл бұрын
Stewart McManus It’s never too late to do something to improve yourself. I’m sure you feel better. Congrats on quitting.
@Tommyblueeyes4 жыл бұрын
Agreed ur life becomes unmanageable
@KPrayfortheworld4 жыл бұрын
My biggest regret is saying awful hurtful things to my loving girlfriend. I’ve damaged her with things I’ve never meant. It was the jack Daniels telling her my old pain. She never deserved me taking my own inner pain out on her verbally. I hate myself cuz she trusted me. I did quit drinking for a year but just recently relapsed. I’m done again. I’m 40 yrs old I don’t need to be getting drunk. Ever
@mplslawnguy33894 жыл бұрын
@@KPrayfortheworld I'm the same age, it is a great time to quit. Things get ugly in the second half of your life if you have a problem with alcohol. I've seen it with family members and it's not pretty. I'm 4 months sober now, getting in great shape, and I'm so happy I made the decision to remove alcohol from my life. I wake up in the morning feeling like I want to tackle the day, versus trying to figure out how to get out of the haze that is a hangover. Best part is I remember everything I did and said the night before, and I have no regrets or fears that I said something bad to someone. I've lost 30 lbs, my skin looks better, and my head is clear. It's a no brainer, this is the way I need to be. Good luck to you and your sobriety. You can do it, anybody can.
@MrBowser20124 жыл бұрын
I have quit several times over the last 10 years and always returned to my beer. Today is the first day of hopefully my last attempt. Thanks for the added inspiration brother!
@We_are_the_light4 жыл бұрын
When asked why I dont drink i always respond with , "it killed my father" that is usually all the answers they need. Good for you brother . I'm 3 years in .
@robinpohl27024 жыл бұрын
I read "I killed my father" got me quite confused. Really sorry for your father tho
@worm24643 жыл бұрын
Im 19 and have a similar issue, i’ve been trying to get off Marijuana for months now, it’s controlling my life, keeping me from jobs id love to have etc. Your comment about realizing others are going through the same thing really has helped me, along with you bringing insight on how i’ll feel after I’ve turned it down. I’ve watched this multiple times now. Thank you
@brw30794 жыл бұрын
I had a drinking friend who quit, he said "I didn't do something dumb every time I drank, but every time I did something dumb I was drinking!"
@gabenoseworthy37934 жыл бұрын
Brian Wood I’m pretty sure that’s a Dave mustaine quote
@brw30794 жыл бұрын
@@gabenoseworthy3793 Could be, I'm totally clueless, I don't watch TV and I don't live in the States, and I don't know who anyone is.
@williams65504 жыл бұрын
Damn, I said those exact words several years ago. Glad to see other people come to the same conclusion. Good for your friend!
@ThisisKevinG4 жыл бұрын
damn that rings so true for me... time to make a change...
@rigmover1584 жыл бұрын
Pretty common AA phrase.
@mmholling874 жыл бұрын
This guy hit the nail on the head. I take everything to the extreme one beer leads to twelve and the bad choices that come along with them. I hope you're doing well.
@MomentPhotographyG12 жыл бұрын
Fax same peace and blessings to you bro🙏🏾🙏🏾
@BoBty74 жыл бұрын
Good advice. I’m here after a relapse and ready to get sober again
@andrewmalone87094 жыл бұрын
Good luck buddy, hope it's been going well.
@robertbatts4 жыл бұрын
Everyone's journey is their own. Good luck!
@jesselee30033 жыл бұрын
Same
@jdanks4 жыл бұрын
man you really hit the nail on the head with this list. in my 20s i was a severe alcoholic and ruined a lot of things in my life and i didnt even realize it. when i hit 30 i started slowing down to the point where i was just having a couple of beers every night and eventually it just naturally tapered off for me now that im 34. i havent had any alcohol in a long time and i feel great (ive suffered from deep depression the majority of my life). i started going to church again every sunday (also reading the bible almost daily) and the high i get from that is better than any drug ive ever had. people in my life have noticed the change in me and compliment me a lot and it feels amazing. im doing way better at work as well. sometimes i feel a deep regret from my actions but i know god is there for me and is giving me the power to be a better person. great video, great channel! god bless you man
@dhunisacredfire13104 жыл бұрын
3.5 years, not a drop. Life is better this way, hands down.
@BrosMinecraft24 жыл бұрын
Dhuni: Sacred Fire yes brother!!! Congrats on staying dry!
@Dougie19694 жыл бұрын
I'm about 2 years
@chrisgraves3104 жыл бұрын
Now that's what I'm talking about!🥳👍
@enmeterdumheter4 жыл бұрын
Great work mate! Have you started any other "burden" after you quit alkohol? Just curious how you filled the void after drinking. Have a good one, from Sweden.
@gettintheresafelywithpatf28694 жыл бұрын
Over 25 years without alcohol, don’t miss it, just keep moving forward! The funny thing is I have been stopped several times for sobriety tests, and start laughing, because the officer states it was because of a phone tip! ... I wonder is somebody really trying to occupy their time, so they can sneak by?
@michaelstewart47544 жыл бұрын
It's been five days since my last drink but the hardest thing I'm finding is sleeping at night but determined to keep going
@rob747harder4 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful genuine, honest, common-sense outlook you have, I aspire to have these qualities. Talk to as many children as you can, the world is running out of people like you, your son is very fortunate
@everchevy4 жыл бұрын
December 15, 2019 I was 1 year without alcohol. I am 63 and loving retirement more and more every day. My body feels better as the days go on. Congratulations on 7 monthes. God bless you and your decision.
@joshstaton5084 жыл бұрын
Hope you continue to do well with your decision.
@longlimboy4 жыл бұрын
I’m 27, male, also 195ish 6’ y’all. After 7+ years drinking, smoking, doing other substances through high school and college, I finally quit for good for myself, not for any other purpose. I’ve not smoked a cigarette or drank anything for over 2 years. You are correct on all these points. Very poignant observations, very well said. Your experience aligns with mine. Thanks for sharing. Life is just easier man. I’m too lazy to deal with myself and what I do when I drink. I’m done man. I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired. It’s hard to keep the status quo and keep cutting myself off at my knees. Love it @wranglerstar thank you for sharing with us your personal life decisions. Much appreciated.
@MikeClowder4 жыл бұрын
I've been sober a little over eight and a half years. It's amazing how much damage alcohol does to you. I'm happy any time someone that isn't an alcoholic decides to quit drinking as well, it's definitely a healthy choice.
@indawoods12324 жыл бұрын
I'll be celebrating 12 years sober in a few days, it was the best decision I've ever made.
@leekollar32984 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@justbe44814 жыл бұрын
It's good to be sober congratulations
@lonewolf6044 жыл бұрын
nice, celebrate with a drink
@stephenpaccone81204 жыл бұрын
JDMusic edgelord?
@Home-GrownHomestead4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@Skooma_Detox3 жыл бұрын
Today is day one for me. I’ve wanted to be a non-drinker for so long. My parents never drank around me growing up, and I never had the urge to drink then, but somewhere in my twenties I fell into the bar scene. Now I’m in my mid thirties, and know that I have an idolatry problem with beer. I put it over all other things in my life. I appreciate this video so much, there is a lot of wisdom to be gained from your advice. Thanks!
@harrykrumpacker8714 жыл бұрын
No one wakes up in the morning thinking "I should have had a few more drinks last night"...
@plusbonus11654 жыл бұрын
Well said !
@eddiesblacksmithingkjv91854 жыл бұрын
I know I never did.
@qqqwark4 жыл бұрын
well if you just drink to get drunk then yea, go wonder
@paullesieur1474 жыл бұрын
Lovely Video clip! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Saankramer Life Card System (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a good exclusive guide for learning how to stop drinking minus the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my old buddy Taylor after a lifetime of fighting got astronomical success with it.
@scottc3464 жыл бұрын
Unless you wake up and she is really "Coyote Ugly".
@joshuakalaniparks90844 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling with this. Good luck to all of you, and God bless you.
@Vulcan_WT4 жыл бұрын
You are strong and doing alright.
@joshuakalaniparks90844 жыл бұрын
@@Vulcan_WT thank you.
@jncook544 жыл бұрын
It gets better and easier. I promise.
@onebackzach4 жыл бұрын
Congrats man, recognizing the problem and trying to improve is a point many people don't reach. It'll continue to be a struggle, and your journey probably won't be linear, it'll have ups and downs, but if you can apply that "man of extremes" and restless energy you'll make it through even if you have slip ups. You should consider professional help too, there's no shame in admitting when you can no longer help yourself, even though men are told by social norms and society that they aren't supposed to
@portee91134 жыл бұрын
My father died from jaundice of the liver. If you would have seen alcohol's endgame like I have, it would make it so much easier for you. You don't want to make that the way you go out.
@1jd3994 жыл бұрын
12 weeks and my family as a whole has never been happier.
@clintrussell4 жыл бұрын
20 years sober here! I just dinged 61 years old~
@leekollar32984 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@JordanBeagle4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@Freeknickers244 жыл бұрын
God bless you brother im 35 hoping i will get over it soon too.
@ronanoneill44804 жыл бұрын
60 years of age on yt fair play to ye Hahaha
@joshstaton5084 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@ryangibson19004 жыл бұрын
Congratulations my friend, it's a huge accomplishment. I too made the decision to completely stop drinking a year ago. I was a daily drinker "alcoholic " from about the age of 18-31. What a diffrence it has made in my life, I feel like a brand new man. God bless you and your family
@gerriegeldenhuys6253 Жыл бұрын
Well done mr. Lots of respect to you. I am a policeman and a pastor of a church. I have seen people loose their families. I have seen people drink themselves to death. Literally!!! I believe we should have more free clinics available for people to get help. Churches should do more to help people. I think the age for drinking should be 21. The 10 things mentioned is a great list which should inspire more people to stop drinking.
@jokeal36134 жыл бұрын
In my old job, I saw so many lives and families broken by alcohol. So many people abused their spouses or kids while drunk, Thank you for protecting your family with this decision. Keep going brother,
@yungSwagg724 жыл бұрын
I quit at age 22 going 2 years sober and I’m happy
@micahbell8924 жыл бұрын
Houston lol virgin
@joshstaton5084 жыл бұрын
Nice keep it up👍
@Wanderer_of_the_Steppes4 жыл бұрын
Im just a bit older than you, and I commend you on your decision. The best man at my wedding doesn't drink and I admire him immensely for it - hoping I can make that decision soon as well and be so strong as to keep it up. Don't let anyone put you down or pressure you into doing what you know is wrong for you, and keep crushing!
@exzackt4 жыл бұрын
Hey man I was 22 when I stopped for over 2 years. Started up at again at 24. I’m almost 29 now and I don’t know where the time went. Don’t be like me
@MrRlwillis19774 жыл бұрын
Stay with it. I went 5 years without drinking a drop and life just seemed to fall together. It really was great. When I fell off the wagon everything completely fell apart. I lost my family and really all that truly matters to me. Now it's constant struggle. I thank you for the things you say on your channel. You speak reasonably and quite directly. Thank your for the positivity and inspiration I'm able to draw from it.
@james4wd2364 жыл бұрын
It's been over a year for me now. Actually for me just not drinking was the easy part. My biggest struggles have been having to deal with others that don't understand why I want to "not drink" and trying to articulate the very complex reason why I don't want to drink anymore. At first it was hard and I felt the need to defend myself, now I could care less and just let the result speak for themselves. Financially, mentally, and emotionally I'm in a much better place now than I was 2 years ago. It's a good way to live.
@Halvard834 жыл бұрын
Quitting drinking is the easiest thing ever! Iv'e done it a thousand times.
@repro77804 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@landocalrissian37384 жыл бұрын
Halvard Strøm Every time you run out?
@Halvard834 жыл бұрын
@@landocalrissian3738 Sometimes even before I run out!
@chabka344 жыл бұрын
Bra me to
@Dougie19694 жыл бұрын
Quitter
@VoidedTea2 жыл бұрын
High blood pressure was the #1 reason for me. I struggled with high blood pressure for several years, had to increase medication several times. The doctors just tell you to take more pills. So finally I said to myself that I need to do something different. I learned a lot about high blood pressure. I changed my lifestyle, lost weight, exercised every day. Despite all of that I still had these spikes of high blood pressure every week. I did more research and found that every organ of our body has the ability to call for higher blood pressure when this organ is in distress. So I asked myself which organ in my body might be in distress and why do I get weekly spikes of high blood pressure, especially after weekends. Do I do anything different during weekends? Yes, that is the time when I happened to enjoy my expensive, high-ABV bourbons. A few drums on Saturday and Sunday and by Monday my kidneys, distressed by alcohol, produce hormones calling for higher blood pressure. Stopped drinking, no spikes since.
@bendover5001 Жыл бұрын
This sounds dumb typing on the internet, but this explains why you overheat when severely intoxicated. I hate having to turn my bedroom into an ice box just to feel comfortable. I think I’m ready to stop poisoning my body.
@mongollloyd11014 жыл бұрын
10 years here, no booze or drugs. It is definitely one of the better paths taken in life. Glad to hear you've stuck with it. 👍
@cleverkitsune43024 жыл бұрын
Makes you a boring person if you never tried
@eltonjohnfan1004 жыл бұрын
I’ll be 5 months sober on the 13th of January!
@robertleo80064 жыл бұрын
Jordan Cavinee Good Job Brother, just keep making that good choice not too!
@joshstaton5084 жыл бұрын
Way to go. Keep it up 👍👍
@brandeni17854 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@cindybonem4944 жыл бұрын
Jordan Cavinee congratulations, soon it will be a year. I’m going on 36 years.
@robertoarriola-bustamante91694 жыл бұрын
Hope you find Jesus Christ AMEN
@CharlesKnight992 жыл бұрын
Only 2 weeks without drinking alcohol. Had to stop after it consuming my life and involving drugs and living a glamorous lifestyle. Saved so much money, more energy and motivation is through the roof. Glad I watched this video. Wish me luck
@JakeRobinsonn4 жыл бұрын
My friend once bought a 700$ guitar after drinking... He doesn't play guitar
@Aron-ru5zk4 жыл бұрын
JakeRobinsonn at least it wasn’t a $5,000 Gibson haha
@plusbonus11654 жыл бұрын
Bet he gets more chicks just leaning it against the wall.
@humanentity58904 жыл бұрын
Wife and I bought a combat shotgun from sporting goods store while we were drunk off our asses. $1000 and 25 minutes later they let us stumble out of the store with a brand new Remington Marine Magnum 870 and 2 boxes of shells. Say what you will about our drinking problems, this is an awesome nation we live in.
@ariraquel45674 жыл бұрын
😟..I shop alot when I drink whether it groceries , clothes etc..😕😕😕🤨
@lordvalen81334 жыл бұрын
Not when he's sober. We all know drinking is a prerequisite.
@ignitionoffroad50284 жыл бұрын
I have been sober for 4 years. I find people are surprisingly respectful about it and tend to be interested and even commending.
@e.v.frederick35982 жыл бұрын
This video hit home. Thanx for posting. I am going on 6 mo. sober. Best decision of my life.
@ParklandFilms4 жыл бұрын
I've never really drank my whole life. Was scared to death as a 4 year old when I stayed at a relatives house and the adults all got drunk and were arguing and fighting. My parents were not there and they never drank. I swore to myself, that whatever caused that behaviour I would never do myself. Didn't take long to figure that out. Even in my teenage years I never drank and to this day have about a half glass of wine at Christmas and that's about it. Have watched several of my relatives die and have terrible accidents from the results of drugs and alcohol. If you need it so bad you can't go a day or two without it, you likely have a problem!
@bmo50824 жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience at 7 years old. I went to a friends house to spend the night and his parents ended up going away for the weekend, so his older siblings threw a big party. Lots of people were there, very drunk and beligerant, with a couple fights breaking out.
@Scrap50004 жыл бұрын
Takes a big man to admit to a problem. I'm proud of you
@RadhadaniteBabylonian4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. I am gratefully clean and sober since 3 March 1986. Life has been very, very good for me.
@JBesq4 жыл бұрын
Almost 7 years here. A day at a time. Life spiritually, professionally, physically and mentally, completely changed for the better. Miracle. No one ever missed a hangover. Always present and ready.
@Vera-xu3xw4 жыл бұрын
I'm 63 an decided to stop drinking 3 days ago. I use to drink a LOT In the last couple years a couple a day an every now and then 4 or 5 I just felt horrible every morning even after a couple. I know it's only 3 days but I decided to comment, it's like a contract now. Lol (I will miss the online shopping though) lol
@Vulcan_WT4 жыл бұрын
You are in charge of your life now.
@DONALD19514 жыл бұрын
Me about the same...2-3 every day and several at times...started to feel sick a lot.. 2 weeks now...not long but I don’t miss it whereas before I really looked forward to the end of day drinks..
@chrisgraves3104 жыл бұрын
I thought I could never get sober,but got 5.5 years sober now. It's a much better life! I'll never forget all those years " chained " to a bottle. Couldn't go anywhere or do anything without it.
@Vera-xu3xw4 жыл бұрын
Thanks I love hearing the personal stories it actually helps. I'm about 9 days in now I think. Love it, wake up early take the dog hunting, I stay busy all the time now.
@MazdaRX70074 жыл бұрын
Hey man, it's been 5 months, how did it go? Did you stop completely or occasianlly indulge?
@TacticalGoldfishy4 жыл бұрын
Hey, i just wanted to say, i saw this video 5 months ago and your breakdown of the improvements really helped me decide to do the same. At the end of February i decided to quit drinking, cold-turkey. The two huge impacts I saw from it are weight loss and heavy financial improvements ($300-500 per month). Today marks 20lb of weight lost since I quit (dropped from 209 to 189), so i decided to find this video again and leave a thank you in the comments.
@JordanBeagle4 жыл бұрын
"Welcome back friends" Always such a familiar greeting : )
@lewismoorhead18374 жыл бұрын
I fully agree. Something you always count on.
@agee77774 жыл бұрын
the sound of the can opening is making me thirsty.
@plusbonus11654 жыл бұрын
Yeah , it's a bit of a trigger .
@gettintheresafelywithpatf28694 жыл бұрын
Plus Bonus fine have a soda!
@Adam-xl3mo4 жыл бұрын
I kept thinking that too!
@alexanderdean50294 жыл бұрын
Get a lacroix lmao
@michaelgabriel17824 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@williamlockhart50314 жыл бұрын
This video actually brought me back as a subscriber. That may sound silly, but I respect your candor, humility and care to put a video, like this, out. I am in the same boat. I have quit for up to two and a half years at a time and wound up "justifying" picking up a beer again. I will pray for His strength, for you, and myself as well. Thanks again!
@aleck134 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that this trend is catching on. I stopped drinking back in 2016, the main reason being that I was just being depressed and feeling sorry for myself. The hardest thing was people asking why I was being a buzzkill and wouldn't drink with them. I'm 23 now (the legal drinking age in the netherlands used to be 16 but we all started a 14) and I still only drink one or two cups of eggnog with christmas and thats all. I hope you have a great sober life but don't forget to meet with your friends when they go out drinking! I made this mistake the first year and things can get lonely. Just go and have a laugh and a Cola! (they also make some very nice non-alcoholic beers these days as more and more people quit drinking) Thank you for showing people that stopping is an option!
@dswallrich4 жыл бұрын
Alcohol had an iron grip on my life from age 13 to 28, after having lost everyone and everything important to me, then i was done with it. I am now almost 64, have had a good life , with great love and respect shown me from family and friends. Good for you , life will only be better now. But always beware the goodtimes, as your gard will be down, and you may say what wrong with a few drinks. I have seen so many pick up right up where they left off with drinking .
@marvelousmike54883 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Wrangle, and great job! I stopped 3 months ago and started doing HIIT training and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. This was TOUGH, but I lost 25 pounds. I’m 51 years old and feel great. Aside from marrying my high school sweetheart, quitting alcohol was the best decision of my life.
@kxrsuperstar4 жыл бұрын
Cody... You’re a true disciple of Yashua bro. I’m convicted towards sanctification. I don’t go out to drink but I do run to the gas station and polish off 3-6 beers 2-3 nights a week and seeing the problem. Thank you for being so damn transparent and real.
@urbanmonkey484 жыл бұрын
I only have 2 beer max. I never go over 2. I find alcohol can compliment a meal or a event perfectly but I think you are doing what is right for you.
@joshuasteele51084 жыл бұрын
This is the key here. Some people can't do it. Im to the point ill only have a drink if the family goes out to eat and still no more than two.
@jonoedwards41954 жыл бұрын
@@joshuasteele5108 I love a frosty beer with a good Friend, I'm lucky cause more that a couple I start getting Reflux or a Headache. My Wife is a Chronic Alcoholic, She has destroyed Our Family and a few other Families with constant Affairs with other Booze Hounds.
@smiley30124 жыл бұрын
I didn't drink for a few years maybe 1 or 2 beers a year with family at dinner. Then I started drinking craft beer like 2 a night here and there. Now I'm up to 3 or 4 every night. For about 6 months now. And it has really started to affect my life. Last night I only had one. And feel better this morning than I have in awhile. Think I'll go back to how it used to be , much better life before.
@856shaileshkumar Жыл бұрын
It has been 40 days for me . I can see the changes already , having gone through christmas and new year w/o drinking . I am really proud of myself and whatever you said is all correct.
@ZSC0014 жыл бұрын
I’ve mostly quit drinking just because I hate hangovers.
@HillOrStream4 жыл бұрын
I've mostly given up alcohol because I see how it has messed up people close to me.
@ZSC0014 жыл бұрын
HillOrStream nothing wrong with that at all. First step is always admitting you have problem and your Family always comes first.
@mindartmovement89564 жыл бұрын
I hope this helps! I made an affirmation video for quitting alcohol, it has helped me and I hope it can do the same for you, good luck! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWWyloymicuEfdk
@fernandobarrera64404 жыл бұрын
Damn dude.. BRUTAL hangovers. Its a young mans game for sure.
@UkrainianBazooka4 жыл бұрын
I'll be 13 months sober on the 12th and it surely saved my life!
@alexanderdean50294 жыл бұрын
That’s great to hear. Keep it up man
@7s294 жыл бұрын
Just finished a beer, contemplating quitting for good. All it takes is a spark to start a fire, thanks for this video.
@mindartmovement89564 жыл бұрын
I hope this helps! I made an affirmation video for quitting alcohol, it has helped me and I hope it can do the same for you, good luck! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWWyloymicuEfdk
@slothboo094 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@joselara56944 жыл бұрын
Exactly. You catch yourself taking a sip of a cold beer thinking that it will be a calm day, next thing you know your 20k in debt, or fighting with someone and ruining relationships
@harrymatthewsmusic4 жыл бұрын
7s29 update? I just want to know about your progress
@c.s.s.17234 жыл бұрын
Did 5 day break for the first time in”forever” last week. I felt like a new man. Had a few beers over the weekend but it wasn’t the same. I think I have broken the spell. I finally feel like I can just do it. 😶
@andrewscott88924 жыл бұрын
If someone truly does have an alcohol problem and gets sober I DO NOT recommend having even one drink social or whatever
@plusbonus11654 жыл бұрын
Spot on .
@DJ-wr5jn4 жыл бұрын
If I have even one I suddenly head down a horrendous path. Last tuesday I stupidly gave in after three weeks sobriety and been trying to get off this bullet train of hell ever since. How do I stop!?! Its not enjoyably at all anymore, a normal strong man, I'm useless, can't provide, hate myself..feel dependent.. Anyone know.....please help??..desperate
@andrewscott88924 жыл бұрын
@@DJ-wr5jn find a local AA meeting tomorrow and GO
@Bzuchowski714 жыл бұрын
@@DJ-wr5jn I recently started going to AA or any sort of substance use group and its helped tremendously.
@xxFR124 жыл бұрын
i just don't get AA. tell me how it helps you
@ehender24 жыл бұрын
I started drinking alcohol when I was 13yrs old... I also stopped when I was 13 yrs old, about 3 hrs after I started. Three of us started drinking a 26 oz bottle of orange gin we thought was pre-mixed so we drank straight out of the bottle. I knew I was in trouble and started walking home about 3 miles. I think the walk may have saved me. I'm 76 now and swear that every once in a while I still seem to burp the orange gin up now and then.
@DOUBLE0SEVUN4 жыл бұрын
ed henderson I’m sorry but this is hilarious! It was that bad that you still taste it after so many years
@ehender24 жыл бұрын
@@DOUBLE0SEVUN I do not recommend orange gin to anyone. Yes, every once in a while I swear I burp it up and it takes me right back to the three of us sitting in a circle on the floor drinking straight out of the bottle that we thought was pre-mixed. It tasted good then.
@dustinkoehn68904 жыл бұрын
Even just a sip can send me back to my old ways! The insidious insanity of another drink (occasion or not) deceives many of us.
@jimfurr.34 жыл бұрын
God delivered me from Alcohol over 40 years ago! (I'm 68).
@mgal62344 жыл бұрын
Bless you both...trying to get sober now. Alcohol. Day one almost over.
@jimfurr.34 жыл бұрын
@@mgal6234 With Jesus all things are possible but not always without, at least, some struggle.
@malx415c4 жыл бұрын
@@mgal6234 its day one for me today. God bless
@mgal62344 жыл бұрын
Bobs Son I am on day 15. You can do this!!
@StabbinJoeScarborough4 жыл бұрын
God got me to quit drinking , by showing me marijuana !
@jonathanseifert594 жыл бұрын
Cody, I have to say you are definitely a role model in my life.. I just discovered your videos a few months back.. But as someone who has battled a drinking problem after over a decade in fire and ems.... I very much enjoy the wholesome lifestyle you share with your family... You're an amazing guy.. Keep it up!
@Hancock97ful2 жыл бұрын
I love it that u say "be discrete" it is so important! A friend of mine stopped drinking but he told everyone so..and even worse he made everyone who drank feel how bad he thinks it is..if he had been discreet everyone would have respected him for it
@lakebum62114 жыл бұрын
December 14, 2019 was 40 years for me. When asked at social events if I'd like a drink, I do say no thanks, I don't drink. Then I explain that I quit when I started brush hogging with new cars. If I can't control myself under the influence, then I don't need to be under the influence. My wife of 42 years says I'm a better person when I'm not drinking as well.
@BlueF3504 жыл бұрын
I just want to let you know that I am going on two years sober, and can agree with everything that you said, all ten blessings of sobriety. I had a major problem, ten beers per evening of life. The holidays my family is offering me beers, knowing that I had a problem, and I politely decline. I feel like I am letting them down but at the same time they should know better, I shouldn't have to give a reason as to why. Thank you Cody, keep up the good stuff as you are a mentor in my life.
@scotts14094 жыл бұрын
You’re not letting them down by being your best self. Hang tough it’s worth it. Eventually they won’t offer anymore.
@BlueF3504 жыл бұрын
@@scotts1409 Well said my friend thank you
@KimTebrok2 жыл бұрын
This was brilliant. So down to earth, realistic, no BS or psychobabble. I relate to each of the 10 points. We all have our stories. For me, you can only stop drinking when you REALLY want to.
@tombodet56424 жыл бұрын
I’m 44 years old and never tasted alcohol. Former Marine served oversees. Recently retired as a Police Officer due to PTSD. Currently working on keeping my family together. Thank you for your videos. Much respect brother.
@MrBigike764 жыл бұрын
Did you leave the light on for us?
@truekingz82014 жыл бұрын
OEF 2009...This video is what I needed.
@DJ-wr5jn4 жыл бұрын
Never tasted?? How is that even possible. Stop lying. So your showing up alcoholics who struggle every day to get their lives back!....Who does that
@Jeffreypope4 жыл бұрын
I’m just watching this. I’m with you on this. I’m. 41 yrs old never been drunk. Never drank a beer. I don’t think I’ve missed anything.
@anilbaboolal93892 жыл бұрын
This is a very honest video. It speaks volumes to your character as a man. I really appreciated listening to not just the information but to the straightforward honesty. Very uplifting. Thanks man and wishing you continued success on your journey. Great example of not just talking the talk but walking the walk.
@Moreofnothing994 жыл бұрын
Congrats Cody, I knew you would do it. I could tell by your post "Saying goodbye to an old friend". It was clear you did not want alcohol in your life anymore. I haven't drank over 15 years and I can tell you it only gets easier, till you realize you don't even think of it anymore. Great job man, Im truely happy for you...... God Bless