Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency + Codependent Relationships | Wu Wei Wisdom

[@manal8386]

you haven't a clue what this video did to me! it has my name all over it, this love addiction. and oh how much I cried during it, especially the bit when you describe hugging my inner child and reassuring it... it just released a massive amount of negative energy inside of me... I can't help but choke even now as I'm writing these words! a massive thank you to both of you and oh how lovely it would be if you can create a separate kind of meditation recording with exactly those words I need to tell my inner child to reassure it. A billion thanks.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Manal, thanks for your kind feedback and great suggestion for a guided meditation! You may also find this video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH6TnaCcd9F4aKc And here's a meditation you may enjoy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKPWe5WrmbeJirs We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a short guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/ Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Manal, you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Manal, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@elenacortez4637]

Thalia the same for me❤️

[@cerigj2874]

Me too Thalia xx

[@iamajoyous1]

I just watched this video because I have been in and out of what I have called an addictive relationship with a partner for the last 3 years. Right now, we are spending time together a couple of times a week and we have been communicating, sharing feelings and understanding each other. I have also been deeply and painfully triggered as I always have, all my life. It happens when I don't hear from him at times when I would like to. After watching this video and really taking it in, I saw myself as a little baby girl. I was 3 and I just kept asking my birth-mother "How could you leave me? If you loved me so much, how could you leave me? What is it about me that is so horrible that people leave me? I just don't understand. I must be so flawed and defective that no one will ever want me". Then as David directed, I took my child into my arms and just held her. I began to cry and I still am. It feels like a lifetime of pain and tears inside of me. I see now how much love and how much my child needs me. I see now that only I can give her what she needs. I see that this is my responsibility and I have everything I need to love her, to love myself unconditionally. This video is like a transfusion to me and I will watch it and love myself every day. There are no words that can express the level of gratitude I have in my heart to you David and Alex. I have wanted many, many times to find a way to end my life, but been way too scared to do it. Today I don't want to end my life. I am grateful for my life and the love in my heart for my little inner child. Your work saves lives. This is a fact. Thank you so very much.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Joy, thanks for your kind feedback and for sharing your personal story. W'ere pleased that you have found us and that we can support you on your journey :) Alex & David x

[@mirelladlima5278]

@Joy Colsun - I was in a similar boat like you and I received healing through inner child healing meditation videos.💗🙏

[@hallefine]

This!! ❤🙌🏽

[@nodybear]

I haven't even watched this video before reading these comments (I am planning to, I just wanted to share here first!). I just wanted to share that I relate to so much of what the Wu Wei Wisdoms teach as well as the stories of many who post here. What fascinates me is, I always thought I was alone in this world, but through David and Alex's videos and the Wu Wei community, I have found so much understanding and compersion that only someone who has felt how I feel could possibly know. The way that my bottled up feelings and overwhelming emotions are explained and processed so easily and with respectful compassion without enablement is exactly the kind of therapy I need. Ironically, I just found out yesterday that my therapist has elected for early retirement and will no longer be meeting with me. Rather than set me up with another counsellor right away, I asked for some time for me to figure things out on my own, as I study myself through the help of these videos and my own self knowing. I know there will be time for therapy in the future and it will be available to me if I need it, but even though I feel like I'm suffering greatly inside myself, I am coming to understand that I am causing myself this pain and only I can heal myself of this pain, so when my inner child speaks up, I have been watching a video from Wu Wei to help my adult me find the clarity to reparent my inner child in the moment so that I can stay in my shen instead of losing myself in my inner child's tantrum. I welcome feedback from those who have studied the Wisdoms here like I do and from David and Alex of course, I'd be honored.

[@scrappy3471]

This channel is amazing so glad i found it

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Scrappy - glad you enjoyed this video! Have you seen our latest video? kzbin.info/www/bejne/gae1Yp-Ml7ZkgZI We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

[@scrappy3471]

Wu Wei Wisdom thank you i will take a look

[@WuWeiWisdom]

@@scrappy3471 you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Scrappy, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@AlmaMariaRinasz]

totally! it is therapy and 12 step and contemplative practices all wrapped into one!

[@doveshelly]

Best therapy I’ve ever heard in 64 years!

[@TheWorldHopper]

I’m so grateful to have found this video. Thank you for this. I felt like you guys were talking to me. I have faith and I believe I can overcome this addiction! Thank you!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Glad we could help! You may also enjoy this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment!. If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

[@mily87ful]

The World Hopper 🙏 blessings

[@Gypsynyc10]

A recent painful break up lead me to some deep soul searching and for the first time ever in my life, I realised I had unsolved childhood rejection and abandonment issues and found the link between that and the type of people I was attracted to ( ppl I wanted to ‘ rescue’ ) …I have been doing self love and ‘ heal the inner child’ meditations …its been a very painful journey but i know I am on the right path…Thank you for the video . It resonates with me 100%

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thanks for your comments. I'm pleased that our videos are helping with your journey. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. x

[@philosophyjunkies6693]

Will need to book a 2 hour session with David to work through this one.

[@k-lysbliss8875]

Crying while listening to your wise and true words....Thank you for helping me wake up....

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Amor, we're pleased to hear that the teaching resonated with you. The Taoists say that 'tears are the first sign that the ice is beginning to melt'. It's good to be part of your journey. Alex & David x

[@k-lysbliss8875]

Thank you so much for your support and encouragement very much appreciated. I don't believe that I am alone anymore...what a relief :) Merci....much love!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

@@k-lysbliss8875 you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@mariahspapaya]

I’m glad I found this; though I wouldn’t say a love addiction is always necessarily comparing your relationship to others even if you are in one. I would say it’s multiple scenarios where you look for your identity in a relationship, almost looking for love as a form of escapism from yourself, you feel lonely and isolated being alone, or even if you’re unhappy in your relationship you stay due to fear of being alone

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Vegan Buddhist, Thanks for your comments, I enjoyed reading them. David

[@teresavalenza9609]

Yessss that is one way my addiction shows up. They’re not wrong about a lot of addicts experiencing a constant search or codependency, but I suspect those aren’t the only symptoms for some people. It’s such a varied, insidious disease. 😢❤

[@louiseberman7059]

I am so grateful I found you two!! I am currently having virtual therapy and you two have helped me more!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!

[@bugsea54]

Watching now and after getting off all drugs and medication I am left with the trauma of abandonment by my sisters who left me in Detroit, at 13 years old with a disabled brother, disabled father, severe living conditions. and a mentally ill mother while they went on to take care of themselves with no responsibilities . We lived in poverty and I still at 55 have dreams of my house falling in water while I am in it. Therapist claim they were too young to take the blame. That pisses me off. They still try to get out of taking care of my elderly mom to this day. Shame on them. But this video is teaching me how to love and receive love. What a shame for those of us who never ever had it. But I will create it today, I am so done being mad.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Connie, Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are very pleased that our videos are helping with your personal journey and emotional education. As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. With the information you have shared I would ask you to consider that realigning your perception on your sisters. Because it seems that they have shown their values and you have demonstrated yours. I know which one I believe to be more authentic, loving and truthful! Still being 'p. off' only keeps you connected to their energy and the history. How would your life be when you respect and honour yourself for what you have achieved and the care and love you have given to your elderly mother? If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ David

[@birthinfluenceembrace]

So many amazing insights. I always continue to listen to teachings on codependency even as I have healed a lot already. I always need it 😊❤ thank you for this 🙏 ❤️

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thanks for sharing!! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

[@FoReVeRDaNcE85]

37:30 mark until the end... WE needed this. Thank you

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thanks for watching and commenting - we appreciate your support! Alex + David x

[@lindseyhudson9176]

Wow! This is the way I deal with new relationships. Looking for that validation that a potential partner cares about me and proves their feelings to protect me from future rejection. Very powerful.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Lindsay Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! You may also find our Love & Relationships playlist helpful: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@SoulGlowHealing]

My life coach recommended me to watch your videos for my codependency. thanks for making these and I will re-watch them again and again

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Kaitlin We're pleased that we can help you! We have lots more videos on Inner Child work and healing here that you may also find helpful: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@Mushroom321-]

"Love ourselves more so we can love other people more" YEAH !! 😺😼

[@aramfadavi9211]

Watching this video was absolutely a treatment for me. I need to watch it once in a while to remember those words. Thank you so much

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Aram, thank you so much for watching our video and taking the time to comment - we appreciate it! Sometimes it is good to rewatch the videos so the teachings really sink in or when you need a little extra reminder or support - remember that we are here for you :-) If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x p.s. If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Aram, you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Aram we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@BigManTate7364]

Thank you so much for posting this! At first this was challenging for me to come to terms with the message here but the end part about the inner child was very gentle yet powerful. I've been trying to overcome childhood trauma, abuse, and codependency for a few years now and subconsciously waiting for someone else to give me the love that I felt was missing from my life. This was a very powerful reminder that the love I'm looking for is within me and I can start connecting with my inner child again.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thank you for contacting us. I’m so pleased our video has inspired you to do this very important self-development work. Well done, the journey starts here - I hope you will also benefit from the sharing and discussion that happens in our Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook group. David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Big Man, we hope you are well! You may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Big Man we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019 and thank you for all your support this year! Alex & David x

[@sandragriffiths1616]

I enjoyed your video on the inner child for some reason I turned away then sick so demanding on myself I just keep recreating the same thing over and over I'm trying so hard to stop it thank you for your information God bless you bye bye

[@jennybardoville5455]

It is so helpful when people talk from their personal experiences of being codependent, otherwise it sounds like a textbook

[@cup.cake86]

I need to watch this everyday until I learn to stop codependency and looking for outside validation

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Yaj Thanks for watching and for your support! We have now done several videos on the Inner Child and relationships that you may also find helpful: Healing Abandonment Issues by Healing Your Inner Child ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIeapKqwi7GSiqM Relationship Intimacy Issues and Inner Child Trauma ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXqXhYGed8Sfj8U Find Real Love: Inner Child, Mindset and Relationship Advice ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@teresareid5034]

I’ve been working on myself the last 2 yrs after childhood trauma I know I’ve healed from that but as you know it leaves you with patterns and I’ve been doing theses patterns for 40yrs and what you are saying about love addiction is something I’ve found in the last month and it’s really strange I seem to put they out to men my whole life I would reach out to any men whatever they were married in a relationship single not good men red flags men and I think what it is with me I’m crying out for love and I was in a place where o didn’t care where it was coming from it was just attention that o seem to need or thought I needed I’m now learning how to change this by taking time out having time to myself and separated myself from these kind of people x

[@barbaramassey3787]

We can say words like self love or better self nourishing, but what really drove the truth home for me....was the intense sincerity in Davids voice. The depth of compassionate feeling coupled with the cognitive content...wow...amazing...thank you!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thank you for your kind words and support Barbara |~ Alex + David x

[@theodoraroseti6429]

This is the best thing at the right moment in my life. Thank you so much!

[@Serenity621]

Thank you for posting this video. I have been aware of suffering Codependency for some time. This video resonated with me so much and gave a clear explanation of what Codependency is. The analogy of holding and cuddling the inner child is exactly how I handled my daughter having a tantrum. I instinctively sat there and let her release the tension and calmly said I am not going to leave you. When you are ready I am here. Eventually she asked to be held and although still crying gave her a long cuddle. As I'm typing I feel tears in my eyes. I later did something similar to myself and felt so much better within myself. I still have moments where my inner feelings come to the surface. I do my best to talk to my inner self to find what is actually going on in side to find the reason for the feeling. This video helped in a recent moment going through this process. I have pushed away people and relationships in the past and suffered low self esteem. I have recently started a new relationship, which is pushing my boundaries and my inner child. This video timely arrived, just when I needed it.... I will watch this video on a regular basis to remind me of what Codependency is, the inner child feeling insecure and how to handle and heal from the inside, outwards. Thank you again for posting this video....

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thank you for sharing your story! You may also find some of the other videos on our Love & Relationships playlist helpful: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@ariamanelle9822]

Wonderful and very insightful video. I am glad I found your KZbin Channel.

[@shreejashikhrakar8340]

I have wandered around for years feeling unworthy. Now finally I am realizing why I was doing this to myself. Thanks to this video. Knowing is one thing, but to work on it is whole another challenge. I'm still working on this each and every day. Some days goes really well and I'm able to love myself. And when tough situation arise, I feel incapable again, i unconsciously want to feel validated and thus become vulnerable to jump in relationships quickly. I really want to learn more on how to sustain this self love for life, and how to know when you are almost healed, and when I start giving love but I'm really not doing it to get validation.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Shreeja Shikhrakar, Thanks for your comments, we are pleased that our videos are helping on your spiritual journey. As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. I would suggest you concentrate on the Wu Wei Wisdom teaching that 'You are the creator of your emotions, NOT the victim of them!" Then you will begin to understand that ONLY YOU can create a feeling you call "validation". The same with LOVE, love is a description of emotion, therefore only YOU can create that emotion. Love is NOT a commodity that can be earned, given or taken away from you. We have many videos on our LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS VIDEO PLAYLIST that you may also help you on your journey: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Please subscribe to our KZbin channel and don't forget to click the BELL icon. David

[@yopiejanitra4343]

I just had very hard break up 3 months ago, my partner cheated on me (after 6 years of our relationship) and I realized I have a problem with codependency. Your video save me....I was literary crying when I imagine that I embrace my inner child. Thank you....

[@ianbirch6584]

Wonderful words that certainly apply to me. Overly severe maternal discipline and ‘ be seen but not heard’ and ‘do as I say not as I do or there will be trouble’ dominate my child hood memories and have left me needy for love. As a widower I would love another relationship and have started corresponding with someone but find the neediness rising within me again. You offer me a way to develop love of myself in a healthy way and I truly sense that this can only lead to a much healthier and joyful development of a new relationship. But much work to be done !

[@ianbirch6584]

PS. Do you have any hypnosis or guided mediations that could help?

[@VisualMind]

This is the most important and transformative video that I've ever seen. I'm gonna watch that over and over again until I fully believe and understand it.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thank you so much for your kind feedback - we appreciate your support! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/

[@mily87ful]

Visual Mind I don’t know it doesn’t have a million views

[@jtech711]

Watched this 4 times back to back!! Tears!! I love u both❤️🙏🏾thank u so much for being you’re true self

[@WuWeiWisdom]

We're pleased to hear that he teaching resonated with you! x

[@chewygal69]

I love you guys! This is a new way of looking at my codependency.

[@andaliamaureen]

I Wonder of love addiction could also be always hanging on to a relationship for fear of being alone. I always do what David said with trying to future proof any relationship I get into. I imagine all these horrific scenarios of how it would fail and I would be alone and I end up grasping on and then panicking at every slight change or separation. I am always imaginig how they will hurt me or leave me and it terrifies me to think of being alone so I jump from relationship to relationship. I just now decided to be alone for the first time in 15 years.

[@timothychavis3783]

Thank you, thank you, thank you! For a number of years, I have sought the knowledge and insights shared in this video recording, a recording I will watch over and over to ensure that I not miss and grasp and understand every nugget of knowledge and insight shared.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Glad it was helpful! Kind regards, David.

[@szigeti72]

Around the 36th minutes I started to cry. Suck an amazing video. Thank you

[@xw6475]

Your both are such a gift!! Thank you so much for the video, i literally got goose bumps when i heard these sweet, loving words from you both. For years i have been struggling with self love, self care. And i thought i could found this love from outside to save me and rescue me. When they left, i felt heartbroken and all my anger, frustration came up. I felt overwhelmed and hurt. Now i am going to love my inner child who i have been ignoring for years. With the tears of joy, thank you so much for you both! Stay blessed and stay safe! #wuweiwisdom #healing

[@francescabass1283]

Thank you so very much. I had the most painful yet most freeing cry I've had in a long time.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Francesca Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! There is a Taoist saying: 'tears are the first sign of the ice beginning to melt' :) You may also find our other Inner Child videos helpful: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@elinorehansson-boe7282]

Thank you for your teachings 🙏❤❤So greatful

[@joshuajohnsonjjcoolthings5288]

Hi, im the mom of these lovely two boys in the prifile. David said he grew up in a Christian home. He was told to love others FIRST. David says love comes from within. I agree with David ( even though im still definitely work in progress). Scripture says you should love your neighbor as you love YOURSELF. So is does come down to giving what we have. We cant give love if we don't have love.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Mom, thanks for sharing your story! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

[@xevmezias5227]

Thank you both so much for this video and information. Subscribed and excited to watch and learn more. Namaste 🙏🏼😭🕊️🕊️

[@bubbarogowski122]

Hi there, thx for the video. A year ago my wife and I had a conversation about our relationship, told her "we can focus on 70 or 80 % of the good things in our shared life or we focus on the 20 or 30 % of the lesser things in our shared life. It changed my relationship for the better to focus on the good things. Now I do understand that the focus on the 20 or 30 % is connected to my inner child wanting to reach for the perfect relationship which it would never achieve. Wrestling in a relationship to reach 100 % perfection means you want to mold the other into a perfect partner being the fantasy person your innerchild has been looking for in a distorted way. Your partner will never ever be good enough and you will always be unhappy thinking "see, no one really loves me", thats the sad part of it. Greetings from the Netherlands 😎

[@laurayates4033]

Amazing information! And such a kind delivery from you both. Thank you!!!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Laura, thanks for your kind feedback - we're glad you enjoyed the video! You may also find this video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH6TnaCcd9F4aKc If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.... If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Laura, you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Laura, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@permissiontoshine]

Oh WOW David and Alexandra.... I am writing as I am watching. So so many golden nuggets in here. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou. Your generous sharing as I pass it forward in gratitude, is having a bit of a ripple effect over here in Perth Australia - smiling - so lovely to see others watching you and reflecting back how that impacts on them as well. It's leading to some wonderful conversations, NOT TO MENTION how transformative I am finding it for my own life. Lots of GREEN LIGHT FEELINGS GOING ON HERE! Much love and joy to you both and all of the Wu Wei Wisdom community. Love Carolyne

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Carolyn - we're pleased to hear you are enjoying our latest video :-)... thank you as always for sharing onwards! Alex & David x

[@medusatorrez8068]

I have no words to thank you! I'm daughter of alcoholic and very codependent. Lots of abuse in my home growing up. What really made me cry is when You said you are amazing for coming thru adversity. I'm 33 and I never really sat down and spoke or even really thought of how amazing my inner child was and is. I can't keep looking for people to give love and safety to my inner child it is me! Thank you once again ❤️❤️❤️

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Madusa, Thank you for sharing your inspiring story. No more evidence is needed to show that you are awesome and an amazing person, WELL DONE! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ David

[@mily87ful]

Medusa Torrez 😌 yea

[@jocelynnnnnnn1]

So basically I understand this 100% and even shared a cry with my inner child- but basically my golden thread gets me down to dysfunctional family- so when I get to the point of self love I just am very unsure of what exactly self love is.. I know my shen knows however even my adult self feels a bit lost when it comes to I don’t really know what it looks like or is like for someone to take care of themselves and love and nurture themselves first so it’s hard to get that connection on what it would look like for myself personally when I’m kind of a stranger to myself

[@Kaleigh-mq7bl]

I believe putting yourself first is labeled as selfishness because more of society bases it as that. Parents do directly or indirectly for sure, but then society reassures that label of selfishness

[@AA-ex5nq]

i suggest to talk about dissociation and disconnecting from oneself as this common when you face traumas in your life, how to reconnect after long years of disconnection

[@Mushroom321-]

THANK YOU /ya"'ll!! This has brought such healing.. It shows how I get treated yet it shows how I can be aware so the cycle can be broken.. 😃 I wish I could hug you guys... 😊

[@haihai5293]

The best thing is that this is what I did yesterday 39:00 and I cried because my inner child was terribly neglected. Thanks for this video and being a "love addict" is horrible and terribly devastating

[@luciamamta]

wow, after I learn this, I knew that I don't have to be friends with someone to love them.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Lucia, yes this is true. Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We appreciate it! We’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@gaildavis73]

My newest addiction is listening to you two. I believe codependency touched something in my spirit. Throughout my marriage I’ve seen evidence that my husband and I were manipulators of each other. I believe it made us codependent of one another. Recently I’ve chosen to live a more meaningful life and it goes without saying ITS A CHALLENGE!!! I have not been happy for a very long time. Hence the discovery of your videos. I’ve always believed in the law of attraction but definitely reinforced listening to your words David. I look forward to moving forward 😊

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Gail Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it has helped you! You may also find our other LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS videos helpful: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x 🙏

[@Menopausecoaching]

This has me written all over it, it was so powerful that I got really emotional watching. I recently started on my journey of therapy and this has helped me a million times more than my last two sessions, really hit home to the route of the issue. I am always trying to future proof which leads to unsuccessful relationships. Time to heal, looking forward to watching more videos. Thank you both

[@suzannegermroth2968]

Thank you so much for this! I listen to a song regularly that connects my intention of self love with my child self... it's called "By your side", by Sade.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @suzannegermroth2968, You're welcome! It's truly beautiful to hear how "By Your Side" by Sade connects you with your intention of self-love and your inner child. Music has a unique way of touching our Shen spirit, supporting our journey towards self-awareness and peace. Keep embracing these moments that resonate with you. If you're interested in sharing or discussing your experiences further, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ is a wonderful place to connect with like-minded individuals. Kind Regards, David

[@lienswerts]

I am watching your video's for a couple weeks now. Today I decided to watch this one, I am so happy that I did. It was exactly what I needed to proceed my inner child work! thank you

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Lienswerts, thanks for watching and commenting - we appreciate your support! x

[@deborahlynnelentz6432]

Thank you so much! For this education, I needed this so much. I love that you two as the image of Parents, Father and Mother ;as what it looks like to me. Thank you. I have suffered all my life being confused with this innermost feelings and not able to grow up and be a responsible person for myself has caused me much pains. I was abused as a child in many ways, as a child I knew it was wrong, and I spent my life trying to prove it. Atuck in the maze, and yet not Loving myself and believes the I'm Not Lovable because I felt No Love from my own Parents. The embarrassment that others would notice that My Parents don't love me, therefore they won't love me Ethier and I deserve to be abused because that feels normal. I have been spending my whole life trying to figure this out, and still feeling the hurt, trauma deep inside. I shut off my feelings and disappeared. Unable to trust healthy good people because it felt uncomfortable. I needing to become healthy to feel comfortable and worthy of being Lovable. And so much more. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. Thank you so much for helping me to heal the child, Me.

[@deborahlynnelentz6432]

I am now 60 years old. I wish I had this education alot earlier in my life, I think I was doing it along the way, but I needed confirmation of what it is. The self healing, the Search for the answer, reading books, and having to feel the hurt, greaves the child. Yet still needing the Parent to help with the healing. I'm so Happy to know that I can be the Loving Parent and love this child. Learn how to love this Child.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi DeborahLynne Lentz Thank you so much for sharing your story. I enjoyed reading it and I’m sure it will act as an inspiration for those following their own unique journey. Why don’t you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. Please subscribe to our KZbin channel and don’t forget to click the BELL icon. David

[@sathyabhamadaly6315]

It is an excellent channel for understanding your inner child and how to take responsibility for your self and your relationships with family and friends. I love the Taoist philosophy incorporated into the psychology of understanding your inner child.

[@with2590]

Thank you so much for this video!

[@JK-iq4sv]

You both have changed my life; I feel I have gained a whole part of my mind that was off limits for so long. I cant recommend the inner child healing process enough. I have cried through so many of David's inner child meditation just " holding" my inner child it's one of the most beautiful experiences ive had and I know now as I will for the rest of my life that the source of my energy and everything I need is within. I still have work to do but I want to thank you for the freedom you've given me. I also want to thank you for modelling a healthy relationship and sharing that with us, it's good example to see what a healthy relationship actually is based on. Much love !

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Sarah, thank you for your kind words. We are so pleased to hear that our teachings have helped you on your journey and strengthened your Inner Child bond! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@angelaknox]

Wow only eight minutes in and I relate so much. The testing my partner, the pull and push...

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Angela - thanks for watching and commenting. We're glad the video has given you some insights. If you have any questions please post them here! Alex + David x

[@katiedreier6812]

Manipulation and self sabotaging are my inner child's favorite games🤦🤦 Your videos are so helpful! it's all making sense now. Thank you so much guys!

[@gracev1701]

Thank you so much. I will start embrace, acknowledge and LOVE my inner child.. this little girl who needs so much love and the feeling she IS worthy of receiving love❤.. Your words made me cry but it surely will heal me from the inside out. Thank you so much🌹

[@gennarociotola5008]

this video shoot straight into my messy moment .Yesterday I declared" I want to change my karma" and few hours ago " I wanted to heal my consciuosness" and I found this video. I have cried in watching it since pushed all the buttons of my actual and whole situation .I cried even more listen the reflection of my thoughts fears..attitudes..manipulation,addiction,thoughts about my parents and my inner child..everything fell on place .I am going to have a look to the website. thanks

[@darrelllarks4958]

I really appreciate you both. So much passion and so very interesting as it comes forth in a ways expreSHEN from you David and so very also from alex. D

[@tamstams3815]

My favorite people! Thanks for your work!

[@laurayates4033]

Love this so much. Thank you. ❤️

[@Fastpacedpete]

Great video - wonderful inner child exercise

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Glad you enjoyed it! Kind regards, David.

[@permissiontoshine]

Just fantastic... getting to the CORE of why WE 'FEEL' certain things. Loving distilling so many no longer helpful thoughts and behaviours. I do believe I am lovable... IN SAYING THAT DO MY HABITS REFLECT THAT? So so valuable. Squeellng piglets David!!! Smiling and even laughing - who would have thought after watching such an important video. You are such a wonderful team.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Ha! We love to hear your thoughts and observations, Carolyn. Glad the video is making you dig deeper into questioning any unhelpful habits. Remember: you are divine and awesome :-) Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Carolyn, you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Carolyn, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@michellebabian203]

I joined the facebook site. I have more to learn than I can handle through these videos.

[@midnightthoughtsss]

Thank you, really, Thank you

[@georgiakombakis4945]

Brilliant video. Thank you so much for your dedication. I will go back and watch it over and over to keep reminding that inner child that it’s deserving of love.Make it believe it was never its fault for not receiving it, but the circumstances of its parent’s lives.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Glad you enjoyed it! Kind regards, David.

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Such good content. Thank you. David, would you be willing to share more about being raised in Christianity and how you arrived into your present beliefs? Alex, your journey, too? I’d love to hear more.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Gwen, yes that is certainly something we could share a little more about in the future. Thanks for your suggestion! x

[@nyambatikwamboka7065]

I hear the concepts that you've raised. Many of them sound so wonderful. I however feel, though we need to find contentment in ourselves and love ourselves, this can never be enough. We shall reach a point of needing much more than what we can offer ourselves, because the fact of life is that we can never be enough in and of ourselves. This is where a relationship with God comes in. Having Him in our lives helps us realise that we are loved perfectly and when people are not enough because they fail us, we have God who offers unconditional love and presence. This way, we learn to give unconditional love and attention to others, whether they accept us or leave us! This way, we realise that we can never be alone because our Creator is with us! I think what people sometimes fear is the aspect of forever being an individual in isolation. The fact of the matter is, a life without God means that no matter how much interaction we have with others, we are forever in isolation because we have to experience everything individually. This is something that is so fearful and as a human being, we are too flawed to fully meet this isolation with contentment individually.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Nyambati, Thank you for your comments, we are pleased that you enjoyed our videos. Obviously I do not agree with your comments but I enjoyed reading your point of view. David

[@nyambatikwamboka7065]

@@WuWeiWisdom Thanks!

[@taitianarobson1593]

Omgosh. Thankyou for your videos. First time watching. I have major issues lol and I LOVE how you help to name these feelings.

[@cassandrakutner8005]

You have opened my world. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Cassandra thank you for your kind feedback - we're pleased to read that you enjoyed the video teaching! Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Cassandra, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@user-et7fn5jq9c]

This is great! Thank You!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Glad it was helpful! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

[@rayano7746]

Look, I love the both of you and I have learned a lot from watching your videos. But with this one I think we need to address there is toxic relationships like the Narc for example. I think some people watching this are probably in a narc relationship and their guts telling them to test the partner and the keep on failing.. we can’t just say just accept the person for who they are. And the same goes to codependent.

[@andreasvobodova2103]

Thank you very much for this. It is an exceptional work. I have been struggling for such a long time, read so many books but this is finally giving me the answers I have been seeking. So big THANK YOU! Also, your voices are very soothing. Thank you!❤️

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Andrea Thanks for watching and for your kind words! We have now done several videos on the Inner Child and relationships that you may also find helpful: Healing Abandonment Issues by Healing Your Inner Child ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIeapKqwi7GSiqM Relationship Intimacy Issues and Inner Child Trauma ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXqXhYGed8Sfj8U Find Real Love: Inner Child, Mindset and Relationship Advice ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x

[@patchampion2299]

Thank you, I need to watch this again, I definitely have problems in these areas. I worked on inner child work for a while, but then stopped! Not sure why, grateful for the video, and other things you may be putting out there.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our videos Pat - we appreciate it! Have you watched our other inner child videos? You may find this inner child video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH6TnaCcd9F4aKc ...and also this video on letting go of past issues: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGbSe4eraZ2UhJI ~ Let us know what you think! We find that for most of our clients struggling with their emotional health long-term, there are underlying inner child issues that need to be lovingly resolved. Be this is possible and can be very successful and empowering for the client. David & Alex x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Pat, you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Pat, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@JupGem]

I thank you both sincerely for this video. It comes to me at just the right time and the information you’ve shared is deep, strong and key turning. Life changing really. The examples, the Golden thread in breaking it down and questioning further. Brilliant it is too, the banter between you to open up and also make more concrete the subject matter. Thank you Most Sincerely for putting yourselves out there! Ps. I followed you on fb, and will share. -TJN

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi TJ thanks for your kind comments and all your support - we really do appreciate it! You say you follow us on Facebook ( facebook.com/DavidJamesLees/ ) - have you also joined our private Wu Wei Wisdom Facebook Community group? : facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ If you have any questions or issues you'd like us to cover in future videos please also let us know. Thanks David & Alex x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi TJ you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi TJ, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k - it also includes a worked example of using the Golden Thread Process :) Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@Shamilt3]

Ive had a pattern of having women that turned out to be damaged in my life and me behaving with codependancy. The last one ended a year ago, after 4 yrs of not very good, and she got married 2 weeks later 3 states away lol That one is full of redlights and Ive done about everything i can to not have some sort of meltdown every time i think she is near me or in town etc.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

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[@acertree1980]

@Wuweiwisdom - I'm really trying to process what I heard you say. However, I am a love addict and think your hypothesis of having a continuous obsession with raising a bar higher and higher is not my pattern at all. In fact it's quite the opposite. I've found that I subconsciously tend to choose partners with significant difficulties and then when I realised that they are an alcoholic or narcissistic etc I have to leave the relationship. It's been very traumatic and draining to the extent that I've developed an auto immune illness. I've been walking away from these situations for years and everyone I meet is painfully dysfunctional and unable to have a relationship or friendship. Where am I going wrong? What am I not getting?? I spend so much time alone that I think I may as well give up trying. I've been doing this for decades..... Why? Any tips would be most appreciated ☺️

[@Shadow-jf3tr]

Thank you!! I’ve been doing a lot of inner work and this just wakes me up to realize a lot. Makes a lot of sense!!!!i just wanna be myself without any fears and depending so much on others.its fucked up people put high expectations. We are humans we just need to accept our flaws and be supportive. But self work is the first thing

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Shadow, thanks for your kind feedback - it's good to be part of your 'wake up' journey! You may also find this video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3q1gWlopcZ6kKc If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Irene, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@sveniawagner6868]

How very helpful this video was for me personally unbelievable I have learned so much all of it resonated with me and makes so much sense I can’t wait to learn to love my I. Er child you gave me the tools and thank you !!

[@falcons9659]

I'm 2 years late on watching this video, but I'll still give my feedback nevertheless. I feel this video spoke personally to me, coz everything that was mentioned was right to a tee. Thank you so much for doing this post. You have changed my perspective and life.

[@martiep8637]

I agree, my partner and I had the same mindset… he would say “i want to know I’m not wasting my time…” I always kept saying I was scared. Finally he ended the relationship and I found out I’m codependent. He even said “I don’t have to pay for your past relationships…” but I’ve hardly dated. Still my only regret is that I didn’t enjoy the relationship because I’ve always believed that a man’s love can change without notice. I guess we both self sabotaged because we couldn’t ask each other the difficult questions. We couldn’t commit or communicate. We were too scared. We’re both very independent. I only know how to people please and I never wanted to feel like a burden. So I e collided.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

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[@SS-in1ts]

The first time I felt the feeling of abandonment amongst many other feelings that felt like a suffocating straight jacket in my mind was when I was a toddler and was taken away from my father (my mom moved to another country) and had no way of seeing or speaking to him. That feeling happened again after my first bf in highschool cheated on me. And ever since I’ve been unable to manage the immense flooding that happens when a relationship ends, when I get silent treatment and the times I’ve been cheated on. My dad recently died and I was on the verge of a mental breakdown when I would try to process his death because it was the ultimate abandonment, even more so because he didn’t try to get medical help, but now that I’ve mostly accepted his death, I had to face myself and realize that his unconditional love will always be with me even when his presence is not and that I must count on me and only me. It’s a deep, lonely and painful realization. I can’t imagine how older generations must feel when they’re the last few living amongst their friends and siblings. I’m not looking forward to those days. I’m learning that most of my dating life I’ve probably had codependency or love addiction although it didn’t start out that way. I was secure and comfortable in my first relationship until I was cheated on and I’ve been insecure ever since. I also didn’t know cheating was a common thing and that married people are also vulnerable to cheating so I now feel uncomfortable socializing comfortably because I don’t want a married or couples man to find interest in me. Which furthers my lack of connection with others that I need more of. I’d love to find a partner who’s excited to pull the wagon along side me, meeting someone like that has yet to come.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thank you for sharing your story with us. As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. But we thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest.

[@mariamkinen8036]

My sis stresses these to deprive me from my best qualities. Identity theft...am not addicted or codep. Time for you to get the message. I am a nice person. Determined.

[@The.Destroyer.Of.The.Worlds]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. These subjects are exactly what I've been wrestling with through out my life and just this week talked about them with my therapist and my friend with similar backgrounds with alcoholic parents. It is like a law of attraction to found your channel. Your way of explaining and describing such an abstract thing is remarkable. It helps out a lot to also learn self expression in those difficult conversations when the scared inner child has strong presence. Especially now that I am dating seriously an Englishman, but my mother tong is Finnish. Bless your hearts.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Luciana, thanks for your kind feedback and for sharing your story with us! You may also find our latest video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Luciana, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@The.Destroyer.Of.The.Worlds]

​@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you so much. After discovering your channel I have been following your videos and really started to study them by taking notes. I've been even speaking about them with my therapist. I express through painting the anxiety and all these deep matters, I'm going through in life and actively trying to overcome them. I'm planning to do paintings of your videos, to put on my walls for a constant reminder. I would indeed hope to see a video of anxious attachment style, which I clearly have because of my traumatic childhood. I discovered, that constant rejection and irrational violent behavior of my mother lead me to many toxic relationships, because I had been trying to find some sort of closure through similar behaving partners. Of course those type of people can never give the validation I was lacking, but it took years to see the connection. Now I have been working on that inner love, self acceptance, learning a lot about how to heal the inner child etc for few years. I have also learned I am highly sensitive person. These processes are long, since the abuse had been going on 2/3 of my life. Now I am finally past getting attracted by toxic people. But when I was finally also subconsciously able to accept interest of balanced, empathic, emotionally intelligent and secure attachment style type of person the dating did not go well. He ended up ending it by choosing his career and we are friends. However, I realized I have strong issues with my anxious attachment style. My cognitive side said "that's unlikely", "he doesn't seem that type of person", but my anxious side took over and kept searching and "finding" reasons to be worried, scared, insecure, suspicious etc. We talked every time and he always managed to calm me down. We never had a fight, because I never accused him of anything. I explained my worries and insecurities. It was amazing. But at the same time very difficult for me. I was not able to enjoy the dating. When ever we were together everything was good and we had incredibly fun times. But when I knew the weekend is about to come to an end I started already feel physical anxiety and when ever being separate I kept watching my phone and waiting for a message. And those times, my mind kept shooting irrational suspicions and once an insecure thought had come to prominence it kept looping in my head. Now I have been studying this topic and if you are able to do a video about it, I would truly wish to see one that goes beyond the surface. I realize the reasons how it has developed and what it is, but is there a way to learn more secure attachment style or am I going to be a victim of my past the rest of my life? I would like to progress in this matter before trying to date again in order to be more whole individual. With friends I am laid-back, trusting, humorous, relaxed, extrovert type. How can I overcome this and be just that with partners as well? Wishing you all the best and thank you for your time

[@WuWeiWisdom]

@@The.Destroyer.Of.The.Worlds Hi Luciana, Thank you for your Email. I would recommend you bring this matter up with your therapist because although you are now understanding the background, which is great well done! There is still a little bit of work to do around changing your beliefs concerning people you allow to get closer to you. But I think you have made an excellent start and being to take control of your life. I’m sure with the help of your therapist you will be able to finish the process successfully. I am pleased that our videos are helping you on you journey and please continue with your art work. Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support. David

[@txhypnotist]

Great content.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

[@leahjonze]

Listening to this has helped me Immensely in having patience with my partner. He has not done much inner child work. My question is how can the partners help their significant other. He does test my patience but I do explain these things to him and it is helping.

[@helinatessemahhyy]

Thank you ❤

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi, You're very welcome! Thank you for your support. ❤ Kind Regards, David P.S. Join our community for more inspiration and connection: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/

[@angelepapillon1487]

Awesome video, this duo works wonderfully to enable better understanding of the topic with Alex paraphrasing and asking pertinent questions. My question is, what if your inner child believed she was ugly?

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Clementine, I would ask her why she believed that? I believe she is an awesome, divine and beautiful little girl! Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x

[@tiaturnbullchampionscoachi9587]

Fantastic conversation!!! I am immediately starting to practice this!!!! Thank you!!!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Tia You may also find this video 'LET GO OF PAST HURT & HEAL YOUR INNER CHILD' helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKnQfn6JbtasedU Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment! If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/

[@s13slyder]

I love this video. I have a habit(choice set to default as you put it) of overworking myself past the point of exhaustion. I’d been thinking on it for the past couple of days, but this video helped me realize something. I think I work so much because it’s the only way I feel worthwhile to anyone. As if I wouldn’t be worth anything without the effort set forth through working. This helped me see that it simply isn’t the case. So, thank you!!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Tony, thanks for your comments. I am pleased that the video helped you on your journey. I little tip I would give you is stop using the word “I feel” and replace it with “I think..” “I believe...” or “I choose...” - doing this will help you separate your emotions from what is creating them. Then you can ask yourself the Golden Thread question “Why am I not worthwhile?” I think that you will find this is a lie based on situations and experiences in your childhood that need to be understood, resolved and the lesson learnt. You may also find this video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gae1Yp-Ml7ZkgZI If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos.... If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Thank you again for supporting our work. David

[@s13slyder]

Thank you for this!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

You're welcome Tony! :)

[@WuWeiWisdom]

@@s13slyder you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Tony, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@nickgironda4002]

Wow! That was beautiful! Thank you BOTH so very much!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Nick ~ thanks for your kind feedback and continued support! We're pleased to hear you enjoyed the video. If there are any topics or issues you like us to cover in future videos do let us know. Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Nick, we hope you are well and happy... we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@taylorpresley4604]

Thank you both again for truth and light. God bless you both. Thank you for bringing light and truth into a hurting world.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Our pleasure! x

[@Morariu94]

Thank you for making this! I found it very insightful and seemingly found it at the perfect time!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Glad it was helpful! Kind regards, David.

[@martinaszerencses4747]

Dear Alex and David! Im so grateful I found you!!! I have a question: what if I reach the core belife of a red light feeling, but I don’t know where it comes from? I don’t remember any exact situation, when this ,,trauma’’ happened...

[@marooned_space_princess]

New to the channel, so glad I found you! I would definitely be interested in hearing you both talk more about self-love, self-care and nurturing the self.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Momma :-) ....thanks for your kind feedback and video suggestions! We have a video on self-love here that you may enjoy ➜ kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3q1gWlopcZ6kKc We also run a free Facebook Community Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group (we're also running a member poll right now on which video topic we'll cover in next week's live video broadcast!) ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to self-love ('Ch'ang'), we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a short guided self-love meditation) - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/ Alex & David x

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Momma, you may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Momma, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@ashleymann2778]

Life changing. Thank you so much for this!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Ashley, thanks for your kind feedback! You may also find this video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH6TnaCcd9F4aKc If you have questions on any of our teachings please let us know or if there's a topic or issue you'd like us to cover in future videos do tell us as this helps us plan our future videos. If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we regularly add new videos!) ➜ kzbin.info We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Ashley, You may also find our latest video on the topic of love helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5CVc3-Hp9KVY6s - let us know what you think!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi Ashley, we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3O8n32JqK2ld9k Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019! Alex & David x

[@taylorpresley9887]

Excellent video, thank you so much!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Thanks Taylor! We have lots more videos on Inner Child healing here that you may also find helpful: kzbin.info/aero/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our KZbin Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ kzbin.info (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video). We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom, answer supporter questions and broadcast live Q&A and video teachings - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex + David x