WHO IS THE TOP AND WHO IS THE BOTTOM??! (Q&A)

[@set-tes4316]

To be a top is to know Power, To be a bottom is to show Courage, But to be vers is to embody Wisdom.

[@calvincurtiss6028]

Triforce of lovemaking

[@matthewnour97]

mind blown lmao

[@set-tes4316]

But I'm not a wise man yet, I'm just a courageous boy..

[@calvincurtiss6028]

Set- Tes Lol same

[@felixn.burgos2340]

Legend of Zelda: Fabulous edition

[@RyanandAiden]

You two are so raw, genuine and real! I love it!!

[@Lucidkilla]

Ryan and Aiden more like medium well

[@nichoffman6198]

Ryan and Aiden you watch KZbin too.. lol

[@nichoffman6198]

Marcus Maxwell lol

[@ann1ka_]

10:27 is what you came for

[@najialsubaie8675]

Annika K thank you so much i love you

[@cov.apples4384]

Annika K literally came down to the comments for this

[@NikocadoAvocado]

Versatility is the spice of life.

[@anapastori9876]

Nikocado Avocado EXACTLY

[@wyoruss]

yes it is!

[@shoponline831]

Nikocado Avocado flip fucking is so hot

[@ishy236]

NIIIIKKKKK!!!!!

[@gilly198]

No one,, as stated, asks any other couple personal questions!

[@HilltopFarmHomestead]

You two genuinely have the kindest hearts. Truly, truly two beautiful and special guys. You have something truly magical. Never let that go.

[@KnightofGascogne]

Let's get real. Everybody is Verse in a long term relationships.

[@ShinteiKun]

not necessarily. I'm originally versatile, but my partner is a top, so for the last 10 years I've been a total power bottom, which I don't mind, I prefer being bottom. I do miss topping occasionally, but oh well...

[@27Socrates]

Spirit of the Fox so true

[@shoponline831]

ShinteiKun you never feel tempted?

[@ShinteiKun]

oh, God NO! We have such a great thing going on it never crossed my mind. besides, I've been bottoming only for 10 years, I think I even forgot how to top XD

[@KnightofGascogne]

This conversation is becoming really awkward... I was generally speaking, so can we avoid judging specific people's life, especially if It's based on a youtube comment?

[@Alex-rg7nv]

I'm from Costa Rica and it makes me proud to hear that you love our country! Pura Vida!

[@chefjch]

I love your openness and transparency. The question and answer videos really help us to get to know you. It is an honor to be your friend.

[@kaceyb5961]

Your channel is so kind. I love watching you guys!

[@irishredbone8996]

howdy boys, good one; you guys have the 2 things it takes for any successful relationship; trust and honesty

[@volkrik]

I love you guys even more now!! I am a huge proponent of letting men choose whether they want part of their body cut off. That just makes good sense! Cutting babies with no medical need is unethical, but we as Americans look past it because it's tradition. But tradition doesn't equal correct! You guys rock. Thanks for your great attitudes and genuineness.

[@johannkieser5006]

You guys are awesome. Thank you for brightening our lives. Much love to you both from Cape Town, South Africa.

[@MrAwsomeman7]

You guys are a huge inspiration!! Love

[@fararobinson7699]

You are both so adorable! I just found you in a music reaction video without any relationship context and didn't realize you were gay but immediately hoped you were together. I was just ridiculously pleased to find out that you are a couple and now married. In a really awful week (and considering 2020, that's saying a lot!), you made me feel some joy and hope. Best wishes for many wonderful years together.

[@alshields7741]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom and experience guys. You're so awesome for sharing your truths. I'm looking forward to connecting with my awesome guy whenever he shows up. Thanks for highlighting my previous comment.

[@HaroldKelly]

I know my comment probably won’t be seen because this was from a while back, but I want you to know I love you guys. I really enjoy your videos and love your outlook on life. Thanks for being so open with your lives. Love you! Hal

[@icantbeliveitisnot]

I was at work when I got the notification, couldn't wait to watch and couldn't wait to thumbs up!!!! You guys exude everything lovely, positive, and REAL about relationships. ❤

[@royruckerjr.2160]

Chris is so cute when he tries to pronounce these names. Awesome Q&A!! Keep living guys!

[@ItsJustSohan]

I'm sorry guys. I missed that post on instagram. I saw that after a this video was posted. Sorry for not being the subscriber that i used to be. (the one watches your videos right after they were published...) Nice video again. It made my day. Thanks! love you guys long time!

[@greghirst3338]

Rock on and keep rolling. Life is short so enjoy every second. Cape Town!

[@kristyholt-brightbill9289]

You guys are great! Your positivity and such sincere love just melts my heart! 💗💗

[@ericmartin4580]

The two of are so enjoyable to watch. Thank you

[@brianhoward3947]

Me and my husband, have a age gap too. I'm 38 and he is 29.... been together 6 years and married for 3. We get along very well. So...I can understand where you guys are coming from. Love your videos! 😁

[@deancooke4664]

You guys are great! Love these videos!

[@TrameenaQ]

Love you guys!! You guys are my favorite!

[@calvind2054]

I’m 90% top and 10% bottom. There are men that I’ve been with that bottoming is OK. Some, no way. But never hesitate to please my partner however necessary. Luckily, we are compatible.

[@bluekinopio9390]

My friend is super flamboyant , and he’s strictly a top.

[@michaelharrison4286]

Great vid. You both are great. Thanks for sharing

[@tomoyo160]

Guys i didn’t stop smiling, watching you’re videos makes me feel comfortable ☺️❤️

[@enzomthethwa5861]

Now that I've seen Chris's photos of his young self, I can see his younger self in his older self now. Chris is beautiful! 😍

[@UnapologeticProgressive]

Y'all are so positive, love the channel.

[@Art_911]

As always, great to see your vids. ANd the positive energy you put out. Hugs from the desert!

[@chukanovich]

I just love the way Chris corrects Wyo's English and he doesn't take offense. ❤️❤️❤️

[@alisonschmidtcarson4547]

I think the other thing about the "top or bottom" question is that many heterosexual people think that sex is strictly penetration, which I guess I can understand why that would be the primary understanding for someone who has only been in a hetero-relationship. However, I'm a woman who has had sex with other women and in many of those cases penetration was not involved and, trust me, it was no less sex. ;) Also, I love you both and love your positivity.

[@none4530]

I love how positive you guys are!

[@NeichaUnagi]

You guys are such a feel good channel, I love it.

[@TraceyHiatt-or1vj]

Y'all are an awesome couple! Wishing you both all the best..A loyal fan in New Mexico..

[@skyshroudsylvan6022]

B-e-a-utiful! I love seeing couples being happy instead of subjected to what is the 'norm'.

[@davidkinney1381]

You guys are AWESOME!

[@grayponygt]

Yes to versatility! The best of both worlds. 😊

[@Mindlick]

Your souls are beautiful. Your love is so pure. Chris is NOT old!!! Lol

[@stevenweatherman7325]

"I just want to enjoy him." Amen.

[@brianlupo6586]

ok. so u2 are guys i can relate to. i mean, i watched a vid of urs 3 or 4 back, don't remember, but, when yall both were singing karma chamelion, i was like FINALLY! thank u guys soooo much for ur vids. and yes i subscribed. LOVE AND POSITIVITY ALWAYS

[@chefjch]

I love your Q and A sessions. Thanks for being so real. Love you both. Joel Hanks

[@pmagicpmagic1989]

ok buddy ! love your vids..will keep up. Thanks Paul

[@samuelglass6805]

12:41 - So strange to watch this now and see you guys tackle that question. In November, it will be two years since I nearly died from complications of a bad prescription drug. My husband is ten years my senior (he turned 70 last month), and people always assumed that once he got much older, I would be the one taking care of him. But once I came out of a coma that lasted nearly two weeks, and finally got out of acute care, the exact opposite happened. So you are so right - nobody knows what the future holds, so you can never assume that things will always go a certain way, because life can throw you curve balls when you least expect it.

[@Howiesgirl]

I agree with Chris... Adam Levine IS tasty!!! I love watching you guys. I'm an old, straight, married lady & I just love you two. You obviously care a great deal for one another. Keep up the good work!!!

[@arlosmith2784]

There are no guarantees. I was only 1 month older than my late husband Phil but became a widower at 63. Relationships are about caring and sharing. Age is just numbers.

[@cruisycai]

I truly HATE when people ask that question. If you are in a relationship, a true, loving one, there is no such thing as one only performing one position. Versatility is the best!!!!!!

[@TruthQuest4700]

What a wonderful dynamic you two seem to share!

[@DGP653]

Never get caught up in social constructs (top bottom, flamboyant, etc) straight or gay. Be authentic and and go with the feeling and what works 😊

[@robmullin1128]

Enjoyed listening to your answers!

[@dandotcom1989]

Yuck this video gave me the feels. Y’all are so cute. Love you guys! ❤️

[@rss3785]

you guys need to do an xtube video....wooofff!!!

[@bunkyman8097]

I would agree!

[@MrLourie]

Hi guys, great Q&A. I'm versatile also. Sometimes I like to take the dive, sometimes I bite the pillow.

[@Sdot87]

I've just stumbled upon your blog. Y'all guy's LOVE is so refreshing & honest. Fuck age gap. Man.... just imagine if the world didn't see color or age difference & all the other crap, what an amazing world this could really be by design!!!! New follower here for sure. I'd love to pick your brain & soak it all up. Thank you

[@radiokitten385]

Damn. This is the best answer I’ve ever heard for that question. It really doesn’t matter who’s on top or who’s on bottom. It’s also no one’s business to begin with haha. Love that saying too ahah different stokes for different folks. Is that how you say it

[@andrewmartin1005]

I’ve had a terrible day. This definitely helps me escape for a little while. Thanks for sharing with us. Btw love the stained glass in the background. Sending love from Ohio.

[@donrainesoh]

Not sure what part of Ohio you are from, but the weather sucked here in the Athens area. I was glad to see they uploaded as nothing was on tv.

[@harold2711]

Andrew Martin Ohio nice place.

[@panipani3066]

Hope you had many good days since 😊

[@pinkdiamonds9137]

Totally agree about circumcision! Here in Australia, non-medical circumcision at birth has been banned in all public hospitals since 1990. If you want it done to your child for personal/religious reasons, you have to pay for it to be performed in a private hospital or clinic - most people don't. My oldest brother was born the year it was banned and my father (who is American) wanted him to be circumcised after he was born, but luckily my mother and the obstetrician who delivered my brother, were able to talk him out of having it done because it is unnecessary trauma to the baby. I'm 22 and the only men I've ever been with who were circumcised have been middle-aged/older - it's extremely rare here, now.

[@mattakent]

You guys make me warm and fuzzy

[@nonino1644]

Sounds like a motivational video to get out there and live you best life. Travel, kids, work etc.

[@localuna4953]

Thank you for addressing the title question. I didn't watch this until now (6 mos after post) because of the title. I think it's a ridiculous subject, and nobody's business. I also have issues with click bait titles and will ignore them if spotted. I commented on another, recent, video regarding your filming in bed and in the tub, and said that I didn't watch this because I hate to see anyone (especially you guys) resort to using your sexuality to get views. It's great that you are open with your relationship, and many of your topics are relevant and helpful to other gay people. Another viewer suggested I watch this, telling me how you responded to this question. Love you both long time, looking forward to seeing where the future takes you.

[@pacificocean7361]

The pretty eye guys are back at it again💝✌

[@MARTINLOUISR]

im a mouth LOL JOKES. i think Versatility is is good. and yea its an awkward question. its so funny cos my aunty says "whos the girl and whos the boy in the bedroom" BAHAHA

[@samadams219]

Your aunty needs to mind her own business

[@elenasvidamivida2358]

I feel like that question is rude...it's like if they ask a heterosexual couple if they like vaginal or anal intercourse....lol wtf !!! Y'all are amazing together ....xoxo

[@kellypunteney]

I hate that question too! ....Great job with answers. No surprises..... but I thought maybe antiques would come up? See you soon. Hope we get a chance to share thoughts about Wyoming, travel, relationships and the future.

[@vonmorris5948]

I know that this video is older, but you guys should come to NYC!!!

[@texanrob]

I believe that the question inappropriate to ask such a personal question to any couple. This is Russ's and Chris's business and not the public's business. Love you guys!

[@chada-bombprince3375]

I love it when you guys make this kind of videos! Love you guys!😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘

[@dontymck]

I love just listening to both of you.

[@kanielagifford293]

I am in tears, I wish that I could have found someone to share my life with. I've had several long term relationships throughout my life but the both of you look awesome together.

[@toyoscio]

Nothing wrong with being alone

[@greylynn3762]

IM FROM NEW ZEALAND💓 and if you like hiking New Zealand has so many great amazing walks, I’ve done most of them! Let me just tell you I love where I live! New Zealand is beautiful!

[@kaylanewman3419]

Jane strickson Kia oraaaa Im from NZ too!

[@BigBoyyNZ]

Woo! 😂 Kia Ora Whanau

[@momo-bc6zb]

Hi Guys I have missed that q&a on Twitter My apology Please people stop asking to every gay guys if they are top or bottom. It’s not of your business!! It’s private... do you want a camera filming you when you have private affair with someone ? Do you want some people know what usually do in that case or this one You have to get private area a secret space that you feel only one who knows! Xoxo Bisous from Paris

[@Kbatl1997]

mo mo 👏🏾👏🏾

[@Lena-uh3ky]

mo mo totally agree

[@crappyaccount]

People just wonder. They don't have to answer dude. Chill; you're getting more offended than they are

[@harold2711]

mo mo I do, you are turning me on.

[@lalamoney7164]

Firstly, they told people to ask them questions, so any question is valid. Secondly, their relationship is placed online, so therefore people are able to criticize and want to be informed on their relationship, so if they don't want their business out there, then take everything down. But I love these TWO ❤ Keep on doing you both. Blessings to you both 🙌😊

[@mammatubbs4434]

I have to say the name of this video freaked me out.. I didn’t want to watch it because I think that’s a very intrusive question but I love you both so I had to watch to support you both. Xo love you long time

[@christopherkerry6426]

Great video guys. You’re both very handsome and entertaining.

[@FileStreamers]

Go team versatile lol !!!! I thought we had become unicorns because most gay men now a days either identify as top or bottom but im one of those stuck in the middle and its hard to find any gay men now days who is open to both, Not that im looking for anyone ive been in a relationship with my partner for 12 years now and he is 11 years older than me. Im 28 and hes 40 so i relate with you guys alot and enjoy watching your videos keep up the good work.

[@donrainesoh]

I hate when a guy says he's verse then when you have sex he only wants to bottom. Like wtf, could have just been honest and said you're a big ole bottom.

[@FileStreamers]

lol well im truly versatile I like both i cant have one with out the other some days its just one over the other but i really cant just live with one and not the other so me being in a relationship with a man who only wants to top or bottom just wouldn't work for me because im going to want to top some times and bottom others.

[@Chris-fe1kx]

Jonathan Hubbard how is it harder to find a guy? Verse is literally versatile, either bottom or top, you can practically sleep with any guy if you liked them.

[@FileStreamers]

@JohnnyThe9th! You can sleep with any guy but you cant get involved in a relationship with a guy who only prefers one thing and you as a vers want it both ways.

[@FileStreamers]

@Ron K Yeah true I feel like you should be open to both positions and be willing to give and take a 50/50 partnership

[@Rosa29]

You've nailed it - the title caught my attention 😁

[@matthewgallien77]

Dillion! Thank you for trimming the upper lip hair! You have a beautiful smile and the 2 facial features people look at/watch during conversation.

[@arielcordero]

Well... I think you guys are amazing together and I wish you the best.

[@coisalinda2424]

Love you guys

[@mackjay2]

You guys are the ONLY couple or single I follow on KZbin. You're both handsome and masculine...call me superficial but I like those things about you....but you're also good men and smart and interesting in many other ways. That top/bottom thing is too personal, don't answer it! And...Keep 'em coming - PS I'm with Chris on Adam Levine (he's so beautiful). ("Swedish bitch" LMAO)

[@donrainesoh]

You have nice eyes and are very handsome. Agreed, Adam Levine is gorgeous.

[@mackjay2]

You're right, I don't have the right to tell them what to answer. But apparently YOU have the right to tell me what to say.

[@azamabdilmajid850]

Damn daddy you too fine😘🔥🔥

[@emanuellm560]

mackjay2 Que bien te expresas..

[@candacedawson8537]

I'm a straight female with a son Dillon's age and a mom a little older than Chris I say this because I love you both watching you gives me hope that true love exists no matter the age.

[@Rubarb84]

That young guy is gorg.😳

[@PeaceLoveAndRico]

Which one is that? I have 30ish year old friends who look like both of them...

[@TheAncasterguy]

Both hot and sexy

[@adancer3592]

When I was 20 my sister and her husband were killed . I had to quit school move to a city I had no ties to no job had to beg to the landlord to let us stay with 6 kids grade school and under, including a 7 month old . I worked 3 jobs & sold jewelery I made on my lunch break to sell on the sidewalk . It was the hardest & best thing I've done in my life . I now have 16 grandkids doing amazing things . I always wondered if I was to strick with my kids . Until they had their own and I hear them telling them the things I said too them. And they thank me, saying uncle I use your parenting skills everyday. My oldest grandson is graduating this year with a 4.0 average is already taking pre med . If I died today I'm satisfied with what I have had the pleasure of doing . As a gay man having the experience I would normally not had . That being said I have no idea how I did it Just wanted to tell you if you want children. If I could do it starting with literally nothing, and if you really want too, go for it. Lots of kids who need loving parents Both of you would make great ones

[@OffspringGaming]

Art Silver Falls Art Woa you are a role model.

[@gayolyguy]

You men discuss authentic issues..having celebrated the 27th year of marriage..versatile meets the mood and situation. ..

[@shaedreamhook1224]

you said thems and it made me so happy

[@drewsmolly]

Love you guys!

[@averycomer9229]

One of the most unattractive things a guy can do when we first start seriously talking is ask, “Sooo top or bottom?”. Why is that such an imperative question to ask? I understand it in a hookup scenario but that’s not me. Y’all are so lucky you two have each other because it seems like all there is out there is the guys wanting a hook up and no real relationship.

[@AzDoll714]

maybe they don't want to invest a lot in a relationship if they feel like you cant be compatible

[@kittykatyoongi7153]

They are the cutest KZbin couple. Seriously.

[@brian52763]

I enjoy you guys so much, I am always waiting with anticipation, for your next videos! I hope some day to visit your B&B and the thing that I really want to do with you is cook. I am a train chef by profession and I love all the passion that you two have with all that you do! Don't ever change, the world needs more people in like the two of you! LOVE YOU LONG TIME! FROM YOUR BIGGEST FAN IN Rhode Island!

[@PaulMozdzien]

I love these guys

[@JessicaLynnC]

*love you guys, come to Canada! Xo jess*

[@davepalittle2454]

I luv to travel too. Went to Kotzebue, Alaska IN the arctic circle for a New Year's Eve party! Was -55f n the sun came up at 11am and set at 12:30am. Had to take a snow mobile from the airport. My then bf was in the military there. Was my fav travel experience.

[@scottvernon9413]

wow...you two..... just amazing...that comment about taking care of the older one.. when the younger one dies.... perfect answer.. never know what the future holds.... My bf is in the Colombian Marines.... bullets every day..... 36 years age difference.....

[@markmagana5050]

Glad Russ is not on the oil rig ...its dangerous

[@emmjay551]

You guys are great!!!😊

[@cloudysky2]

You two give me hope. I met someone without looking and I'm older like by 30 years than him and I have my doubts. You both give me hope for my new relationship to work.

[@GWTWTOO]

You two are so fantastic and I love watching your videos.

[@Trinacorn1]

Love you both long time. You two are amazing. 💙💙

[@theuniquedonna]

you’re awesome guys

[@nate8525]

Love your videos!!! Yall are so adorable 😍