thank you guests 黃宥嘉、作家H、林萃芬. Your comments are right on the spot for John. I was John's coworker during the pandemic and his divorce so I am very glad that this panel of guests has wisdom and realization of recognizing John's challenge of dealing with an unbalanced marriage where the ex-wife did not.
USA and Taiwan has different laws for divorcing. In USA, it has no fault divorcing law vs Taiwan is very difficult to get divorce if one party does not agree
TBH, it has nothing to do with their major in science or engineer; just whether they have compassion toward others or not. Makes me wonder the wife's claim of hubby's so-called depression has nothing to do with his illness, but more of lack of compassion and communication. Perhaps, his anxiety is from her demanding him to be as free as hers? Just a guess... As far as pharmacist in US, it is not as glamour as people think. Perhaps, high pay, but they are constantly under scrutiny of high demand, scheduling and not enough staffs to rotate. Bottom line he probably can't afford to leave country with the quarantine policy of both in Taiwan and his company in US. I know many critical workers are not allowed to go back to work when returning from a foreign trip. They have to quarantine themselves at least 14 days since returning. Isn't it Taiwan also requiring 14 days of quarentine in designated hotel and 7 days of self quarantine at home? That trip would take him at least 35 days plus two days of traveling. That can't be taken lightly when you are just a regular employee. Beside, as pharmacist, he can't work remotely...😕 It takes two to clap. It is rather sad, the kid is only 4. For her, she might be growing up in the family where she was told to focus on study only, and nothing else. So, the world evolves around her. Just my two cents. Namaste.
@callmeqi3 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed. Of course it takes two to clap. Never one side when come to relationships; in fact, any relationship.
@nikichimoto3 жыл бұрын
Agree. My guess would be she got into doing youtuber in Taiwan and asks John to give up his career and move to Taiwan
@sdla6903 жыл бұрын
When two ppl don’t love each other anymore, there re always plenty of reasons for breaking up
@lindachang7699 Жыл бұрын
It was exactly what happened. It was a one-sided relationship with no respect of John's perspective and feeling. God bless John to move forward with positive outlook, and I believe his persistence will to get him over her divorce manipulation.