My husband who I had been with for 20 years got very sick and spent months in ICU on breathing machines. I lived at Grant hospital in the ICU wtg room for 37 days at one point. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away one month before our 20 year anniversary on March 30th 2019. My house will never feel like home without him. We had 5 children together and our 16 year old son looks like him. Ppl say that it gets easier as time goes on, but for me, it's not any easier today than it was the night I watched him take his last breath. Idk if ppl actually read these comments or not. But if you did thanks for taking time out of your day to read this. John I love you and I miss you and I hope you're the 1st face I get to see when it's my time to go.
@keNzoM43 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family. You have my sincerest condolences. Close your eyes and breathe deep, as now spiritually your husband is more by your side than ever before.
@breanneberry12773 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss, I usually never read comments on songs I listen to but I clicked yours and read the whole thing and it put tears in my eyes, I couldn’t imagine what your going through and nobody should expect something like that to get easier but I no what you mean when they say it gets easier but I don’t think it would.
@breanneberry12773 жыл бұрын
You should listen to staind-something to remind you, it is a really good song
@CarlosMorales-hr4mt3 жыл бұрын
Just stay strong I miss my daughter every day so I understand how u feel every room in your house is a memory he would want you to just remember the good times
@anthonydavis45813 жыл бұрын
it’s all love sweetheart 💓 john hears you
@nelajnaebnit7995 жыл бұрын
My dad abused me for ten years. I was four years old when it first happened. He beat, tortured and humiliated me. He nearly killed me three times. I was bullied because I had to wear the clothes of my sisters. Three years ago my Mum committed suicide. Sometimes I don’t know how to breathe. But, I am here. I survived hell. To all those out there undergoing the same: never give up! You are not alone! There are so many of us. We are warriors! Please stay strong!
@eris56885 жыл бұрын
Nela Jnaebnit I Don’t know you but I Fucking love you and wish the best for u
@fafablog61525 жыл бұрын
we love you and you are a hero
@A1xh45 жыл бұрын
You’re so strong!!! I love you.
@MammaBean06175 жыл бұрын
Thank you and your a rock star
@yenanne61905 жыл бұрын
Godbless you. Stand for yourself. I'm praying for you
@kaylarose10813 жыл бұрын
"It ran in the family, until it ran into me." To everyone out there struggling with generational trauma: YOU CAN BREAK THE CYCLE. It doesn't have to continue through you. Find a therapist, find support, find books, find God, find friends who can help. Surround yourself with people who can push you out of the circumstances you were raised in. I grew up in an abusive house that left me with psychological and emotional scars, but I fought tooth and nail to recover from the crap that went on. I'm now married to a wonderful guy and we're expecting our first baby. This baby will be raised in a peaceful, nonviolent home, one where they are cherished and loved every day of their life. I know I won't be a perfect parent, but I determined years ago that I would be the link in the chain that would allow itself to be broken. The chain stopped with me. It can stop with you, too. I'm praying for you.
@andreaduncan38453 жыл бұрын
Kiki thank you..i pray the curse is broken !
@tiaramcneal3163 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your post! Stay mighty.
@heatherhigman11323 жыл бұрын
I was raised in an abusive home with alcohol n drugs n although im not in a household with alcohol n drugs I do find myself in a domestic violence situation that I cant seem to get out of cuz of financial n no support unfortunately from outside fam n friends, mean they say leave but where r they to help... n we r pregnant with our first his 4th but my first lol n hes already out his hands on me pregnant so I feel as though he doesn't deserve to b a father he swears he will change but his anger isn't only problem hes controlling possessive aggressive n a liar n a cheater not physically but through social media n I wanna leave n ive tried but he won't let me n he won't keave either. I never thought id find myself in this situation ever but here I am lol. I use to volunteer n help families n women in my situation now n I never try understood why they would stay never understood why my mom did but now I get it n I hate it. But I still care n love him n I feel guilty for tryin to leave... I know its crazy but I feel psychologically fucked in a sense. But bless u that u got away from it all n dealt with it. I thought I had to until I found myself with this one n he was so perfect too perfect to b true n I kept thinking that but we have known eachother from highschool n he had anger issues but never laid hand on his ex wife so I never thought he would me but he says he love sme so much I drive him crazy... once again flipping the blame on me. Im just so tired feeling bad n if I leave he threatens his own life and what not. Like its a psychological roller coaster that ive been drawn into like a maze n cant find my way out of. But so happy for u n urs. Best wishes n many blessings for u n ur lil one.
@itscoryduh5753 жыл бұрын
That first sentence man, that’s my mission right now
@kaylarose10813 жыл бұрын
@@heatherhigman1132 I was in a domestically abusive relationship too. Girl, you deserve to get out. You're trapped right now in a cycle of dependency and control and I am PRAYING you get out of there. You and your baby deserve SO MUCH BETTER. There is a man out there just waiting to treat you like the queen that you are, who won't manipulate you or make you feel crazy and who will NEVER make you feel unsafe. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. But please know that finances are no reason to stay trapped there. Is there a women's shelter somewhere nearby? You don't have to pay to use one and they can help you figure out how to get on your feet and take care of your baby free of this guy. Please, please, please take that leap of faith. You have such a beautiful future ahead of you but you have to start running for it.
@prittypandasmom630917 күн бұрын
Reading these comments 2 days after the second year of my mom’s passing 😢there’s so many of us sharing our pain, receiving love and encouragement… I’m just in awe that in all of our differences and not knowing one another, we’ll not just scroll by those feeling alone, we stop and relate and love on the heartbroken. It truly restores my heart and faith in this cold world that as a collective of strangers, we can still show love to one another when needing it. God’s richest blessings ❤
@ronharris341112 күн бұрын
Why is it that as real and apparently obvious as this comment is people choose ignorance a blindness to fellow humans? With all the knowledge and resources available to be prioritized and allocated "appropriately" there would still be pain and suffering, but not unnecessarily. Greed and corruption is rampantly out of control.
@peterj2666Күн бұрын
I love you
@peterj2666Күн бұрын
Coming up on 10 years. I wish I could say it gets easier man
@jssalazar003 жыл бұрын
My son passed on February 11, 2021. I miss him with all my heart. Life will never be the same without him. I love you son. I will meet you soon.
@gabbymitchell56903 жыл бұрын
Wow, I'm sooo sorry for your loss I'm praying for you.! Just hold on and as much as you want to be alone and push people away don't you need them just as much as they need you. You got this just keep holding on
@meljosephusmolijon97073 жыл бұрын
Be strong. ❤️
@amyclaire60023 жыл бұрын
My heart dropped reading this I’m so sorry for your lose I just came back from my nans funeral and this song is helping me I hope it helps u stay strong
@kristinac58243 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. Always here for you if you ever want to talk 💗 keep your head up
@Camishamaria3 жыл бұрын
I'm soooo sorry for your loss. This made my heart ache :( Keep your head up.
@jaded57893 жыл бұрын
The pain in his voice as he sings every line, got me in my feelings.. It's heartbreaking, yet therapeutic..
@latriciaholloway32282 жыл бұрын
You tube is just taking me through a musical therapy session
@kaseybodenmann36012 жыл бұрын
The best and worst song after you lose a parent/loved one
@mackenzieleigh65682 жыл бұрын
Me too 😌
@zoeyziva71642 жыл бұрын
I feel everything... It's so disheartening.
@edwincabrera23622 жыл бұрын
I told my ex if four years I cheated couldn’t lie to her no more lost the best thing in my life currently I feel so lost but I know I did the right thing idc how ya feel I shouldn’t be hurting but I am I love you Andrea
@ehopkins311425 күн бұрын
This song has me in tears. I'm literally watching my father slowly die, from cancer. It's so hard, pretending that everything is ok. I try so hard to be strong for him. I'm his only daughter/child. So I'm all he has, and vice versa. Idk how I'm gonna survive without him. Lord, I ask you to wrap your healing arms around him. Let him stay with me, just a little while longer. Amen! I don't want to be selfish. But man, does this hurt! I just want to tell him "I love you Daddy!" I'm just afraid he won't say it back, or will say "me too". God, help me!
@willhuffman525616 күн бұрын
Sending prayers and positive vibes yall's way🙏
@michaelluciano63366 күн бұрын
My God. Prayers for you.
@DragonAkasha6 күн бұрын
when my father passed this song was the only song that expressed how I felt and I'm listening to it now in that remembrance, its been 8 years
@papi40624 күн бұрын
Hey if you don't mind.. can I know what stage and type of cancer your dad's in? I may be able to help.. very familiar with cancer unfortunately. But I might still be able to help
@ineslironfarre90443 жыл бұрын
LYRICS Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mama, come here Approach, appear Daddy, I'm alone 'Cause this house don't feel like home If you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mother, I know That you're tired of being alone Dad, I know you're trying To fight when you feel like flying But if you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady
@elenawurzer80463 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@rw87333 жыл бұрын
Many thanks 😊
@cleidelima36013 жыл бұрын
Que música, que Letraaaaaaa 😍❤
@jinxx98073 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@itsme_austin62893 жыл бұрын
what is this rubbish
@estevanromero3633 жыл бұрын
My mother was my whole heart. She passed away on December 25th, 2020. Now I am as unsteady as I’ll ever be. I love you mom, r.i.p💔
@unrelentingf0x8043 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry I know that's hard try to keep your head up
@HeavanlyValentine3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I love you. Stay strong .
@rufarotalicjabangwe37613 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry You will get through this Stay strong xx
@stephanialee46453 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry I feel that way too it hurts, my dad passed away in the same date. Stay strong
@yadiracaruso96303 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kyliewaiomio68163 жыл бұрын
Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mama, come here Approach, appear Daddy, I'm alone 'Cause this house don't feel like home If you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mother, I know That you're tired of being alone Dad, I know you're trying To fight when you feel like flying But if you love me, don't let go Whoa, if you love me, don't let go Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold onto me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady
X Ambassadors - Inseguro Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, (unsteady) un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Mamá, ven aquí, acércate, aparece. Papá, estoy solo, porque esta casa no parece un hogar. Si me quieres, no te sueltes. Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Madre, sé que estás cansada de estar sola. Padre, sé que estás intentando luchar cuando lo que te apetece es volar (feel like) Pero si me quieres, no te sueltes. Oh, si me quieres, no te sueltes. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro. Agárrate, agárrate, agárrate fuerte a mí, porque soy un poco inseguro, un poco inseguro.
@tanyahart239611 күн бұрын
It's the fight when you feel like flying that has me forever hooked. It keeps me drug free since 2018.
@keissafespace69123 жыл бұрын
i feel like this really hits when your parents hurt you so much but you know that they've been through so much trauma and have their own things to work out and they don't know any better
@justingreen35573 жыл бұрын
Wish I could tell my kids how sorry I am
@devanxhi3 жыл бұрын
mhm
@paulazapata41873 жыл бұрын
My dad has being through a lot when he was a child, he practically raised himself, and he never did anything to hurt us, he doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs. When people do that it's bc they want to, there are no excuses.
@Angel_shawty_official3 жыл бұрын
Fuck this comment is everything ☹
@flortonizzo36513 жыл бұрын
you dont have to justify abuse, not even if they have trauma or they have benn abused or when they were little that was okay because that is wrong, abuse can never be justified
@izzywhitby89948 жыл бұрын
The pain in his voice just makes the song
@paigedodd19498 жыл бұрын
This song made me cry cause it remind me if when my parents were fighting and they devorced when I was 4
@erinrowe43388 жыл бұрын
I feel you. The exact same thing happened to me.
@nadiagpadilla8 жыл бұрын
+Paige Dodd same here. My parents divorced when j was 4 and this brought back the terrible memories so I feel ya
@beetsuri1788 жыл бұрын
The divorce papers were final on my birthday...
@erinrowe43388 жыл бұрын
My parents got divorced one day after my dad's birthday... and my dog died one month before that...
@tashakann2 Жыл бұрын
I’m in the fight for my life with brain cancer. Doctors said I should have been dead a month ago.. I’m still going praise Jesus. This song is helping me through some dark times
@ayahajslema Жыл бұрын
may God heal you
@jaylenabk Жыл бұрын
God gots ya ! ❤ be strong i hope you beat the s*** out that cancer stay blessed
@lifewithladya8481 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you❤
@JozietheTexasLegend Жыл бұрын
How are you doing?
@kevinruese9365 Жыл бұрын
You are a miracle , doctors are human and make mistakes , God is everything
@dylanwalford115 жыл бұрын
This song is the lyrical definition of that feeling where your chest hurts and it's just emptiness
@therealdoll34695 жыл бұрын
omg ik this feeling and i havent had it in so long but now i feel so broken
@therealdoll34695 жыл бұрын
@@sentinelrevolutionist9798 yesss i have so been their
@hopedrake8985 жыл бұрын
So true.
@foxyrhi73985 жыл бұрын
For me its a reminder of my child abuse.
@foxyrhi73985 жыл бұрын
@@sentinelrevolutionist9798 i hate that feeling ur throat hurt chest tight ur eyes are on the brink of tears im a childhood abuse survivor but its left its scars i now have cptsd and my life hasnt been easy since
@ariannacleveland4 жыл бұрын
The part “Im alone. Cause this house don’t feel like home”. Really, really hit hard for me because of personal reasons.
@peartdahurt4 жыл бұрын
I don't know what you're going through but what I do know is you WILL get through it. Stay strong and stay safe and know that you are Loved.
@sadgedoge78194 жыл бұрын
Same bro :/
@5ive4thelabel474 жыл бұрын
NAW FOR REAL SAME REASONS
@5ive4thelabel474 жыл бұрын
Naw for real same reasons
@brittanytully7393 жыл бұрын
Here, here... I’m just finding things out with my marriage, I was already dealing with depression and things going on in my life, myself. We never fought, we laughed and always got along. I feel so weak but have to bring strong for my three babies.
@god_chose_me24-7 Жыл бұрын
I used to play this song while in active addiction and now on May 26, 2024 I will be 2 years clean 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️ I was crying out to God to please keep holding on to me and not let me die I was definitely UNSTEADY at the time I will forever love this song
@angelagibson109611 ай бұрын
Keep it up wish I was in that place well done addiction is hard to crack I just need to work out how to crack it lol
@god_chose_me24-711 ай бұрын
@@angelagibson1096 The only way to do that is to say no to crack!! 😉
@14Daysin9 ай бұрын
@@god_chose_me24-7 crack is wack
@leenamohammed64379 ай бұрын
My children and I just lost their father (my ex husband / best friend) so drugs. I had to ID him today. Now listening to this is all I can think to do
@mistylosh18959 ай бұрын
Quitting is for quitters
@TheKingYnot5 ай бұрын
I just lost my sister. 38 years in life as adopted siblings. Ups. Downs. Both our families let us go, but we always had each other. I miss her. Life got to be to much for her. I couldn't be there. Pay attention to those you love and hold on close.
@mitchcve43365 жыл бұрын
My brother 27 overdosed and was put on life support, my dad later committed suicide. My mom scrubs toilets for a living. I feel every bit of this song. My mom's alone, my dad couldn't let go of the alcohol . May God put peace and comfort in the hearts of those who have been dealt pain and grief.
@leoflores38395 жыл бұрын
Mitch Cve stay strong if u need someone to talk im here :(
@annab.74285 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, you've made it this far so don't give up. :(
@bluebebleu5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry.. stay strong
@deagindraws57795 жыл бұрын
hand in there you can make it and if you you need to talk i'm here
@xyumixx17755 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah 29:11
@NicoleRandall-dg9cv Жыл бұрын
My beautiful husband played this song over and over before he died. He was beautiful, amazing, my true love. He wasn't unsteady, just sick, in pain. I never let go until now. I'm healed and ready. He would want that. God bless to all of you who have lost someone who felt unsteady.
@ryangodderidge524310 ай бұрын
❤
@faisalhayat50387 ай бұрын
Hi
@BelyndaPilbeam7 ай бұрын
🎉❤😊much love happiness and peace of mind
@Aliciae20096 ай бұрын
Praying for you❤
@annamoore89224 жыл бұрын
it hurts when someone is your reason to live but youre not theirs
@beno49364 жыл бұрын
Can't you be your own reason to live?
@squelch65734 жыл бұрын
Weak !
@lalafun16664 жыл бұрын
Squelch We have all been there don’t pretend you have never felt pain before.
@waseemzafar43444 жыл бұрын
@@squelch6573 shut up
@skywasmaroon4 жыл бұрын
you only have yourself, be your own reason to live.
@PwnzuCS16 күн бұрын
This song hits deeper every time I hear it.
@annaafonso86863 жыл бұрын
anyone else feel so broken that no matter how good your life is going you still feel like nothing can fullfill that empy space in your heart and your chest just never stops hurting?
@Kaylas20033 жыл бұрын
All the time i mostly try going to my room and when I go to my room I just cry and act like I'm ok when I am around my family
@avatar58113 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@monicaarlenealvarez20893 жыл бұрын
Yup!! :(
@tonyascheckel66213 жыл бұрын
I filled mine with Jesus.
@annaafonso86863 жыл бұрын
@@tonyascheckel6621 oh Ive tried so many times
@WendyAG3 жыл бұрын
Reading the comments in this video while listening to the song was truly heartbreaking. To anyone reading this, please stay strong! we don't know each other, but in case you need this: I believe in you. You can do it. You can get through it. You're strong enough. You're worthy.
@kierasaddleback45073 жыл бұрын
this means soooo much.. idk what to do anymore. i'm sooo tired of life, and everything, and i can't believe i'm typing this.
@rac05863 жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing okay.. Let me know what's going on? I care about you..
@mackiedon83003 жыл бұрын
Thanks for believing in me, i jus want u to know that u are an amazing person 🤗
@lukacolovic5723 жыл бұрын
Love and support to all!!!
@latoyawinter33963 жыл бұрын
Aww
@jinji2784 Жыл бұрын
This song feels like sitting and processing your emotions, and healing from the hurt at the same.. I'm in awe.
@lorep2535 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏻 Totalmente 🤝🏻👌🏻😌
@fourway9072 Жыл бұрын
tell me about it
@lainejohnson9094 Жыл бұрын
So true
@GaryRussell-dh7se Жыл бұрын
@@fourway9072eas 1:08 1:09
@Lulustime Жыл бұрын
Yes it is like thinking about what just happened it’s hard
@A·c·h·i·l·l·l·e·s·Last·Stand7 ай бұрын
When I was 23 I was with an alcoholic for 2.5 years and it was one of the hardest experiences I ever went through. You constantly think they're going to change so you stick around a little longer, only to be perpetually disappointed because alcohol is too big of a demon to conquer. This music video used to really upset me because I could see that being my future, but I kept denying it while wiping away the tears that flooded my room every night, praying he'd stop drinking. Im 28 now and have moved on with an incredible man who never drinks (neither do I), and treats me with so much tender lovingness and care. I truly have never felt peace like this before. This music video no-longer holds any emotional power over me, and instead I can watch it and say thank God thats not my story anymore. And it doesnt have to be your story either.
@raqllrz4 жыл бұрын
how a family has the power to destroy a person’s psychological, fuck
@berolaluoch95243 жыл бұрын
Very true
@mimiparker47763 жыл бұрын
Im crying right now
@kevonfiguera49973 жыл бұрын
Felt this one...
@davidgrimes42103 жыл бұрын
@@mimiparker4776 I love you. Regardless of your political preference, gender, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, I love you.
@julianiedziela46423 жыл бұрын
True...
@creepycannoli Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how this song has so many different meanings to people but it brings us together, it brings us peace, and it helps us through some tough times in life. This song will always hit hard.
@cjwrench07 Жыл бұрын
Its a song you can view from every main character depending on your own experiences. That’s the magic of music, every genre & era has its songs of pain, lust, loss, and love. Mozart even performed music specifically for house parties, and also about missing his (big bottomed) lover, that would be chart toppers today.
@gamer4l1f34 Жыл бұрын
Underrated comment!
@s0waveyy-_-338 Жыл бұрын
I love you for this comment
@christineallan1136 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@lisadinardo4640 Жыл бұрын
For me, it reminds me of God. I have been sick 25 years chronically. I want to fly, can't wait for when I get.
@ginuenmiller3 жыл бұрын
We are just all broken children in adult lives trying to make it okay.. I see you. You are doing a great job.
@clevelandbaby10092 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@kahoratangiwai34262 жыл бұрын
Well said on point 🖤🖤🖤🖤
@harryfowler84222 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@Capt_Rob_Frost2 жыл бұрын
Having been through alot, this statement is not an opinion. It is a fact of life.
@madisonburnett5642 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I needed it.
@danifermin22732 ай бұрын
I lost my dad march of this year, he is the best fsther in the world, everytime i'm with my dad i feel the safest, i have anxiety but never had anxiety or panic attacks when my dad is around because i know he got my back im so lucky to have that kind of love from my father. I miss him everyday and i have been unsteady and never been the same since he was gone.i love you dad someday we will see each other again.
@aoky91799 күн бұрын
I’m sorry x
@SiK_TxBomber873 күн бұрын
My condolences. Sounds like your father is and was a great man. I truly hope I can leave the same effect on my kids when I pass. But you must know, your father is always there for you, just got to a place you have the best of memories with him, close your eyes and talk to him. Think those beautiful memories you both had and never let those memories go. Someday we will all meet at those pearly gates of heaven. God bless you Dani. ❤
@FoxtechcodydunnАй бұрын
I use to listen to this song full of those dark thoughts wondering when I’ll break how much longer will I continue why I still chose to not act on my thoughts… today I’m over 8 months clean n sober and I’m sooo grateful I’m still here. Even if drugs &/or alcohol isn’t apart of your story there is light at the end of the tunnel, it may take a long time and a lot of hard work but don’t give up❤ someday you may look back and be so happy you didn’t give up 🥹
@LiskeDreyerАй бұрын
Well done! I am so proud of you❤ It's a hard, rocky road to get to the point where you resist those dark thoughts. Glad you chose the positive. It's a hard road to follow, but it is doable.
@connornicholas86289 жыл бұрын
X Ambassadors has this wonderful ability to make me actually watch and care about what goes on in their music videos, rather than just listening to it alone.
@tristenhamill75579 жыл бұрын
What is this video about?
@chrishalliwellmusic9 жыл бұрын
+Timed Escape try and figure it out, its not too deep
@tristenhamill75579 жыл бұрын
I get confused easily and tend to think into it too much
@matthewjenkins80139 жыл бұрын
check out kodaline there the same way
@matthewjenkins80139 жыл бұрын
check out kodaline there the same way
@0.0dots3 жыл бұрын
Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape...this song hits too hard. For anyone reading. I want you to know that you can grow and become what you want most. You can do anything you want with your life, you do not have to be that person they make you. This is your life, and as hard as it hurts you can do it no matter what
@constitutionalwrites59633 жыл бұрын
Feeling your pain was doing so good need to learn to think with the mind not my heart. Never get over what happened but the episodes do lessen as time passes. still healing the wounded mind 17 years later . Earliest memory's try to gorget. Forgiving was so hard. Thought at age 30 and being my own man would make it a distant memory. Still weaves through cracks and spills out from time to time
@marjorietesch45433 жыл бұрын
I would add it's ok to let go of the toxic people
@denidinmak81893 жыл бұрын
i hope you find peace. may your soul find light again.
@lexislife47713 жыл бұрын
i relate with the Growing up in a dysfunctional family with abuse and rape.. its painful and has scarred me
@Carterbluestang2 жыл бұрын
This was my husband's favorite song. He passed away 5 days ago at 6:24pm on 12-12-2021 unexpectedly. At the hospital, he took his last breath with 3 seconds left on this song. My heart is shattered. We were married for 26 years and we were high school sweethearts.
@jeremiahgigler46832 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss
@DG-wf2br2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry.
@tessav75532 жыл бұрын
My deepest condolences to you, such a beautiful moment yet so heartbreaking at the same time. Wishing you much strength to keep fighting and love!
@heatherspencer65032 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband also loved this song. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away on March 30th 2019 one month before our 20th anniversary. I will always cherish this song. I never left his side. Not even for one night. I slept) lived in the ICU wtg room for 37 days. I feel so lost without him. I'm not sure if I even know who I am without him. I spent my entire adult life with him. We were definitely soul mates so I know if there is life after death I will see him again one day. Until then I can see him in our 4 boys and daughter. I hope you can find your peace too. Thank you for sharing
@jthreefingers84452 жыл бұрын
@@heatherspencer6503 P
@NeyMessiFCB7 ай бұрын
Just saw them perform this live last night. I cried. Absolutely beautiful experience. This is hands down my favourite song.
@juic38847 жыл бұрын
gut wrenching feeling when your falling apart and realize you have no one to comfort you or at least hold you. my heart goes out to all those out there going through a tough time and feeling/dealing with it alone.
@davidgraff32547 жыл бұрын
Same feeling. I know there are worst situations than mine..So I continue to pray for those. I'm having a hard time right now...Friends and family are everything.
@crystalgrimm4097 жыл бұрын
thanks, that was so nice to post
@kristaward90227 жыл бұрын
juic388 I falling apart to. so much going on and the one that promised to be there forever, left! it hurts!
@rachelldaugherty7 жыл бұрын
juic388 just lost a friend very dear to my heart. sad way to go but he has peace and that's all I'd ever ask for him. reach out in your darkest hour there are so many admiring you and love you. keep your head up and your heart open. lv & respect. takes one to know one. we hear you. I hear you. 💜💔
@kylieb8037 жыл бұрын
juic388 me.
@hannahlynn1754 жыл бұрын
Hey ❤ It's okay to cry. It's okay to experience deep pain and sadness. Let it out. Let the tears roll down your face. But don't stay there for too long beautiful. When you're ready take a deep breath. Wipe those pretty eyes. You're going to be okay. Things will get better soon I promise. Whatever you're going through, it is only for a season. This too shall pass. I hope you know what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you know your worth, your value, your beauty. You're such a lovely human that no one else in this world can replace. You are important. You are needed. You are loved. So hold on a bit longer, okay? There is hope. There is purpose. You're going to make it through I promise. The light is just up ahead❤
@bulletprooffiend59204 жыл бұрын
That just brought me to tears. Thank you so much for those kind words to this stranger.
@brandonkelley40964 жыл бұрын
it really is
@sundunefeather94484 жыл бұрын
The only thing that got me to get rid of my tears, thanks dude.
@hoytm91724 жыл бұрын
@@bulletprooffiend5920 same
@Dear_Neptune4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for holding on to me, i was a little unsteady :)
@LiskeDreyerАй бұрын
This is my 'calm down' and 'recharge' song. Being ADHD, Chronic Depressive and Anxiety disorder warrior with an addiction to numb the pain, stuck in a dysfunctional marriage it gives me the strength to carry on daily. This is the bond between my baby girl and I, and we love to sing this song. Sadly she doesn't know the meaning like I do.
@halevalen87688 жыл бұрын
emotion incarnate! i lost my dad 5 years ago and this song brings out so much emotion in me... "mother i know... your tired of being alone... daddy i know your tryin... to fight when you feel like flyin" this line hits me hard, losing my father to cancer was hard...
@aulia79098 жыл бұрын
He is in a better place now... :')
@Isa1ahL338 жыл бұрын
Hale Valen I feel your pain, man. I lost my father 5 years ago, as well. It was from a work related accident. I didn't grieved much for him, but only because I wanted to be strong. For him, and my mom and sister.
@halevalen87688 жыл бұрын
Jonathan i did the same, i became the rock that everyone could depend on, i distanced my emotions so i could be their support. same deal... looking back i should have let myself fall apart too
@myrun1128 жыл бұрын
*FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!*
@teamsladam8458 жыл бұрын
I feel yaa cause My dad died too
@beyourself94683 жыл бұрын
Crazy how in a world full of people you can still feel so alone and unheard
@uniqueone81593 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💜😔
@Cookie_kuttr3 жыл бұрын
@@kyledortch7726 thong
@westbank11583 жыл бұрын
Sad but sometimes only u get u if u know what I mean
@teiagaw76633 жыл бұрын
Realizing you aren't enough sucks.
@jourybasamed17633 жыл бұрын
❤️
@keatonardoin45473 жыл бұрын
This song just hits on so many different levels. You're the real MVP if you're still listening in 2021. And remember always. You're never alone! Stay strong
@queenny47393 жыл бұрын
thats me ong
@thelostadventurer46843 жыл бұрын
Dsmmm why this comentó make me feel so good .
@nicolesiege8193 жыл бұрын
@@queenny4739 to/aa
@tally91663 жыл бұрын
Just been to the DC concert on Saturday. The played Unsteady. I cried through the whole performance. It broke and healded something inside me at the same time.
@Santiag02173 жыл бұрын
Thx bro I Appreciate that
@kurinkin29874 ай бұрын
I love the MV kahit mga 10-20 times ko nang napapanood. Feels like I can relate. I was raised on a household that does not express love to each other. Pinilit kong baguhin sa relationship ko yung sitwasyon kaso hindi na ata kinaya ng ex ko 'yung ugali ko dahil hindi ako malambing HAHAHAHAHA. Ngayon 9 months na akong single HAHAHAHAHA
@LiveLove4Amjad4 жыл бұрын
“If you love me, Don’t let go” I was saying this 1000x in the back of my mind .. waiting outside my Dad’s ICU room .. hoping that My father hears my appeals and stay alive.. he couldn’t . .. RIP my hero. See you in heaven inshallah.. Love you more than anything
@saleembassadien71444 жыл бұрын
Inna Lilla hi wa Inna ilayhi rajeoon. Insha Allah brother, may the path ahead be made eay for you.
@zkatt19594 жыл бұрын
This song also takes me back to when my mom was dying from Alzheimers
@longestname8174 жыл бұрын
Inshallah he pulls through. Just remember that everything is Allahs plan :)
@LiveLove4Amjad4 жыл бұрын
Saleem Bassadien Jazak Allah khaira 🤍🙏🏻many thanks for your kind words
@LiveLove4Amjad4 жыл бұрын
Kathleen Yorke may her soul Rest In Peace 🤍 we shall find strength in this life.. god will help us all
@abbychugden61253 жыл бұрын
I'm a mom. I just want to give you all a hug, tell you that you matter even though we don't know each other, and lift you up. You matter. Please remember that. There's evil in this world, but you are the light that shines through and makes it a better place.
@triciawalker35723 жыл бұрын
If I could love this a million infinity times.
@abbychugden61253 жыл бұрын
@@triciawalker3572 Love & good vibes to you too! Remember, a small flame, when joined by another, makes a bigger fire to light the darkness. ❤️
@triciawalker35723 жыл бұрын
Abby can we be friends?! I'm constantly singing this little light of mine to my kids. I truly believe we all have light in ours souls meant to shine for ourselves and to help others find their way thru the darkness or shadows.
@florencegosselin19243 жыл бұрын
that touched me. thank you so much.
@juneburke203 жыл бұрын
Heard that!!!
@SusanAraniecke7 ай бұрын
This song and especially the video was so relatable with my first marriage. I had 2 sons under 2 when my ex was at his worst. So grateful my current husband is wonderful and responsible and doesn't drink.
@JoeBonamassa-id4 ай бұрын
Hello 👋
@nightmeds33395 жыл бұрын
this song broke me to tears after listening it again in a show. it reminded me of the battles I had to face this year with cancer. not me, but the battle both my parents have been fighting. my dad had been in the hospital since january of this year and battles through stress, anxiety, and suicidal ideations because of the harsh surgeries. my whole family suffered from this and every day became one more day I thought I was gonna lose him. “if you love me, don’t let go.” those are the words that got me. I am unsteady. I want them to hold onto me because im unsteady. I love you dad, I love you mom. thank you for fighting.
@lizbethvargas69215 жыл бұрын
Wow I did that and it was a great depression for 2 years
@itdoesntmatteranymore35505 жыл бұрын
not reliable I’m sorry about your dad I hope that your parents are alright now...!!! I can understand you a little cause my dad had a surgery for his heart few weeks ago but now he’s still tired and his heart hurts him too i hate that I can’t do anything to help him and I feel so powerless.... when I’m with him I pretend like everything is going to be okay but when I leave I cry cause I can’t take it...!!! And I can’t lose him now I want him to be in my 18 birthday I’m still young and the problem he’s the only one who truly love me so I can’t lose him 💔💔
@loiseden35555 жыл бұрын
i feel for you whent through the same kinda things i cryed to this song but so true
@grubisfunny4 жыл бұрын
I know your life will never be the same, but I hope it's moving back on track. I'm not the most religious, but I'm a firm believer of god giving every person a plan.
@bigboi65384 жыл бұрын
I know this might not mean a lot but keep fighting i don’t know u but u seem tough pray brotha god is there for you
@bethschaad2282 жыл бұрын
Myself and my husband both struggled with addiction for years. This song still reminds me of standing in the kitchen when he was at his worst. I thought I lost him forever. Today we are years sober with 2 beautiful girls 2 cars and a beautiful house. I’ll never take a day for granted.
@testing389192 жыл бұрын
So proud!
@brittanyadkins14912 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your story so much ❣️
@lanaspringman12192 жыл бұрын
@@brittanyadkins1491 up.
@bmwenthusiast88152 жыл бұрын
🙏✊🏼❤
@powermoves50662 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏🏿
@tshepangnondula11853 жыл бұрын
"Mother, I know that you're tired of being alone" so odd how so many of our mothers are alone and lonely. It hurts to see them yearning for love from a husband and a father to her children for proper leadership and care.
@inanotherworld173 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when I discuss with my mother and she hurts me with her words I tried to remember this. She has been trough hell with my father when I was a child and somehow she make it until today. She made so many mistakes and she knows but also we are here today thanks to her so ... it's difficult because somes I'm so mad with her but at the end I know she is trying her best.
@JST033 жыл бұрын
There is no excuse for abuse or toxicity. You can't blame you doing it to somebody on someone else. Also Fathers too tbh. You have no idea how many Husbands/father's have to deal with that abuse not only as a child but as a boyfriend or husband from their girlfriend or wife, only difference is it goes far more unnoticed. Nevertheless I hate that it happens to anyone because it's truly unnecessary, and it's usually a cycle til someone breaks it.
@tomikab21243 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting that. Your thoughts are absolutely right. That was my mom her whole life. Mom's are so strong as they take on more than anyone will ever know. They hurt deeply yet they raise their heads up and take care of that family all alone if need be. I am so proud of my momma who carried scars and did her best.
@jamesestrada69923 жыл бұрын
Iamzoila_devine .... I love u baby ..dont let go
@celesteross24743 жыл бұрын
You are ABSOLUTELY right after 12yrs I'm done trying
@jesseamaya-dallas19 күн бұрын
the mama approach part got me... she's been gone since i was 11 and i've never cried this hard since that day.. im 29 now with two kids.. two babies she'll never meet.. all due to a heroin overdose. you tell me what 11 year old kid deservs that? not to mention she was only out 3 months after being in prison for 6 years..
@mitchellthompson4652 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my dad growing up. Was always taught to view him as the villain not understanding at the time that this is a sickness. He always worked and provided for the family, but drank himself into a depressive state until he took his own life when I was 13. True he could have made better choices early on, but once alcoholism gets a hold, it’s hard to shake off. Though people act crazy when they get drunk and determinate mentally over time, they are still people in the end. Any time I see someone struggling with any addiction I feel that sadness for my father. I always want to help, but ultimately they have to be willing to help themselves.
@Miranda-bq4ii2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes even when we want to help ourselves, we can’t. I don’t understand why.
@Wonderwonfer2 жыл бұрын
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders with a sweet soul. Don't change...the world needs more people like that. ❤
@maemeraki50052 жыл бұрын
😭💔
@xxchloejohnsonxx41482 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry :(
@ninamazzei86602 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry for your loss and your right it never gets easier and never will prayers for you god bless you
@mrsollyette9 жыл бұрын
X ambassadors have that gift to take you to another place, another mood for 3 or 4 minutes and that is somethings rare and beautiful
@andrewvenzon95239 жыл бұрын
This song is not that old
@mrsollyette9 жыл бұрын
So? I wasn't talking about that
@dwilliams1719 жыл бұрын
I agree. I was work crying 😢
@maloubernal92779 жыл бұрын
+Jess Mcwhirter not anymore time for radio spam
@briannasmith39489 жыл бұрын
+Gabby williams same here, the lyrics of this song have a really personal effect on me and just makes me cry.
@blackrooster83346 ай бұрын
Lost my two sisters last year and my momma this year, the sadness in my dads eyes, the house don’t feel the same
@mattthewbruce8445 жыл бұрын
Lost so many people I love because of my addiction 😞 thank God I am 4 years clean today and I'll never look back again!
@prettysmile865 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Proud of you
@humanconnectionflores5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations !! The view is always better looking Ahead then backwards.fight for you and reach out to those who care.and remember we're all just passing thru make it count.
@mernaraouf59675 жыл бұрын
Congrats dude.
@ross57635 жыл бұрын
Star Zombie congratulations! I hope you can go forever sober, but know it's hard. Good on you man!
@jstandish905 жыл бұрын
Congratulations mate, one day at a time.
@thandomkhonza33469 ай бұрын
This hit harder when you are going through the worst and no one is there to keep u steady 😢
@erika66515 ай бұрын
You have yourself. ❤
@theresawilliams12575 ай бұрын
Sometimes, yourself is everyone you have.
@georgegalvan90664 ай бұрын
When you come out the other side stronger having learned to embrace the unsteadiness
@theresawilliams12574 ай бұрын
@@georgegalvan9066 And if the light at the end of the tunnel is getting dim?
@lukascisar67403 ай бұрын
@@erika6651 Yeah I have myself till I lose my freakin mind, great freakin support really, like I didn't know that
@allenreed2389 Жыл бұрын
As an alcoholic, this hits home. Thank you for making this video. It truly shows our struggle. Much love people. Addicts and non.
@khatipeytonsplayclub7379 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@EmilyLloyd-v1r Жыл бұрын
love to u :)
@deepsouthlife8216 Жыл бұрын
Drinkin is the one think i cant kick, i dont let it get the best of me but sometimes the outcome aint so good but i have to keep moving forward
@lalyzachocolat8463 Жыл бұрын
😘
@grease_monkey904411 ай бұрын
@@deepsouthlife8216 i get that....unfortunately...
@landoncook4032 ай бұрын
So beautiful. He really has helped a lot with his music on bringing me back
@all.in.theory8 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad to suicide 5 years ago this week. he would have been 54 today. This song killed me when I heard it for the first time yesterday. I sobbed for an hour. So beautiful and so much truth in a few short lyrics.
@kiona918 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss 💜
@all.in.theory8 жыл бұрын
+Kiona Paul-Dedam thank you. 💛
@merle58928 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry❤ god bless you
@sophiaherleyy73828 жыл бұрын
+Amanda Hoffman (zombiesnbacon) Its ok to cry
@shaunmxky95528 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's not the people it just being unforgiving of themselves
@southerngirl6398 Жыл бұрын
When I was 6 years old, my dad was killed in a car wreck, 2 weeks before my kindergarten graduation. I will never forget sitting on the stage at the graduation, watching the double doors on the side of the gymnasium and praying for God to let my daddy walk thru those doors. That was in 1986 and it still hurts. Some wounds never fully heal, you just learn to live with them.
@zillowzillow6044 Жыл бұрын
God loves you and your dad is watching over you in heaven. Know that you are loved and you are perfect.
@christineallan1136 Жыл бұрын
Amen ❤❤❤❤
@tashiavanpelt Жыл бұрын
Oh my I’m so so sorry 😭😭😭💜💜 I’m gutted. I have a kindergartner and I couldn’t imagine that happening right now to her. Love you friend
@anitaenslow5020 Жыл бұрын
My dad died in a car crash too. He went over a 40 foot embankment because he was drinking. Lost my brother to alcoholism 11 years ago. My son is in his 30’s and also is alcoholic! My fair everyday is that the same fate will happen to my son and it brings back all the trauma from childhood. I will never fully heal. I could never heal until my son stops drinking.
@amandaporter2458 Жыл бұрын
You spoke the truth are my child
@elliecampbell16973 жыл бұрын
If you are reading this, I don't know who you are, but when you feel like you haven't achieved anything this year, I think that saying that you have survived 2020 is a big enough reward for all the blood, sweat and tears that you have put into it. And when you feel like no one lives you, I'm here for you xxx
@JoseRamirez-js7no3 жыл бұрын
Damn 🥺thank you really helped
@drewneutral3893 жыл бұрын
Amen 😤🙏🏼
@mkmllrc3 жыл бұрын
this means so much to me, thank you :)
@cyndygough41073 жыл бұрын
2020 was nothing. But on January 24, 2021 I lost my precious son. He was only 48. I really feel like I am being punished for being a sorry bitch. But my 2 sons were my life & now I only have 1. Yes, oh yes, I am paying my dues. Please forgive me, Lord.
@elliecampbell16973 жыл бұрын
@@cyndygough4107 I'm so sorry, I know that the physical and mental pain is unbearable when you have lost someone, but just keep taking one step at a time. I believe in you xx
@Cooperelaa01Ай бұрын
Omg this guy's voice how have I managed not finding them for so long I've been deprived
@brandonclark158 жыл бұрын
My grandfather recently passed. To be clear, I grew up living on the streets since I was 10. My grandfather couldn't afford to care for me, but did whatever he could to assist in raising me; went out of his way many times to be there for me. After getting off the streets, I followed his footsteps and joined the army, deployed, and have issues on top of issues, however, this song cultivates... feelings, and I sorely miss my grandfather. R.I.P. Howard "Buck" Clark, 1929-2016. May you and my grandmother live forever in the light and happiness!
@Nottoday10848 жыл бұрын
Brandon Clark may you find the light you need in your life.
@theminecraftbros22798 жыл бұрын
Brandon Clark nothing but respect coming from me
@The85F0X8 жыл бұрын
Brandon Clark as a vet, if you're ever in a bad place reach out and I will talk with you, no one gets left behind.
@brandonclark158 жыл бұрын
Thanks foxtrot. I REALLY appreciate that!
@sensgal128 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your pain and loss. Thank you and to all vets, every sacrifice you do and are making. I was able to see these guys in September at City Folk in Ottawa ON. If you ever get the chance to hear and see them live, do it. and when he sings this one, remember its ok to feel, its ok to cry, its ok to laugh, its ok to feel good.. and its ok to reach out to anyone healthy to keep moving forward. Music saves me. I had never heard of X ambassadors until Sept, but fell in love with them right away.
@batmanfanizationreborn60558 жыл бұрын
as soon as i heard this song i felt myself attached to it so hard. it hit me right in the heart, so moving, heart ripping...i experience a roller coaster of emotions when i hear this song, of everything good and bad i've experienced and ultimately i see the vision of what kind of person i wanna become
@2xZoomer8 жыл бұрын
omg this comment alone made me think... deep af
@anglassang8 жыл бұрын
right an I play this song so many times a day
@grainnedaly70238 жыл бұрын
I love it but I cry every time I hear it
@iainredman82728 жыл бұрын
awwww you're so cute
@shaynafrench57748 жыл бұрын
Towtow
@dianacmireles59034 жыл бұрын
Depression sucks... But being a mom with depression is something I can’t even describe 😢😢😢
@Breeology_4 жыл бұрын
I literally cry for help in silence when my child is sleep .. it’s sooooo hard but I try everyday! I just wish I had someone to unconditionally be there for me
@aubrimartinez53734 жыл бұрын
@@Breeology_ keep your head up your so worth everything your a great mother ❤️your doing amazing love your so worthy
@aubrimartinez53734 жыл бұрын
your amazing keep your head up your an amazing mother. your worth everything you can do it❤️
@dianacmireles59034 жыл бұрын
@@Breeology_ it’s not easy being a mom we have feelings too and that’s okay! I know exactly what ur going through . Ur child and god loves u soo much girll message me if You ever need someone to talk to cause I care 💗
@sparklelicious5984 жыл бұрын
God you have NO Idea how much this hit me. I'm a mom and it's so hard and now my 14yr old daughter is fighting Depression. Its soooo Hard. God Bless you an know you are not alone. Love you
@martynkaa6450Ай бұрын
The video is beautiful it depicts how easily it is to let yourself fall for the wrong person by making their flaws not bother you and where that leads. They always show us who they are we just don’t want to see it.
@martynkaa6450Ай бұрын
But it also shows the unwillingness of the problem person to evolve, adapt to new situations and challenges and grow with their partner.
@saturnsystem31674 жыл бұрын
"this house don't feel like home" that line got me edit: I've never gotten this many likes
@ilana54564 жыл бұрын
me too
@6.2_nightmare4 жыл бұрын
Same
@princessbrazilian4 жыл бұрын
you should listen "home" by three days grace, the lyrics is about this
@sarmaua14 жыл бұрын
i can relate to that as well. Stay strong my friend, there's a good place for everyone in this world
@lavernesimpson90274 жыл бұрын
Me too😢
@itsyourgirlamanda16242 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how many people come back to this everyday. This song is legendary 💕 2022 anyone??
@Diamondntheruff2 жыл бұрын
Yup right here✊👊👍it’s on my playlist 4eva…
@jamarismith53922 жыл бұрын
I listen to this when I feel depressed
@agnesratcliffe67602 жыл бұрын
Listening to this right now in my feels
@queennitra7.222 жыл бұрын
Right here!
@alyciananicole21632 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am 🙏🙏
@aashichitnawis66493 жыл бұрын
This song holds SO MUCH POWER that it enables a person to finally have the much-needed breakdown of all the things that they kept inside them while also empowering a person to fight everything and to believe JUST ONCE MORE, JUST ONCE MORE...
@braheemwalton73053 жыл бұрын
Facts I always cry Wawa discovered this for me cried at ATM listening to this literally buying drugs it saved me
@queenny47393 жыл бұрын
im crying rn while listening to it
@famelio12354 ай бұрын
I have listened to this song for a few years now but have never taken the time to read the comment section as I just listen at work. Your post hit me very hard! I will always remember this feeling. You and your family are in my prayers. I will light a candle for John in my church this weekend. God Bless you and your family!
@foxxyraldin8 ай бұрын
It's 2024, and this is the first song that has touched my soul since I lost my dad 4 months ago. Some pain never goes away.
@whodafukisthis7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for loss may you find strength to never let go but heal 💓 I don't know you but that doesn't matter with compassion
@gemalbest17 ай бұрын
Pain is sumthing that’s doesn’t goes away cuz it sumthing that u learn from grow from n eventually heal from.! Choosing to hold on to the pain is a choice as well.! Your dad isn’t gone truly, he with u everywhere u go, he’s in ur heart n wherever also whenever u need him he’ll be there for u.! Cherish n hold on to the good times n keep him close to u that’s how he will live forever.! Grieve n take ur time just don’t stay gone too long cuz ur father wouldn’t want u sad n lost over the pain of him being physically gone.! My condolences, it’s always tough losing sum1 very close I know the thing is tho in the end God calls us back cause our time is up n we served the purpose we was on earth for.! When we our done earth our true happiness is brought back to n all the suffering ends when we return back to God.!
@Khalessixtiffany7 ай бұрын
Me too. My dad passed on December 11th. This was our song.
@eshcadabaАй бұрын
So true. I learned recently that pain is proof of the love in equal proportions.
@dandra19911Ай бұрын
I also lost my dad 5 years ago after a life long battle with addiction. It never gets easier but you learn how to be stronger. Whoever said time heals all wounds is a liar. Keep pushing on make your dad proud
@rnwks20088 жыл бұрын
This song means many things to me... I had some really dark years with deaths, lots of drugs, suicidal depression etc. I turned to God and got sober and know I wouldn't be here today if I hadn't. The chorus really reminds me of God's unending love for me, even through all of the bad times and when I was unlovable. He sent me a loving wife that I didn't deserve who has shown me unconditional love and grace that I have never known. We just welcomed our 1st child last year (our son, Ian, which means "gift from God") and I am so thankful for the opportunity to become a husband and father. So, I hear the chorus from the perspective of my son as well - telling me he needs me to teach him about life, show him the right ways and never give up on him. I haven't had a song affect me so personally in a long time. Amazing!
@loganbloomfield72658 жыл бұрын
Good for you man!
@grantjones69528 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for everything that happened. But I'm glad you're happy now! :) I really love this song too.
@JM-gz9re8 жыл бұрын
Wow same meaning to me too..
@TheOrihuela78 жыл бұрын
amazing brother! im a veteran with so many stories i can relate too military friends, own and family, its such a heartfelt song, definitely good music. God Bless!
@heyheyltsaa11078 жыл бұрын
Amen!💕
@KatRiveria2 ай бұрын
Oh yea we are still here 😊this song will always be remembered and played ☺️it helps us get through some tough times we had or have in our lives,,,,,,,words can’t express how much we thank you 😌
@Bri0594 жыл бұрын
I lost my momma yesterday. This song hurts so much more.
@OfficialRobloxGaming4 жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain you are going through. Please just know that you will make it out of this in the end.
@shepherdgrey16564 жыл бұрын
My deepest sympathy to you
@tiaislam6454 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry 😔 May she rest in peace stay strong 🙂
@RainielPalacio4 жыл бұрын
ohh im sorry for your lost.. i know it hurts so much....
@lakarrawilliams87834 жыл бұрын
I feel u girl
@Mochikappa8 жыл бұрын
The pain in his voice broke my heart..
@luciportugal15488 жыл бұрын
This song brings me to my knees
@lyxiennetromp44298 жыл бұрын
me too it just hurts
@mariamelody3848 жыл бұрын
Me too😭
@anasosa67038 жыл бұрын
The life is a dream and dreams are dreams
@Mochikappa8 жыл бұрын
No, the life is a nightmare
@alinregmi Жыл бұрын
[Chorus] Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady [Verse 1] Mama, come here Approach, appear And Daddy, I'm alone 'Cause this house don't feel like home [Pre-Chorus] If you love me, don't let go (Hold) Woah If you love me, don't let go (Hold) [Chorus] Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady [Verse 2] Mother, I know That you're tired of bein' alone Dad, I know you're tryin' To fight when ya feel like flyin' [Pre-Chorus] But if you love me, don't let go (Hold) Woah If you love me, don't let go (Hold) [Chorus] Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady Hold, hold on, hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady
@malia6959 ай бұрын
"Dad, i know your trying to fight when you feel like flying" till the last breath 😢
@JasonJay-sq8xb3 күн бұрын
I lost my wife of 26 years suddenly at only 46 years old on August 12 2016 and this song is what I played on repeat hundreds of times. Her and my daughter just went down the road to a garage sale & when she pulled out of our driveway would be the last time I saw her alive. Our daughter was in the hospital with a brain bruise & some head trauma but thank God she doesn't remember anything because my wife was laying on my daughter when they got to them. She had braced my daughter before impact and left am entire hand print on her thigh that was there for about a month! It's been 8 years now, and although it is easier, I still think of her every minute of every single day! Love & miss you dearly Chelle ❤
@MisterWhatWhat8 жыл бұрын
I just got out of rehab this week. I was at Desert Hope for 28 days in Las Vegas. This was the song that helped me through the tough times when I finally admitted that I am an alcoholic. My husband is my rock. Being away from him and our beautiful daughter for that long was hell but I feel so much better now. This will be the first weekend without binge drinking, I'm ready to experience life without being numb all the time. Song/video is very personal.
@danielle.araujo8 жыл бұрын
This is indeed a good and beautiful song, just like you. You are so strong! You're an example for your family. I bet they are proud of you. Stay strong, good luck and God bless you. You can do it!
@cobblestoneman2ebowden3098 жыл бұрын
how bitches
@doinithard798 жыл бұрын
awd111980 I love your story! very insprational
@cobblestoneman2ebowden3098 жыл бұрын
waaa
@andrewnikolatos18918 жыл бұрын
Angel Williams ur gay
@jonathantiburcio88984 жыл бұрын
Dear person that’s reading this, we don’t know each-other but i wish you all the best in life.
@bongibalfour15534 жыл бұрын
Right back at ya Sir. May the universe lay on your table all that you deserve and more.
@yonatanrevah53234 жыл бұрын
Hope you have a great life dude. Love people like this
@audreyhogan82854 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jessi_jn4 жыл бұрын
Thank you🤍
@Littlelegswanderer4 жыл бұрын
I love you Jonathan ❤
@Nini-oh2ux5 жыл бұрын
When your heart is in a million pieces; and music becomes your escape from the world!! I'm a little unsteady!
@precioustorres26495 жыл бұрын
Keeping you in my prayers 🙏
@michaelgalaviz50985 жыл бұрын
Hold on, hold on to me
@joannasaadati88105 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re ok 💜
@Nini-oh2ux5 жыл бұрын
@@joannasaadati8810 Each day has a different challenge. I'm keeping a positive mind; as they say: the battle starts in the mind!! Thank YOU
@Nini-oh2ux5 жыл бұрын
@@precioustorres2649 Thank You so much #LoveAndLightToYou
@PimaCollegeLibrarian4 ай бұрын
This song is amazing and so cathartic. It really hits home for anyone who's been through tough times. The way it blends the lyrics and melody is just so powerful, making you feel understood and less alone. It's a great reminder that music can help us heal and connect with others.
@nickyr77862 жыл бұрын
My husband who passed two years ago listened to this song over and over before he passed. He would grab my hand and say, " I'm unsteady". Broke my heart. I love this song even though it makes me cry.
@sharonfuentes6792 жыл бұрын
❣️❣️🫂🤝
@douglasharris Жыл бұрын
@@Emma-re6vb so sorry
@timeababits1363 Жыл бұрын
I truly feel the pain my husband passed away as well,i got alone with twin daughters i would never let him go😢
@siboneypeltier2307 Жыл бұрын
Into thine hand I commit my spirit: thou hast redeemed me, O LORD God of truth.” Psalms 31:5 🕯
@FORTCOMMUNICATIONS2 жыл бұрын
We are lucky to have songs like this to help heal. Everyone is going through something you know nothing of, tread lightly and treat people with kindness. You are blessed
@ladyhandleradamsandler69 Жыл бұрын
"Dont be sad that it ended, be happy that it happened
@MizzKaitlin13 Жыл бұрын
I needed this today. I'm seriously struggling. Thank you.
@angelinevaldez90232 жыл бұрын
You know ...this song has a special place in my heart my and my husband would listen to this all the time I’d see the tears full up in his eyes he lost his battle with depression on January 21 2022..I’m hurt I’m broken I’m shattered we have two kids together but this song ...this song he held my hand and the pain in this mans voice I saw in my husbands eyes I tried my best to save him ...a part of me wants to blame people because of how he grew up because of the shit he went threw a part of me blames myself because I wasn’t always happy with him he struggled with a lot of things but this song brought a memory to my mind of when he was in the shower and sitting on the floor I took off my clothes got in the shower with him picked up his face and kissed him while crying saying I love baby keep fighting 🥺and now I have tears strolling down my face cause that’s one of the many times I did that I would wash his body when he didn’t have the strength ..I miss him I miss every part of him I have shirts with his smell I have his kids I have pictures and videos but ..I don’t have him and right now I don’t wanna believe this shit actually happened ...that he’s gone our son is 2 and a half and our daughter is 7 mo 💔and he loved them so much our son says his name ...my birthday just passed Valentine’s Day too and man it was hard but I did everything we would have done I love and miss him every second of the day ... his depression was like a cancer ...who loves you more then anybody ...I do 😔to those who are battling depression keep going you only pass the pain to the people that love you ..your not alone keep fighting live for your family anyone can die for them ...live for them too my husband wanted to be here I know it was a instant regret...he wanted to see us grow old and see our kids grow up ..fight ..fight to live
@izzybaba52302 жыл бұрын
Ma'am I know you don't know me but stories and experiences such as yours are inspiring to young people such as my self and hope you get to enjoy the rest of your life with loved ones around you before you head over to meet your lover in the next life....lessons such as the one you wrote makes me realize anything can happen so don't take things for granted
@heavenstone1392 жыл бұрын
I'm still 16 but I'm so sorry for your loss I can't imagine how hard that is.. I lost a few family members these last 2 months and it definitely took a toll on me. I'm so sorry.
@jaimewalker89212 жыл бұрын
Your comment was touching I’m currently battling with depression really bad but I try to keep going for my 2 & 1 year old baby boys but it’s just so hard so thank you so much for this comment
@angelinevaldez90232 жыл бұрын
@@jaimewalker8921 I know it’s hard I honestly for five years we were together since we were 17 years old we met in high school our senior year and I loved him since the first time I’ve ever laid my eyes on him since our first date I have his kids and I know how hard he fought to be here for them and I know he was not in the right state of mind I know he wasn’t thinking straight he would talk about seeing her son grow up and talk about walking our daughter Down the aisle he would talk about what kind of house we wanted and how we would want to build it it hurts my soul that I don’t have my person here With me with our kids our son wakes up and cries for him and when goes to sleep he misses him to our daughter knew him by his smell our son knows him by a picture his voice .. his smell and now I have to explain things I never thought that I would explain things that I have to learn and I never thought I would have to learn your kids they love you believe it or not you’re their superhero your sons look forward to seeing you come home every day look forward for that look on their face when you walk through that door I love that like the look on my son’s face when he saw his daddy come home from work they look up just pure excitement and pure joy and just wanting to melt in his arms it’s worth it to live you have so much to live for we were just starting out our lives together the way we wanted to the way we worked so hard to have it He was young he was only 23 I am hurt but I’m not angry I understand I want to be angry but I can’t I know What he went through I know what ate him up inside and I’m sorry that you even feel an inch of that but please keep fighting your kids deserve a daddy/mommy and you deserve to be here you deserve to give them a family don’t ever forget that my husband wanted that...you have that don’t give up And no matter what you’re feeling no matter how much you’re fighting you do not deserve to die You deserve to live
@angelinevaldez90232 жыл бұрын
@@izzybaba5230 thank you ❤️
@BrandonHyfield5 ай бұрын
My father spent his entire life trying to make a better life for us. When he passed in the icu , it tore my family apart but we have to keep going no matter the pain. Others deserve to be happy and that’s what I know he would want for our family. This song really hits home for me. Prayers for the ones that’s lost their way. It does get better!
@naeslife80275 ай бұрын
May he rest in peace ! Amen
@aviaibb36814 жыл бұрын
i am so sorry for everyone's pain down here in the comments.. hope everything's gonna be okay one day and you all gonna be happy :)
@revben4 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@powellmessiah14 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much
@jasavage70174 жыл бұрын
appreciate very much fam, all love to you❤️
@williamallen33234 жыл бұрын
Truth bro
@theseusization3 жыл бұрын
Gotta say they nailed the older and younger actors, they actually look versions of the same people, makes the video hit that much harder
@jonwills41043 жыл бұрын
You are not kidding. The scenes are so relevant too. Leaving the diner when theyre youngerr...compared to them leaving the house..spilling the salt and pepper and then the legos breaking..the necklace in the car on the rearview seems like the only thing that had to hold onto at one point. A moment that brough them together...but its hanging between them in the end. Such a great video and an even harder one to watch.
@nathanthompson71343 жыл бұрын
They probably are the same actors, these people have impeccable makeup artists behind their videos
@jaybayer36703 жыл бұрын
@Beans MAYBE the woman, but the man is a totally different human lol
@sophiapiper49789 жыл бұрын
I'm in a rough place right now, and this hit me really hard.
@Airline_Food9 жыл бұрын
Agreed, this too shall pass! keep your head up
@mozsanimates89309 жыл бұрын
+Sophia Piper not as hard as my parents jk its so good though!
@Mr02sunfire9 жыл бұрын
+Sophia Piper hit ye right in the dink?
@MelissaNiv9 жыл бұрын
+Sophia Piper *hug*
@wickedgrrly19 жыл бұрын
+Sophia Piper Hang in there, girl.
@desmondbrown77324 ай бұрын
I recently lost my mother, she was my mentor, my friend, my world. I came across this song; tried to hold back tears, but as soon as I heard "Mother I know your tired of being alone" the flood gates burst open, and it felt good to cry and get it out, Thank you X Ambassadors....Thank You!
@morgansyt3 жыл бұрын
“dad, i know your trying to fight when you feel flying” ... that hit hard ngl. depression sucks.
@morganramirez5103 жыл бұрын
When you find another Morgan that can relate😢
@morgansyt3 жыл бұрын
@@morganramirez510 hi fellow morgan
@morganramirez5103 жыл бұрын
@@morgansyt do you have a phone number or socials i already wanna be freinds and get to know you
@btstae68593 жыл бұрын
Except he stopped fighting and let go
@angietumanyan4 жыл бұрын
the whole lyrics of Unsteady Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mama, come here Approach, appear Daddy, I'm alone 'Cause this house don't feel like home If you love me, don't let go If you love me, don't let go Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Mother, I know That you're tired of being alone Dad, I know you're trying To fight when you feel like flying If you love me, don't let go If you love me, don't let go Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady Hold Hold on Hold on to me 'Cause I'm a little unsteady A little unsteady please don't ask why i did this i just wanted to.
@giullianarampinelli29364 жыл бұрын
My hero
@koffeekae15944 жыл бұрын
Why did you do this?
@koffeekae15944 жыл бұрын
Ok jokes aside, I'm not a native so I'm curious about the meaning of the line "father, I know you're trying to fight when you feel like flying"
@Jee_Kay4 жыл бұрын
@@koffeekae1594 search it on genius.com is a website with lyrics explanation
@apps34544 жыл бұрын
coz u r little unstedy😋
@June_bugsie7 жыл бұрын
I'm in a rough part of life right now and this song kind of helps me, I replay it and instead of things being rough it makes it go smooth...and empty. I don't like the empty feeling but it's better than being sad I guess. For every one feeling the same or even worse, heads up things will be alright, Bless you all😔❤️
@emeraldford57517 жыл бұрын
HannahThe SadBanana same:/ life sucks. Hope you feel better, if you wanna talk I'm a good listener
@christiandozier49067 жыл бұрын
HannahThe SadBanana stay strong
@triftonhayes45417 жыл бұрын
HannahThe SadBanana me to it's hard
@rebeccah72507 жыл бұрын
HannahThe SadBanana I will pray for you & everyone else going through a hard time. Jesus will fill the feeling😐
@LilyLullaby822 ай бұрын
This song means so, so much to me!!! It makes me cry every time 💔 thank you guys
@marshmallow77463 жыл бұрын
"I'm alone, cause this house don't feel like home" is when I started crying bc it really doesn't...
@Fiercewarriorwithin3 жыл бұрын
I started to break down upon hearing that same line. Beautiful yet sorrowful. Many of the words resonate with me due to some of the experiences I've had
@wendiraley37833 жыл бұрын
Don't give up
@casandrawood40683 жыл бұрын
Home is where u make it dont ever let yourself feel lonly cause ur alone abuse is a nasty nasty thing and can really distroy ur life dont let it keep ur head learn ur own worth dont let someone tell u what it is
@katrinabonfiglio13333 жыл бұрын
Same. Every time.
@nameless55483 жыл бұрын
Home is where the heart is.. for that is your treasure.. for what you treasure is where your heart is. YOU GOTTA KEEP ON KEEPING ON. ;)
@jordannoelmachnick78233 жыл бұрын
I am crying haven't heard this in years and it just hits different now that I am older and can relate.
@enigmaclipz3 жыл бұрын
Man same 💯
@amaris5943 жыл бұрын
same :/
@HealthySelfNThrive3 жыл бұрын
dude hard same
@joedw24123 жыл бұрын
Same
@tuelzalt3 жыл бұрын
Hits way different now... it was kool back then but now I lost my fiancé in May to Addiction at only 27... the words mean so much now. Me and the kids miss her everyday ...its hard to get thur tbh
@kroven0093 жыл бұрын
This song hit hard for me when I was living with my parents and my depression was at its worst.
@jazmynewortham28722 жыл бұрын
Same i dedicated this to them...
@xxlovebugsxxlove55482 жыл бұрын
Same this song help me when my depression keep coming back
@quietgiant4742 жыл бұрын
Even worse when your parents are gone and depression hits you. It hits 1000x harder when they're not around and you can't do anything about it because they're gone.
@loisbaxter46002 жыл бұрын
Parents cause depression a lot.
@nicholasbalkaran1142 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling
@rieskahleroux5241Ай бұрын
October 2024 anyone??
@BABAKITTZАй бұрын
You already know ❤️🔥
@LoveRay19880822Ай бұрын
❤
@Tev1876TCАй бұрын
Yh
@pgaming7100Ай бұрын
Stay strong buddy
@jarronedwards1634Ай бұрын
I need help!!
@scopelynx51708 жыл бұрын
Lost my dad to bone cancer, tried to convince my self he was gonna be ok but we all know I was lying to myself! Dad passed away in front of me. Rest in eternal piece dad, fly like an angel!
@jamesmckirdy41678 жыл бұрын
Frankie DaKilla sorry about your lost. I lost my friend in ATV accident
@aidanhosein98648 жыл бұрын
I lost my brother
@damianherrera10408 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your lose
@scopelynx51708 жыл бұрын
james mckirdy sorry for your loss, must've been difficult
@scopelynx51708 жыл бұрын
Aidan Hosein I'm sorry for your loss
@biancalopez21302 жыл бұрын
I lost my 8 month old son last year and this song gave me so much hope. I felt like I was losing grip and didn’t think I could make it out. Then one day my husband and I were in the car and this song came on. We both broke down and held each other. This song will forever be part of my life.
@HaleyBailey-is4ny Жыл бұрын
Slllaaaay 🔥
@allstat7117 Жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss. rip little one x
@davidrussell929011 ай бұрын
I'm very sorry. 😢
@SarahMoon-Sapp-wz4tv10 ай бұрын
We lost our 4 month old son to SIDS in 2019. It's a horrible club to belong to, but you're not alone. We're forever changed, but so far somehow we've survived. When there's nothing else, there's music to help me personally cope.
@jenniferwong453010 ай бұрын
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost a grandchild last year and didn’t think I’d make it. I grieved for my daughter, her husband and myself. Losing a child is an unbearable pain. I was gravely ill months afterward and had a near death experience. Our consciousness, your baby’s consciousness, continues on without a single second of a break. I no longer fear death, and I know with 100% certainty that you and your child will be together again. I wish you peace and healing 🫂❤
@SuperPhantom19905 жыл бұрын
To everyone dealing with hard times I love you all, be strong
@nikolaibeliski13095 жыл бұрын
Jose sotelo thnx bro
@bellswhistles37775 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@kingzach70815 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@punzalanmariefers.17885 жыл бұрын
Thank you :(
@kathrynanderson76675 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I feel like I’m drifting away from my best friend and the only comfort in my life and it’s all my fault just because I have blooming anxiety and no one gives one even when I say I need to get homeschooled etc, and my life is just always so shitty! :(
@jenconway608419 күн бұрын
This song says it all everything i feel and have felt almost all my life
@datruth98133 жыл бұрын
When you've been through childhood trauma and you're fighting to just be a normal adult..But so many don't understand
@ashleypettus77503 жыл бұрын
i felt this. it’s so hard to just be normal.
@datruth98133 жыл бұрын
@@ashleypettus7750 So true..Wishing you all the best in life - Hugs-
@ashleypettus77503 жыл бұрын
@@datruth9813 thank you. wishing you the best as well. ❤️