Xenophobia as an American living abroad

[@lindsaymishaw4341]

When my husband and I bought our home, we got a side by side fridge with ice and water dispenser. As an American, I’ve never had one and while growing up I always thought my friends were rich if they had one. How many jokes I heard from my mother on law about how the American just has to have this big fridge….when the truth is it was her Italian son that really wanted it 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Aelffwynn]

Oof. Sorry about your mother in law being like that. I hope your husband has corrected her on how she speaks to you, as that is his responsibility.

[@lindsaymishaw4341]

@@Aelffwynn agreed, but she didn’t mean anything malicious by it. I think it was because it was something so different than she’s ever experienced, it must be because of the straniera and not her Italian son choosing to be different

[@CVTinPhx]

Don't let the wankers win! I have been SO excited to see your renovation as it comes along! I am also very interested in what it's like finding and working with contractors in another country. Those heifers can pull up their Pampers and waddle away if they don't like it.

[@cm_mb]

Best comment, ever!!😂

[@mellie4174]

American living in France, yes the xenophobia is strong. Had it in hospitals and with doctors. It ruined my health

[@dod2304]

I "liked" this but I don't mean I like what happened to you at all. I love France and especially the language, but we know that France is very much known for believing they're superior in every way possible. LOL

[@MsChiccie]

I just had this in France too, yuk!

[@Cat-sw3jn]

I'm French and I have to say having good HCPs is very hit and miss here (not that I don't believe you've experienced xenophobia - I am sure you have). My son is autistic and I've had very mixed experiences in the care he's had so far. My daughter needed a major surgery last year and we went to a children's hospital in Paris and the care was top notch. Made the whole horrible experience a lot easier. Having said that, I gave birth to my two children in the UK and I am so thankful for that because I only hear horror stories from my friends and colleagues. I can't imagine what it would be like for an American giving birth in France.

[@lynnetteross995]

Oh Kacie, you and Dario do whatever you like . . . it is your home so nobody else's opinion matters. It seems to me that those who tend to be critical on any form of social media, are just showing their jealousy over something someone else has that they do not have for themselves. It saddens me that there are people in the world who cannot be happy for others. If they do not like something that has been posted, they should just ignore the post. Negative Nellies need to learn to hold their vitriol. Just read and be uplifted, by the Positive Pollys.

[@beckyjohnson4702]

I was just coming to say the same thing! Jealously creates such hurtful comments coming from others.... the comments still sting, but you just have to continue living your best life! Good luck Kacie and Dario! And please know that there are many more of us rooting you on than those with negative comments ❤❤

[@Taleri]

I saw that @dearmodern had a really good idea of what to do with the long narrow bathroom and made a short about it. He would be a great resource if you wanted additional ideas/help during your renovations.

[@charnestours1948]

Tom Ford, born in Austin, Texas, was the Creative Director of Gucci, for 10 years. In his first two years at the job Gucci sales increased by 90%. Who says Americans don't know anything about style? I am sure it is hard, but I would try to ignore the haters (and the jealous).

[@alessandrom7181]

Tom Ford Just fixed marketing..big deal. As If Gucci or Versace or Dolce and Gabbana had the need to hail Americans..lol

[@katherineburtt2502]

Obviously share to your comfort level, but I’d be excited to see how it ends up. (Btw I’m not sure if you saw DearModern’s response to your questions about bathroom layout, but it was genius).

[@SheilaR.08]

Was that the one with the long, narrow bathroom where he moved the tub to the end by the window?! I somehow missed that it was her video he stitched. 😂

[@xchemicalxkilljoyx]

I saw that! He did such a good job!

[@manarsdiary]

@@SheilaR.08yes

[@ivylovesrunning]

Comments like this just show that this is a problem with people in general on the Internet. If you can't say something nice, DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL!

[@lokicooper4690]

It never ceases to boggle my mind that people are incapable of doing that. It would be one thing if it was actual constructive criticism, but it almost never is. It’s just rude.

[@dod2304]

@@lokicooper4690 I think even constructive criticism is "iffy" if someone hasn't asked for your opinion. Ya know?

[@lokicooper4690]

@@dod2304 True. I do watch a lot of channels where people do ask opinions. Constructive comments are always appreciated. I guess that’s why I think that way. But, yeah, people should just keep it shut if they don’t like something. It’s not like they’re going to be living there…

[@Victoria-_]

IK

[@carolynbraunius1914]

I fully support keeping your private life private. Thank you for sharing as much as you do! We don't need to know everything really.

[@Babyduck-s7q]

I feel ya..as an American that moved to the Netherlands, I can't seem to do anything right. People are going to be aholes in every country, sadly they tend to be more vocal. I'm excited to see how your place turns out! Especially with the kitchen, because I can only imagine how excited Dario is to get the chef's kitchen he has always wanted!

[@Aelffwynn]

I can never decide if I'd rather people be upfront so I know who to avoid, or if I'd rather people keep their mean thoughts to themselves lol.

[@Babyduck-s7q]

@@Aelffwynn 🤣🤣.. that's fair. I think it was easier in the States for me to know who to avoid, too many red flags without them needing to speak. I truly don't understand the need that people have to say horrendous things to people they don't know, but, I also know people are pretty brazen behind a keyboard and wouldn't dare to say a lot of their hateful rhetoric to anyone in person, unless it's someone they see as weak and they've got all their buddies with them to help.

[@dod2304]

@@Aelffwynn Oh definitely I'd rather they keep their opinions to themselves. That's called manners and it helps interacting with people and going about our days much smoother and less stressful.

[@Aelffwynn]

@dod2304 well, I always try to have manners. But sometimes it's hard to tell if it's worth trying to build a friendship with someone when they're so polite you can't tell whether they actually like you or not 😅 Ideally there should be a balance, and people should be both kind AND direct. But all of us err on one side or the other.

[@zoe4215]

😭 I was really looking forward to seeing your updates on this! Please don’t let the bad apples ruin this for the rest of us! We want to be part of this process 😍

[@cherylkavanagh3387]

Kacie, your supporters out here would LOVE to see the renovation of your new apartment and the before and after pics. Having said that, I totally understand why you might not want to expose your new home (and yourself) in that way, and I respect your decision if you choose not to do so. P.S. Going to Tuscany next year and cannot wait! ❤

[@dod2304]

You can always make some posts "comments turned off" can't you? Or, what do you call that, the owner of the channel can "mute" the person. They can see others posts, but nobody else can see theirs LOL

[@mathildebernard6494]

I would love to see how you would renovate the apartment. Always find it very interesting. I was so excited when you showed your new apartment

[@lilyawoodburn]

To be fair there's a LOT of content out there of Millennials completely gutting historical properties and ruining their unique charm (FunkyFrogBait has a great video about this) but that's NOT an excuse to shit on anyone doing a renovation! So sorry you and Dario are dealing with this-also glad to see your content again!

[@dirtlifeadventures]

Yes I think that a lot of people where just sad to see such a unique place be totally renovated. Ultimately it's her house and her choice. I think she's taking it way too personal.

[@CaitlinConCuore]

Oh, this makes me so sad. A while back, I watched one of your videos at my mom’s house, and she asked who you were. I explained your lovely story, and we agreed that you are so bubbly and good spirited that your videos are refreshing. I do remember making a side comment to her that even KZbinrs like you are not immune to BS from haters though. Now to see this video is upsetting, especially about something so pointless as to care about what you do with your own apartment. Taylor Swift is right-haters gonna hate. These are unhappy people who think they can find some joy in stealing it from others, even though it doesn’t work that way. You can’t fix them. Ignore them please. I can’t imagine how hard it is being in the public eye. Could you maybe turn comments off for certain videos? Or put a disclaimer in them, and anyone who writes negative ish gets their comments deleted? Pot stirrers really don’t like being ignored, so deleting without responding is *chef’s kiss* So many of us love you, Kacie, and we appreciate your content. I hope you’ll consider keeping on doing your thing proudly and shut down the haters and shake it off, shake it off!! Don’t let them steal your joy!!

[@sw33tnothing]

If something as simple as sharing the joy of your new apartment and your excitement to renovate brings that much spite, it’s not worth it to put it out there. As much as I’d love to see what renovation is like in Italy you deserve to not have insults hurled at you for nothing more than just living your life. I hope you and Dario enjoy your new apartment and everything that comes with it!

[@jessd4048]

Saying this gently but if that is the kind of remark that rises to the level of ‘xenophobia’ in your experience… you’ve been living in a privilege bubble that’s genuinely hard to fathom.

[@EmpressCity]

I would wanna negate her negative experiences and I think they count as xenophobia, but you have a point..

[@btscarzella214]

Don’t bother with the haters. It’s absolutely not worth your time. I’m not sure how to handle them. For me, if someone is nasty, I would block them if I could. As for your apartment… you have my dream apartment. Sending you 😎 good vibes. Be you and we love you for that!

[@amandamcdonald9152]

You do what makes you happy. Horrible by-product of social media is that people feel entitled to say whatever comes to mind. I would also mention if people are being hateful that is what the block button is for.

[@Julie-vw5py]

I’m very sorry to hear this as I was so excited to watch the progression of your apartment BUT some people who hide behind their keyboards are just vile. Do what is best for you 🥰❤️

[@arurora5474]

as if anybody renovating in italy is keeping it grandma style like that. come on people... we all just go to ikea like everyone else now days and call it a day.

[@alessandrom7181]

But we don't ruin everything like Americans in any case..😂

[@0rangebanana]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ please don’t stop talking about this because mixing cultures is lovely but it’s not always easy

[@andromacha83]

Ultimately, it is your house, your life, and you can do whatever you want without caring about what other people say. And I would love to see the before and after; I love these types of videos. The ones who insult you are most likely retrogrades who still believe that the husband works and is the breadwinner, while the woman has all the sayso in the house management/furnishing/style etc. And I say this, and I am an Italian who is married to an American. We live in Italy, and we bought our first apartment 5 years ago. We were lucky to buy a new construction, and we basically had to choose everything from the very beginning, so we could really make it our own. And we made the decisions TOGETHER! Well with also a little input from my parents.

[@lakegirl239]

My mother used to have a sign in the kitchen that said, Around her I have a very responsible position-every time something goes wrong, I’m responsible. Now make sure your lovely home has an unmistakable American feature, like a deluxe French door refrigerator with drawer, bottom freezer and door access to ice and water in gleaming stainless steel.

[@rockband500000]

I am an American women and if lived abroad I would want my home to be as American as possible to be to feel a little closer to Home in a foreign country! If that is something you want do It! These people have no clue what they are saying. It’s your place and dreams. I would totally renovate it and redo everything

[@messengeroftruth17]

It isn't a nice comment, but I see where the poster is coming from. With people like Chris Pratt/Catherine Schwarzenegger demolishing an icon of 20th century architecture to build a trendy modern farmhouse and the whole "sad beige mom" trend, it is upsetting to see the charm and character of a certain style stripped away for a trend. I don't think that's what will happen here, I'm just saying I can see where the comment is coming from. It isn't necessarily xenophobia either. The Pratt/Schwarzenegger and sad beige thing are Americans calling out other Americans.

[@deesmiles7920]

You know it is both you and Dario’s apartment and how you decorate it and renovate it is only for you both to determine if it is great, bad etc... Everybody else can bug a skunk!!! Have fun make this new place a home sure it has history but so does the whole country and that is great! Now it is time to add a new chapter ❤

[@nicolettastrada5976]

Don’t let envious people mess up with your life Kacie, keep up with your good work🤗

[@lexxluther2012]

Please dont let the haters win and not share your renos!! Its your place, do what you and Dario like with it. The true followers are excited to see the process ❤

[@LadyHorizon7427]

Personally, i am DEFINITELY interested in how the process of hiring renovaters/ getting permits, whatever you need to do to make your vision happen will go as I'm on a journey of learning more about how these things work over there b 4 visiting/ possibly moving ❤. Thank you Kacie and Dario and congratulations again ✨️🥲

[@sarah-phillips]

Please show a before and after with the after being a random image you found online of a room full of tv's, inflatable furniture and Budlight light up signs. I love seeing people lose their damn minds over "you took out the TILE!" and the person renovating it said "yes...because it was cracked and had black mold behind it". I really like "How to Rennovate a Chateau" and good ol' "This Old House" with incorporating the old character but making it realistic for modern use and, you know, up to code...

[@gracefulspork]

I was surprised by how much xenophobia I experienced when I studied abroad in Spain. Spaniards often assumed I was dumb because I'm a pale white American. It was even worst for the POC students in our group. It wasn't all Spaniards, and I made some great friends there, but it was certainly prevalent and disheartening while I was trying to learn the language and culture.

[@pile333]

You're a true blessing landed here, dear Kacie! 💐

[@janiceh4521]

I hate that those haters make a creator not do something so many of us would love like seeing picking process, before/after photos etc bc they just have to be mean! I really hope you will reconsider for your true followers! ❤❤ sprinkle of extra love just bc we can all use it sometimes. I absolutely loved the walk thru even with the70’s flooring, walls and decor from room to room and the balconies 😮😊

[@Cherurei1109]

I never can understand why people are so miserable that they have to take it out on a complete stranger on the internet… Stupidity comes in all shapes, sizes, and nationalities.

[@OnyxTheMiniPoodle]

Why can’t people just be nice or at least respectful? I personally would love to see your renovated apartment. It might not be my style but I always love seeing how people decorate or renovate their homes.

[@dr4gonwriter]

So sorry about the mean comments!! Hope you don’t take it to heart. Good luck with the renovations!! Totally understand your decision. One thing that would be cool to learn more about, if you and Dario are cool with sharing, would be Dario’s kitchen design. I’m really curious what a professional chef wants to do with the kitchen :)

[@kathyharmon2093]

I moved last summer to an apartment that needed quite a bit of work but honestly I didn’t care but people came over before it was done making comments about how this needed to be done this way or was I really going to use that paint color 😑I am thrilled with how it turned out and my son and I are the ones living here and we’re happy so who gives a flip what anyone else thinks! How insulting for people to assume if you both choose something they don’t care for that it was the Americans fault ….

[@JadeCanada237]

We have an expression in our family, "People are very People-ly " 🙄🙃 I know it's hard to ignore the haters, but you guys are building your life the way you both want it. If someone doesn't like that well F-them! Don't forget that a lot of hate comes from jealousy.

[@dod2304]

We say that too! It's just too true sometimes. lol

[@racheldoot6732]

I don’t really ever comment on YT because, well public profile and all and I assume no one really reads the comments and just wants them for engagement. However, I hope if this does find you somewhere, that you know there are so many more people rooting for you than the mean people in the comments. As an American that spent a large portion of my life in Europe, acclimating is tough! Your joy at being with the man you love and using it to give us glimpses into the good and the tough of moving to a different country and embracing another culture is so meaningful and (I hope) brings understanding to others about the reality of integrating into another culture. I happen to LOVE renovations and how people do things so differently. Some people just need to learn that just because it’s not their style, taste or choice doesn’t mean it’s wrong and/or bad. It’s just different. That’s what makes this a beautiful, interesting world. Please don’t let the mean people on the internet discourage you from sharing something you want to share. There are way more of us rooting for you than there are haters!

[@mpet483]

Ugh, sorry for the rude comments Kacie! I hope you and Dario have a blast with designing your new space! ❤

[@alilsparkle3732]

I’m sorry you have to deal with those types of things. I really enjoy your content.

[@Joyce-t2f]

Sad to say but haters are gonna hate. Please, per favore, don't let them stop you from posting. I hope we get to see how Dario redesigns the cucina and the changes you make. A presto! Ciao, ciao

[@judyperri9496]

Kacie I’m sure it will be a mix of two cultures It’s your home and it should fit your needs and your style I would only say take your time in making major decisions This coming from someone who made tons of boo boos before I got it right There’s no need to rush or try to justify anything to anyone I’m also not sure why Europeans , despite their denials are so obsessed with Americans 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@silviaarwen7402]

The only scandalous thing here is that you've been able to do a 2 min video without that popsicle melting all over your shirt 😂 HOW? 😂

[@Aelffwynn]

Yeah she has some good timing for that to not become a mess 😂 I could never!

[@kate_6436]

The amount of hatred I see online when someone from a different country does something people don't like is crazy. Like one American does something someone doesn't like and suddenly it's EVERY AMERICAN DOES THAT TO EVERYTHING. And it obviously doesn't just happen with Americans it happens to people from countries all over the world just using American as an example because you're American but its shocking to me people (Some of whom claim to be liberal???) will just say such xenophobic things just with their whole chest on a public profile and have no issue saying it all!!! See no problem.

[@dod2304]

Oh I think feeling free to be insulting runs the gamut. No distinction. The whole spectrum of ultra conservative to ultra liberal. Actually I'm puzzled why it's shocking to you that "liberals" say insulting and xenophobic things? But perhaps that's for a different channel. Have a beautiful day Kate!❣

[@_pearl_]

Unrelated, but your hair looks gorgeous!

[@dirtlifeadventures]

I saw some of the comments and i didnt think everyone meant it in a bad way. Just that the apartment had some nice things like tiles that would be sad to see replaced by a generic look. Obviously, it's up to you and what you like at the end of the day, but some people like modern looks and some like classic. That's all.

[@jonathanpease115]

There’s a handful of topics that get people REALLY upset on the internet, and for some reason home renovations is high up on the list 🤪 people come out of the woodworks to state their “expert” opinion when it comes to home renos and I’m like… my gosh it’s not your house! 🙄 if you don’t like it move on! That said, it sucks that people are writing such mean comments! It’s understandable that you might not share the actual renos you guys do…

[@leannehowarth6939]

Don't let comments like that spoil your fun. It's super exciting to buy something and make it yours. They don't have to live there you do. Do whatever you want to your home. My husband and I are English living in New Zealand and we very much "when in rome" but when we're in our home we relax and just be ourselves, we speak English English not Kiwi English, we eat English foods is we want to, we decorated it in the styles we like and we joke around in English style. I think you own it, you're using you're money to fix it up, as long as nothing of historic significance is being damaged do what you want. I personally would love to see how you both blend your American and Italian styles to create something perfect for the 2 of you

[@lilypudd]

Forget them lady!! It's your apartment! You remodel & decorate the way you like. As long as you and your honey are happy no one elses opinions really matter. I'm excited to see how you guys remodel the kitchen! So exciting. Huggs.

[@bethb5915]

Yes, it's your house, your decisions and esthetic! I love the old vintage tile, but I don't expect someone who's decades younger than me to share that opinion! I appreciate modern design too and have seen really nicely updated Italian renos ❤️ I'm sorry people are lame.

[@angelicabrewer3711]

They are saying those things because they are unable to afford an apartment or a renovation

[@elizabethturner9875]

It’s your (Dario and you) place. Do what you want.

[@charlieblackrose]

The IMHO brigade came out in full force for this one! I'm sorry you were made to feel sad when this should have been an update where people share your excitement. You are entitled to boundaries and some privacy and maybe that is what's best here even though it's a shame we have to miss it. I'm sure you'll both make the place look amazing, it does need some serious updating but my opinion and everyone else's doesn't matter! All that matters is that you and Dario are happy. Congratulations on getting your new pad! 🎉❤

[@Himmiefan]

Is there really an Italian style that all Italians must conform to? I doubt it. It's your apartment; you and Dario can do what you want.

[@tcm087]

Bummer. Was looking forward to seeing before and after. Thought it would also be interesting to see what is considered mandatory in a home in Italy as well as the changes you make that might be uncommon. But it;s your home and your sanctuary from the crazy (which is everywhere). Be well.

[@GrannyFooFoo]

Ignore the haters! Your fans would love to see what you do with the place as we are so excited for you and Dario! ❤️

[@janetthompson7852]

Don’t listen to the negative. You will only Be making them happy. This is the best times of your life. I can’t wait to see what you both do to your home to improve it and make it your own. As long as you do social media , you will have to deal this their negativity . Just cancel them out with your positivity. They house Reno will be so much fun Enjoy it. Please !!!

[@acchristianson]

Don't let them get you down! We love you and its YOUR house...you live there so do whatever you want.

[@juliehock6059]

I was waiting for the ice to drip - and it didnt!

[@xanthippikipou2531]

Your house is gonna be a lovely home and haters gonna hate😘😘😘💓💓💓

[@22071994Julie]

I really feel for you😢❤ I am considering getting a half time apartment in Florence within a few years, so I am so interested in any information in process, prices and any tips🤞🥰

[@LightsHikesAndWanderlove]

Thanks for speaking up. Xenophobia is the reason I didn't move abroad.

[@Sting72]

You do you, never listen to anyone unless it’s positive. Us, your fans love you. Keep flying high sunshine❤️

[@asliyase]

May I kindly suggest asking a team member/family member/friend to screenshot some of the nice & kind comments in that same video and share those with you, if you wish? (Just an idea I had. Doesn’t solve the systemic issues at large, but could be a good step for some people dealing with online harassment so I thought I’d throw it out there) 🌸

[@crism4965]

Im very sorry for those comments…they also sound targeted to you bc you are a woman..those people should be watching other channels. I hope you give it a go, I also live abroad and I made decoration choices more bravely than what I would do at home. You are exposed to new ways, so you can choose what vibe goes with you both. Have fun decorating! (So excited when I saw Dear modern helping out!! That is such a good sign!

[@jahirareyes1102]

I don't think it has anything to do with her being a woman that sounds ridiculous , its because of her being American i think and they want to see how awkward it would be and laugh about it,which is harsh.

[@kate_6436]

@@jahirareyes1102 its definitely about her being a woman as well because theyre automatically assuming she's doing the design work not Dario

[@jahirareyes1102]

@@kate_6436 Idk about that.... i do not make assumptions like that in one comment.

[@SharonRepici]

@@jahirareyes1102Kacie herself made a comment about the misogyny at play.

[@SharonRepici]

@@kate_6436exactly! And we already know that Dario, the Chef will be all over the kitchen designing.

[@catie5939]

Woof. I would cry if someone insulted my house 😭. You're both gonna make it perfect for yourselves. People are so weird and I'm sorry they ruin the ability to share stuff like this. I know a lot of us would love it! But I totally understand not doing it. I know for sure that I don't have thick enough skin, ughhhh 😭💜

[@bananaabong]

I’m super sad about this - I was so excited to see the renovation 😢

[@D415h4n34]

You're entitled to protect your peace. This American completely understands, have an awesome week❤

[@PurvaD]

I'm not even American, I'm Indian. I lived in France for 5 years and people there were legit surprised that I wasn't utterly disgusted with my own country.

[@giuliarenatamorra4473]

Enjoy the renovation, it will transform a house into your home. It must suit you and nobody else is concerned in your choices. You don't owe us anything, but whenever you fell like sharing bits of it, we'll be happy too.

[@minervapuente-gardner5801]

The negative comments come from people that I think are jealous of your new flat, about your life and new engagement. It is your property. Do whatever makes you happy and functional. Do not pay attention to them. I want to see the before and after. It your home, not anyone's else.

[@CoffeeLover-mz7bk]

It is YOUR apartment. Do what you and Dario want.

[@blissful1689]

This is why we can’t have nice content lol. I’m sorry for the bad apples. Blessings over your home and renovation process! “The LORD bless you and keep you; The LORD make His face shine on you and be gracious to you; The LORD lift up His face on you and give you peace.” ( Numbers 6:24-26)

[@Watschelinka]

The nerve of some people 🫣. What is a hospital lighting?

[@UnpaidInternJR]

You know how some lights are a warm yellow, but others are a harsh bright white? That’s hospital lighting, since it’s similar (or probably just is) to what hospitals have as their lighting, same in dentists, doctors, anywhere medical

[@MrKlapask]

Honestly, Americans have such a good taste in interiors and comforts at home so what is this guy even talking about...

[@hsc7560]

It's your home and your happy place. Other people's opinions are irrelevant unless they have great taste, amazing design skills and, most importantly, you have asked for their help.

[@rachaelpanda]

It's so crazy to me how people can be so polite to your face, then throw all that out the window just because they are on the internet. I'm a firm believer internet etiquette classes should be a requirement for everyone of all ages.

[@aliceNürenb2991]

Never in my life did I think "American= grey and hospital lighting in the house" lmao I wanna move to Italy soon to be with my boyfriend, I'm scared though

[@cm_mb]

The reno project would have been great inspo for future videos, Kacie. But the judgemental, xenophobic, American haters ruined it for the rest of us that would have enjoyed seeing your new home evolve. Congratulations on purchasing your new home! No matter what, I'm sure it will be beautiful.

[@alisaishere]

I could care less about how you decorate, unless you are doing something illegal. But I am concerned about how you are biting into that popsicle.

[@kellypatterson4412]

Who cares what anyone else thinks of your remodel?! You're the only one that has to live with it and should design it to your liking. I am excited to see what you do though.

[@pigoff123]

Like my mom used to say. You have to take comments with a grain of salt. There are so many people that are not happy these days so they take it out on people they don't know.😢

[@lydiapicano8806]

Don't listen to these fools. I'm sure the renovation will be beautiful.❤

[@keshneegovender54]

Sorry that this is bringing you down 😢

[@JaneAustenAteMyCat]

Seeing you happy and living your best life is all I'm here for. Your videos inspire people to be their best selves, too (unless they're determined to be nasty, which is their choice, unfortunately)

[@vacafuega]

The thing is... When you're European you're used to neighbouring countries having generalized opinions about your country. It's on a spectrum. When you're not used to hearing about other people's opinions in that way it feels weird. But when you look at it you gotta admit there's always a reason that idea exists, and that can help take it in stride. You probably have tons of these ideas about Mexicans and Canadians, you're just not in a position where those are being elicited.

[@russellharrell2747]

Remember, Italians and the Irish weren’t considered white as recently as the early 20 th century. Whiteness giveth and whiteness taketh away.

[@lucieblaise8793]

What does the comment even mean? 😅 I've never been an apartment/home owner so I wouldn't know what "popular" US interior design this person is making fun of. That sounds more like a description of what is installed in low income housing (my place in France included). I have to use my own small lamps to soften the lighting in my studio apartment lol

[@Ragt0p]

Hah, I feel a bit called out 😆 Not gonna lie, I was thinking «ooh, I wish they would live there a while before making changes. I think opening up rooms and making structural changes might be a rash decision. It’s important to honor the history of the space and think hard before making changes» It wasn’t connected to being a woman or American, though. More of a fiftyplus mom brain thinking «oh, the young people of today, they make such quick decisins that might be hard and costly to reverse». But I’m also sure you have thought it through, and it’s gonna be amazing. Best of luck, can’t wait to see the results, if you are ok to share them 💕

[@TheOGPokemonGirl]

Never post something that you don't feel comfortable sharing with others. People these days have the idea that they're entitled to know everything about everyone (especially celebrities and content creators/influencers,) but really it's none of their business! It's not like they're going to be living in the apartment, so what does it matter to them how you chose to renovate it? Jeez, people really are nuts sometimes.

[@natyrey3475]

What is greyge?

[@hazardlyhazard]

Grey/beige maybe

[@Shelleysnail]

Some people (French people?) are really snobbish.

[@boh95]

*Comedians and people telling jokes about how it's always the woman in charge of the renovation of the house while the man wouldn't do anything by himself* *Meanwhile: my husband telling me we should repaint the walls of MY studio (the place I spent most of my day in) because mould is starting to come out on the top corner of the room while ME (the one spending most of the time in the studio) have never noticed it until he said it* Guess I'm not a woman 😅😅😅

[@chicagolc7022]

I wouldn’t have even given enough thought to such comments in order to have arrived at the conclusion you did. It’s not worth your time, imo.

[@yaowsers77]

It's dumb to blame you for anything. These people need to calm down!

[@rogueredshirt5239]

I'm sorry you're receiving xenophobic and sexist comments. I'm sure whatever you guys decide to do will be perfect. Btw just in case you missed it, dearmodern the fung shui guy here on youtube did a stitch of your extra long bathroom video and had some great layout ideas for it.

[@Ari_Sina]

How about you make videos about the before and after and just disable the comment section~

[@MossyBear]

I hope that you and Dario love what you do with your apartment! It's literally where YOU are living!! so fuck whoever comes in here to say shit about how you're "messing it up" or w/e xenophobic thing they're up to