Yeah and you should have a different balance for each kid
@Wellshem4 жыл бұрын
The freedom to grow, the constraint to be in the right way
@thetigertooth48963 жыл бұрын
Thank you lol
@jeremyg27323 жыл бұрын
Nailed it.
@RM-563 жыл бұрын
@ᴍᴏᴏɴʟɪɢʜᴛ Because many people always feel the need to have an enemy so they put it in a "us against them" scenario
@williammagsambol21434 жыл бұрын
18:17 Lmao her only personality trait is being black. She can’t go one sentence without mentioning she’s black, we can tell dude LULW
@LuisVazquez-tb3bn4 жыл бұрын
Cmonbruh You said a color
@zarchov61834 жыл бұрын
Wait what color was she?
@beardedpike38814 жыл бұрын
@@zarchov6183 green
@LP-ic3sx4 жыл бұрын
race card LULW
@haiscore26144 жыл бұрын
cmonBruh
@strudelh4 жыл бұрын
I've only been spanked once but I turned out mature, my parents don't let me do everything I want, but my parents arent strict either. I mean shouldn't all of them be like that? Balanced..
@strudelh4 жыл бұрын
@testyhawk 7 LOL RIGHT, I have black parents though. I've never got the belt, I'm so grateful I dont have to go through that-
@seriyothematch4 жыл бұрын
Exactly bro same with me
@seriyothematch4 жыл бұрын
testyhawk 7 luckily I’ve never been hit with the chancla I have Mexican parents too and they’re pretty balanced they let me make decisions but not dumb decisions like buy something I don’t need they’ve teached me how to save money it’s really helpful ngl
@ducket17484 жыл бұрын
I say my mom is strict and then i play video games 6 hours a day. I feel sometimes that my mom is too strict and then i realize she is just doing the right thing.
@cesarsaez86784 жыл бұрын
The mayority of people will always go to extremes, which is sad although I think spanking is all around useless compared to other things you could do I think just letting your children exist with no direction or with too much direction will inevitably end up having the same outcome a kid with no purpose because his parents didn't even teach him basic things and a kid with no purpose because he was never let discover himself and was expected to be someone he wasn't, balance indeed my friend
@SCOHunter4 жыл бұрын
The race card was beaten and destroyed in this debate.
@ShaneshaS4 жыл бұрын
Alba Amira as always
@anthonytran88504 жыл бұрын
A possible destiny viewer may have just watched this debate
@SCOHunter4 жыл бұрын
@@anthonytran8850 An intelligent person viewed my comment.
@joeysung3114 жыл бұрын
@@SCOHunter ah yes, only the most intelligent people will understand my obscure destiny meme
@SCOHunter4 жыл бұрын
@@joeysung311 😊
@BroskiXP4 жыл бұрын
Name a better duo than “It’s too long chat” and “We’ll watch it”
@AceCrasher244 жыл бұрын
Seven Sins “christian” “im black”
@ATK.4 жыл бұрын
“It was me and Moxxi” “they were down they weren’t ready”
@storyofbo4 жыл бұрын
“What is that?” “Step bro”
@HighwayDrive7173 жыл бұрын
@@storyofbo “I’m stuck” “laundry”
@ShadowViking474 жыл бұрын
This video means nothing unless they define "kid". A 7-year-old is a lot different than a 15-year-old but this video just seems to group them together.
@ChrisSmooth243 жыл бұрын
Dude all these questions were vague af honestly. This discussion does not work in this format.
@AaronWhiting184 жыл бұрын
Talks about different parenting Christian: JIM CROW
@redlord16604 жыл бұрын
TriHard NOT FREE
@alexl85393 жыл бұрын
Christian is the kinda person to remind everyone shes black just for brownie points
Look at Christian’s shirt. It literally says “I am black” are you kidding me LOL
@sowhat14444 жыл бұрын
LMAO a person in the chat "I AM BLACK YEP"
@sammegod30054 жыл бұрын
@@Lordi99 Weirdchamp
@kahn56364 жыл бұрын
@@Lordi99 you good chief?
@nadaotk4 жыл бұрын
im black list
@nadaotk4 жыл бұрын
@@Lordi99 "weirdchamp" haHAA
@perfumedpathveilgate4 жыл бұрын
My mom and my dad split in front of my eyes ten years ago. My mom got custody and my dad had to pay £165 monthly which is meant to support me and my two brothers. He raised that to £230 at his own will, we were never told, we weren't even told that he was paying that money. We were told that my our dad ran away and hates us. I was neglected for years thinking nothing was wrong and told that my mom was "busy" and wanted us to grow up and be independent. We had to go to the store for our own food, make our own food, never got breakfast, lunch or supper. never went anywhere. My mental health was pretty bad by the time I was 9. One time the police came to our house in the middle of the night while my mom was on a night shift (10pm - 7am) we weren't told why but I know now that it was because none of us were above 18. We got the choice to stay with our mom or go to our dad. Keep in mind I'm the youngest brother, I'm 10 at this time, middle is 12 and eldest 15. Me and my middle brother went to our dad. My life turned around. I finally found someone who loves and cares for me and my brother. He's amazing. The best dad ever. In short, know your boundaries, what is free range? what is strict?
@wangyipu064 жыл бұрын
Cheg in short, the legal system is fucked
@joanabrown8D4 жыл бұрын
Cheg kek
@haiscore26144 жыл бұрын
This legal system we have that most always gives children to the mother is absolute shit.
@sowhat14444 жыл бұрын
What the fuck? You experienced neglect. Free-ranged parenting is just half-assed parenting. Your mom just straight up ignored yo ass, not even considered parenting.
@Bob-iw4hf4 жыл бұрын
went through it to man, had to transition weekly from strict mom to free range dad, I am still traumatized of my mom and can't talk to her without wanting to get out. dad always made me feel like I was someone.
@mutantraze36814 жыл бұрын
Christian is the kinda person to remind everyone shes black just for brownie points
@ZGFyZG8g4 жыл бұрын
True
@roboactive4 жыл бұрын
TRUE LULW
@roboactive4 жыл бұрын
I'm black Slavery btw
@icecoldfire254 жыл бұрын
"We out here getting killed everyday." Yea the black on black violence is crazy but wait till that 1 cop does something
@grim98854 жыл бұрын
“I don’t spank my kid because of Jim Crow” Whatwhat ?????????????????
@naif94644 жыл бұрын
11:53 someone in chat said “ I’m new what language is this “ LULW
@GameDSS4 жыл бұрын
IN CASE IF YOU DIDNT NOTICE IM BLACK... THANK YOU oh and slavery
@GamblingGator4 жыл бұрын
🔫👮🏻♂️
@moni78033 жыл бұрын
@@GamblingGator fuck off
@L3ttr74 жыл бұрын
Free range parenting means you experience the bad and how bad it is, however this can lead to you not being scared of anything which can lead to bad things. strict parenting mean you can’t experience things so it dwells in ur mind, once you can do things urself you often find urself doing everything you can or never doing anything because ur scared. Depends on the child, I’m scared to do a lot of things unless I know what is going to happen, my sister however will do anything and is not scared. I will say I was strict parented when I was younger than 8 however free range over that age as my mum had a change of heart and mind and no longer agreed with beatings which she did because that’s what she was brought up with.
@bartoszbartosiewicz11234 жыл бұрын
I feel like there is good middle ground (obviously my opinion is not the most valid since i don't have kids and don't really plan o having). My parrents were pretty strict, and while i definitely grew up to be pretty responsible, never got in trouble, respectfull etc. i also feel like it made me scared of some things, just as you said. Maybe getting in trouble and not feeling scared would make me more open to new expiriences.
@VermillionRedd4 жыл бұрын
5head
@smhnojutsu4 жыл бұрын
5head
@maytriks42154 жыл бұрын
5head
@badzi42004 жыл бұрын
5head
@wiseknack45914 жыл бұрын
7:39 "My kids also look thorough my phone". "And this Timothy, is your father's pee pee pic. Nothing to be ashamed of son".
@shinnyii4 жыл бұрын
I’d say a good middle ground is best, advising children on the best option I think is a better way as it trains their mind for the future when 1 choice can change their lives.
@angeldxst4 жыл бұрын
Letting them have freedom but also giving them advice on stuff they might be interested in is the best way of parenting imo
@Overphased4 жыл бұрын
"Advising children on the best option", kids don't really work like that. You have to lead by example first. And it doesn't just have to be the parents that do that. I used to be fat and couldn't convince my younger brother to start working out no matter what I tried. Eventually I started working out myself and after he saw that I didn't quit after a few weeks he started joining me and now we workout together all the time.
@Userdoesnotexit4 жыл бұрын
@@angeldxst Freedom of what ??? hell nah .kids do not reason or lsn .. rules and order first and in extreme matter they should by clapped silly to stay in the straight path... but of course, the best of ways is the middle indeed. thats why the west full of retarded kids
@kiiturii4 жыл бұрын
@@Userdoesnotexit pepega clap You think physically hurting your child because their brain isnt developed enough to make a better choice is the right thing to do? and then you say the middle ground is best even tho you just supported beating a child. Man you're stupid omegalul. Hurting your own child is bullying but way worse
@Corzappy4 жыл бұрын
this is a side of 2 extremes but clearly the best is somewhere inbetween. Chat was raised with strict parents and they became smelly basement dwellers so what does that tell you?
@mxhorsepower4 жыл бұрын
idk about that one. If you are a smelly basement dweller then you probably live with your parents and if you have strict parents then you probably don't live with your parents. So I don't see how that is supposed to work.
@GlassMonkay4 жыл бұрын
nah the reason chat became basement dwellers is because of themselves
@haiscore26144 жыл бұрын
@@mxhorsepower Free range parents want their kids to become independent and move out faster while strict abide by rules not necessarily are cruel for the sake of cruel.
@jarleskogly83884 жыл бұрын
Have you never seen those fat shows on TLC? All their parents are passive enablers. You got it upside down. Strict parents don't allow you to be a smelly basement dweller, basement dwelling happens at an early age, and gets worse and worse with enabler parents. A strict parent keeps that from happening in the first place.
@haiscore26144 жыл бұрын
@@jarleskogly8388 You brought up a whole different parenting dichotomy (active vs passive). We are talking about free-range (which emphasizes independence) and strict (controlling with emphasis of certain rules).
@dap67294 жыл бұрын
That one guy in chat when Christian shows up says Lizzo pog
@Aiden-on2fk4 жыл бұрын
xQc talking sounds like a doctor's handwriting
@datguy2504 жыл бұрын
9:17 When you hear free range parent what do you think of? Chat: Kkonaw THE RANGE I'm dead
@JimmyM.McGill4 жыл бұрын
Wow, it's almost like all parents think differently and every question asked has no black or white answer in every case. Who would have thought.
@ronancurtis26164 жыл бұрын
That's what I dislike about debates, or at least when they're done like these. There's no such thing as "this type of person against this type of person" because even within parties or groups, the thinking and application of ruling varies so widely
@jarleskogly83884 жыл бұрын
Right. Legalizing weed and drugs is a left wing thing, but you can be a right winger and support legalization and dislike religious people.
@AceCrasher244 жыл бұрын
1 had a lot of black answers...
@kiiturii4 жыл бұрын
@@jarleskogly8388 left wing right wing blah blah is so cringe in the first place. Like why do people choose sides an then stick to that side no matter what "argument" is assigned to the side. Like wtf have some own opinions for once, you can agree with something thats "left wing" and agree with something thats "right wing" at the same time. Politics andies baffle me
@jarleskogly83884 жыл бұрын
@@kiiturii Not sure if you're talking shit to me or not. Left wing and right wing exists for a reason. I know in America left and right basically means liberal and conservative, but in other countries it's not that simple. In other countries there's usually several parties involved, and they're divided into left wing and right wing, with some in the middle that can sway either way, but usually sway to the left.
@redjakOfficial4 жыл бұрын
When you start talking about "privilege" all the time and your weight is twice what it should be as you're living in the richest country in the world, it's time to stop and reread the definition of the word.
@unclebob14784 жыл бұрын
Fucking true
@joeysung3114 жыл бұрын
obesity has more to do with poverty. wealthy people in the US have better lifestyles, can afford to go to the gym, better diet, etc. It's stupid that you're bringing up her weight
@daddydallas47894 жыл бұрын
@@joeysung311 yea because all the hobos got above 300lbs
@redjakOfficial4 жыл бұрын
@Joey Sung Tell that to the people that live in real poverty in the third world countries. The real unprivileged people in Somalia or North Korea. I'm sure they'll have other views on the matter.
@joeysung3114 жыл бұрын
@@redjakOfficial The fact that people are starving in North Korea doesn't change the fact that poverty is a large factor in obesity in the US. Yes poor people in the US are 'privileged' compared to poor people in Somalia, but that's super irrelevant here and such a weak point to make in response to someone talking about race in the US.
@pepegaplays40234 жыл бұрын
I don't get why everyone was so against the idea of having some beers with their parents when they were grown up. Like you don't need to be drinking buddies or some shit but has nobody ever had any drinks with their parents at like a family get together or some shit.
@aaronaguirre67144 жыл бұрын
I think chat was confused because that lady doesn't even want to be a parent. She JUST wants to be seen as a friend instead of a responsible adult in charge of children. tldr: she's pepega and deserves to be ????'ed every time she talks.
@b00st3d74 жыл бұрын
Well I literally can't have alcohol with my parents lmao, we're religiously against it lulw
@alexware19014 жыл бұрын
I drink beer when I go fishing with my dad. White people time
@djwards4724 жыл бұрын
No they were questioning when she said she wants to be invited to the club.
@marhabacarpet85934 жыл бұрын
@@b00st3d7 HARAM
@Martin-tv7hr4 жыл бұрын
Asian guy in yellow coat, and old woman with glasses are both spittin fax in this video
@bagelman30753 жыл бұрын
old woman w glasses was not spitting. she reduced the strict parents argument to people being safety obsessed which is kinda ridiculous imo
@bigpimping62934 жыл бұрын
If you let a 9 year old ride the train by his self and he gets abducted, you kind of asked for it like WTF
@AceCrasher244 жыл бұрын
shes basically saying that hes free for the taking and she will pay up that 50 mil ransom
@doomdude30344 жыл бұрын
I mean, i'm sure they only let them during the day and not late at night when there'd be no one else around.
@bigpimping62934 жыл бұрын
@@doomdude3034 so you are implying that children don't get abducted during the day? Lol
@doomdude30344 жыл бұрын
@@bigpimping6293 Not if there's people around, but if there aren't then yeah it can definitely happen
@bigpimping62934 жыл бұрын
@@doomdude3034 children literally get abducted from parents, there's many examples of psychos taking kids while the mother is right there. You don't fully know what you are talking about. If you don't believe me I can provide you a whole laundry list of links to reports about it.
@worldrise93984 жыл бұрын
When you title yourself as a free range parent or a strict parent you lose credibility LULW
@AceCrasher244 жыл бұрын
free range = free to take
@andrewprahst25294 жыл бұрын
I have seven siblings. My parents was reasonably strict, but there's only so much much they can give to all of us. For that reason, I was partially raised by the Internet. Age 11-18, all internet.
@trywin98254 жыл бұрын
7?
@andrewprahst25294 жыл бұрын
@@trywin9825 Actually Seven hundred seventy-seven trillion seven hundred seventy-seven billion seven hundred seventy-seven million seven hundred seventy-seven thousand seven hundred seventy-seven. Yes, seven. I'm number 7, there are 8 of us total.
@ceo87334 жыл бұрын
@@andrewprahst2529 Wow, nice. I have eight siblings, though I mainly grew up with a mixture of my parents, older siblings, and a bunch of other relatives. After around age 15 I'd say I was mostly on the internet to myself.
@wayward46574 жыл бұрын
Same pretty much, even though I only have 1 sibling. I honestly can’t think of a single lesson my parent’s taught me. I just learned a lot on the internet
@sowhat14444 жыл бұрын
Ah, yes. I can tell by your profile pic
@sergeekzhanov33884 жыл бұрын
Times Christian mentioned being black: 00:00-22:16
@aryyamehr4 жыл бұрын
My friend broke up with his gf using twitch chat words and she didn't realize she was getting broken up with.
@LuisR-234 жыл бұрын
haHAA
@Rhodanide4 жыл бұрын
HotPokket PepeLaugh 👉 🚪
@user-zu6ts5fb6g4 жыл бұрын
Twitch is contributing to mental illness and autism
@jakmak944 жыл бұрын
Babe, I know this is pepehands but I think we need to split up. We have been weirdchamp for a while now. It’s not you it’s me, I’m an omegalul. No kappa
@qvd35334 жыл бұрын
She doesn't have betterTTV
@rodrigopeloni64324 жыл бұрын
When they were talking about spanking, even though the black lady kind of brought race to the conversation, she is actually right about the anger issues and psychological consequences in adulthood.
@Dragonsa1t4 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why chat was question marking when the points were actually understandable. Not saying the free-range parents are correct or anything, but you can see why someone would have that opinion.
@carlchameleon98474 жыл бұрын
I don't think you get this.... Chat will 100% "?????????????????????", until xQc says "YO ACTUALLY TRUE DUDE" and that is how it always will be until he stops streaming, or bans 95% of his chat
@traze29634 жыл бұрын
I agree with points of both sides but chat is too Pepega
@djwards4724 жыл бұрын
They were questioning the logic...
@tehsigzorz78854 жыл бұрын
'I got spanked and I turned out fine so spanking must be fine' and lets just ignore the countless studies shown how it has negative effects on the childrens upbringing
@voidinheritant4 жыл бұрын
a simple spanking almost has zero adverse affects as long as you give them a reason and tell them to think abt why it happened. what causes real problems is senseless beating of kids for simple and minor mistakes. i grew up with a drugs addict dad from 3-8 years old and im still seeing the side effects. i'd get beat to the point of a dislocated nose for spilling milk or forgetting my homework at home. i have pretty bad anxiety these days. oh wells
@haiscore26144 жыл бұрын
@@voidinheritant So your dad taught you a rough lesson when you didn't do what you were supposed to while he worked for food and you think thats bad??
@Exotic67924 жыл бұрын
@@haiscore2614 are you special. hitting your kids or anyone like that is NEVER ok8
@angeldxst4 жыл бұрын
@@haiscore2614 Holy shit ive always wanted to meet a braindead person! Lucky me.
@angeldxst4 жыл бұрын
@@voidinheritant Im sorry, hope you get better
@b00st3d74 жыл бұрын
I've been spanked a lot by my parents throughout my life, so have my siblings, my cousins and everyone but that was all cause we messed up and did something wrong. All of us and our parents have a loving relationship, we don't fear our parents we do smth wrong we get spanked but that was as a child now if we do smth wrong we get scolded or talked to cause they know that we've matured now and physical forced isn't needed at all. A young child's brain hasn't developed enough and their psyche isn't mature enough to understand the decisions they're making as well as understanding what their parents truly mean which is why some physical force should be needed obviously no abuse or any physical force with anything that isn't a hand tho
@HeyPicho4 жыл бұрын
@KakashiLee ohk
@arvidbratt51564 жыл бұрын
@KakashiLee The stuff that the parents do effect the child a lot...
@alibault27223 жыл бұрын
@KakashiLee Absolutely true! I was looking for a psych related comment :)
@mcking30384 жыл бұрын
I used to get spanked when I was a little boy for misbehaving. Now I’m 17 getting ready to go to college and love my parents more than anything in the world. Having an open conversation with your parents is key from what I feel like because I feel like I can tell them anything without the worry of backlash. I’m proud of the man I am today thanks to them for guiding me throughout my childhood.
@alexandernoethiger53384 жыл бұрын
There is a difference between spanking and spanking for every little thing they do wrong until theyre adults.
@jodawgsup4 жыл бұрын
In the meta-analysis, researchers Elizabeth Gershoff and Andrew Grogan-Kaylor from the University of Texas at Austin and the University of Michigan, respectively, evaluated 75 published studies on the relationship between spanking by parents and various behavioral, emotional, cognitive and physical outcomes among their kids. They found that spanking was associated with 13 out of a total of 17 negative outcomes they assessed, including increased aggression and behavioral and mental health problems as well as reduced cognitive ability and self-esteem.
@marhabacarpet85934 жыл бұрын
wish I could say the same
@hand__banana4 жыл бұрын
@@jodawgsup yeah but my feelings > studies
@jodawgsup4 жыл бұрын
@@hand__banana Yup, exactly, when people get spanked they need to internalize it as something "good", because people can't see their parents as doing something bad.
@nairbas3924 жыл бұрын
3:24 WeirdChamp face
@ayar31954 жыл бұрын
7:43 PepeLaugh
@borisjo134 жыл бұрын
Ever heard of 'Trial and Error'?
@__phantom13914 жыл бұрын
I love how chat is laughing at some of their jobs when all they do it sit in their mum's basement cooming all day
@nocap22784 жыл бұрын
When she said "What's the worst that can happen break an arm?" I lost it LMAO
@oneMurilognt4 жыл бұрын
I had my share of spankings back on the day, when we are babies the only thing we know how to do to get what we want which in most cases is milk is to cry really hard and claim our moms attention as soon as possible, and this carries on as the child gets older and is something that has to be rid off as soon as possible as the child starts speaking, because if she can speak she does not need to cry to express her needs anymore, if she wants something she has to say she wants it or point or make gestures or whatever, not cry, one of the things that we learn as kids is that we should not let emotions control our actions. I remember my mom telling me that one story on how she made me a "decent child" after my first time on the supermarket which was kind of like this, It was my first time on a super and I was probably stunned with the amount of shinny things all around me and that probably made me want them to myself really bad and I started having a Baby Rage and screamed and cried and made a scene to get my mom to get me what I wanted and she told me that if I did not stop she would spank me when we get home and I probably just kept screaming, by the time we got home she had obviously not bought me anything and told me I was going to get spanked because I made a scene at the market, and that's what happened and I've never done anything like that ever since lol, because she made sure to remember me of what I did to award me a spanking which is very important, a child should always know why she got spanked period, just being spanked without knowing why might be what causes some of them to have psychological problems later on. Me and my brother were very violent with each other when younger, and when things got intense because we let our emotions take control of our actions which would obviously lead to bad consequences we were punished, usually with a belt or flipflops (which was my moms usual way) on the back of the legs and ass, and when it was really bad and there was a tree with really thin branches nearby my father would usually take the thinnest one so it would hurt really bad but would not leave any bad marks by the next day which was the method he used when my brother fled the house on the morning without telling anyone and only came back at the noon because me and him had a fight early that day, by that time the police was involved and my parents lost a day at work because they thought he was kidnaped, and every time I got myself in a similar situation that got me a spanking previously I would remember what my dad or mom told me before and after I got the spanking and restrained myself to not commit the same mistake again, because children mostly know when they do something wrong but if no one puts a limit to it the child understands that it is okay to do bad stuff because there is no consequences to their actions, not every child needs spanking, like most of the boys in my family needed to be spanked to be kept as normal functioning human beings any less would be to soft and they would do the same thing again and again the same was true for me, we usually where given lighter punishments only getting to that point when needed, because in the end we are just animals some of us are tamer and some aren't, I was more on the naturally violent side of things like most of my boy cousins. Thinking that no human ever needs some level of mild violence to be kept in the right path is kind of presumptuous. A tendency that I've seen a lot in my family at least is that the girls are way more submissive when they are put on a spot and tend to do stuff to please and resolve discord and because of that they almost never even got a beating and the boys are usually very daring and pushing things to the limit of what is acceptable and usually causing discord and competing about trivial stuff to see who is the best, I'm the oldest one as the male and I can garante that the only way that I was able to form a decent relationship with all of my cousins which at the start would disrespect me including, kicking, punching, throwing stuff, calling me names or whatever would be solved with violence in which we would almost always wrestle and only after I've beaten the living shit out of them (Just enough to only hurt) that they would actually respect me and come to visit regularly to have fun together as families usually do. I love and respect my parents more than anything in this world, I would be nothing without them "literally", they are the light in the tunnel, the Juice in the wasteland.
@shanty69534 жыл бұрын
lmaoooo, 'how can u hatch 8 demon spawns' 2:20 got me dead af
@faber39694 жыл бұрын
stress is a part of life and its abusive to deprive people from it during early childhood
@vertyy83544 жыл бұрын
I’m upset that this is the black person they picked.
@strudelh4 жыл бұрын
Right 🙄
@Arcantropolo4 жыл бұрын
Should've chosen a black Caribbean parent.
@jasonbetty70954 жыл бұрын
@@Arcantropolo Probably would've made the other strict parents seem like free-range parents lol
@nuisance37554 жыл бұрын
@@jasonbetty7095 I have one hell yeah
@DW-yx1pw4 жыл бұрын
she's dumb as shit
@RedesCat4 жыл бұрын
xQc check: Okay dud *laughs in whisper* Yea true
@olofpalme36624 жыл бұрын
I will never be a strict parent, it never worked for me when my parents were strict because the fewer things they let me do the more things I wanted to do. which almost ended terribly for me. When my parents got mad at me for drinking alcohol, that made me drink even more alcohol, not because I necessarily wanted or needed more, simply because that was the only way for me to feel like I could actually decide over my own life and what I do, which has always been important for me to feel like I can decide by my own. And soon enough I started taking drugs, and I know I can't blame every bad decision that I've made on my parents, but I definitely wouldn't have felt the need to do it if I've had more power over my own life. And as I got older the more I felt like I didn't need to follow orders because when I got big enough I wasn't as scared of my parents hurting me or taking stuff from me anymore because I knew that I was stronger and obviously this led to more physical violence in my home and the more we fought the more I wanted to fight, it never reaches a limit for me because I can't stand the fact that they would win over me and decide stuff about me. Obviously, not everyone works the same and most people might be able to handle this shit, but that's not how I work, it's not how my dad works either, he is exactly the same, which points to the fact that it might be genetic and an even better reason for me to not be a strict parent. Strict parenting gave me PTSD, Social anxiety, addiction to cigarettes and drugs and I can't stand anyone that tries to force me into doing something. It breaks my heart seeing the chat and xQc agreeing with the strict parents because I believe most of them have never been in my situation.
@brudo21034 жыл бұрын
True his chat is a complete toxic swamp.
@KyaPataKya4 жыл бұрын
Christian's been playing the black card every round . GG....... She's Frickin breaking the meta of the game.....
@iLIKELASAGNAaLOT2 жыл бұрын
I haven't been punished in 4 years by my parents (15y/o rn) and everytime I do something stupid, they are there to help, but if they can stop something stupid from happening they will. If that thing has already occured, then they make it a lesson to not do that again. They don't see the point of punishing me or my sister anyway. I also never and I mean NEVER got beat and punishments were like not watching tv for the rest of the day. Today I am one of the most respectful kids of my age towards everyone, because I don't see the bad in people. I just wasn't raised that way
@ectorecto65024 жыл бұрын
I believe the best way to raise a child is to take a funnel approach. The child will start out with very few decisions. When they're young, they can't tell the difference between right and wrong, so they should be guided during their younger years. As they get older and understand how the world works, I would progressively give them more and more decisions. By the time they move out, they'll be free people.
@moodmaker27964 жыл бұрын
It's funny since here in Germany kids go to school alone, they ride the bus alone, they sometimes use trains alone if they themselfs are comfortable with it, they go outside play alone with friends and so on and so on. There sure are quite angsty and protective parents... but over all... Hearing that a child alone in a subway or train is controversal is like a completely different world. Sadly one that seems to have quite the issues with safety.
@SheeshMaster643 жыл бұрын
letting a 9 y/o take the subway by himself in nyc is just begging for something terrible to happen to him
@supernova94534 жыл бұрын
9:28 Actual translation: I don't have enough stuff to not do something.
@LoopN4 жыл бұрын
3:25 looks just like WeirdChamp LMAOOO
@gino666_4 жыл бұрын
RIP Kobe Bryant and his daughter
@Nate23-f7p4 жыл бұрын
Gino Raya is rumor that the media saying that his other daughter die as well. Sad 😢
@Unknown-zn8cg4 жыл бұрын
Gino Raya saying that in a KZbin comment section doesn’t mean anything fuck off and say “rip” somewhere else
@vlazurah7894 жыл бұрын
Unknown WeirdChamp
@icecoldfire254 жыл бұрын
@@Unknown-zn8cg edgy as hell. Almost cut me you're so edgy.
@brostyle10364 жыл бұрын
Unknown edgy time
@friendlygamercrew73444 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how so many people neglect the fact that you can adopt children. I had a lot of kids in my house, sometimes being able to say that I had 10 other siblings, but that's because my parents did foster care on and off. It doesn't mean the mom is a slut or whatever the fuck chat is saying. My mom only had me and my brother biologically
@jonsnow39194 жыл бұрын
Etne Your parents sound awesome. Also, don’t expect chat to be able to have a nuanced opinion about anything lol.
@friendlygamercrew73444 жыл бұрын
@@jonsnow3919 thank you very much. Yea chat is a bit Pepega
@natenobles43724 жыл бұрын
I was in foster care before I know to some people it looks weird when there are so many kids and they may be different ethnicities people think the most extreme shit. My aunt adopted my nephew and he’s one of the coolest people I know.
@friendlygamercrew73444 жыл бұрын
@@natenobles4372 yea. I have even seen it public too. My mom got so much shit for having a black kid with white kids. People are so fucked sometimes :/
You can’t look at the chat for actually smart opinions when they’re spamming emotes...
@simoputtonen27994 жыл бұрын
Child abuse PogU
@ericreyes50474 жыл бұрын
and questions marks
@lav89724 жыл бұрын
Because all of chat are underage, what the hell do u expect
@newenglandbass4 жыл бұрын
welcome to twitch
@______12784 жыл бұрын
True but you're expecting people to waste effort and give a formal opinion in a chat with thousands of others that's going at the speed of light.
@romanw86323 жыл бұрын
ok so here's how my parents did this. they were pretty strict until I turned 13, once i turned 13 they were like, "ok roman you're a teenager, you can do whatever tf you want just don't do anything super illegal" and i turned out fine
@muncepii3 жыл бұрын
Nice name bruv
@romanw86323 жыл бұрын
@@muncepii thanks
@Mr.Goodkat Жыл бұрын
What was so strict about them before 13?
@Oliver-gn4ih4 жыл бұрын
Every kid is different. Some kids mature better when their parents are strict, some mature better when their parents are super relaxed and not very strict. My parents were strict at first, but quickly realized that doesn't work for me
@AaronWhiting184 жыл бұрын
“They break an arm” “Oh well” 😐
@DoublePlayReacts4 жыл бұрын
you know its funny ive watched alot of Xqc and i attend his streams but it hasnt clicked with me until now but i can bearly understand this man he talks and slurs his words at light-speed
@tino72534 жыл бұрын
Chat like "?" Saying free range is bad and then when they get out of the house and their parents ask where do they go they get mad WeirdChamp
@butchersaxe17684 жыл бұрын
13:27 some guy in chat "she probably calls her mom by her first name absolute psychopath" xd
@GODGAMERWARLORD222934 жыл бұрын
These free-range parents felt like stalkers. The "strict" parents felt like normal parents tbh. Felt like they would actually value their kids private life when they're older
@tommuller31594 жыл бұрын
???????
@ceo87334 жыл бұрын
@@tommuller3159 Basically free range parents are Pepega and strict parents are FeelsOkayMan. Do you understand now?
@tony_51564 жыл бұрын
How though?
@Magerquark4 жыл бұрын
A good parent will lead you to follow your own path, teaching you values so you are able to fulfill your desires, beeing able to function in a society so you can make friends and live a happy life leaving your child to experience everything on their own, basically puts us back into a time before a civil society
@vertyy83544 жыл бұрын
Lady: Why didn’t you tell your parents 7yo Kid : I didn’t want my freedom taken away Me: oK
@trywin98254 жыл бұрын
haHAA
@jtris014 жыл бұрын
?????????????
@GlassMonkay4 жыл бұрын
@@trywin9825 must be nice to be spamming i hate my life emote
@joanabrown8D4 жыл бұрын
Woof Meow ok weeb trash
@voidinheritant4 жыл бұрын
your point? kids would think like that if they had strict parents. why would you tell your parents your mistakes if all your life you were punished for it? it causes isolation and anxiety
@Oliver-gn4ih4 жыл бұрын
4:28 that's like when teachers say "if your friends jumped off a cliff would you jump too?" There's a difference between breaking your arm and fucking dying
@daniilk33624 жыл бұрын
wow i was the first child and my dad was strict, i turned out to have some sort of decency and respect for others, my sister was raised where she got whatever the fuck she wanted and made her own decisions, the moment she steps out of her little private school shes gonna get shit on... if parents wanna be retarted then the world will teach em
@kreempiez37234 жыл бұрын
In 14:20 someone dead ass said open legs😂
@vissetstein74204 жыл бұрын
All I’m gonna say is there is a reason why there are soft and sensitive people these days. And that’s strict parents. Their kids were never allowed to experience certain situations that would toughen them up.
@AnActualRobot4 жыл бұрын
Watching this makes me respect Mexican parents, they're pretty balance with everything as all things should be
@simonditomasso98684 жыл бұрын
8:49 ALINITY Pepelaugh
@idnerfthat4 жыл бұрын
D: MILO
@justincirceie36344 жыл бұрын
It's not that you have friends and one happens to be your mother, it is your mother who gave birth to you and you should love and respect her. Tell me free-range parent, which "friend" gave birth to you, other than your MOTHER. You are accountable if your 5 year old kid gets hurt or injured for example by playing without a parental supervision. If he falls off a cliff and dies, it is your responsibility for not supervising your kid and leaving your kids in an endangered area. And for the 9 yo kid who rode the subway alone, what would happen, if the kid would get beaten up, injured, stabbed, killed or kidnapped. You couldn't do shit about it afterwards. Oh well they are just kids. I'll make another one.
@hamilton44494 жыл бұрын
"they break an arm ohhh well..."- Karen 2020 (Colourised)
@voidinheritant4 жыл бұрын
Life teaches it's own lessons, i agree.
@Southernswag82833 жыл бұрын
I grew up with strict parents and it made me want to go wild and experience stuff. I got on drugs and alcohol real bad and now I know why they were trying to protect me. I am so thankful for them for getting me out of that lifestyle when i was on the brink of death. Now I know they meant well being strict. Now since I have first hand experience of going wild, I will be strict to my kids and let them know what I went through and how miserable it was on drugs with all the withdraws and everything. All the kids I grew up with “Free range parents” are still on drugs and there family doesn’t care. I was saved by family when other families didn’t care about there sons and daughters and what they did and so many of my friends have died. I’m so glad I had a family that cared about me to never give up on me because I PROMISE you, I would be dead FOR A FACT wayyyy long ago but I’m here because they were here for me and tried to prevent me from getting exposed to all that. I understand why they were the way they were and I am so beyond blessed they got me to snap out of it before I OD’D and would have been gone forever.
@mysticalbeast53774 жыл бұрын
14:39 Asians sitting here like: 👁👄👁
@Droneuse4 жыл бұрын
Honestly you should be in the middle of "strict" and "free-range". Being allowed to do whatever they want for however long they turn out spoiled and arrogant. And strict kids follow the rules and make no decisions for themselves.
@thescruffinator88304 жыл бұрын
I was spanked and I came out fine, Yes... You came out fine in spite of it, not because of it.
@bootscrombled4 жыл бұрын
Yes... You are LIVING PROOF that spanking is fantastic for kids. Fuck the countless studies that link it to anxiety and aggression, the only thing that matters in this discussion is you and your fucked up childhood. You self-absorbed knobhead.
@smiley__kylee4 жыл бұрын
Richard Yi I don’t think you understand this comment. Re-read it
@OptimalShot4 жыл бұрын
@@bootscrombled "knobhead" LULW
@ran1604 жыл бұрын
Richard Yi YIKES
@thescruffinator88304 жыл бұрын
@@bootscrombled Did you even read the entire comment dumbass?
@Divinemakyr4 жыл бұрын
"Chat, this is a crazy fucking witch, if this was the fucking sixteenth century, dude, she'd be brewing a fucking potion with a hat on dude." 13:26
@wsstwood4 жыл бұрын
i have asian parents and my parents aren’t those type of crazy parents that install camera in room, no doors, no boy best friends and have life 360. as long as i tell them where i’m going and who i’m going with, they’re fine with me. but at the same time they want the perfect out of me because they never had the chance to go to school so yeah. PepeHands
@billishmoin4 жыл бұрын
thats facts, my parents dont like control me completely at all like life 360 n shit but like they always want to make sure that i am living up to their goals, even if i dont like it
@tylert.5554 жыл бұрын
life 360 PepeHands
@marhabacarpet85934 жыл бұрын
are you Vietnamese?
@wsstwood4 жыл бұрын
Marhaba Carpet no burmese and japanese
@marhabacarpet85934 жыл бұрын
@@wsstwood oh
@lvl2mankey4 жыл бұрын
I have a strict parent and I totally understand why. Obviously in the moment you think that they are wrong but they have done it already and made it (unless their life is a shitshow). If they are trying to keep you in check then that's good. I think that kids should have some freedom but until they are 18 they are still under the supervision of a parent or guardian which is why parents will be strict. Tbh though I'm a dumbass Pvc viewer so take it with a grain of salt.
@Tigery-fx7kn4 жыл бұрын
As a 17 year old (almost 18),I can easily say that I got spanked so hard that I got bruises on the side of my legs, and I am angry, I hate my father for that, I grew up with more fear than love for my father, and the funny part is he is a doctor who is supposed to HELP and HEAL people, he is a genius, but that will never change the fact of what he did, I will never forget nor forgive Him for that
@zak58562 жыл бұрын
You are now 18, revenge is close .
@Buggolious Жыл бұрын
did you get his ass yet?
@rej64194 жыл бұрын
Strict parents taught kids how to listen for footsteps and how to act like you were doing something else in about a second before they come into the room
@lordfloppa58634 жыл бұрын
The glory days are officially over I had some hope that after a while the chat would become normal again but its getting worse and worse. Please ban all these cancerous 12 year olds from your chat
@funkgaara324 жыл бұрын
Imagine being triggered by pixels
@Coolrot4 жыл бұрын
Funkgaara32 shut
@angusyoung35554 жыл бұрын
FujitoraTheGreat fuck
@aneanderthalscout374 жыл бұрын
@@angusyoung3555 up
@lordfloppa58634 жыл бұрын
Funkgaara32 I wouldnt get triggered over pixels, but it bothers me that these are real people.
@agskater19144 жыл бұрын
A part of the xQc Jubilee React experience is the pre-video "no dude we cant watch this" disagreement with watching the video but then concedes with perhaps a "okay, one more" or "okay we'll watch it dude." ❤
@faber39694 жыл бұрын
0:34 These kids were 10 and 6 walking to a park only 1 mile away. Regardless of your parenting style, that doesn't seem to be an issue at all.
@aquasnippy4 жыл бұрын
Faber yeah that’s really not bad unless you know you’re in a bad neighborhood
@jinxd5114 жыл бұрын
highly depends on the area
@VermillionRedd4 жыл бұрын
I saw a video where a kid was hit when he crossed the road.
@joshuanegrete36334 жыл бұрын
@@VermillionRedd and? Is it common? What's the point?
@readdescriptionforanaughty33443 жыл бұрын
Once upon a time I asked my dad if I could set off some fireworks and he told me this: "If you ask me for permission then I have to say no."
@bravesirrobinn4 жыл бұрын
9:37 yeah, by other black kids...
@runescapecreatorduh4 жыл бұрын
weirdchamp
@jo0pa9334 жыл бұрын
he said a colour cmonbruh
@doomcriticalzx65544 жыл бұрын
Ryan white people too
@Vlo.Murkin3 жыл бұрын
'kids should be able to make their own choices because my kid shouldn't have to ask to get more banana bread.' Shady guy: *hey kiddo, want some candy* child: *hmm, i think yes*
@AmethystCAE4 жыл бұрын
I really do like XQC, but parent wise you don't know what you're talking about lol
@RoonMHGU4 жыл бұрын
Neither do you
@matthewrussell77454 жыл бұрын
el supweme actually true
@raisable1014 жыл бұрын
@@RoonMHGU did he say he did?
@RoonMHGU4 жыл бұрын
@@raisable101 go back and read it, he is implying like if he does know "but parents wise you don't know what your talking about lol"
@AmethystCAE4 жыл бұрын
@@RoonMHGU Atleast I have more than 2 functioning braincells when it comes to parenting.
@MERCYFN-rl5ir4 жыл бұрын
3:00 'see you later free range parents' weird champ
@shrinivas6314 жыл бұрын
R.I.P. Kobe , gone but not forgotten... 😫😫
@georgefloyd23024 жыл бұрын
Nick gurr dead
@kalza57744 жыл бұрын
Tae Know funny and edgy hahahahhahaha
@georgefloyd23024 жыл бұрын
Kaarle Mäkinen nah I’m just old school
@Jstraw8054 жыл бұрын
Tae Know embodiment of yikes
@qvd35334 жыл бұрын
@@georgefloyd2302 Racism :joy:
@duffal03 жыл бұрын
I’m white and while I don’t understand the experience of black people, I have several black friends (I know it’s cliche). I also have a lot of white friends. My black friends are what you might consider to be real blacks, like straight out the hood. A lot of my white friends are republicans who come from nice areas. Not once have I ever seen racism, like I don’t understand how so many black people say that racism affects their lives so heavily. Just my 2 cents.
@chungus1004 жыл бұрын
NA parenting is training a dog. Got it.
@djwards4724 жыл бұрын
You train your body, you potty train, you train skills. Holy fuck its the right word.
@b00st3d74 жыл бұрын
9:30 someone in chat said "free range chicken" I'm fucking wheezing
@howtopissoffacommentsectio39344 жыл бұрын
What I took from this video: all of them are bad parents, except maybe nguyen
@kuunani19624 жыл бұрын
I think Hal is ok as long as he doesn’t force religion onto his children and lets them choose what they want to believe
@pellemeijer14434 жыл бұрын
@@kuunani1962 he spanks his kids lol
@prayingpatrick96284 жыл бұрын
@@pellemeijer1443 i was raised by mexicans and they spanked me everytime i did something bad... i learned from my mistakes and now i am a mature person
@prayingpatrick96284 жыл бұрын
@KakashiLee every person are different ofc some people would act differently if their parents spanked them
@viperfied22844 жыл бұрын
You should guide and help your kids. You can be as strict as you want. But your kids should not FEAR you.
@MrLittelmerciles4 жыл бұрын
These are two extremes that dont work by itself. Being a permissive parent and authoritarian parent cause problems but authoritative parents really combine the best and leaves behind the worst.
@waitwhat35473 жыл бұрын
what they don't understand is that parenting is generally a 2 step process, until your kid starts to think for themselves and understand others and their intentions you as an adult should act as a passive filter that at least gives them an idea of what people are what might they think and then they can judge for themselves . After they are "grown ups" a parent should act as a safety net until the parents death, you know always be there wether talking to you would be your grown up kids last or first option
@zxrke87054 жыл бұрын
Rip Kobe Bryant😢
@TheSecretiveDragon4 жыл бұрын
Holy sh-t I thought you were joking.
@zxrke87054 жыл бұрын
@@TheSecretiveDragon i still cant believe it😢
@alfiehudson1584 жыл бұрын
The kids of the strict parents are the demons breaking the rules
@3xx0clan4 жыл бұрын
does anyone in this pepega chat even have kids? they seem to have a lot of experience lul
@Matt-ri6vo4 жыл бұрын
God I'm glad my parents are more on the strict side. My dumbass would have broke so many bones when I was a kid and thanks to my mother telling me not to do shit I have never broken a bone. These free range parents are nuts lol
@Jonathan-gj6mh4 жыл бұрын
Free Range parents don’t parent, they are just friends to there children
@turbotwinz81374 жыл бұрын
It’s important for parents not to be helicopter parents because when the kids grow up they expect that the parent should be doing everything. I know people whose moms write their resumes and ask their kid’s bosses for a raise. There is a great book called 50 dangerous things kids should do, and every dangerous things has a lesson on why it should be done. For example, making a baking soda and vinegar reaction, it helps the kids understand chemical reactions first hand. Listen to the Gever Tulley TED talk and you’re get a good inside on the ideas behind the book