Yandy, Mendeecees & Infinity’s Family Timeline On Love & Hip Hop

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@Jane-rs2si
@Jane-rs2si 2 жыл бұрын
As much as Yandy may come across as a liar etc One thing about it she is a good ass mother, step mother, really genuine intentions with children period, I strongly believe this was not for a publicity stunt at all.
@guccirosas5218
@guccirosas5218 2 жыл бұрын
No but infinitys crap was shes playing victim to much to hold her narrative
@valenciawilson1414
@valenciawilson1414 2 жыл бұрын
I agree n her TRIFLING ass husband is her moving weird AF
@ByNature15
@ByNature15 Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t come across as one, she is one lol
@Jane-rs2si
@Jane-rs2si Жыл бұрын
@@ByNature15 Clearly
@K1NG0fTHER00T
@K1NG0fTHER00T 6 ай бұрын
She takes peoples kids tho infinity was fine and the other kids that her husband had she dogs the mothers when she took the kids they didn’t have to go there with her . Yandy is a snake
@Nygia12
@Nygia12 2 жыл бұрын
Everything Mendeeces had to say was correct. He handled the situation very well imo
@auroramchugh2250
@auroramchugh2250 2 жыл бұрын
He handled it like a man is supposed to handle it I give him applause
@jinellerobinson4392
@jinellerobinson4392 2 жыл бұрын
I hate how they put him on the spot like that knowing he is not comfortable. Yandy is really a bad person imo to everyone involved
@morewithmariama7723
@morewithmariama7723 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I get manipulative vibes from Infiniti.
@Jecht1221
@Jecht1221 2 жыл бұрын
@@morewithmariama7723 She's def lying. She doesn't like rules at her moms or her grandmas. Only reason she likes Yandy is probably the money.
@wambajaweaver4202
@wambajaweaver4202 2 жыл бұрын
@@jinellerobinson4392 Mendeeces offered to help with finding an apartment and paying two months rent, and help her transition into an adult, that's more then a lot of biological parents do for their children. After everything, she should take this offer and move forward. But Mendeeces in a hard place, he wants to protect himself and children, but he doesn't want to hurt Yandy. In my opinion, Yandy should put her husband and children first, and let Infiniti go, and live her life. She proved multiple times that she was there for Infiniti.
@graciemac795
@graciemac795 2 жыл бұрын
If someone opened their home and family to me, I'd appreciate it. The way she threatened them with a Tell-All book is all the way wrong and the definition of betrayal.
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
Facts ! If she done that to yandy I can only imagine how she treated her real family.
@Ilovecerealcerealcereal
@Ilovecerealcerealcereal 2 жыл бұрын
Yes but she’s a child. Even if she’s of legal age. I was in the foster care system and for the most part most of the kids have a lot of problems, I definitely don’t think Mendeecees was going for it and bottom line she chose her husband over her foster daughter. I don’t think she ever should’ve taken her to begin with. You really need to be able to love that child like they’re your own and bond which is hard to do with teenagers
@mep2737
@mep2737 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ilovecerealcerealcereal she was never in a foster home according to her mom she lied about everything
@joannefredman1216
@joannefredman1216 2 жыл бұрын
@@mep2737 and she didn't deny it when Yandy confronted her, all she did was plaster on another story about men and forced to grow up. She ran away and was in the system since November (assuming from how it was said that not even a year had passed)
@tkay1381
@tkay1381 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ilovecerealcerealcereal she's a child 💯 but she failed to understand that she's not their child. They don't have to be disrespected by someone else's child.
@sharyageorge
@sharyageorge 2 жыл бұрын
I understand infinity was in the foster system and her life wasn’t easy, but that doesn’t excuse her behavior. She knew exactly what she was doing when she threatened to write a tell all book. I’m not a fan of mendeecees but I understand his feelings toward her. I wouldn’t want anything to do with her either.
@mufasa1794
@mufasa1794 2 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, really? She was obviously looking for a come up.
@kyaria8888
@kyaria8888 2 жыл бұрын
She coulda talked to Yandy before going to the internet.
@queencharlibee1991
@queencharlibee1991 2 жыл бұрын
But it was cool for yandy to put this girl crying and all that shit on camera for the world to see. Please save that bullshit
@ccb3519
@ccb3519 2 жыл бұрын
@@queencharlibee1991 so threatened and writing things that not true isnt worse? Her a$$ need to be crying and i would've but her back into foster care idc
@sharyageorge
@sharyageorge 2 жыл бұрын
@@queencharlibee1991the girl is on a reality TV show. She had the opportunity to not be a part of it. So miss me with that BS
@calired2473
@calired2473 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity lowkey looks like a young Kendra😭😭 i can’t unsee it!
@tytimorellsantillanez
@tytimorellsantillanez 5 ай бұрын
Bruh same!!!!
@NatSpin
@NatSpin 4 ай бұрын
Giiiirll
@calired2473
@calired2473 4 ай бұрын
@@NatSpin ?
@NatSpin
@NatSpin 4 ай бұрын
@@calired2473 I was agreeing witcha
@calired2473
@calired2473 4 ай бұрын
@@NatSpin oh 😭yes girl !
@kelly-monique6983
@kelly-monique6983 2 жыл бұрын
When Mendeecees and Yandy told her that she had to get an apt, I think it was really mature of Infinity to understand that her reaction to the situation may have been a trauma response and that she is not seeing the situation correctly because of her trauma. That type of self-awareness can only come if you are going to therapy.
@edenxworld
@edenxworld 2 жыл бұрын
it really shows her growth. I hope she gets to find that peace
@betterdays239
@betterdays239 2 жыл бұрын
Her past issues made her cry. But the reason they are getting her an apartment is because Mendc wants her out. And is going with what her husband says. If his son had done the same thing because of hurt or whatever reason he would pull him closer not push him further because he is having issues while becoming a young man.
@lourdiefequiere9124
@lourdiefequiere9124 2 жыл бұрын
@@betterdays239 I agree with everything you said eventhough this was a long time ago. Mendeces does not want her in the house.
@menishiaholden4787
@menishiaholden4787 Жыл бұрын
When you tell a foster kid they need to get an apt. That’s a niece way of saying you don’t accept them. I think the statement could of been a reaction of her being exploited
@Bingbangxox
@Bingbangxox Жыл бұрын
Yessss I said the same thing. That girl gotta therapist!
@rainnmoon114
@rainnmoon114 2 жыл бұрын
Y'all talking shit about yandy but infinity lied about her past, threatened to do a tell all, and she decided it start wildin 🤷🏾‍♀️ it sounds to me like infinity wanted a come up and a luxury life thru yandy
@LifeAskmarie
@LifeAskmarie 6 ай бұрын
I don’t understand where you coming from but she older now in change for the better
@shanellebrooks2877
@shanellebrooks2877 2 ай бұрын
Yup
@kittykatcongregation
@kittykatcongregation 7 күн бұрын
It sounds like you don't have a lot of emotional intelligence and I mean that's a big issue with our society and in the world.
@myrlandemichel9222
@myrlandemichel9222 2 жыл бұрын
Mendecee makes a good point. It’s about responsibility. Why she’s on the phone while they had a conversation with her. Why yandee is encouraging her to come back. This girl doesn’t want to take responsibility. Mandecee did not say anything wrong to her. I don’t know why infinity kept on crying . They wanna help you . And you need to help yourself too. Growing up baby girl. There is nothing wrong to take responsibility.
@yermf5960
@yermf5960 2 жыл бұрын
^^^
@starrjones192
@starrjones192 2 жыл бұрын
Not to mention she was a dating a older man 💯 yandy tried to stop it and she wouldn’t listen just like she threaten to write a book. I believe yandy really care for her and Mendeecees I also believe the real mom because some her ways showed up in between them times she was around Mendeeces is a very observant guy he feels energy and he is very concentrated. 💯 I understand she been through it but I also think she can be manipulative. Soon as mendeecees told her what they plan to do far as her independence she start crying. They really tryna help her they still gonna be there for her but even after what she did shit I would be cautious too.
@eboneepeevy2666
@eboneepeevy2666 2 жыл бұрын
I understand but everyone is different. She didn’t feel like she had a home environment as a child. So she never had that child hood. It’s like people have that mentality of you 18 time to get out on your own. NO every family don’t operate like that, this world is cruel and having your family close to help each other thru life shouldn’t be frowned upon. It take strong minded people. She can establish independence getting a job and living at home where she feels safe. She was intelligent enough to express that’s exactly what she needs and wants.
@xo_xjr_xo
@xo_xjr_xo 2 жыл бұрын
@@eboneepeevy2666 I’m with you on this. I’m sure if she was their biological daughter it would not be going down this way when she began acting irresponsibly. They may have had the same concerns but they would not have forced her to become independent, especially at her age and still in college which is quite challenging both emotionally and financially. Everyones story is different.
@starrjones192
@starrjones192 2 жыл бұрын
@Helly XanHellz ayo stop tagging my name my comment still STANDS I said what I said and I don’t have to explain anything to you. It’s called OPINIONS. Move around
@missmuradzikwa5880
@missmuradzikwa5880 2 жыл бұрын
“If you don’t want people to say negative things about you don’t do them” 🙌🏾
@jalessacampbell6946
@jalessacampbell6946 2 жыл бұрын
She looks like she could be Kendra's daughter (Young Joc's wife). Look at her facial features.
@B_Reigns
@B_Reigns 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I see it too
@fabulous40sIV
@fabulous40sIV 2 жыл бұрын
She do Wow you right
@Asia-sk8lc
@Asia-sk8lc 2 жыл бұрын
Can you see that lady from The Game in her? She was the girlfriend of the spoiled rotten football player and in real life. I can't remember her name but she also played on a movie called Sparkle. She a model too.
@AngelViews
@AngelViews 2 жыл бұрын
@@Asia-sk8lc Tika Sumpter
@keyme52525
@keyme52525 2 жыл бұрын
She looks like Jim jones mother to
@mimseyrenee2217
@mimseyrenee2217 2 жыл бұрын
You can’t be disloyal and expect anyone to bring you in their home. No can do. I don’t care how much I love you. If you loved me your loyalty and my privacy would be respected.
@guccirosas5218
@guccirosas5218 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly nd she definitely knows what she's doing here tho knowing yandy gonna always take her back
@ladykelly9472
@ladykelly9472 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity gives me scammer vibes
@sap3338
@sap3338 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity needs a lot of therapy, she’s seems entitled and tactical. I too wouldn’t trust her around my family for too long. You can’t threaten a family with ‘exposing’ them and expect for them to take care of you! 😂
@cassandradiaz7651
@cassandradiaz7651 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. I don't like the 'manipulation vibes' Infinity gives off. She cries, then Yandy cries and gives in. Infinity's issues are going to need long term, on going therapy, not an instant family.
@keshawnfarley2269
@keshawnfarley2269 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t blame her like she’s only 16 years old but that doesn’t mean she can’t do whatever she wants because I was a freeman at that age and I had people decipline me when I was young but I that don’t bother me because I’m 23 years old now and I’m grown so I don’t need no rules
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
@@keshawnfarley2269 you don’t blame her for being manipulated!?!?
@NicolePhenix
@NicolePhenix 2 жыл бұрын
You said everything in one sentence
@tishag216
@tishag216 2 жыл бұрын
Agree said the same thing
@Melanin360Studio
@Melanin360Studio 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly Infinity’s behavior is a liability being that Mendeeces just got out of prison. She can say anything about him to easily send him back. Also she’s never seen or been in a loving two parent family so I think her reaction is exploiting to keep Yandy to herself. 🤚🏽My opinion.
@AllHailKingRose
@AllHailKingRose 2 жыл бұрын
He’s already been accused of r’ing an underage girl and literally had to beat the case and probably doesn’t want it to happen again so I don’t blame him either
@jonesiies2bossy372
@jonesiies2bossy372 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly my sentiments
@starchildofthe90s7
@starchildofthe90s7 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@guccirosas5218
@guccirosas5218 2 жыл бұрын
agreed, she is playing this victim role to much js to help her narrative to stay with em cuz like she said she was gon write a book about everything
@miimuse6045
@miimuse6045 2 жыл бұрын
✅✅✅💯💯💯💚💚💚
@kaceyhartling1422
@kaceyhartling1422 Жыл бұрын
being a foster parent isn't easy. These kids have been through stuff you don't even know and they react to things in all the wrong ways. I don't think Yandy was prepared for the difficulties
@JP-gx6pi
@JP-gx6pi 6 ай бұрын
They don’t prepare foster parents enough and they do so accordingly, it’s intentional.
@kyaria8888
@kyaria8888 2 жыл бұрын
Yandys husband made some good points.
@adacohen9493
@adacohen9493 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so sweet to see Infinity with the kids, you can tell how much they love each other. I really feel for her, she’s obviously been through a lot. I hope that Yandy truly understands the emotional responsibility of taking in a traumatized child and doesn’t add to her trauma but helps her heal. She needs to be held!!! Hug her and love her!!
@chaylavienails5937
@chaylavienails5937 2 жыл бұрын
They're kids they love anyone who plays with them.
@Jecht1221
@Jecht1221 2 жыл бұрын
@@chaylavienails5937 Yep, kids love anyone who gives them attention. I bet infinity didn't treat her siblings that way.
@bougiebougie
@bougiebougie Жыл бұрын
Girl bye her ,,,
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity is so damn manipulative ! She got upset with yandy for meeting with her mom because she knew her lies was going to be exposed!
@kennedyfknalexa
@kennedyfknalexa 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like they both used each other for s come up.
@Therealamirinicole
@Therealamirinicole 2 жыл бұрын
That’s how i feel
@Mila-er6ms
@Mila-er6ms 2 жыл бұрын
@@kennedyfknalexa 🎯🎯🎯
@kiara198923
@kiara198923 2 жыл бұрын
@@kennedyfknalexa who? Yandy & Infinity??? I never watch these shows like this. Usually just the clips/compilations on KZbin.
@royaldiadem_
@royaldiadem_ 2 жыл бұрын
Or one could say so that the mothers lies could be believed. The real mother clearly is drunk and high running the streets herself sleeping with random men. We all know that part of Infinity’s story is true.
@starchildofthe90s7
@starchildofthe90s7 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the most bad for mendeecees because Yandy put him in a bad situation. And now she had to renig on what she promised infinity. Yand did not think this through in its entirety and caused alot of drama and pain.
@nancyfischer4875
@nancyfischer4875 Жыл бұрын
He put Yandy in a bad situation The hell
@NessaGee-hx1et
@NessaGee-hx1et 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity thought she was going to be a celebrity kid and it didn’t go as planned for her. She should have appreciated what was done for her and acted right instead of being a brat about it.
@haileylopez8265
@haileylopez8265 2 жыл бұрын
I completely understand why infinity is the way she is. Being in the system completely changes you in the worst way. Life becomes nothing but survival. You become untrustworthy of everybody and you use anything and everything against everybody to protect yourself. It takes a lot of love and support to unlearn those things and unfortunately, even when we have it, we ruin it because we just don’t trust anyone. We burn bridges and end up feeling abandoned even though it was our fault. It takes a lot of self-accountability to get over it.
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
But she wasn’t in the system all of her life ! She clearly lied about that .
@sweetztea4053
@sweetztea4053 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Well said 💟
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@bohkhuj9247 definitely didn’t lie about something her mother lied because it’s evidence that she was in the system multiple times court records talking to social workers .
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@bohkhuj9247 even if she was in the system for months it doesn’t matter because she was one of six kids living in poverty being abandoned with a mother who was a alcoholic she was forced to take care of herself then placed in foster care so all of that mixed in a pot hurts
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@bohkhuj9247 and again in Mendences validated every thing she has experienced because he knows what he feels like he just held her accountable it was never no “oh he sees through her BS” like he said he sees all her issues because he can relate to him but she needs to understand how to communicate which is an issue that are you going to which she myself and multiple other children have went through don’t know how to communicate we weren’t taught to communicate we were taught to survive so that means sometimes to run or attack
@saundrap.367
@saundrap.367 2 жыл бұрын
..but in reality she is not a child anymore. She can't stay with them forever.
@Brianesha
@Brianesha 2 жыл бұрын
That’s not what the whole situation was even about omfg
@saundrap.367
@saundrap.367 2 жыл бұрын
@@Brianesha it is actually. She is out of high school and off to college She became disrespectful and wants to move in because she isn't ready to be on her own??? GTFOH. If she wanted to be with her "family" she wouldn't have done what she had done. Period.,
@AshtinHasArrived
@AshtinHasArrived 2 жыл бұрын
I truly believe Yandy’s heart was in the right place but let’s be real Her man was gone for a long time she has 3 kids and was BORED and may have bit off more than she could chew. And it’s very unfair to make your husband adjust to another new lifestyle in his own home
@animechik10
@animechik10 2 жыл бұрын
but it wasn't unfair for him to leave her with three kids and go to jail for breaking the law for years? I'm sure even in his mind her trying to help a kid doesn't compare.
@freedom374
@freedom374 Жыл бұрын
@@animechik10 Exactly, was it fair 🤔 for him to be Away from his family for 3 years! Yikes. Yandy did a much better job and Prison vs. Being there and raising kids are 2 different things and incomparable.
@nancyfischer4875
@nancyfischer4875 Жыл бұрын
Yeah naw that’s not his home it’s Yandy home she contributed to their lifestyle ‼️ Mendecees just scared she’s going to tarnish his image with Yandy what we already know
@jammzy2959
@jammzy2959 7 ай бұрын
Are you serious? It wasn't fair for him to put his family through that.
@devonte8892
@devonte8892 2 жыл бұрын
i really feel sad for Infinity because she's been through so much and all she wanted is to be apart of a loving caring family
@sunnybtheempress4417
@sunnybtheempress4417 2 жыл бұрын
Of money
@Queenalika85
@Queenalika85 2 жыл бұрын
Agree...
@ccb3519
@ccb3519 2 жыл бұрын
Money too 💀
@netty1221
@netty1221 2 жыл бұрын
Oh pls she didn't wana listen to her mother's rules or live with her Grandmother who BOTH love her and wanted the best for her. She don't like to be told no. She's very emotionally unstable and wants all the attention.
@Life.of.beauty20
@Life.of.beauty20 Жыл бұрын
But I'm kinda confused cause infinity and yandy look the same 😂
@kasandra_dior
@kasandra_dior 2 жыл бұрын
I knew infinity my husband use to teach her how to play basketball she’s a very smart girl that went through a lot growing up in Brownsville it’s not easy… I’m praying for her.
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
Yea we know she's smart.. Gotta b smart to manipulate these many adults!
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 2 жыл бұрын
My heart really goes out to Infinty and all the kids in the system. For people to take on the responsibility of a child or multiple children and then decide it’s too much and send them back is horrendous! When Infinity mentioned that once she was back in Yandy’s house, it really broke my heart! How can anyone do that?! SMH it’s a horrible situation that some of these kids are in.
@ccb3519
@ccb3519 2 жыл бұрын
Its their own opinion doesnt matter
@kweenz600
@kweenz600 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!! And people are really falling all over themselves to not feel any empathy for Infinity. It’s honestly heartbreaking.
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 2 жыл бұрын
@@ccb3519 what’s their own opinion?
@jordinhassen
@jordinhassen 2 жыл бұрын
@@kweenz600 I came from foster care system from Colombia in which I was multiple homes & got adopted into USA & that family didn’t want us & got readopted again, although she went though trauma I honestly don’t think Yandy or mandecees was being hard on her, she’s older now so helping her become an young adult which she is is the best thing they can do for her and also get her some therapy. I too once didn’t listen and hated reprimand from parents but it was just because I wanted to feel secure and loved, but I wouldn’t act out in the way she did in order to get my way, specially with a public family like them. I feel for both parties and see both point of views. I think she’s still stuck in trauma as a little girl and wants to be taken care of which is how I once was, but what she doesn’t realize is one your 18 your free from anybody controlling where you go & when you go SPECIALLY from the system. The fact they were willing to help with college & help her get on her own! My adopted parents didn’t give a fuck and I been on my own with no help since 17
@sunnybtheempress4417
@sunnybtheempress4417 2 жыл бұрын
@@jordinhassen it's your testimony that makes me advocate for the real survivors of the system. People hear system and right away are feeling sorry for a spoiled brat run away like infinity. When you really endured it gracefully and healed from it. You deserve to be awarded,praised and heard. You had to be in the darkness and created a empress within yourself.May God bless you abundantly 🧚🏽‍♀️🏆💯
@capricornqueen3139
@capricornqueen3139 2 жыл бұрын
Some kids when they get a certain age start thinking they are grown and you can't tell them NOTHING....and when they start doing that it's either follow the rules( like EVERYBODY ELSE IN LIFE) Infinity seems like she think people owe her something and if it's a case of Yandy might be breaking the rules she can't DO THAT!!! AND YOU NEVER BITE THE Hand THAT FEEDS YOU.... THREATENING TO EXPOSE THE ONE PERSON THAT WAS THERE FOR YOU IS JUST WRONG!!!!
@guccirosas5218
@guccirosas5218 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY SHES USING THIS VICTIM ROLE TO MUCH IN THE LONG RUN you're your own person and need to be held accountable for what u do wrong and grow up cuz u ain't gonna be 7 again
@capricornqueen3139
@capricornqueen3139 2 жыл бұрын
@@guccirosas5218 FACTS💯
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
@@guccirosas5218 That's how Narcissist move... They use the victim role until they can't no more..
@Lailah518
@Lailah518 2 жыл бұрын
I baffles me how adults think kids under 18 don't have life struggles and traumatic experiences. I wanna ask how great their childhood was.
@preciousjacob6108
@preciousjacob6108 Жыл бұрын
It’s because they probably didn’t experience the same pain she does. Just like a person who never used drugs wouldn’t understand the struggle of an addict
@Lo0622
@Lo0622 2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for her but regardless of what she's been through she's gonna have to grow up... Just because they wanted her in her own apartment doesn't mean they're throwing her to the side. I could understand the tears if she hadn't done anything wrong. But she broke that trust and once it's broken, it's not easy to get back. At least they're giving her that opportunity though because some wouldn't allow that. 🤷‍♀️
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I feel like she was being manipulative in that moment .
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
You must not have any traumatic experiences with being thrown away as a child that’s how she acquitted the situation
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@bohkhuj9247 You’re clearly obsessed and have no education or empathy at the end of the day from her experiences she equated that she was being left out and removed from the situation like she’s always been removed has nothing to do with being manipulative it’s her emotions
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@bohkhuj9247 Plus if you knew anything you know that they said they’ll recently and did a podcast talking about everything that wasn’t shown on the show so it was told to infinity by yandy close friend at one point they only adopted her for clout so her fear and pain is valid
@Lita_213
@Lita_213 2 жыл бұрын
You're not lying! The moment she threatened to have Yandy's biological children taken away, my empathy for that girl dwindled.
@netty1221
@netty1221 2 жыл бұрын
I believe Infinity mother she's a rebel. Yandy didn't even know this girl when she tried to save her.
@theiamcubanaxshow5001
@theiamcubanaxshow5001 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity was just a young girl looking to be accepted. I think Yandy genuinely cares for her.
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
Yea that's what she wanted everyone to believe 👀
@MiZzBee1
@MiZzBee1 2 жыл бұрын
She doesn't have a choice on "growing up".. We ALL *HAVE* to grow up.
@kussiebussie9715
@kussiebussie9715 2 жыл бұрын
No one should be forced ti grow up before their time. That’s the point. Of course we all have to grow up
@beyoutifulanna1524
@beyoutifulanna1524 2 жыл бұрын
@@kussiebussie9715 yes!!!
@lilgangsta9465
@lilgangsta9465 2 жыл бұрын
It. M mmimmmmmp
@guccirosas5218
@guccirosas5218 2 жыл бұрын
@@kussiebussie9715 but she wasn't forced shes making big decisions that are leading her up to that point, if she wants to act grown then she needs to grow up and start acting like an adult and hold herself accountable shes js playing the victim card to hold on to her narrative
@lillybethford1915
@lillybethford1915 2 жыл бұрын
The audacity of Mendece to not show Infinity any mercy, interestingly, this is coming from someone that’s been given mercy, over and over again. The hypocrisy is overwhelming. He has been in prison many of times and his babies mothers has extended their grace, he doesn’t want Yandy’s attention elsewhere. Yes, Infinity’s behavior was unacceptable, however, if she was THEIR daughter, they would not have thrown her out. You do not use adoption as a storyline.
@Ms4everChrist
@Ms4everChrist 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. I see this issue from God's eye. God forgives no matter what. I it's about money for yandy husband, nephew and first two kids.
@emayan06
@emayan06 2 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t have a Super ill way feeling towards her. He just protecting him and his family and that’s understandable.
@chaylavienails5937
@chaylavienails5937 2 жыл бұрын
??? They are a high profile family they don't need this little girl kicking them where it hurts everytime her little feelings get hurt. What she needs to do is heal and then come back. If someone does something wrong with the intent of hurting you and not caring how you feel there needs to be consequences. This girl keep crying and acting like someone's hurting her. She just gunna do it again if its that easy to just come back like it was nothing. She's not getting thrown out she getting to an apartment. She's just ungreatful. She wants what she wants or nothing at all.
@Ms4everChrist
@Ms4everChrist 2 жыл бұрын
@@chaylavienails5937 yes they are. I'm Christian I see it from God eyes he forgives us no what we done.
@SunshineKK99
@SunshineKK99 2 жыл бұрын
@@chaylavienails5937 She seems manipulative as well...I can't stand people using mind games as a way of controlling outcomes of situations..it irks me!!
@Author_DeQuindra_Renea
@Author_DeQuindra_Renea 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity: starts crying Mendeeces: Alright, Imma head out 😂😂
@jalissae
@jalissae 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@malehlohonolo8463
@malehlohonolo8463 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂as he should, that girl is bad news
@tahiyahsmith1485
@tahiyahsmith1485 4 ай бұрын
Lolllll😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shanellebrooks2877
@shanellebrooks2877 2 ай бұрын
😊😂
@laylor4360
@laylor4360 Ай бұрын
He’s a weirdo and bad dad
@plant3508
@plant3508 2 жыл бұрын
That girl is manipulative
@QuanTiduh
@QuanTiduh 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity is young and she's made mistakes. It hurts the most when you feel like the people who are supposed to be there for you aren't supporting you in the ways that you need. I hope she finds the love she deserves and so desperately craves.
@afuaaboagyewaa5311
@afuaaboagyewaa5311 2 жыл бұрын
What was her intention of the tell all book and not coming over for Christmas when she was invited. So because she isn’t home medeecees can’t take a pic with his family? Yandy should have thought this through thoroughly. Bringing in someone into your house is a whole other thing. Their traumas may blind them to appreciating the love shown them. Yandy should have thought this through.
@giftog3685
@giftog3685 11 ай бұрын
This is my life
@CarlaCapers
@CarlaCapers 2 жыл бұрын
She is not ready to be on her own. She clearly communicated this and if you chose the responsibility to adopt, your love and support needs to be unconditional, as if you birthed them. Infinity definitely needs therapy to work out her abandonment issues but Yandy needs to also learn how trauma can affect children. The more you know the better you can navigate these situations.
@lynnw100
@lynnw100 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely 🙌🏾
@goatceltics5226
@goatceltics5226 Жыл бұрын
How old is she?
@poppin2296
@poppin2296 Жыл бұрын
@@goatceltics5226 34
@kimeop123
@kimeop123 Жыл бұрын
@@goatceltics5226 21
@shania9305
@shania9305 Жыл бұрын
Word! And Yandy needs to take full responsibility because her husband does not give af bout infinity. He didn’t even want her to cry.
@tinyd2371
@tinyd2371 2 жыл бұрын
Mendeeces was very chill and he spoke with value
@LyricAiLove
@LyricAiLove 2 жыл бұрын
Yandy took in a girl who had been abandoned multiple times and has clear abandonment issues and then as soon as her husband got out of jail, all of sudden she's too much to handle. I'm sorry, but to me it looks like Infinity was a project for Yandy while Mendeecees was in jail.
@spicednsauced
@spicednsauced 2 жыл бұрын
and a storyline
@Asia-sk8lc
@Asia-sk8lc 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!!
@alishamoore4472
@alishamoore4472 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think so I feel that infinity manipulated the situation she researched Yandy and told a story to get the life she wanted Yandy took her in with good intention I work in foster care and you just understand kids have trauma and problems and feel they can do what they want because it’s not there biological parent or family.
@spicednsauced
@spicednsauced 2 жыл бұрын
@@alishamoore4472 infinity was the child in the situation and yandy chose to adopt her. being manipulative or having any other issues doesn't justify yandy going out of her way to adopt her as a teenager only to abandon her when issues started to surface. she should've just left her in the system
@SocialWorkDiva
@SocialWorkDiva 2 жыл бұрын
A storyline and distraction
@madisonjunedulany1463
@madisonjunedulany1463 2 жыл бұрын
As a real life Foster Parent, let me just say I cannot imagine being a teenage girl, being taken in by someone you loved and trusted, then placed at a random persons house for two days because you’re waiting on a judge to say the person you love can keep you, then you come back and right when you felt stable, YOUR GUARDIAN, ON NATIONAL TELEVISION JUST TO MEET WITH THE WOMAN WHO LET YOU GO BUT KEEPS ALL HER OTHER CHILDREN AND THEN CALLS YOU A LIAR. Like what 😭 Also, how does Yandy not know how long Infinity was in the system? If she was a close mentor for three years prior to considering Fostering? Um ok.
@butlersade2
@butlersade2 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to Infinity!! I’m not going to lie but it’s hard to know genuine Yandys intentions are sometimes…. I looked at her sideways ever since she took Samantha and Mendeeces child to visit Mendeeces in jail without permission from Samantha first. Especially knowing that she had FULL custody at the time. Yandy oversteps and pushes boundaries all the time.
@kesh7711
@kesh7711 2 жыл бұрын
Yandy used Infinity as a storyline, if she had pure intentions she wouldn't have been so quick to throw her away.
@elisest.george8245
@elisest.george8245 2 жыл бұрын
Yandy does a lot of shady shit and that's why she's fallen out with a lot of these people. Chrissy tried to put us on game and Yandy spun the story....but one thing that I've realized is that everybody has a shady Yandy story....
@KikiW89
@KikiW89 2 жыл бұрын
@@kesh7711 She ain't need to used Infinity for a Storyline,Why she picked her she Could had picked any other Toddler or Teenager
@angier6041
@angier6041 Жыл бұрын
@@elisest.george8245 you have the audacity to bring up Chrissy ignorant lying ass to prove a point about yandy 🤣🤣🤣 nah sweetie you loud and wrong Chrissy has always been a liar just go back to her seasons an see the bullshit she caused an what has yandy lied about really 😭
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity’s mom has 6 children and seems extremely disconnected regarding Infinity and what she’s going through. Why isn’t SHE fighting for her daughter? SMH
@madisonjunedulany1463
@madisonjunedulany1463 2 жыл бұрын
PERIOD
@mslovely6518
@mslovely6518 2 жыл бұрын
Right
@Phat_336
@Phat_336 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@ness1739
@ness1739 2 жыл бұрын
She’ just doesn’t want her. Some people just have disconnect with their own kids.
@riaallen81
@riaallen81 2 жыл бұрын
She is a NARCISSISTIC CHILD. These type of people are very difficult to deal with. Though we as parents screw up. Infinity clearly is intelligent enough to be aware of her situation. She needs to deal with that by taking responsibilty for her actions. Then can deal with WHY she behaves this way.( her mothers action) So she can start to heal. She is aware but making exscuses to act out. She can do better. She got what she claims she wanted with Yandi. So she chooses to act like this. Narc people do stuff like " tell all your biz" when they get angry. ..
@mz.flowersforyah6213
@mz.flowersforyah6213 2 жыл бұрын
Be very careful who you bring into your peace. people tend to weigh you out . it's not a good idea stop falling for the tears they aren't Sincere. Be Vigilant Yandee ❤️❤️🙌🏾
@mulanijohnson8936
@mulanijohnson8936 2 жыл бұрын
I'm now beginning to understand why Kimbella was saying wat she said on the reunion and the show, and I quote she said "I hope that you're doing this for the right reasons" coming from one of yandy's closest Best Friends (Kimbella) for her to say that she must've seen some things that we didn't or don't see behind the cameras. Moral of the story it's giving storyline.
@shazaada4life176
@shazaada4life176 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think somebody would invite a foster child over for four years pay for her look after her love her and nurture her and fake it for a storyline…this is genuine ! not all people on tv do things for a storyline get a grip!
@mulanijohnson8936
@mulanijohnson8936 2 жыл бұрын
@@shazaada4life176 Just My opinion love don't tripp carry on tho.
@nancyfischer4875
@nancyfischer4875 Жыл бұрын
I definitely think it was genuine but for a storyline
@myrlandemichel9222
@myrlandemichel9222 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity needs to change her attitude. Yandy needs to be careful, remember you have a husband and infinity is growing up. Watch out peeps.
@J_Justine
@J_Justine 2 жыл бұрын
It's an abuse/abandonment type attitude she's not used to controlling her feelings and how to carry herself they are teaching her how to be the best her I
@xo_xjr_xo
@xo_xjr_xo 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad that this relationship felt conditional. Infinity was only welcomed as long as she acted like a perfect little angel 🙄 Come on. That’s unrealistic! People make mistakes, especially young kids! I have a 16 year old myself, and she drives me crazy at times. But I would never in a million years kick her out. To have this kind of expectation is detrimental to the longevity of any relationship. Especially when committing to the roll of a foster parent. She didn’t hurt anyone physically. It was a threat that many people make out of anger and hurt. She owned up to it and apologized and seemed VERY genuine about it. What’s heartbreaking is that she didn’t care about them helping her get an apartment. Who at that age would not want to be independent and make their own rules?! If I told my daughter I’m going to help her get an apartment, she’d jump at the opportunity! That’s what you get from a teen who’s been smothered with love. Not one that’s desperate for it! Yea she may have screwed up, said some things in the heat of the moment, but who hasn’t?! As long as she accepts her wrongs and is willing to put in the hard work to be better, that’s all that matters! I pray Infinity finds her way.. you got this girl!
@sheilamumbi8643
@sheilamumbi8643 2 жыл бұрын
I think she was like 19 or 20 when they had that conversation about her transition into a young adult. She was already in college
@xo_xjr_xo
@xo_xjr_xo 2 жыл бұрын
@@sheilamumbi8643 you’re probably right. But being in college AND on your own is very emotionally and financially challenging. Even if she was 19 or 20 that is still very young. Science will tell you, that our brains have yet to mature. She needs to be nurtured and loved unconditionally. She’s desperate for it and it shows in her actions. If she was in college, I don’t see why she could not come back n forth and be allowed to have a place to call home, if needed? Many students do that, live locally and commute from home to school and back. I think what pains her the most is that she should be allowed to make that decision for herself. It’s not like she’s 30, not pursuing an education and living off of them. That would be completely different.
@Happiness1876
@Happiness1876 2 жыл бұрын
They are doing their best,
@graciemac795
@graciemac795 2 жыл бұрын
You said we "all" make threats, but I never threatened my own family this way. She basically wanted to rat out the entire family. Where's the trust?
@berabingol3231
@berabingol3231 2 жыл бұрын
Threatening ur own family is something far worse than hurting them physically. It is not OK. Especially considering that these people decided to take u in, who decided that they want to give u what u never had. A family. And u just go out and say u gonna b*tch about them because of a fallout? Arguments r normal in a family. Bitching about them in front of others isn't. Even if everyone does that. Since when is everyone doing something anyhow acceptable in the first place? Everybody had a fair share in this mess but she should be at least thankfull enough to say "u know what we fought but I ain't gonna rat on you because u took me in ur family". U thinking this was a conditional relationship is actually scary. Parents r n authority. U have to respect them and do as they say. That's not conditioning that's parenting.
@DariRizos
@DariRizos 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with her husband . Respect is everything.
@honeybaby9791
@honeybaby9791 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity: *starts crying* Yandy husband: *"you feel abandoned??"*
@__REALITY
@__REALITY 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh😂😂😂😂
@anastasiaabrahim9096
@anastasiaabrahim9096 2 жыл бұрын
And then got up and left
@JasmyneContours
@JasmyneContours Жыл бұрын
Infinity may be a child, but she doesn't have good energy. Her blood is not Yandy's. Thats NOT a grateful child. Her hurt has to be everyone else's, it's not cool.
@poloresanderson8916
@poloresanderson8916 2 жыл бұрын
I see the pain on both of their faces...This is real with Yandy...There always gonna be a way..Trust God
@angelasmith8076
@angelasmith8076 2 жыл бұрын
When she started crying and yandy didn't comfort her.. that showed me she is heartless but that girl also wasn't innocent..
@Valentino2vaild
@Valentino2vaild 2 жыл бұрын
Nah. She knows her better than us. The little girl became manipulative after awhile
@georgia8592
@georgia8592 2 жыл бұрын
@@Valentino2vaild She had a great teacher in Yandy
@Asia-sk8lc
@Asia-sk8lc 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@alcoholicbunny2649
@alcoholicbunny2649 6 ай бұрын
Yandy had to stay strong too. Yandy was ready to cry she comforted her after laying down what’s what’s
@shanteldeans5631
@shanteldeans5631 2 жыл бұрын
Mendeces never wanted tht girl around and Yandy knew tht ,I feel like she shudve never adopted her unless mendeces was home
@lionzden5727
@lionzden5727 2 жыл бұрын
Now wat I'm bout 2 say com from me REALLY be raised in Foster Care not never knowing my biological MOTHER. But tis MATTER is Infinity jus try'n 2 find dah easy way out an she knew an kno dat Yandy had an have money. Now she's had NEVER been abused her problem is she wanted to do wat she wanted to do an then wen her mother & grandma had rules for her she runs away , datz not being in Foster Care mean like being bounced from home to home every other month like I was abandonment issues so she ran away from her real family dat seem to wanted dah best phor her. Infinity is manipulative an lied about how she lived jus so she can have a tv lyfe wit Yandy an Mendeece .. Like on God they must cut ties wit her because everything she learns or see wat goes in dah family she is definitely gona share it to dah public. I wouldn't TRUST her at all in my house or around my family.
@sunnybtheempress4417
@sunnybtheempress4417 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tierraperkins6242
@tierraperkins6242 Жыл бұрын
I don’t feel bad for infinity after watching the full season of yandy and her and I can honestly say infinity had a one in a life time blessing yandy set her future up so bright but yet infinity wanted to do what she wanted to do like. Her birth mother said ! Than she threaten to tell the media about what goes on in yandy personal house hold is a no no !!! Because yandy has other mouths to feed too and it can affect her businesses and her deals and taking food out her kids mouth so I 100% understand! YOU DONT BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU !! I commend yandy because nobody would know how to deal with having a heart and protecting yo family it’s confusing but everything you do has consequences
@topelawal4810
@topelawal4810 Жыл бұрын
bro thank you, i only watched this complitaion and just from this i can see how infinity speaks and acts and im not a fan... understandable that she was in the foster system, but the fact she lied about being there when she was born says enough. her mother may or may have put up this act but she after hearing infinity speak to yandy about 'leaving her out in the streets' or something it was just a lot.. i know abandonement issues is real but infinity needs to work on herself if she doesnt wanna be looked at as the bad guy cause what im seeing hmmmm
@tierraperkins6242
@tierraperkins6242 Жыл бұрын
@@topelawal4810 Exactly exactly!!! Because I was regretting the decision for yandy 😂 when she meet up with her mom !
@Therealamirinicole
@Therealamirinicole 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but i feel like infinity was manipulative like she wanted a come up. I think her mom was telling the truth about her and infinity was also telling some truth but she uses her pass as an excuse. And everything she said in the beginning is not true and she crying to cover it up.
@ericaarevalo1947
@ericaarevalo1947 2 жыл бұрын
I kinda feel like he sees right through her or some
@jenniferhalf1650
@jenniferhalf1650 2 жыл бұрын
Dude if I had a rich couple offering to pay my first and second months rent I would be over the moon!! Infinity seems really ungrateful and I actually believe her birth mom is telling the truth.
@bmooremoore4460
@bmooremoore4460 2 жыл бұрын
I promise you! Two months ?! Whew Chile I would've taken that offer asap
@jenniferhalf1650
@jenniferhalf1650 2 жыл бұрын
@@bmooremoore4460 💯💯
@Therealamirinicole
@Therealamirinicole 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@bmooremoore4460
@bmooremoore4460 2 жыл бұрын
@Charnele Johnskn Yeah but I think she wanted a hand out but would say and do the most to make it seem as if she wants a "mother" etc...my thing is-go do this with your biological mother smh bet she wouldn't because her mom doesn't have fame or money like them I'm sure.
@DestinyTajee
@DestinyTajee 2 жыл бұрын
@@bmooremoore4460 mannnn what especially the new minimum wage-rent is like $1500-$2000
@jordinhassen
@jordinhassen 2 жыл бұрын
I came from foster care system from Colombia & got adopted into USA & then readopted again, although she went though trauma I honestly don’t think Yandy or mandecees was being hard on her, she’s older now so helping her become an young adult which she is is the best thing they can do for her and also get her some therapy. I too once didn’t listen and hated reprimand from parents but it was just because I wanted to feel secure and loved, but I wouldn’t act out in the way she did in order to get my way, specially with a public family like them. I feel for both parties and see both point of views. I think she’s still stuck in trauma as a little girl and wants to be taken care of which is how I once was, but what she doesn’t realize is one your 18 your free from anybody controlling where you go & when you go, your free to create your own family
@KickinItWithKrys
@KickinItWithKrys 2 жыл бұрын
Eloquently stated.😌
@Queenalika85
@Queenalika85 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity looks just like her mother
@shenekadorvilus6725
@shenekadorvilus6725 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who grow up in the system I feel the pain this young lady is feeling
@zamamakhubu6680
@zamamakhubu6680 2 жыл бұрын
The strongest normally go through the hardest situations. You are a real gem for making it and surviving all that you survived 💎
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
But she didn’t grow up in the foster system. She lied about that
@jamiebrown2543
@jamiebrown2543 2 жыл бұрын
@@bohkhuj9247 going into foster care for a second it is traumatic anyone who’s been in the situation know that and she was in foster care for years out of her life
@bohkhuj9247
@bohkhuj9247 2 жыл бұрын
@@jamiebrown2543 that’s a lie .
@NicolePhenix
@NicolePhenix 2 жыл бұрын
@SHENEKA DORVILUS did you watch the show ? She didnt grow up in the system like you.
@kierra3825
@kierra3825 2 жыл бұрын
until someone can show me that Yandy did this for clout, I’m going to believe her when she says that she truly loved infinity.
@charityholley9613
@charityholley9613 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Christinaifbbpro
@Christinaifbbpro 2 жыл бұрын
im actually kinda shocked at how mature mendeecees is after his long awaited return. hes talking like a diff man than early seasons.
@jeweleshareynolds101
@jeweleshareynolds101 Жыл бұрын
To be honest dealing with anybody who has experienced this level of trauma is difficult. They can manipulate you so easily with sob stories. Not negating anything this girl has been through as a child, but people often use their trauma as a way to validate their bad behavior and stay stuck in their ways. Once you get a certain age, accountability needs to be second nature. Yandy should not have took this girl in without her husband being present. This is why a man leads, because clearly all of Yandy's decisions in this particular situation was emotion based. She needed logic from her man.
@jenniferhalf1650
@jenniferhalf1650 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity is a disrespectful little girl. I'm sorry she came from a bad background but doesnt give you the right to talk to your elders disrespectfully. Little girl has alot of growing up to do.
@ananienoel6922
@ananienoel6922 2 жыл бұрын
Mendeecee has every right to feel that way.....As he should!
@sunnybtheempress4417
@sunnybtheempress4417 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately that unruly teen is a narcissist. After all this she started trying to blackmail Yan. Her life is going to continue to spiral she wrong for lying on her mom just for money greed
@jamaciag09
@jamaciag09 2 жыл бұрын
I sadly have to agree. My spirit has never sat well with her. I hate that feeling though because after all, she IS a kid. I really hope she gets it together.
@PWaves
@PWaves 2 жыл бұрын
oh wow I missed that
@sunnybtheempress4417
@sunnybtheempress4417 2 жыл бұрын
@@jamaciag09 I touch and agree with you 💯
@VelvetAnnn
@VelvetAnnn Жыл бұрын
Wow wow wow. I NEVER liked Yandy, at all actually. But I had no idea about the situation with that child from the foster home. I really respect her a lot for doing that. God knows her heart is big. That's one thing nobody can take from her. 💜
@LifeOfBrittany.
@LifeOfBrittany. Жыл бұрын
How u talk like her you even know her 😂
@tmorris306
@tmorris306 2 жыл бұрын
She had no business bringing that grown ass teen in her home lol....I can see if she was about 5 but damn she's almost an adult 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
@Salma-yo6ns
@Salma-yo6ns 2 жыл бұрын
😂 😂
@Marshe-l8r
@Marshe-l8r 11 ай бұрын
I don’t really like Infinity. I feel like she’s disrespectful and entitled and ungrateful. She needs to realize these people aren’t her kin, Yandy was nice enough to open her home to her and help her thru school and college. Idk she’s doing a bit much for me I’m sure their relationship is better
@Lilly_A_Mexicana
@Lilly_A_Mexicana 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity went though more than a normal child. But why talk, treat and act like Yandy did nothing for you?? Very disrespectful. She needs to be kissing Yandy and her husband asses for taking care of her for years!!
@TheUniquemariah
@TheUniquemariah 2 жыл бұрын
These comments let's me know folks is clueless... Talking about she did this for a story line.... Lol people don't know how this process works... Everyone has to get finger printed... It's a process... You can't fake this... You get random visits... There's not an amount of storyline that can be paid for what you through to become a foster parents so you right 👍
@Salma-yo6ns
@Salma-yo6ns 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheUniquemariah Thank you! These same people would never go through that process to open their doors for a child.
@PWaves
@PWaves 2 жыл бұрын
I missed all of this. But I can see both sides. Mendecees just got home, he wants to be around his family, I'm sure it would be a bit uncomfortable to not be fully relaxed at home with someone you have only spoken to a few times.. But then I get Infinity and her abandonment issues. Hope they're good now
@TheUniquemariah
@TheUniquemariah 2 жыл бұрын
I also heard she was seen some guy that they didn't approve of ... So there was more to that also...
@nonkululekongqola4568
@nonkululekongqola4568 2 жыл бұрын
Guess what? If you were in prison for most of your child's life, don't expect her to be perfect when you get out because YOU DID NOT raise her
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
Mendecees know that girl is playing a role!.. He's from the streets, he see her game and he ran it back at her... Talking about she don't wanna b grown😂, he know, that's y he told her it's time to b... It's was a easy let down💪.. They're not heartless though so they're not gonna cut her completely out but I can tell u one thing, she's gonna do some disloyal shit again💯💯
@Shes_Royal777
@Shes_Royal777 2 жыл бұрын
After watching everything I can conclude that whatever age she was abandoned she’s stuck and can’t get past that. She’s broken and we need to recognize that.
@kiara198923
@kiara198923 2 жыл бұрын
It makes sense.
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
Some ppl aren't stuck.. They simply Choose to be the type of person they are... Manipulators know they're manipulators..
@alishatate7940
@alishatate7940 Жыл бұрын
If mendeecees acted like a father figure to her instead of her Supervisor, then maybe..........
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
ALL narcissist are stuck at the age that they've experienced their trauma... Only thing about that is that We all experience some kind of trauma in our lives💯💯 so that's really not an excuse for her behavior..
@LaTaeviaTanae
@LaTaeviaTanae 2 жыл бұрын
I am 20 and I was adopted when I was 3 because my baby sister was murdered by my mother. The family I was adopted by my grandpa but once he passed away I was not with my biological family. I was abused and a personal caregiver. I grew up hating myself, never loving what I looked like…still to this day my insecurities eat me alive and I’m working on it. But I was on the streets from 14 to 18. I was working full time first at Burger King then little Caesars, going to school getting good grades. It was so hard going to school trying to be normal when I see all these happy kids that come from 2 parent homes even if their parents were divorced I was so envious. I would have to go to the nurse everyday and ask for crackers because I never had money for lunch and at some point they gave me free lunch but they stopped because my guardian wouldn’t apply me for it. My school had to give me clothes, hygiene products literally anything a parent would do my school would do. And I would have to beg them because I was on the street with no one to help me. If I ask my mother for help with food she tells me I’m using her. I’m so grateful for the people who have spared me a couple dollars or helped me in any kind of way because I wouldn’t be alive if no one hadn’t. I laid down in the middle of the road when I was 18 and I just cried and begged for someone to run me over and I was on a busy road and no one hit me. God was keeping me here for some reason. My only dream I’ve ever had is to be in the position to be able to help other people. I don’t wanna just throw somebody a fish and only let it feed them for the time being I want to actually teach the person how to go out there and catch that fish with their bare hands because I would hope I would hope and I pray every day and I asked for God to have someone show me how to fish with my bare hands because as soon I learn the game I WILL be spreading the wealth because ain’t no one ever putting me or my future kids out. Period.
@ajsuperstar8644
@ajsuperstar8644 2 жыл бұрын
May God bless you my love.
@Zoewina
@Zoewina 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love, I love you ❤
@sandraruiz3834
@sandraruiz3834 2 жыл бұрын
your story brought me to tears I'm so very saddened to hear all you had to go through no child should have to go through that! how are you doing today?
@LaTaeviaTanae
@LaTaeviaTanae 2 жыл бұрын
@@sandraruiz3834 literally was crying earlier because I just started a new job and I don’t get my check for 3 weeks and my power just went out and I have no way to pay for it. And I literally have no one to ask to help me.
@LaTaeviaTanae
@LaTaeviaTanae 2 жыл бұрын
@@sandraruiz3834 I really appreciate that. I’ve been through so much and I hate when I see other kids being used just like how I was
@noveletterobinson
@noveletterobinson 2 жыл бұрын
I NOW have mad respect for Yandy!! She trying to help Infinity during a difficult time in her life is admirable, even tho she has kids of her own. Am adopted so I can relate to what Infinity is going thru. It tough with the trust issues, but she getting decent persons willing to help her and she betraying that trust, really hard to bounce back from. May the Heavenly Father grant each person in this situation, wisdom and grace to make the right decisions going forward.
@femdivinemind7777
@femdivinemind7777 2 жыл бұрын
If you knew what children went through in those places this whole scenario would make you look at Yandy different . This was absolutely exploitative and Yandy didn’t even hug the girl when she was crying…
@dayananarie
@dayananarie 2 жыл бұрын
I Noticed that too like if you don’t hug that girl Yandy!
@guccirosas5218
@guccirosas5218 2 жыл бұрын
@@dayananarie she didn't need to comfort someone who took her trust nd tried to "expose" "blast" however u wanna say it on social media then gets mad becuz they r trying to help her become an adult in time
@femdivinemind7777
@femdivinemind7777 2 жыл бұрын
@@dayananarie it literally makes my heart ache watching it willing her to hug her
@femdivinemind7777
@femdivinemind7777 2 жыл бұрын
@@dayananarie none of this matters - she took her in as a foster child on the scale of zero to 100 on the scale of teenage issues that’s a 5 considering what she’s been through and the image Yandy presented
@Msladyrae92
@Msladyrae92 2 жыл бұрын
Yandy is trying to play a role of a good person. Everything Kimbella said was right. You don’t owe the bio mom a meeting. There’s a reason why she doesn’t have custody of the kid. Why wasn’t she actively trying to get custody back ? I hate that we expect children to act as adults in adults situations.
@officialcherry730
@officialcherry730 Жыл бұрын
Probably because she were busy taking care of her other 5 children.. The one's that wasn't trying to run away and stay out late hours of the night trying to act grown!!! Hell she said that she sent her to live with her grandma and she didn't wanna stay because she didn't wanna follow the rules...All I'm saying is "victims" doesn't go around yelling their a victim, manipulators do! Knowing that, I would've had to look deeper into that situation too... Too many ppl out here that Not who they Pretend to be to b just taking ppl tears.. I mean word like that.. Bet Yanda wished she'd listened💯
@indamix8221
@indamix8221 Жыл бұрын
Kimbella also came back and said yandee used infinity for a story line
@chengadasinga7115
@chengadasinga7115 2 жыл бұрын
I think that little girl is playing with Yandys heart and Mendecees wasn’t going for it….. she’s a little rude if you ask me…. You can’t help everybody and some people need to be left alone… it may hurt but sometimes u have to leave people where they at….
@spicednsauced
@spicednsauced 2 жыл бұрын
yandy used that baby for a storyline! It doesn't seem like she discussed it with mendeecees before she took her in & the going to put her out bc of her attitude. she would never do that to her bio children. she went out of her way to adopt a teenager & instead of getting therapy for her and her adopted child she tried to be the victim
@Kyle-ig9yp
@Kyle-ig9yp 2 жыл бұрын
That girl literally threatened to expose the family and write a book also, she called cps, dated a 23 year old man while still under Yandys roof! I wouldn’t want her around either
@tyshondrabarnes7631
@tyshondrabarnes7631 2 жыл бұрын
Wow are you serious i believe it
@spicednsauced
@spicednsauced 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kyle-ig9yp Yandy chose to adopt "that girl" so that doesn't change my opinion. She should've gotten her therapy instead of using her for a storyline
@Kyle-ig9yp
@Kyle-ig9yp 2 жыл бұрын
@@spicednsauced she has been to therapy she definitely took classes and what your saying doesn’t have anything to do with what I said so make it make sense
@BaileyBlurbs
@BaileyBlurbs 2 жыл бұрын
Infinity fumbled the bag and she’s crying because she realizes it lmfao.
@kanikamoore1091
@kanikamoore1091 Жыл бұрын
She wants yandy to herself.....
@aliyahwashington5733
@aliyahwashington5733 Жыл бұрын
Infinity has narc traits and I think there is truth to what her biological mother said
@malibustacy3333
@malibustacy3333 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but I really think she just don't wanna grow up or follow rules. Her mom couldn't control her so her Grandma gave her a home. She didn't wanna come home on time, so she ran away. Ik bein young has a lot to do with it, but I've ALWAYS felt like she seen Yandy had $ & latched on to her instantly. I hope I'm wrong but feel like there's always been an interior motive w Infinity 🤔💯
@racheltoria
@racheltoria 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing Yandy does seem genuine to me. It’s no coincidence that everybody around her calls her a liar and a fake.
@amiekent5781
@amiekent5781 2 жыл бұрын
Yea but this was genuine
@racheltoria
@racheltoria 2 жыл бұрын
@@amiekent5781 I don’t think so, personally. Her very best friend wasn’t even convinced.
@amiekent5781
@amiekent5781 2 жыл бұрын
@@racheltoria I mean she did take her in and did a lot for that girl and in return because yandy told her she couldn’t date a grown 23 year old women she was upset and threatened to write a tell all book said yandy was awful but ended right back up in her face ? And kimbella ain’t not saint herself yes yandy do lie and do stuff but in this case she wasn’t
@racheltoria
@racheltoria 2 жыл бұрын
@@amiekent5781 I doubt she would have done this off camera, though.
@amiekent5781
@amiekent5781 2 жыл бұрын
@@racheltoria I’m not sure if you know who toya is lil Wayne’s baby mom but actually a few months ago toya,rasheeda yandy and some others all linked up and yandy took that girl with her and they had this cute little slumber party kinda thing in a mansion it was off tv even after all the stuff that little girl has said and done her own daughter wasn’t even there
@randihackney4830
@randihackney4830 2 жыл бұрын
I love mendeecees. He seems like a cool down to earth dude. He loves his kids and he handled the situation with infinity correct.
@alishatate7940
@alishatate7940 Жыл бұрын
No, DF he didn't, he saw this as a business move because you get paid for being a foster parent, and he treated her exactly like that. Not a father figure at all and I'm pretty sure she saw his interactions between Him and his biological children , she was looking for a father figure, remember the conversation she had with yandy trying to figure out ifshe could call mendeecees Dad or not. So, no he handle it wrong , and I suggest that you don't adopt anyone's child.
@AncientOne222
@AncientOne222 Жыл бұрын
I was a foster parent and Guardian ad litem ( representing the interest of the child in court) Every foster child is not the same. Some children fit in well with their foster home BUT some children have emotional and behavioral issues and no amount of love will ever make them trust someone, some children are so use to negative feedback that they will create situations just to get it.
@chefnic4763
@chefnic4763 2 жыл бұрын
Yandy adopted her for clout. Period. Then dropped her like it was nothing.
@courtneyfortham9829
@courtneyfortham9829 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with that
@LaMamanDeNayou
@LaMamanDeNayou 2 жыл бұрын
But got mad when kimbella said it
@chefnic4763
@chefnic4763 2 жыл бұрын
@@LaMamanDeNayou she got exposed. Yandy is fake.
@LaMamanDeNayou
@LaMamanDeNayou 2 жыл бұрын
@@chefnic4763 rah been said that
@chefnic4763
@chefnic4763 2 жыл бұрын
@@LaMamanDeNayou factssss
@brajahnichole59
@brajahnichole59 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all commenting lol had me thinking yandy did something bad.. she posted a pic..
@cyneverest4159
@cyneverest4159 2 жыл бұрын
Who believes when kimbella said that yandy used infinity
@bellavita1323
@bellavita1323 2 жыл бұрын
Def believe Kimbella because we've all seen exactly what Yandy is capable of and has done to so many people. Shell smile in their faces right before stabbing them in their backs.
@noirlily3413
@noirlily3413 2 жыл бұрын
I find them to both be opportunists. Yandy needed a void to be filled with Mendecees being away; and Infinity... She defo had the "come up"
@bellavita1323
@bellavita1323 2 жыл бұрын
@@noirlily3413 Agreed, however, one was a young girl being put through a corrupt, abusive and sometimes deadly system, while Yandy was and is a grown woman and a mother but I knew right when she offered this young lady a stable roof over her head, that it was for appearances because Yandy has done some of the foulest things to the mother of her step children. Yandy locked one out of her own apartment, claiming to be Mendeecees wife, which we later found out she was lying, had her family member attack the other mother on stage because Yandy ran her mouth but could cash those checks she written, not to mention all the all sly, venomous things Yandys done to those two women yet claimed to love her step children so much but was literally using those babies for power over their mother and even stabbed her best friend in the back, so I don't trust Yandys intentions as pure and from the heart but if I am proven wrong, will admit I was wrong.
@cyneverest4159
@cyneverest4159 2 жыл бұрын
@@christinekelly7769 okay chill with the essay ...it was just a question
@amour9027
@amour9027 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 31 and like Infiniti I had to grow up fast....Getting an apt while working and going to school at 19. A lot of traumatic things that made me feel isolated before that. I'm shocked at how Mandecees man from the streets was so hard on this girl. She's a female first of all and we are emotional. They basically telling her "Since you were not perfect and a rebellious teen you are not our daughter anymore" To see this girl begging to be a part of this family is so painful.
@reginafontenot3990
@reginafontenot3990 2 жыл бұрын
Those kids love infinity honey that's a blessing
@ejimceciliaokom6851
@ejimceciliaokom6851 2 жыл бұрын
I totally understood where, Mendeecees was coming from. He's a family man and it's time for Infinity to take full responsibility for herself. I wish her well...tho it's hard
@missy8175
@missy8175 2 жыл бұрын
No ways I would adopt some rude as kid who left her mamas house. She got attitude for days, just coz she’s a child don’t mean she don’t know what’s up. She’s manipulative af
@AllureFindings
@AllureFindings 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad her husband was there to mediate because a lot of ppl had to grow up fast and there are so many ppl that want and should be saved. Apart of growing up is taking opportunities as they come because nobody owes you anything and life isn’t perfect for a lot of ppl so your pain is not special. She should be in counseling and learning how to address her feelings because she is learning that she can explode for not knowing how to effectively communicate then cry to manipulate the situation. Take the blessing as it comes and make the best out of what’s given to you.
@alishatate7940
@alishatate7940 Жыл бұрын
Being the fact that , it was their choice, to adopt her, they owe her everything.
@freakysmart5265
@freakysmart5265 2 жыл бұрын
Kimbella said it best was just anther storyline for yandy 🤷🏾‍♂️💯
@Kyle-ig9yp
@Kyle-ig9yp 2 жыл бұрын
People make excuses for that girl she disrespected yandy under her roof and tried to expose the family
@Kyle-ig9yp
@Kyle-ig9yp 2 жыл бұрын
People make excuses for that girl she disrespected yandy under her roof and tried to expose the family
@freakysmart5265
@freakysmart5265 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kyle-ig9yp it's not excuses it's facts because had yandy not used her for a story she never would have gotten into yandy home to be able to tell yandy business 🤷🏾‍♂️
@Kyle-ig9yp
@Kyle-ig9yp 2 жыл бұрын
@@freakysmart5265 but why would u wanna expose your “family” then call cps just because u mad
@freakysmart5265
@freakysmart5265 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kyle-ig9yp listen I'm not going to get up off yandy it takes two ....
@cwjm
@cwjm 10 ай бұрын
Infinity's tone seemed disrespectful, entitled & problematic, despite her upbringing/trauma. She was a liability & Mendeecees' approach was right. Turning to social media & threatening to write a book, just because he posted a pic of his family without her was very telling. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how good/kind you are to other ppl's children.
@babygirlfemale6507
@babygirlfemale6507 2 жыл бұрын
I knew something was off in her by her tone when she was talking back to yandy after she explained that she couldn't stay inside the home until it was approved ...that would have been a wrap. she would have to watch her effing tone with me from jump.
@eboneyboswell4328
@eboneyboswell4328 Жыл бұрын
Not catching a case over no disrespectful child.
@CrystalRose333
@CrystalRose333 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as Infinity found out Yandy met up with her bio mom she knew it was over for her. I don't doubt that young lady went thru some things but I also don't doubt she's an entitled brat. She manipulated the hell outta Yandy & im glad Mendes saw right thru the bs.
@malehlohonolo8463
@malehlohonolo8463 2 жыл бұрын
Mendeeces saw right through her, that girl is manipulative🤞🏾
@gabbnwithgabb
@gabbnwithgabb 2 жыл бұрын
Facts !!!
@Salma-yo6ns
@Salma-yo6ns 2 жыл бұрын
I think when you’ve gone through things you can see when people are tryna finesse. Baby girl didn’t sit right with my spirit from the jump. I hope she gets the therapy she needs because life is gonna be a bigger uphill battle if she don’t get that in check.
@malehlohonolo8463
@malehlohonolo8463 5 ай бұрын
​@@Salma-yo6nsYandy likes having a complicated life thats why she doesnt see the red flags. Or maybe she saw them but still ignored them😂
@malehlohonolo8463
@malehlohonolo8463 5 ай бұрын
That girl has family, why she dont stay with them🤷🏿‍♀️ then she lied about being in foster care her whole life😂😂 Yandy is silly minded
@katiecampbell9191
@katiecampbell9191 11 ай бұрын
Infinity is ungrateful. She’s an opportunist.
@foryou6yn
@foryou6yn 2 жыл бұрын
We love you over here🥳YAndy for what you're doing with little Miss Infinity💖 ♾ ❤
@rhiannongonzales4834
@rhiannongonzales4834 Жыл бұрын
Yandy got her imperfect ways but one thing y’all can’t call that women is SELFISH. Too love a child that ain’t even yours let alone your man’s..speaks volumes! You go Yand keep being selfless, a godly trait. Praying for your family always!🙏🏼
@stephaniecarter5281
@stephaniecarter5281 2 жыл бұрын
She's too far gone a little bit too grown for me her attitude sucks and I get it being raised how she was and so on and so forth but these people are trying to help her and to threaten to write a book and go on social media it's unacceptable I don't know if anybody did it just for cloud but it's not a good look and it's just my opinion
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